Great video. I did it years ago and it allowed me to see women for the long term qualities they had outside of sex. It helped me see very clearly which women only had sex to offer. My current lady is having a fit because sex doesn't allow her to manipulate me and she has bring more than her cooch to the relationship.
If not for sex civilization would never have come about or been able to be sustainable You can lose money chasing sex, But you'll never lose sex chasing money... Sex is the greatest motivation for success ! To many ppl on social media talk about wealth over sex... I say have both !
I had a pretty serious addiction to porn. I picked up the book “every man’s battle” and confessed it to some close friends. Have not looked at porn in 15 years. I credit stopping porn to having a great marriage and solid small business. Once your brain is re-wired it will be much easier.
@@i4gaveu I talk to them about their lives and never comment on their body. sometimes what you are thinking shouldn't be spoken. Or it might be my brown bedroom eyes so I've been told
Praying for any man out there that’s dealing with/dealt with de-sexualizing your brain. It’s tough, but not impossible. Conquer your mind/desires and lean not on your own understanding. ☝🏾
I really appreciate this video 🙏🏽 Freeing my mind to focus on scaling my businesses/brands and improving my overall health is imperative to my success and healing journey.
When I was in college I had three women and sexual relationship with them. I noticed that when I restricted my sexual activity with them I was able to complete assignments and papers effectively and efficiently. That is I first learned that what you are saying is true.
Great topic! Sometimes when relationships get boring you flashback to your conquests as a man and that misguides you in your current relationship. Gotta bury the past and lose those distractions
Great video, Jeff. This is the sort of healthy and productive masculinity information so many guys need to hear. Guys should never sell themselves short by being with partners who are no good for them, because they have only one thing on their minds.
Wow!! You really hit the nail on the head with this lesson. The more I don’t think about women, sex and focus on me it appears that they are more attracted to me and the better I do on my other endeavors!! Thx style OG for bringing reality back to my mindset!!!
This one was for me. As a Black man, it is difficult to reprogram what and so many others were taught growing up. That is that young Black men should prioritize chasing women when we aren’t focused on other unimportant things such as materialism and clout.
I always knew desexualizing the brain was the right thing to do, but this is the first time I heard that constant sexual thoughts lead to anxiety disorders....wow. Great video
I believe that this is correct, the numbing effect that sex has can become addictive and overstimulated brain on anything even good things has it consequences. We have to renew our minds daily and fight to keep them running effectively.
@StyleOG -Brother I love your channel! However you seem to be talking to sex addicts. Anything that you have constant thoughts and desires for is a problem. Whether it’s food, drink, drugs or even fitness training , if you’ve become obsessed with it, you are damaging yourself. Your audience includes a lot of 30-40-50 and even 60 year olds. As we get older desexualizing your brain isn’t really as big a problem. The larger problem maybe having a healthy sexual appetite. I’m glad you’re balanced and include videos on how to be a better sexual partner. Continue giving advice on having a healthy sex life as we age. Sex is God’s gift to men & women that helps us desire and love each other. It’s a blessing, not a curse Brother!
Im trying to find the words to say this. Conversing with a woman without the intentions of trying to sleep with her is somewhat freeing. I also honestly think it makes you more attractive to her.
Great topic as always Style OG 🫡Desexualizing your brain and channeling that energy towards your family, purpose, God and the gym is the key to becoming a great man. That Bomber jacket is tough 🔥🔴
Great conversation for men. When this topic is addressed, it makes me feel that im not the only one who thinks this way. Im glad you addressed some positive outcomes.
My issue is feeling ashamed about my sexual desires, and thus it feels wrong to act on them, and I never do. So my world is already desexualized, even though I don't want or need it to be.
Og never disappoints great topic like always. Alot of fellas fall guilty of this myself included. I think us fellas needed to hear this. Thx Og for anotger positive enlightening for your brothers man. We keep the mental strong everything else will follow. Salute big dog much love🫡
This thought process also helps us to not see women as sex objects only here to serve our needs. This betters /deepens our relationships with all women as you said in the video.
WoW !! Another Great video topic from "The Style OG University"... I'm somewhat new to your channel (Subscribed) and find your men's lifestyle topics to be educational and refreshing .... SALUTE !!!
First time commenting on one of your videos, this one hits home with me. I guess my question is how do you even start to make the change so you can start to reap the benefits?
@thestyleog First of all, thank you for the video. Additionally, could you please look into the issue of porn addiction and its harmful effects on men in nowadays society and strategies for overcoming porn addiction? Blessings y'all.
I’m currently 4 months roughly into the semem retention journey and WOW the benefits are amazing(not a hyperbole when I type this). Also, thanks for the suggestion of the Burberry Touch as it’s my favorite scent now. Salute, OG!
You a real one for this one OG. This is a discussion that definitely needs to happen more within the black community. Keep these daily jewels coming. Respect
This is and has been my biggest problem to date. I want to be better and I am going attemp just that. I don't think it will be easy but nothing easy is appreciated.
I like this list on why desexualizing your brain can change my life, and now I’m going to look up the “how to” actually do this. Having those sexualized tendencies can have you make bad choices in a partner (as noted in the comments). Need to reframe so I can choose the right partner.
Simple minds will think simply your mind is your mind nobody can think totally about sex 24/7 it’s impossible to keep that kind of focus all the time unless you have other major issues.
Not only did go live bout two week speaking about Eve’s purpose for Adam (understanding y’all are sexual beings but it’s not about that alone; almost certain I mentioned all three of these words; Personality intellect ability) I’m actually about to edit the short form video now!
This helped a lot in my life. Being 30 I decided to try this out and it does wonders! But based off of experience a lot of women are turned on by this thought process. But great video 🔥🔥💯💯
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Controlling your sexual urges and maintaining both mental and emotional intelligence is vital to becoming a better man
Indeed!
Great video. I did it years ago and it allowed me to see women for the long term qualities they had outside of sex. It helped me see very clearly which women only had sex to offer. My current lady is having a fit because sex doesn't allow her to manipulate me and she has bring more than her cooch to the relationship.
If not for sex civilization would never have come about or been able to be sustainable
You can lose money chasing sex, But you'll never lose sex chasing money... Sex is the greatest motivation for success ! To many ppl on social media talk about wealth over sex... I say have both !
I had a pretty serious addiction to porn. I picked up the book “every man’s battle” and confessed it to some close friends. Have not looked at porn in 15 years. I credit stopping porn to having a great marriage and solid small business. Once your brain is re-wired it will be much easier.
appreciate the personal input!
15 years!!! How the hell have you achieved that? Congratulations man I'd love to be able to do that....
@@dizmopYou can do it🙏🏽... it's tough but definitely worth it.
thanks for the recommendation. I just ordered that book on amazon
That Book the good book and the Holy Spirit changed my life. 5 years 💪🏾 and FREE!
A round of applause for the mature use of social media, thanks OG
I feel like crying after listening to this 😢 thanks for sharing, it’s a struggle 😩
You got this!
I feel your pain!
Yea it is.
I've been doing this for years. I attract quality women because I don't look at them as sexual objects but as people.
Same, brother! I shifted away from this sexual mindset over a decade ago and I was blessed with a High Value Woman! 🙌🏾
Love it!
How brother?@@demetriusjames9535
@demetriusjames9535 how brother?
@@i4gaveu I talk to them about their lives and never comment on their body. sometimes what you are thinking shouldn't be spoken. Or it might be my brown bedroom eyes so I've been told
Praying for any man out there that’s dealing with/dealt with de-sexualizing your brain. It’s tough, but not impossible. Conquer your mind/desires and lean not on your own understanding. ☝🏾
I really appreciate this video 🙏🏽 Freeing my mind to focus on scaling my businesses/brands and improving my overall health is imperative to my success and healing journey.
When I was in college I had three women and sexual relationship with them. I noticed that when I restricted my sexual activity with them I was able to complete assignments and papers effectively and efficiently. That is I first learned that what you are saying is true.
Great topic! Sometimes when relationships get boring you flashback to your conquests as a man and that misguides you in your current relationship. Gotta bury the past and lose those distractions
Absolutely!
Great video, Jeff. This is the sort of healthy and productive masculinity information so many guys need to hear. Guys should never sell themselves short by being with partners who are no good for them, because they have only one thing on their minds.
Thanks!
Wow!! You really hit the nail on the head with this lesson. The more I don’t think about women, sex and focus on me it appears that they are more attracted to me and the better I do on my other endeavors!! Thx style OG for bringing reality back to my mindset!!!
No worries!
So, how do you know they're attracted to you?
This one was for me. As a Black man, it is difficult to reprogram what and so many others were taught growing up. That is that young Black men should prioritize chasing women when we aren’t focused on other unimportant things such as materialism and clout.
this isnt a black thing my boy. black men are hyper sexualized bc of certain stereotypes(you know what i mean) but chasing women is an all man thing
appreciate the input!
Sadly black culture itself depicts all black men as on the prowl. At my gym though I’ve found it to be the opposite. They seem to avoid ogling women.
I always knew desexualizing the brain was the right thing to do, but this is the first time I heard that constant sexual thoughts lead to anxiety disorders....wow. Great video
Thanks!
Salute great topic brother....
Salute!
Excellent discussion topic, OG! 💪🏾
Thanks for listening!
I just decided to do this last week thanks for sharing your perspective. D CK Discipline
No worries!
I believe that this is correct, the numbing effect that sex has can become addictive and overstimulated brain on anything even good things has it consequences. We have to renew our minds daily and fight to keep them running effectively.
As always, Great Educational Skills ( SELF-CONTROL )
Thanks!
@StyleOG -Brother I love your channel!
However you seem to be talking to sex addicts.
Anything that you have constant thoughts and desires for is a problem.
Whether it’s food, drink, drugs or even fitness training , if you’ve become obsessed with it, you are damaging yourself.
Your audience includes a lot of 30-40-50 and even 60 year olds.
As we get older desexualizing your brain isn’t really as big a problem.
The larger problem maybe having a healthy sexual appetite.
I’m glad you’re balanced and include videos on how to be a better sexual partner.
Continue giving advice on having a healthy sex life as we age.
Sex is God’s gift to men & women that helps us desire and love each other.
It’s a blessing, not a curse Brother!
Im trying to find the words to say this. Conversing with a woman without the intentions of trying to sleep with her is somewhat freeing. I also honestly think it makes you more attractive to her.
it is!
Why are you talking to her tho?
Important information. Thanks for sharing!!
Great topic as always Style OG 🫡Desexualizing your brain and channeling that energy towards your family, purpose, God and the gym is the key to becoming a great man. That Bomber jacket is tough 🔥🔴
Great conversation for men. When this topic is addressed, it makes me feel that im not the only one who thinks this way. Im glad you addressed some positive outcomes.
Definitely needed to hear this, huge fan of your work sir✊🏾!
That Varsity jacket though… where can i find that?
Excellent! What a great discussion. I only have one thing to say: SALUTE!
My issue is feeling ashamed about my sexual desires, and thus it feels wrong to act on them, and I never do. So my world is already desexualized, even though I don't want or need it to be.
Og never disappoints great topic like always. Alot of fellas fall guilty of this myself included. I think us fellas needed to hear this. Thx Og for anotger positive enlightening for your brothers man. We keep the mental strong everything else will follow. Salute big dog much love🫡
Man that's deep. A happy mind makes for a healthy body and spirit.
Indeed!
This thought process also helps us to not see women as sex objects only here to serve our needs. This betters /deepens our relationships with all women as you said in the video.
Great info video and I enjoyed it and have a blessed day
WoW !! Another Great video topic from "The Style OG University"... I'm somewhat new to your channel (Subscribed) and find your men's lifestyle topics to be educational and refreshing .... SALUTE !!!
First time commenting on one of your videos, this one hits home with me. I guess my question is how do you even start to make the change so you can start to reap the benefits?
Focus on purpose, stop watching porn, lessen the priority on chasing women
@@TheStyleOG Thanks….
Your ability to come up with important and matutre topics makes this a standout subscription!✊🏾
Appreciate that!
@thestyleog First of all, thank you for the video. Additionally, could you please look into the issue of porn addiction and its harmful effects on men in nowadays society and strategies for overcoming porn addiction? Blessings y'all.
I’m currently 4 months roughly into the semem retention journey and WOW the benefits are amazing(not a hyperbole when I type this). Also, thanks for the suggestion of the Burberry Touch as it’s my favorite scent now. Salute, OG!
Thanks for sharing!!
You a real one for this one OG. This is a discussion that definitely needs to happen more within the black community. Keep these daily jewels coming. Respect
It's a constant fight, and I am 58 😆
Thanks Jeff, this was a timely video. I needed this one.
This is and has been my biggest problem to date. I want to be better and I am going attemp just that. I don't think it will be easy but nothing easy is appreciated.
I understand the benefits of desexualizing your mind, but how? What are some things that we can do to shift our minds other than read and exercise?
i’ve been truly working this video is helping process ways to cleanse appreciate the knowledge
Balance is key.
🫡🫡🫡I appreciate this! Thanks Style OG! #PositiveVibes
Love the content. Can we get a video on how to de-sexualize our brains as well?
Sadly, when you get older you’ll have no choice.
In my opinion thats why you shouldnt shift your mind from it earlier because at the end it will come to a stop once ur older😂😂😂
Youn on fire with these topics. Love it. Great job bro ❤❤
Another great video. Salute
Salute. Great video.
Great info bro thanks
You told us why but never told us how?
I love how you worded this. Awesomeness Uncle Jeff 👑👑👑💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾 also my birthday was 2 days ago and I re-watched some of your "By 30" videos 🫡🫡🫡🫡
Happy birthday!
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Elaborate
I like this list on why desexualizing your brain can change my life, and now I’m going to look up the “how to” actually do this. Having those sexualized tendencies can have you make bad choices in a partner (as noted in the comments). Need to reframe so I can choose the right partner.
Great video!!
Well done fella. Makes sense.
Simple minds will think simply your mind is your mind nobody can think totally about sex 24/7 it’s impossible to keep that kind of focus all the time unless you have other major issues.
Read a chapter every day in the book of Proverbs from the Bible. it gave me directions on what to focus on and the type of women to stay away from.
Not only did go live bout two week speaking about Eve’s purpose for Adam (understanding y’all are sexual beings but it’s not about that alone; almost certain I mentioned all three of these words; Personality intellect ability) I’m actually about to edit the short form video now!
There is a lot of work to do. Identifying the triggers can help you to minimize the impact.
I need help lol
The video is 💯
Just learned about this channel definitely got hit the subscribe button
Welcome!
Good video
Testosterone
Good insight 🙏
Much appreciated!
Where’s that jacket from my guy?
I never think about it,never had it,never will
So on Point & needed..
Appreciate the feedback!
I completely agree with you 😊
As usual, Jeff, this video is excellent. Keep them coming, brother. We need this content!!❤️🙏
More to come!
This helped a lot in my life. Being 30 I decided to try this out and it does wonders! But based off of experience a lot of women are turned on by this thought process. But great video 🔥🔥💯💯
Thanks for sharing!
Taking notes 💐🌹🙏🥳🥳🥳
Another public service announcement. Thank you for the info
No problem!
More focus!
This is great man’s topic overall
Appreciate the feedback!
Like
GOOD Topic
Thanks!
Well said Jeff!💯
Salaute!
Really Good Video
Thanks!
💪🏾👊🏾👊🏾
Salute!
I needed to hear this.
This videos just to much talking and some of it bs
Increased concentration, self control, emotional stability, stress levels, and creativity sound pretty legit to me. Where is the bs?🤔
such as>>
@@TheStyleOG Dont worry about him, OG. He was looking for some sexy thumbnails and he got sidetracked!
Ha!
It also increases sensitivity when it’s time for action as well. Leading to a stronger salute 🫡
Salute Jeff! 🫡
Its not easy to do, N needs constant progression. Sex is fantastic. It can't be all we think about N do for though.
Salute!
💯💯