7 Things a Narcissist Wants When They Fall Silent.

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  • Опубликовано: 16 ноя 2024

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  • @Understandingnarcissism
    @Understandingnarcissism  День назад +5

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  • @paulaharris4667
    @paulaharris4667 11 часов назад +2

    Someone wanting have time to themselves to collect their feelings or thoughts is one thing but narcissists is not healthy in anyway. Thank you Elizabeth!💜

  • @chesshooligan1282
    @chesshooligan1282 18 часов назад +3

    I have no narcissist problems in my life at the moment. I only listen to these videos in the hope that I will pick up the accent.

  • @Anne-MarieMcManus-hd8br
    @Anne-MarieMcManus-hd8br День назад +3

    Thank you.

  • @dclarke1896
    @dclarke1896 День назад +6

    Thank you! I’ve been tortured by the silent treatment dished out by toxic individuals most of my life. It would have me on edge and in tears being treated like that. I would never do that to anyone that I cared about. It’s sick!

    • @gregpendrey6711
      @gregpendrey6711 День назад +1

      I agree. There are people that crap doesn't work on. I think I want to know how people get away unscathed. I want to be one of them. Sounds callous to me because my people are nacs and as a child we don't know why until our 20's why we never did. Like the 1st time I had the audacity to be excused from Easter. Mom never did one again. It's a long story but I wish I knew then what I know now. I would have had 40 years of no contact instead of these last 4. Now she or I will be gone so it's kind of a diminished benefit.

    • @gregpendrey6711
      @gregpendrey6711 День назад +1

      Just send it to the host. Please stop following me around. It has been a rough week. Thank you advisors. 😊

  • @a.williams9
    @a.williams9 День назад +4

    Absolutely true. They torture you emotionally and psychologically with this. Experienced such thing many times. Anxiety, ruminating and worry from this tactic is painfully devastating and it was precisely this topic that I've got to know about narcissism as such. If they truly love you they wouldn't hurt you the way they do. Love doesn't hurt but toxic people do. Thanks for all your helpful support, Elizabeth 🙏🏻💜🩹

    • @Nbdy2021
      @Nbdy2021 День назад +2

      I get that a lot too, I'm the one inviting, offering. Of late I've just sat quietly and concentrated on organizing my home and journaling. I'm tired of putting out, even in a group I've gotten only silence mostly. Makes one feel invisible. So their silence has been giving me lots of room for thinking rather than ruminating ❤

    • @a.williams9
      @a.williams9 17 часов назад +2

      @Nbdy2021 definitely. Life is much better owning oneself in awareness, sanity and peace 🙏🏻💜

  • @robertovss3237
    @robertovss3237 День назад +3

    Only thing the narcissist wants with the silent treatment is to punish you mentally. The narcissist enjoys it as you go mad trying to figure out why they are silent.
    Totally agree with you Elizabeth, I experienced this silent treatment and when I asked the narcissist what was wrong she threatened me 'I want a divorce, I will never give you custody of the children'. After that I closed myself up, kept quiet and only replied with a yes or a no.
    Thank you Elizabeth 💜

  • @DonaldPine-v3j
    @DonaldPine-v3j День назад +3

    I'v learnt through regaining my power I told my ex friend I have I have I have nothing more to say to you work this out for for yourself I do not want to have anything more to do with you on any level

  • @bryanoliver5550
    @bryanoliver5550 День назад +3

    Narcissists play their own games with you when you allow them to , when you have no idea what a narcissist actually is , and then you do find out what they are , it blows you mind how people can be and have been . Why does this happen , what have they gained from you and destroyed , the world we all live in is not perfect , but you can make the best of what is left , do it (directing myself) .

  • @Jungleboy-z4c
    @Jungleboy-z4c День назад +3

    I’m not fawning ok! But you have some type of live experience that you convey in a way that is dragging me forward. I’m not getting as mad I’m just going through it. Your facial expressions when your talking and waking seem like your going through something right now. Everything bad or good I’ve learned from. Mostly bad, I never learned much during the good. This is a good perspective to observe. Like I can learn it without having to be IN IT

  • @anettewaits3677
    @anettewaits3677 14 часов назад +2

    👍💚