I Don’t Know How To Get Through a Breakup

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    Kim Eng is the creator of Presence through Movement (PTM), a unique, powerful, and practical approach to accessing the present moment through the body and through movement. This meditative movement practice was inspired by and draws from the ancient mystical teachings of qigong, t’ai chi, yoga, as well as the spiritual insights of Eckhart Tolle-yet it is not affiliated with any particular religion, culture, or form of yoga.
    As a facilitator of Presence through Movement, Kim travels and works extensively with her teaching partner Eckhart Tolle, the author of the best selling books The Power of Now and A New Earth. Kim has developed a teaching approach that incorporates and complements Eckhart’s teachings. Her work translates these teachings into a structured, embodied practice to support the arising of presence and the awakening of consciousness.
    Kim has offered retreats and workshops in North America, Europe, and Australia. She is the author of two instructional DVDs on Presence through Movement-Qi Flow Yoga and Yin Yoga-and of two audio-learning programs, Meditations for A New Earth and Resist Nothing, featuring practical ways to overcome our inner obstacles to presence.
    Kim was born in Vancouver, Canada. Her spiritual search began in the early 1980s. She met Eckhart in 1998, and soon after underwent a transformational spiritual experience while attending one of his retreats. This was followed by seven years of intense spiritual training, after which she began counseling and teaching.
    Kim sees our true nature-our essence-as living in and through our human bodies. Through movement and through our bodies, we can return to and awaken to pure presence and oneness-to who we are beyond the thinking mind and egoic sense of self-accessing infinite power and creativity.
    “When we are connected to Source, and body-mind-spirit are aligned-when we realize who we are at the core of our being-we blossom into our life purpose,” she says. “We cannot help but do so. And that is how we create what Eckhart Tolle calls ‘a new earth."

Комментарии • 73

  • @kd__33
    @kd__33 Год назад +29

    Respect to this woman for her willingness to stand in front of that crowd and expose herself like that. Her vulnerability and honesty was beautiful

  • @everydaytherapist7315
    @everydaytherapist7315 3 года назад +32

    "He left like all forms leave." Woah

  • @toddsqui
    @toddsqui 3 года назад +84

    "All forms leave... and then you just feel the space." ❤️

    • @maryrosekiomall565
      @maryrosekiomall565 3 года назад

      So when the forms leave, you're feeling pain first. How does one fill the space/void?

    • @lilibombin6667
      @lilibombin6667 2 года назад +2

      @@maryrosekiomall565 you don’t fill it . The space you feel is the eternal consciousness where you are unattached and at peace

    • @TenTenJ
      @TenTenJ 2 года назад +1

      @@maryrosekiomall565 when I don’t identify with a form self and form in general, I am one with the Spiritual Self. In that, I never feel alone, left etc. I Be.

    • @FreeDom-fv8wy
      @FreeDom-fv8wy 2 года назад

      Not all, we have another half to our soul and we can progress to a permanent union.

    • @FreeDom-fv8wy
      @FreeDom-fv8wy Год назад

      @Danielle M not with the other golf of your soul

  • @Alice-iw8xy
    @Alice-iw8xy 3 года назад +36

    Now I realise I don’t have to attach the story and I feel I have the secret to happiness. I was so silly for always needing to identify the pain. That’s what modern therapy is all about “talk about what happened” I now know I don’t have to do that. Feelings are going to be there regardless of what has happened in life, better to feel that energy out and forget the stories. The stories are time consuming. Thank you Kim.

    • @Soaring-Dragon
      @Soaring-Dragon 2 года назад +1

      Face your pain and resistance to feel , believe your stories consciously then see the dead material fall apart 😊😊

    • @abladam9898
      @abladam9898 2 года назад

      I'm really struggling with this concept. Could you elaborate on how to do this. I'm really struggling with heartbreak at the moment

    • @Olivia-bs5wj
      @Olivia-bs5wj Год назад +1

      Thank you, today people are crying out in social media all wanting to talk about their problems and wanting people to comfort them, but I don’t feel better when I talk to others. Though I can’t get through it right now, I don’t want to live without my ex.

    • @rainbowgirljules
      @rainbowgirljules Год назад +1

      @@Olivia-bs5wj I hope you're feeling ok Olivia and that you've been 'feeling' the loss of your ex instead of talking about him (or her!). I'm going through the same at present. The feelings are so very unpleasant at times yet I trust they will ease off at some point and then I feel a little better again. Just ride the waves as they come and go. As Kim says, it's just as ok to feel sad as it is to feel happy, even though our current social media society tends to shy away from so-called negative feelings and prefers to talk instead!

  • @slowecoliving
    @slowecoliving 3 года назад +20

    4.29. The deep presence in kims eyes. I feel this. Spot on. The empty hole is meant be empty ❤🌐🕉🙏

  • @lindareif584
    @lindareif584 3 года назад +26

    Kim Eng is amazing…so real

  • @elisemcdonnell5898
    @elisemcdonnell5898 3 года назад +24

    Wonderfully explained, be authentic and no need to pretend your happy all the time. Accept whatever feeling is there in the moment 💗💗

  • @dottiegeary9065
    @dottiegeary9065 3 года назад +18

    I smile all the time also, yes sadness of a little girl underneath.

    • @TenTenJ
      @TenTenJ 2 года назад

      Isn’t it interesting how all the little habits we develop to cover up the unresolved pain body are actually socially awkward and turn others off? Then it’s not just us experiencing the pain body but we are signaling to others and reflecting it back in others. And I am always polite and nice, and it gets me hurt. People think I’m stupid. In some ways, I’m emotionally stupid. But the times when I’m really feeling what I’m thinking, I feel more in control, more empowered. And then I am not exerting the energy for being liked.

  • @lukapesun
    @lukapesun 3 года назад +7

    few seconds of silence at the end of the video would give a moment for everything to simmer down a bit

  • @imanehsanfar6506
    @imanehsanfar6506 2 месяца назад

    Listening to Eckhart's wife felt as good as listening to Eckhart. Thanks.

  • @SpicyMelange
    @SpicyMelange Год назад +1

    This is the work of Adult Children of Alcoholics & Dysfunctional Families. Shame, abandonment, being with ourselves. Thank you.

  • @wontul
    @wontul 2 года назад +5

    Such a beautiful, honest and courageous woman to stand there sharing her suffering. I wish I knew her name. I may know little about life, yet I believe that one recognizes truly wise people by the way they treat others. And yes, wise teachers may give us tough lessons to swallow but never in front of the audience. And was it that deep after all? What’s under the smile? Sadness. What’s under the sadness? A smile (send directly to that beautiful vulnerable lady).

  • @rarasirius3795
    @rarasirius3795 2 года назад +2

    Wow..."he left like all forms leave, all forms eventually leave". That is such a profound truth that we just don't think about.

    • @sandramynard1046
      @sandramynard1046 2 года назад +1

      Hurts more when it’s your children

    • @Olivia-bs5wj
      @Olivia-bs5wj Год назад

      Not according to spiritual people, we will live here forever in 5D and having a perfect world where everyone work, no one complains, no one will be sad etc. sounds terrible but I guess I won’t be participating in that world, cause I’m sad and I’m not perfect:)

  • @intueriii
    @intueriii 3 года назад +27

    oh Kim. You are helping me so much and I just want to extend my heartfelt gratitude to you and your teachings. thank you so much for everything you do.

    • @TenTenJ
      @TenTenJ 2 года назад +1

      She’s amazing.

  • @angelabaranga569
    @angelabaranga569 3 года назад +11

    So clear and beautiful when the unseen is seen ...
    Thank you ❤

  • @mars1783
    @mars1783 3 года назад +6

    Really beautiful and helpful to LOTS OF us that r not so great with relationships!!! Thank you Kim for helping us feel okay with sharing our authentic emotional distress and healing the scared kids in us!!! This era has drug up lots of things I've avoided for years, grateful to this beautiful "Smiley" woman that's coping with the pain people like me n her have yet to HEAL. This is such a lovely corner of the internet!!! Thanks for letting me pop into the retreats, love y'all!!!

  • @ronamain8689
    @ronamain8689 Год назад +1

    My ex husband and I divorced because we continuously reacted on our 'hurt child' in us . One thing I did to recover from the reactive,hurt child was to embrace and love the little girl that was me!

  • @tinaquinteromarrone3631
    @tinaquinteromarrone3631 2 года назад +1

    love this. thank you kim

  • @84LA84
    @84LA84 3 года назад +1

    Wow this was very much needed

  • @shitalbhattadgondhali8723
    @shitalbhattadgondhali8723 Год назад +1

    He left like all forms leave... was awesome line in this video

  • @rolamattar1630
    @rolamattar1630 3 года назад +4

    Thank you so much. I needed that. Thank you kim

  • @victorialopez9291
    @victorialopez9291 3 года назад +2

    Thank u for this question .🙏

  • @xoxo00009
    @xoxo00009 3 года назад

    This is just brilliant. Wow

  • @dragtherapy
    @dragtherapy 3 года назад +7

    another great one

  • @mgraulau
    @mgraulau 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you for that. Kim explained doing this kind of work simply and beautifully.

  • @annalisasmith7604
    @annalisasmith7604 3 года назад +2

    This is everything

  • @sandramynard1046
    @sandramynard1046 2 года назад +2

    When your only child abandons you no contact no reason it’s heartbreaking

  • @hermelindazepeda5627
    @hermelindazepeda5627 3 года назад +1

    Thank You

  • @user-cy2ns5gm7i
    @user-cy2ns5gm7i 2 месяца назад

    “Authentic does not mean happiness” … feel the body

  • @gracesanity6314
    @gracesanity6314 5 месяцев назад +1

    Powerful.

  • @anapereira6821
    @anapereira6821 Год назад

    I love her♥️🔥 thankss

  • @antenanashi
    @antenanashi 3 года назад +1

    I hope she feels better now

  • @BartvanderHorst
    @BartvanderHorst 8 дней назад

    her face is more helpful then her words.

  • @nicolegiles1034
    @nicolegiles1034 2 года назад

    Deep! Wow!

  • @fedeio9381
    @fedeio9381 2 года назад +2

    It was sooo interesting. ... what a pity it was interrupted before the end of the conversation

  • @earthling1116
    @earthling1116 3 года назад +18

    She makes people feel uncomfortable in a positive way, I guess .

    • @TenTenJ
      @TenTenJ 2 года назад +2

      She’s a healer. Medicine has to take its course.

  • @unconditionalfreedom
    @unconditionalfreedom 3 года назад +1

    it is a life long work usually --but seems that is the purpose

  • @reneelemieuxsmith8003
    @reneelemieuxsmith8003 3 года назад +3

    Wow

  • @YouWillSpeak
    @YouWillSpeak 2 года назад

    oh wow...

  • @matilda4406
    @matilda4406 3 года назад

    She saw the smiles were the tough girl facade

  • @onfireforjesus8374
    @onfireforjesus8374 2 года назад +2

    I wish I could understand how this works.

  • @angelfairy5010
    @angelfairy5010 2 года назад +4

    Talking about in therapy just brings it up again….I’ve never believed in going over the past it just brings the same story up over and over again

    • @gracelewis6071
      @gracelewis6071 2 года назад +1

      Yes getting caught in the story as Kim puts it is a tricky trap. I've found that people sensitive to energy have been necessary in order to guide me through. To help me feel and hold and let that energy come up. To be with it with me.

  • @RainbowSunshineRain
    @RainbowSunshineRain 3 года назад +5

    I wonder what happened after they cut out the ending.

    • @brunosco
      @brunosco 3 года назад +1

      She bursted into tears?

  • @wholestself8790
    @wholestself8790 Год назад +1

    4:17
    6:29
    9:38

  • @lovepeaceundharmonymeinelieben

    She's amazing

  • @loiseldridge5701
    @loiseldridge5701 3 года назад

    O M G!!!! 😢

  • @gretanavarauskaite2904
    @gretanavarauskaite2904 3 года назад

    ❤️

  • @HisaLight2mypath
    @HisaLight2mypath Год назад

    Insightful and helpful just a laughing in the background was a bit distracting

  • @AdrianMark
    @AdrianMark 3 года назад

    This wasn't bad at all

  • @orlagrace241
    @orlagrace241 2 года назад +1

    I thought Kim was mean. You definitely let your ego in on this talk

  • @avi10000
    @avi10000 3 года назад +5

    I am a big fan of kin eng, but excuse me if the father leaves a kid when she is 5 that is NOT what all "father forms" do.

    • @avi10000
      @avi10000 3 года назад

      But indeed it was a beautiful therapy demo

    • @sandramynard1046
      @sandramynard1046 2 года назад

      Ditto when your only adult child won’t have a relationship with you & wont say why.

  • @mariadinn2992
    @mariadinn2992 3 года назад

    Pseudo psychology

  • @matilda4406
    @matilda4406 3 года назад

    Why don't you tell her to empathize with her dad. He had reasons. Identify with them reasons

  • @ronamain8689
    @ronamain8689 Год назад +1

    My ex husband and I divorced because we continuously reacted on our 'hurt child' in us . One thing I did to recover from the reactive,hurt child was to embrace and love the little girl that was me!