Uncomfortable conversations about sex btn parents and their children

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  • Опубликовано: 22 окт 2023
  • #parenting #parents #parentingtips #parenthood #lovetalk #family #youth #marriage

Комментарии • 332

  • @fatmahnakazibwe5151
    @fatmahnakazibwe5151 9 месяцев назад +97

    I am a very quiet person since childhood and people used to tell my mum oyo omwana yesirisa Naye ajja nakufuna olubuto kulugya yet I was innocent, and whenever I did any mistake at home nga my mum kyakulembeza ngayomba. So I never opened up to her, When I went to university people were surprised and the said kigenda kwononekera ku uni, I graduated and waited for two years, then they said nadiba and my mum could confront me about every thing bad people could say about me. After those years I got my man who understands me and when I told her nti ayagala kukyala she couldn't believe it. In fact no body believed it

    • @user-ud4ds9ne2d
      @user-ud4ds9ne2d 9 месяцев назад +6

      You are just a special person which they didn't understand

    • @mukisajoankabogza2586
      @mukisajoankabogza2586 9 месяцев назад +3

      ,,,😅😅thats my first born musilise naye ntua akuma nyo ekyama ohhhh

    • @fatmahnakazibwe5151
      @fatmahnakazibwe5151 9 месяцев назад

      @@mukisajoankabogza2586 try to be close to he or she will be open. But my mum took people's words seriously ngabwagamba wantamya okwesirisa so I couldn't open up

    • @Amish07
      @Amish07 9 месяцев назад +2

      People don't understand that there is introverts that really respect themselves

    • @beckynamubiru2095
      @beckynamubiru2095 8 месяцев назад

      Bambi but parents why

  • @nassolojauharah870
    @nassolojauharah870 9 месяцев назад +48

    Namisinga binji era silina love jenafuna ku maama wange yanvuma nga buli kadde😢😢 naye kati mutabani wange he respects me and we are friends and open to each other he tells me everything wether necessary or not I direct him bambi I thank Allah 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @evelynk8092
      @evelynk8092 9 месяцев назад +7

      Mwaana gwe leka I reached to the extent of ask myself oba siyanzala

    • @nayigajackie8609
      @nayigajackie8609 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@evelynk8092me too,some mothers olemwa

    • @nassolojauharah870
      @nassolojauharah870 9 месяцев назад

      @@evelynk8092 upto now I don't love her but I love my daddy so so much coz he was there until now may Allah bless him and protect him

    • @mukisajoankabogza2586
      @mukisajoankabogza2586 9 месяцев назад +1

      Abazadde bedda bali webatyo naffe abaana tubade tukute li e eyo.nze mbulilidwa nyo ne vidoes zino zituyambye nyo.so tonenya maama wo

    • @NakiddeChristine
      @NakiddeChristine 9 месяцев назад

      Nze owange namubuza Nako oba siyanzala nga emiggo ne bivumo binsuseko naye nyabo nalinga eyeyiye Amanda mumbugo😢😢

  • @carolnakityo4223
    @carolnakityo4223 8 месяцев назад +21

    The gift and the blessing of having a mother in this world is underrated❤

  • @lilliandaisy8109
    @lilliandaisy8109 9 месяцев назад +28

    Mummy and daughter is always de best moments i wish my mother is still alive

    • @kalibbalabwanika
      @kalibbalabwanika  9 месяцев назад +4

      Im so sorry for your loss muzadde munage,cyber hugs mukwano

    • @lilliandaisy8109
      @lilliandaisy8109 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@kalibbalabwanika thank you mummy Ruth bt what pains me I don't have any memories abt mummy they told me we were still young

    • @glsflorahflekerntuuyozange
      @glsflorahflekerntuuyozange 9 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@kalibbalabwanikamummy Ruth, I love the way you cooperate with your children and I say I wish I can ...I have 3 children 2 girls and I boy and I'm a single mum but I'm feeling disappointed with my girls I have been struggling alone from day one..but now I want to send them to their father and forget about them in my life

    • @marieannie9505
      @marieannie9505 9 месяцев назад

      Ooooh so sorry kikwano 😢

    • @Debs567
      @Debs567 9 месяцев назад

      @@glsflorahflekerntuuyozange Oooh this is so heart breaking💔to hear, coz one thing I know, Omuzadde yena, nadala bamama, ayagalanyo abannabe, bwebuba, obulamubwe.
      However, when it comes to single parenting, it can be quite tricky and overwhelming. As a result, a parent my be hash to raise her child in a way trying to play both roles as a mom and dad, but by doing that, the kids don’t understand that! They think they are being mistreated which is a misconception, remember this is a struggling Mom who is trying to make ends meet.
      At that point, they miss having a special relationship of parent and children which actually builds their self-esteem and confidence…
      In a long run, a child will be easily swayed away by an outsider who tells her that she is beautiful and ends up preying on her.
      Then another thing, generations differ, as much as we want to raise kinds in the olden style as we were raised, our kids are in a different era. Shouting at them may not work nor shying away from information may also not work.
      Telling them everything there is, in a friendly, respectful and balanced manner, may will yield more.
      It is so sad, that you’re letting go of your girls… but don’t close the door please. May be a change will make a difference in their lives.
      It is so painful to see a parent go through this kind of thing. Imagining her sacrifice and devotion to her kids all her life, and they can’t accept that everything she did was out of love.😢
      Take heart my dear! One day, they will come back to thank you, for your love and sacrifice when they get to taste the waters out there mukazi munange. 🤗 🤗 🤗

  • @jenniejenny2135
    @jenniejenny2135 9 месяцев назад +18

    Thanks Auntie Bala and Nisha; in my opinion, It's good to talk to our children as early as possible btwn 2 and 3 years omwana aba ategera. For example, my son was around 3yrs something woke up my mind it was like two to three times: this boy could come to me, and touch on my breast just like a child I assumed but, I then noticed whenever he would do that he would stand straight that's when I sat my boys a 3 and 4 years old and had a serious conversation with them as Dad Tom teaches us. I actually started praying over them more kubanga the way the devil is targeting our kids in this era. Only prayers. Let's talk to them as early as possible and always keep bringing these conversations to them omwana abeera mwana nga ali ne muzadde we, the moment they walk away from your sight, aba wa nsi. God please keep our Children for is. 🙏most importantly PARENTS BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR CHILDREN.

  • @namukisaphionah4963
    @namukisaphionah4963 9 месяцев назад +10

    Mukama mpa family I behave like Ruth to my kids 🙏🙏🙏

  • @sylvialuutu9124
    @sylvialuutu9124 9 месяцев назад +17

    Wow. She is so brilliant and her reasoning capacity is on point 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉. Thanks Mum and dota

  • @birungisarah8764
    @birungisarah8764 9 месяцев назад +20

    Ruth,I love it when you are with your Daughter. One of the best shows. ❤

  • @nakayiwinnie3373
    @nakayiwinnie3373 9 месяцев назад

    Thanks for always teaching us Ruth you are such a blessing to us the parents

  • @aishajohannveronica1414
    @aishajohannveronica1414 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thank for educating us Ruth.❤❤❤❤

  • @pamelanabwire7093
    @pamelanabwire7093 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you for this show. Fantastic approach- parent - child. God bless you Ruth.

  • @noreennakazibwe1435
    @noreennakazibwe1435 9 месяцев назад +14

    God bless me with grace to talk to my children 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 great thanks to Ruth and dota advise to us parents ❤

  • @nakirijjamary2359
    @nakirijjamary2359 9 месяцев назад +2

    The best ever,thxs for this talk. Parents it's our responsibility to talk to our children

  • @jerrynakitende3669
    @jerrynakitende3669 9 месяцев назад +1

    Great show. I always look forward to this mother and daughter talks. Thank you Ruth and Nisha

  • @hanifahnamuli947
    @hanifahnamuli947 8 месяцев назад

    Bambi thanks for your show, it's eye opening for especially mothers❤❤❤

  • @iteknologgie
    @iteknologgie 9 месяцев назад +20

    There is nothing good as watching these 2 on set cheei full of vibes. Thank you Nisha for your highlights as parents we appreciate

  • @namubirujoan2015
    @namubirujoan2015 9 месяцев назад +2

    How can i like this a zillion times? thank you very much for this conversation, its been very helpful and insightful

  • @mulindwajonathan3470
    @mulindwajonathan3470 9 месяцев назад +3

    Thanks Ruth...show...more blessings

  • @nabbosashamim
    @nabbosashamim 9 месяцев назад

    This is so great to us parents thank you so much Mrs Bwanika and the daughter

  • @rawashia
    @rawashia 9 месяцев назад

    Thanks Ruth for wonderful talk

  • @prossytessy5271
    @prossytessy5271 9 месяцев назад +2

    This message is Directly to me,,thank you mummy Ruth

  • @ismaeltwahassesimba4773
    @ismaeltwahassesimba4773 9 месяцев назад

    Ruth thanks alot for this educative talk... I am dad who loves my 2 boys en little one gal. For sure its good advise for a parent to sit down and talk to our children at young age.

  • @lornatwins9944
    @lornatwins9944 9 месяцев назад

    This was very educative and inspiring.

  • @florenceflower9816
    @florenceflower9816 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thank u so much mum ruth and your daughter, for this wounderfull talk u really inspire us

  • @dareengift3270
    @dareengift3270 7 месяцев назад

    Thanks a lot Ruth for this teaching conversation

  • @Nakandimilliemaria
    @Nakandimilliemaria 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you mummy Ruth this is really educative and helpful conversation to us parents

  • @lydianabacwa9398
    @lydianabacwa9398 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you, mum Ruth, and dota i love the sharing.

  • @sophynabukeera4736
    @sophynabukeera4736 9 месяцев назад +1

    Mmy Ruth i can't thank you enough for this 👏🏼👏🏼🙏🙏

  • @Hamahjahans
    @Hamahjahans 9 месяцев назад +16

    I was Dadz gal😢😢and i thank him coz he was very close to me to the extent of telling me everything coz he had no option since mai mother had died years later forexample “when you do sex u get pregnat and HIV so please take care” i really followed his words and now i dont regret of being agood gal😍😍😍so parents has to be so open to us

    • @nyakatoviolet860
      @nyakatoviolet860 9 месяцев назад +1

      That was good of him, most parents can't do that as if they're ashamed 💕

    • @Amish07
      @Amish07 9 месяцев назад +1

      We women have downgraded men but men can actually raise better children

    • @sgjjchiio7245
      @sgjjchiio7245 7 месяцев назад

      Your married now even me my dad too😂

  • @namubirujoan2015
    @namubirujoan2015 9 месяцев назад

    Wow wow wow I have really enjoyed this conversation and I've learnt a lot. thanks very much.

  • @katusabejackie2798
    @katusabejackie2798 9 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks soooo much for the insights. Bituyambye nyooo. Be blessed

  • @jacklinemujuni6223
    @jacklinemujuni6223 8 месяцев назад

    God bless you bleeeeeeeeeess you ×infinity. What an educative message! And your daughter is so intelligent 🙏

  • @tinolizzy1167
    @tinolizzy1167 9 месяцев назад +2

    Beautiful inspiring conversation btn mother and daughter. The bond is priceless ❤. Blessings kamaama 💞🙏l speak to son about bad touches and sex always and l started it last year when he was 9yrs

  • @jacksonmusinguzi4585
    @jacksonmusinguzi4585 9 месяцев назад

    Ruth you're such a DARLING mother indeed OMG ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @nabukenyadianamasengere391
    @nabukenyadianamasengere391 9 месяцев назад +1

    Wow this so true thank you so much

  • @imeldanakityo7004
    @imeldanakityo7004 9 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks for teaching us ruth and daughter.

  • @babzhellenugwakyagulanyi60
    @babzhellenugwakyagulanyi60 9 месяцев назад +10

    I'm so happy to see you again with your sweet daughter ❤❤

  • @NabatanziHsckk
    @NabatanziHsckk 8 месяцев назад

    Nice message for us thanks dear we are waiting for next time

  • @RLrayan
    @RLrayan 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you mum Ruth for enlightening us

  • @NansasiS
    @NansasiS 8 месяцев назад +2

    am a 21yr old mom to a 5yr old daughter. This conversation has made me realise alot and put me in alot of fear for my girl. I've learnt alot thank you gals.

  • @rachelnaigaga6634
    @rachelnaigaga6634 9 месяцев назад +3

    I enjoyed this conversation.....i admire the way you interact with ur daughter freely, ur like siblings❤😂😂

  • @laviniahkirungu-id2ui
    @laviniahkirungu-id2ui 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much for blessed conversation btn mummy en daughter ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ramulahmasembe
    @ramulahmasembe 9 месяцев назад +2

    For sure onjigiriza how to talk with your daughter era am on hurry to see her again

  • @sumayahabdallah1737
    @sumayahabdallah1737 9 месяцев назад +16

    I love the interaction,my mother died when I was only 6yrs so I grew up without that motherly love thou I was not mistreated. Am trying to do my best as a mother and I have learnt from these conversations to always complement my children,how to control my tamper and approach to situations.
    Using words of affirmation with them thou some conversations are still uncomfortable to approach 😊

  • @PrincessAnitah-gi9el
    @PrincessAnitah-gi9el 9 месяцев назад +1

    Woow thx so much for the nyc program

  • @mutesisylvia5304
    @mutesisylvia5304 8 месяцев назад

    Thanxs for da show,, mummy and daughter we love u ❤

  • @nambozejosephine2656
    @nambozejosephine2656 9 месяцев назад

    Mummy and daughter thanks for the good information message

  • @pricytudorsdiaries3457
    @pricytudorsdiaries3457 9 месяцев назад +5

    Hi Ruth this was so beautiful, we need to talk to our children as early as 4 years old

  • @akamperezadianah9935
    @akamperezadianah9935 8 месяцев назад

    This is beautiful.
    Thank you

  • @dgkalisa2130
    @dgkalisa2130 8 месяцев назад +2

    Ruth and daughter this is very good bambi...am a daddy with 9 and 7 yo girls....not very easy for us fathers....please mukole those specific sessions of daddy - daughter talk...keep it up both you you❤

  • @ant8952
    @ant8952 9 месяцев назад +1

    ❤❤❤waaw my inspiration person forever

  • @florencebangi4475
    @florencebangi4475 9 месяцев назад

    Thanks so much dear mum Ruth and daugher Nisha,may the Almighty God bless you always 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @kahundesylivia910
    @kahundesylivia910 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks so much for your concern madam Ruth with daughter, forsure us mum's who are hustling abroad we are worried abt our kids only God can understand our situation

  • @RizikFatia-vj2nl
    @RizikFatia-vj2nl 9 месяцев назад +1

    Banaye ka Dota kali so mostive 😂😂and beautiful ❤❤

  • @nakanjakoedith7686
    @nakanjakoedith7686 9 месяцев назад +15

    Thank you mummy Ruth and Hanisha for this wonderful talk,so educative please

  • @jussynakalema2295
    @jussynakalema2295 9 месяцев назад +1

    Amazima Gali nti munsomeseza . Thanks for the conversation between mun and Daughter.

  • @nakamichelle8198
    @nakamichelle8198 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much for that conversation with ur queen. Bambi ur really good mother. Also trying with kids and i try to show them that am there best even when i go to their school and some students think that am their sister because of the way i go down with them. I don't want them to see other new things from their classmates.

  • @nalungadeborah3504
    @nalungadeborah3504 8 месяцев назад

    Woooow ❤, Thanks mdm Ruth and daughter 🥳

  • @florenceflower9816
    @florenceflower9816 9 месяцев назад +1

    Mum ruth 😊❤bring back your daughter❤both of u your talk is so sweet😊

  • @aminahkisha9708
    @aminahkisha9708 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks for this conversation

  • @muwalawakatonda558
    @muwalawakatonda558 9 месяцев назад

    This was beautiful Ruth 🥰🥰

  • @lydianamata7642
    @lydianamata7642 9 месяцев назад +2

    I like the conversation and mummy Ruth you have a beautiful daughters like mine 😂😂😂 glory be to God

  • @rachellekandi1084
    @rachellekandi1084 9 месяцев назад +4

    BEING RAISED WZ GOD FEARING PARENTS IS DA MOST BEAUTIFUL THING IN LIFE. U BE EXPOSED TO MANY THINGS AND AT TIMES KNOW HOW TO APPROACH ANY PROBLEM. Mother and Daughter much love 💜💜me ma Mom at 10 had already told me about sex. It's consquences, and how to Overcome and avoid it. Thank You mummy💜💜

  • @nakamogachris4601
    @nakamogachris4601 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks so much mummy and daughter more blessings 😘❤

  • @kigongowinnie4014
    @kigongowinnie4014 8 месяцев назад

    I love Ruth n her daughter.
    You're incredible duo

  • @sulainakenge6123
    @sulainakenge6123 9 месяцев назад

    This is what my daughter's and son's miss ohh my God thanks it's the first time to come across your conversation but at least i have got something let me even subscribe

  • @carolinebatwaawula8011
    @carolinebatwaawula8011 9 месяцев назад +1

    Boy friend part she is right, it's good to first confirm someone and then nomulaga abazadde , I enjoy mother & dota conversation big up ruth

  • @martharinebiseko1457
    @martharinebiseko1457 9 месяцев назад

    Love these hearty conversations

  • @nailahhashim9095
    @nailahhashim9095 9 месяцев назад +10

    Wow
    I just love the mum-daughter relationship 👏👏👏
    Thanks for being so educative!!

    • @shanitahshanitah5948
      @shanitahshanitah5948 8 месяцев назад

      Banange nze nina omwana yasilika Banange shirat yasilika omwana tayogera omwana waliwo lwataama😢😢😢😢😢tanyumya

  • @BettyNantabaBetty
    @BettyNantabaBetty 9 месяцев назад +1

    Madam Ruth thank you 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @gloriagorret4120
    @gloriagorret4120 9 месяцев назад

    Ruth and daughter I admire you alot especially that bond

  • @nakkazipeaceresty650
    @nakkazipeaceresty650 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you so much Madam Ruth
    Owange mulenzi, bulijo mbade ntyamu okwogera naye. Kyoka bwenkikozi it was just easy and the boy looks happy and he just told me , mum thanks for being "a good mum and teach, am so Lucky to have you mum"

  • @nabiryejustine5590
    @nabiryejustine5590 9 месяцев назад +1

    Waawoo mummy nga afanana daughter eeee so so beautiful ❤❤❤❤

  • @sharoncarol4905
    @sharoncarol4905 8 месяцев назад

    Its quite educative❤️

  • @timothybalusaga8708
    @timothybalusaga8708 9 месяцев назад

    Yes thxs mom #always on point 😘👌👌

  • @evajoyschorer8669
    @evajoyschorer8669 9 месяцев назад +2

    She looks exactly like her mum .thanks somuch for the show

  • @nambasadeborah7708
    @nambasadeborah7708 8 месяцев назад

    Banage thank you so much Ruth and Nisha,you left me smiling. Bonding with our children is really important ❤❤

  • @royserunkuma118
    @royserunkuma118 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you guys, let's wake up as parents, this world is going nuts in all corners

  • @rinahkayz9508
    @rinahkayz9508 9 месяцев назад +14

    Mbu even on my wedding i will not dance 😂😂😂naye Ruth I like the mother nd dota talks full of fun nd positive vibes ❤❤Parents we should always make our children to be our n.1 friends see this beautiful family Mash'Allah.

  • @tumainigrace8696
    @tumainigrace8696 7 месяцев назад

    Wow I thank God for my dad who throughout my childhood used to tell me that I am very bright and beautiful and it kept ringing in my heart till now❤

  • @JOURNEYOFELEGANCEUG.
    @JOURNEYOFELEGANCEUG. 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you Ladies ❤

  • @rosenantale2800
    @rosenantale2800 9 месяцев назад

    I like her sound mind moreso wen she said none is safe really true and making our kids friends is more important n helps dat a child doesn't shy away from you and can easily confide in u incase of anything. Thx mom n baby Hanisha

  • @theopisternakiwu3557
    @theopisternakiwu3557 9 месяцев назад

    Thanks dear M and D it's true lily I miss my own God bless you

  • @scoviamasika-su2xk
    @scoviamasika-su2xk 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks for this show,bannage I also met a friend's child in act these where young boys of around five to six years but the parents never minded,parents bannnage let's really be serious on this .Big up to Ruth and the daughter

  • @forestosama8191
    @forestosama8191 8 месяцев назад

    Thanks for the show miss Ruth you're abrave woman

  • @Shifah-sharifah
    @Shifah-sharifah 9 месяцев назад +2

    Wawooo beautiful

  • @nakanjakkodorothy2032
    @nakanjakkodorothy2032 9 месяцев назад +1

    Webaale nyo bambi Ruth ,emboozi ne muwawo nyinakyengifunyeemu

  • @prossynamukasa5507
    @prossynamukasa5507 8 месяцев назад

    Thank u so much mukyala wa'bomutima ad daughter

  • @namaaalwamary4842
    @namaaalwamary4842 9 месяцев назад +2

    Wawooo l love the combination here mums love

  • @justinekissiti6489
    @justinekissiti6489 8 месяцев назад +4

    Thank you, Ruth. For this opening conversation. I think we just need to agree that times have changed. Let's talk to our children. My jajja says not even a father should shower the daughter.

    • @justinekissiti6489
      @justinekissiti6489 8 месяцев назад

      About the boyfriends Nisha. It's okay to tell mum. Coz when we are in love we tend to miss the red flags. Me I was in love with my.mom all the time... heart broken together. That instead of going to someone to seek wrong advise she would be the one to tell me

  • @eiasemusisi6548
    @eiasemusisi6548 8 месяцев назад

    Awesome talk

  • @prettyanitah4846
    @prettyanitah4846 9 месяцев назад +4

    The way am enjoying banage thanks for the mother and daughter conversations ❤

  • @nalubegakevin9031
    @nalubegakevin9031 9 месяцев назад +7

    I am feeling happy to see this bond between mum and daughter ❤❤

  • @mbabazidoreen6678
    @mbabazidoreen6678 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you madam Ruth ❤🎉🎉

  • @user-pl2lh7ix4c
    @user-pl2lh7ix4c 9 месяцев назад

    Oooo wow .thanks for that advise mummy

  • @glsflorahflekerntuuyozange
    @glsflorahflekerntuuyozange 9 месяцев назад +2

    Mummy and daughter educative talk, mama Ruth I really want to talk to you

  • @zaharaperuth6366
    @zaharaperuth6366 9 месяцев назад

    Wow mother en dota I liked this conversation, it teaches me how to be friends with my children❤❤

  • @stellahnicksnamakula3882
    @stellahnicksnamakula3882 6 месяцев назад

    Thanks aunt Ruth ❤

  • @BabiryeFaizahbintMubarak
    @BabiryeFaizahbintMubarak 9 месяцев назад

    Wawooo thanks Ruth mukwano ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Moureensanyu
    @Moureensanyu 9 месяцев назад +7

    Ilove this bond ❤ I wanna go how to start being with my girl coz she is turning 9yrs soon i really want to bond with my girls iwant to be their best friends ❤❤❤