शादी में नफरत? रिश्ता छोड़ कर आगे बढ़ो! | Social Change | Dr Mayurika Das | Josh Talks Aasha
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In this thought-provoking video, Dr. Mayurika Das Biswas, a psychologist, dives deep into the realities of marriage and the challenges that many couples face in today's society. Despite witnessing unhealthy marriages and toxic relationships growing up, people still dream of their "happily ever after" and invest heavily in weddings, only to find themselves struggling with unhappy partners and difficult in-laws.
Dr. Biswas explores the reasons behind this societal obsession with marriage, the influence of media, and the unrealistic expectations that come with it. She shares insights on how to navigate the stress and confusion that arise in troubled marriages, offering practical advice on managing expectations and transforming demands into preferences.
Whether you're facing marital challenges or simply curious about the dynamics of relationships, this video provides valuable guidance on how to build a stronger, more resilient partnership. Learn how to approach marriage with the mindset of a wise investor-putting in the effort, showing gratitude, and giving more while expecting less to ensure a lasting and fulfilling relationship.
#marriage #relationship #psychology #maritalstress #happilyeverafter
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हमारे रिश्ते या sex life में जो भी समस्या हम झेलते हैं वो हम share कर सकते हैं इस form में 👉 docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScoX_dJfOvgIXDvc24pNLJKgtDt2q2ucQXRnYm_IHQcBNlByg/viewform?usp=sf_link
Mai rita mera Umar 33 years h mera love merej tha 15 sal me vag ke sadi kr li 16 sal me baccha ak beti Hui uske bad mera journy istart Hui pati jis ghar me rent me rahtey the wha ke ghar malkin ke beti ke sath mera pati ka afir calna suru ho gya jb mere ko khrcha Dena band kr diya uske bad rasan Pani ke liye v dikkat ho gya sb Paisa usko de Diya karety themeri kahni bahut lambi h Mai aise nhi bta paungi
Mujje to lgta h shadi barbaad hoti h sirf husband ki mummy ke karan... Wo chahe to ghar basa skti warna barbaad kr skti h jaisa ki mera hua h
Bilkul sahi kaha. Meri engagement ho gayi thi but shaadi me kuch time bacha tha aur usi time ek common rishtedar ki marriage thi jisme mai gayi to Mujhe meri saas, nanad aur sasur ne hungama karke bhaga diya, lekin mere hone Wale husband ne Mera side liya jisse hamara rishta tootne se bach gaya, shaadi Wale din meri nanad fhir se call karke mujhe dhamkiyan Dene lagi, darane lagi. Shaadi ke baad bhi bahut si cheeje hui. aaj main usi ki bhabhi hoon aur uski maa meri saas, uska baap Mera sasur. Shayad bhagwan bhi unki seva mere haanthon hi chahte hain.
Mera ghr b meri sas ne Tod Diya bhot hi wahiyat aurat thi
Shi kaha aane ek ort ort ki dusman hoti hain or vo sas hoti hain subse badi dusman o apni beti ko apne damad ke sath kush dekh sakti hai lekin bhu or bete ho kush nhi dekh skti usko acha nhi lgata uska beta bhu ki sunta hain usko acha nhi lgta ki ek dusre Ghar ki ladkiyon ki care krta hain to usko sirf nokrani chaiye hoti hain muse lgta ki sati pratha band Hui lekin Aaj bhi vo smaj kyun ek bin Sadi suda ladki ya fir divorce ladki ko ek alag njriyo se dekhte Hain mai yehi kehna chahungi apne liye lado independent bne unko lgta Hain ki hum kamte hain or ye humari tukto par palti hain or ek husband hi apni ma bap Bhai bhen ki sunta hain to bhot bura lgta Hain ki humara smjne vala koi nhi hain iss duniya main
Mere sath bhi yhi ho rha h....shadi tikne k liye sabse jyada jaruri h saas husband wife se door rhe
Aaj ke time Mai mahilao ko dusro par depend na rhe jitna ho ske apne liye lado independent bno agr koi deta hai to apne sirf matbl ke liye that's inuffe ort main o takd hain kisike piche bhagna bnd kr do jitna ho ske apne liye lado ye smj family ek ourt ka dushman hai or hum inki parva krte hain jinko ort koi frk nhi padta or unka Ghar parivaar sirf ek ort chalti hain Mai ek married woman hu main after Sadi se phle bhi competative ki tyari kar rhi hu jitna hum khud ke liye ladenge utna majbut bnege iss duniya main eg girls ek female ki koi dukismjne vala nhi hain
No one is happy in marriage
Happy marrriage is Externnal show pice for society
Haaa.Sab dikhawati krta bhgggg
Mere saade ko 25 saal ho gaye h family members ne bahut kuch bola mere colour ko leke par mere husband ne hamesha mera support keya or proud feel karvaya
Kis kis ki shadi tooti h ya kon kon apne riste mai khus nhi h shadi krne ke bad kis ke sare sapne toote h like or comment kre 😢😢😢😢
Aap nhi ho kya
Jo insan riste mai hoga vo v roj roj yhi sochta h kb ye rista toot Jaye jo riste mai eska mtlb ye nhi ki vo insan khus hi hoga bs Nibha rhege bs
Mai hu..jo apne life partner se khus nhi h..bs nibhana mjburi h..bhgwan ne glt hsbnd diya mujhe
Mera aur mere husband ka 1 saal se koi physical relation nhi h, sath rahte h, alag alag room me sote h, bas jitna jaruri hota h utni baat krte hai, jabki hamari love marriege thi bhot pyar krte the ek dushre ko, shadi ko 6 years complete hone wale h, 100% unka kahi affair chal rha h, unki harkato se lgta hai , Aadmi kutte se bhi jyada kutta hota h, sher se bhi jyada khunkar hota h,
@@babitathakur179😂😢
Aaj meri saas ne mujhe bola, Jab pati ki kamai khate ho to pati ki galiya aur Maar bhi khani chahiye, sach me ek aurat hi aurat ki sabse badi dushman hai, bahu ko hamesha ek aurat samjha jata hai, jab ye sab unki betiyon k sath hota h to wo aurat beti hoti h.....
Baat to sahi hai aapki devi ji. But jo aurat apne pati se jayada kama rahi hai wo apne pati pe bhi atyachar kr rahi hai un mardo ki kun sunne wala hai. Aishi baat nahi hai ki bs aurat ki life me hi miusbat gai dono ki life me musibat hai.
Suno bhan jb tk sahogi tb tk log or bura krega jb apne khilaf awaj utha dogi kisi ki Himmat nhi hogi spne mai v glt krne ki kb tk jiyogi esi life rhna. Usi ke sath h pr respect se esliye jo bura kre sbk sikhao jo glt krne ki soche v nhi
@@amansinghamansingh3087sahi kha bro ladko ki sunne wala koi nhi or wo womens cheat bi karti hai jab husband job pe jaata hai aaj kal social media pe paata nhi kis kis se baate karne lagti hai baad me sara din ladkiya jaada cheat karti hai jiske pass yada paise dikhe uske pass cheat karke chali jati hai
Khana bana ke to tum bhi khilati hogi. Fhir jab pati khana kha sakta hai tumhara to galiyan aur maar to usko bhi khani chahiye. Shaadi ki hai charity nahi tumhare pati ne, Jo saas ye bol rahi. Beta kaisa hoga jab saas aisi hai. Abhi sharir me Jaan hai tab jali Kati suna Rahi hai fhir agar kabhi Bahu ka patience jawab de gaya aur kuch kah degi to log bolenge ki buddhi thi batao bechari ke sath kaisa Kiya Bahu ne, saas ki kartoot ko kaun batayega tab ki ye to karmo ka fal hai, jo mil raha hain.
Saas sasur kuchh bhi bole koi baat nahi bs life partner apne support me hona chahiye. Bs life partner galat na bole na J galat kare bs baki sb se kuchh matlab nahi
Girls ki saari problem hi after marriage shuru hoti hai
Yes
Hum Mare lea bi rishta dekh re hem pata nai kesa pati ur sasural bale milenge dar lagra he
@@user-uu4xl4ej3f q sis acha milega
Ha
@@rinkle-kn7lm q kuch ki phle bhi hoti h
Maine bhi to meri love marriage mai jyada diya hi hai but abb meri shadi ko 10yrs ho gye hai aur mere is nature ko granted liya jata hai, aur situation aisi ho gyi hai ki jaha Mai pehle chupchaap sab kar deti thi , sab ke tane sunn leti thi koi jawab nhi deti par jab Maine dekha ki mere husband bhi mujhe granted lete hai maine apna stand Lena lagi balki mere husband kabhi nhi lete hai ,even Ghar ke kalesh mai bhi mujhe akela chod dete hai kuch nhi kehte to abb mai bhi dheeth ho gyi hu. Par ye sub karna acha nhi lagta coz ye Mera nature nhi hai, mere husband to abb itne ghatiya ho gye hai mujh pe haath bhi utha dete hai , mai kya karu mujhe kuch samjh nhi aa raha hai.
Sbka yahi halat hai
financialy independent ho jao.. or Agr shadi se nhi nikal pao to mind se se us admi ko ignore kro or uski family ko b ignore hi kro.. jb Ap khud me mast rhne lagogi to wo log b apko pareshan krna band kr denge..
Shi kha ladkiyo ke sath j yadatr gharelu hinsa ka shikaar hoti h shadi ke baad kuch ki to nrk ho jati h jindagi
Dono life partner ko ek dusre ko smjhna cahahye 😊
Today's relationships are about how much a man can provide and a woman can receive
Bilkul Right di aap sahi bole ❤
I have been your student since last couple of months. Whatever you say and teach about life is really very crucial! Thanks for your valuable guidance.
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You are absolutely right
Bahut hi acchi baaten batai hai mam ne
Tank.you
Some ruthless will never understand till they are alive
Vhi mai kahu ye doc dekhi h pehle b yhi mko swt lgi t😁❤
Absolutely right same i faced for 7 years
JUB SHADI MAY PIYAR OR MOHBBAT NA HO TO VO BARBADI SAY KUM NAHI ??? 😂😂😂🎉😮😮😢😊😊😮😮🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Sadi ke badd problem khridte koi problem khtm nhi hoti hai
I have been learning a lot by following Ma'am . Huge fan 🫡
Sahi bola
Di aap ka video sahi h
You're right madam
Sbse bekar hoti hai shaadi ghutan wala right hai shaadi sb chiz saho tou duniya best ourat hai apki wife or janhaa usne kuch apne mann ki baat kar di bahut ghatiya hai hamare wali yesa hota hai shaadi
Bahut hi sundar
Nice advice
Dear jyada ke badle kam chal sakta hai..per jaha kuchh bhi na mile sivay expectation ke to kya kiya jaye😢😢
Sahi kha aap ne ❤❤
Ekdum ryt ..mere sath sadi me bhut bda dhokha maut ka dhokha
Kya maut ka dhokha ?
Shadi todhne ka man hai but 10 month ka baccho hai usko lekar khn jaye .. isliye roj pati or sasur ki gandi galiya sunkar bi unke sath hi rhena pad rha hai .. Majburi h😢
Sach me ladki hona bahut muskil he apke lea bura lagra he
Sahi bola didi aapne... Mere or meri mummy k sath b bahut torture hua meri shadi k baad.. Mera betu b 10 month ka h.. Samjh nhi aata kya kre
Aisa nhi niklo yha se mayke chale jao khud kamao aur bachha palo. Kab tak aise ji paogi. Meri bhi condition bahut buri hai ek beti hai nine yrs ki, beta hai seven months ka. Saas sasur gali dete hai, pati ko uksate hai marne ke liye. Sasur bhi mar chuka, pati bhi marte hai mai toh mayke ja ke khud kama ke bachche palungi.
Pati ko chod ke jane se achha hai ki shadi hi mat karo na rahega bas na bajegi basuri. Par jo achhe ladke aur ladkiya hai jinko shadi karni hai kam se kam unk demotivate mat karo.
Me inka contact kese kar sakti hu? Please respond! Thanks
Husband ke didi ke karan main depression mai chali gayi thi.Husband to accha hai par unke didi aur jija toxic hai bahot jyada.Saas thik thak hai
Humne apni parents ko shuru s hi ldta dekha h hum nhi smjh pate the kinkya solution h na wo alg hue na sath me rhe bt in ladayi jhaghde ka asar hum dono sister n apni married life pr nhi hone diya bt mere bhai ka ghr barbad ho gya wo bi aise hi ldte h jaise parents.wo aaj bi bhudhe ho gue bahut jhaghda krte h
Kahaan jaye
Garjana ki jeet channel. Vali bulayiye
Itna easy ni hai maine apne partener ke liye k8a bit he was alcholic ,cheet ,and kaam hi ni karta ,gher ke saaman tak sale kr deta , kisi tarah ji help ni wmotional financial and physical ,ecmven bache ke liye bhi to kya karai
Fir ase insan ko sbk sikhao barbad ho jaoge ase to
👌🏻👌🏻right didi ji😭😭😭🙏🏻🙏🏻
So true lekin kya marriage couceller k pas akele hi ja sakte i mean husband ko lekr hi jna chahiye
Mera halat bahut khrab h lekin bahar nhi ja pa rhi hun himatt juta Rahi hun vidio dekh ke
Bhar nikl kr kuch kro ge tbhi life dobara se ache se jee pao ge roz roz Mt mro
well said! but your ideas cannot be applicable to those people who suffer from NPD or have serious narcissistic traits.
Shadi to aapki bhi hui hai fir ye sb kyu bol rahi hai ❤
Swt doc
Meri bhi shadi tootne wali thi sasural ki vjh se but mene sambhala😊😅
Kaise kya kiya tha yr apne
Sambhal k konsa teer maar liye abto physically, mentally, emotionally atyachar v sehna pdega
Mere yahan ulti ganga bahti hai...
Aur yahan ladke hi namard banke rah gye hain...aur bahno ko khuli chutt hai aur sabkuch ki aajadi ki sarm jihaaj kuch bhi nhi rah gya...kisi ko bhi beaabru karke baat karna aur betareeke se wyvhaar karna...hota kuch aur kuch bhi bata dena..wohi haal hai ki mai mandir se aa rahi hun..
Itna man badhna ki pitaji ko kuch lena dena hi nhi incheejon se..lekin in sab ka ek positive karan bhi hai..issey meri marriage life bahut achhi hoga...mujhe jaisi bhi wife mile wo insab cheejon se achhi hi hoga ya aisi bhi nikli to mai khusi khusi seh lunga
1 trillion is equal to 1000 billions not 100 billons.
आप ठीक से सोचे कि क्या ये सरकार के नीति के कारण हो रहा हैं हर औरत समझने लगी हैं कि मर्द हमसे नीचे हैं।
Mam mujhi 10saal bad dokha mela
10 sal bhot lamba hota h us insan ko SRM nhi aai
Mera bhi pati aisa hai
Jada do or Kam loo ka bojh sir patni par hota h
Isme special kya h sabke sath hota h
Is this a feminist channel?
😢😢😢😢
સીનીસાદીએકઘોકાછે
लड़किया ज्यादा tar behtar talas karti hai,o har jagah muh marti hai 😢😢😢mere sath hua hai,o itni badi dhokhewaj hai uske kayi ladko se chakkar hai,ladjiya bahut dogli hoti hai 😢😢
Aaajke rishte paise ke hai dilo ka nai kya bewakoof doctor hai 😅😅😅
Jyadatar ladkiyan harakhor hai
Finally apne gender ki aukaad dikha hi dii comment section mai 😁😁😁
Aree bewakoof doctor hai iska baat ko nai sunna nai to beta koi rishta nai chalega
Partner have lots of options these days now befkoof doctor 😅😅😅