Did "Family Feud" Answer Foreshadow Homicide? | Tim and Rebecca Bliefnick Case Analysis

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  • @cabooseabs6864
    @cabooseabs6864 11 месяцев назад +167

    Ironic he was aware enough to consider if his fitness tech could be analyzed and used against him but he didnt consider his internet searches being found.

    • @KoolT
      @KoolT 11 месяцев назад +10

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @shitmandood
      @shitmandood 11 месяцев назад +14

      Nobody does. They find these weird searches all the time by the guilty. What these killers really ought to do is watch the entire series of Colombo. There’s just no escape…it’s just dumb luck or miraculous circumstance to get away scot free or roll the dice with the jury.

    • @I_Love_Rainbows510
      @I_Love_Rainbows510 11 месяцев назад +13

      I'm a writer, and I used to be on a writing competition forum. The running joke was, "What have you researched lately for your assigned story that would make you look guilty in the eyes of law enforcement?" It's amazing that all of us writers haven't been sent up the river yet!

    • @kristyp2585
      @kristyp2585 11 месяцев назад

      I'm surprised people commit crimes still with DNA, GPS, internet searches, surveillance cameras at every house. It's almost impossible to get away with it these days.

    • @Ketowski
      @Ketowski 11 месяцев назад

      @@shitmandood Or professional criminals, which this guy clearly wasn’t.

  • @KimberlyLetsGo
    @KimberlyLetsGo 11 месяцев назад +14

    How sad for three young sons.

  • @l.s.s.8-8-16
    @l.s.s.8-8-16 8 месяцев назад +6

    If the cops ever look through my search history they'll think I'm a basket case. "Where did the Black Plague originate from?", "Could smallpox ever come back", "Which king and queen couples truly loved each other?"... the randomness goes on....

    • @Psylliumhead
      @Psylliumhead Месяц назад

      Me too, I like history and just knowing stuff.

  • @KruezFam
    @KruezFam 11 месяцев назад +5

    YES! The Doctor Grande Trifecta Ad strikes again!
    1 - amazing shirt ✔️
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  • @cats.addict6457
    @cats.addict6457 11 месяцев назад +4

    What upset me the most on top of killing someone, the jealous and selfish killer does not care at all about the children, it's all about himself and his selfishness. He definitely belongs to spend his life behind bars, which mean btw, if he had been smart enough would have made realise before he went for his plan, that 99% chances are he will also be separated of the kids.

  • @glendasully
    @glendasully 11 месяцев назад +5

    3 little boys left to be orphans. Poor Becky & her sons

  • @CountrysideCutie
    @CountrysideCutie 11 месяцев назад +5

    Good evening Dr. Grande. At 1:30, you inadvertently said 2001..😮..Though great analysis, as always. 😀

  • @reconstructingleslie4597
    @reconstructingleslie4597 11 месяцев назад +2

    Great analysis Dr Grande! I absolutely love your humor too.. said it before you remind me of Bob Newhart and that's a huge compliment cause he's one of my favorite comedians ❤

    • @TheRaspberry82
      @TheRaspberry82 11 месяцев назад +1

      Yes!!!! ❤ Dr Grandes delivery is reminiscent of Bob Newhart !!!!! ❤. I am a big fan of both! ❤

    • @reconstructingleslie4597
      @reconstructingleslie4597 11 месяцев назад

      @@TheRaspberry82 ❤️

  • @MariaOC1_
    @MariaOC1_ 11 месяцев назад +6

    DrGrande loveing your bunny salt and pepper holders plus the Halloween shirt ❤❤ you and yours are good fun, thanks for your channel.
    Why people dont just leave relationships peacefully is beyond my comprehension 😮

  • @Dan-oj4iq
    @Dan-oj4iq 11 месяцев назад +1

    The only questions really safe to be asking online should be based on recipes and whether it's two or three tablespoons of sugar that should be added.

  • @MarceloVolcato
    @MarceloVolcato 11 месяцев назад +7

    Tim did it. There's no way he's innocent.

  • @_Pyroon_
    @_Pyroon_ 11 месяцев назад +1

    I appreciate the dark humor analysis, I can finally have pride in something

  • @straat9066
    @straat9066 11 месяцев назад +3

    At 1:30 did you mean January 2021? Bc it sounds like you’re saying 2001.

  • @jacobhope6164
    @jacobhope6164 11 месяцев назад +5

    Choosing with whom to couple, and have children, are likely the two most impactful decisions many of us will make in our lives. I hope stories like this are the cautionary tales that should serve to motivate us all to be more focused on what really matters, and believe our partners when they show us who they truly are.
    6 feet, 6 pack, 6 figures sounds like the perfect measurements for the devil, or at least a devil. Just sayin...

  • @AB-un4io
    @AB-un4io 11 месяцев назад +3

    Thanks for another great analysis, Dr. Grande! Love the spooky, seasonal shirt. 🎃🎃
    And thanks for pointing out the little known facts about dark humor in such a succinct manner!! It’s a misunderstood attribute and I’m hoping folks paid attention to that information. 🙂

  • @alvinbuana4628
    @alvinbuana4628 11 месяцев назад +2

    Hi Dr Grande. Please do a video about Lou Pearlman case. I want to know your opinion and analysis on this. Thank you

  • @hannahmitchell87
    @hannahmitchell87 11 месяцев назад

    Factor's food looks so unappealing but that's more than countered by the beaming photo of you in the ad & your Halloween shirt!! Love it! Want it! :)

  • @MrWatshisface
    @MrWatshisface 11 месяцев назад

    Awww! Cute photo with the factor meal Doc! 🫰

  • @NoName-uq7ph
    @NoName-uq7ph 11 месяцев назад

    Thoughts are with their kids, what a terrible tragedy, effectively losing both parents, why would he want to cause his kids so much pain by killing their mother? Just awful. Thanks for another interesting video Dr Grande!

  • @kelliearnold8498
    @kelliearnold8498 11 месяцев назад

    I Love the pumpkin shirt!! It’s fun!!

  • @Stichting_NoFa-p
    @Stichting_NoFa-p 11 месяцев назад +2

    Why don't you mention that factor has options for all dietary preferences/needs? One of the most important thing the viewers want to know about it.

  • @gerties.4427
    @gerties.4427 11 месяцев назад

    I watched that episode of family feud. OMG, this is sad.

  • @meowmirrr
    @meowmirrr 11 месяцев назад

    YOUR PUMPKIN SHIRT IS GREAT

  • @roberthopkins3621
    @roberthopkins3621 11 месяцев назад

    I don’t know with is cutest, the shirt you have on in the advertisement or the bunny salt and pepper shakers. You are a hoot .

  • @bldbar118
    @bldbar118 11 месяцев назад

    “Recycling Business” eye? I’ve heard that one before, sounds like a no-show I had in Jersey amiright?

  • @miriamorwin7603
    @miriamorwin7603 5 месяцев назад +1

    Poor kids. No parents = mum dead and dad locked up.

  • @edwardwright2989
    @edwardwright2989 Месяц назад

    I have an ex wife who's very erratic and even with police reports and photographic evidence it's almost impossible to get the courts, police, DHS to do anything. The only way they move their feet is if it's a murder or something close. Less than that they claim their hands are tied.

  • @tessalimits8893
    @tessalimits8893 11 месяцев назад

    Love your Halloween shirt Doc!❤️

  • @deannadove3505
    @deannadove3505 11 месяцев назад

    I love that Halloween shirt, Dr. Grande! The case you discussed with us in this video, is very interesting. I guess it also represents how a troubled marriage involving troubled people can get to an extremely dangerous point, very quickly. Emotions are such a powerful force within us all. Thank you for another intriguing case review. Have a super spooky season!

  • @seanoconnor8843
    @seanoconnor8843 8 месяцев назад

    I have a biscuit barrel in the same style of your teapot. Circus I think the pattern is called

  • @miriamllamas224
    @miriamllamas224 11 месяцев назад

    The defence couldn't be bothered with all the evidence against him.

  • @marlinfisher2529
    @marlinfisher2529 11 месяцев назад

    Dear Dr Grande its good news for me as I am known for my hjysterical dark sence of humor. Really like the new cacti too.

  • @Satan666frmhel
    @Satan666frmhel 11 месяцев назад

    Love the videos but the audio is a bit rough

  • @carnifaxx
    @carnifaxx 11 месяцев назад

    Similarly to Hames Joffman etc., that has to be a channel that just gathers the creepy sponsorship parts from this channel... with added music and quotes from analysis of murders, it could create an interesting thriller, at least.

  • @bunnymad5049
    @bunnymad5049 11 месяцев назад +2

    Oh, WHOOP - stupid male got caught. I really feel for Becky, the kids, her family - and his family. Just beyond terrible.

  • @siouxd799
    @siouxd799 11 месяцев назад

    Doctor your Halloween shirt was so loud it overshadowed your cute assistant by your side!!!!!

  • @jhoughjr1
    @jhoughjr1 11 месяцев назад +2

    I must say I didn't know I needed a grinning gourmet Grande today

  • @HolyMoly432
    @HolyMoly432 11 месяцев назад

    I enjoyed seeing Dr. Grande smiling big in his Hawaiian shirt with the bunny salt & pepper shakers! Gotta watch the ads he does!😂

  • @gnas3390
    @gnas3390 11 месяцев назад +11

    Tim put a lot of research into this murder yet he was charged and convicted, what a dumsh!t. Now his three children have lost their mother and will grow up knowing that their father took her life. Nobody wins in this family fued. 😣

  • @crystallaws7050
    @crystallaws7050 11 месяцев назад +1

    What a shoddy murderer. I believe they got their man in the end.

  • @nancymcnally7849
    @nancymcnally7849 11 месяцев назад

    It is very interesting to me that he has no reflectors on his bike, but had them on his person. Not really that important of a detail, but it actually makes NO SENSE to me.

  • @paulzeski6251
    @paulzeski6251 11 месяцев назад +2

    Looks like cat food...love the show.

  • @robertlivingston5175
    @robertlivingston5175 11 месяцев назад

    Hey, I'm in the recycling business too. I recycle.😂 I really like your take on the cases you "speculate" on.
    You know what, this woman looks a lot like my sister-in-law, she has totally alienated my brother, from our family. I won't be surprised if he ends up deceased, with 'her' getting a large Insurance distribution.

  • @joebrannon
    @joebrannon 11 месяцев назад

    Yes

  • @brianbrownell689
    @brianbrownell689 11 месяцев назад

    "Recycling business" he means the mob

  • @CashCowz962
    @CashCowz962 11 месяцев назад

    14 times😢😢😢😢

  • @SLowe-xi3fq
    @SLowe-xi3fq 11 месяцев назад +1

    in the recycling business??????

  • @terrorists-are-among-us
    @terrorists-are-among-us 11 месяцев назад +1

    Ah yes. I dated a guy that was a lying cheat (ok, they all were) and when i said I was done he said "it's not fair! It's easy for you to get laid!". Then at one point he tried to visit me and said "if you care about me you'll let me in". NOOO THANKS 🤡 I did eventually see him again some time later and he made a point to screw me over. It was his entire goal for the interaction. Guys are so much more bother than they're worth.

  • @lauren9667
    @lauren9667 11 месяцев назад +118

    The only thing missing was a handwritten note next to the body - stating that he was innocent. Thanks, Dr. Grande, for another great video.

  • @LuLeMen
    @LuLeMen 11 месяцев назад +351

    Even if you hate your spouse, how can you hurt your kids like that? You don't get over a beloved parent dying, ever. Especially a mother when you are a kid and still need her.

    • @evoluna3056
      @evoluna3056 11 месяцев назад +32

      Right on, he is such a narcissist and sees only what HE wants.

    • @lutomson3496
      @lutomson3496 11 месяцев назад +9

      look at all the deaths by spouse including children by women and men both are complicit

    • @troy3456789
      @troy3456789 11 месяцев назад +13

      It is easy to rationalize yourself being calm and making calm wise decisions, when you are calm and not enraged at your spouse for whatever reason. We see on his shows both husbands and wives doing what they themselves would otherwise say is pure lunacy or senseless violence if they were looking at it from an outside view while calm cheerful and optimistic. We cannot put ourselves into that situation unless we are experiencing it ourselves. Feeling betrayed clouds judgement and rational thought.

    • @KatSpade1018
      @KatSpade1018 11 месяцев назад +9

      When it showed pics from the courtroom I yelled how the hell do you take your kid's Mama away you p.o.s
      I guess some people are so consumed by their own desires that others aren't even an after thought for them. Very hard to imagine your own child not being a before or after thought.
      Now she has no one so that he could have HIS way. He's a pathetic excuse.

    • @pipermccool
      @pipermccool 11 месяцев назад +13

      Murderers should be more considerate of others.

  • @Jay_Bird
    @Jay_Bird 11 месяцев назад +212

    May I make a humble request that you increase the amount of discussion in these videos concerning the psychology / mental issues behind these kinds of crimes, which seemed to be a feature of your older videos? The legal analysis and guilty or not guilty discussion is interesting but is covered by attorneys on many other channels. What I especially love about your channel is your unique ability to delve into the psychological aspect of criminality. I've always been interested in the "why" of these crimes. Thank you so much for the time you take to put so many quality videos out! Huge fan!

    • @KoolT
      @KoolT 11 месяцев назад +27

      I've been thinking about that also. Like say this person could possibly have symptoms of psychopathy.

    • @MEL2theJ
      @MEL2theJ 11 месяцев назад +18

      Excellent comment 💎

    • @Lotsa-Luv
      @Lotsa-Luv 11 месяцев назад +27

      Project Bring the acronym O C E A N back. Why? Because O C E A N acronym Dr. Grande, is my favorite Dr. Grande ❤🎉

    • @JugglingG
      @JugglingG 11 месяцев назад +9

      I agree wholeheartedly thank you for suggesting this

    • @nanettevantriesteharder2469
      @nanettevantriesteharder2469 11 месяцев назад +5

      @Jay_Bird I do too!

  • @karriemae5222
    @karriemae5222 11 месяцев назад +58

    Holy cow, my favorite RUclipsr did a video on a childhood friend of mine! I was sad and excited. Becky and I went to school together until junior high. Her mom had been one of my Girl Scout troop leaders. She’s was a really sweet person that definitely did not deserve this.
    Thanks, Dr. Todd .

    • @karenmartin7978
      @karenmartin7978 11 месяцев назад +17

      I'm sorry for the loss of your childhood friend.

    • @MEL2theJ
      @MEL2theJ 11 месяцев назад +5

      ❤️

    • @edwardwright2989
      @edwardwright2989 Месяц назад

      That might be true but I bet she was a bitch as a wife. However, murder wasn't called for.

  • @gregevans6044
    @gregevans6044 11 месяцев назад +59

    Sounded like he basically googled, “How do I get away with murdering my wife, Becky?”

    • @poindextertunes
      @poindextertunes 11 месяцев назад +8

      “how to get rid of gunshot residue” 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

    • @nancymcnally7849
      @nancymcnally7849 11 месяцев назад +7

      How to make a home made silencer. Like, WHUT.

    • @Flying_Fetus
      @Flying_Fetus 8 месяцев назад +2

      Then played "Rat tat tat" by Dr. Dre and Snoop Dogg.

    • @mary-chrisstaples9767
      @mary-chrisstaples9767 7 месяцев назад

      😂😂😂

  • @gram5963
    @gram5963 11 месяцев назад +104

    Thank you, Dr. Grande! I loved how after describing the traits of a person with dark humor, you tied up the video with some murdery jokes…in your hilarious, deadpan way. 😂

    • @damagecontrol2424
      @damagecontrol2424 11 месяцев назад +12

      “murdery jokes” 🤣🤣🤣🤣👍

    • @rustyrobinson8027
      @rustyrobinson8027 11 месяцев назад +6

      He should add the Seinfeld laff track and slap bass sounds

    • @tommyrjensen
      @tommyrjensen 11 месяцев назад

      It will be a culpatory factor in any future homicide case in which Dr Grande is a suspect.

  • @orionspur
    @orionspur 11 месяцев назад +32

    In this case, of 12 people surveyed all 12 gave the #1 answer... Life in prison.

  • @grumpyoldlady_rants
    @grumpyoldlady_rants 11 месяцев назад +41

    Killing another person is bad enough but killing someone you have children with is a special kind of evil. My heart breaks for those three sons.

  • @aliciagriggs8531
    @aliciagriggs8531 11 месяцев назад +50

    I love your Halloween shirt, your bunny salt and pepper shakers and Bella sneaking by! 🍽🐰🐇🎃

    • @MariaOC1_
      @MariaOC1_ 11 месяцев назад +4

      Some batwings on Bella will top off the halloween decorations 🦇
      Happy Halloween guys 🎃🎃🎃

    • @greenbrain8725
      @greenbrain8725 11 месяцев назад +1

      Someone also collects teapots…

    • @ShakerMaker1980
      @ShakerMaker1980 11 месяцев назад +1

      So wholesome! 🌵 🐰 🤍

  • @tommccormick9290
    @tommccormick9290 11 месяцев назад +64

    Maybe the scariest thing about psychopaths is how they seldom visually stand out from others.

    • @kingayy9267
      @kingayy9267 11 месяцев назад +8

      People only come in so many designs.
      Would you prefer psychopaths have horns?
      That would be a nice visual warning, wouldn't it?

    • @tommccormick9290
      @tommccormick9290 11 месяцев назад +7

      @@kingayy9267 I've been around the block enough to know. Some definitely stand out. But why the facetiousness and to what is your point?

    • @siouxd799
      @siouxd799 11 месяцев назад +12

      I actually thought he looked a it psycho-ish. I’m only 3 mins in but in the footage of him he is very easy to read and to lip read. He has a grandiose self importance….almost over acting in a way. I assume some people would say he is Charismatic….

    • @JocieFire
      @JocieFire 11 месяцев назад +2

      Abusers tend to look more charming and less distressed in my unfortunate experience. Sure, if they had a big brand 'entitled control freak' on their forehead that would be great...I don't think this guy was a psychopath, I think he felt he should be able to move on from the marriage, but his wife shouldn't.

    • @swervsplatt9672
      @swervsplatt9672 11 месяцев назад

      Yet you people continue to vote religiously....😂🥴

  • @tmajcan94
    @tmajcan94 11 месяцев назад +105

    Rest in peace Becky. No question Tim was guilty of her murder. Another well done video Dr. Grande.

    • @garrysekelli6776
      @garrysekelli6776 11 месяцев назад +2

      Hamas was guilty of the murders of the Israeli hostages. There is no reason to delve deeper into this issue. Indeed I strongly suggest that you don't delve deeper into this issue.

    • @suprnerdy
      @suprnerdy 11 месяцев назад +7

      @@garrysekelli6776?

    • @76biggdogg
      @76biggdogg 11 месяцев назад +3

      ​@garrysekelli6776 huh??

    • @garrysekelli6776
      @garrysekelli6776 11 месяцев назад +4

      @@suprnerdy ah wrong chat room. Sorry about that.

    • @indianastones6032
      @indianastones6032 11 месяцев назад +4

      Dont like eating humus....its the texture that gets me, so dont worry i wont delve any deeper!!

  • @kaybee8205
    @kaybee8205 11 месяцев назад +22

    starting to get addicted to Dr. Grande's soothing voice.
    like true crime asmr.

  • @Jared_Wignall
    @Jared_Wignall 11 месяцев назад +79

    This is a truly insane case. Thank you for the analysis Dr. Grande, keep up the great work. Take care!

    • @garrysekelli6776
      @garrysekelli6776 11 месяцев назад +2

      What was the case about? I couldn't understand who was killed and why. Very confused case.

    • @Jared_Wignall
      @Jared_Wignall 11 месяцев назад +9

      @@garrysekelli6776 a guy who appeared on Family Feud and was asked if there were any regrets that he had, he said “I Do”, obviously regretting marrying his wife, with whom he had three sons with. There were various problems I their marriage and he eventually filed for divorce and after this he shot her multiple times, killing her and now he’s in prison. That’s the short version.

    • @troy3456789
      @troy3456789 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@garrysekelli6776 You were distracted the entire time you watched the video. It happens.

    • @pipermccool
      @pipermccool 11 месяцев назад +3

      An insane case featuring the second-most popular answer to a survey question.

    • @briantrudell8248
      @briantrudell8248 11 месяцев назад

      ​@@Aqua-Fyreyea it's the guns fault, send it to prison instead

  • @imeldahiggins-wiffle8302
    @imeldahiggins-wiffle8302 11 месяцев назад +25

    What gets me every time is the internet search requests!!!! Why would you search for murder related items before you kill someone?!

    • @ravenID429
      @ravenID429 10 месяцев назад +1

      I wonder if it was even incognito mode

    • @micnorton9487
      @micnorton9487 8 месяцев назад

      Well you could go to a library but the librarian might get suspicious when you ask "Are the m*rder cover-up books in the mystery fiction section, or are they in the crime section under bozos who give themselves away by doing dumb media searches?"

    • @Koozomec
      @Koozomec 6 месяцев назад +1

      Let us wonder how "refined" is his thougt process and issue solving skills.
      Not a loss for anybody.

  • @thelearningcastle2167
    @thelearningcastle2167 11 месяцев назад +10

    Dr. Grande, You are a genius and the master of black humor. Love you!

  • @ElementoryMyDearWatson
    @ElementoryMyDearWatson 11 месяцев назад +5

    Lets take a look at the evdence both for and against the idea he was guilty. Firstly the inculpatory factors: He was guilty.

  • @lilbitsleepy2574
    @lilbitsleepy2574 11 месяцев назад +41

    I recall watching this trial. Prosecution and those who investigated the murder did a fantastic job in such a short time and it was very clear that Tim was guilty. It’s pathetic that he still tried to deny responsibility and makes me wonder if he thinks that anyone would believe him

    • @kingayy9267
      @kingayy9267 11 месяцев назад +4

      Perhaps he figured pleading not guilty was his only chance at freedom, however tiny that chance was.
      Stranger cases have had not guilty rulings.

    • @katarina1852
      @katarina1852 11 месяцев назад +8

      I think sometimes the homicidal spouse sticks with their not guilty claims because they don’t want their kids to know they’re a murderer.

    • @anthonynicholson5523
      @anthonynicholson5523 11 месяцев назад +5

      ​@@katarina1852oh I bet tons of people guilty of horrible things plead not guilty to give friends and family something to hold on to if they need to believe ther mom or dad couldn't do such a thing. Or because they are unable to admit it to their close friends and family

  • @Throatzillaaa
    @Throatzillaaa 11 месяцев назад +16

    I squealed with delight when I saw your halloween button up during the sponsorship portion of the video! That shirt is amazing, Dr. Grande 🎃 👻

    • @kingayy9267
      @kingayy9267 11 месяцев назад +3

      He looked so happy!

  • @Flamsterette
    @Flamsterette 11 месяцев назад +30

    Thanks for the upload, Dr. Grande! Your true fans love your humor!

  • @duvessa2003
    @duvessa2003 11 месяцев назад +4

    If you look at the comically creepy look on Tim’s face when he gives the answer on Family Feud, that might be indicative of something…

  • @velvetbees
    @velvetbees 11 месяцев назад +5

    How sad that her life was sacrificed to his instability. It is so cringy. Poor lady.

  • @JRPLawyeress1
    @JRPLawyeress1 11 месяцев назад +22

    Thanks for your analysis. I was a fan of “Family Feud”. This took it to a new level. I have three kids. I can’t imagine hurting them by making them orphans. Crazy.

  • @Pailers
    @Pailers 11 месяцев назад +12

    Unrelated to the case - The festive pumpkin shirt is incredible!!!

    • @TheJemstar28
      @TheJemstar28 11 месяцев назад

      Right!

    • @thelostronin
      @thelostronin 11 месяцев назад

      What pumpkin shirt are you talking about? All I see is a plad button up?

    • @shelleygill2324
      @shelleygill2324 Месяц назад

      ​@@thelostroninin the Factor advertisement

  • @soft_serve_666
    @soft_serve_666 11 месяцев назад +23

    It's been proven that after a woman ends a relationship, their life is in danger. It's actually the most dangerous time in a woman's life. "Men" like Tim can't tolerate their fragile ego to be destroyed. And if it is, the ex wife/girlfriend has to pay with their life. Happens way too often.

    • @TS-rd7oy
      @TS-rd7oy 11 месяцев назад +6

      It's so bizarre, their egos really are so fragile. They can't understand they are simply human like the rest of us living lives with ups and downs. So many males like this. Every day I hear a story where the woman wanted to leave, he unalives her and spends his life in prison. Fragile egos and not too bright at all.

    • @roguechevelle
      @roguechevelle 11 месяцев назад +3

      It was mentioned he filed for divorce but I've seen this happen too where the man wanted to end the marriage then later he can't stand seeing the woman move on with another man even thinking they want her back when they see it happen.

    • @Faristol7
      @Faristol7 11 месяцев назад

      ​@@TS-rd7oyl knew about these situations since high school...Leaving my first two boyfriends was traumatic and stressful because of the male ego, which l had not reckoned with at the age of 17 or 18. I had not even married anyone and l got called 'a dirty little b****', and saw the beginnings of aggression and violence. Later l had a 'fling' with somebody who has stalked me all my life. And still holds it against me that l 'got away' and married someone else. To all intents and purposes, l'm a 'normal' married woman, mother of three but l had those nasty experiences as a teen ager and young woman😢 l did nothing but be sweet to those boys/men, but they weren't for me & l had to move on. I remember well the guilt and the trauma they made me feel. And we weren't even married ....😱

  • @SkipFlem
    @SkipFlem 11 месяцев назад +4

    and they didn't find a men's jacket with 'reflectors' on the shoulder panels???

  • @ThatLadyInDallas2024
    @ThatLadyInDallas2024 11 месяцев назад +8

    Hey Doc. I see you've uped your game from 7 to to 9 cacti now. 🌵🌵🌵🌵🌵🌵🌵🌵🌵 Looks great. Looking forward to #10. 👍🏻
    Great 🎃 shirt too!

    • @dawndraper9371
      @dawndraper9371 11 месяцев назад +2

      Wait, why do I only count 8? 🤔 And yes I'm loving the shirt! :)

    • @ThatLadyInDallas2024
      @ThatLadyInDallas2024 11 месяцев назад

      @@dawndraper9371 6 on the left and 3 on the right. I count the live one too.

    • @ThatLadyInDallas2024
      @ThatLadyInDallas2024 11 месяцев назад

      Little green one on the left is the newest.

    • @dawndraper9371
      @dawndraper9371 11 месяцев назад

      But I only see five on the left and three on the right. On the left I see: two on the top shelf, two on the middle shelf, and then one big cactus on the bottom. What am I missing? Wait I wonder if it has something to do with not watching it full screen and only watching it mobile? 🤔 Hahaha, silly thing to be getting prickly about! ☺️😜

  • @judyt.3228
    @judyt.3228 11 месяцев назад +4

    Tims statement really shows his dislike for his wife. I'm sure he didn't treat her well at all. Behind closed doors, he probably talked down to her. Being narcissistic he wanted everyone to think he was the victim, sounds familiar to me! She knew, he was trouble and wanted out. He was furious that she had enough self love to move on....he snapped.

  • @Floppyearsmomma
    @Floppyearsmomma 11 месяцев назад +16

    I just watched the documentary on this last night. Such a sad case. Thanks for the great analysis, Dr. Grande.

  • @xtiphuny89
    @xtiphuny89 11 месяцев назад +11

    Whoa, I got here 3 minutes after posting! Woohoo! I'm enjoying the lightest sound of rain during the sunset on my front porch, and this is just the kind of video I was hoping for to give me company 😊
    Btw does anyone else feel like the bicycle video really nailed it for the prosecution? There is a lot of evidence, but that one is just ridiculously good.

    • @KoolT
      @KoolT 11 месяцев назад +2

      The internet searches didn't hurt😂😂😂😂😂❤ but those 2 for sure.

  • @RHCPpleasestandup
    @RHCPpleasestandup 11 месяцев назад +7

    Little known fact about this case, Tim's last internet search was "how do I get convicted of murder"

  • @mc4dj1304
    @mc4dj1304 11 месяцев назад +5

    These google searches are the stuff of dark comedy. When will people learn that they will ALWAYS get caught especially when they premeditated their future crimes.

    • @teeahtate
      @teeahtate 5 месяцев назад +2

      Everything you do on the internet is recorded.

  • @TyrellaChantelle
    @TyrellaChantelle 11 месяцев назад +4

    Evil. This is why I'm not married. People are too scary

    • @dawnelder9046
      @dawnelder9046 11 месяцев назад

      Does not matter. A woman dated a man twice and figured out he was a nutcase. She ended up with a restraining order. Did not help. He murdered her. Got less than 5 years.

  • @user.47221
    @user.47221 11 месяцев назад +6

    I cracked at tim's search history. Not suspicious at all. Looks like he figured all out thanks to google.
    Imagine he searches for all those first and lastly types "does police officers check spouse's search history"...id love to see his "im f**ked" face.
    Rip Becky.

  • @kw9859
    @kw9859 11 месяцев назад +5

    Tim basically incriminated himself through his search history alone! Wow!

  • @Ray-dt7wo
    @Ray-dt7wo 11 месяцев назад +5

    If I look back on past relationships 5 years was the point I lost all interest and I'm sure for my partner they were not happy with me .The thing we both went out separate ways nobody got hurt , well physically.

  • @TheDealMaster
    @TheDealMaster 11 месяцев назад +8

    Thank you Dr. Grande, for covering this case. I recall when this happened. Very odd/strange... And for the record... And I don't know why, whenever I see Grande in the kitchen, I start chuckling, lol. ZERO reason why. 😁

    • @kingayy9267
      @kingayy9267 11 месяцев назад +2

      The little bunny salt and pepper shakers!
      Too cute.

  • @pipermccool
    @pipermccool 11 месяцев назад +4

    “You have the right to remain silent. Anything you said to Steve Harvey in the past can and will be used against you in a court of law . . . “

  • @wsidechris
    @wsidechris 11 месяцев назад +15

    Correction: the divorce was in 2021, not 2001. This case from crime to punishment is by far the fastest I have ever heard. It seems to me that he couldn't handle the real world anymore and wants the order of prison (despite his empty claims of innocence). You put him and that Ohio guy (Chad Doerman) together and they make a complete set on family annihilation. They both punished their wives (who each had 3 sons) in different ways.

    • @debbiebride1482
      @debbiebride1482 11 месяцев назад +4

      Glad to know I’m not the only date error dork. I can’t help myself!

    • @Kazwell111
      @Kazwell111 11 месяцев назад +2

      Thanks for mentioning this. I too noticed the mistake. Surprised so few people mentioned this in the comments. I guess people are so enamored by his popularity they are afraid to correct him. I guess they just take him on his word even if it totally distorts the timeline of the case. He normally doesn't make such boneheaded mistakes, so I guess he deserves a pass this time

    • @shitmandood
      @shitmandood 11 месяцев назад +5

      I didn’t hear it at all. He said the game show was filmed in 2019 and aired in 2020 and I heard something like 6 months after the show, Tim filed for divorce…so didn’t notice 2001 and even if he said it, I’d probably have autocorrected in my head..

    • @mayaa3648
      @mayaa3648 11 месяцев назад +2

      @Tryin2Believe what an oddly harsh comment.

  • @velvetram2975
    @velvetram2975 11 месяцев назад +4

    Happy he got caught, but why on earth do the dummies look up so many suspicious things on the internet. He can figure out how to get in a window?

  • @BigZebraCom
    @BigZebraCom 11 месяцев назад +4

    Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video; only speculating about a Bliefnick like this.

  • @BonnieLiedtka
    @BonnieLiedtka 11 месяцев назад +5

    It's ashame that she wasn't granted a restraining order.
    Interesting how he made mistakes on the Internet that got him convicted.

    • @janeoleary8454
      @janeoleary8454 11 месяцев назад +5

      That paper protects no one

    • @dawnelder9046
      @dawnelder9046 11 месяцев назад +2

      A lady one door down from us had a restraining order against a man she date a couple of times. He was in jail for several months. The day he got out he tracked her down at a local bar.
      My husband and daughter walked her home.
      He murdered her that night, set the house on fire, knowing her grand baby was I the house.
      He served less than five years.

    • @BonnieLiedtka
      @BonnieLiedtka 11 месяцев назад

      @@dawnelder9046 sorry to hear that it does happen.
      where I live the court gives the lady a cell phone strictly for use of if the husband or boyfriend shows up immediately use your phone to dispatch for help it has saved lives.

    • @peggypeggy4137
      @peggypeggy4137 9 месяцев назад +2

      She wanted to get one but was afraid of the repercussions with her husband Tim. Though this story, I have found that this is often the case with DV. This creep was so determined to kill her. I'm not sure anything could have saved her with his twisted determination. She wasn't even able to call 911 in time before he broke in. So sad.

  • @militarygrade12380
    @militarygrade12380 11 месяцев назад +4

    Im a CO in Quincy where he was jailed he took a vacation the day after the murder I believe that is when he disposed of the shoes and murder weapon. But we had enough evidence to convict.

  • @annettefeka4587
    @annettefeka4587 11 месяцев назад +3

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  • @KellyOShea6366
    @KellyOShea6366 11 месяцев назад +4

    You have a very nice china cabinet, Grande..
    Love you, love your show.
    ❤️☘️

  • @Taco_Raider
    @Taco_Raider 11 месяцев назад +10

    Very familiar with this case, and looking forward to hearing your thoughts. Thanks, Doc!
    (Mega Therion, new account)

    • @kingayy9267
      @kingayy9267 11 месяцев назад

      @Taco_Raider
      Love your new username!

    • @Taco_Raider
      @Taco_Raider 11 месяцев назад

      @@kingayy9267 Thank you, but hide the tacos!

  • @kristiemarsh49
    @kristiemarsh49 11 месяцев назад +5

    Love your Halloween shirt Dr.Grande!

  • @MEL2theJ
    @MEL2theJ 11 месяцев назад +27

    Thank you again Dr. Grande 🙏
    I was curious to hear your analysis of the husband. I've always been taken aback by how, to watch him talk, he was so seemingly innocent. He never once swayed after blatantly committing such a gruesome overkill. To watch someone so calm and collected after knowing what their eyes have seen is spooky and chilling. (Even spookier than the shirt you were wearing in the FACTOR advertisement 🎃)

  • @marinaalba1707
    @marinaalba1707 11 месяцев назад +7

    Even the ads in Dr Grande’s videos are a work of art! Your sponsors should be proud Dr Grande! 👌🙌😃

  • @Lotsa-Luv
    @Lotsa-Luv 11 месяцев назад +2

    Project Bring the acronym O C E A N back. Why? Because O C E A N acronym Dr. Grande, is my favorite Dr. Grande ❤🎉

  • @floratink
    @floratink 11 месяцев назад +4

    I always look for your dog in the Factor sponsors and you did not disappoint! ☺️love the festive shirt btw!

  • @PattyWagon496
    @PattyWagon496 11 месяцев назад +2

    Dr. G, I've enjoyed your channel for a while, but seeing the bunny salt and pepper shakers, I now love you. 😘😉

  • @StlScarlett
    @StlScarlett 6 месяцев назад +3

    I went to Quincy University the same time as Tim and Becky. The college campus is small and everyone knows everyone there. This just devastated the people of Quincy. Becky, and Tim for that matter, were both very well known in the community-and well liked. Becky was lovely and a great friend, great Mom…Tim was the epitome of BMOC-played sports, good looking, popular. I personally thought he was pompous, definitely had a big ego. Couldn’t believe when I found out a murder happened in Quincy. Very much Americas hometown. Known for its bars and churches on every block, predominantly Catholic community with small town values and gender roles to match for the most part. Many of these kids were raised by practicing Catholics and were raised in homes with Moms who did the housework and took care of kids, while the fathers did “men things”. I think being raised that way had an effect on Tim and his values and why he felt so wronged by Becky when they were going through their separation and divorce. He is exactly where he belongs. Becky didn’t deserve this and neither does her boys. I just hope for the boys to be raised in light and love, surrounded by all things good. The community is still healing… Quincy will never forget Becky. ❤
    Thank you Dr. Grande for this video.