Same! I was getting over quite a devastating break up when these songs dropped, and I really really needed to hear what they had to say. Vulnerable still makes me cry because it takes me back to how scared but elated I was to move on and open up again
Good for you! Been there and I was traumatised being so very young. But it was music that got me through it, it really is a miracle worker. After the initial " I just want to die" phase, I got over it by blasting my music and dancing, on my own while screaming along ( I could never call it singing😂) with the words that felt like they were written just for me. Its like a switch just flipped, and everything changed over night!
Lose you to love me is not about just a break up... She talked about it in a show (I don't remember) but she said it was a lyrics for herself because the thing she lost is herself in a relationship that didn't even worked at all. Not because they were young. Young people can be together and still love each other. She lost her own mind basically and got sick of it. It's not just a break up song. It's the whole situation that destroyed her.
Such a Sad and Beautiful and Powerful Song, We Lose Our Way and Our Selfs Trying To Please Love Ones And Others and Forget About Our Self, Love Yourself Before Others , Absolutely Heartbroken and Heart Warming Song , What Makes You Weak, Makes You Stronger, We All Deserve Better, I Deserve Better, Power House Song, Thank You Selena , 💖🩷💝
She could have wrote the song around the time Justin got married in 2018 then released that song 1 year later and wrote “look at her now” in 2019. Who knows, it’s just my thoughts. 😊
@@BlackQueenMagicshe says it took her 1 year to release lose you to love me.. at the time she came up with the song she wasnt ready to release it yet.. so that makes sense
I love the song rare, but other than that I personally think it was her worst album and I say that as someone that's been a fan of her music a really long time!
I love that song, "Look at her now," who cares about the timing. She's a writer and producer. She is beautiful. She really showed how she moved on. Losing you to love me was written, and she didn't want to release it. It was her friends who released it. And it too was a great hit! It's too bad folks it's all about timing, thats it. Oh well, that's life! BTW it is not just mm.mm. mm.😅 there are lyrics.
the fact i teared up w just the lil bit you showed of lose you to love me 😭 that song just hits too hard if you’ve ever been thru any type of relationship trauma or abuse. so glad she was able to heal and have her joy back! 🤍✨
"Yeah I was sad but now I just wanna go mmm-mm-mm-mmm-mm-mmm-mm" 😅 Love it. Love both the songs & love how strategically planned the releases of the songs were. I'm sure most ppl didn't even know this so thank you for this video n bringing it to everybody's attention 🙏❤
@@Justanothertiredsoul she directly said it around the time of doing press for that album. Not sure the exact outlet but maybe the Zach sang show? Also yes, top artists typically have direct influence or total control over releases as most are also credited with being an executive producer for their album
She is a real person who went through the same shit as do most of us girls n her songs comes from her heart n soul n it depicts exactly whats us normal folks go thru n worst❤ always love her. ❤
I don't know how can peoples hate a song saying "mmm mmhmm mmh"... lol. I think the guy was out of idea so he made the "hate" so he can make a short... Lol. Look for Kali - Mhm , the whole song is that xD@@ajaku
look at her now was released in 2020 and i believe that it's such a powerful song. I was super proud of her comeback showcasing her new healed version. Love her always!
THIS IS SERIOUSLY ONE OF MY TOP SONGS BY SELENA THAT I ABSOLUTELY ADORE!! I REMEMBER THE VERY 1ST TIME I SAW IT, I WAS LIKE, "YOU GO GIRL!!" I KNEW EXACTLY WHERE SHE WAS COMING FROM & WHY SHE WROTE IT. IT DIDNT HURT AT ALL THAT SHE LOOKED SO FRICKING AMAZINGLY GORGEOUS IN THAT OUTFIT W HER HAIR PULLED BACK TIGHT...DOES NOT GET ANY BETTER THAN THIS....PLUS I LOVED THE CHOREOGRAPHY TOO!! ANYONE WHO PUTS HER DOWN IS JEALOUS & JUST LOVES 2 HATE.....I MEAN COME ON PEOPLE...THIS IS SELENA...SHE CAN DO NO WRONG IN MY EYES❤❤❤
@@Asmax120lol what ? 😂 Idk about that. I follow her and watch a lot of her videos I didn’t get any impression that she loves drama Unless you’re only watching all the gossip videos about Selena, Justin and Hailey. 😂 nonstop manufactured drama. (They aren’t even true and edited together to look a certain way btw) Then idk what ya talking about.
Haters can just go ahead and hate! The song wasn’t written “for them”! This song is Selena’s journey and nobody else’s! People can choose to join her on it or they can just get off the ride. I love Selena and I hope she is always just true to herself ❤
I remember my friend showing me this song on RUclips thinking that I too would think it's the greatest masterpiece ever created. I basically shot his hopes & dreams down by listing all the things I hated about the video. Great song tho!
I didn’t like it on first listen but like most Selena bops it took a few plays before I realized she really popped off. It’s such a good song in my opinion, and rare is such a good album in my opinion. A Sweeter Place is also a song on the album that people generally dislike also but I LOVE that song sm.
Especially watching my mom go through her divorce after a 25 year long marriage, both songs speak to me. Lose You to Love Me to me now obviously is still tied to what Selena wrote it about and who she wrote it about, but more importantly to me it’s now tied to watching my mom go through the sadness that comes with a divorce and losing someone she thought was her best friend to someone my father had been cheating on her with for a year and realizing she’ll eventually be fine without him if this is who he’s deciding to be. Look at Her Now is partly how I’ve seen her put on her brave face to cope with this all and how she’s choosing to carry herself in this aftermath, and both are hopes I have of how she can see herself in the future. Both are on a playlist of songs that deal with the anger and sadness that have come with this.
Both songs helped me so much going through a breakup at the time. The one for when you just feel like crying but need a positive outlook, the other for when you need a sassy pick me up and reminder that it'll all be over at some point ❤️
Even though lose you to love me, it’s such a sad song. It’s also so good like it’s sad and I can relate to it and of course the song that she released offer is also so good.
Selena is amazing! The sad song then the bump song just went so well together. It just showed how strong she was and even tho she went through such a heart broken breakup it will never break her soul
I lLOVE , LOVE N UNDERSTAND EXACTLY WHAT SHE WENT THROUGH.. I MEAN, THAT SONG RESONATED WITH ME ... I UNDERSTAND SHE NEEDED TO RELEASE THOSE HEAVY EMOTIONS N WHAT BETTER WAY THAN TO SING IT OUT OF HER ... I GET IT , GIRL !!? U DO YOU ! NOW YOU CAN HEAL .. MUCH LOVE ❤
Im so glad that she is really happy and happy with her self. She deserves to be happy. With that bad break up and her health she really has been through so much. ❤❤❤❤❤
So iconic and I think anyone who's been so deep in love you have no idea how your make it through but look at me now is literally the come back and its so real and I just can't. I honestly wish I could send both to my ex but would ot really matter.
She truly is a inspiration and everyone can relate to her and her songs. A strong empowered woman indeed. Sometimes we have to let go of what is destroying us and often times it is what we love the most 💔. Blessings and happiness to her.
Let her be she needed to heal! Ones that don't understand wanted to be miserable with her for a bit longer! Selena made the right choice❤ someday they will get it!
Little off-topic but can we appreciate "Souvenir" which is her most underrated song no one ever talks about it. And the fact that she has written the song herself like l never expected such articulate songwriting intellect from her
Healing is different for everyone. It doesn’t have to make sense to anyone but you. At the end of the day you owe yourself everything, and you owe the world nothing ❤
Wasn't the backlash more about the fact she was writing about Justin who had been married for years when these songs came out? Idk much about their whole drama, I just remember seeing a lot of people critising her for writing about their old relationship and not mentioning her liver donater or something on that super personal album
I would like to know something. It’s a very serious question. Why and how have our men become so soft and feminine? Every other man is gay or bi these days (at least on the Internet) what’s going on?
No one should ever bottle up their emotions and cry and express as often as they need to, regardless of their gender. Maybe some men here and there could be genuinely feminine because nature designed them that way… but most men on the Internet and outside the virtual world have become feminine and women are becoming masculine. Which is tragic in my opinion.
“She didn’t even give us time to sob” 😅
😂🤣🤣🤣💜
@@imeldacanton56❤❤❤❤❤😊0😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
She knows what she's doing. NO time for anyone that didn't care. Why should they? Why should she?
The song ain’t emotional, YALL are just over dramatic
@@icloudyxd😂ok
I loved how she dropped these 2 songs back to back 👏 both songs were so healing for me too
Same! I was getting over quite a devastating break up when these songs dropped, and I really really needed to hear what they had to say. Vulnerable still makes me cry because it takes me back to how scared but elated I was to move on and open up again
Same my ex cheated then married her 2 months after we broke up married her on my birthday both songs helped me heal
@@ameliaholland3645Wish you all the best things in life.
She was basically explaining how she felt. I don't understand why she got so much hate for it. 🙄
SAME
She planned this perfectly!! It was for HER!! No one else, she was way done crying! GOOD FOR YOU SEL♥️
Haters never understand anything...
Well selenators are the worst so WTF u talkin bout ?
Well y’all get the most horny. But okay…
This can be taken in two ways😂
Aren't they like paid 🐕🐕of thr other woman stalker wife🐍
😅@@ansh1147
I remember how obsessed I used to be with that song and I still love it I didn’t know there were people that actually hated it 😭
same here😅
Me too
Look at her now is such a bop tho
Appsolultly not
So true
It’s so yummy mnm mnm mnm 😂
@@diegofranco3660omg I never thought about it like that LMFAO I LOVE LOOK AT HER NOW BUT IT IS HER YUMMY ISNT IT 😭😭😭
@@ashleymendoza1838keep hating 😭
I didn’t know there were haters of this song lol its a BOP
Cvv bc Co bc Co bc NBC❤
What means BOP?
Really 😂 this song let us her fans now she is alright
@@Fee___ a great song. A jam.
That's exactly wat I was wondering lol she got hate for this song?
The way Look At Her Now has been on replay for the last 2 weeks for me since my breakup… it’s a moment. It’s a healing. I love it.
Your always looking very ticklish my sweet little princess
We Cando some tickle role play soon to help u heal maybe some hide and go tickle or spiderman tickles mj
@@SneakyLarryyour disgusting. Leave her alone
@@SneakyLarrybro WHAT
Good for you! Been there and I was traumatised being so very young. But it was music that got me through it, it really is a miracle worker. After the initial " I just want to die" phase, I got over it by blasting my music and dancing, on my own while screaming along ( I could never call it singing😂) with the words that felt like they were written just for me. Its like a switch just flipped, and everything changed over night!
These two songs pulled me through the most difficult breakup of my life. Blessings to Selena.
X2 🩷
Lose you to love me is not about just a break up... She talked about it in a show (I don't remember) but she said it was a lyrics for herself because the thing she lost is herself in a relationship that didn't even worked at all. Not because they were young. Young people can be together and still love each other. She lost her own mind basically and got sick of it. It's not just a break up song. It's the whole situation that destroyed her.
Such a Sad and Beautiful and Powerful Song, We Lose Our Way and Our Selfs Trying To Please Love Ones And Others and Forget About Our Self, Love Yourself Before Others , Absolutely Heartbroken and Heart Warming Song , What Makes You Weak, Makes You Stronger, We All Deserve Better, I Deserve Better, Power House Song, Thank You Selena , 💖🩷💝
It's such an iconic song and it did what she wanted it to!
She could have wrote the song around the time Justin got married in 2018 then released that song 1 year later and wrote “look at her now” in 2019. Who knows, it’s just my thoughts. 😊
all her songs are my favorite, I don't understand how people hate em
@@BlackQueenMagicshe says it took her 1 year to release lose you to love me.. at the time she came up with the song she wasnt ready to release it yet.. so that makes sense
So iconic. I love "look at her now" so much.
CMC CMC gh KB Md gh bc❤
Rare is a masterpiece ✨️
finally someone said it 👏
ikr one onf my favorites. its simplicity actually makes it shine
I recently found it and got mad I didn't hear it sooner!!
agreeeee!
I love the song rare, but other than that I personally think it was her worst album and I say that as someone that's been a fan of her music a really long time!
I love that song, "Look at her now," who cares about the timing. She's a writer and producer. She is beautiful. She really showed how she moved on. Losing you to love me was written, and she didn't want to release it. It was her friends who released it. And it too was a great hit!
It's too bad folks it's all about timing, thats it. Oh well, that's life! BTW it is not just mm.mm. mm.😅 there are lyrics.
the fact i teared up w just the lil bit you showed of lose you to love me 😭 that song just hits too hard if you’ve ever been thru any type of relationship trauma or abuse. so glad she was able to heal and have her joy back! 🤍✨
"Yeah I was sad but now I just wanna go mmm-mm-mm-mmm-mm-mmm-mm" 😅
Love it. Love both the songs & love how strategically planned the releases of the songs were. I'm sure most ppl didn't even know this so thank you for this video n bringing it to everybody's attention 🙏❤
I❤them both ❤
SOMETIMES REJECTION IS A GOD'S
PROTECTION.BREAK UP IS A PART OF GROWING
UP. I'M VERY PROUD OF YOU, SELENA..
Truth!!
even more iconic because she told her label she wouldn't release lose you to love me unless she could release look at her now as a single
She don’t decide that where did you hear this information lol
@@Justanothertiredsoul she directly said it around the time of doing press for that album. Not sure the exact outlet but maybe the Zach sang show? Also yes, top artists typically have direct influence or total control over releases as most are also credited with being an executive producer for their album
She is a real person who went through the same shit as do most of us girls n her songs comes from her heart n soul n it depicts exactly whats us normal folks go thru n worst❤ always love her. ❤
Shes absolutely Beautiful ❤ shes been through alot! Glad shes doing good! Shes such a sweet precious soul!❤
I loved it immediately!! Her voice is so satisfying for some reason.
This song is iconic!!!!
Where?
@@valmongeseriously?
Both songs are awesome. The "mm mm mm mm..." is my favorite part! LOL
I love both songs ❤I loved how she dropped them back to back ❤️🥰
I loved it so much, didn't even know anyone could hate on it !!!
She did not get hate for that song. It skyrocketed and made people run to downlaod.
Yeah fr who was hating 😂 I never even heard this song tbh but I don't listen to the radio much
I don't know how can peoples hate a song saying "mmm mmhmm mmh"... lol. I think the guy was out of idea so he made the "hate" so he can make a short... Lol. Look for Kali - Mhm , the whole song is that xD@@ajaku
There were haters.
Totally true, I was going through a heartbreak and it has always been on replay
@@mikimishisaWhat did they say?
look at her now was released in 2020 and i believe that it's such a powerful song. I was super proud of her comeback showcasing her new healed version. Love her always!
I was going through a rough breakup right then when she dropped those songs. It REALLY helped me to play them every day
I loved both songs. Helped me become stronger after my heartbreak 💚🙌🏿
That's right happy for you sweetheart you look beautiful your song is great I love it❤😊
I honestly loved Look at Her Now way more than the ballad, honestly. That song gets stuck in your head, and it’s catchy! 😊
THIS IS SERIOUSLY ONE OF MY TOP SONGS BY SELENA THAT I ABSOLUTELY ADORE!! I REMEMBER THE VERY 1ST TIME I SAW IT, I WAS LIKE, "YOU GO GIRL!!" I KNEW EXACTLY WHERE SHE WAS COMING FROM & WHY SHE WROTE IT. IT DIDNT HURT AT ALL THAT SHE LOOKED SO FRICKING AMAZINGLY GORGEOUS IN THAT OUTFIT W HER HAIR PULLED BACK TIGHT...DOES NOT GET ANY BETTER THAN THIS....PLUS I LOVED THE CHOREOGRAPHY TOO!! ANYONE WHO PUTS HER DOWN IS JEALOUS & JUST LOVES 2 HATE.....I MEAN COME ON PEOPLE...THIS IS SELENA...SHE CAN DO NO WRONG IN MY EYES❤❤❤
Nice meeting you😊 yeah! beautiful Selena can never never do wrong in my eyes too❤
Look at her now, such a pop bop yall. I still listen to it. Very iconic
Selena Gomez Loves DRAMA
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@@Asmax120lol what ? 😂
Idk about that. I follow her and watch a lot of her videos
I didn’t get any impression that she loves drama
Unless you’re only watching all the gossip videos about Selena, Justin and Hailey. 😂 nonstop manufactured drama.
(They aren’t even true and edited together to look a certain way btw)
Then idk what ya talking about.
The fact that you have to explain people the meaning and the perfect timing of the relese of these 2 songs blows my mind away !!!! 😮
OMG i cant believe that song was 4 years ago!!! I remember it being released yesterday.
Haters can just go ahead and hate! The song wasn’t written “for them”! This song is Selena’s journey and nobody else’s! People can choose to join her on it or they can just get off the ride. I love Selena and I hope she is always just true to herself ❤
I love the way he did the chorus to end the video. I find that hilarious haha
Same
I absolutely loved both songs and still do. ❤
I remember my friend showing me this song on RUclips thinking that I too would think it's the greatest masterpiece ever created. I basically shot his hopes & dreams down by listing all the things I hated about the video. Great song tho!
HAPPY & HEALED ❤❤❤❤❤
I didn’t like it on first listen but like most Selena bops it took a few plays before I realized she really popped off. It’s such a good song in my opinion, and rare is such a good album in my opinion. A Sweeter Place is also a song on the album that people generally dislike also but I LOVE that song sm.
Same. And Ring was at the top of my list first listen.
I remember being one of those who didn’t like Look At Her Now, but now I think it was brilliant, definetly ahead of its time❤
She got hate for the song? People will always find reason to hate. I like the song..
Not just the song, everything she did they hate her. I feel so bad for her, she is human tho, no one r perfect. Everyone make mistakes
This is one of my favorite songs!!! The humming showed so much attitude and feels! ❤
God Bless Selena Gomez… I hope she gets away from all the industry lies and bullying. 😢
Look at her now was an immediate hit for me.. That is a banger that I put on repeat!
Whoever hated look at her now??? Its a bop... i listened to it multiple times for months after its release
Especially watching my mom go through her divorce after a 25 year long marriage, both songs speak to me. Lose You to Love Me to me now obviously is still tied to what Selena wrote it about and who she wrote it about, but more importantly to me it’s now tied to watching my mom go through the sadness that comes with a divorce and losing someone she thought was her best friend to someone my father had been cheating on her with for a year and realizing she’ll eventually be fine without him if this is who he’s deciding to be. Look at Her Now is partly how I’ve seen her put on her brave face to cope with this all and how she’s choosing to carry herself in this aftermath, and both are hopes I have of how she can see herself in the future. Both are on a playlist of songs that deal with the anger and sadness that have come with this.
God bless to your mom.. sending hugs.. everything will be fine
Thats so sad 🥺
Both songs helped me so much going through a breakup at the time. The one for when you just feel like crying but need a positive outlook, the other for when you need a sassy pick me up and reminder that it'll all be over at some point ❤️
She is perfect ❤❤❤❤❤ i love her song 🎉🎉🎉
Even though lose you to love me, it’s such a sad song. It’s also so good like it’s sad and I can relate to it and of course the song that she released offer is also so good.
Selena is amazing! The sad song then the bump song just went so well together. It just showed how strong she was and even tho she went through such a heart broken breakup it will never break her soul
They’re both about healing ❤️🩹
We're in 2024 and I'm still listening to both these songs. Iconic. The journey to healing ❤
She's just amazing!
I love both songs equally
She’s free from a very not so good relationship.. something we are happy about cuz she’s free .. yes 👍 😊
I lLOVE , LOVE N UNDERSTAND EXACTLY WHAT SHE WENT THROUGH.. I MEAN, THAT SONG RESONATED WITH ME ... I UNDERSTAND SHE NEEDED TO RELEASE THOSE HEAVY EMOTIONS N WHAT BETTER WAY THAN TO SING IT OUT OF HER ... I GET IT , GIRL !!? U DO YOU ! NOW YOU CAN HEAL .. MUCH LOVE ❤
Im so glad that she is really happy and happy with her self. She deserves to be happy. With that bad break up and her health she really has been through so much. ❤❤❤❤❤
She really represents the cusp of the emotional Cancer & the Confident Leo so well!!! 🎉❤😊
She's doing a wonderful job♥️♥️♥️♥️
Changed my life.
I love these songs why do people hate this song ❤
People will always be people..I love her songs fr ❤
So iconic and I think anyone who's been so deep in love you have no idea how your make it through but look at me now is literally the come back and its so real and I just can't.
I honestly wish I could send both to my ex but would ot really matter.
Love both songs
She truly is a inspiration and everyone can relate to her and her songs. A strong empowered woman indeed. Sometimes we have to let go of what is destroying us and often times it is what we love the most 💔. Blessings and happiness to her.
This song is amazing 😍🤩..how someone hate it 🙄
Her songs have helped me, she's amazing 💗
This album was on repeat for a solid year. Her best work.
Ngl I need this song rn.. saving it to my phone!!! I love selena
Luved that last song, it was kinda funny 😂😂😂
Let her be she needed to heal! Ones that don't understand wanted to be miserable with her for a bit longer! Selena made the right choice❤ someday they will get it!
And here I am playing this song all the fucking time. Haters gone hate but we love her
The haters are just jealous of her 😊😊😊
They truly are at her age the world is at her feet Selena is one special woman in the world smart and beautiful woman
Little off-topic but can we appreciate "Souvenir" which is her most underrated song no one ever talks about it. And the fact that she has written the song herself like l never expected such articulate songwriting intellect from her
my fave from rare!
Souvenir is 100% slept on!!!!
She actually writes the good majority of her own songs 😊
@@ashleynagy3617Nope, she doesnt.
I love them both! No one knows how she was really going through it all❤
Selena gomez has the ❤️ of gold. Those songs are magical and heartfelt. That,s my angel,selena gomez.❤❤
I love both songs 🎵 🎉❤
I like those two songs, I went through the same thing she went through. She’s so much better now. Good for her 👏👏👏
SUPERSTAR!!! APPRECIATE YOURSELF ..❤❤❤❤
❤️❤️❤️❤️Selena gomez is our favorite celebrity ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Love her! Such a beautiful woman both inside and out!❤❤
People with no talent will always be the loudest about their opinion of people with talent
Healing is different for everyone. It doesn’t have to make sense to anyone but you. At the end of the day you owe yourself everything, and you owe the world nothing ❤
Omg guys, just listen to her songs one by one. Be grateful she even made these songs for us to vibe to.
Even though she’s different now…
The most iconic and inspiring lady 💜 ✨️ ❤️
i loved both when they came out, and her lyrics are true. Lose you to love me hits me hard now, never thought it would 😢
look at her now is one of my fav selena songs. it’s so empowering
I love this song ❤❤❤
She's so iconic
Lose You To Love me is colourless and Look At Her Now is so colourful ❤
Wasn't the backlash more about the fact she was writing about Justin who had been married for years when these songs came out? Idk much about their whole drama, I just remember seeing a lot of people critising her for writing about their old relationship and not mentioning her liver donater or something on that super personal album
Can we stop calling people who don't like something haters. Mayb3 they just don't like it
Nope, they are haters period
you can not like something without hating on it.
@cupcake-cx5ov umm you can. By simply having the mentality of " this isnt for me " and move on and not pay it any mine
@@mikahwilliams907 that's what they were saying boo
How many millions dollar she get from this song? Why should i care she is sad or heal from this song.
The haters is about 1%, while Selena's supporters are about 99%, well whos next?😅😅😅😅
Agreed.
These are amazing songs
This is right on point. Loved both songs and can relate to both. ❤❤❤❤ love you Selena
I would like to know something. It’s a very serious question. Why and how have our men become so soft and feminine? Every other man is gay or bi these days (at least on the Internet) what’s going on?
So you’re saying men should only be “manly” and “mascular” and they can’t show/be their true self??
Not EVERY man is gay tho lmao 😂😂😂
No one should ever bottle up their emotions and cry and express as often as they need to, regardless of their gender. Maybe some men here and there could be genuinely feminine because nature designed them that way… but most men on the Internet and outside the virtual world have become feminine and women are becoming masculine. Which is tragic in my opinion.
@@chiangjanice7805 every man’s true self means being feminine, emasculated and behaving and talking like women?
@@surabhisahni3950 no but why do men always have to fit the typical stereotype? That just sounds 1950-
It’s super weird that I took her 10 years to move on from Justin. It shouldn’t take that long to move in from an ex.