Such an important topic!!! Thank you, Tammy, for doing more interviews on this. I would love for Dr Peterson to cover this also since the majority of his audience is male. In my opinion- porn is in the top three problems in the world today. Porn kills relationships!! The family is falling apart.
@@joane24100% becoming a women problem. Many of my friends are addicted and I was addicted starting at the age of 10-for almost 10 yrs I struggled. Free because of Jesus but definitely still a temptation despite coming from a Christian home w loving parents. Porn kills love!
So many horrible addictions - only one good addiction: To Jesus & Mary. Run to Them when you're scared, lonely, rejected, angry, in despair. Turn to Them when you're happy, joyful, content, peaceful. At all times be near to Them and never ever leave Them ❤❤❤
Religion is another addiction. And don't tell me Christianity is "a relationship,". It just replaces the dopamine from p*RN to dopamine from "religious experience." I've been there so please don't debate this! Get a real hobby, join a gym, play an instrument.
She is slovak like me. Slovak article with title: "Most kids dont look for porn content for sexual reasons, but for feeling of lonelines, lack of love, stress, boredom"
Well first part of this is my life. My hubby has been doing this for decades. I know that horrible lonely feeling. There are no words to describe my pain.
please please please Tammy, could you do an episode about the important and challenging time is a woman’s life : menopause? There is such a major push recently with “ influencers “ to take hrt. What is your opinion about it? Thank you.
Great and needed conversation. Absolutely critical to minimize screens. I did hear a couple of red flags: Showing your body for "art" and " beauty " is still wrong. Your body, post fall, is to be displayed for a spouse, parents/children in non sexual ways, and a physician. Only. If you say to your children, "We can get naked fir strangers for this 'good ' purpose, but not that 'bad' purpose." It's not gonna fly. Yound adults sniff out double standards, hypocrisy, and loopholes. Also, holding up Dave Rubins abstaining from the phone is great in theory, but when you've adopted children into a gay union, they have no chance of having a healthy view of gender, sex, or marriage.
Dear Mrs. Peterson, I hope so much that you feel much better and are well enough to be back on the road with Dr. Peterson once again. God willing, I will see you both a week from today and I can give you my love in person! With Ruth Anne’s love
Porn basically causes hypnosis, almost like lucid dreaming...goes deep into the brain. That book called The Porn Guru by Harper Daniels was insightful and had tips for stopping it.
Now was also a title in czech language few months ago...that men are very slowly and inconspicuously castrated. by some hormones in water, or somewhere. i didnt watch the videos. But some people ôlive happily and do hobbies thye loev go to nature etc. Feminism can not be behind everything the media, corporations and television is not just about feminism, but materialism etc.
Experience is no longer the main aspects that shapes sexuality; it is now a diet of pornography from a very early age is shaping sexuality. What is very strange is how pornography that has always been scene as exploitation of woman is so accepted by feminism and even promoted by feminism.
I call BS about sex "only" within marriage. A committed relationship, sure. Some of us no longer believe in the institution of marriage. Other than that, great talk.
Sam Vaknin also said in video about this things. He said therefore women are dressing a bit provocativelly, because they are competing with these "movies" , to attract men. It should be other wise. Men should tell women that they like them for being themselves.
We're basically in a TMI exhibitionist/ voyeur society. Men looking and women competing to be looked at. Or whatever aberrant s3xual attraction a person has cultivated.
A lot of famous football players are addicted to porn. I would say parents should speak to their kids when young and tell them to avoid this because it changes the brain and they won’t forget the images etc
After listening so people talking about porn it seems like the porn users like the idea of porn at the moment, but they dont realize that "creating a momentum" is impossible because its destructive from psychological point of view. the want it in the moment, but they dont want to create amomentum of it..... like some relationship with porn because its fake. Its like eating a some sugar cakes once a month is ok, but if you create momentum of eating it every day, its not satisfaction from psychological point of view. its not the same happy feeling if you eat the cakes every day.
The addiction to addiction is addiction to the self, you know that. There you always are. Any way to break away from that? Possibly. Can we begin to accept reality is relational? That I'm not alone, at all? That you're always there, too? Maybe. Jesus does. Thanks, TMP.
While I do appreciate this talk on this subject, I think what's being said is way off, specifically because it completely leaves out non hetero culture and its affects on everyone. And I think the result is going to be a lot of guys not taking what's said here, seriously. Allow me to give an example: Your a straight guy in 8th grade. What you normally see in your week in life is: 1) Videos of singer Billie Ellish sexualizing herself softcore style to her non hetero female audience. (she encourages girls to watch xxx) 2) Video of singer Jojo Siwa sexualizing herself softcore style to her non hetero female audience. (she encourages girls to watch xxx) 3) Hears and sees news clips of non hetero men sexualizing themselves, and even performing softcore at pride parades. 4) Hearing their non hetero male and female friends talk about how often the watch xxx media, and hook up in real life. 5) See YT vids and read articles of society encouraging women to watch xxx media, and even get into OF. When a guy experiences all of this, then stumbles across this podcast targeting hetero men as people who should not watch xxx media, while also not acknowledging any of this. Guys like this are going to say you're out of touch, and go do what everyone else is socially allowed to do...watch xxx media.
@@RCGWho Overall what I'm saying is, presenting the idea that it's bad for hetero men to watch xxx media, while society praises hetero women, and men and women of all other sexualities to watch it, and even praise them for becoming an xxx creator, doesn't make sense. Since that doesn't make sense, hetero men who watch xxx media aren't going to stop. They're not even going to listen unless they see everyone else being held to the same standard that's being told to hetero men.
Nudity is cheap. Intimacy in the social media age? You're dating their followers too. I don't get how this cheap motivator hasn't been used to communicate across the fissured lines between sexes (or maybe it has). Ads use skin, but good messages we want to communicate don't. Porn puts men in a unique position pick/reject women they see, and women to not be in control. Men and women are equal now except for genitals (and even then...) so why bother asking someone to borrow theirs if you have a free alternative. They assume their partner would be thinking of celebrities anyway. Plenty of music is pornographic, but we don't discuss how music affects youth, because we're aware taboo is part of the fun and that we'd still need music. How hard would it be to hijack the industry? Instead of WAP, make it BBP, Baby-Bearing P... Sex is the antidote to ADD
Not true. After marriage they do often slow way down. But all kids are curious and want to do the trendy thing. Plus pervy crap makes you pervy in ways you wouldn't naturally be. It's like virtual viagra. I firmly believe p0rn also has a spiritual component. A form of possession.
Isn't is a shame, Livia, that all the other people in The World do not listen to you and do what you tell them all and believe the same narrow-minded opinion as yours. That must really be hard to cope with for you.
Such an important topic!!! Thank you, Tammy, for doing more interviews on this. I would love for Dr Peterson to cover this also since the majority of his audience is male. In my opinion- porn is in the top three problems in the world today. Porn kills relationships!! The family is falling apart.
Kills the relationships and destroys the souls of young men (although more and more young women a well).
@@joane24100% becoming a women problem. Many of my friends are addicted and I was addicted starting at the age of 10-for almost 10 yrs I struggled. Free because of Jesus but definitely still a temptation despite coming from a Christian home w loving parents. Porn kills love!
Very informative yet graceful talk, thank you ladies for speaking on this subject
Thank you for these wonderful conversations, Tammy. Thank you ever so much!
So many horrible addictions - only one good addiction: To Jesus & Mary. Run to Them when you're scared, lonely, rejected, angry, in despair. Turn to Them when you're happy, joyful, content, peaceful. At all times be near to Them and never ever leave Them ❤❤❤
Mary is not an appropriate addiction.
Religion is another addiction. And don't tell me Christianity is "a relationship,". It just replaces the dopamine from p*RN to dopamine from "religious experience."
I've been there so please don't debate this!
Get a real hobby, join a gym, play an instrument.
@@RCGWhoneither is Jesus. Or any sky daddy.
She is slovak like me.
Slovak article with title: "Most kids dont look for porn content for sexual reasons, but for feeling of lonelines, lack of love, stress, boredom"
It's also trendy, readily available, and kids are curious. They don't realize it's a snare.
Well first part of this is my life. My hubby has been doing this for decades.
I know that horrible lonely feeling. There are no words to describe my pain.
please please please Tammy, could you do an episode about the important and challenging time is a woman’s life : menopause? There is such a major push recently with “ influencers “ to take hrt. What is your opinion about it? Thank you.
Great and needed conversation. Absolutely critical to minimize screens. I did hear a couple of red flags:
Showing your body for "art" and " beauty " is still wrong. Your body, post fall, is to be displayed for a spouse, parents/children in non sexual ways, and a physician. Only. If you say to your children, "We can get naked fir strangers for this 'good ' purpose, but not that 'bad' purpose." It's not gonna fly. Yound adults sniff out double standards, hypocrisy, and loopholes.
Also, holding up Dave Rubins abstaining from the phone is great in theory, but when you've adopted children into a gay union, they have no chance of having a healthy view of gender, sex, or marriage.
Dear Mrs. Peterson, I hope so much that you feel much better and are well enough to be back on the road with Dr. Peterson once again. God willing, I will see you both a week from today and I can give you my love in person!
With Ruth Anne’s love
Thanks you. I am feeling better. Thank the Lord. See you soon
@@TammyPetersonPodcast so thankful to hear this! Praise the Lord. See you soon.
Porn basically causes hypnosis, almost like lucid dreaming...goes deep into the brain. That book called The Porn Guru by Harper Daniels was insightful and had tips for stopping it.
Now was also a title in czech language few months ago...that men are very slowly and inconspicuously castrated.
by some hormones in water, or somewhere. i didnt watch the videos. But some people ôlive happily and do hobbies thye loev go to nature etc.
Feminism can not be behind everything
the media, corporations and television is not just about feminism, but materialism etc.
Exactly. I want better for my son than the understanding of men my age (Gen Y), who are ruined by porn.
Experience is no longer the main aspects that shapes sexuality; it is now a diet of pornography from a very early age is shaping sexuality. What is very strange is how pornography that has always been scene as exploitation of woman is so accepted by feminism and even promoted by feminism.
porn isn't an exploitation of women. It's an exploitation of the men who are willing to pay for it.
@@bostonteapartycrasherHow is selling your very body and soul not exploitation of women?
Thank you Mrs. Peterson, love from bc
Thank you for this.
I call BS about sex "only" within marriage. A committed relationship, sure. Some of us no longer believe in the institution of marriage.
Other than that, great talk.
Sam Vaknin also said in video about this things.
He said therefore women are dressing a bit provocativelly, because they are competing with these "movies" ,
to attract men.
It should be other wise. Men should tell women that they like them for being themselves.
We're basically in a TMI exhibitionist/ voyeur society. Men looking and women competing to be looked at. Or whatever aberrant s3xual attraction a person has cultivated.
Give children and youth something to strive for (sport, art, science). Idleness is the beginning of all vice.
A lot of famous football players are addicted to porn. I would say parents should speak to their kids when young and tell them to avoid this because it changes the brain and they won’t forget the images etc
After listening so people talking about porn
it seems like the porn users like the idea of porn at the moment,
but they dont realize that "creating a momentum" is impossible
because its destructive from psychological point of view.
the want it in the moment, but they dont want to create amomentum of it..... like some relationship with porn
because its fake.
Its like eating a some sugar cakes once a month is ok,
but if you create momentum of eating it every day, its not satisfaction from psychological point of view.
its not the same happy feeling if you eat the cakes every day.
It's Horrible stuff. I try to stay away from it. It's very difficult.
The addiction to addiction is addiction to the self, you know that. There you always are. Any way to break away from that? Possibly. Can we begin to accept reality is relational? That I'm not alone, at all? That you're always there, too? Maybe. Jesus does. Thanks, TMP.
Good and evil mixed is evil dressed as love before love can be able by itself at Baby L on ward.
Porn does not show enough of the whole person.
It shows just a snap shot.
A demonic, aberrant snapshot.
While I do appreciate this talk on this subject, I think what's being said is way off, specifically because it completely leaves out non hetero culture and its affects on everyone. And I think the result is going to be a lot of guys not taking what's said here, seriously. Allow me to give an example:
Your a straight guy in 8th grade. What you normally see in your week in life is:
1) Videos of singer Billie Ellish sexualizing herself softcore style to her non hetero female audience. (she encourages girls to watch xxx)
2) Video of singer Jojo Siwa sexualizing herself softcore style to her non hetero female audience. (she encourages girls to watch xxx)
3) Hears and sees news clips of non hetero men sexualizing themselves, and even performing softcore at pride parades.
4) Hearing their non hetero male and female friends talk about how often the watch xxx media, and hook up in real life.
5) See YT vids and read articles of society encouraging women to watch xxx media, and even get into OF.
When a guy experiences all of this, then stumbles across this podcast targeting hetero men as people who should not watch xxx media, while also not acknowledging any of this. Guys like this are going to say you're out of touch, and go do what everyone else is socially allowed to do...watch xxx media.
Well, there's a lot of push to see and be non hetero. Plus toktok. Plus trashy music.
But can you clarify what you're saying?
@@RCGWho Overall what I'm saying is, presenting the idea that it's bad for hetero men to watch xxx media, while society praises hetero women, and men and women of all other sexualities to watch it, and even praise them for becoming an xxx creator, doesn't make sense. Since that doesn't make sense, hetero men who watch xxx media aren't going to stop.
They're not even going to listen unless they see everyone else being held to the same standard that's being told to hetero men.
Nudity is cheap. Intimacy in the social media age? You're dating their followers too. I don't get how this cheap motivator hasn't been used to communicate across the fissured lines between sexes (or maybe it has). Ads use skin, but good messages we want to communicate don't. Porn puts men in a unique position pick/reject women they see, and women to not be in control. Men and women are equal now except for genitals (and even then...) so why bother asking someone to borrow theirs if you have a free alternative. They assume their partner would be thinking of celebrities anyway. Plenty of music is pornographic, but we don't discuss how music affects youth, because we're aware taboo is part of the fun and that we'd still need music.
How hard would it be to hijack the industry? Instead of WAP, make it BBP, Baby-Bearing P...
Sex is the antidote to ADD
Welp. I just ruined my life looking up CardiB.
How does porn impact 'youth' when only men have a sex drive?
Women have a very high sex drive when men aren’t lazy as a result of porn and have to actually learn to be skilled at pleasing them.
Not true. After marriage they do often slow way down.
But all kids are curious and want to do the trendy thing.
Plus pervy crap makes you pervy in ways you wouldn't naturally be. It's like virtual viagra. I firmly believe p0rn also has a spiritual component. A form of possession.
Isn't is a shame, Livia, that all the other people in The World do not listen to you and do what you tell them all and believe the same narrow-minded opinion as yours. That must really be hard to cope with for you.