This is probably the most motivating thing I’ve heard in my life. I want to become a VA, and have been held back mentally, but this might just help out if I can read and hear those from myself
That’s not true !!! GOD KNOWS !! He knows everything! He knows how truly cringe and unhinged I am and it makes me sick 😩😭 I’d do it if he could look away for a min but if he does I’m pretty sure it’s over for me so…Imma just hold my L while I shamefully walk into heaven (Hopefully) with zero accomplishments on earth.
That's such a very unhealthy mindset. You shouldn't think this way as a Christian. God is a father who love us unconditionally and will be there for us or with us through all stages of life and even when we're trying out new things and learning a skill or trying something. God is not ashamed at you not doing so well. Bro. He's literally your number 1 supporter so don't plan or think to achieve nothing on earth. Please❤
Are we all having the same experience ??? I’ve finally pushed myself to be comfortable with the uncomfortable. Thank you for verbalizing my thoughts girl.
that’s literally me before i started my youtube channel. im all over the place with editing, and my niche. but finally i just started. after years of wanting to start a youtube channel, since i was a child.
Tried creating one just got discouraging views so I just idk feel bad A lot of people are saying maybe RUclips isn't for you I don't know if they're probably right
This was gold. The cinematography, the message, the face, the body, the voice, the storyline, the background music, the look book video, idk I thought it was kute. Thanks for the push and for sharing your gifts with us. 🕺🏽
I heard this saying on a motivational channel, the magic you are looking for is in the work you are avoiding. That became sort of my motto when i first heard it.
I feel you honestly imposter syndrome limits your growth, chase your dreams even if it scares you , chase it more progress over perfection as an introvert RUclips scared me a lot but I am doing it scared 😂😂😂
1:47 is sooo true! We get disappointed and lowkey embarrassed without considering the fact that the outcome only had a comparison to the reference YOU had in mind.
0:59 before I even get into this video I have to say your editing is phenomenal. It feels like tv shows I grew up watching. It feels very nostalgic to me… just with the editing and voiceovers. … now I’m going to press play and continue. I had yo say that though as you mentioned not liking your editing. This is my first video and just the beginning alone has me intrigued and wanting to see more.
What I especially appreciate is that you put your special artistic touch on this topic. It's a great topic but nobody could bring this particular creation to life more perfectly, because nobody else has the unique blend of visual boldness, comic sensibility, and truth that your creation brings to the world. Wishing you every success you imagine and more.
It’s really motivating to see people like you, taking that first step in their journey. I’m on the same spot, not because I want to be a YT creator, but because I want to start my small business teaching English (I’m from Mexico). The problem is I feel I’m not good enough… maybe I just gotta stop overthinking.
miss Maria you better start that business! you neverrr know who needs your level of expertise even if you don’t feel qualified. i honestly didn’t feel like i was qualified enough to make this video but it turns out there’s so many ppl in the comments who found so much value in it. you definitely need to stop overthinking bc teaching English in a Spanish speaking country sounds like a beautiful thing & seems like it would be an excellent place to put your talents. don’t see urself short if you feel even a small part of yourself was called to do this then dooooo itttttttttttt!! 🫶🏾
Fantastic video! I have incurred so much losses trading Forex on my own.... I trade well on demo but I think the real market is manipulated.... Can anyone help me out or at least tell me what I'm doing wrong??
Though I started with as low as $15,000 actually because it was my first time and it was successful, he's a great personality in the state @@AnteroVäänänen
One thing l learned in military leadership school was that if you think you need all of the information to make a decision, you are not going to make one.
So true. Dropped my perfectionist mindset and been uploading everysince. I still wanna strive for perfection but while doing what i need to if that makes sense.
As someone who blew up in the early 2017 and then disappeared bc I didn’t feel ready enough my advice to anyone is to just keep going. There is more to life than doubt. The images and the future you’re projecting in your mind only exists in your mind.
i used to make youtube videos 2 years ago. There was this upcoming video that according to me, needed to be perfect. I just couldnt achieve the level of perfection i pictured in my head and ended up procrastinating for 2 whole years. Then i got busy and thats where my journey sort of ended. Dont let the desire for perfection ruin everything for you. Try to embrace the imperfections and failures. Good luck on your journey
Thank you, i needed this🥺❤️ Btw your content is so underrated, i especially liked the "life moves pretty fast" short which inspired me to make my own version
I needed this video and I’m grateful this came up in my feed…I’ve been feeling stuck in a niche, too afraid to actually do the things I WANT to do. I use perfectionism as an excuse and I realize that. Thank you.
Ma'am, your skin and your physique are amazing. But this message is very true! I've been a perfectionist my whole life... End up doing nothing at all. Smh. Thanks lady! Well wishes on your endeavors! Thanks!
Making something great or perfect is sometimes discovered - not created . . . Just create it and wait for a response . Once that favorable response is shown - your greatness has discovered YOU ✌🏿
Thank you so much I appreciate you . This video really came in clutch because today I hit my goal of 300 subscribers an it gave me the confidence to post a RUclips video but I didn’t know how to start not until you posted ❤
SHIITT i needed to hear that thank you. Embarking on a stop motion project for my thesis and feel like crying every day lol. I HOPE I MAKE IT OUT ALIVE. I only have some experience with stop motion and throwing myself into a 5 minute one... urghh. Need to set limits and boundaries for myself.
I feel like you’re my “higher self” sending me a message in ALL CAPS ‼️😭 your words are my EXACT thoughts I had a few days ago…when I’m celebrating 100k subscribers next year, I’m gonna remember this as the LAST motivational video I watched . 🥂💖
this is so hard trying to realize as a teen when you realize you spent your whole entire life quitting things you liked because you weren't perfect at anything and were afraid of others judging you. Any single hobby I've ever had and I have had many, I stopped because I wasn't as good as someone else or I wasn't perfect.
This is how I feel with my art. I’m trying to come out with this art collection so I can sell it but every time I draw a line it doesn’t seem perfect enough to me and I just end up crashing out on the project. This video actually gave me motivation and this is exactly what I needed to hear.
My thing is filming in public lol I’m already pretty awkward in public so it’s sooo hard for me to film in public but lately I been slowly breaking out my comfort zone and being in my comfort zone is holding me back so I’m taking baby steps to get out there! But I’ll get there! ❤
A black woman appearing as her "real" natural looking self is beauty raw and uncut. There is NO other female on planet earth who looks like these unique looking human beings but only watered down versions of the real thing.
Perfectionism has kept me paralyzed for years. A fear of judgement from others has been one of the bigger ones thats always held me back, but I've been slowly learning to set aside how people perceive me and started doing things more for myself. There's a beauty in progress and taking the time to learn something new, and making mistakes along the way is bound to happen for everyone. An athlete isn't going to judge someone for working out, and a millionaire isn't going to judge someone for starting a business. This video brings such a refreshing perspective on things, thank you for your encouraging words! And I love your video and film style it's so creative 🌟
I've been subscribed for a long time now. From my old channel, and here as well. You are so talented, and so creative. I know I don't know you personally, but I can just tell that you are literally tailored for AMAZING things. You seem to have so much resilience, and zeal...which I 100% aspire to have more of. Also, I remember that Y2k era of content because I did it too😂 I be feeling the same way when I watch my video game lookbooks. Anyways, I'm looking forward to what else you have in store, and thank you for taking us on your journey, gorgeous! XOXO❤
I usually don't watch videos like this,but it really hit me. there's two things I've been dreaming of doing for years but every time i start i think "I'll never be good at this" and give up, this was a great reminder that finishing and acomplishing something,even small is enough. I CAN be proud if I have something done already that I can improve from! And a side note, I really love how this video was shot, very cinamatic, I can tell you're a creative person :)
@kvyem I'm just starting to get diagnosed and I'm about to finish high school. Girls are very underdiagnosed because research was better funded for men. Add in being a minority and you hardly ever get diagnosed. I'm glad to see you being successful despite your struggles, it gives me hope ❤️
The only time to start is now! I’ve taken lots of creative breaks but the truth is you just need to keep creating and sharing no matter what you think of that final edit, you’re at least putting it out there! Just the pick me up I needed today. Thank you ❤
This! I’m a photographer, and sometimes, I’ll scroll through my Instagram and look at pictures I was so proud of at one point and just cringe. Even re-editing some pictures I took back then and seeing how much I’ve improved. But that also shows my followers that I’m not stagnant and that with each project I will improve.
This is all so true. I also always get caught up in how time is always running away, but if you devote pieces of time, that’s the only way it’ll get you anywhere. Just do it and move onto the next thing!
I shoot Weddings Professionally and always thought to do this but never made the time to get started. I absolutely love this 💕 continue to work through this… you are headed for greatness.
I literally do this everyday like I want to start RUclips and content creation so bad but I’m holding myself back and I’ve edited and recorded videos but I always doubt myself in the end, I’m so glad this was in my recommended ☺️
Can't agree more if that message! I remember sitting in a pub with some friends who all wanted to pursue the same goal ... guess what, years later only the ones that DIDN'T talk about it but silently worked on it when NOT ready are the ones who have achieved it today! Keep going!
I just wanted to say that you're beautiful, not just appearance wise (which you are!!!) but you're beautiful in your intelligence and this video had actually allowed me to resolve the issue i had; I am a perfectionist. I just...didn't see it in that kind of way, i saw it as "if you're not the greatest, youre the most worthless. If you can't prove everyone right, then you're most likely wrong." This wasn't just a mindset, it was my lifestyle. I gave up things I loved because I wasn't "good at them" anymore (also mixed with my own mental health issues) I found myself stuck and misunderstood. I really appreciated this video, because it helped me break my cycle. so thank you beautiful person for your creativity!
The fact that I've been procrastinating achieving my goals bc I've always felt lost and never knew where or when to start and right when I was thinking about giving up, I open yt and this video is recommended to me. Thank you for this❤❤
Everything about this video is 🔥. I'm over doing fashion and styling content. I literally just want to make videos with voiceovers like this or voiceless. I love this.
So true! Making yourself do things, much less finish things, is a skill. The more techniques you learn and habits you make, the more you set yourself up for success in the future. Right now "body doubling" with friends or Pomodoro videos is helping me, but I still have days where I just slack off. I have to look at the progress I HAVE made and remind myself that every time I re-start I am building a good habit for the future. Now I'm off to re-start again ... thanks!
@@tamikopearson6876 ahhhh well it’s time to stoppppp! whatever ur focusing on trying to make perfect just focus on making it first & then perfect it later
Wow, I was nodding my head saying, "yep, get out of your own way" when you suddenly said those exact words! Also have an iPhone 13. Thanks for the confirmation. Excellent video!
I rarely sit through a whole video that is in this type of style. But you have an eye for angels and lighting, as well as message presentation. This was absolutely brilliant. You did this thing that people miss casual content creators doing - which is using higher saturation to enhance visual appeal. You highlighted every self sabotaging behavior a perfectionist engages in. You have an air about you that I think will lead to success. I desperately don’t want to forget what I viewed, it incapsulated all my shortcomings and my future dreams. Today I hope to never forget what I’ve seen and heard.
I was watching your video preview on my feed, accidentally refreshed my page and lost you. Finally found you after having to hunt and use key words. Thank you for grabbing my attention. I felt this whole video. Glad you started 💕
We state alot that Perfection is the "CONSISTENCY AND RIDE THE MOMENTUM" YOU HIT THIS ON POINT! I will use your video in my training class!! I understand!!!❤❤❤ I will be showcasing you in my community!!!
Thank you for sharing… I did become this perfectionist I believe because of my military background… I’m not saying that for EVERYONE who’s been in the military… I got so used to pre-planning, reconning all missions before we even execute the mission, practicing over and over and over until it was exactly correct, studying hard because as they say they want the best and the brightest when it comes to promotion….. that became my mindset it was like I became a robot… I’m older now and there are a lot of things that I still want to do and I’m working on that getting rid of that perfectionist mindset that I know I obtain while being in the military… I have self sabotaged… However I have started developing a new mindset and now I’m starting to step out more… I still have the perfectionist and want everything exactly perfect but I’m starting to break down those barriers and starting to do things different… Thank you for sharing this is a great video and I really do enjoy the GEMS 💎 in the video!!! 😊🌻😊🌻
watch in 1080p for best quality! 🥳🌸
Cringe = progress. It means you took action and became better. I have to remind myself of this as I’m on this YT creator journey 🎉
@@Just_NickyT that’s such a good way to look at it
That's a way to put it. I get your point
This is probably the most motivating thing I’ve heard in my life. I want to become a VA, and have been held back mentally, but this might just help out if I can read and hear those from myself
Yes me too! I keep looking at my videos and cringing.. them posting them anyway! 😂
@@HeisVamp You got this! Keep pushing until it becomes reality.
Something i heard a few weeks ago "Stop using the planning stage to avoid your fear of failure"
Wowwww that’s good 😭😭
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😅 ouch
💀💀💀💀💀😭 Why you shouting my name?
Please stop calling me out!😢😢😢
"No one knows the vision we have in our heads, so if it wasn’t executed perfectly yoy are the only one who knows" word!!!!
That’s not true !!! GOD KNOWS !! He knows everything! He knows how truly cringe and unhinged I am and it makes me sick 😩😭
I’d do it if he could look away for a min but if he does I’m pretty sure it’s over for me so…Imma just hold my L while I shamefully walk into heaven (Hopefully) with zero accomplishments on earth.
This is so on point!
@OnlyLilynn44 What a shallow life that would be.
That's such a very unhealthy mindset. You shouldn't think this way as a Christian. God is a father who love us unconditionally and will be there for us or with us through all stages of life and even when we're trying out new things and learning a skill or trying something. God is not ashamed at you not doing so well. Bro. He's literally your number 1 supporter so don't plan or think to achieve nothing on earth. Please❤
I 100% agree with this!
"Being a perfectionist makes you a failure" - this is one for the books.
I had to pause and log off for minute hearing that😅 It’s so true unfortunately
I procastinated for 4 years now im here on youtube posting even if i have just 9 views and 2 likes with 8 subs. I KNOW WHAT I WANT SO IM NOT GIVING UP
@@Doras_Diaries_Adventures that’s what im talkinggg abtttttt & ykw u got me as a subscriber noww too so that makes 13 subs 🥳🫶🏾💕
@@kvyem OMG thank you, i really really appreciate this
I just subbed
@@gabbyc8819 Thank youuu
Girl me too!!!
"Sucking at something is the first step towards being sorta good at something"
-Jake The Dog
cringing over old content is so real, but i thought the 2000s lookbook was so cuteeee
it was cute in theory 😭😭 but the quality just makes me itchhhhhh
Wayyyy better !!
Are we all having the same experience ??? I’ve finally pushed myself to be comfortable with the uncomfortable. Thank you for verbalizing my thoughts girl.
@@jay.winter Ty for being able to understand where i was coming from 😭
i LOVE your story telling 😭 perfectionism is really the enemy to progress
just START even if you don’t know how.
@@kvyemwait a min that’s a cool feature. I didn’t even know you can link shorts in RUclips comments.
The Lord sent this video to me. Thank you for sharing your reflections with us.❤
@@deborahboko5988 😭💕 thank u for receiving them
that’s literally me before i started my youtube channel. im all over the place with editing, and my niche. but finally i just started. after years of wanting to start a youtube channel, since i was a child.
awwwww yayyy i love that for u!! now don’t stop u got goals to accomplish 🫶🏾
😢😢👍👍✊✊✊✊✊
Tried creating one just got discouraging views so I just idk feel bad
A lot of people are saying maybe RUclips isn't for you I don't know if they're probably right
This was gold. The cinematography, the message, the face, the body, the voice, the storyline, the background music, the look book video, idk I thought it was kute. Thanks for the push and for sharing your gifts with us. 🕺🏽
The fact that the “cringey” video wasn’t even cringey 😭😭😭
@@pixelzebra8440 😭 oh babes you had to have seen the full thingggg
Being perfectionist can make you see errors where others see none :)
I heard this saying on a motivational channel, the magic you are looking for is in the work you are avoiding. That became sort of my motto when i first heard it.
THAT NOTEBOOK IS SOO CUTEEEE HELLOOO????
tyyyyyy i wish i could remember where i got it from😭
I feel you honestly imposter syndrome limits your growth, chase your dreams even if it scares you , chase it more progress over perfection as an introvert RUclips scared me a lot but I am doing it scared 😂😂😂
@@HeyVieve doing it scared is the best way to do it 🤷🏾♀️
1:47 is sooo true! We get disappointed and lowkey embarrassed without considering the fact that the outcome only had a comparison to the reference YOU had in mind.
exactlyyyyyyyy
0:59 before I even get into this video I have to say your editing is phenomenal. It feels like tv shows I grew up watching. It feels very nostalgic to me… just with the editing and voiceovers. … now I’m going to press play and continue. I had yo say that though as you mentioned not liking your editing. This is my first video and just the beginning alone has me intrigued and wanting to see more.
@@shanda01114 awwwwww thank uu🥺 tv shows you used to watch? That’s sooo nice
What I especially appreciate is that you put your special artistic touch on this topic. It's a great topic but nobody could bring this particular creation to life more perfectly, because nobody else has the unique blend of visual boldness, comic sensibility, and truth that your creation brings to the world. Wishing you every success you imagine and more.
@@humbleviewpoint awwwwwwww that was so nice tysmm that means a lott 🥹🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
It’s really motivating to see people like you, taking that first step in their journey. I’m on the same spot, not because I want to be a YT creator, but because I want to start my small business teaching English (I’m from Mexico). The problem is I feel I’m not good enough… maybe I just gotta stop overthinking.
miss Maria you better start that business! you neverrr know who needs your level of expertise even if you don’t feel qualified. i honestly didn’t feel like i was qualified enough to make this video but it turns out there’s so many ppl in the comments who found so much value in it. you definitely need to stop overthinking bc teaching English in a Spanish speaking country sounds like a beautiful thing & seems like it would be an excellent place to put your talents. don’t see urself short if you feel even a small part of yourself was called to do this then dooooo itttttttttttt!! 🫶🏾
I love Mexico...I'm trying to learn Spanish. I'm hoping to go back soon. Good luck to you
Fantastic video! I have incurred so much losses trading Forex on my own.... I trade well on demo but I think the real market is manipulated.... Can anyone help me out or at least tell me what I'm doing wrong??
Same here, my portfolio has been going down the drain while I try trading,I just don't know what I do wrong..
think I'm blessed if not I wouldn't have met someone who is as spectacular as expert Mr Pierre.. Highly recommended
Wow, I'm surprised to see Pierre mentioned here as well. I didn't know he had been kind to so many people
I'm also a huge beneficiary of him.. I thought myself and my family were the only ones enjoying Mr Pierre trade benefits
Though I started with as low as $15,000 actually because it was my first time and it was successful, he's a great personality in the state
@@AnteroVäänänen
One thing l learned in military leadership school was that if you think you need all of the information to make a decision, you are not going to make one.
So true. Dropped my perfectionist mindset and been uploading everysince. I still wanna strive for perfection but while doing what i need to if that makes sense.
definitely makes sense!
Omg. Nobody knows the vision in your head so if it’s not good nobody knows but YOU. … wow. That was eye opening lbs
*just THANK YOU.* 🙏🏾💚💫
As someone who blew up in the early 2017 and then disappeared bc I didn’t feel ready enough my advice to anyone is to just keep going. There is more to life than doubt. The images and the future you’re projecting in your mind only exists in your mind.
i used to make youtube videos 2 years ago. There was this upcoming video that according to me, needed to be perfect. I just couldnt achieve the level of perfection i pictured in my head and ended up procrastinating for 2 whole years. Then i got busy and thats where my journey sort of ended. Dont let the desire for perfection ruin everything for you. Try to embrace the imperfections and failures. Good luck on your journey
@@dreqmy thankkk youuu! 💕💕 i hope u pick ur journey back up soon!
@@kvyem thankssss!! 💖💖💖
Girl. You started. And made it good! The colours in some shots are chef’s kisssss….
ahhhh thank uuu smm!
Im glad I started after several years of procrastinating
Thank you, i needed this🥺❤️
Btw your content is so underrated, i especially liked the "life moves pretty fast" short which inspired me to make my own version
awwwwwww thank uu! tag me in ur video girl i wanna see it
@@kvyem will do!
I needed this video and I’m grateful this came up in my feed…I’ve been feeling stuck in a niche, too afraid to actually do the things I WANT to do. I use perfectionism as an excuse and I realize that. Thank you.
ur welcomeeee i hope you beat perfectionism
Ma'am, your skin and your physique are amazing. But this message is very true! I've been a perfectionist my whole life... End up doing nothing at all. Smh. Thanks lady! Well wishes on your endeavors! Thanks!
Ok but the cinematography in this is amazing. And putting your hair on public asphalt is dedication that needs to be complimented.
thank youuuu lolll i don’t even remember doing that with my hair 😂💀
Out of all the motivational videos on this platform, this one is top tier
The fact that this was shot on the phone I’m using is inspiring. ❤
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This helped me push and just get started on my Powerpoint Presentation for my business class. Sometimes you really just have to leap before you think.
😭😭 wow i hope you did well on ur presentation frennnn💕
Our group got the only distinction in our whole degree😭😭💗
Making something great or perfect is sometimes discovered - not created . . .
Just create it and wait for a response . Once that favorable response is shown - your greatness has discovered YOU ✌🏿
Thank you so much I appreciate you . This video really came in clutch because today I hit my goal of 300 subscribers an it gave me the confidence to post a RUclips video but I didn’t know how to start not until you posted ❤
yessss i love that 🫶🏾 keep goingg there’s wayy more subscribers to come
This video is brilliant, thank you🫶‼️
You have such beautiful hair oh my word 🥹❤️❤️
SHIITT i needed to hear that thank you. Embarking on a stop motion project for my thesis and feel like crying every day lol. I HOPE I MAKE IT OUT ALIVE. I only have some experience with stop motion and throwing myself into a 5 minute one... urghh. Need to set limits and boundaries for myself.
I feel like you’re my “higher self” sending me a message in ALL CAPS ‼️😭 your words are my EXACT thoughts I had a few days ago…when I’m celebrating 100k subscribers next year, I’m gonna remember this as the LAST motivational video I watched . 🥂💖
@@khatreenuh ughhh yesss when u get ur 100k ima remember when u said you’d make it 🥳🥳🥳🥳
this is SCREAMING TO MEEEE but it’s what i needed to hear thank you 🙏🏾🖤
this is so hard trying to realize as a teen when you realize you spent your whole entire life quitting things you liked because you weren't perfect at anything and were afraid of others judging you. Any single hobby I've ever had and I have had many, I stopped because I wasn't as good as someone else or I wasn't perfect.
@@boredaflol that’s so reall, I’m seeing this 2 months later and ur comment relates to how i felt in my video i just posted a few days ago 😭 crazy
This is how I feel with my art. I’m trying to come out with this art collection so I can sell it but every time I draw a line it doesn’t seem perfect enough to me and I just end up crashing out on the project. This video actually gave me motivation and this is exactly what I needed to hear.
My thing is filming in public lol I’m already pretty awkward in public so it’s sooo hard for me to film in public but lately I been slowly breaking out my comfort zone and being in my comfort zone is holding me back so I’m taking baby steps to get out there! But I’ll get there! ❤
baby steps are still steps girl! love this for uuuu
@@kvyem that’s so true! And thank you 😊🩷
the cinematography is excellent
I m obsessed
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Instant sub! I love how this video reminds me of an intro to an old school 90s movie❤
A black woman appearing as her "real" natural looking self is beauty raw and uncut. There is NO other female on planet earth who looks like these unique looking human beings but only watered down versions of the real thing.
I love your mindset 🤎
Welcome back, hope you are back for good🤭
@@Jenniesvisualdiary i ammm😭 ima be more consistent i promiseeee
THIS IS AMAZING and YOUR CREATIVITY IS SO REFRESHING!!!!
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ahhhh thank u smmm! 😭💕
loved the video!! and the hair eats😋 can’t wait to see more of your content
loveeeee uuuuuu😭🫵🏻💕
Perfectionism has kept me paralyzed for years. A fear of judgement from others has been one of the bigger ones thats always held me back, but I've been slowly learning to set aside how people perceive me and started doing things more for myself. There's a beauty in progress and taking the time to learn something new, and making mistakes along the way is bound to happen for everyone. An athlete isn't going to judge someone for working out, and a millionaire isn't going to judge someone for starting a business. This video brings such a refreshing perspective on things, thank you for your encouraging words! And I love your video and film style it's so creative 🌟
@@spiralcassete im glad ur working on ur perfectionism & tysmmm!!🫶🏾
this!! i feel like i started pretty late. but it's better late than never i guess hahaha
@@BeyCinema no literally i get thatttt
I've been subscribed for a long time now. From my old channel, and here as well. You are so talented, and so creative. I know I don't know you personally, but I can just tell that you are literally tailored for AMAZING things. You seem to have so much resilience, and zeal...which I 100% aspire to have more of. Also, I remember that Y2k era of content because I did it too😂 I be feeling the same way when I watch my video game lookbooks. Anyways, I'm looking forward to what else you have in store, and thank you for taking us on your journey, gorgeous! XOXO❤
I needed to watch this ❤😢
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I usually don't watch videos like this,but it really hit me. there's two things I've been dreaming of doing for years but every time i start i think "I'll never be good at this" and give up, this was a great reminder that finishing and acomplishing something,even small is enough. I CAN be proud if I have something done already that I can improve from!
And a side note, I really love how this video was shot, very cinamatic, I can tell you're a creative person :)
Do you have adhd? Cause your description of being unable to do anything resonates so perfectly to me.
Love the editing!
@@girlj3600 thank youuu but honestly yeahhh but I’ve never taken medication or anything 😅
@kvyem I'm just starting to get diagnosed and I'm about to finish high school. Girls are very underdiagnosed because research was better funded for men. Add in being a minority and you hardly ever get diagnosed. I'm glad to see you being successful despite your struggles, it gives me hope ❤️
"Being a perfectionist makes you a failure" thank you for that.😌
4:08 this was shot on an iphone???!?! What?
yesss siiirrrrr
what iphone?
"Practice makes progress" has been my new motivation ❤
I wanna be a vlogger but the editing is hard for me
start simpleee you don’t need to do crazy editing until you get the hang of it
Excellent video! I'll be watching this one again and again. Thank you!
awwww thank uuu🥹🙏🏾
love your camera angles, editing, story boarding, quality, all the things
The only time to start is now! I’ve taken lots of creative breaks but the truth is you just need to keep creating and sharing no matter what you think of that final edit, you’re at least putting it out there! Just the pick me up I needed today. Thank you ❤
This! I’m a photographer, and sometimes, I’ll scroll through my Instagram and look at pictures I was so proud of at one point and just cringe. Even re-editing some pictures I took back then and seeing how much I’ve improved. But that also shows my followers that I’m not stagnant and that with each project I will improve.
This is all so true. I also always get caught up in how time is always running away, but if you devote pieces of time, that’s the only way it’ll get you anywhere. Just do it and move onto the next thing!
Let it all be crappy now it will be perfect later...Love it... and thank you for the encouraging words.
I shoot Weddings Professionally and always thought to do this but never made the time to get started. I absolutely love this 💕 continue to work through this… you are headed for greatness.
Just post it, is something I tell myself a lot lately
Thank you for this sis! Soooo right on time and relatable. And funny to witness someone show Me ME. THANK YOU! 🙌🏽🙏🏽🐝
i love the nature ambient in this video, your filmography gives off netflix indie movie vibes
So true! Perfectionism can be paralyzing! Also true that no one knows what’s in your head regarding how something should be.
I literally do this everyday like I want to start RUclips and content creation so bad but I’m holding myself back and I’ve edited and recorded videos but I always doubt myself in the end, I’m so glad this was in my recommended ☺️
Can't agree more if that message! I remember sitting in a pub with some friends who all wanted to pursue the same goal ... guess what, years later only the ones that DIDN'T talk about it but silently worked on it when NOT ready are the ones who have achieved it today! Keep going!
I just wanted to say that you're beautiful, not just appearance wise (which you are!!!) but you're beautiful in your intelligence and this video had actually allowed me to resolve the issue i had; I am a perfectionist. I just...didn't see it in that kind of way, i saw it as "if you're not the greatest, youre the most worthless. If you can't prove everyone right, then you're most likely wrong." This wasn't just a mindset, it was my lifestyle. I gave up things I loved because I wasn't "good at them" anymore (also mixed with my own mental health issues) I found myself stuck and misunderstood. I really appreciated this video, because it helped me break my cycle. so thank you beautiful person for your creativity!
yessss that mindset is sooo relatable im glad my video was able to help u
Needed this,thank you.
The fact that I've been procrastinating achieving my goals bc I've always felt lost and never knew where or when to start and right when I was thinking about giving up, I open yt and this video is recommended to me. Thank you for this❤❤
Your creative process & editing >>>
needed this reminder bc whenever i get out of a consistent basis of posting, that's when the doubt and perfectionism comes in. thank you! 💗
Everything about this video is 🔥. I'm over doing fashion and styling content. I literally just want to make videos with voiceovers like this or voiceless. I love this.
awww i love thattt
I’m a perfectionist so I get in my own head 98 percent of the time so I’m glad I came across this video
Refreshing to hear someone say something I can agree with 100%, appreciate this content a lot!
Ohhhhh I needed this ‼️
So true! Making yourself do things, much less finish things, is a skill. The more techniques you learn and habits you make, the more you set yourself up for success in the future. Right now "body doubling" with friends or Pomodoro videos is helping me, but I still have days where I just slack off. I have to look at the progress I HAVE made and remind myself that every time I re-start I am building a good habit for the future. Now I'm off to re-start again ... thanks!
Gorgeous. And you did this well.
I AM SOMEWHERE IN THE MIDDLE!!!! Omg yeah taking accountability for passed time with perfectionism knowing it’s okay to be bad at something is hard!
Wow, this hit me so hard! This has been me for 5 years!!! Five lonnggg years striving for perfection!! 😢
@@tamikopearson6876 ahhhh well it’s time to stoppppp! whatever ur focusing on trying to make perfect just focus on making it first & then perfect it later
Wow, I was nodding my head saying, "yep, get out of your own way" when you suddenly said those exact words! Also have an iPhone 13. Thanks for the confirmation. Excellent video!
Girl you came RIGHT when I needed and your whole aesthetic is IT ❤❤
This is what lots of people need to hear
This was wholesome and aesthetically pleasing. Thank you ❤
Whew, just started the video. “Perfection makes you a failure” so validating, needed to hear that!
I rarely sit through a whole video that is in this type of style. But you have an eye for angels and lighting, as well as message presentation. This was absolutely brilliant. You did this thing that people miss casual content creators doing - which is using higher saturation to enhance visual appeal. You highlighted every self sabotaging behavior a perfectionist engages in. You have an air about you that I think will lead to success. I desperately don’t want to forget what I viewed, it incapsulated all my shortcomings and my future dreams. Today I hope to never forget what I’ve seen and heard.
awwwww that was so sweet thank youu im glad you enjoyed the videooooo🫶🏾
I was watching your video preview on my feed, accidentally refreshed my page and lost you. Finally found you after having to hunt and use key words.
Thank you for grabbing my attention. I felt this whole video.
Glad you started 💕
awwww thanks for coming back againnn🫶🏾🥹
We state alot that Perfection is the "CONSISTENCY AND RIDE THE MOMENTUM"
YOU HIT THIS ON POINT! I will use your video in my training class!!
I understand!!!❤❤❤
I will be showcasing you in my community!!!
Thank you for sharing… I did become this perfectionist I believe because of my military background… I’m not saying that for EVERYONE who’s been in the military… I got so used to pre-planning, reconning all missions before we even execute the mission, practicing over and over and over until it was exactly correct, studying hard because as they say they want the best and the brightest when it comes to promotion….. that became my mindset it was like I became a robot… I’m older now and there are a lot of things that I still want to do and I’m working on that getting rid of that perfectionist mindset that I know I obtain while being in the military… I have self sabotaged… However I have started developing a new mindset and now I’m starting to step out more… I still have the perfectionist and want everything exactly perfect but I’m starting to break down those barriers and starting to do things different… Thank you for sharing this is a great video and I really do enjoy the GEMS 💎 in the video!!! 😊🌻😊🌻