Want to become a high value man? Here's 4 secrets to help you do just that and become a more confident, more attractive, higher social status and all-around better man...
1. Create the narrative you want in life. 2. Pursue goals that are aligned with that narrative. 3. Only continue relationships with people who have major respect for you. 4. Observe your low value habits/ behaviors and be willing to change them.
*My Top 4* 1. Make goals, and achieve them 2. Is not needy for others validation, he's secure with himself 3. He always expresses his truth, even when it's an unpopular opinion 4. He understands how to motivate people
Yup. Making goals, and working to achieve them, will increase your self esteem. That leads to being secure within yourself, which results in not being needy for attention or validation. As a result of being secure, you can speak your mind, because you don't need the validation of the people you are talking to, and can risk upsetting them if they don't like it. And because of all of this, you will develop your value to the point where you are above other people in how you approach life, which allows you to help others and lift them up to your level (unlike people at the bottom, who prefer to drag others down to their level through insulting, shaming, bullying etc, whatever it takes to damage their self esteem). Self esteem is the key, and the trick to developing it, is set yourself goals, and work to achieve them. It doesn't matter what those goals are, choose them for yourself. For example, want to learn to snowboard, or scuba dive? Then set those as goals, and look at what you need to do to achieve them (save your money to pay for costs, join a club, make friends with others who do the same etc). As long as you are always working towards fulfilling your goals, you will naturally develop your self esteem along the way, and that will change how you perceive the world, and how you behave in front of other people. It is the difference between living or existing, and ultimately being happy or miserable.
@@zalamael But, but but... if you have low self-esteem, you won't be able to make friends, so your goal will be close to impossible to achieve, so your self-esteem would become even lower... The progression works both way. If it was as simple as just setting a goal...
@@spas_minkov It is that simple, as you can set goals that can you achieve alone. For example, eating healthily, is one. Exercising is another. Even if you can't afford a gym membership, there are plenty of bodyweight exercises you can do. Not every goal you set requires other people to make it possible to achieve. Also, you can make friends with low self esteem, all you have to do is join a club, and you eventually get to know everyone, even if you are shy and introverted. It will just take a bit longer is all. What I will say though, is that having a defeatist attitude before you even start, will not benefit you in the slightest. Set small goals, and achieve them, and you will feel good about it. Then you can set more challenging goals, and work to achieve them. Each step you take will get you one step closer to being the person you want to be, and your self esteem will go up each time you hit a goal.
Writing a bucket list the best method I have found to turn yourself into a high value man. Figure out what you want to get out of life, given that you only have a finite amount of time, and you probably don't want to be on your deathbed with only a few days left to live, wishing you had done more and lived your life differently. By making a list, you are essentially setting yourself goals that you really do want to achieve. And they should be your goals, not someone else's. They can be big or small, easy or insane to achieve, it doesn't matter, as long as you are working towards them, you will always feel a sense of satisfaction when you achieve them, which will give you are real sense of achievement and a real self esteem boost. For example, see a particular movie could be one goal, and that is easy to achieve. But you might want to climb Everest, and that is more difficult, but you can break it down into smaller steps, and achieve those, with each one bringing you closer to your final goal of reaching the peak. A high value man is a man with a winner mentality, someone who sets goals and achieves them, and as a result has a high sense of self worth, that is completely independent of other people. And when he is on his deathbed, he will be content, because he will have achieved almost everything that he wanted to achieve during his life.
*The trifecta of masculinity* - Looks: not just face, the whole presentation and body language - Wisdom: game and overall knowledge of human psychology - Social position: finances, status, reputation
@Karan ; hm, as far as i have experienced and herd from other men, this attitude is exctly what keeps us from getting girls. We need to be THE man first before the ladies we want truely are capable of desiring us. sry.
Advice someone gave me: "It's not about competing against others, rather, it's about challenging yourself." Some may argue both but I think the best minds will support thr latter more than the former.
Great video, thank you! # 4, "Believe In Yourself", reminds me of the story of runners breaking the 4-minute mile. Once Roger Bannister did it in 1954, it was broken many times quickly thereafter.
Brent Lewis yeah that is true pretty much everyone is stuck inside so it is probably best to do it at home and when everyone can and able to get out will be a better person hopefully like now everyone is in a cocoon like a butterfly it’s up to you how you come out of it you can come out a better person or you can come out worse then when you went into it
Honestly money is the most important factor on this. Plenty of guys stand up for their thoughts, but in the end money will top all of that. It's no contest.
Where do you get your contents from? Which books do you read? Have you graduated in Sociology orr psychology? Anyway I am a big fan of your channel and I have been following it for the last 6 months.
*Displaying insecurity = low value.* @Aaron: You've never had a girlfriend.. but how many girls have you approached? Bro... hit up UnbreakableConfidence,com... You need to change your mindset.. You're probably missing out on so many opportunities Good things in life rarely fall in your lap.. you gotta go out and get them. Take action.
@@freedom2084 Arturo says teach people how to become the greatest version of themselves... That is to inspire, motivate and become an example for others to value... First build value within you, and show the same value that people have within them...
Great Content Thank You Ffa Convi: stand up for what u bel in Speak your own mind/opinions How they say it. Underst Social cues. How u say it Bel it and u will make it. Or fake it t Hold ur ow
I love my father for all the hard work he did all his life. But he also instilled the belief that I was destined to be poor. That belief made me believe that I would never be rich because I would never be able to afford an education. All my life I ended up working for the man. Always humiliated by a higher narcissist. Now at my old age, after multiple divorces and failures I have decided to change my mindset. Guys, don't make the mistake I did and waited until I was too old to make serious changes in my life.
pretty much everyone is stuck inside so it is probably best to do it at home and when everyone can and able to get out will be a better person hopefully like now everyone is in a cocoon like a butterfly it’s up to you how you come out of it you can come out a better person or you can come out worse then when you went into it
Can you make a video on the psychology behind know it alls and narcissists? I would like to know because i have ran into 2 my entire life one of them being my adoptive father for 8 years I had to listen to him lecture people and even tell my doctor how to do her job. Everyone he came across he would give a long lecture. It took me years to figure out he was just hiding an insecurity. I noticed his father grow up in a ranch his whole life and he raised him in that same ranch for a few years but I found it odd that his dad seemed not to know much but for him it was the opposite. I would call him out on the insecurity sometimes and he would quickly turn into the hulk and threaten to bash my brain against the wall.
You ever try to give him suggestions his response was an agressive "NO!". Everything had to be done his way and he would never listen everything went in one ear and out the other.
Be an alpha male. Yes. I always be who I am. Set myself apart from the rest. Women are intrigued by a man who stands out who doesn’t come off like every other man. I can go on and on. Maybe I should make videos on this stuff one day
Simple, make over 6 figures a year. Everything else comes after, the man you are when your poor is completely different then the man you would be if you were rich. Not just financially but how you carry yourself
Brother what's with your voice, I mean it sounds a bit rough perhaps you need to take something to clear yor vocal cords, just saying ... I really love watching your vids keep up the goodies Wisdom and advice
What really pissed me off more than anything is when people tell me that I'm "overthinking" things. I always feel like I have strong instinct and intuition to read people. I can detect a bad person, and I hate it when others downplay or insult my intelligence. I'm usually right, but by the time people realize the person in question is really a monster in disguise, its too late. So fucking listen to me when I tell you and stop telling me that I'm overthinking it, you're not thinking about it enough! Slick and conniving comes in all forms. I'm a Gemini and I find that water signs (pisces, scorpio, cancer) have piss poor intuitions, its funny because they're also very shallow and vindictive, so their intuitions only helps them to sabotage, but can't save them from worse people that can do them real harm.
I have the picture in the thumbnail and it is cropped. If you were to uncrop it that 1.5 percent of people would be labeled as the mbti INTJ personality type. ME ^__^. And yes we tend to be high status once fully evolved.
If I always voiced my opinion then it would get me hated. You dont always have to voice your opinion. I only voice my opinion if it is positive or a strong belief. No reason to start unnecessary conflict. No reason to burn the people around you. Its better to be the least, so you can rise. If you place yourself at the top you will fall, but if others place you at the top you will stay there.
After taking a stand at a Civic event, people, mostly women, thanked me and made a point of touching me! It must have somehow rubbed off, cause on the street this hottie with a body (who wasn't at the event) approached me. Her bro was right there to slow things down (cool I wasn't chasing) and so I connected with the gatekeeper. If I'm available, next time he'll say hi to me and I'm suddenly her kissin' cousin.
Summary 1. Have a conviction , Be a man of conviction ,Dont hide opinions , validation 2. Speak your mind 3. Pay attention to how people say it , not what they say ( read Hidden code) 4. Believe in yourself
here is the number one way of getting a gf 1. get a gun 2. find a girl you like 3. go up to her and pull out your gun 4. ask her to be your gf (very high chance of her saying yes) 5 shoot by her feet if she says no to make her say yes (100% of the time she says yes at this point)
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1. Have a burning purpose
2. Be kind but not a pushover
3. Strive for continuous growth
4. Know how to laugh and have fun
Thanks brother.
Lol I have the same pfp on Instagram 😂
Boom!
1. Create the narrative you want in life.
2. Pursue goals that are aligned with that narrative.
3. Only continue relationships with people who have major respect for you.
4. Observe your low value habits/ behaviors and be willing to change them.
*My Top 4*
1. Make goals, and achieve them
2. Is not needy for others validation, he's secure with himself
3. He always expresses his truth, even when it's an unpopular opinion
4. He understands how to motivate people
Yup. Making goals, and working to achieve them, will increase your self esteem. That leads to being secure within yourself, which results in not being needy for attention or validation. As a result of being secure, you can speak your mind, because you don't need the validation of the people you are talking to, and can risk upsetting them if they don't like it. And because of all of this, you will develop your value to the point where you are above other people in how you approach life, which allows you to help others and lift them up to your level (unlike people at the bottom, who prefer to drag others down to their level through insulting, shaming, bullying etc, whatever it takes to damage their self esteem).
Self esteem is the key, and the trick to developing it, is set yourself goals, and work to achieve them. It doesn't matter what those goals are, choose them for yourself. For example, want to learn to snowboard, or scuba dive? Then set those as goals, and look at what you need to do to achieve them (save your money to pay for costs, join a club, make friends with others who do the same etc). As long as you are always working towards fulfilling your goals, you will naturally develop your self esteem along the way, and that will change how you perceive the world, and how you behave in front of other people.
It is the difference between living or existing, and ultimately being happy or miserable.
@@zalamael ; wow, stated perfectly, thanks!
@@zalamael But, but but... if you have low self-esteem, you won't be able to make friends, so your goal will be close to impossible to achieve, so your self-esteem would become even lower... The progression works both way. If it was as simple as just setting a goal...
@@spas_minkov It is that simple, as you can set goals that can you achieve alone. For example, eating healthily, is one. Exercising is another. Even if you can't afford a gym membership, there are plenty of bodyweight exercises you can do. Not every goal you set requires other people to make it possible to achieve.
Also, you can make friends with low self esteem, all you have to do is join a club, and you eventually get to know everyone, even if you are shy and introverted. It will just take a bit longer is all.
What I will say though, is that having a defeatist attitude before you even start, will not benefit you in the slightest. Set small goals, and achieve them, and you will feel good about it. Then you can set more challenging goals, and work to achieve them. Each step you take will get you one step closer to being the person you want to be, and your self esteem will go up each time you hit a goal.
That’s right
"It's not fake it till you make it, it's faith until you make it."
Writing a bucket list the best method I have found to turn yourself into a high value man. Figure out what you want to get out of life, given that you only have a finite amount of time, and you probably don't want to be on your deathbed with only a few days left to live, wishing you had done more and lived your life differently.
By making a list, you are essentially setting yourself goals that you really do want to achieve. And they should be your goals, not someone else's. They can be big or small, easy or insane to achieve, it doesn't matter, as long as you are working towards them, you will always feel a sense of satisfaction when you achieve them, which will give you are real sense of achievement and a real self esteem boost. For example, see a particular movie could be one goal, and that is easy to achieve. But you might want to climb Everest, and that is more difficult, but you can break it down into smaller steps, and achieve those, with each one bringing you closer to your final goal of reaching the peak.
A high value man is a man with a winner mentality, someone who sets goals and achieves them, and as a result has a high sense of self worth, that is completely independent of other people. And when he is on his deathbed, he will be content, because he will have achieved almost everything that he wanted to achieve during his life.
What a great idea Zmale
My man can make the same video a million times and I'll still be interested.
Saying that automatically makes you a high value woman.
Why wouldn’t you be ?!?
True very true
@@tallandhandsome29 lol what?
Truth
Focus on your self.
Have a hobby, get a job and be confident
The tricky part is you need to first believe YOU are a person of VALUE before anyone else can
#5: Be a man of your word and always be on time💯
This was just the right input, thank you for all the effort!
*The trifecta of masculinity*
- Looks: not just face, the whole presentation and body language
- Wisdom: game and overall knowledge of human psychology
- Social position: finances, status, reputation
@Karan ; hm, as far as i have experienced and herd from other men, this attitude is exctly what keeps us from getting girls. We need to be THE man first before the ladies we want truely are capable of desiring us. sry.
@Karan low value thinking.
Thank you for the advice. Extremely helpful. Keep up the good work Julian
Advice someone gave me:
"It's not about competing against others, rather, it's about challenging yourself."
Some may argue both but I think the best minds will support thr latter more than the former.
*Listen to what other people say*
How to win friends and influence people honestly is one of the bestest books to make you a better man
Dale Carnegie?
Yes...the absolute bestest book!!
Julian you have helped me so much with your videos. You have my deep appreciation.
Great video, thank you!
# 4, "Believe In Yourself", reminds me of the story of runners breaking the 4-minute mile. Once Roger Bannister did it in 1954, it was broken many times quickly thereafter.
Great point.
Thank you so much brother!
Great channel...kudos on nailing a kickflip! I literally willed myself to land a frontside boneless
Thank you, thank you for this video!!🙏
I have listened to several of your presentations and they're all very constructive; they have helped me in my journey as a man. Much appreciated!
Nice to meeting you Julian ! Your code on the man of high values is the best. Just still to activ the translate With your videos. Gréât job
Thanks main this was so helpful ♥️
Pure GOLD!!! 💪🏻🥇🏆
Thank you Julian you are a a source of inspiration
Amazing channel brother!
Love the content.
Get out and apply this..sitting at home won't do anything.
Get out and do this...sitting here and critic behind a device is weak.
That’s not really an option right now lol
Brent Lewis yeah that is true pretty much everyone is stuck inside so it is probably best to do it at home and when everyone can and able to get out will be a better person hopefully like now everyone is in a cocoon like a butterfly it’s up to you how you come out of it you can come out a better person or you can come out worse then when you went into it
But the quarantine...
You’re right, I’m getting out of my moms basement RIGHT NOW
Mate you live up to the channel's name. Great channel and thanks for your advice!
What happened to that jerk who damaged your car btw?
Your observations are lit 🔥
Bro your my hero !!!! I’ve totally changed
Congrats my friend!
Your animations are praise worthy... I enjoy watching your work.
Great vids I’m 14 and just started high school and so I’m really hoping that these vids help me
Love yur videos
Thanks. When I saw this video, I knew I had value inside.
Basically, I'm a high value man.
I needed this
Honestly money is the most important factor on this. Plenty of guys stand up for their thoughts, but in the end money will top all of that. It's no contest.
Where do you get your contents from? Which books do you read? Have you graduated in Sociology orr psychology? Anyway I am a big fan of your channel and I have been following it for the last 6 months.
I love your videos
*Displaying insecurity = low value.*
@Aaron: You've never had a girlfriend.. but how many girls have you approached?
Bro... hit up UnbreakableConfidence,com...
You need to change your mindset..
You're probably missing out on so many opportunities
Good things in life rarely fall in your lap.. you gotta go out and get them.
Take action.
great video
Ok now I understand more thanks
*that 163,000 per month seems like a graham reference* 💪🎭
1. Be attractive.
2. Have lots of confidence.
3. Be of high status.
4. Have lots of money.
Brian Goodman177 lots and lots of money 💰 😂
Ehh not money
All things in moderation. Unless you want to attract shallow gold diggers. This truly is from experience.
Not money and stuff like that
Just be asertive thats enough
Ah, another sheep mindset
just love it
*The best way to become a high value male is bring value to others and only then will people notice you!*
How and what do u mean bring value?
@@freedom2084 Arturo says teach people how to become the greatest version of themselves... That is to inspire, motivate and become an example for others to value... First build value within you, and show the same value that people have within them...
bijesh vk Thanks
100% agree, true leaders bring everyone up not chop them down.
Great
Content
Thank
You
Ffa
Convi: stand up for what u bel in
Speak your own mind/opinions
How they say it. Underst Social cues.
How u say it
Bel it and u will make it.
Or fake it t
Hold ur ow
Watch FFA to become a HVA
Your channel changed my life! Thank you so much!
Increase your value. It will be easy to attract others.
I love my father for all the hard work he did all his life. But he also instilled the belief that I was destined to be poor. That belief made me believe that I would never be rich because I would never be able to afford an education. All my life I ended up working for the man. Always humiliated by a higher narcissist. Now at my old age, after multiple divorces and failures I have decided to change my mindset. Guys, don't make the mistake I did and waited until I was too old to make serious changes in my life.
Similar story. 53. Trying to re write my life
pretty much everyone is stuck inside so it is probably best to do it at home and when everyone can and able to get out will be a better person hopefully like now everyone is in a cocoon like a butterfly it’s up to you how you come out of it you can come out a better person or you can come out worse then when you went into it
1 million subscribers. :D
What camera did u use for the car?
nice work, btw what is your name
I'll say #1.... About conviction. You don't have to impose your beliefs on everyoneb
Can you make a video on the psychology behind know it alls and narcissists? I would like to know because i have ran into 2 my entire life one of them being my adoptive father for 8 years I had to listen to him lecture people and even tell my doctor how to do her job. Everyone he came across he would give a long lecture. It took me years to figure out he was just hiding an insecurity. I noticed his father grow up in a ranch his whole life and he raised him in that same ranch for a few years but I found it odd that his dad seemed not to know much but for him it was the opposite. I would call him out on the insecurity sometimes and he would quickly turn into the hulk and threaten to bash my brain against the wall.
You ever try to give him suggestions his response was an agressive "NO!". Everything had to be done his way and he would never listen everything went in one ear and out the other.
Be an alpha male. Yes. I always be who I am. Set myself apart from the rest. Women are intrigued by a man who stands out who doesn’t come off like every other man. I can go on and on. Maybe I should make videos on this stuff one day
Good
That a person cant be it/make it its the atmosphere a person was raised in formulates it and shape up a person .
Did I see Steph Graham reference 🤣🤣🤣
FarFromAverage is being assertive the key to becoming an alpha male. Ive struggle with this problem for years.
Simple, make over 6 figures a year. Everything else comes after, the man you are when your poor is completely different then the man you would be if you were rich. Not just financially but how you carry yourself
You Don't need "facial hair" (aka BEARD) to be a high value man. Throwing it out there.
This can be subjective...
So early here... I don't know what to say 😂😂
Faminism is cancer
Brother what's with your voice, I mean it sounds a bit rough perhaps you need to take something to clear yor vocal cords, just saying ...
I really love watching your vids keep up the goodies
Wisdom and advice
I CAN SEE YOU ARE TALKING about yourself, you HIGH VALUE MAN YOU
👌
I don't care whether others believe in what I do.
So no need to waste energy.
Don't you want to feel connected enough to have power in the world?
What really pissed me off more than anything is when people tell me that I'm "overthinking" things. I always feel like I have strong instinct and intuition to read people. I can detect a bad person, and I hate it when others downplay or insult my intelligence. I'm usually right, but by the time people realize the person in question is really a monster in disguise, its too late. So fucking listen to me when I tell you and stop telling me that I'm overthinking it, you're not thinking about it enough! Slick and conniving comes in all forms.
I'm a Gemini and I find that water signs (pisces, scorpio, cancer) have piss poor intuitions, its funny because they're also very shallow and vindictive, so their intuitions only helps them to sabotage, but can't save them from worse people that can do them real harm.
What if they are 'underthinking' things?
Do you still sk8? Haha
I like this even more now.
No recap this time, watch it, worth it
I have the picture in the thumbnail and it is cropped. If you were to uncrop it that 1.5 percent of people would be labeled as the mbti INTJ personality type. ME ^__^. And yes we tend to be high status once fully evolved.
3:10 speaking your mind really makes people think that I'm an asshole beyond recognition ... how to prevent this?
Have a beautiful mind, my friend.
Wow congrats 1M subs Far from average learn a lot
It sounds easy but it’s WAY easier said than done
If I always voiced my opinion then it would get me hated. You dont always have to voice your opinion. I only voice my opinion if it is positive or a strong belief. No reason to start unnecessary conflict. No reason to burn the people around you. Its better to be the least, so you can rise. If you place yourself at the top you will fall, but if others place you at the top you will stay there.
After taking a stand at a Civic event, people, mostly women, thanked me and made a point of touching me! It must have somehow rubbed off, cause on the street this hottie with a body (who wasn't at the event) approached me. Her bro was right there to slow things down (cool I wasn't chasing) and so I connected with the gatekeeper. If I'm available, next time he'll say hi to me and I'm suddenly her kissin' cousin.
Don’t let low value people define your life
Thumbnail looks like Alpha M.
Summary
1. Have a conviction , Be a man of conviction ,Dont hide opinions , validation
2. Speak your mind
3. Pay attention to how people say it , not what they say ( read Hidden code)
4. Believe in yourself
Until next time. PEACE ✌️✌️
Has anybody seen this great man?
SO WHAT YOUR SAYING IS TO BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF ??
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Yea you should belive in yourself but try not to be ignorant this is kinda hard when you forcing concisely self belief
Apparrel (x)
Apparel (o)
Don’t be alpha either. Just be sigma.
Me:expecting new from video video:Strong men gets what he want
I thought the thumbnail was alpha m.
It’s like the same video day after days..
👍❤👍
shiiiit. with all them pics it appears as though im gonna have to grow a beard first
The poor trade hours for money, the rich trade values for money
That man who over filled oil in your car and on top of it drove and damaged it had to be imprisoned or at least pay for the service..
If you are low value, can you become high value?
Yes, but it takes work and old habits are hard to break.
Is that Alpha in the thumbnail?
1. Money
2. Confidece
Goodlooks can be achieved if you have money (surgey)
girls also follows money and confidnt guys.
My loser dad tried to raise me to not stand up for myself or anybody else. I knew better than that.
Forgive him for falling for a Narcissist and you will be free. I know how hard it is bro.
here is the number one way of getting a gf
1. get a gun
2. find a girl you like
3. go up to her and pull out your gun
4. ask her to be your gf (very high chance of her saying yes)
5 shoot by her feet if she says no to make her say yes (100% of the time she says yes at this point)
Work 80 hours a week