Unemployment, a stage in life that I recommend: Juan Jiménez Rocabert at TEDxCibeles

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  • Опубликовано: 26 ноя 2024

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  • @scorpiobabe
    @scorpiobabe 5 лет назад +763

    Being unemployed is not easy.. I'm going through one of the toughest phase in my life. Just praying for the best.

    • @aperfecttool462
      @aperfecttool462 5 лет назад +42

      I am currently unemployed and trying desperately to stay on my own. It feels like my life is hanging in the balance.

    • @isidoramartinez6510
      @isidoramartinez6510 5 лет назад +11

      Srisha S what are you doing to change this because applying on the job boards is not recommended reach out to your friends and go out to the community. Don’t sit behind a computer

    • @xiozhanbunny5982
      @xiozhanbunny5982 5 лет назад +23

      Yes this is so difficult phase.I feel like trapped and I am losing hope...

    • @Leon-pn6rb
      @Leon-pn6rb 5 лет назад +10

      How did it turn out? I’m 23 and got fired recently

    • @fazytube7154
      @fazytube7154 4 года назад +5

      Same here 😕 more than 1 and a half years, unemployed..

  • @A123-z4n
    @A123-z4n 3 года назад +158

    I was jobless for nearly 2.5 years . During that time my relationship ended because of this reason . I had to gone through an operation during this 2.5 years . Presently I am working at a nationalised bank and slowly claiming my life back. Don't lose hope. Have faith in your ability. Those 2.5 years of my life taught me how to stay humble, how to handle stress and most importantly the real face of our society and the people in it .

    • @Jam-tr1ny
      @Jam-tr1ny 3 года назад +9

      Truth, anxiety is a given fact you will have when you are unemployed. But it also brings humility.

    • @tedsanity
      @tedsanity 2 года назад +7

      I wish I could move past this phase. Currently unemployed and I feel lost and depressed.

    • @tedsanity
      @tedsanity 2 года назад +2

      @Tauseef K thanks for the encouraging words, I appreciate it.

  • @Wolfenstein69924
    @Wolfenstein69924 Год назад +126

    I thought I had it hard before, but it's been 9 months since I lost my job and I never felt so humiliated, depressed and worried. Currently I'm a candidate to be an Executive Assistant at a medium sized company. Just praying for this job search to be over.
    Edit: I got an offer for the job 🥳

  • @extremegamer619
    @extremegamer619 3 года назад +133

    I pray that every one of you is successful, and all these dark days pass, just hang in there. You deserve the best.

  • @j.bkannadatechchannel8412
    @j.bkannadatechchannel8412 5 лет назад +379

    Social anxiety+unemployment=deadly combination

    • @iistyleszii
      @iistyleszii 5 лет назад +1

      Javelin Melody how so?

    • @bambangruslihadi7073
      @bambangruslihadi7073 5 лет назад +23

      Hey, you can still add depression if you want.

    • @AIvlogs945
      @AIvlogs945 4 года назад

      Same here

    • @Adam_Ch739
      @Adam_Ch739 4 года назад +14

      Man I'm the living proof i became so isolated cut contact with my friends without any reason i myself baffled at the shift in my behavior very worrying stuff

    • @James-ws7bq
      @James-ws7bq 4 года назад +6

      DZ Guy yea more of depression tbh same with me but I do it cause I’m not happy that I’m unemployed, in this materialistic world it’s all that people care about.

  • @rock882josh7
    @rock882josh7 5 лет назад +281

    "When days are dark, friends are few."

  • @sherrelljames7930
    @sherrelljames7930 6 лет назад +118

    Been unemployed 10 months now , ive been using this time to work on my mental health and being there for my son, im grateful im able to be home and work and on myself.

    • @gabrielle6158
      @gabrielle6158 5 лет назад +3

      Same I’m glad I got clarity on my mental health too

    • @JaysonT1
      @JaysonT1 3 года назад

      How do you pay bills?

    • @sherrelljames7930
      @sherrelljames7930 3 года назад +6

      @@JaysonT1 My sons dad, my family, school money, but I've since gotten a job I've here almost 6 months I'm in a better mental space.

  • @hassanz96
    @hassanz96 3 года назад +101

    For anyone going through this period, don't lose hope. Make this time works for you; not against you. Build habits, reflect on yourself, create a timetable, get away from any anxiety- or jealousy-provoking social media, and try to enjoy the smallest pleasure of life. Happiness isn't having that job you think of. It might be stressful for you to handle or it might end up making you wish that you hadn't been accepted into this job.

    • @tedsanity
      @tedsanity 2 года назад +1

      Thank you for this. I'm currently unemployed, and my mental has significantly regressed. My world is crumbling, and I don't know how to find hope again. I hope I can find my path

    • @hassanz96
      @hassanz96 2 года назад +3

      @@tedsanity I hope so. Think about it. Do you think the looks of the majority of people working nowadays is the look of happy people? Isn't is slavery? Change your perspective. It is fine to feel that your world is crumbling, but don't give up.

  • @ThaoPham-fx5wi
    @ThaoPham-fx5wi 5 лет назад +211

    Now I have no job even though I graduated from one of my country's top universities. I am trying my best to find my dream job but it seems difficult.
    But every day I enjoy my life by learning a foreign language, exercising and reading. I will never give up !!

    • @Itsme-pe6on
      @Itsme-pe6on 5 лет назад +25

      good to know im not alone. im also graduated from one of the top uni and im already 8 months jobless. its really hard😔

    • @ket88121
      @ket88121 5 лет назад +2

      Are you still unemployed?

    • @ket88121
      @ket88121 5 лет назад +7

      @@Itsme-pe6on Why dont you try applying for some lower positions.. Maybe you are expecting too high

    • @datvo5434
      @datvo5434 5 лет назад +5

      Maybe you set high expectation. But I think you should take time. I got a job after two months graduated. And I had just left it after almost 2 years. Now I'm looking for new one like a fresh.

    • @sakshisharma9702
      @sakshisharma9702 5 лет назад

      Update?

  • @leratomachete9575
    @leratomachete9575 5 лет назад +196

    Its hard to see unemployment as an opportunity when you have nothing to eat.

    • @cristianm7097
      @cristianm7097 5 лет назад +16

      @Javelin Melody : adapt to starvation ? Are you nuts ?

    • @fpereira77
      @fpereira77 5 лет назад +5

      @@cristianm7097 yeah, he has no clue.

    • @barbarawalker499
      @barbarawalker499 5 лет назад +3

      Find food pantries food stamps at DHS temp agencies or churches and unemployment offices great resources when your in need . Also libraries sometimes care for the homeless especially around holidays and provide great resources

    • @cristianm7097
      @cristianm7097 5 лет назад +7

      @@barbarawalker499 There is no free lunch in this Universe. Someone has to pay for the charity food.

    • @Leon-pn6rb
      @Leon-pn6rb 4 года назад

      how did it turn out @lerato

  • @rakeshkumbhare2164
    @rakeshkumbhare2164 7 лет назад +371

    Unemployment brought me here...

  • @allentrevor1936
    @allentrevor1936 5 лет назад +185

    Had a great Job but my boss was horrible, to the point that it caused me anxiety and depression, I quit it and now I have to say, I’m scared, it’s hard but I believe in my self, I regret not saving more money tho, but not for a second a regret quitting, no money in the world is worth my mental health

    • @rock882josh7
      @rock882josh7 5 лет назад +19

      I quit many jobs not due to salary but only due to horrible bosses.u not alone

    • @xiozhanbunny5982
      @xiozhanbunny5982 5 лет назад +6

      @@rock882josh7 I am in the same situation as you. My previous company boss was horrible,2 to 3 hours travelling which caused toll on my mental health.That's why I left the job without planning.But now thinking about that I regret.Since it is very difficult to find another on and family,relatives are eating my brain.Feel like trapped.

    • @lovekittyforever
      @lovekittyforever 5 лет назад

      @@xiozhanbunny5982 How has life been treating you since this comment?

    • @NtandoMbele
      @NtandoMbele 4 года назад

      🙏🏼

    • @rolandojr.antonio6855
      @rolandojr.antonio6855 4 года назад

      I feel u.

  • @saramorris1727
    @saramorris1727 4 года назад +97

    I've been unemployed for 9 months. For the first time in my life.. Its my own fault (I got sacked) but I hate the feeling of being a useless member of society. Unemployment for me = depression. I mean I was depressed before, but at least I was working. Hands up if you're failing at life. 🤚

    • @TuyenNguyen-gm2et
      @TuyenNguyen-gm2et 3 года назад +7

      Same. I quit to pursuit my personal education, but cannot find a suitable job to work in parallel. I hate the feeling of uselessness as well. Almost 2 months already. Hands up but not give up.

    • @Jam-tr1ny
      @Jam-tr1ny 3 года назад

      👋

    • @hemangshrivastava9561
      @hemangshrivastava9561 2 года назад

      I am in good job but still sad.

  • @DylanGorman-x8r
    @DylanGorman-x8r 3 месяца назад +2

    Been unemployed for 2.5 years, lots of time to meditate. I’m not proud of where I’m at, but times like these build character.

  • @etherealdeal1792
    @etherealdeal1792 6 лет назад +100

    This didn’t help me with my unemployment feelings but did distract me from crying

    • @janechoding
      @janechoding 5 лет назад +1

      Can I ask if you are already employed now? Im having a hard time cheering up somebody who is still unemployed :(

    • @victorbraga922
      @victorbraga922 3 года назад

      @@janechoding Can I ask if you are already employed now? Im having a hard time cheering up somebody who is still unemployed :(

    • @ws7009
      @ws7009 2 года назад

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @blackout2430
    @blackout2430 4 года назад +90

    I’ve been unemployed like 5 times and I’m 29. I’m terrified I’ll never get a great job I enjoy so I can start a family. Please pray for me

    • @rolandojr.antonio6855
      @rolandojr.antonio6855 4 года назад +8

      Don't worry, you are still young. There are a lot of opportunities will open to you. Have faith to yourself. I have an unemployment experience before, I understand you

    • @blackout2430
      @blackout2430 4 года назад

      Rolando Jr. Antonio appreciate you

    • @blackout2430
      @blackout2430 4 года назад

      Ryan John no job, but I at least have an opportunity on the table

    • @rythmrulez
      @rythmrulez 4 года назад

      Hey, how did the opportunity go?

    • @blackout2430
      @blackout2430 4 года назад

      @@rythmrulez still haven’t heard anything. I want to die. I only have a couple weeks of unemployment left I don’t know what I’ll do

  • @barbarawalker499
    @barbarawalker499 5 лет назад +23

    There will always be a need for someone with your unique talents and experience for anyone in these comments who’s thinking of giving up - hold out and believe that good is coming while working at it - things won’t fall into your lap but the more you go looking for something the more that thing is looking for you too- be willing to make some sacrifices to get to where your going!

  • @sandeshs53
    @sandeshs53 Год назад +18

    Being unemployed is one of the toughest phase. Things get worse when you have monthly commitments but no earning. Savings is getting over day by day.. experience what I have gained in my previous job is not coming to use.. all employers are desparately looking for candidates with core experience and no one is ready to give a chance to person with potential..

    • @sandeshs53
      @sandeshs53 10 месяцев назад

      I wish you find a new deserving job soon.....

    • @RedaReda-vl9ff
      @RedaReda-vl9ff 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@sandeshs53i wish you success and happinness my friend,i wish you to be really happy

    • @RedaReda-vl9ff
      @RedaReda-vl9ff 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@RUclips_IS_WOKEi wish you a really wonderfull day

  • @MK777Audio
    @MK777Audio 2 года назад +22

    It’s really hard when all of a sudden you find yourself in a situation you didn’t imagine ever

    • @Studently
      @Studently 2 года назад +1

      Hi Ken, i completely relate to what you just said

  • @jDD131
    @jDD131 3 года назад +14

    I've done 5 years program and I'm unemployed and going down by anxiety day by day . Someone has said absolutely correct , A man is loved only when he brings something to table.

    • @anggaapriliansyah7143
      @anggaapriliansyah7143 2 года назад

      @jatin duggal my i know what was your program?

    • @thriveatworkwithWaqasMalik
      @thriveatworkwithWaqasMalik Год назад

      You are worthy, you are unique don't worry. You'll get work and even without work you are worthy. Just keep applying, keep learning something. Focus on these only. No comparison.

  • @battlecampplayer847
    @battlecampplayer847 5 лет назад +89

    A stage in life I recommend: When you are sustained by rich parents...

  • @Justwalk914
    @Justwalk914 5 лет назад +11

    Keep strong everyone, unemployed here ... I wouldn’t say it’s a thing I recommend but it does teach you to make sacrifices and develop yourself

  • @erinbaker7396
    @erinbaker7396 Год назад +9

    I was just fired a few months ago and I feel like a failure. I moved 100 miles for this job and after 6 months they decided I wasn't a good fit. It killed me. I was finally making good money and had a savings. Now I'm in unemployment and my savings is gone. I'm so upset, depressed, angry, frustrated, and feeling more alone then ever. I feel lost. I feel empty. I just don't know what to do.

  • @lovelyshinc8586
    @lovelyshinc8586 4 года назад +13

    I was employed for 1 year and half, i kind of love my job but my boss is toxic.He torture me mentally, put me down, harassed me, shout at me..it was horrible so i quit my job. Now i feel worthless, scared of trying new things, lack of confident, not worthy to live anymore, anxiety,fear....

  • @tabrizevol2379
    @tabrizevol2379 3 года назад +12

    It’s really hard to end up jobless and not being able to find one, I lost my job in tourism sector because of covid, and it’s been more than a year now that I’m jobless, trust me it drives your mind mad, specially when you can’t find an alternative at this time. Best of luck to everyone

  • @TheRealZeeNkosi
    @TheRealZeeNkosi 4 года назад +17

    Watching this i currently have R100 in my bank account because I've used up all my savings during covid19 lock down. I miss my good paying job. I hope things get better for all of us. I hope i get a job soon.

    • @ranjeetram2996
      @ranjeetram2996 4 года назад

      Save money don't waste it on Internet

    • @rythmrulez
      @rythmrulez 4 года назад

      How're you doing? Did you get a job?

    • @charmainephasoana6850
      @charmainephasoana6850 3 года назад

      Girl, are you winning now?? Are you okay? Do you have a job
      Phela our unemployment rate is really off the charts

  • @Sxrxx222
    @Sxrxx222 10 месяцев назад +2

    I been unemployed for 2 yrs im really starting to lose hope and fall back into my depression episodes its literally the worst you feel so worthless and ashamed of yourself knowing you can’t provide yourself anything or do anything.

  • @daphnedeita9244
    @daphnedeita9244 3 года назад +11

    Stuck at home for one year and half months. People around me keeps asking me what I'm doing with my life. 😭

  • @saguguttal5634
    @saguguttal5634 3 года назад +6

    After my graduation 🎓 still I am unemployed I didn't express my feelings what my mind 🙄going into , but still I hope that I will succeed in my life 🧬

  • @michael567jober
    @michael567jober 2 года назад +13

    it’s only my 2nd day and depression is sinking in deep. when it first happened i was motivated strangely but now anxiety hits cause i live in an apartment all alone and am so paranoid about how long will it take to find that job that pays my bills.

    • @thriveatworkwithWaqasMalik
      @thriveatworkwithWaqasMalik Год назад

      Keep applying, a lot and you'll find something don't worry, there are so many businesses companies, you'll find another place very soon. Keep telling this to yourself. You are unstoppable

    • @michael567jober
      @michael567jober 10 месяцев назад

      @@RUclips_IS_WOKE yes but unfortunately the job i have pays less than what i made before. 1 year later and it’s going nowhere. i’m trying to find better or a 2nd partime but no luck. can’t find anything that pays nor that will with around my schedule. i still live alone in my apartment but money is very tight

    • @michael567jober
      @michael567jober 10 месяцев назад

      @@RUclips_IS_WOKE hoping sucks. wish i could get some kinda education but i can’t barely afford to live now. i’m living check to check so if some emergency happens i’m screwed

  • @itsallaboutfiat4455
    @itsallaboutfiat4455 2 года назад +3

    its been a real struggle, a real hard time especially you barely can make enough to feed yourself... depression, broken dreams, unemployment..that one day i was close the shred my degrees... the only thing that keeps you trying is hope, hope for a better things to come make you fight and try harder but also make you suffer more... i pray for myself and everyone else in such circumstances that things change for the better

    • @MqeqeshiWezinsizwa
      @MqeqeshiWezinsizwa 2 года назад

      Hi, how are you doing now? Any positive changes to your life?

  • @richardgray115
    @richardgray115 4 года назад +4

    I was made redundant twice in 2019. Eventually, in April 2020 I got a job. But it's only a casual job, they text you each night if they need you. At first, it didn't bother me as I had a job and I got 5 days work a week. But now lately, that 5 days became 4 days and now 3 days. And I can't help but have that "sense of doom" slowly creeping up on me again. 10 years ago, I could have happily resigned from my job and got another one straight away. To get my current casual job, I had applied for 450 jobs by that time.

  • @kisstelle9205
    @kisstelle9205 3 года назад +11

    being unemployed for months due to corona virus brought me here, it has a big psychological impact such as sadness and having social anxiety hope to get through with this soon. I am already mentally tired but i need to fight, i need to surpass this struggle. ☹

  • @tedsanity
    @tedsanity 2 года назад +6

    I pray that I finally find a job this year. I'm having trouble finding a job because of my trauma during my first work. I was emotionally drained during my first job, and I lost significant amount of weight as well. I know I have to man up, but it's really hard when you have a past trauma. I really don't know what to do anymore. I feel lost and broken; my relationship is on the line as well. I hope you guys pray for me to find strength and courage. My anxiety is relapsing once again and I just don't know what to do anymore. I'm slowly detaching myself from society already because I feel like I'm not good enough

    • @UnrealTournament420
      @UnrealTournament420 Год назад

      Please try to read a book called Reality Transurfing. The audiobook is on RUclips

  • @billjones642
    @billjones642 4 года назад +18

    I'm letting my social anxiety and depression stop me from leaving my bed, let alone getting a job. I'm concerned I'll just end up a suicide statistic in this big, depressing city.

    • @saskia8804
      @saskia8804 4 года назад +5

      I’m in the same boat. Let’s keep breathing together

    • @SR-pw6pi
      @SR-pw6pi 4 года назад +1

      @@saskia8804 take me in.

    • @michaelsmelt5218
      @michaelsmelt5218 4 года назад

      One small step at a time. Dont forget that

    • @ethandixon6378
      @ethandixon6378 3 года назад

      honestly exactly what i’m going thru, can’t step foot in college/get a new job and even if i do i scared to do this and that it i cant end up getting there, i’m 17 i’ve had 1 job for 1 month, i don’t go to college as i’m late, i don’t have any money, but i’ve started working out and working on my mental health, i’m getting ready for when i’m 18 in august i’m hoping big big things will happen to me

    • @alexandrasalas3742
      @alexandrasalas3742 3 года назад

      You can do it, in which thing do you consider you are good? Or you know... you can teach english in mexico or work remotely in another country. But never lose hope. I mean there is a guy that inspires me cuz' he lives with a tank lung, he has polio since he was so young yet he strives to be better every day. I certainly do not know your condition but don't be so hard on yourself and try to trace a plan.
      Greetings from Mexico

  • @christianfuentes4136
    @christianfuentes4136 3 года назад +7

    I hate being unemployed but when I am employed I wish I was unemployed. All it is for me is money. I hate working only reason I do it is for money. Money is the reason everyone gets up in the morning. It’s not being unemployed that’s making you depressed, it’s not having a source of income.

  • @aysaa.1603
    @aysaa.1603 3 года назад +14

    I got rejected on so many basic job interviews.. I’m going thru severe depression and I don’t know what to do

    • @Jfiggz
      @Jfiggz 2 года назад

      Hope all is well

    • @NetSkillNavigator
      @NetSkillNavigator Год назад

      Use rejection as a feedback to improve or to do something new

  • @mzenantoitha3397
    @mzenantoitha3397 2 года назад +6

    I am in this space for four years and wouldn't wish it on my worst enemies. Unemployment ain't a cup of tea and waking up to nothingness is not what anybody would wish to have. I had a relatively good career but the nature of work vis-à-vis working conditions were not inspiring. I had to quit after painstakingly doing nine years. I have sent out countless job applications to no avail, it's draining!

  • @abilea4081
    @abilea4081 4 года назад +7

    This is so hard its been a year and half so far that I've been unemployed and the longer it gets the worse it is, Im so afraid im never gonna get a job its all i think about

  • @sunlilac2563
    @sunlilac2563 3 года назад +4

    If you are reading this don't give up and keep trying. You can do it.

  • @siciidxuseensucuudi9750
    @siciidxuseensucuudi9750 3 года назад +8

    Unemployment+loneliness+anxiety=out of life

  • @chocopie7890
    @chocopie7890 5 лет назад +11

    Im unemployed about a year but i worked some skilled worker jobs kinda a waitress a supervisor of a restaurant but im not happy with those jobs cuz i felt I wanna work where I love to work for. I am graduated from a good university and my grades were good. I am depressed by following up my favourite career in this whole year. The thing is I have no experience in that field I tried so many ways just to be in my favourite career industry but I rejected again and again. Now I am about to do an internship which is unpaid but I have no choice I wanna pursue my dream job so bad. I wish i can do it and one day I will remember how much I have tried to get that damn job

    • @gabrielle6158
      @gabrielle6158 5 лет назад +1

      chozin take those unpaid opportunities, I graduated from a top university too and I did so many unpaid positions just to gain experience. Employers look at more experience more than just an education.

    • @lovekittyforever
      @lovekittyforever 5 лет назад

      @@gabrielle6158 How do you find these opportunities?

    • @Afrosoil11
      @Afrosoil11 3 года назад +1

      Wow your resilience is amazing home you have found your dream job.

    • @chocopie7890
      @chocopie7890 3 года назад +1

      @@Afrosoil11 you don't feel exhausted when u are working on it. Tired but u will be satisfied at the end of a day. You will be learning constantly to develop your knowledge on that career. That's your dream job.

  • @litote9
    @litote9 5 лет назад +14

    Personally, I do not recommend unemployment at any stage in life, particulalry if it is ongoing. I would recommend employment. Next he'll be recommending cancer as a "stage in life".

    • @ws7009
      @ws7009 2 года назад +2

      True, being unemployed many years has affected my chances of being employed at
      all.

  • @dumbgenious1960
    @dumbgenious1960 3 года назад +6

    Over a year now. Worried I’ll never get one. Please please pray for me

  • @danielkattantorres
    @danielkattantorres 4 года назад +9

    I feel like I’m dying with no job ,
    I get really sick, can’t get out of bed .it really affects me !! I start to look for videos of the easiest way to die and stuff like that

    • @shawnbriscoe1769
      @shawnbriscoe1769 4 года назад +15

      Daniel, I dont know if you will read this comment or not. But, if you do...try to find encouragement through developing closer connections with Friends, family and faith. the world needs you, don't harm yourself. Find a small trusted group of friends and tell them you need them now. From Arlington, Texas

    • @carlscarl263
      @carlscarl263 4 года назад +7

      Start small. Start today. Forget yesterday. If today fails you have until midnight to redeem the day. After midnight everything is new again. Try today.

    • @rolandojr.antonio6855
      @rolandojr.antonio6855 4 года назад +6

      Daniel, please, your life is more important than careers. I am in your situation before. I am unemployed for a long time. Yes, its depressing, your feeling of self worth is depreciating. Weird to say, i am thinking that my life is a curse. Stay close to your family, have a positive outlook, always try to look for a job. One day, you will be lucky to find one. Good luck to you.

    • @PLSawkmie
      @PLSawkmie 4 года назад +4

      Hang in there bro

    • @eztravels8318
      @eztravels8318 2 года назад +1

      Oh. Pls don't lose hope, Daniel. There's good in this world and it's worth fighting for. (Sorry, I can't find a less cheesier line).
      Seriously, your family and friends love you, and they are important reasons to keep living. You need them and they need you. Another reason to go on is the fact of life that circumstances change. One year from now, you'll look back and laugh at yourself and say, "I'm glad I didn't give up."

  • @lleanhvu
    @lleanhvu 4 года назад +7

    I've been unemployed for nearly 3 months. Hopefully I would overcome this flop =))

  • @arneytjaro310
    @arneytjaro310 3 месяца назад

    "The Lord Provides For Every Child That Is Born".
    Amen🙏🏽

  • @tangusK
    @tangusK Год назад +2

    I left a job in the pharmaceutical industry for a career in tech. I am in a difficult position. I have received multiple rejections but I pray that something great is awaiting me.

  • @illmaticworld2133
    @illmaticworld2133 3 года назад +8

    You really have no idea.
    If you can afford to do an MBA while unemployed then you don’t have an unemployment problem

  • @wavyboyo
    @wavyboyo 5 лет назад +22

    not when you live with your parents, and you rather jump off a roof than hear them argue anymore, especially if you need transportation fare and you see a sports player or cash me outside girl just signed a million dollar contract

    • @barbarawalker499
      @barbarawalker499 5 лет назад

      wavyboyo - anyone can walk or ride a bike start small -think big camp outside anything is possible

    • @3pl535
      @3pl535 4 года назад +1

      @@barbarawalker499 Anything is not possible, and people need to stop deluding themselves into thinking they can be successful. Life is a hard slog until the very end. The only people that say you can be 'financially successful' are the wealthy business owners, the politicians that represent their interests and people selling you 'training' to get ahead.

    • @abilea4081
      @abilea4081 4 года назад +1

      Im in the same situation the worst part is they see me as a failure because im unemployed and seem to think its out of lazyness and lack of trying

    • @BreakTheYagura
      @BreakTheYagura 4 года назад

      @@abilea4081 prove them wrong, in more ways than one.

    • @BreakTheYagura
      @BreakTheYagura 4 года назад

      @@3pl535 financially successful means different things for some people. B) Every day requires input and struggle though, you're right about that.

  • @pinoyheartbeat7245
    @pinoyheartbeat7245 8 месяцев назад +1

    Now that working from home is already possible, I always tell those who ask me what I do and I just answer "I work remotely." I have been out of work since Sept 2023. It somehow minimizes the stigma.

  • @saguguttal5634
    @saguguttal5634 3 года назад +1

    It's a very tough being an unemployed , family to society every one pointing at you and saying that I didn't have much time as you ,,, I couldn't control my feeelings , I tried soo hard getting work , I always cried inside me , still I searching job And attending exams hope for best to me ,
    When I succeeded I only thank to me and my mind , I will never give up

  • @MaksimiliansMoskva
    @MaksimiliansMoskva 5 лет назад +7

    just say. that you been working on a new start up project or freelancer - follow common society rules - be in trend and force your friend to hesitate about his job position. have a good day =)

  • @jihyepark9139
    @jihyepark9139 5 лет назад +4

    I'm unemployed now because the system here in our country is such a junk, I tried my best just to get a higher points, the process here in our country just to be a public teacher is not easy. You'll suffer mentally, and financially. I've waited so long and pray, hoping my name would appear to be one of the qualified applicants . I got it, my name was there and the best is I got high scores (not the highest) at first I'm so proud of myself, but as days pass by, I'm slowly feeling hopeless, 'cause til now I have never received texts/calls that I got a permanent position as a public teacher. I'm hopeless broken right now. Don't what to do.

    • @aysaa.1603
      @aysaa.1603 3 года назад

      Hello! How are you doing now ?

  • @Kanadaauswandern
    @Kanadaauswandern 5 лет назад +8

    More time with family and more time for yourself !!

    • @rolandojr.antonio6855
      @rolandojr.antonio6855 4 года назад +3

      Exactly. Instead of being depress, spend time to your family, appreciate the freedom to have, and reinvent yourself to be a better person

  • @SWASTIKB306
    @SWASTIKB306 2 года назад +5

    Being indian and being jobless is the most deadly combo

    • @sandipdhankecha3306
      @sandipdhankecha3306 Год назад

      Mc duniya puch puch k g maar leti hai, bsdk apna kaam karo bc, kya pata bnda kaunse cheezon se guzra hai

  • @Studently
    @Studently 2 года назад +1

    I saw success and fame for 10 years + and jobless since 2 years . Hoping I get a job soon

  • @hedsonmalata9231
    @hedsonmalata9231 4 года назад +3

    Being unemployed brought me here. It's really hard 🙃. I don't know how I will get through it...

  • @seanmusona9408
    @seanmusona9408 2 года назад +4

    They give you a piece of paper and don't help you in anything after that

  • @mayankpathak1588
    @mayankpathak1588 5 лет назад +4

    Loved the ending...thanks for making my day

  • @fanso76
    @fanso76 5 лет назад +11

    Does he recommend being unemployed because it teaches us how hard it is to find a job and don't leave a job until you have another one to go to?? If so, then he's my kind of bloke haha

  • @fairymairah
    @fairymairah 4 года назад +4

    My family Bullies me for being un-Unemployed! And they criticize and accuse me for things that I didn't do !

    • @eztravels8318
      @eztravels8318 2 года назад

      Unemployment does not warrant bullying. Well, bullying is outright wrong. It's never justified. It can cause permanent trauma. Whether that'd frontal bullying or a subtle one. When kids are growing up, they need all the help they could get. Your family should be your best allies. If you are having trouble communicating with them, this is the best time to try again. Be respectful and realize that usually, it's not abt your circumstances that affect their behavior. But their own woes. So, with compassion, love and kindness for each member of the family, you'll get through this. "This too shall pass. Good times or bad times, neither one lasts." (Brad Paisley, Cars)

    • @fairymairah
      @fairymairah 2 года назад

      @@eztravels8318 that's true. except what if you have Family Members that oppress you? and you're Right. my Younger Sibling is still bothered by things that happen in the past.

  • @elenijifar8235
    @elenijifar8235 2 года назад +2

    I have been unemployed for the last 1 year and still I don't get a job and I usually feel like useless and depressed.

  • @osaniss
    @osaniss 4 года назад +4

    Been unemployed for... Forever. (maybe 5 years). Cant find a job or stay employed because of my autism. Im getting depressed

  • @user-qwertyuiop1
    @user-qwertyuiop1 Год назад +1

    life is so hard I can't take it anymore no cares about me. no job no experience.

  • @daoudaseledieye2609
    @daoudaseledieye2609 3 года назад +2

    Stem graduate class of covid 19 almost 2 years applied hundreds times no interviews no job offers darkest moments in my life

    • @hassanz96
      @hassanz96 3 года назад

      This is exactly my situation. But these moments, although difficult and painful, have made me change my perspective on life and on countless other subjects. Sometimes I do wish that it hasn't happened; other times I wish it happened much earlier so that I can avoid making mistakes in the future.

  • @Cstirn3cook
    @Cstirn3cook Год назад

    thanks so much for the encouragement!

  • @Dolzrams
    @Dolzrams Год назад

    Uneployment is painful😢

  • @dwheelerconsult
    @dwheelerconsult 2 года назад +3

    The comments are more helpful than the presentation..

  • @moazalhady7895
    @moazalhady7895 4 года назад

    i think that is good too , but i picked my career since i was junior at collage
    and i am really enthusiastic about it but now 2020 and most of jobs now not for graduates and entry level it is just for experienced individual and everyday pass without job is hard and i need it to support my family

  • @sweetsister3524
    @sweetsister3524 Год назад +2

    Anyone going through unemployment right now, I want you to know that you'll get through this. .....And also, You might think that the only solution is being employed but unemployment might be an opportunity for you to start your own business. Think about it. 😉 .... I've been there, I know what I'm talking about.

  • @roger72715
    @roger72715 3 года назад

    Graduated in 2015, unemployed ever since.

    • @regional1000
      @regional1000 2 года назад

      7 years?? What did you graduate in? Have you been actively applying. How does your resume look. Did you seek services for help? How are you supporting yourself? That is a long time to be unemployed. I've never heard of that happening.

  • @gmailuser6380
    @gmailuser6380 5 лет назад +2

    In a bid to earn more money from past (it was less) quit my job, now jobless for months... its rightly said not to blindly believe job boards as got nothing in return despite spending ample time in it. Now industry not recruiting cos of break, not interested to fake and spoil my future.. any inputs / job assistance from anyone here, if feasible ? Need an immediate available opportunity. !!!

  • @assamlearningminds8911
    @assamlearningminds8911 3 года назад

    Unemployed increase health problems I don't why I felt it more.

  • @jenniferhar888
    @jenniferhar888 3 года назад

    Depression+social anxiety +unemployed+covid 19 outbreak +burden to family =suicide

    • @lyrod181
      @lyrod181 3 года назад

      Same
      And I already have my suicide note

    • @Jfiggz
      @Jfiggz 2 года назад

      @@lyrod181 hope all is well

    • @lyrod181
      @lyrod181 2 года назад

      @@Jfiggz thank you! I was able to lift some of my burdens in life. I'm trying and hoping to live better.

    • @lyrod181
      @lyrod181 2 года назад

      @@Jfiggz I also hope you are well and safe.

    • @RedaReda-vl9ff
      @RedaReda-vl9ff 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@lyrod181dont give up,keep moving forward

  • @twiston43
    @twiston43 5 лет назад +8

    Just the title itself makes me sick.

  • @JohnSmith-ox3gy
    @JohnSmith-ox3gy Год назад

    Because living on the street and not eating is so much fun.

  • @sakshiscrazyworld1539
    @sakshiscrazyworld1539 2 года назад

    Very tough situation🥺🥺🥺

  • @thecultofjohnnydelr.soulsw7010
    @thecultofjohnnydelr.soulsw7010 2 года назад +1

    You were just lucky to be you.

  • @benn300
    @benn300 3 года назад +1

    I wondered why people commit suicide...i don't anymore.

  • @sumitprusty7497
    @sumitprusty7497 3 года назад +2

    In Bharat where securing 30% mark, minority people get job and that job getting majority people need 90% mark..
    Government gives free higher education to minority only. Minority gets financial support upto 100% subsidy. Where as majority doesn't get. Minority means in Bhart only muslims and christians. Many states of Bharat muslim and christian are above 80% but still they get minority benefit. Minority woman's can produce 8-10 child and have 2-3 wife.
    But majority woman's can produce only 1-2 child with one wife policy.
    Majority people gives tax form there religious center to government but minority got subsidies for there religious activity and doesn't give any tax to government ...
    This is Bharat...

  • @HyltonMR
    @HyltonMR 2 года назад

    Amen

  • @jalabala2772
    @jalabala2772 5 лет назад +4

    Love this but did he say his daughter went to lemonstary school

    • @richardgray115
      @richardgray115 4 года назад +1

      When life gives you lemons.... Make lemonade 🙂

  • @sumitprusty7497
    @sumitprusty7497 4 года назад +1

    India is country in world, where the reservation is for minority not for majority people.

    • @luisandre2750
      @luisandre2750 3 года назад

      I didn't understand

    • @sumitprusty7497
      @sumitprusty7497 3 года назад

      @@luisandre2750
      Where you from.

    • @litmals7857
      @litmals7857 3 года назад

      Even many minority are jobless for years now. And with corona today more depression and hopeless

    • @sumitprusty7497
      @sumitprusty7497 3 года назад +1

      @@litmals7857
      I don't know which country you are from. But in Bharat where geting 30% mark, minority people get job and that job getting majority people need 90% mark..
      Government gives free higher education to minority. Minority gets financial support upto 100% subsidy. Where as majority doesn't get. Minority means in Bhart only muslims and christians. Many states of Bharat muslim and christian are above 80% but still they get minority benefit. Minority woman's can produce 8-10 child and 2-3 wife.
      But majority woman's can produce only 1-2 child with one wife policy.
      Majority people gives money form there religious center but minority got subsidies for there religious activity....
      Can your country gives benefit to minority?

  • @riyabejoy5158
    @riyabejoy5158 3 года назад +1

    Find his accent abit hard to follow. Unemployment is tough when its unplanned. During corona lockdown job search is more demanding.

  • @kazamastylebatsurealmofbea6269
    @kazamastylebatsurealmofbea6269 5 лет назад +1

    Can't buy new video games 😞😟

  • @charlesbaoumar
    @charlesbaoumar Год назад

    Uploaded 11 years ago! Haha

  • @AfroMedic
    @AfroMedic 6 лет назад +4

    people get fired everyday

  • @elohriimodoyio2402
    @elohriimodoyio2402 3 года назад

    75k views wow says alot...

  • @robinnoneofyourbusiness9963
    @robinnoneofyourbusiness9963 6 лет назад +10

    Too hard to understand him

    • @edwardgeorge8232
      @edwardgeorge8232 6 лет назад

      Robin None of your business put on the subtitles

    • @JJ-di6ws
      @JJ-di6ws 6 лет назад

      listen more carefully to what he says. it is also on his screen behind him.

    • @leonardo899
      @leonardo899 4 года назад +1

      I quit watching the video, he was hard to understand.

    • @richardgray115
      @richardgray115 4 года назад

      Once you have been to "lemonstary" school, you will understand him. 😅

  • @psoft9305
    @psoft9305 6 лет назад +1

    many many more Pablos..

  • @koks4558
    @koks4558 3 года назад

    Did anyone lost their job in covid?

  • @anzu5264
    @anzu5264 3 года назад

    you are talking about yourself that dosen't help me your case in your environment is deferent in mine , if i have no job that means i will be homeless

  • @elsapradhan8163
    @elsapradhan8163 3 года назад

    😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @sumitprusty7497
    @sumitprusty7497 4 года назад +2

    Why only poor Muslim in Asia and Africa produce 8 to 12 children ?

  • @justinh1280
    @justinh1280 2 года назад

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