I’m not buying it. If she genuinely wanted to apologize, she would’ve reached out in private to people and apologized then. Not make a public spectacle of it. And to not apologize to Jessi or Rachel? Yeah, this is just for her own ego, nothing more.
Jessie wants Gabbie to not speak of her or to her, that was mentioned last time. I think it’s better for Jessi to not be mentioned by name as that’s what she wanted. Gabbie is still a mess and always will be. There’s no coming back from that.
Apologising without naming affected individuals (when you can clearly identify them) means nothing. It's too vague, feels fake and feels more like apologising for one's self and comfort rather than to truly atone for the hurt caused.
Who are you to say? are you Jesus? This is why it’s easier to continue to do shitty things or act like a bad person. You don’t have to accept her apology because it’s not directed toward you. You don’t have to believe it either. But stop making it hard for people to make a better choice.
@@arielevans9291 how did she make a better choice tho? She didn't actually apologize to anyone. And im not sure how me calling that out is making it harder for people to do the right thing? Even if you apologize people aren't obligated to forgive you.
give her a chance to prove whether shes changed or not. you cant judge her until then, because if you do, youre just jumping to conclusions about her. Also, to be honest, if she DID name names I think people wouldve even more so said she was just doing it to look better and/or accuse her of dredging up old situations. I mean, look at what youre doing right now, you expect an apology from her but when she does its not good enough. Also, she literally says in her video that she has hurt a lot of people. How is she gonna name every person shes hurt? And did you not think that her thought process just might be different then yours? taking a giant shit on someone that you really cant say whether theyre being genuine or not bc she hasnt had the chance to prove it one way or another doesnt help anyone. it doesnt promote trying to be a better person. youre just being judgmental and you need to go on your own self improvement journey before worrying about hers
Gabbie really "apologized" to 911 firefighters before Jessi Smiles. She hasn't changed. She just wants to rebrand without getting constantly redragged into her old drama. But that would require her actually changing herself for the better.
Jessi didn’t want Gabbie to mention her, Jessi literally said that in the past, so I think that’s why Gabbie didn’t say anything about her, since I think Jessi said that situation was triggering, so she doesn’t want it to be brought up again
She's not genuinely apologizing. She's doing this so she feels less heavy inside but it's all a show and no one's buying it. This is like shoving your laundry in your closet or shoving boxes under your bed and calling it "cleaning up" so you feel like you accomplished something and can now go get a treat. You didn’t actually clean your room. She didn't actually apologize.
said this to someone else, and ill say it again. give her a chance to prove whether shes changed or not. you cant judge her until then, because if you do, youre just jumping to conclusions about her. Also, to be honest, if she DID name names I think people wouldve even more so said she was just doing it to look better and/or accuse her of dredging up old situations. I mean, look at what youre doing right now, you expect an apology from her but when she does its not good enough. Also, she literally says in her video that she has hurt a lot of people. How is she gonna name every person shes hurt? And did you not think that her thought process just might be different then yours? taking a giant shit on someone that you really cant say whether theyre being genuine or not bc she hasnt had the chance to prove it one way or another doesnt help anyone. it doesnt promote trying to be a better person. youre just being judgmental and you need to go on your own self improvement journey before worrying about hers
it be more sincere if she said "sorry to everybody"= accountability instead of "sorry to anybody"=unaccountability. Finding religion does not excuse the hurt she caused. Therefore- her apology is ass.
lmfao ur just looking for literally any reason to judge her. u ever think it could simply be a poor choice of words? but even then I dont think it is, anybody and everybody are synonymous with eachother and ur just nitpicking. give her a fighting chance lmfao
If you’re apologizing for something and you are unable/unwilling to clearly state what you’re apologizing for, it’s not an apology, it’s just manipulation. (And I’m not counting the parts about her “indecency”, her making apologies over that is a joke-and a bad one at that)
*_I don’t follow her but… Actions speak louder. She can apologize all day. I give it about 7 months before something stirs up. Hopefully for her sake, she stays on this path & just does her thing in her corner of the internet._*
If Gabbie had said she would be making direct apologies privately in addition to the public video, then MAYBE I could see this being more sincere. But she didn't so...
Exactly. Or if she had made the apologies privately before recording her video… how is it more important to make a video apologizing than to actually apologize to the people she hurt face to face?
This apology was so hard to watch. Big surprise, it ends very culty. It reminded me of Midsomner. Culty, praying, with sacrifice soon to come. I thought it was so insincere.
What she did to Rachel was so cruel, Gabbie honestly didn't apologize to anyone, apologies have to be specific. And let's not forget she was trash talking Rachel (calling her mean names and uncreative) at Oxford like a month ago?? She has absolutely not changed..
@@CreppycookiesRachel Oates is a content creator who did nothing more to Gabbie than reviewing her poetry books and Gabbie has since led her fans and friends to sending Rachel death threats, copious amounts of hate and general vitriol. Shes even recently called Rachel a loser, showing she has not changed at all
Not mentioning any names when there has been so many ppl directly affected by her and saying "if we had beef, we are fine don't worry" as if forgive and forget is one sided, make it seem like she's not being truthful at all. I hope she is and that she comes from an honest place, cuz most of the ppl like her use religion as a scapegoat 'cause they know how much esteem and respect the masses have for it.
gabbie always apologize every time she releases new music this is honestly the bare minimum for her since during her recent Oxford interview shows she didn’t really change and it was the same time around this year … so this doesn’t seem genuine to me
Thank you! She was just talking shit about Rachel less than a couple months ago and suddenly people want to act like she’s totally different the minute she apologized in the vaguest way possible?? I swear the internet has the worst memory. I understand wanting someone to get better and letting people show that they’re different now. However Gabbie is just onto her next excuse. It was ADHD a couple years ago and now she’s saying that she was a bad person because she didn’t have god in her life. Give me a break. She needs therapy. Sadly from her past, I doubt she would ever get help from a qualified therapist.
@@taylors445 exactly because they think she changed but it clear she still holding on to this grudge and she probably will be holding it onto until her grave
while it’s not our apology to accept, I still feel like she’s only apologizing because of her relationship with religion (idk if she’s Christian or catholic lol). I know that people tend to use religion (I know not everyone) as a scapegoat to make themselves seem that they are not a bad person anymore. At least in my perspective it just seems that she’s “apologizing” so that god can forgive her instead of her coming from a place of genuine sincerity. Just my thoughts lol. (Also the fact she said she was an npc because she didn’t have god in her life sent me lmao)
1) whole heartedly agree and 2) she was raised catholic, went non religious for a bit, now she's a christian which i think is noteworthy bc one of the things christians don't practice that catholics do? Penance.
@@lauryntonio Catholics are the OG Christians. Its like saying "sunnis and muslims" when they're basically the same thing. And real christians do penance. Its just that Christians are represented by these evangelical pastors and threatrics, which is deplorable.
If you don't named names you are not actually sorry. She also just talked about Rachel Oates on her Oxford interview. She didn't "named names" but it was pretty obvious it was about her and her critique of her poetry. This is just a cop out imo... If she didn't talked directly with the people she wronged in the past and give her sincere apology. This is just a performance... Not very Christian of her 👀
She didn’t name a single person and therefore apologized to basically no one. That whole video was just a self righteous ego jerk and using religion to excuse everything she’s ever done. She somehow hasn’t changed at all. If anything, she’s worse!
Am i the only one who thinks she only posted an "apology" because she's about to do a big rebrand and/or song release and this is just to being her more views?
That's how you know Gabbie isn't ready to take full accountability yet. What she did to Jessie Smiles was not "being difficult" or bad vibes, that was in the mud, disgusting behavior. Maybe she will, maybe she won't, but I 100% think Jessie should have been the first person Gabbie apologized to, Not the last.
At LEAST she’s apologising. Some people don’t at all and paint it out to seem like it never happened. Maybe she’s not mentioning names for making it seem it’s for clout or something. She’s already an extremely difficult person so an apology is a breakthrough. How I see it is she’s still showing some tiny growth. Her style of apologising shows how much pride had to be broken and still needs breaking. It’s a start. I wish I could’ve gotten even a generic apology from my abuser who had a stubborn difficult character.
if you’re not directly apologizing to the people you hurt, you don’t actually mean it. this is in no way a direct apology but i understand joey and trisha wanting to move past it. she absolutely needs to apologize to jessi directly and i don’t think we are ever going to see that. she has changed a little and we can all see that i think but it’s not nearly enough to be able to be called a changed/new person for sure :/
i dont trust a single influencer/celebrity who suddenly becomes a devoted christian as soon as they get outed for something or ran off the internet, some of the worst public figures rightfully get their names ruined and suddenly they've found god and are on a path of healing and redemption. It's a cheap and entitled way to use religion for moral points and her apology was garbo
Honestly the people forgiving her might just be more for them than for her. But it feels like half and not really taking accountability. She’s just grouping up a bunch of things she’d done and instead of listening what she did and truly apologizing she basically just went “Hey everyone I was an ass to sorry” like that doesn’t really mean anything
It wasn’t even an “apology”. She didn’t mention Jessi Smiles or Rachael Oates. She kept it vague DELIBERATELY, just so she could sweep what she’s done under the rug.
I think it’s very funny how she decided to take the religious grift route. When disgraced influencers want to rebrand they will either pick a political affiliation typically conservative and grift for them or they’ll choose a religious grift. The common theme is people easily manipulated and the normalization of a cult mindset.
This. And it's clear that's what she's trying to do. She wants to be the next Classically Abby or something with her newest talks about "modesty" and "let's bring back shame" and so on. Her whole apology video is her essentially cutting off her old image so she can rebrand and say "well I'm not that person anymore, I deleted all my old videos and apologized already!"
Sometimes, when making a public amends, you don’t announce the person’s name, because you would be again doing what you’re apologizing for. Trisha and Jessi are perfect examples of this.
I understand this but the fact that she doesn’t even mention that she was sorry for retraumatizing people or sorry that she harassed people for years, shows she’s not remorseful of it. She basically wants to throw out a bunch of vague apologies to make herself feel better or win back public support. If she genuinely felt sorry for what she did, there was a way she could apologize without saying Jessi or Rachel’s name in her video. Also just to make it clear, it’s pretty obvious she hasn’t reached out behind the scenes to apologize in private. This is clearly done for her public image and nothing else.
It seems like everyone she’s apologize to vaguely are the people she’s worked with, RUclips, Collaborators, Producers, Agents, Directors, MTV. Everyone that has tried to personally help GABBY in her career and gets her money. It’s so important to have agents and be kind to the people you work with. Otherwise the company is going to drop you. You won’t get any more gigs, it’ll be hard to find a replacement agent and so on. However, she doesn’t seem to include this vague apology to friends and other RUclipsrs she’s created drama with. Idk what I’m trying to say but it seems narcissistic for her to apologize to the people who help her monetarily in her career versus the people she has truly spread drama with and gotten her fanbase to hate others.
@@valmorghulis1355 I agree, I mean…mentioning god in her apology? That’s pretty fucking disgusting. As much as I want to believe she’s changed. I fucking doubt it.
I was never a fan but if she is happy and better, good for her, apologising takes guts even if it was generally speaking, time will tell if she really meant it or not.
I feel strange for saying this but maybe she didn't say anything to Jessi because Jessi said to never mention her ever again, so she's respecting that boundary Jessi set even if she's publically apologizing?
@@maryamtara2934 I've been one of her biggest critics over the years, as in, I'm far from being a fan lol, I'm simply trying to give her the benefit of the doubt.
The only way I think it’s forgivable to not directly mention names is if she individually apologized to these people in private. I think it’s pretty clear she didn’t do that, since both Joey mentioned texting her after seeing the video and Trisha didn’t even know there was an apology directed at her because she didn’t watch the whole video. This whole thing just screams insincerity to me. Vaguely mentioning people in a public video isn’t an apology. It’s just a cry for attention. The people she has hurt deserve better.
I say this as someone who never interacted with her content prior to her manic tik toks: honesty am just relieved to see she's alive- I remember watching her tik toks and being so concerned for her. I dont thin people realize how badly that could have ended and also how viewers contributed to harm toward her by making scathing videos on her character while she was actively manic. People enjoyed her suffering I think, it became like. a circus. I'm so glad she was able to get help. I hope she is able to apologize to Jessie because Jessie is well deserving of one- I also wonder if maybe there is some sort of NDA or cease and desist with Jesse that she can't mention or even allude to.
No she and Jessi never signed anything because Gabbie was basically blackmailing Jessi into signing an NDA but refusing to sign one as well. Jessi said that she would sign an NDA if they both did. Gabbie said that she needed to be able to address the subject in interviews for some reason and that she would not sign one. Gabbie kept threatening to talk about Jessi’s SA if she didn’t sign the NDA Gabbie wanted her too. Honestly there’s a ton of stuff that happened that’s too long to comment but there’s nothing legal keeping Gabbie from talking about Jessi. I also am glad Gabbie is not manic anymore but I don’t think that it should excuse all her bad behavior that happened before she had a public mental health crisis. Just because she has mental health issues, doesn’t mean she should be able to sweep under the rug all her horrible behavior that happened before her manic episode.
One thing that makes me so annoyed when people say she hasn’t apologized to Jessi, is that Jessi doesn’t want an apology. Jessi wants gabbi to never mention her again. That is what Jessi wants so gabbi not saying anything actually is respectful to Jessi.
If someone is really sorry they keep it private and don’t force the whole world to know. Gabbie has said so many racist and problematic statements over the years and is most likely apologizing for her religion because as we have seen she’s slowly become very religious. Like do what you want girl but if you want people to believe you do it for yourself and not for others to witness
I thought Jessi smiles wants Gabbie to leave her alone and not speak of her tho. Epecially publicly. If she made a public apology, wouldn't that be the exact opposite of what Jessi specifically asked for and be disrespectful?
I feel like the “apologies” were something for her to feel better about, not so much about being genuinely apologetic for what she did to others. I feel sorry for those who accepted this sad attempt of an apology.
To the people saying Gabby needs to apologise to Jessi. Jessi doesnt want an apology; from what I can tell Jessi doesn't want Gabby to talk about or to her. Also I watch Jessi's podcast and on the very rare occasions that they refer to the "Gabby" drama Jessi never says Gabby's name and they only refer to the Gabby Drama as "the situation." Its nice that people want justice for what Jessi was put through, but I think we should consider the idea that maybe Jessi doesn't want justice; maybe she just wants to be left alone and leave the past in the past.
She's not obligated to mention anyone by name, if she did that, that video would have been A LOT longer and she was trying to get to the point. No one has to accept her apologies, that's not the point of apologizing.
I think she should've done both vague and direct, especially towards the people she previously had beef with so they know she's talking to them. It's always a sincere apology when you make sure you're addressing the situation you were involved in with someone
How is it so easy for her to make direct apologies to RUclips and MTV and name them directly while individuals that have been hurt don’t get a direct apology? It just comes off as wanting to look good to try to get in good graces to be able to get more opportunities and not to truly make amends.
how fascinating that the only actual specific entities she made direct apologies to are things that could potentially make her more money: youtube, mtv, and her fans
"I'm sorry I was a terrible person and thought I could go about making people hurt how ever I felt entitled to do and for throwing a tantrum when being held accountable. I'm sorry my own actions fucked my career" There fixed it for her
The only thing I like about all of this is that her “apology” video has less views than responses from Rachel Oates or videos talking about the matter. She doesn’t have the reach anymore and I love to see it ✨✨
I mean maybe she felt she needed to apologize, but there were so many people to apologize to, that this was the best she could come up with. She also could get called out for using people's names as clout just so she could get views. I think it's great she wants to apologize in the first place.
I feel bad that she says she didn’t deserve those opportunities. It makes me think that there’s still a lot of work for her to do. She did deserve it, it’s her reaction that was the issue. It’s like not taking accountability but also says so much on self esteem.
I hate when people who’ve done terrible things and have a terrible attitude towards people use “finding god” as a way to excuse all that bad behavior. It’s not and won’t work for me. So glad she finally got help but she simply needs to stop being an internet persona.
She doesn’t owe the internet personal apologies. The internet is so toxic, and especially when it comes to making mistakes. How she’s feeling convicted is her journey. If she feels like reaching out to people personally, then that’s none of our business and it’s absolutely a ridiculous overreach to think she owes us (the audience) that.
Tbh Jessie probably didn't want any apology or communication at all and I really wish other people would respect that. She had said multiple times she wants nothing more to be said about the whole situation and it's dead
The people I felt she absolutely owed an apology to, Rachel Oates and Jessi Smiles, were not given one AT ALL in that video. So no, I don’t believe anything she says to be sincere and she is still an unchanged awful human being.
Listening to her apology video there’s this drizzle of narcissism in there. She should be very direct work who shoes apologizing to since she decided to make it public
I’m echoing what most people have been saying: most of it was very vague, nothing on the Jessi situation plus the whole cult-y Jesus flavor of it all… look, I’m not knocking all Christians. I was raised catholic myself and would still consider myself at least culturally Christian, but some people (like Gabbie) take it into this cultish direction that doesn’t sit right with me. She’s like “Jesus forgives me, so that’s that. I’m holy now.” I feel like this whole thing was more for her than for anyone she “apologized” to.
I’m not defending Gabbie, I’m genuinely curious, why does she need to publicly apologise to Jessie Smiles? If she apologises privately then that’s all that matters surely?
I think, and maybe I'm wrong, but I think if she had done it privately, Jessi may say that Gabbie apologised and she feels much better but won't be speaking about it in depth. I'm not saying Gabbi has or hasn't changed, but owning your bad decisions and mistakes publicly isn't easy and I think with her growing religiously, she will eventually be able to do it privately, it's just a long process (if she's genuinely changing)
she's brave enough to do that whole series bashing people and naming names but now when it comes to an apology using the people she's hurt names is just too hard ? i am not buying it
By not naming anyone she made her apology about her. It just doesn't sound like she's sorry about how she affected those people but that she's embarrassed she acted that way.
I think if I never heard about GH ever again, it would be too soon. She didn't apologize to everyone, she didn't apologize to anyone specifically. This is just to make herself feel better for her shitty behavior. She can point at this and say "look what a good person I am, taking accountability and apologizing for all my past misdeeds" when in reality it doesn't do any of that.
oh my god- yall are SO INSUFFERABLE. she apologized. how do yall know she didn’t directly reach out to each? yall always have a problem with literally anything- god forbid she didn’t mention names. yall need to stop worrying about literally everyone else.
I feel like she may just have a lot of fear when it comes to calling out people, even if she is apologizing. Private apologies should be private so if she does apologize to people directly we may never hear about it. She’s taking baby steps, but hey…she’s making steps non the less
Personally I do think she’s trying to close a chapter and open a new one. I haven’t heard about her since she went offline. Didn’t even know she was religious but seriously these ‘dramas’ happened years ago and she might not want to name names for the fact that she doesn’t want anyone saying they forgive her. She might not feel like she needs that. I’m proud of her for even doing this much coming from where she was at years ago. It’s a big step to improve. She wants to move on with her life and if she felt she had to put this out to move on good for her. Gosh.
@ she’s a person who is online she doesn’t even talk to these people anymore so a apology is the most she can do without being creepy and weird. Give credit where credit is due. Going through her socials now she is a more matured person. And that is what matters. Sorry but the expectations that I see is ‘doing more’ than that after literally YEARS and just showing up to apologize can and does come off the wrong way to meany people. As creepy and such. The people she did not name are from years ago. And personally it’s like saying an addict can’t recover. Anybody and everyone can change. And if we always say ‘this isn’t enough’ how are they supposed to keep going on the right track. That is not the bare minimum the bare minimum would be not changing and faking an apology. Please take another look at what the bare minimum could be in this situation.
something to point out here is a month before she posted this she was shit talking rachel at an oxford lecture she spoke at, calling her a loser whose opinion is irrelevant
I’m not buying it either if she wanted to make a genuine apology to the people that she has offended and hurt. She would have came with the purest intentions. And she would have reached out privately to discuss the situation. I think that she is doing this for herself. because if she is going to apologize it should be louder than her disrespect.
Here’s the thing, it’s understandable if you’re non confrontational. Maybe you can do it off line and apologize while stating the exact hurtful actions to at least have some genuity be acknowledged and understood. These vague apologies aren’t the best and they might be done out of good intentions, but considering the people hurt in the process, it doesn’t feel like it’s good enough
Literally every single „dramatical“ influencer that had their downfall later comes forward saying they‘re a different person now because they „found god“ 💀
I think in the case of Trisha, MAYBE Gabbie didn’t address the problem specifically so as to not mention it on the internet again? I mean, I forgot about the whole herpes accusation. So perhaps she wanted to keep it that way?
I would trade Gabbie staying offline forever for one new Jenna Marbles video.
What i would give for jenna
Who wouldn’t? I would and I’ve never even seen a Jenna Marbles video in my life. 😂
i couldn’t agree more!!!! even just a quick little tiktok with her and Mr. Marbles 😫😫
Not really a sacrifice, eh
Oh my god, in a heartbeat
I’m not buying it. If she genuinely wanted to apologize, she would’ve reached out in private to people and apologized then. Not make a public spectacle of it. And to not apologize to Jessi or Rachel? Yeah, this is just for her own ego, nothing more.
Thank you! I completely agree.
She'll always be a rapist apologist
agreed.
Jessie wants Gabbie to not speak of her or to her, that was mentioned last time. I think it’s better for Jessi to not be mentioned by name as that’s what she wanted. Gabbie is still a mess and always will be. There’s no coming back from that.
i agree but i also think if you dog someone in public you should issue them a public apology
Genuinely she needs to just stay offline.
Exactly. She just wants more RUclips money.
100% agree
Step away from the device
Yea, you do lil sensitive petal
@@alexandragonzalez8022 Educate yourself, this is embarrassing for you.
Apologising without naming affected individuals (when you can clearly identify them) means nothing. It's too vague, feels fake and feels more like apologising for one's self and comfort rather than to truly atone for the hurt caused.
This feels more like a narcissist trying to complete the apology step for their 12 step program than actually feeling sorry
I thought exactly the same 🙃
But we will see sooner or later if she really changed or if new drama comes🤷🏻♀️
My guess- new drama will come🫤
Who are you to say? are you Jesus? This is why it’s easier to continue to do shitty things or act like a bad person. You don’t have to accept her apology because it’s not directed toward you. You don’t have to believe it either. But stop making it hard for people to make a better choice.
@@arielevans9291 how did she make a better choice tho? She didn't actually apologize to anyone. And im not sure how me calling that out is making it harder for people to do the right thing? Even if you apologize people aren't obligated to forgive you.
give her a chance to prove whether shes changed or not. you cant judge her until then, because if you do, youre just jumping to conclusions about her.
Also, to be honest, if she DID name names I think people wouldve even more so said she was just doing it to look better and/or accuse her of dredging up old situations. I mean, look at what youre doing right now, you expect an apology from her but when she does its not good enough.
Also, she literally says in her video that she has hurt a lot of people. How is she gonna name every person shes hurt? And did you not think that her thought process just might be different then yours?
taking a giant shit on someone that you really cant say whether theyre being genuine or not bc she hasnt had the chance to prove it one way or another doesnt help anyone. it doesnt promote trying to be a better person. youre just being judgmental and you need to go on your own self improvement journey before worrying about hers
Nah if she did a 12 step programme shed know better. This is too dumb
Gabbie really "apologized" to 911 firefighters before Jessi Smiles. She hasn't changed. She just wants to rebrand without getting constantly redragged into her old drama. But that would require her actually changing herself for the better.
Actually Jessi asked Gabbie to never talk about her ever again. So her not apologize is better I think
Jessi didn’t want Gabbie to mention her, Jessi literally said that in the past, so I think that’s why Gabbie didn’t say anything about her, since I think Jessi said that situation was triggering, so she doesn’t want it to be brought up again
Lol I agree and she didn't even apologize to Rachel
@@jara2297 what about Rachel lol
@@bbkirbee she still can do it privately tho
She's not genuinely apologizing. She's doing this so she feels less heavy inside but it's all a show and no one's buying it. This is like shoving your laundry in your closet or shoving boxes under your bed and calling it "cleaning up" so you feel like you accomplished something and can now go get a treat. You didn’t actually clean your room. She didn't actually apologize.
said this to someone else, and ill say it again.
give her a chance to prove whether shes changed or not. you cant judge her until then, because if you do, youre just jumping to conclusions about her.
Also, to be honest, if she DID name names I think people wouldve even more so said she was just doing it to look better and/or accuse her of dredging up old situations. I mean, look at what youre doing right now, you expect an apology from her but when she does its not good enough.
Also, she literally says in her video that she has hurt a lot of people. How is she gonna name every person shes hurt? And did you not think that her thought process just might be different then yours?
taking a giant shit on someone that you really cant say whether theyre being genuine or not bc she hasnt had the chance to prove it one way or another doesnt help anyone. it doesnt promote trying to be a better person. youre just being judgmental and you need to go on your own self improvement journey before worrying about hers
it be more sincere if she said "sorry to everybody"= accountability instead of "sorry to anybody"=unaccountability. Finding religion does not excuse the hurt she caused. Therefore- her apology is ass.
lmfao ur just looking for literally any reason to judge her.
u ever think it could simply be a poor choice of words? but even then I dont think it is, anybody and everybody are synonymous with eachother and ur just nitpicking. give her a fighting chance lmfao
If you’re apologizing for something and you are unable/unwilling to clearly state what you’re apologizing for, it’s not an apology, it’s just manipulation.
(And I’m not counting the parts about her “indecency”, her making apologies over that is a joke-and a bad one at that)
*_I don’t follow her but… Actions speak louder. She can apologize all day. I give it about 7 months before something stirs up. Hopefully for her sake, she stays on this path & just does her thing in her corner of the internet._*
agreed, people need to stop jumping to conclusions and just let her prove whether shes changed or not
Until she apologizes to Rachel Oates and Jessi Smiles I won’t even START to believe her. She need to stay offline for real
If Gabbie had said she would be making direct apologies privately in addition to the public video, then MAYBE I could see this being more sincere. But she didn't so...
Exactly. Or if she had made the apologies privately before recording her video… how is it more important to make a video apologizing than to actually apologize to the people she hurt face to face?
This apology was so hard to watch. Big surprise, it ends very culty. It reminded me of Midsomner. Culty, praying, with sacrifice soon to come. I thought it was so insincere.
yeah religions usually target people like her and those types are most likely to fall into the extra culty parts of it
What she did to Rachel was so cruel, Gabbie honestly didn't apologize to anyone, apologies have to be specific. And let's not forget she was trash talking Rachel (calling her mean names and uncreative) at Oxford like a month ago?? She has absolutely not changed..
And Rachel confirmed that Gabbie did not privately reach out to her to apologize
@@cassynedelisky796wgis Rachel? What happened?
@@CreppycookiesRachel Oates is a content creator who did nothing more to Gabbie than reviewing her poetry books and Gabbie has since led her fans and friends to sending Rachel death threats, copious amounts of hate and general vitriol. Shes even recently called Rachel a loser, showing she has not changed at all
@@HyuneLuvBvg00 oh wow, smh at Gabbie for that
Not mentioning any names when there has been so many ppl directly affected by her and saying "if we had beef, we are fine don't worry" as if forgive and forget is one sided, make it seem like she's not being truthful at all. I hope she is and that she comes from an honest place, cuz most of the ppl like her use religion as a scapegoat 'cause they know how much esteem and respect the masses have for it.
gabbie always apologize every time she releases new music this is honestly the bare minimum for her since during her recent Oxford interview shows she didn’t really change and it was the same time around this year … so this doesn’t seem genuine to me
Thank you! She was just talking shit about Rachel less than a couple months ago and suddenly people want to act like she’s totally different the minute she apologized in the vaguest way possible?? I swear the internet has the worst memory. I understand wanting someone to get better and letting people show that they’re different now. However Gabbie is just onto her next excuse. It was ADHD a couple years ago and now she’s saying that she was a bad person because she didn’t have god in her life. Give me a break. She needs therapy. Sadly from her past, I doubt she would ever get help from a qualified therapist.
@@taylors445 exactly because they think she changed but it clear she still holding on to this grudge and she probably will be holding it onto until her grave
I was waiting for this video by Tea Spill so bad, just because I didn't want to watch her video 😆
It’s great that basically all the Tea Channels covering her apology are getting more views than Gabbie’s video. 😂
while it’s not our apology to accept, I still feel like she’s only apologizing because of her relationship with religion (idk if she’s Christian or catholic lol). I know that people tend to use religion (I know not everyone) as a scapegoat to make themselves seem that they are not a bad person anymore. At least in my perspective it just seems that she’s “apologizing” so that god can forgive her instead of her coming from a place of genuine sincerity. Just my thoughts lol.
(Also the fact she said she was an npc because she didn’t have god in her life sent me lmao)
Yea I’ve noticed it seemed like a therapy assignment so she herself can feel better, not taking actual accountability.
1) whole heartedly agree and 2) she was raised catholic, went non religious for a bit, now she's a christian
which i think is noteworthy bc one of the things christians don't practice that catholics do? Penance.
Catholics are christian
It's funny that she thinks she can trick god into forgiving her when she's clearly not actually sorry.
@@lauryntonio Catholics are the OG Christians. Its like saying "sunnis and muslims" when they're basically the same thing. And real christians do penance. Its just that Christians are represented by these evangelical pastors and threatrics, which is deplorable.
i left robert welsh's video for this 😭😭😭
I'm disappointed on robert's behalf
@@crxxa_xcx me too 🫡
Not a Robert Welsh video. Anything but that.
You better finish it after this. 😝
Looool I just finished it and then came here hahahahaha
If you don't named names you are not actually sorry. She also just talked about Rachel Oates on her Oxford interview. She didn't "named names" but it was pretty obvious it was about her and her critique of her poetry.
This is just a cop out imo... If she didn't talked directly with the people she wronged in the past and give her sincere apology. This is just a performance... Not very Christian of her 👀
Feels like a part of the 12 steps. Never sat right with me, more about absolving their own guilt, than actually about the people affected.
She didn’t name a single person and therefore apologized to basically no one. That whole video was just a self righteous ego jerk and using religion to excuse everything she’s ever done. She somehow hasn’t changed at all. If anything, she’s worse!
Am i the only one who thinks she only posted an "apology" because she's about to do a big rebrand and/or song release and this is just to being her more views?
That's how you know Gabbie isn't ready to take full accountability yet. What she did to Jessie Smiles was not "being difficult" or bad vibes, that was in the mud, disgusting behavior. Maybe she will, maybe she won't, but I 100% think Jessie should have been the first person Gabbie apologized to, Not the last.
It’s giving person who just found Jesus, but hasn’t been on the walk that long
She hasn’t changed, and I doubt she ever will. She didn’t apologize to the people who actually deserved them
At LEAST she’s apologising. Some people don’t at all and paint it out to seem like it never happened. Maybe she’s not mentioning names for making it seem it’s for clout or something. She’s already an extremely difficult person so an apology is a breakthrough. How I see it is she’s still showing some tiny growth. Her style of apologising shows how much pride had to be broken and still needs breaking. It’s a start. I wish I could’ve gotten even a generic apology from my abuser who had a stubborn difficult character.
exactly
the conclusions people are jumping to is insane to me, people need to learn to give people chances to prove whether they mean it or not.
@@thanatophobia6548”give people a chance” um…no it doesn’t work that way lol. She’s not entitled to a second chance. No one is!
if you’re not directly apologizing to the people you hurt, you don’t actually mean it. this is in no way a direct apology but i understand joey and trisha wanting to move past it. she absolutely needs to apologize to jessi directly and i don’t think we are ever going to see that. she has changed a little and we can all see that i think but it’s not nearly enough to be able to be called a changed/new person for sure :/
i dont trust a single influencer/celebrity who suddenly becomes a devoted christian as soon as they get outed for something or ran off the internet, some of the worst public figures rightfully get their names ruined and suddenly they've found god and are on a path of healing and redemption. It's a cheap and entitled way to use religion for moral points and her apology was garbo
Honestly the people forgiving her might just be more for them than for her. But it feels like half and not really taking accountability. She’s just grouping up a bunch of things she’d done and instead of listening what she did and truly apologizing she basically just went “Hey everyone I was an ass to sorry” like that doesn’t really mean anything
It wasn’t even an “apology”. She didn’t mention Jessi Smiles or Rachael Oates. She kept it vague DELIBERATELY, just so she could sweep what she’s done under the rug.
I think it’s very funny how she decided to take the religious grift route. When disgraced influencers want to rebrand they will either pick a political affiliation typically conservative and grift for them or they’ll choose a religious grift. The common theme is people easily manipulated and the normalization of a cult mindset.
This. And it's clear that's what she's trying to do. She wants to be the next Classically Abby or something with her newest talks about "modesty" and "let's bring back shame" and so on. Her whole apology video is her essentially cutting off her old image so she can rebrand and say "well I'm not that person anymore, I deleted all my old videos and apologized already!"
I mean I guess she is sorry , but at the same time she still doesn't want to take accountability so she is only doing this to get her views back
Sometimes, when making a public amends, you don’t announce the person’s name, because you would be again doing what you’re apologizing for. Trisha and Jessi are perfect examples of this.
I understand this but the fact that she doesn’t even mention that she was sorry for retraumatizing people or sorry that she harassed people for years, shows she’s not remorseful of it. She basically wants to throw out a bunch of vague apologies to make herself feel better or win back public support. If she genuinely felt sorry for what she did, there was a way she could apologize without saying Jessi or Rachel’s name in her video. Also just to make it clear, it’s pretty obvious she hasn’t reached out behind the scenes to apologize in private. This is clearly done for her public image and nothing else.
did she not say she needed to stay off of social media???
I believe she's decided that it would be selfish to deny the public the gift of her social media presence.
I wish I was joking.
I think we as an audience should not decide whether it was enough or not because the forgiveness only depends upon the people she hurt
It seems like everyone she’s apologize to vaguely are the people she’s worked with, RUclips, Collaborators, Producers, Agents, Directors, MTV. Everyone that has tried to personally help GABBY in her career and gets her money. It’s so important to have agents and be kind to the people you work with. Otherwise the company is going to drop you. You won’t get any more gigs, it’ll be hard to find a replacement agent and so on. However, she doesn’t seem to include this vague apology to friends and other RUclipsrs she’s created drama with. Idk what I’m trying to say but it seems narcissistic for her to apologize to the people who help her monetarily in her career versus the people she has truly spread drama with and gotten her fanbase to hate others.
Apology DENIED. I hope she goes away soon again and for good.
Also imo her "admissions" have nothing to do with accountability and all to do with her performative religious bonanza.
@@valmorghulis1355 I agree, I mean…mentioning god in her apology? That’s pretty fucking disgusting. As much as I want to believe she’s changed. I fucking doubt it.
I was never a fan but if she is happy and better, good for her, apologising takes guts even if it was generally speaking, time will tell if she really meant it or not.
I feel strange for saying this but maybe she didn't say anything to Jessi because Jessi said to never mention her ever again, so she's respecting that boundary Jessi set even if she's publically apologizing?
Honestly you might be right. I don't like Gabbie at all but this might be the case
Yeah suuuure🙄
@@maryamtara2934 I've been one of her biggest critics over the years, as in, I'm far from being a fan lol, I'm simply trying to give her the benefit of the doubt.
The summary of all the drama at the start just made me realize that I've been into internet drama for way too many years now. I FEEL SO OLD
Bruh, how do yall know she didn’t reach out in private, yall wanna act like yall know everything behind the scenes
The only way I think it’s forgivable to not directly mention names is if she individually apologized to these people in private. I think it’s pretty clear she didn’t do that, since both Joey mentioned texting her after seeing the video and Trisha didn’t even know there was an apology directed at her because she didn’t watch the whole video. This whole thing just screams insincerity to me. Vaguely mentioning people in a public video isn’t an apology. It’s just a cry for attention. The people she has hurt deserve better.
I say this as someone who never interacted with her content prior to her manic tik toks: honesty am just relieved to see she's alive- I remember watching her tik toks and being so concerned for her. I dont thin people realize how badly that could have ended and also how viewers contributed to harm toward her by making scathing videos on her character while she was actively manic. People enjoyed her suffering I think, it became like. a circus. I'm so glad she was able to get help. I hope she is able to apologize to Jessie because Jessie is well deserving of one- I also wonder if maybe there is some sort of NDA or cease and desist with Jesse that she can't mention or even allude to.
No she and Jessi never signed anything because Gabbie was basically blackmailing Jessi into signing an NDA but refusing to sign one as well. Jessi said that she would sign an NDA if they both did. Gabbie said that she needed to be able to address the subject in interviews for some reason and that she would not sign one. Gabbie kept threatening to talk about Jessi’s SA if she didn’t sign the NDA Gabbie wanted her too. Honestly there’s a ton of stuff that happened that’s too long to comment but there’s nothing legal keeping Gabbie from talking about Jessi. I also am glad Gabbie is not manic anymore but I don’t think that it should excuse all her bad behavior that happened before she had a public mental health crisis. Just because she has mental health issues, doesn’t mean she should be able to sweep under the rug all her horrible behavior that happened before her manic episode.
Was waiting for a tea spill video 🙏🙏
One thing that makes me so annoyed when people say she hasn’t apologized to Jessi, is that Jessi doesn’t want an apology. Jessi wants gabbi to never mention her again. That is what Jessi wants so gabbi not saying anything actually is respectful to Jessi.
If someone is really sorry they keep it private and don’t force the whole world to know. Gabbie has said so many racist and problematic statements over the years and is most likely apologizing for her religion because as we have seen she’s slowly become very religious. Like do what you want girl but if you want people to believe you do it for yourself and not for others to witness
Not apologising privately first nor doing it addressing the person directly doesn't count as an apology to me but as a very good PR move.
Personally I think it’s a step in the right direction. I hope that she reaches out to people in private to apologize as well.
I thought Jessi smiles wants Gabbie to leave her alone and not speak of her tho. Epecially publicly. If she made a public apology, wouldn't that be the exact opposite of what Jessi specifically asked for and be disrespectful?
An apology isn't an apology if you have to phrase it "I'm sorry if you felt that way".
I feel like the “apologies” were something for her to feel better about, not so much about being genuinely apologetic for what she did to others.
I feel sorry for those who accepted this sad attempt of an apology.
To the people saying Gabby needs to apologise to Jessi. Jessi doesnt want an apology; from what I can tell Jessi doesn't want Gabby to talk about or to her. Also I watch Jessi's podcast and on the very rare occasions that they refer to the "Gabby" drama Jessi never says Gabby's name and they only refer to the Gabby Drama as "the situation." Its nice that people want justice for what Jessi was put through, but I think we should consider the idea that maybe Jessi doesn't want justice; maybe she just wants to be left alone and leave the past in the past.
She's not obligated to mention anyone by name, if she did that, that video would have been A LOT longer and she was trying to get to the point. No one has to accept her apologies, that's not the point of apologizing.
I'm happy for her, the people waiting for an apology are probably holding their breath
The woman just needs to delete everything and just stay off-line
They could never make me like you Gabbie
I think she should've done both vague and direct, especially towards the people she previously had beef with so they know she's talking to them. It's always a sincere apology when you make sure you're addressing the situation you were involved in with someone
How is it so easy for her to make direct apologies to RUclips and MTV and name them directly while individuals that have been hurt don’t get a direct apology? It just comes off as wanting to look good to try to get in good graces to be able to get more opportunities and not to truly make amends.
how fascinating that the only actual specific entities she made direct apologies to are things that could potentially make her more money: youtube, mtv, and her fans
"I'm sorry I was a terrible person and thought I could go about making people hurt how ever I felt entitled to do and for throwing a tantrum when being held accountable. I'm sorry my own actions fucked my career"
There fixed it for her
Yet she won’t apologize to Rachel
The only thing I like about all of this is that her “apology” video has less views than responses from Rachel Oates or videos talking about the matter. She doesn’t have the reach anymore and I love to see it ✨✨
I mean maybe she felt she needed to apologize, but there were so many people to apologize to, that this was the best she could come up with.
She also could get called out for using people's names as clout just so she could get views. I think it's great she wants to apologize in the first place.
It’s sounds like the steps of a 12 step program. Whatever it is, I hope she stays well and healthy ❤
I feel bad that she says she didn’t deserve those opportunities. It makes me think that there’s still a lot of work for her to do. She did deserve it, it’s her reaction that was the issue. It’s like not taking accountability but also says so much on self esteem.
I don’t know I feel like there was more deserving people who aren’t as racist
I hate when people who’ve done terrible things and have a terrible attitude towards people use “finding god” as a way to excuse all that bad behavior. It’s not and won’t work for me. So glad she finally got help but she simply needs to stop being an internet persona.
She doesn’t owe the internet personal apologies. The internet is so toxic, and especially when it comes to making mistakes. How she’s feeling convicted is her journey. If she feels like reaching out to people personally, then that’s none of our business and it’s absolutely a ridiculous overreach to think she owes us (the audience) that.
Tbh Jessie probably didn't want any apology or communication at all and I really wish other people would respect that. She had said multiple times she wants nothing more to be said about the whole situation and it's dead
The people I felt she absolutely owed an apology to, Rachel Oates and Jessi Smiles, were not given one AT ALL in that video. So no, I don’t believe anything she says to be sincere and she is still an unchanged awful human being.
Didn’t even finish the video yet, but it’s about time 🙄
Listening to her apology video there’s this drizzle of narcissism in there. She should be very direct work who shoes apologizing to since she decided to make it public
Probably out of topic but I miss your intros in the initial days "Exposed EXOPOSED exposed........Y-O-U A-R-E Exposed !"
Do people not realize the "manic" episode was fake asf the guy was obviously an actor who couldn't act to save his life.
I’m echoing what most people have been saying: most of it was very vague, nothing on the Jessi situation plus the whole cult-y Jesus flavor of it all… look, I’m not knocking all Christians. I was raised catholic myself and would still consider myself at least culturally Christian, but some people (like Gabbie) take it into this cultish direction that doesn’t sit right with me. She’s like “Jesus forgives me, so that’s that. I’m holy now.”
I feel like this whole thing was more for her than for anyone she “apologized” to.
Bruh why are people supporting people like her…great she’s happy and healthy doesn’t make her a good person.
I’m not defending Gabbie, I’m genuinely curious, why does she need to publicly apologise to Jessie Smiles? If she apologises privately then that’s all that matters surely?
I think, and maybe I'm wrong, but I think if she had done it privately, Jessi may say that Gabbie apologised and she feels much better but won't be speaking about it in depth. I'm not saying Gabbi has or hasn't changed, but owning your bad decisions and mistakes publicly isn't easy and I think with her growing religiously, she will eventually be able to do it privately, it's just a long process (if she's genuinely changing)
she's brave enough to do that whole series bashing people and naming names but now when it comes to an apology using the people she's hurt names is just too hard ? i am not buying it
i feel she could do the direct apoligeis in person would mean so much more
I'll believe it when I SEE it. We need to start holding these people more accountable. All of a sudden she's religious and she's good now? NOPE.
I kinda feel like the you owe me an apology part is for Rachel and Jessi. I don’t feel like she feels in the wrong there
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By not naming anyone she made her apology about her. It just doesn't sound like she's sorry about how she affected those people but that she's embarrassed she acted that way.
I think if I never heard about GH ever again, it would be too soon.
She didn't apologize to everyone, she didn't apologize to anyone specifically. This is just to make herself feel better for her shitty behavior.
She can point at this and say "look what a good person I am, taking accountability and apologizing for all my past misdeeds" when in reality it doesn't do any of that.
oh my god- yall are SO INSUFFERABLE. she apologized. how do yall know she didn’t directly reach out to each? yall always have a problem with literally anything- god forbid she didn’t mention names. yall need to stop worrying about literally everyone else.
THANK YOU. Like, what do people want her to do, I'm confused? Especially when it's not their place to accept or not accept this apologize.
im sorry to everyone i have ever met
Yeah I can’t believe she apologized to anything and everything possible other than jessi wtf
I feel like she may just have a lot of fear when it comes to calling out people, even if she is apologizing. Private apologies should be private so if she does apologize to people directly we may never hear about it.
She’s taking baby steps, but hey…she’s making steps non the less
It’s funny how many people are easily manipulated by good PR moves
If they gossip WITH you, they'll gossip ABOUT you!!!
Until she personally, genuinely apologizes to Jessi, I won’t believe anything about her personality has changed
If it wasn't about you..... it wasn't about you.
idgaf if gabby is better. i will never forget the jessie smiles situation.
Personally I do think she’s trying to close a chapter and open a new one. I haven’t heard about her since she went offline. Didn’t even know she was religious but seriously these ‘dramas’ happened years ago and she might not want to name names for the fact that she doesn’t want anyone saying they forgive her. She might not feel like she needs that. I’m proud of her for even doing this much coming from where she was at years ago. It’s a big step to improve. She wants to move on with her life and if she felt she had to put this out to move on good for her. Gosh.
Apologizing for your fuckups is like the LEAST you can do lmao. Let’s not reward the bare minimum
@ she’s a person who is online she doesn’t even talk to these people anymore so a apology is the most she can do without being creepy and weird. Give credit where credit is due. Going through her socials now she is a more matured person. And that is what matters. Sorry but the expectations that I see is ‘doing more’ than that after literally YEARS and just showing up to apologize can and does come off the wrong way to meany people. As creepy and such. The people she did not name are from years ago. And personally it’s like saying an addict can’t recover. Anybody and everyone can change. And if we always say ‘this isn’t enough’ how are they supposed to keep going on the right track. That is not the bare minimum the bare minimum would be not changing and faking an apology. Please take another look at what the bare minimum could be in this situation.
She needs to stay off the internet. Sincerely.
something to point out here is a month before she posted this she was shit talking rachel at an oxford lecture she spoke at, calling her a loser whose opinion is irrelevant
I’m not buying it either if she wanted to make a genuine apology to the people that she has offended and hurt. She would have came with the purest intentions. And she would have reached out privately to discuss the situation. I think that she is doing this for herself. because if she is going to apologize it should be louder than her disrespect.
Here’s the thing, it’s understandable if you’re non confrontational. Maybe you can do it off line and apologize while stating the exact hurtful actions to at least have some genuity be acknowledged and understood. These vague apologies aren’t the best and they might be done out of good intentions, but considering the people hurt in the process, it doesn’t feel like it’s good enough
I'm surprised Tea Spill hasn't done a video on Nikacado
Literally every single „dramatical“ influencer that had their downfall later comes forward saying they‘re a different person now because they „found god“ 💀
I think in the case of Trisha, MAYBE Gabbie didn’t address the problem specifically so as to not mention it on the internet again? I mean, I forgot about the whole herpes accusation. So perhaps she wanted to keep it that way?