There has to be a boundary when it comes to revealing personal matters. In my opinion, broadcasting to the world that your dad had a violent streak is over the line. Regardless of how long it's been since his passing, it's essential to maintain a level of respect for your dad. Every story has its place, and some should never be shared publicly.
Thank you for sharing your story, that shows you sincerity, trust and courageous 👍 every family has its positive and negative. You don't need to only share the good, its part of life to have negatives. 中国人的面子真不值一分钱. People don't like to hear the negatives, can choose not to listen and stop criticise. Let people have free speech. Your family is a good family and a beautiful couple 💕
My understanding is that Rebecca is more emotional type and Winston is more stubborn type. lol.. Be more understanding, see things from the other partner's point of view.
When one shares about living with an abusive father to highlight the issue, encourage conversation and empower those suffering in silence, then it is a commendable act. However, exploiting such a sensitive experience merely to add a bit of 'spice' to their sharing, then it is a great disservice to the gravity of the issue. Indeed, we each have many stories to tell, some joyful and some sorrowful. Sharing isn't the problem, it's the motivation behind each one that truly counts.
I consider you a valuable viewer and fan. I think you’ve been following us long enough to know that anything we share comes from a place of openness, learning and growth and wishing those things also for all our viewers. My husband is sincere if he is anything and if he has chosen to share glimpses of his past that might be difficult or painful you can be sure that there is no ulterior motive involved. He honestly just wants to communicate our journey and how we are learning and growing together as regards our own personal backgrounds. Thanks for your faithful viewing and comments. ❤
My apologies, Rebekah and Winston. My previous comment was influenced by someone who has a special place in my heart, who grew up with an abusive father and had to put up with a stepmother, stepgrandmother, and half-siblings in her home.. This person is a close friend of my daughter and at times our home served as her refuge. In retrospect, I understand that my words were too severe. I confess that I tend to make hasty judgments about people, something I am still working on, even though I have walked twice your distance in this journey called life. Again, please accept my sincere apologies. I hope that life brings nothing but the best to you and your family.
博主的生长环境和Rebecca有很大的不同,Rebecca是有教养又很知性的女人,中文表达如此完美👍👍 对夫妻感情的沟通又是那么的明理豁达,博主是上辈子修来的福气吧找到这样的好老婆😂
完全赞同,博主就是祖坟冒青烟了,能娶到这么优秀的美国老婆
双方都努力相向而行家庭才能和睦,单巴掌拍不响
并没有高攀,博主是从暴力家庭走出来温和有涵养又赚钱能力的优秀人才
@@MOMO-dp1puno no no no
@@MOMO-dp1pu对对对,祖坟都冒烟了,博主妈妈生病回个家,你们也在这说三道四rebecca在家带三个孩子真辛苦,真累,全是Rebecca多么辛苦多么累,合着男主一天天就是玩就是躺平啥也不干是吗?男主欠女主人很多是吗?男主承担责任太少了是吗?那是不是男主应该每天工作还要带三个小孩会中国照顾每天该的做饭菜?
張太要多多休息,看上去不大精神!好好保護身體健康!祝一切安好!😊
瑞貝卡,是教養知性很高的女性,夫妻相互包容很重要,看你們家庭祥和溫馨很快樂,對小孩身心成長很棒的。
夫妻之间要懂得去包容和体谅。有时候意见不同吵架一定会有。但要互相彼此找到妥协的方法。避免把吵架变成打架和妻离子撒。结婚的定义就是两个人和谐相处。互相礼让。一起努力建立新的家庭和照顾好孩子们。有问题就一起去面对和解决。互相责怪只会把问题变得更严重。
小成成跟狗狗互動很可愛
👍很棒的一對 用心經營自己家庭的夫婦👩❤️👨🎊😍
谢谢你们的分享!我们能够真实的活在孩子面前,也能勇敢面对自己的失败、错误,才是真正的强大,也是对孩子最好的教育。祝福你们一家相亲相爱、喜乐安康!
我同意爸爸説,爭吵過後,需要冷靜,但兩人文化不同,所以最好大家遷就一下,媽媽壓力大,爸爸同樣壓力大,又要供屋,又要維持五個人豐足生活,担子很大,很重,尤其在外國人地方工作。
夫妻兩人之間一定会有不同的思想有問題的時候大家先冷靜的然后坐下討論同样夫婦是同一国的也不一定每次意見都一样希望你們互相包容對方這才可以家庭和陸
見到狗狗今日不被缚住,自由屋內遊玩,很是高興,希望 (鏡頭後) 不會再次被縛,規限活動範圍
給狗狗一些雞胸肉和蔬菜水果就好,不要只給狗糧
好像說是那天有帶他出去溜了一圈所以精力沒有那麼旺盛,可以讓他自由活動(精力不旺盛時)。
@@markle9216看不見🐶快樂、活潑、開朗表情
夫妻之间一定要相互包容和尊重
幼犬跟孩子一樣會經歷一段換牙、及精力旺盛的時期,既然決定養狗就應該理解、並找出方法,而不是把他限制在一個地方來解決問題。若主人沒有讓狗有適當的散步/運動,狗兒就很可能因為無聊及焦慮而破壞家具。換牙期牙癢、磨牙,這是每一個動物成長的必經過程。
以前家中狗有幼犬的時候,我會讓孩子了解狗狗跟人一樣會有段磨牙期,而不是真的有意要咬他們的手;並且,帶著孩子去寵物店挑選幼犬可以磨牙的玩具及食物棒來協助這段過渡期。狗狗方面,每當狗咬手的時候,我會假裝很痛的說 「ouch~😭 No!」,就如我所提的幼犬的本意並不是咬人,所以我們的經驗是在他得知弄痛主人的時候,反而很自責,多次下來變成舔我們的手。
真心希望沒有入鏡的畫面外,巴克利依然擁有他應有的自由及權益,而不是持續束縛在一條繩子範圍中裡! 多和孩子帶他出去散步或在院玩消耗體力,在家的時間就不會那麼旺盛了。
希望你们父母对待狗的方式在三个子女面前也是做到了真实-在镜头之外也是放开绳的,而不是仅仅为了保住观看流量做的不得已的妥协。
你們倆解釋夫妻相處之道說的很好,尤其瑞貝卡用中文解說真的好極了!
谢谢你们分享真实的感受, 经营婚姻是需要两个人在不断的成长,不断的柯户。
今天看到視頻,狗狗自由自在的活動,真是為它開心,希望今後一直能夠如此。
真心希望你們好好善待牠🙏,而不是只有在鏡頭前才把牠放開,牠也是一條尊貴的生命,需要善待牠,對吧!
如果牠會咬誠誠,其實是可以教導訓練的,而不是把牠栓起來,更不要是狗狗不順你們的意了,就用另一種態度對待牠,否則可憐的是無辜的狗狗對吧,相信你們夫妻也不會希望狗狗到你們家是受罪的!
期望你們回到Rebeca當初要買狗狗,要養狗狗的感動,否則差異真的蠻大的誒😂,也總覺得很怪??也期待你們像其他美國家庭甚至中國、台灣的家庭一樣有愛心把狗狗當作是家庭的一份子??陪伴你們的孩子成長~
有說是那天有帶他出去溜了一圈所以精力沒有那麼旺盛,才能放他自由活動(精力不旺盛時)。
Communication with sincerity plays the most essential role in our daily life!Given that,you both did a great job!
除了外遇,出轨。夫妻吵架很正常,加油支持你们
温期顿工作或许有压力 要多多与瑞贝卡沟通 她是个善解人意的好媳妇 有空就带一家人出外走走 周末愉快🤩😍
説得真好👍互相包容理解溝通的夫妻終會走得長長久久祝福你们❤❤❤
很感动。尽管年龄很大了。可还是要向你们学习。你的厨艺进步很大啦
希望溫斯頓能注意到一個問題,就是拿多點耐心出來聆聽Rebecca說話,不僅僅是聽,還要和她有眼神接觸。超級喜歡你們一家❤❤❤!
是呀!發覺張先生較少用眼神接觸妻子,可能他比較靦腆吧!
👍👍💕説的太好了.
百世修來同船渡,千世修來共枕眠,要好好珍惜
音乐有点大
Weston, 你妈年纪比我小几岁, 所以都是在国家计划生育时期, 你妈怎么能生三个孩子?
这种沟通方式太好了😊!
爸爸煮的每一道菜都是為了孩子的健康著想,棒棒的👍
一直關注你們一家人幾年了,覺得瑞貝卡真是十分稱職的賢妻良母!👍👍👏👏畢竟她是西方人士跟張先生結合,確有文化差異,夫妻之道要彼此包容彼此相愛彼此尊重!因為父母就是孩子的一面鏡子,全面反照在孩子面前,從而身教言教影響教化著他們!三個孩子都好乖好可愛!願主的愛常與你們同在阿們!
做父母是要对孩子做好 榜样,每人都有情绪有問题都要比对方空间冷静下来,就像你們所说所做的事是值得每个家庭學習!
一家人:整整齊齊、健健康康、粗茶淡飯……有愛❤️互相包容互相成就!
应该是男女之间的差异,不是文化的差异。我身为男生,情绪化的时候是一点要自己安静,独处,才能找到peace,才能看清心里。
你們是優秀父母, 祝福你們一家永遠幸福,快樂🌷❤😊
你們的生活男主外女主內十分恰當,人與人之間相處是一件非常之難的問題,你們為家庭互相身肩重任,生活壓力大,未免產生情緒,如果互相真心的愛,冷靜後就會化解自己的錯誤。
張先生,天天等着者你的視頻,今天終于見到了,很開心,又放心。
控制情绪和大嗓门方面,中国人要向大多数美国人学习,他们的确做得更好
There has to be a boundary when it comes to revealing personal matters. In my opinion, broadcasting to the world that your dad had a violent streak is over the line. Regardless of how long it's been since his passing, it's essential to maintain a level of respect for your dad. Every story has its place, and some should never be shared publicly.
当一个人敞开心扉在谈论彼此的事情时,眼神交流也很重要
❤❤❤❤❤❤夫妻相互包容,互相體諒,婚姻才能持久,我一直跟孩子們說:夫妻互相要時時想到他(她)的好!這也是我自己的經驗之談,大學一畢業就結婚,是我班最早結婚的,因爸媽晚生,因此就希望我早點成婚(說他們身體不行了,希望早點看到後代),如今結婚48年來,夫妻很少爭執,年輕忙事業及進修,中年忙孩子,老年忙帶孫,真的想吵架都找不到題材和時間;人生一晃就過了,讓天天充實的過,就值了!祝福你們,加油!你倆都是好爸爸,好媽媽的模範指標,加油!到老一定回憶很多的,祝福!
燙西蘭花時~不要蓋鍋蓋這樣農藥才會揮發掉!
小張張太,人無完美,你夫妻二人以很好,今天二人對話以令我想起以前和老婆點滴,但她已走了,想說對不起,都要等我死後,聽完你們的話,一句珍惜眼前人,多謝你們分享加油!
要拿盆子洗菜。筛筛根本洗不干净。
天下沒有不是的父母、但父母也是凡人會犯錯,小錯可犯,但要即時正確處理…..😂
Thank you for sharing your story, that shows you sincerity, trust and courageous 👍 every family has its positive and negative. You don't need to only share the good, its part of life to have negatives. 中国人的面子真不值一分钱. People don't like to hear the negatives, can choose not to listen and stop criticise. Let people have free speech. Your family is a good family and a beautiful couple 💕
我爸爸以前也会动手😂伤害很大.但是我很爱他
很同意你們倆的觀點👍🏻
太好啦,你终于换了两个好用的炒菜锅,相信好用得多了。
还有两人都应该彼此谦虚, 看对方的好处, 不找对方的缺点. 要学会感激
我家两个混血宝宝也是爱吃西兰花和饺子😊 可能炒的西兰花有肉味
夫妻俩在这个问题上,很坦诚,互相包容和理解,在孩子面前树立了良好榜样,不愧是优秀的好夫妻,为你们点赞👍👍👍
今年感恩节怎么没有和姥姥姥爷一起呢?
你们都是很真诚的人,祝福你们永远幸福!
喜欢你们,爱你们❤❤❤
小成成特别可爱,两位公主都很漂亮呢!
現代人時常說 ,小朋友要喊要發脾氣, 這樣才知道, 他們有什麼壓力 不開心的。 大人兩公婆 也一樣, 沒有拗撬的怎樣知道大家的性格 ? 在家就算兩夫婦鬧情緒,給小朋友知道是好的, 他們也知道父母那是不開心, 家庭有什麼困難或有什麼問題, 見到父母 拗撬的情況, 他們長大後也會知道應該兩夫婦點樣相處。
红烧牛肉,猪肉或鸡肉相信孩子们都会喜欢。加点梅干菜,西红柿等等连青菜都有了。何况可以早早做好!
爸爸嘴唇好乾,都裂了。記得擦護唇膏。
My understanding is that Rebecca is more emotional type and Winston is more stubborn type. lol.. Be more understanding, see things from the other partner's point of view.
羊奶對狗狗腸胃比較友好。
你老婆是万里挑一的好女人, 好母亲, 好妻子,好好珍惜吧!! 当然你也很优秀! 真心祝福你们一家🌹
一家五口才煮那麼一點點的雞翼 !!
幸福的家庭
瑞貝卡知性温柔善良,源自于文明进步的生长环境、源自于父母良好的基因。这一家温馨友爱的气氛都是瑞贝卡带来的。小成成性格随妈妈是个小暖男。一直以来都觉得瑞贝卡常常委屈求全,因为从相貌就能明显看出人的性格是否暴躁。
这个媳妇好优秀
在爱的氛围下,互相尊重,彼此理解,达到一起成长。双方都很棒!
Thank you for sharing, touching
但要注意,若犯很嚴重的錯,就一切永結束了!
赞赞赞,我赞同你们俩的想法与说法,几事都要解决清楚说明白,不要埋在心中要坦诚,这样的婚姻才会长久。祝你们长长久久,恩恩爱爱,白头偕老,幸福满满❤❤❤😘😘😘
家庭中的争吵加入情緒化是危險的😮支持Rebecca的方法😅俗稱;話不說不清,理不辨不明😂夫妻間也有是與非,對與錯😢通過冷靜的辨論就可解決矛盾增強信任和感情🥀由衷的祝你們快樂幸福😘
When one shares about living with an abusive father to highlight the issue, encourage conversation and empower those suffering in silence, then it is a commendable act. However, exploiting such a sensitive experience merely to add a bit of 'spice' to their sharing, then it is a great disservice to the gravity of the issue. Indeed, we each have many stories to tell, some joyful and some sorrowful. Sharing isn't the problem, it's the motivation behind each one that truly counts.
I consider you a valuable viewer and fan. I think you’ve been following us long enough to know that anything we share comes from a place of openness, learning and growth and wishing those things also for all our viewers. My husband is sincere if he is anything and if he has chosen to share glimpses of his past that might be difficult or painful you can be sure that there is no ulterior motive involved. He honestly just wants to communicate our journey and how we are learning and growing together as regards our own personal backgrounds.
Thanks for your faithful viewing and comments. ❤
My apologies, Rebekah and Winston. My previous comment was influenced by someone who has a special place in my heart, who grew up with an abusive father and had to put up with a stepmother, stepgrandmother, and half-siblings in her home.. This person is a close friend of my daughter and at times our home served as her refuge.
In retrospect, I understand that my words were too severe. I confess that I tend to make hasty judgments about people, something I am still working on, even though I have walked twice your distance in this journey called life. Again, please accept my sincere apologies. I hope that life brings nothing but the best to you and your family.
博主是北方人喜欢吃面食,从一家人吃饭的状态可以看出来你们家伙食的油水不够,尤其是孩子们,还有吃饭时候发出很奇怪的声音、
❤👍👍👍👍
美滿家庭🏠
Wow the kids have all grown bigger again. 😊 Lovely Sutty.❤
Have you consider to add English subtitles to the video that will be more interesting to the people do not read Chinese
小雅恩❤
餃子代替煮飯?
受大压力发脾气的男人,都是顾家的男人,不顾家的男人,自然没压力没脾气,
你們家很少煮米飯?多吃餃子,那麼要煮多一點餸菜了
挺喜欢看你们的视频。可你是北方人为什么要说吵架说成cao 架,你老婆是美国人也没听到她这样发音。
大家都是為家庭付出,要好好圴沟通
成實在太可愛了❤
好老婆上辈子修来的福取到她
这老婆太太太太太太优秀了!这先生要珍惜珍惜再珍惜啊!不要自我感觉太好!
菜🈶点汁好吃,煮的时候放点水……
西兰花不是菜花,西兰花小很多。
Rebecca很棒,素质很高,是我们羡慕的美国媳妇!👍👍👍
❤️👏
男博主典型中國式小男人特性,沒有Rebecca ,你在美國無所作為,包括youtube頻道😅
很難得你的妻子是外國人能夠互相遷就,你真是很好的福氣呀, 希望你們繼續相親相愛 ,很喜歡你們的家庭❤❤❤
非常好的处理方式,持续关注你
💐🤗👍🙏😍🥰
给你们夫妻一赞赞赞。
谢谢分享
还是建议Winston 在两者有矛盾时,请不要次次/每次都把Rebecca 晾在一边自处,而不予Rebecca即时沟通。适当walk into Rebecca 's shoes, 换位想想,站在Rebecca 的位置,10次矛盾中,是否3到4次倾听Rebecca 沟通的愿望并即时沟通,而非一味让Rebecca 等待,让她在等待的过程中煎熬,压抑希望被倾听,沟通甚至安慰的愿望。Rebecca 很迁就你,希望你也能适当迁就Rebecca 。这是Rebecca 之前和现在处理矛盾的方式做出的改变或妥协,背后因为是对你和孩子们的爱及希冀家庭的和睦。对于情感细腻和感性的Rebecca ,她做出这样的改变和妥协,选择等待,真地很了不起。
你老婆真棒,中文講的特別好,高情商的老婆,
看了你们这么多的视频经常会想,如果男主找的是一个中国妻子会是怎样的一种情行
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我個人一路走來。。總覺得維持婚姻,真的需要互相包容及理解,忍耐。。才能繼續走下去😂話說,台灣的教育,學校讓父母需參與的才多咧😂尤其寒暑假的功課,報告。。忙死了🤣真不知道是孩子做功課還是父母做功課🤦♀️😂
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非常可爱的一对年轻人,为你们点赞👍 你们的孩子们是有福的。希望你们的感悟能帮助到更多的年轻父母!
豆腐、雞翼 分量😂😂😂
赞同!这位先生做饭出手寒酸😅