Is Your Dream Dead or Buried Alive? Breakthroughs For Black Women
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- Is Your Dream Dead or Buried Alive? Breakthroughs For Black Women | Have you given up on the desires of your heart like having a family, or marriage or being an artist or an entrepreneur? Was it too soon to quit? Is that dream really dead or is it just deferred? I have 3 questions to ask if you want to know. And some homework to help you get unstuck. 📌 RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS VIDEO:
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Went back and saw the podcast. Brought me to tears that at 59 I can realize "zombie dreams" 😂 About to get my undergrad degree and looking to grad schools outside the US to begin my travel dreams
Wonderful, Winnie! 🙌🏿 Which countries are you looking at for grad school? I interviewed a woman who said Croatia, Spain and Germany had super affordable masters programs taught in English.
@@StephaniePerry Germany and Scotland were the primaries but I'm open.
Omg im so happy to stumble upon this. I need to get back in school. Thank you for bringing this to light.
I am 47 & still hopeful that by the GRACE OF GOD, I will have my Healthy Biological children 🙏🏾!
My dream is to have that ‘living my best life glow’ that Stephanie has in every video😊
✨ ✨ ✨
Me too!
Me three😁
Me too🌈🌈🌈🌈😇😇😇
Dance, art, travel, rest, and feeling comfortable in myself. Those are my dreams ❤️
OMG! Stephanie. I turned 67 years old August 14th. I realized I haven’t lived my dream. I’ve lived my life (3) husbands (3) adult children and now I’m living on disability.
I want to live abroad but I thought I am too old. I’m currently living with my 31 year old son. He just mentioned that when the least ends in January 2023 that he was going to move into a (1) bedroom that did not include me.
I have (5) months to find a new place to live.
I’ve been watching your videos on house sitting but I thought I was too old. I don’t have enough money.
My dream is to live in Mexico 🇲🇽. I would like to be a house sitter. I would like to live in a community of black people for support. Thank you for sharing and caring. I’ve made so many mistakes. I just don’t want to waste the remaining years of my live just exhausting.
I'm embarrassed to share this, but I have never been in a LTR and I recently turned 43! Before you posted this video, I told myself that I will just have to accept that the Lord does not want me to be partnered up or else I would be. I even thought that it might be too hard trying to live with a husband because I always heard people say you get set in your ways once you get older. I know one thing is for sure, I'm not settling!
Never substitute anyone else's truth for your own. You can have whatever you want. Trust and believe and you will achieve!! 😄♥😃❤😆
Candace, I think you can have the desires of your heart. No need to settle. Also, it's not embarrassing to have not had a long term relationship yet. It's actually proof that you haven't settled and aren't willing to be degraded / mistreated just to look like you have what you want. 💗
@@StephaniePerry Thanks Stephanie! ❤
I applaud you for not settling, Candice! You are worthy, we all are. I have felt the same about partnership in the past few years and this video has reminded me that it's okay to hold on to my dreams of life partnership.
@@kellimccallum7595 Thank you! You are worthy! 😊
Unfortunately, this society has made women feel as though "romantic love," a husband, and children should be the height of our aspirations; that we shouldn't want more... Or just different. When we do, they want us to feel that somehow we are lacking as women. We are socialized to believe we have to have a man to be whole; not that we are already whole... The Creator made us whole.
And whose to say, "romantic love" may not to come until you're 50! Mine came at 37, and it's better than those I know who found it 24. 🤗
I don't mean to say that all women prioritize romantic love. I just mean that I don't want to pretend like I don't want it at all.
I'm glad love has been good to you. 🤗
@Stephanie Perry However, I will admit, being married (no children) can cause you to temporarily shift your focus. Dreams merge... Or perhaps they don't. Not to make excuses, but "if I knew then what I know now," I would have pursued my dreams a little harder. If only there had been computers, cellphones, and broader career choices... Things are very different than they were, even just 30 years ago.
Girl, I am 65 and have never met my soulmate, but as long as I'm breathing it's never too late!
Dreams deferred…dreams of a true love match to ride through the remaining years (I’m leaning hard towards 62), dreams of being a full time artist (working on that…at least I’ve started back making artwork after totally slumping for about 5 years), and living in a place in the hills, surrounded by nature but within 30 minutes of civilization (with reliable wifi for digital nomad work in my side hustle editing - just getting started with that!)… oh, I have a lot of deferred but not dead dreams….on hold since I’m the primary caregiver for my elderly mom, who has dementia….but now is planning time… saving, saving, researching…great escape target date: 2025.
Hello, I'm 42 and my dream is to have a carefree life reading books I love and napping when I feel like it. I work so hard and take care of others, but no one takes care of me.
Yes! I would like that too! 📚🏖🏞
I love reading books too. Have you ever considered writing your own? Write a short story and build on it. During college a young lady my daughter's age refreshed the writing spirit in me when she read my part of a group project.
Fumi Duselivold had a baby at 49. The dream is not lost. Praying healthy children on you
Stephanie, you and Adalia and Shida have awakened so many dormant dreams a lot of women in this community, for sure
I get excited when other people accomplished what I want to do. It confirms to me that I can do it too if I put the effort behind it. No envy ever from me.
My dream?
I’m going to be an author in the not so distant future and finish writing my book. 😀. And travel, of course.
Yes Agnes!! 💗
Stephanie, you've helped me realize that I AM living my dream. After years of being an overachieving, type A alpha-female determined to climb the corporate ladder, I left the rat race to focus on building my real estate portfolio. Corporate America was never my destiny. Took me years to realize that and the grinding got old. My dream is to have a passive income and "own" my time. The work ahead of me is intangible: expressing gratitude for my accomplishments, keeping my heart open to allow more blessings to flow thru me and sharing with others. This will lead me to my new path..
Owning our time is where it's at!! 😃👍❤
Lilliebell. Really enjoyed this. As a retired lady, I dug up my dream of traveling and exploring the world. I really didn’t know it was doable until I tuned into your channel. Thank you.
Whew 😅 ty for this exhortation! 3 buried alive dreams: a fit, pain free body that I can dance in; a committed, safe symbiotic lover, go on tour to in various bookstores reading my words and sharing my love of language with fellow humans. My mind is percolating… off to explore the breakthrough playlist. THX 🙏
My dream/prayer is to start a RUclips channel, write a self help book, and run retreats for women who want to learn to intermingle therapeutic intervention with the Word of God to address severe anxiety. Thank you for providing this safe space for me to voice my intention publicly for the first time.
This is all in alignment. I'm in Colombia and a guy asked me was I married or have kids. I told him no and he revived my dream by saying maybe because its not supposed to happen in the US...it could possible happen here in Colombia. Thank You. I want a family and two residential homes in two different countries.
WoW I could have written this, that's my sign 🙏🏾 May our dreams come true 🙏🏾 I wanted 2 homes, one in Europe and one in East Africa but ever since I got to Colombia I felt like having a home base here as well! So 3 homes :)
I can relate to the comment. My career dreams were destroyed by disappointment and obstacles. Life ran me down in the last 5 years. Thank you for this video. Gives a new perspective.
A few days ago I told my Mom that due to a new beginning in both of our lives that my dream of wanting to join the peace corp resurfaced. I haven’t thought about joining the peace corp in YEARS but it came back to the forefront of my mind like,”Hey. Remember me?” Just as you said. I’m not sure if it’s something I wanna rush right into pursuing but it gives me something to think about.
I spent a good part of my 40s coming to a place of peace for my old dreams to birth new things. There is no jealousy or regret. I am living my best life today.
Hello Stephanie ❤️ my Dream is arriving in Costa Rica or Belize on the Beach saying to Myself I am here 👍 I know that sounds so small. I believe in myself that this will happen. I have to take those steps first 😂. Thanks so much for sharing.
What dream are you digging up? 💗
My dreams are just wanting to live life the way I see fit
This was a needed message
To be able to do the things that I want to do not just work all the time warner family
So many. Thank you for always thinking about us! 🙏🏾
I have wanted to write.
I absolutely love this!! Dreams…open a yarn store, begin a RUclips channel for black women knitters, spend summers abroad 🥰
Really enjoyed the interview you did with Adalia. I love the energy of knowing we can do whatever we want in our lives. It’s never too late. ♥️✨
Yes Shareece! It's never too late. 💗
I knew early on children were not for me. I never wanted that level of responsibility. My friends and family members who became mothers wanted it. I was always grateful I had the option to choose my own path. You will make a wonderful mother because it's something you sincerely want.
Hello Stephanie 💚I truly wish for your dreams to come true…
The same for myself but the honest truth for me is justice, while living my best life in California.💞
Thank you Alisa. 💗
With the way the economy is it makes you feel as if you can’t live out your dream. I have two daughters. 15 and 10 and I would love to go back to working from home. But work that doesn’t have a sat schedule. So that we can travel. I trying to figure it all out. Thank you for the encouragement. We all need to be reassured at times.
wow sisi you preached to the whole choir of us this morning --thanks and appreciation for making me feel sane about my dreams; stay blessed
Hi Bernice here.
I went back to school for interior design at the age of 47 or 48. I graduated and now, I started a business, but it’s not been easy. I want to move abroad so I’m trying to make this an online business for the most part. I get some guidance from my girls but they are young and think it’s easy to do. 😡 Mom get a RUclips Channel, do this on IG, post on FB. 😳🙄😵💫
Im always trying to do some type of post but boy is it a lot of work.
I think I’ve lived some of my dreams but interior design was a big one for me. It’s been a dream since I was about 8.
Do you have to have a degree to do interior design in Mexico, or Costa Rica? How about Africa in Nigeria, Ghana, or Gambia? These are my questions that I will be researching next. My dream as a child was to travel around the world and find art, decorations, accessories to sell or to put into my clients homes. I told my dad this when I was 10. Maybe it’s going to happen but in a different way. 🙂
Resurrecting my dreams right now 😊 thank you for this message
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I loved Hoda's story about becoming a mom at 50. She's so glad she did.
My dream?
Walking on various sugary, white sand beaches, sipping 🍹 margaritas, wearing a white bikini 👙.
Eating authentic Mexican foods and carribbean foods.
Airbnb in a high rise in S. Africa.
Having Lobster 🦞 and wine on a warf in S. Africa. Working as a freelance writer.
I have a beautiful son, former marine who is married and expecting a baby in three months with his wife, I'll come back and visit
Relationship? Sure, race doesn't matter. My son is half German. But travel is more important to me right now. ✅️
You go girl that's what I'm talking about black woman white bikini sipping drinks on the beach
@@cretiamoore7788 we all deserve that and more sis 💙 💜 let's get it!
This is very timely for me. You’re helping me realize I need to dig out my dreams.
Get your shovel Binbin. 💗
Hey Stephanie! This is a great topic. I’m 46 and wanted kids too. It doesn’t feel like an option for me now that peri-menopause has crept in, lol. I’m not sure if it’s a dream that died, but I have certainly had to arrive at acceptance that I won’t have biological kids. I’ma still be financially independent and travel though.
If motherhood is your dream have you considered adoption or other ways to keep your dream alive even if it isn't through biological children?
But you can adopt. Perhaps you can consider that.
@@AngelaRochelle I have considered adoption. I prefer to raise children with an active partner and good support system. I don't have either of those around me at the moment to feel comfortable raise a child. I'd venture to say that most women that want children and don't have them have considered all the paths to motherhood. Sometimes it doesn't pan out and I'm learning to be ok with that.
@@lornawilliams2384 I've considered that. It's not the right choice for me at this time. Thanks.
I was just discussing this in my live on Saturday night. We may have to change them or alter the direction but the dream never goes away.
🥺 that comment hurt my heart 💗✨ 🙏🏾 bless her.
Mine too. But I know that what she feels now is just the first step to rebirth. 💗
Moved me to tears too. Still that’s a great place to start…
“Don’t push down the envy and pretend it’s not there, bring out the shovel….” This just lifted a weight off of me, Stephanie. Thanks for sharing! I appreciate your authenticity and dedication.
"A dream denied makes the heart sick; but satisfaction is a tree of life." Misquoted, but I'm feeling it.
I want to see the world- to live and teach abroad after my career break. My dream is alive since last years exodus summit. 👩🏾💻🙌🏾
Wow! This video right here. I can’t say that I have dreams that I’ve buried because my hope is too strong BUT I will say without a doubt…. I will see you all at the summit in October. Thank you Stephanie!!
Be blessed everyone and hold fast to your dreams!! 💛
I have 3 dreams that, up until this video, I’ve been suppressing &/or just acting as if they really don’t matter that much. My biggest dream is to have time/location freedom to do what I want, when I want from wherever I want. I’ve quit several jobs over the years in an attempt to honor my inner knowing of something “more,” but it has left me being at this big age of regret, in a way. So, my list: 1. I want a loving relationship; 2. I want to own a home; 3. I want to write tv shows & films. I’m a 47-year-old who has spent the bulk of my adult life trying to figure out who I am. I was a teen mom who had to hit the ground running by taking care of my daughter. So there wasn’t much room to dream. I had to work. Now, fast forward to present day, I want to feel secure. Having a loving relationship & owning a home, I imagine, would give me a semblance of safety & security. Answering your questions triggered some things in me & helped me to see that I have some deferred dreams 😢 So, thanks for this video. 💜
I watched the interview with Adalia. Wow, wow, and wow.
To answer your question, my dream is to write best-selling non-fiction books that educate and empower Black women on how to discover and recognize their value, for real, for real. I also want to write best-selling fiction books that educate and entertain Black women to spark their imagination and kindle hope.
Stephanie lookin "gangsta" in that thumbnail. lol Love it! I'm dreaming AND planning financial freedom and a more flexible and independent lifestyle which is on the way. 🙏🏾
Thanks for encouraging us to continue to follow our dreams. Dream #1 was to become a published author. I put a plans motion two years ago and am 12K words into my first novel. I will also publish my first children’s book within the next 4-6 weeks. It was a lot of work and I learned a lot - very exciting! Also, I recently became an accountability partner to another aspiring (male) author. Dream #2: counting the months until I’m able to retire outside of the United States. Completed an initial planning trip to Guadalajara and Queretaro in June 2021, now looking at Cuenca Ecuador. My motto “"Make great ideas come to life." Another inspiring video. Thank you, Stephanie 😊
Stephanie, there is nothing you cannot be, or do, or have. You are a walking talking Glow Getter. You are wildly successful and an inspiration to us all, so I'm pretty sure you know this. Dreams are an inside job. They come from God and are meant to be. Moreover, your dreams are your business and no one else's. And by that I mean, your dreams have nothing to do with the limited thinking of others. How someone feels about your dreams is literally none of your business. Or theirs.
Your loving self care is not a substitute for having a partner. That sounds to me like poverty consciousness. Your dream is to unite with a loving partner who also wants children. I do not feel that this dream has died in you, nor does it need to. You are worthy of having everything that matters to you come to you. It is never wrong to love yourself magnificently and beautifully, just as you are now doing. It is never wrong to go within, listen deeply, and give yourself what you need. Because you cannot give what you don't have. You are actually paving the way to the relationship of your dreams.
We all are worthy. Sadly, many wonderful, accomplished, beautiful women do not yet know how to care enough about how they feel to put themselves first, so the poverty consciousness continues. Your greatest gift to these women is the power of your example. Never stop believing in your dreams.
We live in an energy universe. We are basically giant magnets all day every day. We attract to ourselves what we focus on, whether we want it or not. This is a universal law that has nothing to do with religion, so no need to let that be a stumbling block. How does this occur? Simply, what we focus on grows. It's like planting a seed and then reaping the harvest. So it pays to be mindful. It pays to be conscious about what you focus on, because what you focus on becomes your energetic footprint, or dominant vibration. And your vibration is what attracts things to you. That old saying that "opposites attract" is actually a flawed premise. The truth is like attracts like, or "Like unto itself is Drawn."
Attention to what is wanted creates more of what is wanted. Positive emotion or a positive vibration replicates itself by attracting more things to be positive about. By the same token, attention to what is unwanted creates more of what is unwanted. If your predominant vibration or emotion is negative -- lack, unworthiness, disbelief, doubt, limitation -- it literally blocks your blessings from reaching you. What negative emotion does attract is more of the same -- lack, unworthiness, disbelief, doubt, limitation -- which can feel like being caught up in a Catch-22, but there is a way out. Listen up Ladies!
Most people create unconsciously, or by default. They do not realize or do not want to believe just how powerful they are. They either do not know or want to know that they actively create their reality by what they spend the most time thinking about, which then determines how they feel, which then becomes their dominant vibration, which then attracts more of same. Ouch. They exclaim, "I would never choose to have this awful spouse, job, home, etc., that I am now experiencing." And yet, that is exactly what they do by focusing all their attention on what is happening around them, which is understandably easy to do because it's right there in front of them.
What's going on around you may seem like reality but it's not the present. That bears repeating. It is not the present. What's going on around you is always the cumulative effect of past energy you have been flowing. Which means you are focused on the past, and ignoring the ripe opportunity in the present to focus on what you actually really want. Why would anyone not want to believe this? Well, because accepting that you have the power to create your own reality requires you to stop the blame game, take responsibility, and do something about it. And most folks are just not there yet. But Stephanie, I'm pretty sure you are.
I'm pretty sure you know from experience that you get what you think about -- whether you want it or not -- by the power of your attention. And that you can tell what you are primarily focused on by what keeps showing up in your life. For the life you dream of to materialize, you must be selfish enough to care about how we feel. You must care about how you feel more than being right, more than what your friends think, more than anything really. And if you feel mostly good, mostly happy, do not change a thing. Better and better things will continue to come to you as if by magic. And if you don't like how you feel, you have the power to change that. Mastering your thoughts and feelings -- your vibration -- is choosing to focus not on where you've been, but where you're headed. There is absolutely no power in the past. All power is in the present moment, the NOW, where you can choose to reach for a better feeling thought. Feeling good is the only path to wellbeing. Wellbeing is the key that unlocks the golden door to the highest and best version of yourself and all that you desire.
We can never achieve what we do not believe. So pay no head to naysayers, however well meaning. Do not be conflicted about what you know you want. Stephanie, your loving and generous tall man is somewhere in the world right now wondering where on earth a woman like you could possibly be -- an open-hearted woman with hair that does not fit into hats whose dream is to start a family with someone like him.
Keep your focus exclusively on the reality of him -- not the absence of him. Keep your eyes on the prize, and he cannot help but find you by the power and strength of your radiant beacon -- your unwavering call to love. LOVE IS THE ENERGY THAT CREATES WORLDS. This beautiful man is living and breathing right now, and he will appear in your life with perfectly divine timing. What's meant for you won't pass you by. And only you get to decide who and what that is. As long as you Believe, All things good must come to you. It is law. Love you Stephanie!! 🌴❤🌴🌞🌴❤🌴
Queen Stephanie, thanks for sharing your heart with us and always seeking to bring us along as you elevate. Shine on! ❤
My dream is to be a financially abundant fulltime artist and all around creator, healing through my work, traveling all around the world learning, healing , loving being inspired and inspiring others…I want to enjoy my friends and family and leave a meaningful legacy for my daughter…ashe’!
My dream will sound harsh to many but i have good reasons for it: I want the kind of money that will allow me to tell anybody to just piss off. Total financial freedom and peace of soul and mind. Just don't know how to get it. I have nobody to help push it and the current financial climate in the country i live in isn't making matters easy.
Extra Crispy Stephanie 🤣🤣🤣
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Yasss! I heard that! 🤣
Thank you Stephanie, I needed to hear this! My dream of being a visual creative and working in that space was and still is a sore point in my life. I'm encourage to reflect upon your questions and hopefully will ignite my 'lost fire' for this dream. Blessings.💗💓
My dream keeps coming for me even after 30 years. To lead a group of women on retreats while traveling and supporting and encouraging women to live their dreams. How can I to that if I’m not doing it myself. I’ve giving up on that dream.
My dream is to have my art support a lifestyle of international living, and physical and emotional health.
Thanks for being so POSITIVE 💓💗💖
Very much alive. it is coming AMEN
I love the transparency in this video topic. 😍 I’m super excited to see you traveling with your little tribes in the background 🙌🏾 so many black women are living their dreams because of you. You deserve this and it’s coming.
The timing of your video is perfect!! For the past 4 years, I've been working a side hustle that I finally admitted that I didn't want to do anymore because it wasn't really my dream. My true dream is interior design and real estate. I've been in love with these 2 for what it seems like forever. However, I buried these dreams out of fear, doubt and obligation. I had other people's voices in my head and very recently, I discovered that some of what I have been doing has been for others and not for me. I've been taking a long hard and thoughtful look at who I am and what I truly want. I keep coming back to my dream and I ask "why not"? Thank you so much for this video because it is a confirmation for me 😊
I am so glad you addressed this in depth because I know that we all get to have everything we want. No matter our age
I’ve always loved traveling the world. I got married and raised my children still desiring to travel the world. I bought books, maps, and watched the travel channel wondering when/if this would happen for me. I thought it might not happen for me.
I was so tired and burned out from life and needed to do something different.
I started following you about a year ago and started dreaming again of traveling the world.
I launched out and resigned from my job 2 months ago. I said I needed a sabbatical for at least a year. Since then, my physical, mental, and emotional health has improved. I’m signing up for Exodus Summit in October. Excited about the information I’ll gain to bop about and become a digital nomad.
It’s so true that our dreams don’t die; we do. I’ve dusted my dreams off. I’m becoming a world traveler 🧳.
Amen!! I'm so proud of you and happy for you!!!😁
Thank you for the encouragement.
My dream is for my holistic health business and solo fronted jazz/r&b/classical fusion band to allow for my financial freedom and joy while helping others!!!
Yaaay! I love it when Stephanie makes new videos. ❤️
Ditto! 😄
I want to be a successful voice over artist, and a snowbird. The lack of winter sunshine depresses me. I need to be based in vibrant, supportive, artistic, multi-cultural communities! I want a healthy, nurturing, and loving relationship with a man! Someone open to sharing his family, and loving and accepting my family. Whew! 🙏🏽🤦🏾♀️😊
Totally relatable. Can't cozy up to all those letters behind my name on a cold winter's night. Also, thank you for distilling the ***feeling*** of the dream, too. And yes, gotta get that shovel out.
Thank you for this video. This was definitely a wake up call for me. I'm living a beautiful life. I am indeed focusing on my Joy's while avoiding pursuing deep Desires of my heart.💜
Was married 23 years, now widowed. Got 2 daughters, had one at 35 and one at 42, own a home and still working. Im 59. I container garden and travel like crazy.
Dream#1. My dream is to own some land 5acres or less and make it home base mini farm for my girls and their future families! In the works!!
Dream #2. own a business to end working for OTHERS. In the works.
A great mate! He is where he at! Lol
Completely off topic, but your skin looks amazing.
Wow very interesting 🤔 gave me somethings to think about
Preach!
I can't have children anymore but I have two sons. If I wanted a child with my future husband (dream), I would get a surrogate. Don't give up the dream of children so quickly.
Cheers to the new year. Wishing we all fall into the love and life we are seeking.
Her comment sounds so much like mine. Greatful for that comment, Oh my goodness. Thanks so much Stephanie for this video🙏🏾
It was buried alive but I'm trying to resurrect it
You can. And we're here in community with you as you work on it. 💗
I feel like we're living our lives in reverse. I always wanted to travel and have all my stuff be my stuff, but I did all the school, found the cute boy (didn't marry him), had the baby, and got the job (not enough money). Now that she's about to graduate, I think there's a chance to get the things I want.
This is sooo encouraging SiStar!!! Thank you
Oh my, I have a dream that goes back to a young child staying up late at night thinking and then dreaming of living “in” a warm ocean. I love to swim and dreamt of being a mermaid. I actually didn’t learn to swim until college. I’m retired and would love to live by the ocean. My dream and goal for now.
My dream is to launch my psychotherapy and life coach business and build a successful business built on joy, freedom and empowerment. I live a life that is location-independent and travel the world at my leisure with my child. Imma get it too!
You look amazing and so refreshed! Living your life like it’s golden….love your videos and insight🙏🏾 thanks Sista 🫶🏿
Thank you Stephanie. I am inspired and dreaming and feeling closer to my dreams than ever before. Rooting for everyone else and their dreams too. Great reminder. I will have my retreat and coaching village and you'll have your location independent family.
I can see your point yes your dream can change form but I do think some dreams die. I was a traveler I loved it but an unplanned illness turned disability has for me killed that. I can’t see myself traveling with all the stuff I need on a daily bases just to move.
Boy I am a dreamer! I am so determined to pursue everything that I have dreamed of. I am proud to say that I have published over 30 books to Inspire and motivate people. Learning advertising and promoting is another story because now I struggle with selling my books.
I pursued modeling, I didn't like the industry, but I am proud to say I tried it. I have started my own mobile business and I am so proud of me. I still don't feel complete, like I'm not working hard enough. So, I keep pushing myself. I think that I am easily discouraged by people around me that don't push themselves (don't have a vison) so they can't see my vision. IDK how to get away from those who feel like people like me are overachievers.
Thank you Stephanie, I have this thing that I want to do, I was waiting for encouragement from someone who’s very close to me, it has not come, so, I have been working on giving up on it, but I’m getting my shovel out.🙏🙏🙏💕💕💕
Dear Lucille, Never choose to work against yourself. Never choose to live small or dim your beautiful bright light to make someone else comfortable. Your dreams are yours. What anyone else thinks about your dreams or even you is none of your business. What anyone does or fails to do says more about them than it does about you. How others act is always beyond your control. What is in your control is how you treat yourself.
You are worthy and deserve to have all that you desire. Choose to love yourself. Choose to be happy and feel good no matter what is going on around you, because it is the choice from which all good things flow. Waist no more time waiting around for small offers and crumbs from people who withhold from you. Never look back, because that's not where you're going. Give yourself what you want to receive in all the ways that matter most to you, and watch how those humans who admire, support, respect and love you for who you really are will begin to show up in your life.
Give yourself and your dreams your full attention. Your dreams have indeed been waiting on your acknowledgment and support and love so that they can manifest fully formed into your life, bringing you the greatest joy and peace and love and fun you have ever experienced. And when your dreams become real, give thanks and dream bigger. You deserve it. So go get it!!!! 😄😘🥰
@@naturalmagic4128 Absolutely! Thank you so much 🤗💕
SOME DREAMS ARE THAT DREAMS,,, BECAUSE I WOULD NOT WANT TO BE A FAMOUS SINGER AT 50,,WHICH I AM NOW,,but when I was young,,,I only wanted to be a mother and a Singer,,, BUT I VERY DIFFERENT NOW,,I did HAVE 5 DAUGHTERS BUT I NEVER HAD A BEAUTIFUL SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE AND I NEVER BECAME A SINGER,,, AND I WANTED TO BE A SPIRITUAL HEALTH COACH BUT DOCTOR MESSED UP MY RIGHT LEG,,so I never became a Health coach,I LOVE SEEING OTHER BROWN WOMEN DO GREAT,,,,BUT NO NEVER BECAME A HEALTH COACH OR MOST OF ALL A SINGER,,,!!!!!!!!!!!! GOD BLESS 🙏 U,,,,I THINK DOORS OPEN AND THEN DOORS CLOSE,,,,, AND WE JUST MOVE ON!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thank you so much. This message is right on time for me.
There is so much I want to say but I feel like I can't articulate it, in text, so I'll just say thank you!
You are helping so many of us. Thank you so much.
This was very timely. I want to be a digital nomad and influencer.
I just turned 50 and I feel like I've wasted my life. Sometimes I let go of so many things and like I've run out of time. That this it. I want to be a successful author. I have published one book. I never really tried to promote it.
I love you and your entire message. You're a very beautiful womand and i love the color on your nails. Great message!
Thank you. Blessings 💚
Thank you so much for sharing. My dream is to live along a coastal area ( I have yet to decide where), writing my novels, growing my own food and teaching healthy eating and lifestyle in the community where I choose to live. I am looking forward to the Exodus Summit in October and garnering the support and coward to follow my dreams.
Wow! I am inspired by your channel and journey. I have always wanted to be an Interior Designer.
Dream deferred husband and ranch home.. I’m 60 now so only a dream😂👍
Thank you so much for this video Stephanie! My dream is nurture my creative gifts, have an art business, family and a beautiful network of people to share it all with. I am worthy of it all and then some🌻
Mother hood for 48yrs age woman - Don't rule out meeting a younger man. Maybe you meet a younger man. Some can be very mature for their age.
I appreciate you for this spark..
You're welcome! 💗
Heeeeeey lady ❤️❤️❤️
Heeeeyyyy! 👋🏾
POWERFUL MESSAGE... NEEDED
*Rewatch* My Dreams didn’t die, just put on hold for a min. Great interview with Adelia.
This video is so good I viewed it twice. Keep up the good content. Keep them coming.
My dream is to have a child with my partner and spend half the year traveling the world with my family. ❤
You feed my soul!
omg...how relevant an timely!!!i loved this...and the justifcation- I cant wait to sign up for the exodus summit
The only two dreams I have is to leave the US and being financially secure. I haven't given up on either but they're unlikely. I'm broke broke. $13 hr broke. I have no savings and I refuse to go back to an American college and incur even more debt. I do have an associates degree but it's useless. I used to want to be a writer but now I just want a job that pays a living wage and doesn't destroy my mental health. I thought I'd be more financially successful in my 30s and I'm not. I recently watched a show called paper girls where the 4 main characters (12 years old) travel 25 years into the future and meet future versions of themselves. All I could think was how 12 year old me would be horrified to see how my life is now.