Real Families: Strengthening Parental Bonds
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- Опубликовано: 27 сен 2024
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Kai needs intensive longer term behavior therapy. He is harming animals at very young age. That is a big red flag. He is going to hurt his sister bsdly without it
I couldn't agree more. Red flag, big time!
Absolutely! I know mom might say that he going in time out less and Elizabeth says that with her conversation with him he is able to recognize that when he shoves his sister or the other children down he knows he goes on timeout…and that’s progress…but that still doesn’t change the fact that…you know
Aneesa’s parents talking in the quiet room was so sweet! ❤
Wasn't it! They have a great relationship
It was! It was sweet when he told her he liked her since ages ago. I suppose it's all very different really when you have an arranged marriage. But they seem to be getting on really well!
You know as soon as Sherry and her family gets home she's going straight back to putting locks on the kids doors. This should be a team effort with her husband. I don't understand why they aren't doing it together? I definitely don't feel like they should be going home yet.
That poor little girls psoriasis is more than likely not being helped by her diet. Instead of stressing about what you WANT her to eat they should be focused on what she SHOULD be eating to avoid potential trigger foods especially high carbs and anything overly processed. I don't think I have seen any raw fruit or veg and having nothing but custard creams is not doing her any good and is just lazy parenting - as seems to be by order to be on this show.
And I think part of the reason why Anita(i hope I spelling this right)got mad at her mother WASN’T over the cake…
I think it was because she was not only hungry and dinner wasn’t for another hour but also because she knew what was cooking. So yes I agree: the parents need to focus on what SHE will eat because at the end of the day: putting a trigger food on her plate and that’s it…isn’t going to solve her hunger/eating problem which is also why we see Anita bite her mother…when kids are that hungry…of course you see behavior problems
I feel like they do one or two activities and then all the sudden they're going home. I miss Tanya :/
I just would like to say thanks so much to these parents for facing issues, we all have, head on and for adjusting to what works long term for the benefit of their family. Such darling children!
The way he stomped that dragonfly made my heart drop 😥 I worry for that sweet baby girl 💔
He’s a serial killer in the making
@@juliamillikin118 without intense treatment by a specialist I'm afraid you are correct. At the very least someone highly abusive
Heartbreaking to see a one year old baby being abused like that. Wonder how old she was when her brother started abusing her. Only 3 years old and already killing their pets?!!! That boy needs to see a psychiatrist.
he didn't kill the pets, the mum got rid of them cos he was tormenting the pets
He didn't kill any animals. When his Mum said they disappeared she was speaking from his perspective because she rehomed the animals
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Okay. I understand. I thought he killed them.
@@nicinaude6189 I’m with you!😉👍He likely would’ve killed the pets or severely injured them if she hadn’t removed them. The kid definitely needs some psychological treatment like you said, you’re right on. :)
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I fully agree with you and Nici Naudè. That child seriously needs to see a psychiatrist asap. He is cruel and quite capable of killing his baby sister. He will definitely kill animals. The older he gets, the more dangerous he will become. I am praying that his mother's eyes will be opened so that she can see the real danger and get him the necessary help that he needs.
„This looks interesting (the book). THE end!“ 😆
Omg that boy also hurts animals he need more help than some TV show can give
Well said!
Exactly what I thought. Especially bc Mom told the fish/bird story & then he killed the dragonfly. They (therapist, "ppl in charge") should've caught on to that. That baby girl is in danger. I would hold her all the time too.
In other seasons Dr. Tanya was awesome & on point seeing what the families needed.
Kai shows zero remorse if he hurts his sister. He pushes her everytime he sees her. And a 2 or 3 minute timeout during which he gets more attention than his sister is in no way a deterrent to prevent him from brutalizing her further. I agree situation is more serious than how it's represented on the show.
I was speechless when he killed that Dragonfly. Doctor Taaanyaaaaa! ⛑
@@london_liv5539 right and the voice over is acting like hes helping it and being good
Could they really not see that coming??? The girl barely eats then they cut her a piece of cake and take it from her? Just cut a piece without her seeing it. Where are the damn psychologists when they're needed the most? But no, they think they are ready to go home tomorrow. 🤦♀️ Edit: And they just watched that bully, Todd (?) damn near kill the baby ( again) and just let it happen. This is so frustrating to watch!
I'm frustrated with their ignore the baby approach with that little boy, so he hurts his baby sister but the voice over while she is giving her daughter a moment of comfort says "she's forgetting the golden rule of not giving her too much attention" so a quick kiss and backrub after being violently shoved by a much bigger child is "too much attention"??? Wtf!
Meanwhile the little boy is going to learn that he can control his Mother into ignoring his sister by ... Hurting his sister?? 🤦♀️🤷 I understand he probably needs more one on one attention with his Mum to make him feel like he doesn't need to act out to get her attention but this really doesn't feel like the way to do it. Punishing a baby for being bullied and abused is only going to make things worse. I think Mum needs to make more of an effort to involve him in what she's doing when he is behaving himself, he tried to get her attention when she was in the kitchen and it didn't really work which is why he hurt his sister, his Mum then immediately stops what she's doing to discipline him but in his little mind any attention is better than no attention and so his tactic worked perfectly. She could have had him in there with her helping with what she was doing and the whole situation would have been avoided
@@earlyjicama4302 also him being locked in the kitchen with her the baby would be safe from him as well
I too waited for that little girl to kickoff over her chosen piece of cake immediately being taken away. From her perspective she was being offered cake to eat now then it's stipulated she had to eat her dinner first, which she hates.
Agree totally ! Docs they are not doing things properly
My thoughts exactly and the mother is like (oh he doesn't mean it) when he is clearly enjoying every second from the torturing of the baby, to the attention he gets from being in trouble. Unreal!
Unbelievable that "parents" would give a 3 year old choice of a slice of cake and then not allow her to eat it straight away whilst other small children are munching away on their slice. Expecting her to understand they will need to wait until after dinner (a rule the others needn't abide by) is just unrealistic and unfair.
Sherry the cake cutter should've cut her own kid's slices and then popped it back in the kitchen where not visable to any kids then discreetly told Anissa's mum to help herself when suitable for Anissa.
Also what's with her dad's stupid look when Anissa has lost the plot? A mixture of apathy and amusement. Very strange imo.
Well said. Unrealistic and unfair. Apathy and amusement.
I completely agree with you! Why even show her the cake if she can't have it yet? Then wonder why she's crying. Common sense.
Exactly, I'm not surprised at all at Anessia having a tantrum, i mean every other child was allowed cake except her, i mean even as an adult you'd be asking questions if you got excluded like that. for a three year old that was just cruel. none of the other kids had to wait until after dinner. i don't really get why Emma decides to give them puddings after lunch instead of dinner. i mean if the kids are put to bed in a calm manner they won't be hyper and antagonise their mum.
the other thing that weirds me out is the fact that Nasia was asking if she wanted to lick the fork, then anessia said no then the mum licked it, just wipe it with a napkin or something . Cherie really annoys me the way she speaks to her kids, i mean the commeny while she brushing Tamzin's hair about "if you act like a baby you get called it. I mean Cherie grow tf up! also Cherie is pregnant and she's drinking alcohol.
When Emma mentioned the fish & the bird did she mean that Kai actually had killed them or were they re-homed and taken away
@@hannahkerse9504 The narrator said it was a post dinner cake, so yes everyone else has finished their dinner. And the licking the fork was to show the little girl that it was ok to eat it, that it was food and not dirty. They were trying to get the little girl to lick it so mum was just showing her it was alright. That kid is old enough to understand what later is.
My heart broke for the little girl. Her mother is mean!
No way would I ever leave Ky alone with The baby. Bad advice to not show The Baby attention because the bad seed doesn’t like it. Sorry but I went through that as a child myself. The good child gets over looked. My older brother bullied me every chance he got. I’m 66 years old and it still bothers me sometimes.
same with me. my brother is evil to this day, and still enabled by parents in his thirties. he never moved out and is abusing his kids in their home. i have always done right by everyone and was never loved or accepted. who needs parents anyways when they only make your life worse!!
"The bad seed"..... c'mon!
These poor babies. They need so much love and understanding but the parenting advice is so outdated. Ignore the children, punish the children, reward eating meals with treats, witholding treats as punishment. I just want to hug all these poor children. No wonder they're so frustrated and upset and act out violently. If time outs worked so well, why is the behavior continuing and even escalating? When the parents connected with the kids (playing together, physical affection) the kids respond with better behavior, but the next day they're right back with punishment, yelling, physically grabbing the kids arms. Poor kids.
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The parenting advice is outdated because this is a old show from the 00s, most of these kids are adults now. These methods are no longer considered the way to go but this period of time was a stepping stone between the harsh, punishment and dominance based parenting of the past and what we currently know to be best practice. I'll give them some slack for that
@@earlyjicama4302 It's true, we do better when we know better. But I would love to see a more modern version of this show. These harsh techniques break my heart and bring up a lot of painful childhood memories.
@@Shammon5 I guess the problem is that these days we know how damaging it is to showcase struggling children/families for the public to ridicule, so anyone that actually endorses gentle parenting wouldn't agree to participate in this show in the first place
@@Shammon5 Gosh, I wish my mom was on a TV show like this... she would have gone to jail. Seriously.
Kai gives some real flags off. Notice how he takes big to doctor and stomps on it? How he hurt fish and buff? Lack of eye contact. Bullying. He needs counselling adapt.
Yep I was just saying that . These are all signs of serial killers. I’m not saying he will be one but these are literally the exact behavioral traits .
He’s a little psycho
What is counseling adapt? I've never heard of that in Canada.
The dinosaur book fiasco. The dad didn’t do a thing when his daughter was hoarding the book.
She had the book first and the boy took it from her without asking. She wanted it back (understandable to me) but the father didn't support his child, he just told her to look at another book.
I guess he figured since they were about to eat dinner, lil Kai would have the book to himself soon anyway. That dad seems oblivious to what is happening around him anyway.
Oh my god yes, the first time Kia actually doesn’t react badly n was crying looking for on of the parents help he was ignored. She literally took the Dino book and sat on it and was trying to control Kia by giving him another book!!! I was screaming hello say or do something dad!!
Right idk how anyone can justify her behavior but see everything Kia does. I get the aggressive behavior isn’t ok but just because her parents let her by with everything until it upsets or hurts 1 of them doesn’t make her an angelic, and having health issues isn’t an excuse. My son has heart issues but I still correct him. She didn’t even want to look at the book she just wanted to control
I don't think the dad is oblivious. He doesn't speak English very well if at all and I think he was feeling out of place.
I guess the Dr decided to youthanize the dragonfly 😂
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I would have thought she would have mom Sherry sit outside the 2 bedroom doors and put each child back into bed whenever they leave the room. Also why didn't she try reading to the kuds.
That's why child spacing is very important, , ,to give attention care and love to the growing one. Child. Needs attention until they will at age of nursery
I find kids closer in age tend to have better relationships with their siblings than kids who spent time being an only child for a few years. My boys are 13 months apart and they hardly fought, just minor petty stuff here n there.
Why would you show your 3 year old a cake and have her pick out what piece she wants just to tell her she can't have it until after dinner? They shouldn't have showed her the cake until after dinner in the first place. I'm surprised the therapist didn't have anything to say about that.
The cake deal was to much the other mom set her up for the kill why on earth would you even cut her piece til time to eat a child doesn't understand before or after dinner wtf, on top of that the dad laid there smiling as if he enjoyed watching the Child tantrum and the mom get bit. This show confuses me what are they learning ???
All this adults there and no one knew that little girl was going to freak out after taking her cake away. That little serial killer to be who abuses his sister needs to see a specialist.
Apparently, rules and time-outs are only for the White kids. Everyone is too scared to call out the Pakistan family cuz “muh racism.” Emma a was right. Not even sure why they took on a family who forced their daughter to eat adult food anyways. If it was a White family forcing their kids to eat lobster or steak, the parents would’ve been talked down to immediately.
@@theyliveyousleep8965 They we’re making her eat hot spicy food. Ridiculous.
Did he kill the dragonfly at least with his feet? 36:35
@@ws4860 probably, look out ppl in 20 yrs..lol
Ya the goldfish and bird were the lucky ones who got away.
It is interesting that Kai is not abusive to other children.
The indian father understand better how not to push the food into that girl. The girl is not skinny. She will get an eating disorder if no relaxing about food. Talking about food all the time. Kids needs more than just food. Mom is too stressed about everything. Let dad being more active.
47:00 at least the parents aren’t shouting at each other anymore…
46:08 They should call this show "The House of Terrible Parenting ". (Except for Mr Hussein. He seems really lovely.)
Seriously you are going to make a child wait for cake while all the rest of the kids are eating
Being that it looks like this was at least 15-20years ago, it would be interesting to see an update.
(Have you been down here) ×20... "I haven't" ×20 sad repeat it 10 more x maybe he'll tell the truth come on mate do better mama I feel so bad for baby chloe no attention and an abusive devil brother wth!!!!
The littl3 girl. She took the book away of the boy and nobody says anyting about it. Shi is horrible because her parants doesnt learn her she has to share
The food fuzz will only keep on if the mother dont relax about eating curry. The girl will get weight problem. Meals should be natural family time with nice conversation. Girl is angry at bossy mother. Mother nag all the time.
I realize this is a side note but what kind of cake was that??
idk but the asian baby looks like a meme with fake adult teeth lol
bad parenting can cause the kids to follow the bad behavior of all adults inside the house the yelling the bad words
why are they eating cake a half hour b4 dinner
The little girl has a stint on her finger, I wonder why
The little Indian girl is a brat and doesn’t know how to share at a but I wouldn’t give the little monster anything
Kai lies and lies about coming down and second mom said no sweets he told the truth thinking honesty would now help him
Not gonna lie, but the "Noddy, Noddy, Daddy" in the intro drives me nuts. Nothing remotely close to naughty.
It´s a sin the way this woman cuts the cake.
this is stupid ! i’d put the FEAR OF GOD IN EM … bet money they don’t get up again
omg what did i say? that wasnt me! the real me says OMG THEY ARE JUST BABIES. Just little babies that require a little more attention than most but they are babies! JUST BABIES! Took me a sec to realize that too.
Putting yourself on camera in front of tons of people judging your parenting is incredibly difficult. These two specialists act and demonstrate a direction from production instead of what their professional experience should allow. The two therapists are off putting to me and I am not even involved. What must the children be feeling? Discipline is one thing. The production team sets this stuff up in very important and fragile situations.
I am surprised the therapists did not work on Anessa's behavior of biyong, kicking and scratching.
Woweeee my earbuds blew out. Damm cake. That little girl is ornery BUT she is so dang smart. I hope she goes to a good school because she is going to excel.
I am not a psychologist but I think that no.1 rule with Kai and his sister should be: 'never leave these two alone together - not even for a second! Then try other techniques. Elizabeth and Laverne don't take this issue very seriously. He could accidentally kill her!
The baby will grow up with complex PTSD
Child protective should be called before the baby is hurt or killed. Ridiculous 😠
Right, and there advice is to not give her attention and coddle the brat
She already lost a piece of her finger, didn't she?
@@ws4860 she lost a finger nail and they grow back my middle child had a nack for smashing her hands in stuff and lost a nail 3 times lol but that being said she is tiny he could easily do damage not so easily fixed or even kill her with how often and swift his violence is
@@heidi.midget9880 thank you, I only remembered "a piece of the finger"
She's there to get help, which is exactly what she should be doing. She's not ignoring it. She's trying to keep her child safe. I'm not sure exactly what else you'd like her to do, or what you think cps would tell her to do. They'd literally tell her to get help for them all, which she's literally doing.
Most of the food these children (and parents) eat is beige. 😳
Sherry be honest you don't need to cut your daughter's hair because it's naughty you need to maintain her hair properly and get rid of the Headlines because you're seriously scratching your hair and the way you're picking her hair is like you're picking out the headlights Because you came into the house with headlights.
HEAD LICE?? FABRIC 100%..TRAGEDY DISGUSTING..PUTTING KIDS @RISK
Headlights? Lol.
Families are leaving too quickly.
If I had Anisa's parents, I'd end up homicidal. None of the parents on this season are prizes. Ugh.
The way Kai looked at the cameraman like “don’t you tell on me” was so funny😂
Why did she have to be negative when talking to her husband about fond memories? Just threw in there she didn't find him attractive. Completely unnecessary and extremely disrespectful. Why try and bruise someone like that? Can't stand people like that. To me it says a lot about her own deficiencies.
I feel so bad for these parents . These kids would drive anyone crazy . Parents are real superheroes
It’s the other way round
The parents are mean. The mom brushing her kids hair roughly and telling her to shut up multiple time. Then the other parents handing a 3 year old a piece of cake and abruptly taking it away.
I watch tiny territories all the time
Tiny territories? Hahaha
I really enjoyed this show what days do you all post and ha are you gonna put them together so we can go back and watch the whole thing All at 1 time while they're there and then they go home and come back and tell you their progress On the ones that's left already
All these adults are very rough with their children. They pull them by the arms, drag them through the area, and with their much greater strength, they respond to what the little ones do to them. Or the heartless hair combing scene. How roughly she turns the little one around. Why does the hair have to be so tight overnight anyhow?
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Aneesa's parents let their daughter get away with too many things. They're pretty old to have more children especially the dad.