I GAINED ALL MY WEIGHT BACK AFTER LOSING 60 LBS

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  • Опубликовано: 1 ноя 2024

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  • @KaylaJayxo
    @KaylaJayxo  2 года назад +321

    I am just BLOWN AWAY by all of you sharing your stories and all of the love and support, thank you😭❤

    • @chandlerbingbong5773
      @chandlerbingbong5773 2 года назад +10

      Don't try to chase the "high." Take it one day at a time. Find what triggers you. Write down how you feel daily. You can still order food, just order different food. Try to order a healthier version of what you usually order.
      Don't fixate on your old photos, they can be a trigger.
      work on more non-scale goals.
      Try not to isolate yourself, it's okay to not do it on your own.
      You have this.

    • @Elite_Employee
      @Elite_Employee 2 года назад +2

      Try working your way up to do water fasting. I lost a total of almost 48 pounds in less than two months. I had to do it in cycles though as the first attempt was a fail.
      What I did first was attempting to one full day without food just water. I ended up breaking my fast 18 hours in. At first I got headaches and felt low key dizzy because I guess my body was so used to getting fed junk constantly it wasn’t used to being empty.The next few days I tried it again and was able to complete 24 hours. Eventually was able to stair step my into doing 2,3,4,5 all the way to 7 days water fasting with just eating one lunch meal a day under about 1500 calories in between on the day I don’t fast. And this is all without hardly doing any exercise except the occasional 30 minute walk every other evening. As someone who probably never drank more than a bottle of water every few days I’m able to chug about a gallon of water everyday now I’m currently down to 164 and would ideally like to stick in the range between 135-140 lbs. fortunately now I can go a week without eating and have hardly any lust for food even when I cook meals for my family throughout the day.I built up enough mind power to resist the urge to break my fast. I haven’t felt off or dizzy like the first few tries when fasting probably because my body has adapted to fasting now.
      As of right now I feel like this is a better way of living. I feel so much better and I don’t have these crazy cravings for fast food anymore. I no longer have brain fog and able to think with alot more clarity and stopped taking my prescription for adderall for my adhd.
      I am by no means a health nut now but I used to eat at Taco Bell McDonald’s arbys chickfila etc a few times a day.. at my heaviest I was over 210 lbs and I’m only 5 ‘7 and I was on the verge of becoming morbidly obese. I hope I can keep the weight off

    • @chandlerbingbong5773
      @chandlerbingbong5773 2 года назад +1

      @@Elite_Employee I wouldn't recommend water fasting for anyone who is just trying to lose weight. It can lead to a cycle of binge eating and restriction.

    • @bartender4877
      @bartender4877 2 года назад

      I can’t even lose 1 pound

    • @GuidetteExpert
      @GuidetteExpert 2 года назад

      Why dont you focus on having good healthy breakfast and dinner, I advice you to seek professional.

  • @amandatyler6050
    @amandatyler6050 2 года назад +1028

    You are not alone sis. I lost 45lbs while working from home, went back into the office, sitting all day. I’ve gained 50lbs.
    Just a set back. Have to find a new routine. Stay positive sis. 💕✨

    • @iveylock7982
      @iveylock7982 2 года назад +20

      Ha, I’m just the opposite. I had lost 30, and gained it all back while working from home. #weGotThis! 👍🏽

    • @sylviad8330
      @sylviad8330 2 года назад +2

      I did the EXACT same thing Amanda!

    • @kekeunlimited
      @kekeunlimited 2 года назад +10

      Girl...same! I was slimming down looking goodt lol then once I returned to work on a full time basis those 50lbs I lost got found real quick. I sit all day and it's been a struggle to get back on track. Not to mention, the stress of my job causes me to snack too. Just started over so we''ll see

    • @wello5839
      @wello5839 2 года назад +4

      Control control control...you must make workout a lifestyle not sporadic...

    • @gatestimonymiracle1302
      @gatestimonymiracle1302 2 года назад

      @@iveylock7982 yep

  • @kye6381
    @kye6381 2 года назад +589

    Girl I lost 50 and gained 105! 😑 I’m 20 pounds down so far.. we got this! We lost the weight once and we can do it again

    • @KaylaJayxo
      @KaylaJayxo  2 года назад +16

      Absolutely!❤

    • @singingjustice
      @singingjustice 2 года назад +4

      You got this Kye! Don’t give up. One step at. Time. 🎉👏🏾🙌🏾

    • @SnapszDuhh
      @SnapszDuhh 2 года назад +1

      Wow. How did that happen and over how long?

    • @unicornmadness6286
      @unicornmadness6286 2 года назад +2

      How did you gain 105 pounds and how long? Did you take a shot? That happened to my sister but she took some weight loss injections.

    • @kcpoodlesofpa
      @kcpoodlesofpa 2 года назад

      Great job! Inspiring

  • @25tjack25
    @25tjack25 2 года назад +816

    GIRL!! I lost 85lbs and gained back 100!! Ughhhh... I am currently back on track and now down 60lbs... I am so proud of you for making this video! You already know you can do this! I'm excited to watch your journey.

    • @queenrainbaker2060
      @queenrainbaker2060 2 года назад +3

      What did you eat to loose the weight??

    • @dwansac1
      @dwansac1 2 года назад +15

      She is definitely not alone! I lost over 100 pounds pre COVID and gained it back and then some! So disheartening, but I can and will lose it again! We got this girl!! ❤️💪🏾

    • @Justin-li8sx
      @Justin-li8sx 2 года назад

      @@queenrainbaker2060 eat only protein and fat for a week and 0 carbs. All your waste will be pee. You gonna lose 8 lb of water weight (fat). You only got to work out if you eat a gram or more or carbs otherwise be lazy and enjoy the hack. If you got the hunger pains and got to eat a lot go buy 4 lb of shrimp and peel and grill eat it all day as much butter you want you going lose weight but you eat one g of carb your body going into storage mode

    • @25tjack25
      @25tjack25 2 года назад +11

      @@queenrainbaker2060 the first 20lbs I lost by not eating meat and no carbs (bread, rice, potatoes, chips, muffins, fries, etc). After that I just started eating less food in general. I eat out at restaurants and fast food every day, so I started cooking more at home. Smaller meals and of course no snacks

    • @ms.miwitdatbul520
      @ms.miwitdatbul520 2 года назад +8

      I lost 35 pounds and then Covid hit and I gained 60. I really needed this video.

  • @Miaaaaamia
    @Miaaaaamia 2 года назад +387

    I feel like you being so transparent makes me support you even more. It took a lot of courage for you to come on here and tell us that you’ve gained the weight back. Keep going girl you have our full support 💕💕💕

    • @KaylaJayxo
      @KaylaJayxo  2 года назад +7

      Thank you so much!!🤍

    • @ldkea05
      @ldkea05 2 года назад +6

      @@KaylaJayxo I hope you see my previous comment .... I'll say it 1000 times ... you are not alone, and you got this 💪🏽💪🏽

  • @simonewade1406
    @simonewade1406 2 года назад +245

    I’m only 5 seconds in, I just wanted to say I watched your weight loss videos for the first time just a few days ago and was wondering where you were as of today. Girl thanks for coming on and being HONEST. I’m sure you will be able to do it again. We all fall off, we just have to get back up. You’re so beautiful! 💕

    • @KaylaJayxo
      @KaylaJayxo  2 года назад +5

      Thank you!!💕

    • @destinixshakur
      @destinixshakur 2 года назад +1

      Very real of her to make this kind of video

    • @MishaMarieXX
      @MishaMarieXX 2 года назад

      Agreed. I respect this video 100%

  • @CupcakeKaylah
    @CupcakeKaylah 2 года назад +233

    I can REALLY relate to this. I still see myself 50 pounds lighter than I am, and it’s not until I see a photo of myself that I’m gutted.

    • @queenkoi
      @queenkoi 2 года назад +15

      Lol I know that feeling. I still feel like my pre baby size and then I see photos and feel like 😱! Working on it but it's so slow 🐌

    • @JennyinJanuary
      @JennyinJanuary 2 года назад +4

      Same here !! It’s so crazy

    • @TheLoveweaver
      @TheLoveweaver 2 года назад +4

      Same.

    • @user-lp4wk8hb7u
      @user-lp4wk8hb7u 2 года назад +6

      I am surprised every time I see my reflection. I still think I am in shape like I was my whole life until menopause during quarantine. Struggling daily to exercise and eat right, but just gaining weight whenever I lose a few pounds, I gain more back.

    • @DEEJC1211
      @DEEJC1211 2 года назад +3

      I so relate to this as well, and I love taking pics, but it was when I really saw the extra weight I gained back....ahh, challenging

  • @ruthgeorges25
    @ruthgeorges25 2 года назад +132

    you're so raw for making this video. I notice that a lot of weight loss RUclipsrs never make an update video afterwards and your transparency is refreshing. don't lose hope, it happens to all of us! I was 110lbs then covid hit and I ate my way up to 180lbs; you are not alone and weight gain/lose is a journey we all face :)

  • @sarahmonique5321
    @sarahmonique5321 2 года назад +88

    I was actually VERY worried about you!!! I was wondering what happened you. Idgaf about any weight loss or gain, I'm just glad you're still alive! 💚💚💚💚

    • @KaylaJayxo
      @KaylaJayxo  2 года назад +14

      I NEVER wanted anyone to worry😭😭 I feel so bad, thank you for your support it means so much❤️️

    • @sarahmonique5321
      @sarahmonique5321 2 года назад +1

      @@KaylaJayxo 💚💚💚

  • @living2liveagain818
    @living2liveagain818 2 года назад +106

    When you said that seeing the bigger you in the mirror and never feeling like that is you, I completely felt that. I’ve always felt the same way. When I finally lost the weight, I actually felt like I’ve always felt like I should feel. I’m back to that other place because I gained a lot of it back, but will be working to lose it again. Just wanted you to know that you’re not alone in those feelings and if you’re weird, then we are weird together❤️

  • @selenadesanti4920
    @selenadesanti4920 2 года назад +49

    This video was so relatable… the title really resonated. I’m not on a weight-loss journey per se but I am on a journey to build my savings and better my money management. It got to a point where I paid off 10k in debt, saved up almost 5k and was doing overall very well. All of a sudden my mental switched and I literally reversed all of my progress…. Now I’m back in debt with no savings. But I’m very grateful it happened and it showed me that I still have a lot to work on within myself. Wishing you the best. Life always ebbs and flows

  • @Thatslaw
    @Thatslaw 2 года назад +79

    People are right there with you. Trust me. I was getting sooo small then gained back 50 lbs, lost 20 of it and gained back some of that too. Something spiritually is causing this attack. But the good part is, YOU DID IT BEFORE. You can do it again and it will be better. Me also

    • @KaylaJayxo
      @KaylaJayxo  2 года назад +6

      YES!! We can do this!

    • @crybaby3710
      @crybaby3710 2 года назад +9

      whenever im not happy, with myself or life in general, it's always goes back to the spiritual.
      if I start over obsessing ab food or my body the only way I've ever gotten it to stop was praying that God would take those thoughts away, and he always does!! i just have to keep knocking
      I just said I prayer for you pretty! i hope you get everything in life you want 💗💗💗

  • @highlyfavoredMG
    @highlyfavoredMG 2 года назад +61

    I completely understand what you said about not seeing yourself the way you are.I even see myself at a healthier weight in my dreams,because I knew what I looked like when I was smaller.

    • @jasmyneperryman9629
      @jasmyneperryman9629 2 года назад +6

      100 percent can relate to this I need to become the version of myself I invision in my head don't even recognize myself in pictures with friends and family anymore

  • @jasminechatmon4704
    @jasminechatmon4704 2 года назад +156

    Proud to see to you back sis! No matter the setback you got this! Im on this journey with you!!! God first and the rest will fall in place!

  • @TriAngleMassage
    @TriAngleMassage 2 года назад +79

    I want to thank you for your vulnerability and transparency. This is thee most relatable video EVERRRR!! I appreciate you. I lost 50 pounds and gained 60!! 😩 As a former fitness instructor, I’ve been ashamed to the point I get mad when people take pictures. I also get mad when people still know who I am under my mask lol …
    OMG .. has it been difficult this go round to release the weight? Not being aligned with who you’re supposed to be, I FELT THAT! Same!! Thank you for your truth, it allows those of us to do the same, maybe lol ❤️❤️❤️

    • @queencupcake09
      @queencupcake09 2 года назад +1

      Who is taking pictures?? Why can't people know who you are after the weight gain??

    • @TriAngleMassage
      @TriAngleMassage 2 года назад +1

      @@queencupcake09 I never saw this question.. for “me”, it was out of embarrassment, pain. It feels like failure unfortunately

  • @KandiDaGoddess
    @KandiDaGoddess 2 года назад +21

    I lost 70lbs and gained 90 back😫. I just restarted my journey in April and I'm down 20lbs as of today. Thankyou for sharing your story, we fall down but we get up!

  • @lakingdriagrandison6746
    @lakingdriagrandison6746 2 года назад +21

    Don’t be ashamed we all go through these times. You got this Sis you will get back on track. Convenience eating is a whole thing and the consequences sneaks up on you. Your not crazy, you see who you are supposed to be and you will get back! You got this, don’t diet just make lifestyle changes!

    • @KaylaJayxo
      @KaylaJayxo  2 года назад +2

      Thank you so much 😭🤍🤍

  • @Mlle_Tanya
    @Mlle_Tanya 2 года назад +1

    Love your story babe. All the best with whatever you choose to do. You deserve true happiness, live it boldly

  • @leelee6850
    @leelee6850 2 года назад +23

    I’m seeing this 2 months after you posted this and it couldn’t have come at a better time. My weight loss came to a screeching halt after I experienced a back injury. Like you, I’d lost 60+ pounds and a ton of muscle. But once the doctors told me that I could no longer go to the gym, my eating went to hell in a hand basket. I doubt you’ll even see this but I’m hoping you got back on track and even if you haven’t, try not to bury yourself in shame and guilt. We will get back there eventually!

  • @NikkiGRocks4Ever
    @NikkiGRocks4Ever 2 года назад +1

    Kayla, I appreciate your honesty. Losing weight and keeping it off is not easy to do. Don’t give up. Believe in yourself. You lost weight in the past. You can do it again.

  • @kylabutler9851
    @kylabutler9851 2 года назад +7

    Yes, PLEASE share, we are ALL struggling to win this weight battle, It's just you are on line doing it ( So Brave) No need to be ashamed. Girl. thank you so much for being here for us!!!!

  • @misty214
    @misty214 2 года назад +6

    You definitely are not alone! 😘we have all been there! I’ve gained and lost same 20 lbs 20 times. So frustrating ! 😵‍💫🤦🏼‍♀️stay positive and you are so brave for updating I know that had to be hard. You go girl! ❤️you can get back on track.

  • @beendatgworl
    @beendatgworl 2 года назад +10

    Welcome back beautiful ❤ Nothing to be ashamed of, I'm so happy to see you again! You are a blessing, thank you!!

    • @KaylaJayxo
      @KaylaJayxo  2 года назад +3

      Thank you so much😭🤍🤍

  • @RoxiieSays
    @RoxiieSays 2 года назад +14

    Idk why this video made me emotional. Your transparency is so motivating and beautiful. You will reach your goal and your entire process already has and will continue to help others! Wishing you all the mental, emotional and physical strength that you need to continue on your journey! New subbie!

    • @KaylaJayxo
      @KaylaJayxo  2 года назад

      Thank you so much😭🥰

  • @Katiedora122
    @Katiedora122 2 года назад +20

    You're definitely not alone in this!! I actually lost 30lbs in 2019 between IF and just a busy lifestyle. My intention was to lose a total of 50lbs, but then I hit an extended plateau...which is when the pandemic hit, and I basically gained it all back by the end of 2020. And then I had to spend 2021 working on my mental health, but now I'm just beginning the next stage of my weight loss journey. My goal for this year is to drop that 30 again by getting back into my IF schedule, and hopefully some more intentional exercise. I know there's always ups and downs, but I appreciate your attitude!

    • @modernviewer
      @modernviewer 6 месяцев назад +2

      Your story sounds very similar to mines. Lost a lot of weight before the pandemic. Just now recovering from a major depression caused by the pandemic 3 years later. Ready to get this weight back down through IF. How has your journey been so far? Best of luck with everything 🎉

  • @MontanaGetAtMe
    @MontanaGetAtMe 2 года назад +2

    Hearing your story and seeing the truth in your eyes and body language is insane. Thanks for this cause this journey ain't easy. Feels better to know you are not alone.

  • @janelanicette3213
    @janelanicette3213 2 года назад +8

    New subbie! Your ability to be honest and truthful is so refreshing. I can relate to recent weight fluctuations and so I’m excited to follow your journey !

  • @natimarivelez
    @natimarivelez 2 года назад +4

    i love how honest you are here and you are beautiful! Glad you had the courage to come back. When I attempted...tried to start my youtube channel I would never post videos of myself bc I was so self-conscious about my weight. I waited until I lost 30 pounds to post any videos talking in front of the camera :( lol I still struggle with weight..I was born with this rare disorder/disease called fibular hemimelia so it's hard for me to stay so active without pain and inflammation. I started a wellness practice for other women living with inflammation to help them too. Sometimes I still struggle with "imposter syndrome" bc who would want my advice when I have the same struggles!! but it was time to GET OVER MYSELF and show up. You do that well. Keep it up

  • @native1181
    @native1181 2 года назад +12

    Girl don’t feel bad, I lost 75 lbs from 2017-2018, got sick in 2019 and gained 100lbs due to a medication and the cardiologist would not allow me to work out. I still ate clean but started drinking soda. I’m back in the gym now, these 100lbs are coming off!!!! I may struggle but I’m focused!

  • @jessicataylor7005
    @jessicataylor7005 2 года назад +1

    You are beautiful! Don't let this weight gain bring you down. I understand the weight gain struggle. No need to be ashamed of showing your gorgeous face! We got thus sis!

  • @SheBrewRoyal
    @SheBrewRoyal 2 года назад +17

    I immediately said to myself "good job" sarcastically bc babbyyyy I feel you on this. I lost 100lbs in 4months (I did caloric deficit and ran everyday) and gained it all back a year later. Oops. Thanks for sharing your story. I def feel less alone on this.

  • @sarahdemartin1183
    @sarahdemartin1183 2 года назад +10

    I’m actually trying to gain weight so I can’t relate but I wanted to watch to see the other end of weight change. I’m 16, 5’3 and I used to be 51kg but then I got down to 48kg when I got sick because I couldn’t eat my usual 2000 calories a day or lift weights. We got this girly 💞

    • @hervoice.account
      @hervoice.account Год назад

      I on the other hand I've never been above 45kg for all my life till now ..I'm currently 47 my highest 😅 and my goal is 50kg by the end of the year but m 21

  • @Leah_flowerzzz
    @Leah_flowerzzz 2 года назад +6

    Girl, I found your video and this is so relatable. Like others, after leaving the office and having a routine and now been working from home for 2 years, I gained 50 lbs and it’s been a struggle. Having health problems and all. I’m finally getting it together and down 7 lbs. Small number but I know if I keep it up the numbers will keep going down. Keep it up girl, you got this!!!

    • @ashleylewis1047
      @ashleylewis1047 2 года назад

      Congratulations on losing 7lbs 🥳🥳🥳

  • @LolaSemone
    @LolaSemone 2 года назад +11

    I’m sure this happens to a lot of other people to. But now you know you have the capability to do it since you’ve done it before. I’m also on a weight loss journey. We’re all in this together.

  • @mzskinner3706
    @mzskinner3706 2 года назад +77

    Thank you for this seriously......I was feeling so alone. I lost over 30lbs last year June.....now I gained back the 30 plus 15 more 🥺. And I totally get what you mean about how you see yourself. I don't even know where to start now.

    • @highlyfavoredMG
      @highlyfavoredMG 2 года назад +9

      My story! But been back on track and lost 26 so far

  • @micaelacollins934
    @micaelacollins934 2 года назад +4

    Definitely needed this! I’ve not only gained my weight back, but gained an additional 24 lbs (the heaviest I’ve ever been). Hearing your story encourages me to keep pushing, stop living in the past, and where I’m at now is temporary. Thank you for being inspirational ❤️

  • @jamilecerqueira8685
    @jamilecerqueira8685 2 года назад +7

    I’m in my room feeling like shit because I’ve gained 30 pounds in quarantine and I still couldn’t lose it. It’s really refreshing to see someone so open about the struggles of weight loss.

  • @CrypticJasmine
    @CrypticJasmine 2 года назад +1

    You are not alone at all! I’ve gotten down to 170 and now I am back to 245. Life is a roller coaster!

  • @deborahlockwood9035
    @deborahlockwood9035 2 года назад +53

    I just found you today for first time. And was wondering how you are doing with your journey.. I was 218 pounds ten years ago and I went down to 128. I gained a little bit off and on but never got back to 128 but I'm trying I'm about 148 right now I'm 61 years old so it's a little harder to get it off of me but I started walking and working out again and I'm going to do this and so are you

  • @meiganwoods65
    @meiganwoods65 2 года назад +2

    I’m glad you came back! ❤️

  • @marissalynn2826
    @marissalynn2826 2 года назад +30

    I lost 90 lbs a few years ago and ended up gaining 100 back 🤦🏼‍♀️ Now I’m a month into my new calorie deficit and down 18 lbs.

    • @lilliekeisha
      @lilliekeisha 2 года назад +1

      try intermittent fasting and low carb diet and weight training

    • @marissalynn2826
      @marissalynn2826 2 года назад +2

      @@lilliekeisha Thanks for the advice! I’m down 30 so far with low carb and calorie deficit 🙂

  • @Jennifer-ht9tv
    @Jennifer-ht9tv 2 года назад +2

    This happens to the best of us, your honesty is helpful for people to know weight-loss isn’t always permanent. Keep at it you’ll get back down to your goal in no time. Proud of your courage to share

    • @KaylaJayxo
      @KaylaJayxo  2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much 🥹🤍

    • @Jennifer-ht9tv
      @Jennifer-ht9tv 2 года назад

      @@KaylaJayxo thank you 🙏 😊

  • @unicornmadness6286
    @unicornmadness6286 2 года назад +7

    I'm in the same boat girl, I lost over 60 pounds back in 2019. Then the pandemic hit and now I've gained it all back. It's honestly depressing but I know if I did it once I can do it again.
    Great video BTW, keep it up you got this.

  • @slayqueen5996
    @slayqueen5996 2 года назад +2

    I never watched your weight loss videos but this is so helpful. This motivates me because it’s a reminder that life is a Journey. Continue on girl!💕

  • @kwill6518
    @kwill6518 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for being transparent!! I needed this encouragement and honesty to get back on track. We got this, sis.🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @christellezame3833
    @christellezame3833 2 года назад +9

    I know how you feel sis. I’m still struggling to even loose 5 pounds 😩. You look beautiful 🤩

  • @LittleMissSunshine721
    @LittleMissSunshine721 2 года назад +2

    I’m with you. I started losing weight in July 2021. I was almost 240, and felt just awful. I looked my absolute best in November 2021 weighing in at 203. I felt great and was on my way to being below 200lbs. Then, birthdays and holidays came and I ate all the cupcakes and heavy foods. I jumped back on the bandwagon shortly after and lost the holiday weight. Just last month (May 2022), I looked and felt really great. I don’t know what, but something triggered me and I gained so much weight- within a MONTH! I feel like a balloon. I haven’t gotten on the scale out of fear of what I will see. At the beginning, I thought I had this in the bag. But it’s so freaking hard, that sometimes I just cry. But I’m gonna get back. Now that I know I CAN do it, I just have to…do it. Bless you and thank you for being so open and vulnerable. Praying for your weight loss journey to be a successful and permanent one.

  • @AmandaDUBEhere
    @AmandaDUBEhere 2 года назад +10

    Girl thanks for sharing, I lost 70 pounds and gained them all back at more. I get how you feel💕

  • @TrulyTashyxo
    @TrulyTashyxo 2 года назад +6

    Weight gain or not I’m just happy you’re back! I enjoy your vids and honestly was worried about you. 💚

  • @Apples_forlife
    @Apples_forlife 2 года назад +4

    I'm really happy to see you back, I actually really appreciate you being real and letting us know what happened. I think a lot of people show their weight loss journey but don't show the slip up's or the battles they have to face. And as a young girl fighting weight issues, hearing you talk about gaining the weight back showed me that I'm not alone. And that even though it happened, it doesn't mean that you can't lose it again or that it's the end of the world. So I really thank you for this video! And We will continue to support you!💜

  • @TheLubiDiary
    @TheLubiDiary 2 года назад +2

    OMG Kayla! I was going to wait until the end of the video to comment but then you mentioned the pandemic and I can relate SO much. This kind of thing can happen at any time to anyone. For me, it had the reverse effect and I started eating more. I gained 30 lbs and now I'm starting over to lose the weight but keep it off and stay consistent. This aspect of it is purely mental. Thank you so much for sharing your story.

  • @Ami_Hime
    @Ami_Hime 2 года назад +4

    Gurl I've had this happen to me recently I even gained an extra like an extra 20lbs on top of that we need to change our lifestyles but we also gotta look at our mental health too because I'm an emotional and a bordam eater and it kills my damn weightloss
    We can do it gurl welcome back x

  • @fungishukie5516
    @fungishukie5516 2 года назад +2

    It happens to many of us. You learnt a lot by losing it and by gaining it. So you have all the information and experience. I believe in you. I have subscribed, cheering you on girl

  • @Heavy_AreandBe
    @Heavy_AreandBe Год назад +5

    Honestly I feel this word for word ! I came here just for the empathy plus my name is Kayla and I truly lost 30 and gained 60 and I’m trying my best to get to the mindset to wanting to loose weight , I stared mine by wanting to be more in love with me at 2019-2020 but like you I got happy and now I’m in a relationship and I’m struggling so bad to even appreciate my body

  • @jennychenprec
    @jennychenprec 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for being so genuine and transparent regarding your feelings and weight.
    I feel the exact same way how you described how you are not feeling this is the best version of yourself.
    I’ve gain about 35-40 pounds since 12 years ago and I still kept a lot of my old clothes because I know all the weight I’ve gained doesn’t belong to me.
    For the last 1.5 months, I’ve lost 15 pounds. I’ve worked hard to loose the fat and I still have 20 more pounds to go.
    I believe that if we are determined enough, we will be able to be the best version of ourselves in and out.

  • @sherarose-del
    @sherarose-del 2 года назад +3

    Let's appreciate how REAL she is! It takes a lot to courage and strength to do something like this.. It's not easy gaining back weight after you've worked so hard to get it off..And that's why we can relate to her cuz she is so inspiring.. Kayla you're strong! You're a queen.. Really appreciate you!👑💜🙏🏽🙌🏽

  • @gertrudeakosah5791
    @gertrudeakosah5791 2 года назад +1

    We’re all here to support you. Don’t get too hard on yourself sweetheart, this body has done so much for you. Just take it one step at a time

  • @highlyfavoredMG
    @highlyfavoredMG 2 года назад +29

    Kayla glad to get an update from you! In 2020 I started losing weight lost 30 and stopped and in 2021 I gained it back plus 15.I am back on the journey.It is a journey and there will be many learning, relearning,lessons etc...I am sure you learned from your weight gain and it will help you on the next journey.If gou did it before you can do it again.

  • @BlahBlahBlahful27
    @BlahBlahBlahful27 2 года назад +1

    I appreciate you so much for this video, I've gone through the same thing. I went through as much as you did in terms of being in a difficult headspace when gaining weight back. Doesn't change the fact that I enjoyed parts of my weight loss journey regardless if I gained it back. Exercise really makes you feel good, going on walks, almost all stomach issues I had diminished. I want to get it back to it without the intention of weight loss. To remember to do what is good for your wellness, and integrating habits in your life that is good for you. I'm happy you found the courage to post again, and know that there's nothing to be scared of. You are genuinely so beautiful, I hope nothing gets in your way from seeing that!

  • @aboutmillions
    @aboutmillions 2 года назад +4

    I lost 60lbs and gained 40 of it back after depression and 2 funerals. I'm back down 20 after healing from everything that happened, sending my love to you on your journey ❤️

  • @JeansGenes86
    @JeansGenes86 Год назад +1

    You’re absolutely gorgeous! I know it’s hard not to get down on yourself, but, you have to love yourself through each phase of your journey. Easier said than done, for sure, but, what’s the alternative really? Feeling bad forever? No. Find joy no matter what.

  • @von-chaemicole1160
    @von-chaemicole1160 2 года назад +8

    It’s ok you are very beautiful 🤩 and you will get back on track 🙌🏾🙌🏾👏🏾 BTW your hair is gorgeous ♥️

  • @lesleywillis3650
    @lesleywillis3650 2 года назад +2

    You don’t sound crazy. I feel the exact same way. I still envision myself when I was smaller. Ppl tell me to just accept the weight because I don’t look bad but it’s just not me. I don’t feel like myself. You look beautiful and I know you’ve got this. You’ve done it already.

  • @verenawilliams
    @verenawilliams 2 года назад +3

    I felt the exact same way and picked up a lot of bad habits prior to gaining weight aswell and they are so hard to stop, it’s a journey but we’ll get through it 🙏🏾 love from Ireland x

  • @winterfoxx6363
    @winterfoxx6363 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for posting this. I’ve been struggling with my regain for the past like 8-12 months and it’s been so difficult. I had lost 40 lbs. the last 10/-15 of it was during early covid.
    I’m up like 20 now and when I try to lose, I’ll get down 7 then crawl back up.
    Learning more about myself and trying to find my way again.
    Seeing this today makes me feel like I’m not alone. So again thank you for sharing x

  • @Chatterbx86
    @Chatterbx86 2 года назад +5

    I can 1000% relate to that feeling of not recognizing yourself in the mirror. When I was heavier, I didn't see myself at large. I still look at videos from before I lost the weight and can't believe I ever looked like that. I always saw myself as thinner. Dont feel alone in that, its definitely common

  • @beverlynoelle6941
    @beverlynoelle6941 2 года назад +1

    Welcome back Kayla and take all the time you need! Good luck on your journey! We will be with you virtually supporting you every step of the way!

  • @knockoutsister
    @knockoutsister 2 года назад +3

    You‘re not alone, i lost 26lbs (pretty happy about it) and then started gaining back 11lbs. I‘m 2 weeks back on my healthy diet, 4lbs down so far. WE CAN DO THIS!!!

  • @giovannaj1981
    @giovannaj1981 2 года назад +2

    I’m so happy I came across this video. I lost 100 and gained it back over a span of 3 years. I’m back at the weight loss again. I’m down 30 now. This was something I needed to see. It’s okay to start all over again. You did it before and you can do it again. Thank you for sharing and being real. You got this!

  • @hmstore8
    @hmstore8 2 года назад +4

    Happy to see you back Kayla and hey things happen we hit a rough patch just don’t let that rough patch define you as a person. 💕
    PS: can you do a tutorial on you hair it so pretty.

    • @KaylaJayxo
      @KaylaJayxo  2 года назад

      Thank you so much🤍, and yes I can

  • @blaakcoffee
    @blaakcoffee 2 года назад +1

    You’re sooo beautiful regardless of your size!

  • @rizeuse
    @rizeuse 2 года назад +6

    You're human dont be hard on yourself 💜💜💜💜

  • @Alice864u
    @Alice864u 2 года назад +2

    Such an important Story! I feel like this could happen to everybody. I can also relate to this feeling of not seeing myself with my current weight in the future. Thanks for sharing☀️🙌

  • @KrystalNicole
    @KrystalNicole 2 года назад +13

    I am so proud of you for having the courage to share this. I know how hard it can be to get in front of the camera and share something so vulnerable when you know others have "expectations" of you. I have full faith you will do it again and maintain this time. I am on the same journey and whew it aint easy lol

  • @Kimberlyshelene
    @Kimberlyshelene 2 года назад +1

    Love the transparency! It's a journey and take it easy you got this 💪🏾

  • @diamondzonmywrist
    @diamondzonmywrist 2 года назад +3

    Pretty much everyone here understands & relates to this struggle & we have soo much respect for your honesty & transparency. We stand with you❤️ let’s do it together ❤️❤️ New subbie!

  • @MichelleKL143
    @MichelleKL143 2 года назад

    Omg I’m new here! Just the way she’s talking, she really seems like a real kind and genuine person! Thank you for being real about this!

  • @marciaholmes591
    @marciaholmes591 2 года назад +3

    I lost 85 lbs in 2016, kept it off until COVID. I've gained 40 lbs in 2 years. I'm so embarrassed at this point

  • @wizardofahhhhhhz
    @wizardofahhhhhhz 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for your transparency. Losing weight and keeping it off is HARD- both mentally and physically because of our body’s set point. The back and forth of weight loss and weight gain is why I finally got gastric sleeve surgery. Don’t feel ashamed, what happened to you is absolutely normal. Wishing you the best on your journey ❤️❤️

  • @cmapp1969
    @cmapp1969 2 года назад +3

    i remember the first time i saw your videos, you were doing hair I think, you are a very beautiful person. I can tell you have a very beautiful spirit. You can do it. You just have to stick with it.

    • @KaylaJayxo
      @KaylaJayxo  2 года назад

      Thank you so much 🤍🤍🤍

  • @Maemaarie
    @Maemaarie 2 года назад +2

    You’re not alone , I got my weight down to 190 , gained it all back now I’m 240 again and setting new goals for myself. It’s definitely a struggle I don’t feel like myself , but I’m working to keep my weight off the right way this time . You’re not alone 💜

  • @ChrissyGotTheCoils
    @ChrissyGotTheCoils 2 года назад +5

    I went through the same thing, losing 20 & gaining 10. I am now on the WW program & prayer 💜

    • @KaylaJayxo
      @KaylaJayxo  2 года назад +1

      How do you like WW so far?

  • @pascaleo3615
    @pascaleo3615 2 года назад

    It takes a lot of courage to be transparent, the struggle is real 😒. Been there. Keep going you've got this.

  • @vickywilson1023
    @vickywilson1023 2 года назад +3

    So I completely agree with not recognizing your own body… I see pics or days I look in the mirror and can’t believe it’s me. I was watching a movie and there are 2 woman talking, another woman walks by and one of the woman goes ‘is that my body?’ And I related to that so much! I would love to hear more about your journey, I’ve struggled with my weight my whole life and about to start a sugar free challenge.

    • @KaylaJayxo
      @KaylaJayxo  2 года назад

      I will definitely do updates about my journey. What was the movie, if you don’t mind sharing? Good luck with the challenge!!🤍🤍

  • @lucianat9494
    @lucianat9494 2 года назад

    Girl, thankyou for posting this from the BOTTOM OF OUR HEARTS

  • @ldkea05
    @ldkea05 2 года назад +3

    Looka herrrrre them pandemic pounds ain't a myth.... it's hard af!!!! Keep your head up, start out with small, attainable goals. You are NOT alone ..... from 217 to 169 (prior to pandemic) and now back at 215..... chiiiiillle I get it got it DONE! Now, back at it again 🫡🫡 it's time ... and the emotional space makes a BIG ass difference. YOU GOT THIS SIS 🤗🤗🤗🤗

    • @modernviewer
      @modernviewer 6 месяцев назад +1

      Your story sounds very similar to mines. Lost a lot of weight before the pandemic. Just now recovering from a major depression caused by the pandemic 3 years later. Ready to get this weight back down through IF. How has your journey been so far? Best of luck with everything 🎉

    • @ldkea05
      @ldkea05 6 месяцев назад

      @@modernviewer I am wishing you the best .... as far as my journey, it's funny I'm reading my comment I made a YEAR ago when I was still in disbelief, but I am happy to say I have made it almost back to my regular weight ~170, and maintaining. It HAS NOT been easy but I just keep at it, fall off the wagon, get back on track as soon as I can. And yes, I learned the hard way that I have to HAVE TO keep my emotions in check as much as I can. That had a major impact to the process. Good luck to you 💪🏽☺️

  • @chelseabrown9716
    @chelseabrown9716 2 года назад +1

    Definitely been here! Best thing I learned about weight loss is to do the things you can continue doing long term/for life, lifestyle changes to help the getting it off and keeping it off. But you’ve done it once, you can do it again! 🥳

  • @brooklynredbird3298
    @brooklynredbird3298 2 года назад +3

    It's ok. It happens. I lost 35 pounds and it all came back (and a little more) during the pandemic. I freaked out when I weighed myself and I was 170. I can completely relate to not recognizing yourself in pictures. It's awful. You can do it :)

  • @family66937
    @family66937 2 года назад +1

    Yay you're back def rooting for you! Life happens and you sharing your story makes you even more relatable you got this!

  • @lucky-hd1yv
    @lucky-hd1yv 2 года назад +3

    To truly master weightloss it's not just about watching the scale and clothing size go down... it's about mastering nutrition and your psychological relationship with food.
    A support group and licensed psychologist might be needed.

    • @KaylaJayxo
      @KaylaJayxo  2 года назад +1

      I really need to get look into that. Thank you!

    • @bloodorangemoon
      @bloodorangemoon 2 года назад

      I’ve lost 77lbs but have slowed over the past few months, definitely worried about yo-yoing back up. I see a therapist but have been thinking about finding a support group not related to my gym. Any tips on how to find one? Thanks for your comment lucky

  • @davisholman8149
    @davisholman8149 8 месяцев назад +1

    Kayla - don’t worry girl - everyone has struggled & gone up and down. WE ARE HUMAN - which means NOT PERFECT. Just call for a new start, because we know you can do. Thank you for being humble & sharing with others. YOU HAVE SO MANY CHEERING YOU ON!🥳

  • @christinabraithwhite5396
    @christinabraithwhite5396 2 года назад +4

    I feel you I lost 40 lbs. I had what I would have said a breakdown mentally from work and family stress started gaining. Then shortly after a new relationship and a baby. I gained what I had plus picked up an extra 40. I had never been that large and moving felt different.

  • @realityobserver7521
    @realityobserver7521 2 года назад +1

    Girl we all do this!!! I feel like everyone i know including me who has lost weight has gained it back and the that experience is a big learner and we do better each time after. I'm serious you got this!!

  • @Keeishhaaa
    @Keeishhaaa 2 года назад +5

    This happened to me, I lost my weight and gained it all back and more. Now I have been struggling trying to get back to getting the weight off. 😭😭😭

    • @KaylaJayxo
      @KaylaJayxo  2 года назад +1

      Its hard, I know but you got this!!

  • @LaurenJewel
    @LaurenJewel 2 года назад

    i adore u so much, thank u for being so open and vulnerable.❤️❤️❤️

  • @itspronouncedrahnay
    @itspronouncedrahnay 2 года назад +2

    I can relate to not believing that that’s you in the mirror or when you see pics. I gained over 100 lbs and I am in the process of starting another weight loss journey. I can’t fathom that I’ve gained all this weight and I still picture myself as smaller. Thanks for being transparent and sharing. Whoever is on this journey…we got this!

  • @ranesapye9336
    @ranesapye9336 2 года назад +1

    Kayla Jay still inspires me to loose wait and you can do it again 🥰

  • @whitneyraj7719
    @whitneyraj7719 2 года назад

    You got this girl! The most important thing is that mentally you are ok and that you don’t give up on yourself ! New subscriber 💕💕💕

  • @akuasalaam490
    @akuasalaam490 2 года назад

    Many of us have and are there!!!! Thank-you for the transparency!!!! Sending love and good vibrations sis!!!!

  • @mathildahthabana5500
    @mathildahthabana5500 2 года назад +1

    You are not alone my darling. I lost weight before and gained it back again. In the process of loosing again. Maintenance is a nightmare, don’t worry, we in the same boat. The most important thing is not to give up and keep on doing it all over again🤗❤️