right. he isn't a fuckin Gatekeeper just trying to give you just enough your interested or got results enough to pay for their seminar or week long retreat or buy their product and what not. not that those people are bad, I don't believe they are, I'm just saying he isn't a gatekeeper. hold the gate till ya pay kinda thangggg.
@永乐 it's not freeloading. That type of thinking that's "Obviously" going on in your head is poor/middle class mentality. Think like the rich. Which would beeeee, why pay for it if I'm smart enough to find it free. Stay poor bub 😘
My nephew turned me onto your email,and RUclips shows. I’m 71 in the throws of mourning my husband of 47 years and you have given me more to know in this life I have lived so far. I thank you for that. We have had a beautiful marriage of which I’m beyond grateful and I have many blessings in my grandchild my family and the people around me. I’m glad to add you as one of those blessings to make even more of this life that I have no regrets of. I’m sad and missing but I also know what I had and what I have and all to give. Thank you
My condolences on your husband's passing. I hope you're surrounded by loving ppl who sit with you while you grieve the way you need to at your own pace.
Aww Aunty Mary...we are here for you ...xxx Your blessed 47 good years and family. In this day and age its hard to find a genuine partner. People have to big egos and are too confident to not appreciate love because of technology and swipe and finding replacements then solving and embracing situations.
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To acquire success, you need the help of a FinanciaI consuItant. I engage in a variety of lnvestments with the ideas of my consuItant and have acquired great returns so far. (the amount is confidential).
Opportunity is a scarce commodity. I will partake in this; there’s no limit to what you can achieve in life (including success) if you put your mind to it. Luckily I stumble into this.
"Look for the poetry in ordinary things." Back in college I took a poetry writing course. I remember my professor stressing the idea that if you're going for a walk or a jog that you shouldn't wear headphones because you miss out on the beauty of so many things. Your surroundings and even the rhythm of your own heartbeat are beautiful things that can inspire many great lines. I've never forgot this and even though I don't write poetry anymore, I still think like a poet. However, I wouldn't recommend not wearing headphones in a gym because they're usually blaring some garbage.
I recently started this practice a few months ago, and it's been a revelation. Ditching the headphones has made me more attuned to the nuances and beauty in everyday moments, in everyday life. It's also made me more mindful and intentional about when I do listen to music. Everyday life doesn't need a soundtrack; it already has its own if you are open to experiencing it.
I’ve been listening to this video every morning for the last 3weeks while getting ready and it’s made me more relaxed and I’ve seen an improvement in myself 👍🏻
As a recovering addict stoicism is the best philosophy I could have ever encountered. I still have a long way to go to being the person I want to be but employing these strategies has transformed me into a person I can be proud of. I've been in sobriety / recovery since 2017. Have overcome severe mental health conditions and am focusing on my passion in life. Its wonderful.
Shelley, you're awesome and don't EVER forget that! Keep fighting the good fight, its worth it, the people that love you is worth it, you're worth it to the people that love you, and most importantly you're worth it to yourself💜💪❤.
When I think of Marcus Aurelius’s teachings I always remember - Give me the SERENITY to ACCEPT the things that I can’t control, the COURAGE to CHANGE the things that I can, and the WISDOM to know the DIFFERENCE. ❤😊
It is almost 6 month of war here in Ukraine. And my native city is right on the front line. All these missile strikes, artillery , etc. ruining places that were part of my life and killing people I knew made me to revise some thoughts on life priorities. Extreme situations like this kind of underline what is really important in your life. A food and water enough to be healthy and sometimes something tasty just for pleasure of tasting a good dish. Clean and warm bed to sleep. Possibility of having a walk in the park and watching birds, squirrels , etc. People you care are in safety and are healthy. An opportunity to work on things you want to master. This is actually it. Its actually what is enough. Situation brought me to something on the edge of stoicism and Nietzschean overcoming of yourself. And while googling on stoicism I came across with your channel. Just want to say - thank you. You are doing a great job sharing thoughts and spreading an ideas to people that need them!
Andrii. I follow the Ukraine War pretty much daily and wanna tell you how sorry I am that your country suffers this injustice. I think of you guys every day, praying for you to meet your sovereign objectives and for this nightmare to be over. Better days ahead, my friend! A lot of people in the world care about Ukraine❤️
It’s with all this stoicism trend nowadays that I’ve discovered that I’ve been a stoic all my life without even knowing it! Interestingly, sometimes I felt that I had an “uncommon” approach to the situations which didn’t match the usual behavior of many people, and that made me think that maybe I was wrong about my way of thinking. But it just happened that I was a stoic 😄 good that now I can name it and be proud of it!
OMG - I’m enjoying this so much… I’m in my mid seventies now. I studied Eastern wisdom traditions most of my life: Buddhism, Zen, and Taoism, but I knew nothing at all about the Stoics. Over my 70+ years I had developed some personal ideas and outlooks that helped me along the way. Then… over the past few months because of these vids on RUclips I have been introduced to the Stoics way of viewing life and I am stunned at how many of these ideas I had developed on my own without realizing there was a name for it or that there were ancient wisdom traditions based on that way of seeing things. So: THANK YOU SO MUCH for sharing this with the world here on YT. Now I want to read some of these wise words in book form to grok the back-story. Ever grateful.
In my opinion this video is your Magnum Opus, it embodies everything that Daily Stoic stands for and a lot of what Stoicism is about, the practices talked about here are timeless and universal, thank you so much for this.
I just realised I can totally use "the obstacle is the way" when teaching maths. We talk in education about how the struggle to understand something is actually so important to making it stick in your brain. Anything to keep up my persona as the "weird teacher" anyway lol.
Thank you Ryan. I love your videos, very helpful to me. I very much appreciate that you have made such a precious ancient philosophy available to the viewers.
Since I was a kid I have read stoicism,became so depressed under the pandemic and brought me back to stoicism,under the pandemic I had reviewed my entire lifetime,I had not find regrets on me,other than not getting my Hi School Diploma or GED.
This is the real content and spread positivity all over the world. I am from india I share this video to all my friends because this rules is very impressive. Almost 2 weeks plus I watched this video everyday to remind this rules 👍
The Rules: 01:03 Focus on what you can control. 01:24 You control how you respond to things. 01:59 Ask yourself, “Is this essential?” 02:28 Meditate on your mortality every day. 02:47 Value time more than money/possessions. 03:11 You are the product of your habits. 03:28 Remember you have the power to have no opinion. 03:58 Own the morning. 04:28 Put yourself up for review (Interrogate yourself). 04:46 Don’t suffer imagined troubles. 05:18 Try to see the good in people. 05:41 Never be overheard complaining…even to yourself. 06:02 Two ears, one mouth…for a reason (Zeno) 06:12 There is always something you can do. 06:33 Don’t compare yourself to others. 07:06 Live as if you’ve died and come back (every minute is bonus time). 07:25 “The best revenge is not to be like that.” Marcus Aurelius 07:48 Be strict with yourself and tolerant with others. 08:09 Put every impression, emotion, to the test before acting on it. 08:41 Learn something from everyone. 09:12 Focus on process, not outcomes. 09:41 Define what success means to you. 10:14 Find a way to love everything that happens (Amor fati). 10:46 Seek out challenges. 11:11 Don’t follow the mob. 12:00 Grab the “smooth handle.” 12:34 Every person is an opportunity for kindness (Seneca) 12:57 Say no (a lot). 13:33 Don’t be afraid to ask for help. 14:15 Find one thing that makes you wiser every day. 14:54 What’s bad for the hive is bad for the bee (Marcus Aurelius) 15:24 Don’t judge other people. 15:53 Study the lives of the greats. 16:30 Forgive, forgive, forgive. 17:01 Make a little progress each day. 17:26 Journal. 18:34 Prepare for life’s inevitable setbacks (premeditatio malorum) 19:08 Look for the poetry in ordinary things. 19:46 To do wrong to one, is to do wrong to yourself. (sympatheia) 20:07 Always choose “Alive Time.” 20:38 Associate only with people that make you better. 21:04 If someone offends you, realize you are complicit in taking offense. 21:36 Fate behaves as she pleases…do not forget this. 21:50 Possessions are yours only in trust. 22:31 Don’t make your problems worse by bemoaning them. 23:03 Accept success without arrogance, handle failure with indifference. 23:50 Courage. Temperance. Justice. Wisdom. (Always). 24:21 The obstacle is the way. 24:47 Ego is the enemy. 25:09 Stillness is the key.
I really want to express how much I appreciate this! So many creators don't offer a guide to targeted listening. It's something that really keeps me coming back. I happened to listen to this video all the way through, but I want to make sure you know how much it is appreciated. I've applied stoicism more in the last three months, than I have in the past three years, and your content has been key! Keep up the good work! Thank you.
Hi, Ryan, wow, what a treasure. If you’d have find 52, there’ll be one for every week of the year to think about and work with… I’ll translate it into German and make a picture of it. I always admired the Stoics and they helped me a lot during my life. There are of course reasons I found them. My favourite was always EPIKTET, thank you I know now a lot more. Never too old to learn new skills. Love, Monika❣️
"Everything you do, you chose to purchase with your life" This hit me so hard. I never thought of life/death, every moment that we have, useless things that i spent time on, this way. So profound, and awe-inspiring.
Ryan, thank you for sharing the practical wisdom of the stoics. You do so in a very natural and powerful way. I greatly value how it supports my understanding of the Gospel of Jesus Christ as well as binding with other faiths and paths of refinement. I am grateful to you and have been made better by your life's mission. Thank you!
A few years back I went through a very painful divorce and your book helped me out of my depression. I would listen to it as I was running training for a marathon... almost 5 years later I realize how that painful journey was the way to this current new stage of my life... it turns out my exwife was a few years later diagnosed with freak Early Onset Dementia... what I did not realize at the time is the weigh of that disease was not only bringing her down, but bringing our young sons and myself down with it... it was through the painful divorce that I freed myself from it, and was able to be the father my sons needed... now my sons and I are doing very well, and we are also caring for my exwife and being present for her accompanying her though her journey, but not being drowned by it... the painful divorce was the way for all of us to become greater and have a better life (for now -lol)
You are a beautiful person for the way that you dealt with a time that was clearly very distressing. You sound like a great example to your family! Your actions are very inspiring. 👍🏽😊
@@johnbags2525 very classy. Your attempt of joke lacks class. I wonder why you are reading these deep thought post and then responding like this? Anyway, work on your humor. Trying to hurt other people is never funny.
@@johnbags2525 in keeping with the tradition of “The Obstacle Is The Way” Your negative post gave me the opportunity to paste a message I wrote to my ex-wife because today would have been our 29th wedding anniversary: . A note to my ex-wife In the day of our anniversary. It has been - [ ] 29 years since we got married and I promised to take care of you until death do us apart. - [ ] 31 years since you stole my heart with your sweet kiss when we first met - [ ] 7 years since we divorced. - [ ] 4 years since you were diagnosed with Early Onset Dementia and I took you back to care for you. My heart is broken in 1000 pieces and dark. Yet, somehow I managed to learn to love better than I had ever loved before. Your sweetness is incomparable. Your pureness is indescribable. I am still in awe! Yet, I suffer immeasurable grief for seeing you go through the Alzheimer’s experience. My pain is matched with deep gratitude for having the opportunity to serve you selflessly, and to take care of our two beautiful and strong sons. I will always love you selflessly and eternally, because you deserve it. I see the pure sweetness of God displayed in you every second of every day. Thank you for making me better and for giving me the opportunity to care for you.
In a culture that sees asking for help as a sign of weakness, no single act carries the weight of true strength more than rejecting the entire culture by asking for that help.
Hi Ryan thank you so very much for these videos. You are inspiring me to be 1% better every day. Making healthier choices, sticking to a good fitness routine. And even doing one thing today to scare me by having a cold shower this morning after my high intensity training workout I had always feared cold water and I found myself looking up at the shower head and asking it" is this all you've got?" Next aims are to go to bed 15 minutes earlier at the start of each week and waking up 15 minutes earlier. Improving by 15 minutes every week. So I can get up and start journalling. 😊😊
These virtues are basically the same as the fruits of the Holly Spirit we are though to practice for an enriched, Peacefull, meaningful life and Afterlife
Ryan, you're the man. Bought books on stoicism but could never really read them (boring). Thanks for making stoicism so digestible and relatable to modern life. You are such a gem to so many!
Great video, Ryan. No. 10 on imagined troubles, and No. 48 The Obstacle is the Way, and making the best out of difficulties really resonate with me. Thank you for all of the wisdom you share :)
Just found your channel today. Went out and bought a journal and starting to implement this self reflection and allowing to be removed from things I can't control. I started the day feeling crappy. But feel more comfortable now. Thank you for all the great advice.
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If something bad is happening in your life congratulations something great is going to happen. Just be patient. In this world we lack good communication, patience and don't look at things broadly enough.
Have you thought about talking with Dr. Jordan Peterson and his 12 (or 24 counting his new book) rules? And talk about stoicism with him? That would be a great podcast
Please, consider this! I'm astonished there's not a larger stir around this page, the Daily Stoic brand, and the general concepts of stoicism, and philosophy. I believe there's a network of quite genuinely amazing humans, finding a way to connect through this 'podcast' medium.. and Ryan Holiday, with the likes of Dr. Jordan B. Peterson, Wim Hof, Jocko Willink, David Goggins, Lex Friedman, The Bioneer, Dr. Sten Ekberg. Among many others, of course..
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Hey my friend, so many of these things resonate with me, things I've always tried to practice. I had no idea there was a philosophy practicing this called stoicism. I'm so excited to learn more about it. Thanks
So, I'm at T-Mobile in order to leave A T and T, this takes a while. Before I leave, two T-Mobile folks take a picture of my copy of The Obstacle is the Way. They ask about the circles tattooed on my arm. Those are my teachers and the reminder of the only place my power is, inside the hoop. I leave them with The Daily Stoic email. They ask me to visit; it wasn't me that got them revved up- Stoicism The path to your best life. Hi Ry...
Law of attraction. I have been thinking more deeply and challenging old thought patterns and behaviors. Now I have stubbled upon this gem. Crazy how the world and God works. I am excited to see what my future holds.
I absolutely get so much out of these videos and they have become my daily obsession. They enlighten me, and guide me towards my higher self. Thank you so much for all that you do! #Gratitude
I’ve had a lot of these thoughts before hearing of stoicism or Marcus Aurelius, it’s comforting to know that I’ve developed similar thoughts to a great person, however difficult it is to act on these thoughts.
Writes ten books on stoicism, and also puts out a ton of free advice and information on RUclips? This dude is my hero.
right. he isn't a fuckin Gatekeeper just trying to give you just enough your interested or got results enough to pay for their seminar or week long retreat or buy their product and what not. not that those people are bad, I don't believe they are, I'm just saying he isn't a gatekeeper. hold the gate till ya pay kinda thangggg.
100 percent.
@永乐 Why pay? We live in the age of information. Ignorance is a choice now in my opinion. ;)
@永乐 it's not freeloading. That type of thinking that's "Obviously" going on in your head is poor/middle class mentality. Think like the rich. Which would beeeee, why pay for it if I'm smart enough to find it free. Stay poor bub 😘
I'd rather keep Slamming money into my portfolio and let my money make me more instead of spending it. But you keep up the good work bud. 🤣✌️
"You can't change your friends, but you can change your friends". Took me a while to get it but damn it's a good reminder
Very good reminder
I think in Greek it made more sense.
Here change has 2 meanings.
What does it mean?
@@lovealways729 i think it means you cant change their behaviour but you can change who your friends are
@@karimkamel4295agreed… you cannot change who your friends are they are who they are but you can change not to have them around you
My nephew turned me onto your email,and RUclips shows. I’m 71 in the throws of mourning my husband of 47 years and you have given me more to know in this life I have lived so far. I thank you for that. We have had a beautiful marriage of which I’m beyond grateful and I have many blessings in my grandchild my family and the people around me. I’m glad to add you as one of those blessings to make even more of this life that I have no regrets of. I’m sad and missing but I also know what I had and what I have and all to give. Thank you
So sorry for your loss. Gratitude is a powerful recentering tool. Most of us forget to use it as often as we should.
glad to say Im the 71 like
I’m so sorry. You had 47 wonderful years 💕 a new chapter begins, this one can be just as beautiful I promise :)
My condolences on your husband's passing. I hope you're surrounded by loving ppl who sit with you while you grieve the way you need to at your own pace.
Aww Aunty Mary...we are here for you ...xxx Your blessed 47 good years and family. In this day and age its hard to find a genuine partner. People have to big egos and are too confident to not appreciate love because of technology and swipe and finding replacements then solving and embracing situations.
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Opportunity is a scarce commodity. I will partake in this; there’s no limit to what you can achieve in life (including success) if you put your mind to it. Luckily I stumble into this.
"Look for the poetry in ordinary things." Back in college I took a poetry writing course. I remember my professor stressing the idea that if you're going for a walk or a jog that you shouldn't wear headphones because you miss out on the beauty of so many things. Your surroundings and even the rhythm of your own heartbeat are beautiful things that can inspire many great lines. I've never forgot this and even though I don't write poetry anymore, I still think like a poet. However, I wouldn't recommend not wearing headphones in a gym because they're usually blaring some garbage.
Are you crazy?? If you are not connected YOU WILL DIE!!
Damn...that was actually pretty eye opening. Definitely gonna carry this mindset for my evening walks.
Thanks for sharing 🤝
Giving up the ability to hear is dangerous also.
I recently started this practice a few months ago, and it's been a revelation. Ditching the headphones has made me more attuned to the nuances and beauty in everyday moments, in everyday life. It's also made me more mindful and intentional about when I do listen to music. Everyday life doesn't need a soundtrack; it already has its own if you are open to experiencing it.
I love how much the 12 step programme has is common with these teachings. Stoicism WILL save your life x
I’ve been listening to this video every morning for the last 3weeks while getting ready and it’s made me more relaxed and I’ve seen an improvement in myself 👍🏻
Daily affirmations keep us on our toes like daily exercise. Keep training your mind like u train your body 💪😎
Yeah, this feels like a mind vitamin that we all need to take
Rah, yut, semper fidelis
Good to hear, I'm in!
As a recovering addict stoicism is the best philosophy I could have ever encountered. I still have a long way to go to being the person I want to be but employing these strategies has transformed me into a person I can be proud of. I've been in sobriety / recovery since 2017. Have overcome severe mental health conditions and am focusing on my passion in life. Its wonderful.
Shelley, you're awesome and don't EVER forget that! Keep fighting the good fight, its worth it, the people that love you is worth it, you're worth it to the people that love you, and most importantly you're worth it to yourself💜💪❤.
@@wesleyalan9179 thankyou ❤️ it is definitely worth it. Change is possible no matter how grim things may seem to be. 😍
I hope all is going well with you. Wishing the best for you
Hey, I am a recovering addict too...
As he says every pain is an opportunity to change
When I think of Marcus Aurelius’s teachings I always remember - Give me the SERENITY to ACCEPT the things that I can’t control, the COURAGE to CHANGE the things that I can, and the WISDOM to know the DIFFERENCE. ❤😊
Catholic prayer
@@Kitiwake I don’t think Marcus Aurelius was Catholic. 🤔. I rather think this would be before Catholics. 🙄
Find a way to love everything that happens…. that hit hard!
It is almost 6 month of war here in Ukraine. And my native city is right on the front line. All these missile strikes, artillery , etc. ruining places that were part of my life and killing people I knew made me to revise some thoughts on life priorities. Extreme situations like this kind of underline what is really important in your life. A food and water enough to be healthy and sometimes something tasty just for pleasure of tasting a good dish. Clean and warm bed to sleep. Possibility of having a walk in the park and watching birds, squirrels , etc. People you care are in safety and are healthy. An opportunity to work on things you want to master. This is actually it. Its actually what is enough.
Situation brought me to something on the edge of stoicism and Nietzschean overcoming of yourself. And while googling on stoicism I came across with your channel.
Just want to say - thank you. You are doing a great job sharing thoughts and spreading an ideas to people that need them!
Andrii. I follow the Ukraine War pretty much daily and wanna tell you how sorry I am that your country suffers this injustice. I think of you guys every day, praying for you to meet your sovereign objectives and for this nightmare to be over. Better days ahead, my friend! A lot of people in the world care about Ukraine❤️
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May the force be with you my friend! You are surely also a hero!
Long live you and yours!
Long live ✨ 🇺🇦 Ukraine 🇺🇦 ✨!
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Thank you for everything ❤️
I should watch this video every day.
3 consecutive days now
@@OliverVillaverde I rewatch this and take note in my book. Each day gets a Rule for Life...
It’s with all this stoicism trend nowadays that I’ve discovered that I’ve been a stoic all my life without even knowing it! Interestingly, sometimes I felt that I had an “uncommon” approach to the situations which didn’t match the usual behavior of many people, and that made me think that maybe I was wrong about my way of thinking. But it just happened that I was a stoic 😄 good that now I can name it and be proud of it!
I love Stoicism, and the way you you bring it t
@@mingpeeps thank you! I appreciate it!
That is so interesting. Keep it up 👍
Me too!!
Journal: “Instead of dumping on someone, it made me better,” - that one really hit home, thank you 🙏
OMG - I’m enjoying this so much… I’m in my mid seventies now. I studied Eastern wisdom traditions most of my life: Buddhism, Zen, and Taoism, but I knew nothing at all about the Stoics. Over my 70+ years I had developed some personal ideas and outlooks that helped me along the way. Then… over the past few months because of these vids on RUclips I have been introduced to the Stoics way of viewing life and I am stunned at how many of these ideas I had developed on my own without realizing there was a name for it or that there were ancient wisdom traditions based on that way of seeing things. So: THANK YOU SO MUCH for sharing this with the world here on YT. Now I want to read some of these wise words in book form to grok the back-story. Ever grateful.
This is the first person I’ve seen organize book shelves by color and I’m kinda digging it.
Dont know how many times l have listen to this. Thank you!
In my opinion this video is your Magnum Opus, it embodies everything that Daily Stoic stands for and a lot of what Stoicism is about, the practices talked about here are timeless and universal, thank you so much for this.
I watch this video often and specially when I face a difficulty. It grounds me and guides me. Thank you so much for sharing this wisdom with us.
Great advice:
"Things don't happen TO you, they happen FOR you."
I just realised I can totally use "the obstacle is the way" when teaching maths. We talk in education about how the struggle to understand something is actually so important to making it stick in your brain. Anything to keep up my persona as the "weird teacher" anyway lol.
thank you Ryan Holiday!
What a gem, one of the best videos I’ve watched!! This needs to be reviewed weekly at a minimum!! Wow ❤
Thank you Ryan. I love your videos, very helpful to me. I very much appreciate that you have made such a precious ancient philosophy available to the viewers.
So much wisdom in just 30 minutes. Thank you!
You're a great advisor Mister Ryan.
Since I was a kid I have read stoicism,became so depressed under the pandemic and brought me back to stoicism,under the pandemic I had reviewed my entire lifetime,I had not find regrets on me,other than not getting my Hi School Diploma or GED.
This is the real content and spread positivity all over the world. I am from india I share this video to all my friends because this rules is very impressive.
Almost 2 weeks plus I watched this video everyday to remind this rules 👍
The Rules:
01:03 Focus on what you can control.
01:24 You control how you respond to things.
01:59 Ask yourself, “Is this essential?”
02:28 Meditate on your mortality every day.
02:47 Value time more than money/possessions.
03:11 You are the product of your habits.
03:28 Remember you have the power to have no opinion.
03:58 Own the morning.
04:28 Put yourself up for review (Interrogate yourself).
04:46 Don’t suffer imagined troubles.
05:18 Try to see the good in people.
05:41 Never be overheard complaining…even to yourself.
06:02 Two ears, one mouth…for a reason (Zeno)
06:12 There is always something you can do.
06:33 Don’t compare yourself to others.
07:06 Live as if you’ve died and come back (every minute is bonus time).
07:25 “The best revenge is not to be like that.” Marcus Aurelius
07:48 Be strict with yourself and tolerant with others.
08:09 Put every impression, emotion, to the test before acting on it.
08:41 Learn something from everyone.
09:12 Focus on process, not outcomes.
09:41 Define what success means to you.
10:14 Find a way to love everything that happens (Amor fati).
10:46 Seek out challenges.
11:11 Don’t follow the mob.
12:00 Grab the “smooth handle.”
12:34 Every person is an opportunity for kindness (Seneca)
12:57 Say no (a lot).
13:33 Don’t be afraid to ask for help.
14:15 Find one thing that makes you wiser every day.
14:54 What’s bad for the hive is bad for the bee (Marcus Aurelius)
15:24 Don’t judge other people.
15:53 Study the lives of the greats.
16:30 Forgive, forgive, forgive.
17:01 Make a little progress each day.
17:26 Journal.
18:34 Prepare for life’s inevitable setbacks (premeditatio malorum)
19:08 Look for the poetry in ordinary things.
19:46 To do wrong to one, is to do wrong to yourself. (sympatheia)
20:07 Always choose “Alive Time.”
20:38 Associate only with people that make you better.
21:04 If someone offends you, realize you are complicit in taking offense.
21:36 Fate behaves as she pleases…do not forget this.
21:50 Possessions are yours only in trust.
22:31 Don’t make your problems worse by bemoaning them.
23:03 Accept success without arrogance, handle failure with indifference.
23:50 Courage. Temperance. Justice. Wisdom. (Always).
24:21 The obstacle is the way.
24:47 Ego is the enemy.
25:09 Stillness is the key.
Thanks a lot for making it easy for us hhh
I really want to express how much I appreciate this! So many creators don't offer a guide to targeted listening. It's something that really keeps me coming back. I happened to listen to this video all the way through, but I want to make sure you know how much it is appreciated.
I've applied stoicism more in the last three months, than I have in the past three years, and your content has been key! Keep up the good work! Thank you.
RYAN YOU WENT HARD ON THIS ONE! LOVE YOU BROTHER🙏
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@dailystoic Ryan, how do you highlight within the books you read? Is different colours to the first, second time you’ve read the book? Etc
Hi, Ryan, wow, what a treasure. If you’d have find 52, there’ll be one for every week of the year to think about and work with… I’ll translate it into German and make a picture of it. I always admired the Stoics and they helped me a lot during my life. There are of course reasons I found them. My favourite was always EPIKTET, thank you I know now a lot more. Never too old to learn new skills. Love, Monika❣️
Pure distilled gold !!!
Wow, there's a lot of quality information packed into these 26 minutes. Thanks man! Your videos are among the best on RUclips!
Utterly, unbelievably and precisely great wisdom !!!!
Thanks so very much for this. I am going to be watching this over and over again every morning while I get ready before my day starts!
I'm going to be playing this video every day as a great reminder ;)
"Everything you do, you chose to purchase with your life" This hit me so hard. I never thought of life/death, every moment that we have, useless things that i spent time on, this way. So profound, and awe-inspiring.
This Video is So IMPORTANT to Me
Life changing advice! Well spoken my friend!
Dear Ryan, you're so young, how did you become so enlightened? And, thank you for sharing your insight with the world.
I am grateful to have found this channel and the things you teach. It brings a sense of calm to me.
Ryan, thank you for sharing the practical wisdom of the stoics. You do so in a very natural and powerful way. I greatly value how it supports my understanding of the Gospel of Jesus Christ as well as binding with other faiths and paths of refinement. I am grateful to you and have been made better by your life's mission. Thank you!
This video is priceless Ryan. Everyone should watch this regularly and apply as much as they can to their life. Thank you for uploading.
I should listen to this daily
Hi Ryan. You have inspired me to study stoicism. It has changed my life! I am forever grateful for your work. Thank you very much! Carpe diem.
I so appreciate your channel ❤ 💛 💕 ♥ 💓
A few years back I went through a very painful divorce and your book helped me out of my depression. I would listen to it as I was running training for a marathon... almost 5 years later I realize how that painful journey was the way to this current new stage of my life... it turns out my exwife was a few years later diagnosed with freak Early Onset Dementia... what I did not realize at the time is the weigh of that disease was not only bringing her down, but bringing our young sons and myself down with it... it was through the painful divorce that I freed myself from it, and was able to be the father my sons needed... now my sons and I are doing very well, and we are also caring for my exwife and being present for her accompanying her though her journey, but not being drowned by it... the painful divorce was the way for all of us to become greater and have a better life (for now -lol)
Stoic. If I am ever in a situation like this, I hope I can live up to this.
You are a beautiful person for the way that you dealt with a time that was clearly very distressing. You sound like a great example to your family! Your actions are very inspiring. 👍🏽😊
BS. I talked to ur “ex” and she said she’s never even met u.
@@johnbags2525 very classy. Your attempt of joke lacks class. I wonder why you are reading these deep thought post and then responding like this? Anyway, work on your humor. Trying to hurt other people is never funny.
@@johnbags2525 in keeping with the tradition of “The Obstacle Is The Way” Your negative post gave me the opportunity to paste a message I wrote to my ex-wife because today would have been our 29th wedding anniversary:
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A note to my ex-wife
In the day of our anniversary.
It has been
- [ ] 29 years since we got married and I promised to take care of you until death do us apart.
- [ ] 31 years since you stole my heart with your sweet kiss when we first met
- [ ] 7 years since we divorced.
- [ ] 4 years since you were diagnosed with Early Onset Dementia and I took you back to care for you.
My heart is broken in 1000 pieces and dark. Yet, somehow I managed to learn to love better than I had ever loved before.
Your sweetness is incomparable. Your pureness is indescribable.
I am still in awe!
Yet, I suffer immeasurable grief for seeing you go through the Alzheimer’s experience. My pain is matched with deep gratitude for having the opportunity to serve you selflessly, and to take care of our two beautiful and strong sons.
I will always love you selflessly and eternally, because you deserve it. I see the pure sweetness of God displayed in you every second of every day.
Thank you for making me better and for giving me the opportunity to care for you.
I need to watch this every day.
Love your passion for Stoicism Ryan. I enjoy your videos. Great "grounders" for anyone caught up in normal Earth stuff. Now to apply it!
Thank you for your service 🙏
*“People who are crazy enough to think they can change the world, are the ones who do.”* - Rob Siltanen
Love from a small channel💙
MODERATION IS BALANCE
In a culture that sees asking for help as a sign of weakness, no single act carries the weight of true strength more than rejecting the entire culture by asking for that help.
You are a great teacher and this is very selflessly done. Easy to understand and powerful. Thank you.
Thank you for these nuggets of wisdom. This needs to be shared everywhere.
Hi Ryan thank you so very much for these videos. You are inspiring me to be 1% better every day. Making healthier choices, sticking to a good fitness routine. And even doing one thing today to scare me by having a cold shower this morning after my high intensity training workout I had always feared cold water and I found myself looking up at the shower head and asking it" is this all you've got?" Next aims are to go to bed 15 minutes earlier at the start of each week and waking up 15 minutes earlier. Improving by 15 minutes every week. So I can get up and start journalling. 😊😊
These virtues are basically the same as the fruits of the Holly Spirit we are though to practice for an enriched, Peacefull, meaningful life and Afterlife
Challenge for anyone who reads this: apply one of these rules each day for the next 50 days! 😊 let’s go! ❤
I think you missed the point completely
Absolutely Fantastic...most wisdom per second....
God bless you Ryan!! Please continue to help us becoming better!!
Ryan, you're the man. Bought books on stoicism but could never really read them (boring). Thanks for making stoicism so digestible and relatable to modern life. You are such a gem to so many!
Just listen to this on my first run of the year on Jan 1, 2023.
Great video, Ryan. No. 10 on imagined troubles, and No. 48 The Obstacle is the Way, and making the best out of difficulties really resonate with me. Thank you for all of the wisdom you share :)
Also, I found No 42 interesting 'If someone offends you, realize you are complicit in taking offense', very relvant to the current culture.
This channel is youtube at it's best- the information helps the viewers become better and wiser people.
Just found your channel today. Went out and bought a journal and starting to implement this self reflection and allowing to be removed from things I can't control. I started the day feeling crappy. But feel more comfortable now. Thank you for all the great advice.
The stoic rules are in themselves a revelation, but your commentary on them just amplifies them!!
I'm 77 now and asking myself, "Where has stoicism been all my life?" Thank you for this and this community.
THANK U SO MUCH FOR THIS I HOPE U LIVE A GOOD LIFE
“You are choosing to purchase with your life.”
This hits me hard !👍👏🥰
This guy is helping a lot of people.
Ryan is always on point...
The Rules are clear and ready to be implemented if determined.
Definitely will make you better and give you the edge.
Medicine via your ears . Thank you always Ryan for awsome content.
Thank you for keeping it short Ryan, I feel like this could be useful to listen to daily in the morning.
Iam very Greatful to your video 🙏 . It really motivates me
You are doing a great job Ryan. I am getting a lot out of the videos, the books, the philosophy.
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Really Worth Listening...
Thanks For The Good Work...
Keep The Good Work Continuing...
Wise far beyond your years. Love your book, “the obstacle is the way”. Simple concepts I can act upon today.
🌹✌😀🫂💖😁
🤔 -- there's a book!
@Joe Kuhn - Are you an obstacle?
Thank you
If something bad is happening in your life congratulations something great is going to happen. Just be patient. In this world we lack good communication, patience and don't look at things broadly enough.
excellent video. thank you for posting this
Have you thought about talking with Dr. Jordan Peterson and his 12 (or 24 counting his new book) rules? And talk about stoicism with him? That would be a great podcast
facts! Dr Peterson sounds like a stoic sometimes
Please, consider this! I'm astonished there's not a larger stir around this page, the Daily Stoic brand, and the general concepts of stoicism, and philosophy. I believe there's a network of quite genuinely amazing humans, finding a way to connect through this 'podcast' medium.. and Ryan Holiday, with the likes of Dr. Jordan B. Peterson, Wim Hof, Jocko Willink, David Goggins, Lex Friedman, The Bioneer, Dr. Sten Ekberg. Among many others, of course..
cant compare both. peterson's philosophy is pure crap
You're genuinely helping me. Thank you.
never clicked on a video so quickly, Thank you for this gem of a video Ryan!
Me too ✨
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ig you haven't listend Donda yet
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DS MAN
NICE EASY quick..simple
Listen to this Daily you will be a winner in life
*“We may encounter many defeats but we must not be defeated”* - Maya Angelou
Love from a small RUclipsr💙
This guy is really something else. Thank you for trying to make our life better.❤️🔥
Hey my friend, so many of these things resonate with me, things I've always tried to practice. I had no idea there was a philosophy practicing this called stoicism. I'm so excited to learn more about it. Thanks
The best video ever created on the internet. 🤯🤯🤯🤯
So, I'm at T-Mobile in order to leave A T and T, this takes a while. Before I leave, two T-Mobile folks take a picture of my copy of The Obstacle is the Way. They ask about the circles tattooed on my arm. Those are my teachers and the reminder of the only place my power is, inside the hoop. I leave them with The Daily Stoic email. They ask me to visit; it wasn't me that got them revved up- Stoicism The path to your best life. Hi Ry...
Law of attraction. I have been thinking more deeply and challenging old thought patterns and behaviors. Now I have stubbled upon this gem. Crazy how the world and God works. I am excited to see what my future holds.
How do you think stoicism has changed your life?
I absolutely get so much out of these videos and they have become my daily obsession. They enlighten me, and guide me towards my higher self. Thank you so much for all that you do! #Gratitude
Watch this vid 50 times over the next 50 days.... Life changing
Thank you like always, Ryan.
Thanks to Stocisism and you, my life has become better(even though life has always been great).
It's so hars not to get lost imaging a situation where you do over a mistake. I spend hours in the day with this kinda thought plaguing my mind.
I’ve had a lot of these thoughts before hearing of stoicism or Marcus Aurelius, it’s comforting to know that I’ve developed similar thoughts to a great person, however difficult it is to act on these thoughts.
Thank you, Ryan!
I'm grateful for your videos, books and newsletter.
Thank you for your time and effort, Ryan!
By far, the most valuable video on youtube I have seen.
Excellent tips to get through life! Thanks, Ryan.
Love you Brother.Thanks so much.