This guy is a interviewer's dream. Ask one question and let him talk for 5 minutes. lol However, he is entertaining and explains his thoughts very well. Thanks for the vid Chad.
Wow brother, I just noticed your comment & you're my next stop this morning! 😂 I've gotten some great insight from Chad for a couple years now and you're the person & your channel for some "tough love" 🤣😎 I'm landing in the Philippines for a month or two end of September, I've got one Filipina in the cue but she wants a couple kids, which I'd be ok with maybe but she just gave me a religious "warning flag" & I got to figure out quick how I'm going to respond back to her before I head to the Philippines. Complicating it all is my whole life has been as a player & like you I'm all aboard on Filipina's being the finest on the planet! 🔥🧜🥳
younger guys should be thrilled this gentleman is a chad at his age in the Philippines 🇵🇭 and should hope it'll remain that way ex if you're in your 40s you'll be this guy's age in a blink .. time goes by so quickly
I can relate with gentleman with respect to possibly needing some sort of help as I get older. I'm 74, living with my son and his family, and in good shape so far. I've noticed my joints are stiffer now and I don't have the strength I used to have. I was asked to move in with them a few years ago so I wouldn't have to live by myself. And being on ss only, I could live by myself (single again for over 13 yrs now) but just existing without any transportation. I decided to move to the Philippines to live my remaining years, which I can with my ss, since I don't want my son and his family to be burdened with my aging self. I can hire a caretaker in the Philippines at a much lower cost and actually enjoy my life. I'm not planning on finding another partner at my age, but I'll find some expats to socialize with and compare stories with. My daughter in-law, a filipina, has family on Panay Island who want me to visit while I'm there. So, I'll have someone who can help me if I need any.
I'm 74 a veteran also in good health living in Tagaytay, but there are a lot of Philippias 40+ that are available that may be of benefit to you in a lot of ways
@@keithrogers9741 grandpa you will live long with the romance of your partner. in your country what you can get is a menopause with body odor. enjoy life you have only one.
I don't think that concerns about needing a caregiver when you are older are a good reason to get into a relationship. Much better to hire a trained caregiver when you need one. There is no guarantee that the young filipina you get into a relationship with will be willing or able to take care of you. Caregiving is hard, especially when people have physical or mental issues
Exactly people need to train to be one too. Younger people need to live their lives meeting others and having fun not sitting an home all day helping an old dud get in and out of bed
@@Mjolnher9 I send my exgirl friend to caregiving school as she was a OFW and I wanted to give her a profession.There are different courses available, hers was 3 mo 30k, they learn to give shots, transferring P/ts ect, similiar to LVN in the US. Most countries have RNs not LVNs but she can go to any country and get a job and a easy transition to RN if she wanted, particularly in the US
Many expats tend to come here, have a GF, she will take care of him until he's gone. Then leave her with nothing. She's left with his local debt, and she has no job. Here's my views: I don't want to be a room number in a US retirement home and have 10 people throughout the day taking care of me in my last days, I dont want my kid to feel obligated to visit me each week. So there are many quality women that are willing to care for you in your latter days with no demands. So just be a good man before you meet your maker and make sure you consider her needs before you are gone. She will be the one that takes care of your remains, communicate with your family etc..... Be kind!!!
For me, peace is what is most important and with most women, I have to give up peace of mind so I pass on a close relationship especially since in most cases I am being a resource.
Ok Guys…the best way to age better is to change your diet. Keto/Carnivore…get rid of carbohydrates…stop drinking…stop smoking…walk, walk, walk, I lost 50 lbs in 2022, lost 4 pant sizes, got off 7 medications and have had the best blood test results ever. Two years and 7 months later I continue to eat healthy and walk 8-10 miles every other day and maintain my same weight. I had a horrific diet for 60 years so I don’t know how much of my past lifestyle will impact me…BUT…I will continue to eat to live vs. living to eat.
@@jones4334 it only applies to the 6,018 other viewers who have watched the vlog. I did not intend for you to see my comment. I will try better next time.
@@WilliamFluery which vegetables? Fibre is mandatory for optimal health. Men need 35 grams a day and women 28 grams. It helps our digestive track and protects it. Without fibre its very dangerous
Whether it's a Philippina or Thailand woman, they tend to be quite jealous, and it requires a man to push back and to establish boundaries very early on, to make her aware of the fact that I don't do jealousy, and if you're going to do jealousy around me this is not going to work. Time is your ally, not hers. So she will push the timetable, and you need to push back. Take your time. If it is good, it will only get better, if there are issues, it takes time to see them and for them to play out. If you are unwilling to communicate about issues we have, then we have no chance. Zero, so do you understand that? Is it worth it to you, to deal with this? Because your avoidance and silence is intolerable. Do you get that? So she needs to adapt or move on. Tell her, look, I don't really need you, I like being around you, if things work great, but if you make this difficult for me I'm going to move on. They need to see, hear and feel that kind of pushback early on. You are able to determine whether or not this is a woman who is worthy of your time, and whether or not this is a woman who is capable of being the kind of person that you want to be with. If not, move on. It's really that simple.
Chad, Marco, This dilemma is 5000 years old, Some two and a half thousands years ago Socrates of Athens was asked by a young man: " what shall I do, stay single, or get married" Socrates looked at the young man, pondered for a moment, and replied: " If you get married you will regret it one day If you stay single, you will regret it one day" 😂
I’m single at 70 and thinking about this right now. On one hand I’d like to have a partner / companion but I’m uneasy what that will necessarily change about my life. I guess I’d say after past bad relationship experience I’m interested but cautious to enter into a full relationship because of what the demands may be - I’m starting to wonder if I just enjoy my life instead and accept that a typical relationship is no longer for me. I enjoy my life and like to help genuine people but have noticed my tolerance for drama and stress is way lower now. I guess that’s a part of aging. Time will tell but I think the debate is a good one and much needed.
@@Rwj378 sad to hear what you’re facing in the US, in that case I guess you have little option but to take action for your future comfort and life. Hope you find what you’re wanting but be careful out there and put yourself first.
@@Rwj378 no in the UK, for use in rivers lakes and inshore sea. I’m planning to go to Phils in September, totally get your desire to keep things simple, I’m getting that way myself too. My sailing was on a gaff cutter many years ago plus trips on a schooner and other boats. Sounds like you’re hardcore but it is a lot of work for sure.
Great video Chad. Love listening to Marco and loved the advice of “Know thy self”. It’s VERY difficult to look at the dark side of one’s self and yet very necessary to incorporate and manage it. I didn’t realize how important acceptance of one’s whole self, truly was. Anyways, great video once again. Thank you.
Never thought about the "wanting to be single" aspect before. Have always known that would like to prefer to make my life better and easier with my partner. Good video, Chad...Jim
even I’m a Filipina please stay single ...I wish I am single but not my foreigner partner is just a good man. I encourage him that the door is open for him to go if he wanted too. I told him I don’t want a married life as I am free spirit and able to support my self with out him As I have brain and hardwork and careful with my finances. My partner just want security and loyalty from me I guess which I understand
Another area many of you might consider is Latin America - still tropical, nice looking ladies, and closer to home. SE Asia might be better for cost of living but if you're looking to eventually marry a lady, you can, in many LATAM countries, acquire citizenship through marriage, something I don't think is possible when marrying SE Asian ladies. For example, if after marrying a Brazilian you live in the country for 1 year, you can acquire Brazilian citizenship ... after just 1 year! (It. takes 10 years in Canada to do the same!) And even better, if your Brazilian spouse has parents or grandparents that are either Portuguese or Italian (many do), after just 3 years of marriage you can acquire either one of these 2 EU citizenships and passports without even stepping foot in either of those two countries. Just one little extra thing to consider ...
I think the caregiving reason alone might be reason enough to partner up with a young Filipina. I'm assuming she is s real good one. Trustworthy, good character etc. Of course you'd set her up nicely for all her love and care. This would be a real load off my mind as I grow older
I searched for 15 years while having fun. Then B.I.N.G.O.. Married 40 years now. However you can always hire a couple of ladies to take care of you. If there is a problem, hire a new one.
As a 62 year old that doesn't wish to spend his last 3rd of life in America, I've thought about this a lot. Since I'm unsure if I will find someone to put up with me and vice versa, I've decided to hire nursing students to take care of me until I can no longer function and then go into an elder care location until I pass. Of course that assumes I will live that long. If I should meet that one, she will be taken care of for the remainder of her days as I will setup a trust for her to be paid either yearly or monthly. If you pay most women a lump sum, they will squander it rapidly, and then she'll be on the streets as an older woman, and we don't want that. I'm really happy that you made this vlog. Let's me know I'm not the only one thinking about that.
Good one Chad and Marco Thanks lots of things I have not thought of and good points to consider if when I make a decision to search for partner I am one of those that has been single for a while ❤
You are an intelligent person so make sure you find someone level to your mindset….reach out if you wanna talk more about it. Here in Florida enjoying life and goes home to Phil’s whenever I want…thanks for featuring Phil’s and 100% agree on most of your vlog about my country.
This is an interesting conversation, there is generally no easy decision and it’s not a one size fits all situation because we’re all different, different personalities, different life experiences, different wants, desires and needs, different family situations, different financial means, different temperaments, different health situations and the list goes on; Will taking on a wife/partner and family stress you out over finances, most expats move to the Philippines to escape stress, not to maintain it or to make it worse; you have to “be true to yourself” before you can be happy with someone else; just my opinions.
I thought it was a terrific interview. I think Marco is very honest and introspective. I'd love to sit down with him sometime in the future and have a good chat. I forget......where is he based in the Philippines?
If you want to stay single in the Philippines don't go into courtship, mostly Filipino women's goal is towards marriage once they were in a relationship with you, or on your first date better be honest by telling her "You only wanted a girlfriend relationship and BIG NO FOR MARRIAGE"
How dare you saying mostly filipino women are single mom...where in the philippines you have been living during your stay here..i asume in visayas ...its unfair to the filipinas in other part of the country like here in luzon particularly northern areas like ilocos women there are way better than those you get along with....
@@armandobaobaoen3583 Are you living under a rock in the Philippines? Most Filipina single moms are INDEED unmarried!!! FACT! That was my point to debunk that they date to marry. If so, how come so many are moms and unmarried??? Slow your roll and don't come barking, I'll shut you up! If you can't address me with respect, F word off!!!
@@armandobaobaoen3583 @armandobaobaoen3583 Are you living under a rock in the Philippines? Most Filipina single moms are INDEED unmarried!!! FACT! That was my point to debunk that they date to marry. If so, how come so many are moms and unmarried??? Slow your roll and don't come barking, I'll shut you up! If you can't address me with respect, F word off!!!
@@armandobaobaoen3583 @armandobaobaoen3583 Are you aware of your surroundings living in the Philippines? Most Filipina single moms are INDEED unmarried!!! FACT! That was my point to debunk that they date to marry. If so, how come so many are moms and unmarried??? Slow your roll and don't come barking, I'll shut you up! If you can't address me with respect, F word off!!!
These two have not seen the Campbell Vlogs. There is no guarantee that the Filipina will take care of you when your health deteriorates. She might send you back to the States for hospice care rather than keep you in the Philippines.
Guys are picky over there because they can. Just find someone with good agreeable character and make it work. There's no way around it, perfection doesn't exist. Your alone private time can be worked out. Tampo and jealousy can be worked as well. Expectation, wants, and needs can be worked out. It takes time and communication with another person who's also willing to mesh and work things out. Be a leader. Too many guys expect to be worshipped and pampered but forget it takes effort to be a good leader and teacher. Some sacrifices must be made. Ongoing relationship counseling and couple's retreats are a must. That's how to be a hero, not with money.
What Marco calls selfishness at around the 15:30 mark, I would call that self preservation, or rather, the survival instinct. You trust people at your own risk.
I don’t see this formula “best friends” like his good marriage years + “nurse me” being the way. If the 3 pillars of a relationship are kindness, respect (maintain dignity), and generosity (with time and with words) What sets a marriage apart? Holiness. Sanctity. Innocence. If you can buy it. If you can own it, then it can’t be holy. Although I get the self preservation angle. Marriage is a contract with the government and like life = death, marriage = divorce. Prenup is the answer. It protects while allowing to fully share once joined to another.
Thanks, Chad the video definitely gives one lots to think about. I’ve been divorced for almost 20 years now I’ve had several relationships, but I am definitely setting in my ways. I’ve been to the Philippines twice. I do have a girlfriend there, but she is extremely jealous and that really really really bothers me. I feel like I’m being held back from a lot of things that I could be enjoying either alone or with someone different.
Going forward he’ll always stay single, the sacrifices that are required to take in are way too much to take for one who is set in his ways and raised as a loner and adopted, he said that, and said he’s only concerned about someone being able to take care of him when he becomes incapacitated from the day to day struggles of old age. Good follow-up Chad on what it takes to remain single solo in the Philippines 🇵🇭
This fella has his head screwed on right. It's obvious he gives great consideration to everything he says and does. He knows you don't need to park every car in the garage that you drive. Accepting breakups and the women's reaction to his requirements as fate and not dwelling on it. Good headspace to be in over there. Plus he knows he's no more than a block or 2 from meeting the next doppleganger anyway. Physically healthier than people on the hook to boot.
A lot of ageing occurs due to poor diet and no workouts. If you workout daily, control your diet, and take supplements you can remain strong well into old age and then just die fast at the end. So these care plans are often not needed.
@@msudak4 Do we really know who is healthy and who isn’t ? Unless detailed blood tests are done to check for deficiencies it’s hard to know. Just because someone is thin it doesn’t mean they are healthy
Living alone on 6 acres surrounded by 1,000's of acres of Sate land I really enjoy my solitude. I talk to maybe one other person a week. That said, I enjoy to company of others and most particularly the companionship of a good girl. While I could see myself happy in either circumstance my preference would be to find a good and caring partner. The trick is finding and properly vetting a good girl to ensure she is physically appealing, truly loyal/trustworthy, and respectful. There are probably 10s of thousands of Filipina that would find me an attractive partner and could still meet my criteria, so once I regain full control of my life I could see myself developing a long term relationship with someone from a good family. Building that type of life with others sounds richer and more fulfilling than plan B of a city condo within easy reach of a caregiver and the hospital. I will put Plan B in place, but more with the expectation as a 'fall-back' plan. But that's just me. Peace and Love, B Goat
To all men that retire in SE Asia ,,,,, enjoy your hard earned retirement !!! you bring your experience , wisdom and money there ... the lucky women that enter your life enjoy a lifestyle and privileges that has taken you a lifetime to earn ... stop ,,, please stop trying to treat them like you would an equal or fall down to their cultural , emotional or financial problems ,,, their company should either enrich your life and experience or become an employee ... You are the CATCH and enjoy your freedom !!!!
Of course exchanging her care for financial support after I am gone. I would buy/build a house. Marry so she gets survivor benefits. And likely well into 7 figures investments. Possibly more if I sold my homes. So yeah... Id rather give to my lover than a retirement community.
I’m a 70 yr female. Not interested in romance but interested in having interesting intellectual and funny friends. I’d like to set myself up with having , excuse me for saying this, getting help ( servants). Expats will be my friends. But how to get the reliable help. I am bringing small tiny cameras to 😅protect my belongings from thievery etc. Also, having been a MSW ( Master Social Work) and worked in hospice there is a role for social workers to monitor the care an older sick person receives. Just thinking how to set up a system, without romance, so one can live well without having to get involved. Do u have any ideas?
Chad/Marco GREAT video! I can totally relate to much that was said here. I wpuld consider myself as HAPPILY SINGLE but still acknowledge selfishness for sure ( set in my ways n enjoyong freedom) but also realize help at the end of the rainbow would b very beneficial. Look forward to more discussion on this in early Oct over coffee at Ayala
Everyone assumes we will live into our 80’s….Realistic mid 70’s is a good guide….73 is the national life span for a US Male….Per the numbers you have 10 years left…..A bit better if you take care of yourself, don’t smoke…don’t drink….Not over weight ext.
You will want to look at the naturalization process. The Expat would have to return to the USA…She would have be a permanent resident for 3 years to apply. This means living in the USA for more than 6 months each year for those 3 years as well as maintaining the marriage.
@@Sir_SwayEverything in modernization. I know what I want and don’t. My idea of a good time is not being 65 and getting plastered everyday while abusing those around them….While making excuses for the behavior during short periods of sobriety.
You're right, and you have to look at the date of birth for a realistic estimation of your life expectancy. The interviewee is 63 I believe, so born in 1961. Life expectancy for an American male from that year is about 67. But that's averages. Interesting is to look at the remaining life expectancy if you're already 63, and then it looks more optimistic. On average for a USA male it's about 20 years. So the guest is not far off.
@@hop101Find a spot you are comfortable. I am not sure relaxed is how I felt after my trips to the Philippines. Money, means, can help you insulate yourself from a lot of things though. I got bored in the gated community settings and wanted to experience what is real…Not a fake facade. It’s not really an experience I would trade however. In terms of the numbers….My guess is it is as rare to die at 45 from natural causes as it is to make it to 105. I don’t know anything about your condition, hopefully you have more time my friend.
Thanks Chad...the more video I listen to , the more I don't know if I even want to try to have a new relationship...They are sweet and beautiful BUT the immaturity is beyond believe. My ex wife in Canada ask me for my computer and I toll her that PC stand for personal computer. NOW WOULD I OPEN MY COMPUTER WITH MY GIRLFREND OR WIFE SO SHE COULD verified if I have a ????????? YES no problem...All relationships are hard and difficult because humans are a problematic species.
Hopefully, if the elderly expat does his part by setting up his spouse of financially, the younger Filipina will do her part when the elderly expat becomes too infermed to take care of himself. Hopefully she will change his diapers, clean him, etc. But there's some risk in that train of thought too.
Interesting conversation. Although independent, I'm very interested in finding a very special Filipina who shares my interests - science, engineering, architecture. A young lady who doesn't yet have kids, but wants them. It might be a long search
Yeah I honestly don’t think you will find that there mate, it’s a completely different landscape when it comes to even the educated Filipina, maybe narrow your expectations to them liking one off those and be happy with. Just speaking from experience. Good luck on your journey
@@tryscience you want to find a woman interested in science and engineering? Have you met ANY women in your life? That is not something women find interesting AT ALL. Especially young pretty women in the tropical country
Thanks Chad! Marko has really good thoughts and I personally relate to his situation being 63, Oldest by 7 years (3 little bros) so practically an only child growing up so know exactly what he is talking about. I also have grown sons and had one marriage but my spouse was torture so ive stayed single for 16 years. Been to Negros twice on recon for retirement. Aging is the big question w considering a relationship there. Good discussion. Thanks Marko, hope to hear more from you. John C from Indiana.
Men do not need to consider settling down until 67. For the aged health reasons. But Thailand looks after elderly well and respect the wisdom of aged people. No real need to get married.
Agree with Marco 100%. One has Peace and Quietness not having any babbler talking on her phone, eating all your groceries, or her Mother coming and eating all your groceries. I think it would be ideal to have a "housekeeper/girlfriend" one day per week. That way you keep your Freedom, and Peace and Quietness!
I think Marco is overthinking everything and doesn’t know what he really wants. Just getting more confused by the day. He’s never going to know in advance what any Filipina will do if he gets sick. Just find a girl he wants to be with. Setting lots of rules and conditions doesn’t work really and will just keep him single for decades
There aren’t many in that age group who can afford to move to the Philippines since most don’t have SS or some kind of pension and it’s almost impossible to get a job.
@@msudak4 you don't need to be retired. Many younger digital nomads make 6 figures now and have way more than what you get from SS. I am a software dev and workered in like 5 countries in last 2 years. So easy now in this age of tech and remote
I don’t think his plan was just lower cost of living, but he’s discovering his heart boundaries vs realty to be incongruent. There are plans and then there is the surprising factors that can throw off any model you might draw up. Kind of scary, really. As you say, goal the way and end up single. WTF Might as well have planned out a retirement in one’s own country where it’s easy.
All so confusing. It seems that in the Philippines, most of the relationships/marriages are with young Filipinas and much older men. Western woman would never entertain this situaton unless he was one of the many older men that have retained good looks, good body, financially sound and confident in all that makes him special. The Filipina sees these older men differently and she is able to overlook his age and how he looks because he will be able to provide for her and give her a good life. The much younger foreigner provides a different scenario, but the older foreigner is the one that can provide financial security for her and her family. Will things change where the Filipina will turn to favor the much younger man and connect with love on a whole different level.................I would think so and social media will be the active player.
It would take decades for any significant changes to be made in their culture and their financial situation; the Philippines is an improving third world country so you can’t look at the Philippines like you can a western country.
I don't really get it, you say or at least make it sound like you've had many relationships in the Ph. Relationships that for some reason had to end. You also say looks isn't very important to you and that you think you need someone as you get older. Excuse me, but what's the delio. Now, there are a lot of reasons to stay out of relationships with Ph. women, scams, scams and did I mention, scams, but that don't seem to be an issue for you, so what's stoppin' you ? Again, I'm sorry, but I don't get it.
He is the first man I hear talking about deviding his assets later between his kids in the west and his gf when he is gone👍 I did also after making shure that my girlfriends ex can not come and take half ( legally she is still maried so go to a good lawyer with them give him some money and make a good contract) fore the rest make shure that your gf gets a honest share when you are gone so she doesnt have to go to work the next day
If a filipina is going to get everything paid for by her western man and get a free ride and unparalleled freedom she will have to learn to bite her tongue and put up with some things she doesn't necessarily like. Just like we all have to do when it comes to our work, coworkers, customers, contractors, and boss(es) at work. It's more than a fair tradeoff.
Very sad interview. This gentleman actually stated an important part of any relationship, which I happen to agree with, so is he trying to tell your viewers a 30 something Filipina is attracted to a 63 year old man. Then he goes onto state he is holding US citizenship over the woman’s head as leverage for her to stay with him. That’s great until she gets it and then drops this guy like a rock. And he is going to do all this and hand most of his assets over to her and forsake his children. So sad that this is what it comes down to for this guy to get a woman. Don’t be this guy in the Philippines or anywhere else for that matter. Chad, I think you screen your interviews. You continually have the same type of expats on. Low value, low worth, low self esteem expats that don’t respect themselves and are willing to throw caution and their future to the wind and they are going to come out the other end miserable and bankrupt. And Chad please don’t be insulted but from someone like me who sees this from the outside looking in I have a different perspective, and to be honest these expats are an extension of you. You are going to be this guy in 10 years if you don’t get your head straight.
I call bs on this guy. If 25% are upset, then he is definitely not genuine. It seems he is narcissistic in how he is treating his interactions with women.
This animated guy is not a match for a younger girl. He’s so philosophical he needs a woman in her 50’s. He presents older than his age to me so why not go for a professional type who can appreciate his self absorbed depth? I’ve had 3 extended trips there and I can say if I ever live there full time it would not take 4 years to find a match
This is a topic I understand. 💙💚💙💚❤️💚💙💚💙 The moment You stop L👀King for what You wish. The opposite will happen. Stand Your ground and know what You want in Your life for the rest of Your life. Never Settle. Tampo is, in my opinion, a childish act. If the girl/woman/female tells their poor me story, asking for money. They are trying to hit the emotional side of the man. Don't fall for that. By thinking, I'll save You. That is a disaster waiting to happen. Don't fall for that trap. They will leave and have another man waiting in the wake. Some need to learn the hard way. Go right ahead. Don't lose Your self respect. The moment You do, the woman will leave You faster than a heartbeat 🩶
I am in the middle of a k1 visa and she goes on the will after we are married and she splits with my daughter ❤️ period no other women period so thers no problems 😂
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This guy is a interviewer's dream. Ask one question and let him talk for 5 minutes. lol However, he is entertaining and explains his thoughts very well. Thanks for the vid Chad.
Haha yes he can talk... thanks and you're welcome 🙏
God bless the Philippines for making this guy the “hot chick” heartbreaker 😂
Lol !!! He's the Alpha Chad there !!
Wow brother, I just noticed your comment & you're my next stop this morning! 😂 I've gotten some great insight from Chad for a couple years now and you're the person & your channel for some "tough love" 🤣😎 I'm landing in the Philippines for a month or two end of September, I've got one Filipina in the cue but she wants a couple kids, which I'd be ok with maybe but she just gave me a religious "warning flag" & I got to figure out quick how I'm going to respond back to her before I head to the Philippines. Complicating it all is my whole life has been as a player & like you I'm all aboard on Filipina's being the finest on the planet! 🔥🧜🥳
younger guys should be thrilled this gentleman is a chad at his age in the Philippines 🇵🇭 and should hope it'll remain that way ex if you're in your 40s you'll be this guy's age in a blink .. time goes by so quickly
💯 brother, 🫡 sleep na
which god ?
I can relate with gentleman with respect to possibly needing some sort of help as I get older. I'm 74, living with my son and his family, and in good shape so far. I've noticed my joints are stiffer now and I don't have the strength I used to have. I was asked to move in with them a few years ago so I wouldn't have to live by myself. And being on ss only, I could live by myself (single again for over 13 yrs now) but just existing without any transportation. I decided to move to the Philippines to live my remaining years, which I can with my ss, since I don't want my son and his family to be burdened with my aging self. I can hire a caretaker in the Philippines at a much lower cost and actually enjoy my life. I'm not planning on finding another partner at my age, but I'll find some expats to socialize with and compare stories with. My daughter in-law, a filipina, has family on Panay Island who want me to visit while I'm there. So, I'll have someone who can help me if I need any.
Thanks for sharing that, yea it happens to all of us
hey grandpa best place to live in the phil. pnay is the best caregiver. in your country you will die early in a nursing home alone.
I'm 74 a veteran also in good health living in Tagaytay, but there are a lot of Philippias 40+ that are available that may be of benefit to you in a lot of ways
@@keithrogers9741 grandpa you will live long with the romance of your partner. in your country what you can get is a menopause with body odor. enjoy life you have only one.
I don't think that concerns about needing a caregiver when you are older are a good reason to get into a relationship. Much better to hire a trained caregiver when you need one. There is no guarantee that the young filipina you get into a relationship with will be willing or able to take care of you. Caregiving is hard, especially when people have physical or mental issues
Exactly people need to train to be one too. Younger people need to live their lives meeting others and having fun not sitting an home all day helping an old dud get in and out of bed
Do u have any plans on how a caregiver would take care of your needs if u cannot advocate for yourself? If u find out about any services let us know?
@@MSWcryptoworker there will be AI ones soon thankfully.
@@Mjolnher9 I send my exgirl friend to caregiving school as she was a OFW and I wanted to give her a profession.There are different courses available, hers was 3 mo 30k, they learn to give shots, transferring P/ts ect, similiar to LVN in the US. Most countries have RNs not LVNs but she can go to any country and get a job and a easy transition to RN if she wanted, particularly in the US
Many expats tend to come here, have a GF, she will take care of him until he's gone. Then leave her with nothing. She's left with his local debt, and she has no job. Here's my views: I don't want to be a room number in a US retirement home and have 10 people throughout the day taking care of me in my last days, I dont want my kid to feel obligated to visit me each week. So there are many quality women that are willing to care for you in your latter days with no demands. So just be a good man before you meet your maker and make sure you consider her needs before you are gone. She will be the one that takes care of your remains, communicate with your family etc..... Be kind!!!
For me, peace is what is most important and with most women, I have to give up peace of mind so I pass on a close relationship especially since in most cases I am being a resource.
Ok Guys…the best way to age better is to change your diet. Keto/Carnivore…get rid of carbohydrates…stop drinking…stop smoking…walk, walk, walk, I lost 50 lbs in 2022, lost 4 pant sizes, got off 7 medications and have had the best blood test results ever. Two years and 7 months later I continue to eat healthy and walk 8-10 miles every other day and maintain my same weight. I had a horrific diet for 60 years so I don’t know how much of my past lifestyle will impact me…BUT…I will continue to eat to live vs. living to eat.
What does that have to do with this video? I'm just saying
@@jones4334 it only applies to the 6,018 other viewers who have watched the vlog. I did not intend for you to see my comment. I will try better next time.
Where is your fiber going to come from
@@Mjolnher9 fermented vegetables I eat every day
@@WilliamFluery which vegetables? Fibre is mandatory for optimal health. Men need 35 grams a day and women 28 grams. It helps our digestive track and protects it. Without fibre its very dangerous
Whether it's a Philippina or Thailand woman, they tend to be quite jealous, and it requires a man to push back and to establish boundaries very early on, to make her aware of the fact that I don't do jealousy, and if you're going to do jealousy around me this is not going to work. Time is your ally, not hers. So she will push the timetable, and you need to push back. Take your time. If it is good, it will only get better, if there are issues, it takes time to see them and for them to play out. If you are unwilling to communicate about issues we have, then we have no chance. Zero, so do you understand that? Is it worth it to you, to deal with this? Because your avoidance and silence is intolerable. Do you get that?
So she needs to adapt or move on. Tell her, look, I don't really need you, I like being around you, if things work great, but if you make this difficult for me I'm going to move on. They need to see, hear and feel that kind of pushback early on. You are able to determine whether or not this is a woman who is worthy of your time, and whether or not this is a woman who is capable of being the kind of person that you want to be with. If not, move on. It's really that simple.
Chad, Marco,
This dilemma is 5000 years old,
Some two and a half thousands years ago Socrates of Athens was asked by a young man: " what shall I do, stay single, or get married"
Socrates looked at the young man, pondered for a moment, and replied:
" If you get married you will regret it one day
If you stay single, you will regret it one day" 😂
I’m single at 70 and thinking about this right now. On one hand I’d like to have a partner / companion but I’m uneasy what that will necessarily change about my life. I guess I’d say after past bad relationship experience I’m interested but cautious to enter into a full relationship because of what the demands may be - I’m starting to wonder if I just enjoy my life instead and accept that a typical relationship is no longer for me.
I enjoy my life and like to help genuine people but have noticed my tolerance for drama and stress is way lower now. I guess that’s a part of aging. Time will tell but I think the debate is a good one and much needed.
I think what you're saying is very relatable to a lot of people, I'm similar... thanks for sharing 🙏
@@Rwj378 sad to hear what you’re facing in the US, in that case I guess you have little option but to take action for your future comfort and life. Hope you find what you’re wanting but be careful out there and put yourself first.
@@Rwj378 I’m building a boat atm for fishing to my own design used to sail a lot too
@@Rwj378 no in the UK, for use in rivers lakes and inshore sea. I’m planning to go to Phils in September, totally get your desire to keep things simple, I’m getting that way myself too.
My sailing was on a gaff cutter many years ago plus trips on a schooner and other boats. Sounds like you’re hardcore but it is a lot of work for sure.
Just go to a care home or caregiver when you're old and can't handle it alone anymore. Relationships are for the younger folks to deal with
Maybe if he trimmed his eyebrows a little
Uniqueness truly sucks.
Great video Chad. Love listening to Marco and loved the advice of “Know thy self”. It’s VERY difficult to look at the dark side of one’s self and yet very necessary to incorporate and manage it. I didn’t realize how important acceptance of one’s whole self, truly was. Anyways, great video once again. Thank you.
Thanks Chad, this was a good one.
Never thought about the "wanting to be single" aspect before. Have always known that would like to prefer to make my life better and easier with my partner. Good video, Chad...Jim
He looks a little like Paulie Walnuts from The Sopranos.
even I’m a Filipina please stay single ...I wish I am single but not my foreigner partner is just a good man. I encourage him that the door is open for him to go if he wanted too. I told him I don’t want a married life as I am free spirit and able to support my self with out him As I have brain and hardwork and careful with my finances. My partner just want security and loyalty from me I guess which I understand
Sounds like he is old
Why did you get married?
@@jeffjeff4477 financial support
Another area many of you might consider is Latin America - still tropical, nice looking ladies, and closer to home. SE Asia might be better for cost of living but if you're looking to eventually marry a lady, you can, in many LATAM countries, acquire citizenship through marriage, something I don't think is possible when marrying SE Asian ladies. For example, if after marrying a Brazilian you live in the country for 1 year, you can acquire Brazilian citizenship ... after just 1 year! (It. takes 10 years in Canada to do the same!) And even better, if your Brazilian spouse has parents or grandparents that are either Portuguese or Italian (many do), after just 3 years of marriage you can acquire either one of these 2 EU citizenships and passports without even stepping foot in either of those two countries. Just one little extra thing to consider ...
Despite all the traps and pitfalls, I still believe the Philippines romance journey is far less fraught without the feminism factor I left back home.
Excellent video really makes you think
I think the caregiving reason alone might be reason enough to partner up with a young Filipina. I'm assuming she is s real good one. Trustworthy, good character etc. Of course you'd set her up nicely for all her love and care. This would be a real load off my mind as I grow older
I can see a time when 'almost end-of-life' is the one-way trip to establish space-colonies.
I searched for 15 years while having fun. Then B.I.N.G.O.. Married 40 years now. However you can always hire a couple of ladies to take care of you. If there is a problem, hire a new one.
As a 62 year old that doesn't wish to spend his last 3rd of life in America, I've thought about this a lot. Since I'm unsure if I will find someone to put up with me and vice versa, I've decided to hire nursing students to take care of me until I can no longer function and then go into an elder care location until I pass. Of course that assumes I will live that long. If I should meet that one, she will be taken care of for the remainder of her days as I will setup a trust for her to be paid either yearly or monthly. If you pay most women a lump sum, they will squander it rapidly, and then she'll be on the streets as an older woman, and we don't want that. I'm really happy that you made this vlog. Let's me know I'm not the only one thinking about that.
Stay single in the Philippines!!!!!!!! Or pay a heavy price. Great interview!
Always like your interviews & Marco interviews are always gold. Thanks Chad !!
Good one Chad and Marco Thanks lots of things I have not thought of and good points to consider if when I make a decision to search for partner I am one of those that has been single for a while ❤
I’m a big Marco fan. He’s gonna start a new series with John Schmulo. He’s hilarious
I did not come here to stay single. Found my Filipina. Stay well.
same brother, grats
You are an intelligent person so make sure you find someone level to your mindset….reach out if you wanna talk more about it. Here in Florida enjoying life and goes home to Phil’s whenever I want…thanks for featuring Phil’s and 100% agree on most of your vlog about my country.
This is an interesting conversation, there is generally no easy decision and it’s not a one size fits all situation because we’re all different, different personalities, different life experiences, different wants, desires and needs, different family situations, different financial means, different temperaments, different health situations and the list goes on; Will taking on a wife/partner and family stress you out over finances, most expats move to the Philippines to escape stress, not to maintain it or to make it worse; you have to “be true to yourself” before you can be happy with someone else; just my opinions.
Interesting interview. Thanks
I thought it was a terrific interview. I think Marco is very honest and introspective. I'd love to sit down with him sometime in the future and have a good chat. I forget......where is he based in the Philippines?
Wisdom ...God bless
If you want to stay single in the Philippines don't go into courtship, mostly Filipino women's goal is towards marriage once they were in a relationship with you, or on your first date better be honest by telling her "You only wanted a girlfriend relationship and BIG NO FOR MARRIAGE"
That's total BS!
Most Filipinas are unmarried single moms.
Facts and feelings aren't the same thing.
How dare you saying mostly filipino women are single mom...where in the philippines you have been living during your stay here..i asume in visayas
...its unfair to the filipinas in other part of the country like here in luzon particularly northern areas like ilocos women there are way better than those you get along with....
@@armandobaobaoen3583
Are you living under a rock in the Philippines?
Most Filipina single moms are INDEED unmarried!!!
FACT!
That was my point to debunk that they date to marry.
If so, how come so many are moms and unmarried???
Slow your roll and don't come barking, I'll shut you up!
If you can't address me with respect, F word off!!!
@@armandobaobaoen3583
@armandobaobaoen3583
Are you living under a rock in the Philippines?
Most Filipina single moms are INDEED unmarried!!!
FACT!
That was my point to debunk that they date to marry.
If so, how come so many are moms and unmarried???
Slow your roll and don't come barking, I'll shut you up!
If you can't address me with respect, F word off!!!
@@armandobaobaoen3583
@armandobaobaoen3583
Are you aware of your surroundings living in the Philippines?
Most Filipina single moms are INDEED unmarried!!!
FACT!
That was my point to debunk that they date to marry.
If so, how come so many are moms and unmarried???
Slow your roll and don't come barking, I'll shut you up!
If you can't address me with respect, F word off!!!
These two have not seen the Campbell Vlogs. There is no guarantee that the Filipina will take care of you when your health deteriorates. She might send you back to the States for hospice care rather than keep you in the Philippines.
As long as your ATM card still works, chances are you're still a keeper.
Nothing like finding love,,,, that feeling is amazing!
But everyone to their own ,
Most guys would like that !
Guys are picky over there because they can. Just find someone with good agreeable character and make it work. There's no way around it, perfection doesn't exist. Your alone private time can be worked out. Tampo and jealousy can be worked as well. Expectation, wants, and needs can be worked out. It takes time and communication with another person who's also willing to mesh and work things out. Be a leader. Too many guys expect to be worshipped and pampered but forget it takes effort to be a good leader and teacher. Some sacrifices must be made. Ongoing relationship counseling and couple's retreats are a must. That's how to be a hero, not with money.
In economics it's called opportunity cost(you gain one and lose other)
What Marco calls selfishness at around the 15:30 mark, I would call that self preservation, or rather, the survival instinct. You trust people at your own risk.
I don’t see this formula “best friends” like his good marriage years + “nurse me” being the way.
If the 3 pillars of a relationship are kindness, respect (maintain dignity), and
generosity (with time and with words)
What sets a marriage apart?
Holiness. Sanctity. Innocence.
If you can buy it. If you can own it, then it can’t be holy.
Although I get the self preservation angle. Marriage is a contract with the government and like life = death, marriage = divorce. Prenup is the answer. It protects while allowing to fully share once joined to another.
Thanks, Chad the video definitely gives one lots to think about. I’ve been divorced for almost 20 years now I’ve had several relationships, but I am definitely setting in my ways. I’ve been to the Philippines twice. I do have a girlfriend there, but she is extremely jealous and that really really really bothers me. I feel like I’m being held back from a lot of things that I could be enjoying either alone or with someone different.
Going forward he’ll always stay single, the sacrifices that are required to take in are way too much to take for one who is set in his ways and raised as a loner and adopted, he said that, and said he’s only concerned about someone being able to take care of him when he becomes incapacitated from the day to day struggles of old age.
Good follow-up Chad on what it takes to remain single solo in the Philippines 🇵🇭
Is there a part 1 to this? How 'bout a link?
ruclips.net/video/1KJ3jnaIAAg/видео.htmlsi=uDkqJNTz5FT0zzq2
This fella has his head screwed on right. It's obvious he gives great consideration to everything he says and does. He knows you don't need to park every car in the garage that you drive. Accepting breakups and the women's reaction to his requirements as fate and not dwelling on it. Good headspace to be in over there. Plus he knows he's no more than a block or 2 from meeting the next doppleganger anyway. Physically healthier than people on the hook to boot.
At my age i rather rent a car then buy one
Much cheaper and less problems in the long run.
A lot of ageing occurs due to poor diet and no workouts. If you workout daily, control your diet, and take supplements you can remain strong well into old age and then just die fast at the end. So these care plans are often not needed.
Cancer visits even the healthiest people
@@msudak4 Do we really know who is healthy and who isn’t ? Unless detailed blood tests are done to check for deficiencies it’s hard to know. Just because someone is thin it doesn’t mean they are healthy
Its a good idea to let someone else doing the RUclips work ✌️
Great vid single here for 20 yrs yet this guy has really brought up things of my concern this guys great !!! 🍻
Living alone on 6 acres surrounded by 1,000's of acres of Sate land I really enjoy my solitude. I talk to maybe one other person a week. That said, I enjoy to company of others and most particularly the companionship of a good girl. While I could see myself happy in either circumstance my preference would be to find a good and caring partner. The trick is finding and properly vetting a good girl to ensure she is physically appealing, truly loyal/trustworthy, and respectful. There are probably 10s of thousands of Filipina that would find me an attractive partner and could still meet my criteria, so once I regain full control of my life I could see myself developing a long term relationship with someone from a good family. Building that type of life with others sounds richer and more fulfilling than plan B of a city condo within easy reach of a caregiver and the hospital. I will put Plan B in place, but more with the expectation as a 'fall-back' plan. But that's just me. Peace and Love, B Goat
To all men that retire in SE Asia ,,,,, enjoy your hard earned retirement !!! you bring your experience , wisdom and money there ... the lucky women that enter your life enjoy a lifestyle and privileges that has taken you a lifetime to earn ... stop ,,, please stop trying to treat them like you would an equal or fall down to their cultural , emotional or financial problems ,,, their company should either enrich your life and experience or become an employee ... You are the CATCH and enjoy your freedom !!!!
Well said
ANOTHER GOOD VLOG
Of course exchanging her care for financial support after I am gone. I would buy/build a house. Marry so she gets survivor benefits. And likely well into 7 figures investments. Possibly more if I sold my homes. So yeah... Id rather give to my lover than a retirement community.
Good for the older guys who can find younger women esp in SE Asia ,
Less Hope for older women who single divorced
But many of these guys get taken advantage of by the younger folks. They need lots of money
Does he dye his eye brows
I’m a 70 yr female. Not interested in romance but interested in having interesting intellectual and funny friends. I’d like to set myself up with having , excuse me for saying this, getting help ( servants). Expats will be my friends. But how to get the reliable help. I am bringing small tiny cameras to 😅protect my belongings from thievery etc. Also, having been a MSW ( Master Social Work) and worked in hospice there is a role for social workers to monitor the care an older sick person receives. Just thinking how to set up a system, without romance, so one can live well without having to get involved. Do u have any ideas?
Chad/Marco GREAT video! I can totally relate to much that was said here. I wpuld consider myself as HAPPILY SINGLE but still acknowledge selfishness for sure ( set in my ways n enjoyong freedom) but also realize help at the end of the rainbow would b very beneficial. Look forward to more discussion on this in early Oct over coffee at Ayala
Everyone assumes we will live into our 80’s….Realistic mid 70’s is a good guide….73 is the national life span for a US Male….Per the numbers you have 10 years left…..A bit better if you take care of yourself, don’t smoke…don’t drink….Not over weight ext.
You will want to look at the naturalization process. The Expat would have to return to the USA…She would have be a permanent resident for 3 years to apply. This means living in the USA for more than 6 months each year for those 3 years as well as maintaining the marriage.
@@Sir_SwayEverything in modernization. I know what I want and don’t. My idea of a good time is not being 65 and getting plastered everyday while abusing those around them….While making excuses for the behavior during short periods of sobriety.
You're right, and you have to look at the date of birth for a realistic estimation of your life expectancy. The interviewee is 63 I believe, so born in 1961. Life expectancy for an American male from that year is about 67. But that's averages. Interesting is to look at the remaining life expectancy if you're already 63, and then it looks more optimistic. On average for a USA male it's about 20 years. So the guest is not far off.
@@hop101Find a spot you are comfortable. I am not sure relaxed is how I felt after my trips to the Philippines. Money, means, can help you insulate yourself from a lot of things though. I got bored in the gated community settings and wanted to experience what is real…Not a fake facade. It’s not really an experience I would trade however.
In terms of the numbers….My guess is it is as rare to die at 45 from natural causes as it is to make it to 105. I don’t know anything about your condition, hopefully you have more time my friend.
Srs. Oh.@@hop101
Thanks Chad...the more video I listen to , the more I don't know if I even want to try to have a new relationship...They are sweet and beautiful BUT the immaturity is beyond believe.
My ex wife in Canada ask me for my computer and I toll her that PC stand for personal computer. NOW WOULD I OPEN MY COMPUTER WITH MY GIRLFREND OR WIFE SO SHE COULD verified if I have a ????????? YES no problem...All relationships are hard and difficult because humans are a problematic species.
Hopefully, if the elderly expat does his part by setting up his spouse of financially, the younger Filipina will do her part when the elderly expat becomes too infermed to take care of himself. Hopefully she will change his diapers, clean him, etc. But there's some risk in that train of thought too.
…you forgot to include, she will cash his pension/ssi checks… but she won’t!
I was married 38 mine was half and half good and bad we tought it out
He looks like Pauline in The Sopranos.
@@donaldrobb7099 paulie
Yes!
He needs wings. Keep him away from neighborhood landscapers.
Marriage only leads to citizenship if you both live in the U.S. for at least 5 years.
Interesting conversation. Although independent, I'm very interested in finding a very special Filipina who shares my interests - science, engineering, architecture. A young lady who doesn't yet have kids, but wants them. It might be a long search
Yeah I honestly don’t think you will find that there mate, it’s a completely different landscape when it comes to even the educated Filipina, maybe narrow your expectations to them liking one off those and be happy with. Just speaking from experience. Good luck on your journey
@@stevenrichards7902 thank you Steven
Why?
@@DimitriTheBarbarian it seems to me such women would be very desirable to others, and already in relationships
@@tryscience you want to find a woman interested in science and engineering? Have you met ANY women in your life? That is not something women find interesting AT ALL. Especially young pretty women in the tropical country
Hello Chad. Hello Marco.I have the same dilemma. Hmmm
If I good be Will Shatner 90s, I would be okay with that 😅
Hell 😂your thumbnail looks like me! ❤but I am married 11 years to a beautiful Filipina with 8 kids 😂😂😂❤❤❤🇺🇸🇵🇭🙏🏽✝️❤️
Thanks Chad! Marko has really good thoughts and I personally relate to his situation being 63, Oldest by 7 years (3 little bros) so practically an only child growing up so know exactly what he is talking about. I also have grown sons and had one marriage but my spouse was torture so ive stayed single for 16 years. Been to Negros twice on recon for retirement. Aging is the big question w considering a relationship there. Good discussion. Thanks Marko, hope to hear more from you. John C from Indiana.
You're welcome and thank you for sharing 🙏
This was some of the best relationship and life advice ive heard in a while.
Men do not need to consider settling down until 67. For the aged health reasons. But Thailand looks after elderly well and respect the wisdom of aged people. No real need to get married.
This guy reminds me of Paulie Walnuts Gualtieri. 😁
Agree with Marco 100%. One has Peace and Quietness not having any babbler talking on her phone, eating all your groceries, or her Mother coming and eating all your groceries.
I think it would be ideal to have a "housekeeper/girlfriend" one day per week. That way you keep your Freedom, and Peace and Quietness!
Keep your boredom too!
Marco, how many square feet is that place?
Don't get hitched and don't stay single 😊 just get a girlfriend
Well, that’s just your opinion man haha
@@Levi-zy5dr duuuuude
That's your opinion. You probably don't have money to enjoy your life.
Single for over 20 yrs here if u won't commit to these NA broads they split, not before attacking like a rabid badger
Great interview, Marco touched on things i hadn't really thought about.
I think Marco is overthinking everything and doesn’t know what he really wants. Just getting more confused by the day. He’s never going to know in advance what any Filipina will do if he gets sick. Just find a girl he wants to be with. Setting lots of rules and conditions doesn’t work really and will just keep him single for decades
¿ have u visited davao city & whats your overall take
You should get more younger guys to interview here like 25 to 45 :)
There aren’t many in that age group who can afford to move to the Philippines since most don’t have SS or some kind of pension and it’s almost impossible to get a job.
@@msudak4 you don't need to be retired. Many younger digital nomads make 6 figures now and have way more than what you get from SS. I am a software dev and workered in like 5 countries in last 2 years. So easy now in this age of tech and remote
stay single especially with the laws here.
That's stupid. Do go if you want to stay single. Stay single and be lonely
I don’t think his plan was just lower cost of living, but he’s discovering his heart boundaries vs realty to be incongruent.
There are plans and then there is the surprising factors that can throw off any model you might draw up.
Kind of scary, really. As you say, goal the way and end up single. WTF Might as well have planned out a retirement in one’s own country where it’s easy.
Caregiver lmao. And citizenship 😅 Most Filipinas won't care for that. They all rather be in the PH
All so confusing. It seems that in the Philippines, most of the relationships/marriages are with young Filipinas and much older men. Western woman would never entertain this situaton unless he was one of the many older men that have retained good looks, good body, financially sound and confident in all that makes him special. The Filipina sees these older men differently and she is able to overlook his age and how he looks because he will be able to provide for her and give her a good life. The much younger foreigner provides a different scenario, but the older foreigner is the one that can provide financial security for her and her family. Will things change where the Filipina will turn to favor the much younger man and connect with love on a whole different level.................I would think so and social media will be the active player.
It would take decades for any significant changes to be made in their culture and their financial situation; the Philippines is an improving third world country so you can’t look at the Philippines like you can a western country.
Marco is a cool guy. It sounds like he knows exactly what he wants and needs. Also he is full of life. Best of luck Marco
I don't really get it, you say or at least make it sound like you've had many relationships in the Ph. Relationships that for some reason had to end.
You also say looks isn't very important to you and that you think you need someone as you get older.
Excuse me, but what's the delio. Now, there are a lot of reasons to stay out of relationships with Ph. women, scams, scams and did I mention, scams, but that don't seem to be an issue for you, so what's stoppin' you ?
Again, I'm sorry, but I don't get it.
He is the first man I hear talking about deviding his assets later between his kids in the west and his gf when he is gone👍 I did also after making shure that my girlfriends ex can not come and take half ( legally she is still maried so go to a good lawyer with them give him some money and make a good contract) fore the rest make shure that your gf gets a honest share when you are gone so she doesnt have to go to work the next day
If a filipina is going to get everything paid for by her western man and get a free ride and unparalleled freedom she will have to learn to bite her tongue and put up with some things she doesn't necessarily like. Just like we all have to do when it comes to our work, coworkers, customers, contractors, and boss(es) at work. It's more than a fair tradeoff.
That is an employee. A sugar baby and maid. Not a relationship
Very sad interview. This gentleman actually stated an important part of any relationship, which I happen to agree with, so is he trying to tell your viewers a 30 something Filipina is attracted to a 63 year old man.
Then he goes onto state he is holding US citizenship over the woman’s head as leverage for her to stay with him. That’s great until she gets it and then drops this guy like a rock.
And he is going to do all this and hand most of his assets over to her and forsake his children. So sad that this is what it comes down to for this guy to get a woman.
Don’t be this guy in the Philippines or anywhere else for that matter.
Chad, I think you screen your interviews. You continually have the same type of expats on. Low value, low worth, low self esteem expats that don’t respect themselves and are willing to throw caution and their future to the wind and they are going to come out the other end miserable and bankrupt. And Chad please don’t be insulted but from someone like me who sees this from the outside looking in I have a different perspective, and to be honest these expats are an extension of you. You are going to be this guy in 10 years if you don’t get your head straight.
You’re totally insane and read things in this interview that just aren’t true.
I call bs on this guy. If 25% are upset, then he is definitely not genuine. It seems he is narcissistic in how he is treating his interactions with women.
This animated guy is not a match for a younger girl. He’s so philosophical he needs a woman in her 50’s. He presents older than his age to me so why not go for a professional type who can appreciate his self absorbed depth? I’ve had 3 extended trips there and I can say if I ever live there full time it would not take 4 years to find a match
You’re talking out of your ass and you have no idea who he is and his particular circumstances
marco is not straight
lol. Did you bend over for him?
This guy needs to fix his teeth .....
a very boring person
is rhe thumbnail marcos boyfriend
Blah blah blah ,,some ppl like to hear themselves talk !
Ummmm , no we are not primates. We are made in the image of God.
You’re only about a century or two behind times🤗
This is a topic I understand.
💙💚💙💚❤️💚💙💚💙
The moment You stop
L👀King for what You wish. The opposite will happen.
Stand Your ground and know what You want in Your life for the rest of Your life. Never Settle.
Tampo is, in my opinion, a childish act.
If the girl/woman/female tells their poor me story, asking for money. They are trying to hit the emotional side of the man. Don't fall for that. By thinking, I'll save You. That is a disaster waiting to happen. Don't fall for that trap. They will leave and have another man waiting in the wake.
Some need to learn the hard way. Go right ahead.
Don't lose Your self respect. The moment You do, the woman will leave You faster than a heartbeat 🩶
This guy wants a caregiver in a wife good luck with that.
marco's talk ended a bit phookin abruptly, didn't it
The end of the recording crapped out 😅
Marco knows his choices
Financial stability supports that ✌️Happy for him
More power
you are way to close to the camera and what is that ridiculous music you are playing while talking? not good dude
I am in the middle of a k1 visa and she goes on the will after we are married and she splits with my daughter ❤️ period no other women period so thers no problems 😂