Christian dating and singleness

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  • Опубликовано: 19 авг 2024
  • Welcome to the Headlights Podcasts with your regular hosts; Shanna, Clarissa and Rufina. In this week’s episode Shanna, Clarissa and Rufina discuss their view of Christian dating and singleness. They discuss some of their life experiences, scenarios and how they are currently navigating their experiences of this season.
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Комментарии • 55

  • @ronomgenuff
    @ronomgenuff 5 месяцев назад +39

    As a Christian man, I have to say that I don't believe in "game." I will be kind, loving, and share who I am with someone... But if the Lord brings us together I pray we will both recognize it and not play what feels like a worldly game. Also I like to respect a woman's intelligence/ability to choose me as I can choose her. It feels manipulative to me to imagine trying to trick/convince another adult to be with me.

    • @assyrianrelief
      @assyrianrelief 5 месяцев назад +1

      Well said. 💕👏🏻

    • @rosewangui3409
      @rosewangui3409 4 месяца назад

    • @CL-ck6lf
      @CL-ck6lf 3 месяца назад +1

      i dont think they meant game as in “playing games” but rather how a man presents himself and what he says when he’s approaching or courting a lady.

    • @ntshiengnhlapo5677
      @ntshiengnhlapo5677 2 месяца назад

      Yesssss exactly this ​@@CL-ck6lf

  • @heaven_sent869
    @heaven_sent869 Месяц назад +2

    It’s the synchronized “yeah” for me 😂. Love this

  • @Elsie_Benson
    @Elsie_Benson 5 месяцев назад +17

    I was so used to wanting to be in a relationship,but right now I'm currently working on building intimacy with God first,it's been tough but this podcast is giving me😂❤,
    You guys are so funny,especially on the question "Are you ready for marriage".
    Can't wait for more podcasts❤❤❤

  • @jedidiahakpata1738
    @jedidiahakpata1738 5 месяцев назад +31

    "God didn't tell you nothing about that" Honestly that be the real struggle😭😭

  • @debz6711
    @debz6711 6 месяцев назад +20

    Hey ladies of God. Thank you for such a transparent conversation. I can honestly relate. It was a blessing, I was listening and nodding along through the topics. Keep it coming. Your doing a great job.

  • @platinumstudio6735
    @platinumstudio6735 3 месяца назад +1

    3 beautiful sisters on fire for the Lord, the looks are giving, with relevant content… This should be on mainstream! May God bless your platform 100 fold 🙏🏾

  • @jessicarendell2293
    @jessicarendell2293 5 месяцев назад +4

    The outfit co-ordination each week though 😍🙌 I’m a quarter way through and felt compelled the comment. This is so powerful, and inspiring. You’re all relatable and I’m so glad I found the pod 🥰🫶🏼

    • @TheHeadlightsPodcast
      @TheHeadlightsPodcast  5 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much hun! We really appreciate the feedback and support 🥹💖

  • @georginagory5968
    @georginagory5968 5 месяцев назад +12

    I totally relate with the entire conversation.
    Thank you for been so real.

  • @shadz3897
    @shadz3897 5 месяцев назад +11

    You girls are literally speaking to me right now 😩 Great conversation 🙏🏾🙌🏾❤️

  • @Evie_ch
    @Evie_ch 5 месяцев назад +2

    Y'all are preaching in this place whewwww!!!!! Thank You JESUS for bringing GORGEOUS girls who've gone through the same experiences as me and are inspired by You!

  • @kai-leesampson4254
    @kai-leesampson4254 5 месяцев назад +4

    I just stumbled on this channel whilst finding something to listen to at work. Really enjoyed this podcast. I genuinely dislike videos speaking about this topic because it is often cliché and often makes me feel bad for desiring marriage because its always ' just focus on God it will come' but I thoroughly enjoyed this. It was well balanced and I felt like everything that was spoken about exactly how I felt and it wasn't just scripture but also factual opinion and scenarios to really solidify the points you made . So many great takeaways. God bless xx

  • @zanaee8414
    @zanaee8414 5 месяцев назад +5

    This was prolly the best podcast ive heard about dating thank you ladies ❤

  • @sunflowerchild7236
    @sunflowerchild7236 5 месяцев назад +5

    I loveeeee this channel and this is only my first video. I love you ladies chemistry with one another! Please keep it up in the name of Jesus. You blessed women of God!

    • @TheHeadlightsPodcast
      @TheHeadlightsPodcast  5 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much for watching and your feedback! Amen 💗🙏🏽

  • @Tarn114
    @Tarn114 3 месяца назад +1

    Randomly stumbled across this video and I really enjoyed this video & all the ladies perspectives about this topic, you girls were really preaching chilee!

  • @renediluyeye2175
    @renediluyeye2175 3 месяца назад +1

    first-time listener and I loved this!

  • @manelle9637
    @manelle9637 5 месяцев назад +4

    This came at the right time! Thank you so much ladies, this was very much needed 🙏🏽💕

    • @TheHeadlightsPodcast
      @TheHeadlightsPodcast  5 месяцев назад

      So glad that God was able to speak through us, and directly to you! Thank you for watching hun 💓

  • @laerciadosanjos5707
    @laerciadosanjos5707 5 месяцев назад

    Very insightful ❤ . It’s all about LETTING GOD’S WILL BE DONE , He’s always got better plans for us❤️

  • @nikigracevlogs
    @nikigracevlogs 3 месяца назад

    “Your fleeing! You’re even leaving your kids” 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I AM CRYING 😭😂😂😂

  • @user-pw6lj2kp2b
    @user-pw6lj2kp2b 5 месяцев назад +2

    Just find you guys. Absolutely love this!

  • @chanelm9461
    @chanelm9461 2 месяца назад

    New Subscriber 🙋🏽‍♀️loved this episode, You all look stunning and heavy on ima saucy Christian babe!!

  • @EveryCurvee
    @EveryCurvee 5 месяцев назад

    This was so powerful! Ladies keep it up! I love this so much!

  • @kwikirizadaisy
    @kwikirizadaisy 5 месяцев назад +1

    Beautiful conversation 💙

  • @risenhope8286
    @risenhope8286 5 месяцев назад

    Yassss the topics were hitting

  • @lekesomule5667
    @lekesomule5667 6 месяцев назад +1

    This is proper 👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾

  • @Evangelicalstory
    @Evangelicalstory 5 месяцев назад

    Awww yesss I love y’all!

  • @kiajanai8403
    @kiajanai8403 5 месяцев назад +2

    I loved this talk. I have learned Alot from you ladies !!! I do have a question on a comment , What does she mean by overly spiritual? Does that refer to someone who is over zealous ?

    • @TheHeadlightsPodcast
      @TheHeadlightsPodcast  5 месяцев назад +2

      Thank you so much love! 💗
      Clarissa was speaking from experience. Her example referred to when she was dating a Christian guy and they were on a date in vapiano, and he told them to pray about warfare rather than getting to know each other. Essentially she means being relatable and not spiritualising everything.

  • @faithbentoro1379
    @faithbentoro1379 5 месяцев назад +2

    Would you mind sharing the sermon that was around the verse in Hosea (Hosea 2:6) you shared?

  • @nkosentsha1
    @nkosentsha1 5 месяцев назад +1

    Keep it up ladies

  • @abena_sheshe
    @abena_sheshe 5 месяцев назад +1

    Do you think you’re ready for marriage??..:😅 That was a real question tho🤔

  • @nikigracevlogs
    @nikigracevlogs 3 месяца назад

    I see Wife as a characteristic rather than a title.

  • @nikigracevlogs
    @nikigracevlogs 3 месяца назад

    Work husband & Work wife?! Could neverrrr 👎🏾

  • @cheli.x
    @cheli.x 5 месяцев назад +3

    Lovely episode. IMO: I personally dont understand why Christian ladies go into dating as it's not mentioned in the Bible, there are really only references of courtship. I thought all you have to do is keep praying and fasting for your Godly/Kingdom partner and God will send them to cross paths with you, no? Why are we going to a worldly construct and using our own efforts to find a man when all we have to do is go to GOD for our GODLY partner and keep preparing ourselves until our season of waiting is over and he is ready to introduce you to someone?? idk if my mindset is just different but in my 18 years of living, I have never thought about finding a guy or dating, my mother never taught me to focus on boys and she has a very successful marriage... I just leave it in the hands of God and trust he will reveal to me as he knows the desires of my heart that at least I would be married in my late 20's? That's why I also don't believe in 'right person wrong timing' as God's timing is never wrong, so if you do it by your own effort, not consulting God, it's likely to fail - I just dont understand unnecessarily going through heartbreaks and soul ties for no reason then potentially end up a babymama or single for the rest of your life when all you have to do is WAIT on God to send you your partner? Idk I would like to see perspectives on this xx

    • @bamidelemarketing3860
      @bamidelemarketing3860 5 месяцев назад +1

      Please could you let me know the verses that talks about courtship?
      I'll like to know more about it

  • @beccaarauz
    @beccaarauz Месяц назад

    if by game you mean "not demonstrating godly and manly qualities for a husband" I agree, BUT the concept of "game" as the world sees it, I completely disagree, Godly men need no "game", they need to just be focused on the Kingdom and giving fruits and be honest an genuine, flirting and courting without knowing if that's the person you TRULY want to be with is of the world, "do not awaken love before time".

  • @nikigracevlogs
    @nikigracevlogs 3 месяца назад

    Quit your job or quit your fiancé 😭

  • @kgomotsoalberts
    @kgomotsoalberts 5 месяцев назад +2

    I've never related so much in my life. 🤣 That chat of "you're tryna act like the Holy Spirit" ? Real. This is amazing.❤‍🩹