Things I NO longer buy MINIMALIST
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- Опубликовано: 31 май 2024
- In this video I share 12 things that I no longer buy as a minimalist and the reasons why. Become smarter in 5 minutes by signing up for free today: cen.yt/mbbenitalarsson3 - Thanks to Morning Brew for sponsoring today’s video.
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Hi Benita! Enjoying things without purchasing them is one of my favourite things to do. I once heard someone say that they consider admiring shop displays of pretty things as akin to viewing things in a gallery. I tried it and it works!
It does work well!
That is a fantastic way to think of it 😊. My mom and I are also happy to window shop, we like looking at all the options.
I do this too ! I love beautiful things but no longer feel the need to buy everything I like ( thank goodness as can't afford to😆) I especially love to browse shops such as Anthropologie and department stores. I find this inspires my creativity and often reminds me of something similar I already have at home (which I then appreciate even more)😊💗
@@gillianm9367 yes I agree with you, sometimes you just need to see your things from a different perspective, how someone else has used it to inspire you 👍😁
Benita I love your comment “I don’t shop for entertainment but I do window shop for entertainment”. That was such an eye opening comment for me. A trap I have fallen into probably my entire life !!
It's a game changer and you'll love it!
Another thoughtful and thought-provoking message! I have a lot less' just in case' stuff in every catogory. Funny how I used to find such comfort in all those 'back up' items. Now I prefer the simplicity of just what I need, and the visual of empty space.
Love that you’ve realized that about yourself!
Yes! The visual of empty space is comforting.
I’m dealing with the scarcity mindset. I couldn’t just buy one quantity of toiletries…
What a lovely home. I am inspired by the beauty of it. For books I visit the library to read hardback books I cant afford. For nice smells I drip essential oil on a nice piece of wood I keep by the bed instead of scented candles which in a block of appartments has a fire risk. I bought a yamazaki silicone soap dish from amazon so the soap can dry and started using good quality hand soap instead of lots of plastic bottle with soapy stuff in them. I have an old tea pot which was heading for the dump and now use it as a watering can for the pot plants. Once I started getting rid of the surplus things I owned I started to enjoy the things that remained much more. with respect, mark from london
I love the idea of using a teapot as a watering can!
You have such a calming voice,I could listen to you for hours.
Aww, thank you so much!
This is the most beautiful and inspiring minimalism video I’ve seen. I just found your channel today and I love it. I’ve been slowing shifting toward minimalism over the past 10 years. Not buying is my new superpower. Thank you for sharing your lifestyle!
I am a midi-maximalist who's becoming simpler and simpler in my habits as I age. I buy SO much less than when I was younger. I enjoy your videos as relaxation and a good influence!
--I no longer buy mass-produced disposable items. For instance, I now have had one razor forever, and I just change the cartridges. Same as you with nail files, too, and face cleaning pads.
--No bottled water: I do have a few large containers for emergencies but I use tap water with a really good filter.
--No more perfume for me either. I did keep a set of about ten beloved ones and I wear those, but got rid of all the rest and no longer buy any.
--No more tchotchkes. If I buy something, it must have a use, preferably practical. I have enough pretty things (and have purged many.)
--I no longer buy clothes that don't fit, which I used to do because my weight fluctuates a lot (metabolism issues.) Now I just have a box of each size range in the back of my closet, and pull out whatever set fits currently. I will only buy new items within that range--items I can wear now.
--I don't buy duplicates anymore either, save, like you, underwear and socks--oh, and white t-shirts because I ruin them easily LOL.
--No clothes that are not made of natural fabrics. I don't wear them and just end up giving them away.
--I don't buy certain colors of clothing at all. All my wardrobe contains besides black and white is gray, dark or cinnamon brown, periwinkle, indigo or teal blue, deep red, ballet pink, and occasionally lavender or dark green.
--I don't buy 99% of cat toys anymore because my cats ignore them. They ONLY like catnip bananas and cardboard boxes. And my shoelaces.
--No more books, unless I find something amazing in a thrift store for 50 cents (and then I'll give away when I am done.) Anything else I want to read goes on the Kindle, or Audible for audio books. Or I get them out of the library!
--No more records, especially 78s. I love very old music, but 78s are heavy, fragile and difficult to store. I kept a few rare favorites and sold or gave away the rest, and I have one shelf of my favorite LPs that I actually play. I don't buy CDs either, since I finally have a newer car which can play digital music off my phone.
--In general, I don't buy new things unless it's the best/only option for something I really need (e.g. a new refrigerator.)
--No new jewelry. I have a lot of pieces I made myself and occasionally buy an antique item. Of course jewelry is so small and easy to organize and store, so I don't worry about that too much.
TKS ❤️👍😊
I agree with all your no buys, I also don’t buy any home decor, the few pieces I own are enough 👍🏼
Same! Done with home purchases!
Thank you so much!
yes, same here. its amazing what absence of homedecord does. i saw Benita's empty walls but just very well painted (the right colors), which some may find boring but it breaths much relaxation and ease. (less is more).
Hi, I was just reading through the comments and thought I might leave one as well.
I wanted to share that as a writer I enjoy listening to stories, fiction or nonfiction. I come to your channel to listen and view the non fictional story you produce. Thank you for sharing your gift with us.
A deep bow of respect to you.
Thank you, that's so sweet of you!
Yes I made myself reusable rounds from flannel left over from sewing projects.
@@Connie-ts1dv I tried that first but they just ended up as knots when I washed them. Probably used the wrong fabric scraps for it 😅
@@BenitaLarsson I layered 6 or 7 pieces and zigzagged edges. Mine are about 3 inches across.
I heard the expression 'admire not aquire' and it has become my mantra, especially when I am tempted to buy.
Thats such a great mantra!
I love my glass nail file. I’ve had it for well over 15 years now. One nice thing is that, unlike other files, you can go both directions (back and forth) without damaging your nails.
Yes I just bought a glass nail file from dollar tree and I love it
Very inspiring! I used to buy duplicates of favorite clothes and I, too, have stopped doing that because owning duplicates made the original item less special--except, like you, for daily-use pieces like underwear and socks. 🥰❤️⭐️
That’s a great way to describe it!
I know it's not minimalist but I like yellow and green way too much to stop wearing it, it cheers me up 🙈.
But above all, I love books and my bookcase makes me happy. I declutter regularly but I can't seem to get as little as you.
I still have a long way to go to be a real minimalist!
Another great video, thank you. I can't remember the last time I bought fabric softener, I use vinegar to soften towels. Since March 2020 (our first lockdown here in NZ) I haven't bought or worn make-up and my skin is looking better than it has for years - I'm 57 - and I don't think I'll ever go back!
Oh my, Benita, you’ve uncovered my secret obsession- scented candles. They can be quite pricey so I rarely burn them because once they are gone, so us the scent! So they sit in my hutch while, like you, I burn cheaper candles.
I know longer buy dressy clothes, batteries for a watch I never wear, Starbucks coffee and shoes with heels.
Haha, you should burn them if you enjoy them though!😉
I love that you kept the silver heart necklace.
I don’t buy heeled shoes anymore. It’s flats all day, every day for me 🙌
Oh, I'm so with you on the flats! Haven't worn heals since ninth grade 😅
First thing that came to mind.. Haircuts (service). I have an electric hair clippers I've been using for 10 years and with a scissors that's all I need to cut my hair. Buying something, in this case, actually made my life simpler. I don't buy shampoo, soap is enough to wash my head / shorter hair. I don't buy fast food, everything I eat comes from a weekly grocery store visit and weekly going out to eat for Sushi on Saturday with friends! I've a digital minimalist for 15+ years. Besides a nice PC setup and Nintendo Switch most my entertainment is digital or free, like day hiking with friends, so there is no need to buy gear.
Agree with window shopping. I can spend 2 hours in Sephora but buy just one item. I just love being surrounded by those products hehehe.
That’s so great, right?
Hello Benita, a tip for 'sharpening' your glass nail files... run them under cold water 😊
I enjoyed your video! I stopped anything perfumated when my daughter was a newborn. She’s 10 now, never looked back. My cats thank me as well!
So happy you enjoyed it!😊
So did I!
And as I have 4 kids, born over a wide range of years there is no sende to buy perfume for me anymore...well, besides I still love 4711 today!
So many home youtube videos show people using scented laundry detergent, fabric softener and scented beads all together. I think it binds to the fabric and doesn't allow to clean the garmet thoroughly. Also they contain chemicals and are bad for the environment. Another one, is people using paper plates on a daily basis. Love your ideas!
I love your videos, sister! I figured out years ago what are my favorite colors to wear: red, purple, royal blue, emerald green, black, and white. My only neutrals are shades of grey, from medium to deep charcoal. Browns, tans, beige, etc., make my skin look sickly.
Your home is gorgeous and very warm and inviting. Thanks for sharing!
I'm not sure what store you are showing us in the beginning but I love it!
It's Iris Hantverk!
I don't buy scented candles. I only buy an ordinary candles which is more cheaper and will only use it incase on emergency or power outrage.
I no longer buy flowers every week. I look for things in my yard and on my walk. I tend to buy single stems instead of big bunches if I do buy. The elegance of one stem with some foraged greens is beautiful in its simplicity.
Hmmm, things I no longer buy.. Nail polish, home decor, hair styling products, makeup, disposable straws, working on finding reusable alternatives for other disposable things, dryer sheets, coffee out,... I mean I think maybe there are enough things that I could make a video like this too! It won't be as beautifully filmed as yours, however. Your videos are inspiring to me on many levels! ❤️
Aww, thank you so much!
This inspired me to compile my own list of things I no longer buy (or buy far less of than I used to)
1. magazines (used to buy 5+ per month !)
2. music (remember CDs ? 🤣)
3. jewellery
4. occasion wear/ workwear
5. ornaments/crafts (still love to browse though)
6. random beauty products
7. new perfumes (my signature scent is Liz Earle No.1 botanical fragrance derived from 97% natural ingredients)
8. cushions
9. bedlinen (have 2 quality sets)
10. artwork (always end up donating to charity)
I love colours and printed fabrics though so I do prefer a wider variety of clothing options HOWEVER I do stick with navy blue as my classic 'neutral ' as it is kinder on my skin tone than black, is practical and works year round. It also pairs well with my other favourite shades of fuchsia pink, indigo and teal 💕
But there are still people like me who don't use a cellphone/smartphone, so I do need my CD's and my books and magazines, and my desk top computer. But I have realized at this time in my life that I am appreciating function over the simple act of "having" and am now in the process of hauling carloads of items to the thrift shop for donation, I am fine with all of my shelves of books and my plants etc, but I am through with having the boxes and boxes in the closets "just because I have them" it is TRULY a case of "out of sight out of mind"...
@@chrisfry436 Decluttering is so therapeutic! There are no hard and fast rules, it sounds as though you have assessed what is important to YOU and are now able to let go of what no longer serves you. Others will be grateful for your donated items and you will enjoy the space you have cleared, I am certain.
What I enjoy most is then rearranging those things I most value, displaying a curated selection that is attractive yet easy to clean and maintain. I still enjoy books but keep only about 15 , if I acquire a new one then 1 has to be donated! I would recommend you try a smartphone though- I find mine invaluable 😊
I've always been a simplistic person. It really lightens your soul when you let go of what you don't NEED. I can't even remember the last time I've worn any jewelry besides 4 good pieces. I filled 3 shoeboxes full of costume jewelry and donated them. I won't buy anymore. I truly look forward to your videos.
Such a good call to donate it! Someone else will be happy!
I have a hard time understanding why it is sooo very hard to get rid of things, I am like you, I dont wear jewelry but have three whole boxes of it I have acquired over the years, but I never have thought about getting rid of it because it is "my" jewelry, ha ha.
I love that you are so practical yet stylish at the same time. Thank you for sharing. Looking forward your next video. 🙂
Thank you so much!😊
I don't do professional manicures, don't buy disposable face pads, tampons or pads, I use dryer balls and try to take reusable shopping bags. Living in frivolous part of United States I'm one of the few that practice this so I feel accomplished.
I have stopped buying magazines. I use Borrow Box, an app on my phone linked to the public library to borrow books and magazines digitally. I use an app simply called News to access news appropriate to Australia and my area. I try to borrow knitting needles and crochet hooks from friends if possible and if not I check charity shops before purchasing new. The hardest thing for me is stopping others in my home from buying things.
Dear Benita. Please make a video of your favorite home decor\appliances\furniture\plants\organizers etc stores you like the most! Thank you
Thank you for the video Benita. For me the biggest impact was going paperless. I have all my favourite books in my reading apps. My business went fully digital, so no more papers or folders lying around. No more stationary. If feels really good.
Benita,
You are the sunshine to my morning. Perfect way to start my day while sipping some coffee. Signed up for Morning Brew. Thank you for the suggestion. There is a long list of items I no longer buy but drinking water is at the top. Here in America it is a huge, ridiculous source of pollution.
Be well and stay awesome.
Love that! We are super lucky to have great tap water over here.
Watching your videos after a very long and exhausting day is just what I need to relax and calm my body. Thank you.😍
Thank you so much for watching!
Checking out books from the library is a great way to read and not own additional books. I almost always find even recent titles at the library.
Window shopping, yay! I've been practising it for years now. Also, I love your videos, Benita, because your style, be it minimalist or whatever, is so honest. Honest minimalism at its best.
So happy you enjoy them!
Thanks for sharing Another great video! I really enjoy watching your videos, it’s so relaxing 😌
Thank you!
Love reading morning brew with my morning brew…
"Life is too short to wear boring clothes." 😊Otherwise, I agree with everything else.
I agree that window shopping is the best! I no longer waste money on things I'll eventually grow tired of and need to give away.
This was such a helpful and enjoyable video! Gave me lots to think about in terms of my own shopping.
Watching your videos is always soothing for me. Thank you.
Enjoyed the video. It's so difficult to be a minimalist in the States. It's consume buy, buy, buy. It gets into your head, but I try to fight it. It's an uphill battle.
Do you know Becoming minimalist channel ? Joshua lives in the u.s. and his videos are really insightful and helpful.
Benita has great minimalist videos that’s how I discovered her. she inspired me and I gave myself one year to fully declutter.
I totally understand that we live under different circumstances. Keep fighting that urge to shop though and enjoy looking at things without feeling you need to have them.
Aww, I'm so happy to hear that!
Omg yes, a daily uphill battle. It’s so stressful.
This video is so calming and your cat is so cute
Thank you, I really enjoyed this video! Just looking and not buying, and only buying what you need, is really the key!!! By putting this into practice, I have the funds to treat myself to fresh flowers once and a while!
Isn’t it great to be able to treat yourself occasionally instead of constantly buying stuff?
While I am not a minimalist I do enjoy organizing and keeping spaces tidy and cozy. I enjoy your channel regardless 🌸🙂
I love tidy and cozy!🙌🏻
I have gotten so many good ideas from your videos, like the laundry bag to contain microplastics and now the wool laundry balls. Things that both simplify and cut pollution are just what I look for! Thanks so much =)
Hi Benita, your organisational skills and calmness are impressive. Love your lifestyle. Thank you.
I don’t buy perfume also. As you said, if you have a shower and wash your hair with nice scents, what for? I will consider stop buying scented candles, because of the reason you gave.
Hi Benitta. Your tip of window shopping for fun, without buying anything has worked so well for me. Thanks a lot. Love and hugs xxx
Benita, such a great idea! I have been declaring so much and only keeping what I really need or like. Still a long way from minimalism but it feels so good to have things that we can actually actually access easily. Thanks again for the motivation!
Very inspiring! I think I may start culling stuff from my life. Extraneous stuff.
Thank you for your useful videos.
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Wow i have never heard of a glass nail filer. 🤔 liked this vid...thankyou 😇
You give me such great ideas. Love your life💛
An inspiring video! I am learning to control my impulsive shopping habits and minimize my stocked stuff. Thanks a lot.
So inspiring and motivating!
Thank you for sharing : so with you on the fabric softeners (and other detergents) they are amongst the most allergenic stuff !!And i wish I had a good friend who would be of some similar size to swap clothes with when needed. Haven't given up paper books but I now buy them second-hand and re-sell so they don't have to sit on a shelf and catch dust anymore :) So many things we don't need and can be more conscious about
Yay! I've never bought any of these things and am also looking into prescription sunglasses. Snap! 😊
I make my own cleaners too and I dont buy processed food anymore.
Loving your videos 💜
Those are both great calls!
Just discovered your channel Benita - have watched so many of your videos this weekend and am so happy to see a new one today. Great content and so calming. Thank you!
Thank you so much for watching!
Un énorme merci pour la traduction française... Un énorme merci pour ce partage ... J adore vos vidéos et votre mode de Vie... Mille merci
I feel the same way shopping. It can be overwhelming. Sometimes just nice to window shop and get ideas and use what I have!
So nice to just window shop!
Your videos is so relaxing.
We're almost 100% on the same page, Benita. :-) However, I've always been a jewelry freak and bought too much during the first year of the pandemic as "retail therapy" (the worst kind of therapy there is, IMO). Now I'm considering selling some pieces, even though I'll lose money. And I'm trying not to buy any more. But in general it does make me happyish. Thanks for the great video.
We each enjoy different things and if you love all your jewelry, that’s fine!
Good morning from New York as I get more seasoned I’m doing the exact same thing you’re due eliminating all of the things I no longer used down to a minimalist setting thank you washing you helped me even more
I am a recent subscriber, and find this channel to be so comforting, homey and cosy... I appreciate your thoughts, especially as a woman of a 'certain age', when you've been through other phases and can speak from experience, it's so valuable, I think...😊 I also want to say that I think your 'boring' wardrobe is actually a such a chic style that I think is 'practically elegant' -- practical, and such that you can still work and move, but if you have to go out, you look put together and confident. The 'legging with top' look we've seen a lot over pandemic has now become a look that I'm grateful we can transition into public places with not only acceptance, but with appreciation. Thanks for the awesome content, Benita...!
Thank you so much for watching!😊
Hi Benita! It was a touching and inspiring video, I needed a reminder that what I do is enough. Thank you for that!
Apart from several you mentioned I never buy tissue as I cut off some old T-shirts and wash them with underwear. I will though buy some textile ones soon because these are getting worn off and need to be replaced.
I enjoy your videos. 💖
Love from Arkansas💗 I really enjoy your videos. They always motivate me. I also rewatch them while I wait every other week for the new one. Great content!!
Thanks so much for watching and rewatching!
Your videos always inspire me. Thank you for sharing a little sneak peek into your life.
Thank you so much for watching!
Enjoyed learning new things and the simplicity of this video! =)
Hi Benita, I was never a big consumer, but I have a lot of beautiful and unique things purchased over the years on travels and inherited. So my resolution has been to use all the good things as often as I can, and to enjoy them. Using beautiful things makes me really happy, and I do not replace them once I have used them unless I feel the need. I wear my French perfume every day! I wear hand embroidered Pashminas from India as my everyday winter scarves. I am unable to use special occasion clothing all the time, but everything else I have that is beautiful and expensive and unique, I try to use as much as possible and enjoy.
Yes, always use your best! Don't ever "save it" 🙌🏻
Love my Very Irrestible by Givency!!! Long live perfume!
Thanks for the rec on Morning Brew. I’ve enjoyed it for weeks .
I love it too!
Thanks for the video Benita! Hope all is well with you! Take care
Thank you so much for watching again!
It's years already that I'm not buying any magazines or books. There are all in library and it saved me a lot of money 🙂
I love the library so much!
love you videos! thanks for all the advise and tips to a live a less cluttered life
Glad you like them!
Dear Ms Benita, I agree with you about ¨ stylish & smart ¨ ;
I know that it is not a luxury everyone may live by; but I have no dryer and just love hanging my clothes outside or in a warm room (when the weather does not allow to hang them out)!
Oh! I did not know about Face Halo! I will opt for those now, a real fantastic discovery for me!!!
I never (or at least 5 years now) buy brand new clothes; I buy second hand of good quality and I am so grateful to feel elegant as well as giving a chance to the environment! Is it what is called ¨slow fashion ¨? I shop...in my own closet or in my...friends' one ;) (like you do!) Bravo! ...Encore!!!....
Face Halo are great and feel so soft against the skin!
I did a book purge a while back. I left them on the table in the lobby of my apartment building for anyone to take. I only kept the books that I like to re-read from time to time. I always find something new in there no matter how many times I read them!
This video really gave me food for thought. I am a point of purchase shoppers, but from now on I’m going to change that habit into one of just window shopping. Thank you for this. I love your channel.
Thank you. Benita. Such an inspiring post. It is good to re-focus how we live and enjoy a simple life.
So glad you enjoyed it!
My wardrope is brown-grey-light pink and dark green. They go so well together and adds color.
Benita I’ve been using a glass nail file for years. It was a bit of an investment to begin with, but it’s still as good as new!
BUENOS DÍAS PARA TUDOS!!!😊🤗GRACIAS BENITA MARAVILLOSO EL VÍDEO 🤩
Thank you so much!
I have never bought hair conditioner or fabric sofener. I now never buy magazines or newspapers. I buy good quality clothes that I wear for years & years. I do buy jewellery
as I enjoy wearing it & will continue to buy books. Everything else I am cutting down on.
Your cat is so adorable, what a sweetheart!
She's a little sweetie!😊
I didn't even know glass nail files existed. I'm off to look them up, thanks. x
Thank you Benita for another great video and for the link to your blog about your cleaning routine. I am using eco friendly chemicals for cleaning but those are expensive and occupy space on my shelves. So now I am thinking to substitute most of them with soda and vinegar. Will work on that starting tomorrow!
Happy you found some inspiration!
thank you. your video's are very calming and inspiring. i have to minimalize, even when doing that its still not minimal, but perfectly balanced so your video's help me. Here in an overcrowded Netherlands, minimalizing fits the culture since there's much pressure from the outside world. ;-)
Hi Benita , your videos are always amazing, but this has been my favourite so far. Window shopping for entertainment- that is brilliant ! I have been missing going to the shops as I am a new minimalist on a no buy year . But I could totally enjoy just looking at things without needing to purchase them (and regretting it later .) What a wonderful idea .
I was happy to see that most of the other items you mentioned I have also stopped buying . It is just such a refreshing (and money saving ) way to live .
Thanks so much and regards from Melbourne , Australia 🇦🇺
I’m so happy if you feel inspired to window shop! It’s fun!
Wonderful video 🤗
Yes! I love demonstrating my power to myself. Walking around and window shopping or even going into shops and looking or trying things on and saying “no” is such a powerful feeling. As a woman, I also love trying on evening gowns and feeling beautiful, with mo intention of buying. It’s true - once you leave a shop and get 24-72 hours away from whatever item you wanted, you really don’t think about it again. All that money saved! I truly feel in control of my life!
Yes, isn't it the best?!
Helpful video, Bonita. Hope your health continues to be strong. Happy day from California!
Glad you found it helpful!😊
I just discovered your channel and I am enjoying it so much! Thank you for the inspiration. Just recently it has sunk in that I don't need to necessarily have multiples of belongings that I use and enjoy -(candleholders, dishes, books, clothing). I can just have one or few and that is enough. This has been very freeing.
Have one or few and that is enough 🙌🏻
Once more loved watching the video. I just love the way you present it. ❤ to both you and ur 🐈.
Thank you so much!
Thank you for inspiring .
I love your videos !
Thank you so much for watching!
New subscriber. Love your content! Very good points!