if you're reading this, i want you to stop deluding yourself into thinking that feeling secure in your relationships is your responsibility alone. it isn't. anyone who truly cares about you and loves you, will be concerned with helping you to successfully regulate your emotions so you can actually enjoy the connection. You deserve to experience a secure bond, my gorgeous soul 🤍🪽
But if my insecurities are more of my traumas and he's a green forest. Also it's always our responsibility to take care of ourselves and love ourselves the best, before anyone starts brradcrumbing us and we delude into thinking that's love.❤🎉
A straight man here who specialises in making your life great again. There are a few things most people botch with relationship. 1. They are both pretending. Both faking it to impress. You need to quit pretending and be your authentic self. You need to be your authentic self. Simple as that. 2. You need to communicate heaps,. legit just talk heaps openly to each other. 3. I'll take care of me for you and you take care of you for me. 4.love is discipline. Understand the disciples of love. Eg loving no matter what, discipline of selflessness. Discipline of daily passionand intimacy and by That i mean open your heart and hold nothing back. 5. Your relationship is a creation, its a 1+1=3 type of thing. Your union is its own beast. 6. You need to both understand masculine and feminine nature. The feminine needs to be the feminine and the masculine must be the masculine. A masculine needs to be the mountain that the feminines waves crashes on. I hope this helps you all, inshallah 🙏
oh how i wish i had this a year ago, it would've given me the strenght to not get into the most toxic and abusive relationship of my life, the worst part is that i was completely aware of all of the issues, but as you said at some point i was such in a survival mode day to day fight of flight type of mode and so isolated as well that i didn't have the strenght to just leave, the best gift this person has given me was to break up, to the point that i was crying tears of relief (and they were not happy about that lol)
I love your perspective on things. It's inspiring how you combine science and spirituality and break down the complexity into simple pieces. Your clinical setting with the variety of your presentation makes your videos an exceptional experience. 🌈💛🌍🐞👍🐞🌍💛🌈
I’ve been struggling for a year and honestly I needed this! Thank you beautiful. But honestly he did not make me a fighter, let’s not give credit where it’s not due. I’m a fighter and lover despite him ❤
Your person and you should both be alligned to support who you already are and your trajected futures, basically having acceptance for each other. Wanting a positive experience is a negative experience, but accepting a negative experience is a positive experience, so find reasons to accept negivity and find reasons to accept desiring what you don't have. Like, the darkness leads you to the light, bad situation make the good one's feel even better, negative lessons lead to positive experiences.
You are COSMICALLY DIVINE sister! ✨☄️✨💐 Your channel, your message are so cosmically and eloquently packaged to unpack in THEE most on-point way I’ve come across! You are officially my virtual BFF, and I look forward to aligning and connecting with you in the near future! Btw, I have to ask.. are you an Aquarius like myself? bc your wisdom is beyond the present times.
You make me feel this way ? Or I make me feel that way ? Or do we pick and choose feelings/ideas to suit our needs wants and desire and emotions at every given moment that requires us to mentally act ? So many crazies out there even in business and the work place, let alone relationships.
Do you believe in everyone is you pushed out? According to most coaches.. when someone is treating you negatively it’s because of your dominant thoughts about them and love in general that caused the behavior. Do you believe in that?
Not fully. Some people just suck. But I did notice if you think badly about your self sometimes they will reflect that. You should practice self love though. I have changed my perception of self/them and have seen it reflected back. But I agree with the person above should never be blamed for an abusive person's behavior. You do have to draw the line somewhere.
13:24 before assuming it's because of the man.....check your diet....don't blame it on him if you have Starbucks empty stomach and shitty processed foods ...*and jaw pain can be due to your chewing gum as well*.....please use common sense and don't take every symptom as gospel ... After all accountability is important..(Hopefully this gets pinned)
if you're reading this, i want you to stop deluding yourself into thinking that feeling secure in your relationships is your responsibility alone. it isn't. anyone who truly cares about you and loves you, will be concerned with helping you to successfully regulate your emotions so you can actually enjoy the connection. You deserve to experience a secure bond, my gorgeous soul 🤍🪽
Very much needed!! The timing couldn't have been better!! Thank you 🙏🏽
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But if my insecurities are more of my traumas and he's a green forest.
Also it's always our responsibility to take care of ourselves and love ourselves the best, before anyone starts brradcrumbing us and we delude into thinking that's love.❤🎉
A straight man here who specialises in making your life great again. There are a few things most people botch with relationship.
1. They are both pretending. Both faking it to impress. You need to quit pretending and be your authentic self. You need to be your authentic self. Simple as that.
2. You need to communicate heaps,. legit just talk heaps openly to each other.
3. I'll take care of me for you and you take care of you for me.
4.love is discipline. Understand the disciples of love. Eg loving no matter what, discipline of selflessness. Discipline of daily passionand intimacy and by That i mean open your heart and hold nothing back.
5. Your relationship is a creation, its a 1+1=3 type of thing. Your union is its own beast.
6. You need to both understand masculine and feminine nature. The feminine needs to be the feminine and the masculine must be the masculine. A masculine needs to be the mountain that the feminines waves crashes on.
I hope this helps you all, inshallah 🙏
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Thanks ❤
I'm a quite shy girl... how can I improve on communication in relationship
oh how i wish i had this a year ago, it would've given me the strenght to not get into the most toxic and abusive relationship of my life, the worst part is that i was completely aware of all of the issues, but as you said at some point i was such in a survival mode day to day fight of flight type of mode and so isolated as well that i didn't have the strenght to just leave, the best gift this person has given me was to break up, to the point that i was crying tears of relief (and they were not happy about that lol)
I love your perspective on things. It's inspiring how you combine science and spirituality and break down the complexity into simple pieces. Your clinical setting with the variety of your presentation makes your videos an exceptional experience. 🌈💛🌍🐞👍🐞🌍💛🌈
I’ve been struggling for a year and honestly I needed this! Thank you beautiful.
But honestly he did not make me a fighter, let’s not give credit where it’s not due. I’m a fighter and lover despite him ❤
Powerful and Empowering message !!
Thank you 🙏
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I love this. Thank you ❤
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❤❤thank you for this
Your person and you should both be alligned to support who you already are and your trajected futures, basically having acceptance for each other.
Wanting a positive experience is a negative experience, but accepting a negative experience is a positive experience, so find reasons to accept negivity and find reasons to accept desiring what you don't have. Like, the darkness leads you to the light, bad situation make the good one's feel even better, negative lessons lead to positive experiences.
I was obsessed with a girl. You’re advise worked. I wish God prepares for me someone like you or maybe even better.
You'll find your perfect gal!❤️ I suggest before you go to sleep try to visualize yourself with the perfect girl.
Please keep up the good work.
Thank you so much ❤
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Well this was well timed
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That sounds pretty much like the glamorised twin Flame connection
You are COSMICALLY DIVINE sister! ✨☄️✨💐
Your channel, your message are so cosmically and eloquently packaged to unpack in THEE most on-point way I’ve come across!
You are officially my virtual BFF, and I look forward to aligning and connecting with you in the near future!
Btw, I have to ask.. are you an Aquarius like myself? bc your wisdom is beyond the present times.
My favvvv!!!!❤
You make me feel this way ? Or I make me feel that way ? Or do we pick and choose feelings/ideas to suit our needs wants and desire and emotions at every given moment that requires us to mentally act ? So many crazies out there even in business and the work place, let alone relationships.
Do you believe in everyone is you pushed out? According to most coaches.. when someone is treating you negatively it’s because of your dominant thoughts about them and love in general that caused the behavior. Do you believe in that?
not really. people need to deal with personal issues and not put their lack of manners on to the "victims"
Not fully. Some people just suck. But I did notice if you think badly about your self sometimes they will reflect that. You should practice self love though. I have changed my perception of self/them and have seen it reflected back.
But I agree with the person above should never be blamed for an abusive person's behavior. You do have to draw the line somewhere.
Thanks angel ❤
Can we get some enlightenment on becoming Academic weapon?🎉
13:24 before assuming it's because of the man.....check your diet....don't blame it on him if you have Starbucks empty stomach and shitty processed foods ...*and jaw pain can be due to your chewing gum as well*.....please use common sense and don't take every symptom as gospel ... After all accountability is important..(Hopefully this gets pinned)
Love u
Hey, wait a minute... I'm in my fifty's.. I'm still looking for my Queen and trying to start my own family...
Damn she said dusty,crusty son 😭😫🤪 she's speaking facts tho
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