SINGLE TO MARRIED IN 6 MONTHS: HOW DID OUR FAMILIES FEEL ABOUT IT? | DO WE REGRET IT?

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  • Опубликовано: 14 ноя 2024

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  • @grandeurhairemporium1242
    @grandeurhairemporium1242 3 года назад +33

    They say a man always knows almost immediately that he has met his wife. So it was not too early...right on time 👌👌👌

    • @AfricanCalifornia
      @AfricanCalifornia  3 года назад

      That is true!🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @sosulwerayi2690
      @sosulwerayi2690 3 года назад +10

      My husband knew before he even talked to me, that I was his wife. We got married 5 months later. 20 years later we are still going strong.

    • @jasonhlungwane2434
      @jasonhlungwane2434 2 года назад

      @@AfricanCalifornia 000pĺllpp⁰

  • @jacksprat429
    @jacksprat429 2 года назад +15

    I knew my husband for 17 days and then we got married. This year, we will have been married for 39 years. It was a second marriage for both of us, and we both had children from our previous marriages. We then had a child together, so five children, in all. Now there are 6 grandchildren. My daughter from this marriage gave birth 3 months ago. We are South African.

  • @simthandilemanyathi2116
    @simthandilemanyathi2116 3 года назад +8

    I can confidently say that you guys are one of the married couples that make me want to get married, so happy that you found each other!

  • @ileniepowell
    @ileniepowell 3 года назад +5

    Your maturity is so admirable and heartwarming!

  • @sidumisiletakalo858
    @sidumisiletakalo858 2 года назад +1

    I saw a video last night for the first time ended up watching till 2am, I'm at a stage where I no longer believe in love or even relationships but today I can honestly say when God has placed it....

  • @sangiwemrubatajensen
    @sangiwemrubatajensen 3 года назад +21

    Girl!!! I was also in a relationship for 4 years before I met my husband and we didn’t even get close to marriage but when I met my husband I just knew he was the one and we got married in 7 months 😭❤️

    • @AfricanCalifornia
      @AfricanCalifornia  3 года назад +2

      Wow!! And it’s hard to explain to people cos it doesn’t make sense but to us it does. When you know, you know!! I’d love to hear your story more. If you don’t mind share, I’d love to watch it😁.

    • @sangiwemrubatajensen
      @sangiwemrubatajensen 3 года назад +2

      Exactly 😂 it’s also a shock that our Kate Ta also just understand. I’ll be sharing very soon darling ❤️

    • @vinoliaynette770
      @vinoliaynette770 3 года назад +1

      I was in a relationship for almost 6 years but it never got anywhere i am really hoping to meet someone with pure intentions and wanting to commit. You guys are giving me hope in finding love thank you🙏😊

    • @sangiwemrubatajensen
      @sangiwemrubatajensen 3 года назад +2

      @@vinoliaynette770 Yoooh ha’a some men know how to waste a woman’s time!! On to the next babe 😅

    • @vinoliaynette770
      @vinoliaynette770 3 года назад +1

      @@sangiwemrubatajensen you can say that again jooooo🤣🤣🤣

  • @vinoliaynette770
    @vinoliaynette770 3 года назад +5

    I just found your channel this evening and I am hooked, thank you for sharing your story not only is it beautiful but its giving me hope in finding love 🤗🤗🤗

  • @robineuropa5004
    @robineuropa5004 Год назад +1

    God has given her the gift of prophecy im so stunned cause the same thing happens to me

  • @hazelkaseke562
    @hazelkaseke562 2 года назад +3

    I met my husband in April and I got pregnant in July and that's how we got married and we have been married for 20years and we have 4 kid's but we lost our first born he was born premature he only lived three months

  • @thuledupato9076
    @thuledupato9076 3 года назад +10

    I was all smiles watching this video. I was so glad it was long, I didn’t want it to end. 😩😩♥️♥️

  • @nosiphelolugongolo2890
    @nosiphelolugongolo2890 3 года назад +6

    My faves are back, enjoyed watching the video. Can't wait for the lobola part💃💃❤️❤️

    • @AfricanCalifornia
      @AfricanCalifornia  3 года назад

      We are glad to know you enjoyed the video, more videos coming 😁❤️.

  • @mayeyesa
    @mayeyesa 3 года назад +7

    Literally obsessed with you both 💓💕💗 love your videos so much!!!!

  • @patiencefihlela384
    @patiencefihlela384 2 года назад +3

    Where have you been??? I have been so worried about you two! I'm so thrilled to see you again💃💃💃💃💃🎊🎊🎊🎊 you have been in my thoughts hey. Love you all the way from SA 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦

  • @nteboslifestyleandbeautyco8058
    @nteboslifestyleandbeautyco8058 3 года назад +10

    I can't wait for lobola issue guys lol, as always am supper obsessed with you guys, you're so adorable. I pray for you and grow older in love forever because really you make the most adorable couple❤❤

    • @AfricanCalifornia
      @AfricanCalifornia  3 года назад

      Aww thank you so much🥰❤️🙏🏾. Lobola video is coming soon😁

  • @dorismphasane2081
    @dorismphasane2081 2 года назад +1

    Happy for you may God bless you foreve😆😆💕💋

  • @tholakelekhumalo5579
    @tholakelekhumalo5579 2 года назад +3

    Love u guys So genuine and natural Well done my girl for not trying to whiten your complexion You guys are naturally beautiful and so down to earth Lots of love for your future

  • @unathibrown5706
    @unathibrown5706 3 года назад +8

    This episode is so cool to watch 👌😍Thank you guys for your open hearts...May you continue being blessed in your union 😘

    • @AfricanCalifornia
      @AfricanCalifornia  3 года назад +1

      Amen🙏🏾. Thank you for watching and for your engagement❤️.

  • @janinefelix5287
    @janinefelix5287 3 года назад +3

    So happy to see you again, I missed you.
    Love how you so real that you do have misunderstandings.
    You might not be perfect but I believe there is such a thing as a perfect imperfect marriage!!!

  • @nondumisobaleni3420
    @nondumisobaleni3420 3 года назад +3

    I just love you guys, looking forward to the lobola video

  • @pony9525
    @pony9525 2 года назад +1

    Good day beautiful family...I love ❤ you guys found ur blog today and already crying over your beautiful story and you sound so legit .....less drama and so real ....thank you for loving each other....love you guys individually

  • @melspostbox4861
    @melspostbox4861 3 года назад +5

    I loved your love story :) Thanks for sharing.

    • @AfricanCalifornia
      @AfricanCalifornia  3 года назад

      We glad you enjoyed it😁. Thank you for watching 🥰❤️

  • @londy1100
    @londy1100 3 года назад +6

    Been checking for this video almost everyday😭❤️finally

  • @verntah6837
    @verntah6837 3 года назад +5

    Hi guys - I love how you guys are real& spreading the spirit of love. Very eager to know if he paid lobola hahahaaa - very much waiting for that video🥰

  • @happyasouthafrican
    @happyasouthafrican 3 года назад +5

    I love ur honesty about each other, keep that as ur pillar in ur marriage. Keep loving each other with love from the mother land south africa Pretoria, I love u guys😍😂

  • @nyashakatsa4203
    @nyashakatsa4203 3 года назад +4

    Hie girl happy to see you both with an interesting video i just like the way you listen to your instinct you are so real you don't spice you just talk the way it is very real and genuine looking forward to the video how your husband react about lobola thing i saw your pics showing your traditional marriage 💖💖💖

    • @AfricanCalifornia
      @AfricanCalifornia  3 года назад +3

      Hey girl, thank you😊. We want to be as open and genuine with you guys. We can’t wait to share more of our journey 💗🥰.

  • @hazelkaseke562
    @hazelkaseke562 2 года назад +2

    Love you guys 💕😘

  • @ashleygauche6092
    @ashleygauche6092 3 года назад +2

    Hey girl. U know what. I'm from south Africa. And u know what. It not about you going to a rich country and lifting Beter there. U know what. I feel some kind of proudness if I see you and your husband. He is so a kind soul. And you go makoti. And can't wait to see the labolo video. From you white gay brother in south Africa. ( brother for the some country) ❤️❤️

  • @majonapac1656
    @majonapac1656 3 года назад +8

    My first comment was just saying I missed you guys, but there's another thing we have in common, I can also feel or see something before it happens! It's not literally a dream but it's like an instinct

    • @AfricanCalifornia
      @AfricanCalifornia  3 года назад +3

      Does it scare you? It scares me sometimes, for me it’s an instinct and dreams most of the time.

    • @majonapac1656
      @majonapac1656 3 года назад

      @@AfricanCalifornia it doesnt literally scare me because before it happens, I have already felt it will, though sometimes you never know when it will happen, but it eventually happens!!

  • @ndohlazo2082
    @ndohlazo2082 3 года назад +1

    I'm the new sub I love you guys already 💕 you guys are meant to be, 💞from cape Town

    • @AfricanCalifornia
      @AfricanCalifornia  3 года назад

      Welcome to the fam!!💗💗 thank you for subscribing and watching 🇿🇦❤️.

  • @Lee-nv5dn
    @Lee-nv5dn 3 года назад +2

    Please do a night or morning routine as a married couple 🔥👏👏 love love you guys

  • @ThuliMaps
    @ThuliMaps 3 года назад +4

    Haibo I didn't get notified ngaleVideo 😭I'm so sad Stha shuuuuu....
    It's actually sad that we date all these people for years then after leaving them you meet your husband/wife....
    Ey kodwa we are going through the most ngomjolo eSouth Africa 😩.
    Love your content sis ❤️🇿🇦

    • @AfricanCalifornia
      @AfricanCalifornia  3 года назад +1

      Kanjani nje kodwa😭🙆🏾‍♀️? I’m glad you finally got to watch it. Yey ngyawaz umjolo wase South Africa wangnyisa nami ngashiya phansi😂🤣. Kyadlalwa ngeskhathi sethu lapho.
      Thank you sis🥰🇿🇦.

    • @ThuliMaps
      @ThuliMaps 3 года назад

      @@AfricanCalifornia 😩😩eyy sisazama kona kuwo lomjolo😭😭....
      Nathi sizoshiya ke kodwa one day makungalungi😩.

  • @SamkeloNdlela-k2g
    @SamkeloNdlela-k2g Год назад

    Any newest video please we want to know what is happening now....any kids ❤❤ love you guys

  • @danniellemichelle91
    @danniellemichelle91 3 года назад +1

    “Its cause you listen to country music.”
    💀😩😭😂🤣🤣 HILARIOUS!

  • @Tmaria-wn3hc
    @Tmaria-wn3hc 3 года назад +3

    I normally watch this channel and christian and ziyas channel too religiously but you both stopped posting at the same time. Praying for all of you I hope all is well.

    • @indefinitelyserge547
      @indefinitelyserge547 3 года назад +1

      Life is a little busy but we plan on posting soon

    • @Tmaria-wn3hc
      @Tmaria-wn3hc 3 года назад +1

      @@indefinitelyserge547 ok thank you will be waiting🤗

    • @indefinitelyserge547
      @indefinitelyserge547 2 года назад +1

      We’ve posted recently

    • @Tmaria-wn3hc
      @Tmaria-wn3hc 2 года назад +1

      @@indefinitelyserge547 thanks ill check out the video

  • @paulkekana7447
    @paulkekana7447 2 года назад +1

    How was the lobola process?

  • @neomahlangu
    @neomahlangu 3 года назад +7

    "It's because you listen to country music. "😂😂😂😂😂 I'm finished

  • @vunisilevunisile5053
    @vunisilevunisile5053 2 года назад

    Congratution god bless u both❤and being comfotable on yr situation

  • @nyashakatsa4203
    @nyashakatsa4203 3 года назад +2

    What happened to this beautiful couple miss you very much

    • @londy1100
      @londy1100 3 года назад +1

      I just saw a comment saying they'll be back soon... They were talking a break.

  • @tendanimakhavhu400
    @tendanimakhavhu400 3 года назад +2

    Where did our couple disappear to ??we miss u wen u don’t update 💜💜💜😁😁😁

    • @AfricanCalifornia
      @AfricanCalifornia  3 года назад +1

      We miss you too guys, wife wasn’t doing great but so much better now. We coming back really soon!❤️

    • @tendanimakhavhu400
      @tendanimakhavhu400 3 года назад

      @@AfricanCalifornia glad she is doing better .....sending her lov,light and all the healing she needs ......we will be waiting for u guys here 💜💜💜❣️❣️❣️

  • @noziphompanza7568
    @noziphompanza7568 2 года назад

    I love the way you look at your man boo its beautiful

  • @nobubelemtshiywa5947
    @nobubelemtshiywa5947 3 года назад +4

    Newly found faves❤ am hooked mtase🤞

    • @AfricanCalifornia
      @AfricanCalifornia  3 года назад

      Welcome to the fam mntase😊🥰 . Thank you for joining us❤️.

  • @tsakaninkombyani8890
    @tsakaninkombyani8890 3 года назад +1

    Mkhaya,happy valentine's day.😍😍

  • @indefinitelyserge547
    @indefinitelyserge547 3 года назад +3

    ITS TIME FOR CONTENT!

  • @everythingineverythingwith2642
    @everythingineverythingwith2642 3 года назад +1

    You guys, when are you coming back? I even created a RUclips channel because you inspired me. Come Back

    • @AfricanCalifornia
      @AfricanCalifornia  3 года назад

      We are coming back very soon😊. I’m so happy for you for creating a RUclips channel, I just subscribed!

  • @stecyg7403
    @stecyg7403 3 года назад +1

    what' the name of that song?

  • @Motherhood_and_Stuff_Like_That
    @Motherhood_and_Stuff_Like_That 3 года назад +2

    Can you please share with us the lobola story

  • @rachealbanda7851
    @rachealbanda7851 3 года назад +2

    This is so real and beautiful guys love it ❤️

  • @majonapac1656
    @majonapac1656 3 года назад +1

    I missed you guys, 💞💞💞💞

  • @samirahfazilahmed3206
    @samirahfazilahmed3206 3 года назад +1

    Notification gang gang💫
    Early gang

  • @Yayah_Vee
    @Yayah_Vee 3 года назад +1

    Yey🎉 hey guys❤

  • @fefechroniclesd6776
    @fefechroniclesd6776 3 года назад +5

    I understand exactly when she say she always knew she'll never marry a certain race group. I'm Xhosa and will NEVER!!marry a Xhosa or Zulu man. We understand the complexities of our people and it's not about hate but just preference, understanding how our culture works . I can't wait for the day I meet my soulmate🥰

    • @AfricanCalifornia
      @AfricanCalifornia  3 года назад

      Exactly, thank you!!🙌🏾. I pray you meet your soulmate🥰.

  • @samandayimsomi3926
    @samandayimsomi3926 3 года назад +1

    Guys it's been 2 months😩siyanikhumbula

    • @AfricanCalifornia
      @AfricanCalifornia  3 года назад +3

      Siyabuya guys, wife needed some mental health break😩. You guys will get a video really soon!😊 we miss you guys!

  • @siziweshiri3656
    @siziweshiri3656 2 года назад +2

    Stay with your complexion chocolate

  • @khanyisabooi88
    @khanyisabooi88 3 года назад +1

    Yeyyy finally 🎉🎉🎉

  • @hto5470
    @hto5470 3 года назад +1

    What happened to our lovely sister? 😭

    • @indefinitelyserge547
      @indefinitelyserge547 3 года назад +1

      Life got a bit busy but we are planning our come back

    • @hto5470
      @hto5470 3 года назад +1

      @@indefinitelyserge547 please do . We love u guys

  • @teemamoe2774
    @teemamoe2774 3 года назад +1

    Hi guys ❤

  • @nomsasondezi7081
    @nomsasondezi7081 3 года назад +2

    I love you guys

  • @snechamane9886
    @snechamane9886 3 года назад +1

    🥰🥰love y’all

  • @siyasangagwarube9785
    @siyasangagwarube9785 3 года назад +1

    I love you guys❤

  • @juniormcreator3995
    @juniormcreator3995 3 года назад +1

    Manje use America ukhuluma isizulu ayngeke🥺🥺...One day I wanna come to America too, I just relocated from Durban to Cape Town 🥺
    By the way you guys are such an inspiration n you make a cute couple😊

  • @indefinitelyserge547
    @indefinitelyserge547 3 года назад +1

    Finally!!

  • @zoliswamja6646
    @zoliswamja6646 3 года назад +3

    Hi guys ❤️❤️❤️

  • @indefinitelyserge547
    @indefinitelyserge547 3 года назад +2

    Post!!!!

  • @heidiisaac47
    @heidiisaac47 3 года назад +1

    Where you guys at?

    • @AfricanCalifornia
      @AfricanCalifornia  3 года назад

      We are coming back very soon☺️. Sorry we had to take such a long break.

  • @tholakeleaugustine2367
    @tholakeleaugustine2367 3 года назад +4

    Did your husband pay ilobolo for you ?

  • @sthemdletshe3395
    @sthemdletshe3395 3 года назад +1

    Hey beautiful family❤️❤️

    • @AfricanCalifornia
      @AfricanCalifornia  3 года назад

      Hey fam❤️

    • @sthemdletshe3395
      @sthemdletshe3395 3 года назад

      @@AfricanCalifornia happy for you guys that you meet each other, may your love n union grow stronger each day till end of time

    • @sthemdletshe3395
      @sthemdletshe3395 3 года назад

      So tell me my sisi was is clear in your vision that your husband is going to be a white man?.... just curious

    • @AfricanCalifornia
      @AfricanCalifornia  3 года назад

      @@sthemdletshe3395 it wasn’t specifically a white man, but a different race. My husband is not white, so In my dream it was a light skin man looking white. I get lots of dreams, and they really happen. I had a dream I was driving my husband’s car and I got into a car accident, I told my husband, few days after he was in a car accident and totaled his car. Even dreams about people around me, i tell them and it’ll be either something that had just happened or happens few days after telling them.

    • @sthemdletshe3395
      @sthemdletshe3395 3 года назад

      @@AfricanCalifornia interesting I have I'm like that too sisi nothing happens in my life, family or Any1 close to me without having a vision about it, it happened to the point where I will see things without being sleeping and it became clear that I'm spiritual gifted child but that is a story for another day, what makes me curious is that last year I was shown a man putting a ring in my finger and that man wasn't a black man hence I never dated outside my race yet I got nothing against it @ all but I haven't meet some1 that I feel something for him outside my race you know, oops again I thought your husband is white😀

  • @nomsasondezi7081
    @nomsasondezi7081 3 года назад +2

    U sooo beautiful cc

  • @siventshebe3061
    @siventshebe3061 Год назад

    Love 👌🥰

  • @phililecele4180
    @phililecele4180 3 года назад +2

    ❤❤

  • @mfundohg958
    @mfundohg958 2 года назад

    😍😍

  • @nokwazikhumalo2486
    @nokwazikhumalo2486 3 года назад +1

    I love you guys❤❤