UNDERSTANDING BITTERNESS - How Bitterness Develops by RC BLAKES

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  • Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024
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Комментарии • 152

  • @Serenity5
    @Serenity5 5 лет назад +21

    I had 2 strokes and 4 blood clots. I was in my brain. I had to learn how to walk and talk all over again. At the time I was in a 5yr relationship with a(didn't even know they existed) narcissist. Needless to say he let me know everyday what a burden I was to him. All the friends I thought I had....I am still recovering. I prayed for God the other day to take this pain and anger out my heart! BAM!!! Here's your video!! I'm subscribed thank you, brother😂😘💕💜💞💞💞💖💖💯💯💯

    • @ARS-fn6px
      @ARS-fn6px 2 года назад

      And its the same men who expect women to be "ride or die".

  • @angelaouya3767
    @angelaouya3767 5 лет назад +15

    You've lost weight
    You look good pastor
    I'm struggling with bitterness and it prevents me from experiencing the fullness of the joy of the LORD.
    Thanks for the word

  • @TheFactsofLife237
    @TheFactsofLife237 5 лет назад +21

    Bitterness keeps you bound! Release and restore your soul! Great message Pastor Blakes!

  • @elisevelasco8014
    @elisevelasco8014 2 года назад +2

    I chose to specifically watch this episode because my narc husband (we are not together anymore) had been calling me bitter and after listening to Bishop Samuel Blakes' (😊) teaching on the subject, I was convicted and texted an apology to my husband. He is a narcissist who has hurt me deeply countless times with his womanizing, verbal and physical abuse, abandonment - all the wretchedness that goes with being married to a narc. Most Christian materials online strongly advice against praying for the hopeless reprobate which has been very discouraging for me. I have been seeking the Lord's counsel on this because I just can't accept that my narc husband is doomed to hell. Needless to say your story on the covert narcissist whom you helped was a clear confirmation that indeed, there is hope for my husband and that I should continue to unceasingly pray for his salvation and deliverance. I praise Jesus for this message and for you Bishop Blakes!!!

  • @flowerlm47
    @flowerlm47 5 лет назад +9

    Aloha Pastor Blakes!
    I always love your teachings, but this one really hit home for a variety of reasons. I could feel your heart as you spoke about your testimony, and how far God has brought/ is bringing you. I could feel tears behind your words. Not tears of sadness, but of gratefulness! You are a wonderful teacher, and I truly appreciate you. God bless you and your family!❤️🌈😊🏝

  • @jadacruz5284
    @jadacruz5284 5 лет назад +61

    I've been subscribed to your channel for a month now. When you upload a new video, I like it before i even watch it because i know it's going to be dynamic. Thank you for this!👌❤ @rcblakes

    • @kp1055
      @kp1055 5 лет назад +4

      Wow! Lol, I thought I was the only one♡♡♡

    • @newday8888
      @newday8888 5 лет назад +1

      Ashley W, SAME!

    • @19chique
      @19chique 3 года назад +1

      Me too! I just immediately hit the thumb

    • @rays2542
      @rays2542 2 года назад

      Same 🙋🏽‍♀️lol

  • @RT-gu3kc
    @RT-gu3kc 5 лет назад +39

    The language comes out and its not always good. Some people bring out the worst in a person. May God help me!!. Please pray for me..

  • @franstylz08
    @franstylz08 5 лет назад +9

    I want to be free! I’m petitioning the courts of heaven because my eyes have been opened to what has and continues to sabotage my life. Pray for me please.

  • @dawnchang5296
    @dawnchang5296 5 лет назад +3

    I have been very bitter for very long god has been helping me to work it out I grew up with a alcoholic dad physically and verbally abusive and I became a alcoholic got sober now saved but working things out of myself now as a Christian

  • @msknucb1149
    @msknucb1149 5 лет назад +17

    I love your teachings...such wisdom! Bless you sir!

  • @guadalupehinkle368
    @guadalupehinkle368 3 года назад

    I want to thank you for your time and your videos. In which only by God's divine guidance, I was directed to your channel. I had been broken down by my husband walking out of the marriage or only 14 months. I have been diagnosed with 6 chronic illnesses which have no cure. But I know better the best Doctor is upstairs. Bottom line with your videos I have been able to understand and learn, what other people in the medical group could not explain to me, or even been talked about. I appreciate you and God for his Divine intervention in my life. God bless you and your family Pastor R.C Blakes

  • @buzzingbee9499
    @buzzingbee9499 5 лет назад +2

    Thank you, pastor I have been dealing with this. I have bitterness with Mexicans. My ex narcissist left me for one and they've always seemed to be racist of me. My ex used to say he didn't like them and I would say that's wrong even though my personal experiences were bad also. Yet he left me for one. Pray for me and my anger that is not fair to judge.🙏💞

  • @knowthyself31
    @knowthyself31 5 лет назад +3

    Pastor Blake, I love your teaching and your ability to reveal the word with such depth, poignancy, and simplicity. My issue is not with people. I know that we all have shortcomings and all need forgiveness. I struggle though with how much pain is allowed to be inflicted on people and these now wounded people are responsible for making men and hurtful people feel better. I dont know how to move on.i am confused. I want to sever ties, but" the children need their father. In the case with me my 85 year old mom now has to face with the fruit of my dad's infidelity. I was seven years old when I caught him with a woman he in bed that was not my mom. My mom gave so sacraficially
    She was instrumental in giving to her in laws. She helped them to get into school and gave so much. Yet I'm bitter when I want to disassociate. Help!

  • @natividadmontanez1587
    @natividadmontanez1587 5 лет назад +13

    Thank you for taking your time to make this video God Bless you Always 🙏🏽

  • @caenterprisellc6922
    @caenterprisellc6922 2 года назад

    Heartbeat on the words drop-in, bitterness, registration, crack, society, second thing, many, see, use, get through, connected and very light heartbeat on the word Enfamil during the commercial.

  • @flowerpink33
    @flowerpink33 5 лет назад +2

    God bless you Pastor Blakes. We love ❤️ you. I love ❤️ you. 🤗🙏🏾 thank you for sharing The Heavenly Father’s wisdom with us.

  • @nuddlesneatnook7569
    @nuddlesneatnook7569 5 лет назад

    Great message! I am currently recovering from a narcissistic relationship and I have a one year old. I feel an immense pressure to get rid of my anger and bitterness before she gets to old. Everyday I am trying to heal myself. My current no contact is only two weeks long and I am trying to be obedient about it this time because I know what God wants me to do. I just really pay he will respect it long enough for me to get to a place I can remain peaceful. I don’t want to keep her from. Him, but right now I’m keeping him from ME. It’s best for
    Me and her.
    I can’t wait until you come anywhere lose to Raleigh, NC!!!!

  • @tnt01
    @tnt01 Год назад +1

    Narcissists can gain self awareness, but they do not change, only get worse with age.

  • @jenniferpotter8010
    @jenniferpotter8010 5 лет назад +1

    I knew I should click your video. I tried to scroll pass your video, but God....
    You’re video played anyways. I listened and felt everything you said. Thank you and thank God

  • @angelinamcclain9256
    @angelinamcclain9256 2 года назад

    My lord my lord thank you Rev. Blake I can relate from the beginning to the of this message and all in the middle. Glory be to God

  • @tokichovaughn5484
    @tokichovaughn5484 3 года назад

    Eloquently spoken..much needed.. thank you for your obedience.

  • @thembigwala8563
    @thembigwala8563 5 лет назад

    May God bless you for the healing u bringing to my life with your message today. I had a child out of wedlock when i was in church and i felt like an outcast in church. I was so angry for the longest time of my life. I wanted nothing to do with church folks and found them hypocritical but i found that it was not only them i was running away from but God and mostly myself. And i couldn't become who God called me to be as ling ad i was running. God was teaching me forgiveness. I would love to hear your story. And would love to share my story i feel there is so many women who can benefit so they know they not alone. Bless u father

  • @patricejohnson3008
    @patricejohnson3008 5 лет назад +23

    Yes sir, you are teaching! Racism is learned. Kids are extremely intelligent.

  • @kimberlycarter5317
    @kimberlycarter5317 4 года назад +1

    Therapy Language...Love It!!

  • @naomihanna7028
    @naomihanna7028 5 лет назад +5

    T
    And thanks much for using the gifts God has invested in you to be such a great blessing to so many. To God be the glory!

  • @MeeKiLynN
    @MeeKiLynN 5 лет назад +1

    Thanks for this message again Pastor R C Blakes!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @antoinettegorman8833
    @antoinettegorman8833 5 лет назад +2

    Thank you so much paster Blakes. You have a beautiful soul. You really have so much empathy. I always look forward to your great knowledge may God bless you and your family.

  • @chania80
    @chania80 5 лет назад +1

    Thank you sir. This has really touched me. All the way from Kenya.

  • @jake1988h
    @jake1988h 4 года назад +1

    This helped me a lot. Greetings from Croatia.

  • @shantareid2770
    @shantareid2770 5 лет назад

    Wow,..."Toxic analysis of innocent situations",...has always happened to me. Listening to this explains why I could not listen to anyone when I was young; they were not there to stop, protect, or to defend me before, during or after the molestation. Trust who....? Listen for what...? What are they saying that's important...? Of course, bk then, girls were not important, they were not heard and they were not believed. And there was no name at that time for that type of event---not sure when the words molestation and incest came on the scene. Lastly, speaking of patience, a Counselor once told me that the man I would end up with would have to be very patient. She too understood that ridicule was not the answer. Thank you for this video and may God continue to bless you and yours.

    • @necheamaechi6499
      @necheamaechi6499 5 лет назад

      i too, have been in a toxic relationship were i gave everything to a narcissist.. at the end... he left
      but glory to God for his redemptive love

  • @mariedennis9337
    @mariedennis9337 5 лет назад

    This is the perfect topic for me to understand someone who is very bitter with me for no reason and I feel this person needs some serious help. I sent this topic to him and it will really help him and if it does help I will feel that I refuse to give up on him. It truly cannot do any harm because if it help in his every day life I will be truly happy. Thank you very much

  • @tracyusher9135
    @tracyusher9135 5 лет назад +1

    You are truly BLESSED and I THANK YOU for blessing us!! This is right on time, I swear you are talking to my soul!!! Keep doing what you do!!! God bless

  • @apayaqatuialii6286
    @apayaqatuialii6286 5 лет назад

    This is truly a blessing for me to stumble upon your video,
    I have listen to your videos while sleep n when I'm up during my down time n during my workout, You have spoke n share your experience n breakdown details of these lesson as a message that was deliver to me by You through the Spirit of The Most High,
    I was in a relationship of over 20 yrs n still struggling with letting go. N I'm beginning to find n seek the wisdom n knowledge with Understanding thru my pain nconsequen of it, I am requesting to have a session or a counseling so I can be able to have the support n be accountable for my own participate in this mess.. I'm starting a new journey n it's not easy. If there is an email that I can reached you. I would appreciate it much..
    Thank you for being a blessing n for being a servant of doing the work of God to those that are Hurting n need of healing..
    Blessings to you n your family.

  • @preciousmcfarland5265
    @preciousmcfarland5265 3 года назад

    I thank you and your beautiful wife for the teachings that y’all are bringing forth, it has blessed my soul. God bless you all❤️

  • @sunniski195
    @sunniski195 5 лет назад

    Amen Pastor, I so respect you and your proclaimed word!
    👏 I receive every teaching 📖and knowlege 🍃 you so humbly and graciously present on this platform that I am experiencing in the most unique way💕

  • @Deliverance_Breakthrough18
    @Deliverance_Breakthrough18 5 лет назад +4

    Amen! Good teaching, it's good seeing real life issues that many can identify with being discussed.
    -----------------------------------------------------
    John 10:10 The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.

  • @heathermixson1265
    @heathermixson1265 3 года назад +1

    I needed this today. Thank you.

  • @melodieshekia
    @melodieshekia 5 лет назад +3

    Thank you so much for this. I really needed it. ❤

  • @D.D.archive
    @D.D.archive 5 лет назад +1

    Incredible message!!!
    Thanks!!!

  • @jaredawishton7212
    @jaredawishton7212 5 лет назад

    Wow for that man to say he wants deliverance🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 And admitted that he was a covert Narcissist was nothing but the POWER OF GOD!

  • @Melissa-mm3ln
    @Melissa-mm3ln 4 года назад

    Very balanced viewpoint. I appreciate your ministry, Pastor, thank you!

  • @missdestiny7966
    @missdestiny7966 2 года назад +1

    Wow, I really needed this today❤️❤️👏🏽👏🏽 thank you Pastor

  • @GaminGawdess
    @GaminGawdess 3 года назад

    Pastor… whew this touched me at just the right time… thank you and bless you!!!!!

  • @lavernewilliams1983
    @lavernewilliams1983 5 лет назад +1

    Thanks Paster God bless you!!

  • @powerbelochka
    @powerbelochka 2 года назад

    Dear Pastor Blake’s! Thank you and your wife for sharing so much good and valuable information. Could your please talk more on the topic when all of your friends left you because u were needy as u said and what happened then. Something similar happened to me and I would like to hear more about it if you have the time for it. Thank you 🥰❤️

  • @seektruthitstheway9089
    @seektruthitstheway9089 3 года назад

    Thank you Soo very much for this teaching lesson. I think that I married my husband too soon, we have been married for 5 years now with much prayer and seeking THE MOST HIGH GOD concerning my husband and our union. I'm grateful for you and your wife for showing us how a marriage can be with GOD'S guidance.

  • @maideim5091
    @maideim5091 5 лет назад +3

    Thank you.

  • @lwarfield52
    @lwarfield52 3 месяца назад

    Wow..this is my first time seeing this 6/11/24. Thank you Bishop and First Lady Lisa. 🌷🌱🌿

  • @nisey2836
    @nisey2836 2 года назад

    Exactly n I don’t want her or anyone around me going through this

  • @MsSweets0211
    @MsSweets0211 5 лет назад +1

    You blessed me with a profound word yet again...Thank you!

  • @tixylixy
    @tixylixy 5 лет назад +1

    Excellent teaching as always.

  • @angelawest7738
    @angelawest7738 5 лет назад +3

    Good word

  • @indriadrayton1132
    @indriadrayton1132 5 лет назад +1

    Will repeat this video. Much needed for me.

  • @anointed1302
    @anointed1302 5 лет назад

    Thanks Pastor Blakes.....I really needed to hear this message!!!!!

  • @ladyt9169
    @ladyt9169 5 лет назад

    Pastor Blake..I've been hear many times I've seen it many times and I would Lv to see a change and I feel I repeat I feel like the whole world is still against me in all I do and say.

  • @speaklife9176
    @speaklife9176 5 лет назад +2

    Powerful word!!

  • @AntoinetteMPetty
    @AntoinetteMPetty 5 лет назад

    Thank you soooooo much. God di cleanse me and I'm thankful and at peace. I thank God for my personal relationship with Him. Amen

  • @levellelinadaniels
    @levellelinadaniels 5 лет назад

    Thank you 4 sharing the love, today I needed to hear that. 💝

  • @Autumn_Forest_
    @Autumn_Forest_ 4 года назад

    You are such a wise man. Thank you. ❤️🙏🏼

  • @theresacoston6790
    @theresacoston6790 5 лет назад +1

    Hi ,Bishop have enjoy your serman.

  • @grazieINmia
    @grazieINmia 5 лет назад +1

    That was good..Thank you Sir!

  • @Classy_Lady23
    @Classy_Lady23 5 лет назад

    Yes can’t wait to hear that testimony

  • @aquilab077
    @aquilab077 5 лет назад

    Wow this is a very good message! Lots of people should hear this.

  • @charmaineboquette3199
    @charmaineboquette3199 2 года назад

    Love you too ☮️☮️☮️✝️✨✨✨

  • @luisjimenez1889
    @luisjimenez1889 5 лет назад

    Thank you so much for your prayer

  • @danielasos2074
    @danielasos2074 5 лет назад +1

    Pls share your testimony Pastor!

  • @christineharris2199
    @christineharris2199 3 года назад

    I love this message I need it to I want peace to

  • @luisjimenez1889
    @luisjimenez1889 5 лет назад +1

    Thank you so much for your videos I love you too .but I need a better relationship with God but I feel lost in everything I do seems like bad choices I am calm but in my mind I have so many worries please help me.

  • @lalaandmom3391
    @lalaandmom3391 5 лет назад +1

    Thank YOU for the word.. I really felt the LOVE of GOD.

  • @Joycelang2495
    @Joycelang2495 5 лет назад

    Real man of god .💝💝💝

  • @christineharris2199
    @christineharris2199 3 года назад

    RCBLAKES I want what God gave you please pray on your time for me thank you

  • @ozzyoz5210
    @ozzyoz5210 5 лет назад

    Good teaching brother!

  • @angelinamcclain9256
    @angelinamcclain9256 2 года назад

    I thank you for the Invite to your big event coming you e mailed me. About Queen event. I am in philly

  • @Medabrown1985
    @Medabrown1985 5 лет назад +3

    I guess the dislikes were bitter.

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  5 лет назад

      Jermetra Brown They never fail😂🙏🏽

  • @aprilbeck2917
    @aprilbeck2917 5 лет назад

    Wonderful

  • @christineharris2199
    @christineharris2199 3 года назад

    I want to say this was God Amen

  • @TheFactsofLife237
    @TheFactsofLife237 5 лет назад +1

    Please list the dates for Fayetteville Ga . Thank you!

  • @listencarefully1497
    @listencarefully1497 3 года назад

    Gotta hear this message! My grandmother is bitter from whatever my grandfather did to her 50 yrs ago 😂

  • @alphaandomega1332
    @alphaandomega1332 5 лет назад

    Amen 🙏🏾

  • @Mrs32516
    @Mrs32516 5 лет назад

    I'm trying to purchase father daughter talk but it's out of stock amazon .when will it be available

  • @tajaicalip3825
    @tajaicalip3825 5 лет назад

    We should be better Parents at saying the White people I came encounter with. Or the Asians, Blacks, and Hispanics I was around. Any additional people cannot be added as an entire Race because no one has met an entire Race of any People. I am Black. I do not know ALL Black people. It's about changing our vocabulary. When I speak on the narcissist people. I make sure to list the professions that I encountered and the location which is Oakland, Ca. I will not be quiet for these people. They are the only ones who do not deserve a platform. I am far more intelligent to have a positive platform no matter what these unidentified narcissist are cackling about..

  • @bck12034
    @bck12034 5 лет назад

    Awesome sermon!

  • @iamKikiing
    @iamKikiing 2 года назад

    I sleep well at night

  • @itz_nathael3977
    @itz_nathael3977 3 года назад

    😅😁😂😅

  • @ThaDon144
    @ThaDon144 5 лет назад

    Wow today been crazy woke seen 666 came to your channel seen 144

  • @itz_nathael3977
    @itz_nathael3977 3 года назад

    😁😂😁😃😄😅🤗😇

  • @itz_nathael3977
    @itz_nathael3977 3 года назад

    😜😝😁😀😂😅😂

  • @lauracrumbly5320
    @lauracrumbly5320 5 лет назад +19

    Thanks, Pastor Blakes. These are powerful insights which are renewing my mind and heart of past hurts. God is real, and I know He cares and wants us at our best! Truly blessed

  • @marciahammond9735
    @marciahammond9735 5 лет назад +17

    You are a bright light in a dark world God Bless you sir

  • @lishadrivin6963
    @lishadrivin6963 5 лет назад +4

    I luv when you said"forgiveness is a CHOICE" IT'S HARD to forgive when you have been hurt!

    • @TheDollhouse95
      @TheDollhouse95 5 лет назад

      God is good, Hes always near the brokenhearted.

  • @christykumari
    @christykumari 5 лет назад +5

    Thanks for the video.. especially the email of coward narcissist..there is hope beyond science and research.l need to watch this video again and again.praying for deliverance of my family.watching from India.

  • @kangethewangui4185
    @kangethewangui4185 5 лет назад +6

    I needed this bitterness been eating me inside.

  • @narcabusevictimgermany9687
    @narcabusevictimgermany9687 4 года назад +3

    It’s so refreshing when a grown up man speaks through the word of Love and God and Light.

  • @taxtechnicians8939
    @taxtechnicians8939 5 лет назад +3

    This just came full circle for me! Bitterness is not just about relationships with people. Mine is bitterness over society pressures, expectations, disparity, being raised in a self-hate environment and paying black tax in the work environment. All of these involve other individuals, but not in an intimate relationship with me personally. Still, these experiences makes me bitter about certain elements of black-life period! And, this bitterness manifests itself by the way of anger and confrontation!

  • @gloriawalker5891
    @gloriawalker5891 5 лет назад +7

    Great man of God keep doing what your doing good word..

  • @KathyJacksonSanDiegoRealEstate
    @KathyJacksonSanDiegoRealEstate 5 лет назад +4

    Great videos.. I can relate to what you said about being left alone. Losing friends, etc. .. Thank you!

  • @speaklife9176
    @speaklife9176 5 лет назад +3

    I always share quotes from your books on my Facebook and Pinterest page. You are awesome!!

  • @joeylegodi3737
    @joeylegodi3737 3 года назад +2

    I am feeling myself getting bitter. I don't know why my life hast turned out the way it has, I am honest, work hard, show up, but i get nowhere. I'm not in the streets, I try to live a decent life, but i feel like i'm in square 1. People around me are thriving in marriage and relationships, getting financial blessings, and I am still at square 1. I'm getting older, I'm getting bitter because nothing ever works for me. I feel it changing me. I don't want to be bitter, i don't know how to accept my situation because i have tried changing it.

    • @tnt01
      @tnt01 Год назад

      How are things now?

  • @sharonakilah8876
    @sharonakilah8876 5 лет назад +2

    I’m crying so much. I needed this advice

  • @anabautista8071
    @anabautista8071 2 года назад +1

    1. The root of bitterness starts with a crack in the soul. 2. The root stems from a seed that is planted in that crack. 4. The seed eventually sprouts into visible evidence. 5. The fruit of the root produces negative consequences.