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  • Опубликовано: 20 сен 2024

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  • @ouramericandream1183
    @ouramericandream1183  6 месяцев назад +70

    Here are the reasons why NRIs are still living in America and not going back to India
    ruclips.net/video/n3Zh7BxdGZ8/видео.html

    • @gs-e2d
      @gs-e2d 6 месяцев назад +6

      video game khelo time pass ho jaaeyag, playstation yahan VR headset lelo lonely nahi rahoge :>

    • @omhardikbhatt
      @omhardikbhatt 6 месяцев назад

      Can I have your email ID please ? Thanks

    • @TransgirlsEnjoyer
      @TransgirlsEnjoyer 6 месяцев назад +1

      uss video ka link daalon jisme tumne apni america ke gaadi dikhayi thii

    • @everuttejon9886
      @everuttejon9886 6 месяцев назад

      .........Western slavery( Ghulam) democracy destroyed India....India has 52% arable lands but China has only 19% arable lands.......India has two times more natural water resources than China has now....India is 150 years behind China and USA in infrastructure development now.....

    • @RtRd-x3l
      @RtRd-x3l 6 месяцев назад +1

      Please reply me sir mai aapse baat kar na chahta hu

  • @bjmistry2044
    @bjmistry2044 6 месяцев назад +818

    I migrated to America in 1971. In beginning I had home sickness. As time go by I had more of our Indian friends. I did not have good job to begin with but later I had good job and I made nice living. I became citizen and sponsored my relatives and they did the same and grew up to 250+ They all happy and made good living. Some became millionaire. I think USA is the best country to live if you willing to work.

    • @abhishekshrivastav7941
      @abhishekshrivastav7941 6 месяцев назад +122

      These were old days. Not same now

    • @sharmid9603
      @sharmid9603 6 месяцев назад +51

      @@abhishekshrivastav7941 -I agree with you. Also, not everyone has or can sponsor relatives. There are people like me who don't have any relatives here, also making friends is not easy. One has to make concious efforts and that too, the friendships may or may not be stable.

    • @VikashSingh-vp6zl
      @VikashSingh-vp6zl 6 месяцев назад +43

      Wo zamana gya jab tum aaye they

    • @prabhamsa
      @prabhamsa 6 месяцев назад +25

      Udar ka health insurance tho bekar ka hei yaar... To da bi jayada health ka dikkat hota to... Log India baag ke aake... Idar ke hospital pe dikhaate hei...

    • @manishbendhi2131
      @manishbendhi2131 6 месяцев назад +21

      You dint have 110 years of gc backlog then 😢

  • @pallavisreetambraparni6995
    @pallavisreetambraparni6995 4 месяца назад +76

    Being an indian American and having grown up in the US, I can tell u this. It really depends on where you are living in America. In one of the US states called new jersey, at least 1/3 are indian population. In new york city, there are so many Indians living there. In Chicago, there are so many Indians. In these places you will find streets where they are filled with indian stores and Indian shops and you can get everything : sweets and other foods for every Hindu or Muslim festival, indian clothing boutiques, Pooja items, etc.. You name it you'll get it. You can even try to bargain with the shop owner if you think he/she is trying to charge you more for whatever products you want to buy.
    And in some communities like Gujarathi and Punjabi communities, they will actually buy their home in the same subdivision and they will be living 2 or 3 streets away from each other in walking distance. And people will invite each other for laxmi pooja, diwali pooja, and exchange sweets, navrathri pooja, etc...
    In the south indian community, telugu people are like this. They will buy houses in the same subdivision visit each for Ugadi which is telugu new year, deepavaLi and other Hindu festivals.
    And yes, you do need to do all your chores yourself here in US. You need to cook, clean your house, do laundry, buy groceries, ( you can do that online now through Amazon or instacart if you have enough money and get your groceries delivered to your home; but indian groceries, you still need to physically go and get them as indian grocery shops are not listed on instacart) You can get a cleaning lady to clean your house if you wish to but cleaning ladies will charge according to your house size, room size, and it will also depend on the services that are done such as separate charge for mopping and sweeping all floors in your house, separate charge for vacuuming, separate charge for waxing wood floors, separate charge for bathroom cleaning, separate charge for kitchen cleaning, etc...
    I hope this helps

    • @SyedaKhudiajanoorunnisa-tk7xk
      @SyedaKhudiajanoorunnisa-tk7xk 3 месяца назад

      Really good

    • @Babudikabachpan
      @Babudikabachpan 2 месяца назад

      It's true 😊

    • @chetanseemar685
      @chetanseemar685 2 месяца назад

      America Jake Madrasi se kaun baat karega 😂😂

    • @rahulnmarkam3036
      @rahulnmarkam3036 2 месяца назад

      right that's good thanks for telling us briefly 👍

    • @sdp44
      @sdp44 Месяц назад

      So there is no respite even in USA, still one needs to manage the caste, color, sweet lips, bitter hearts, cheat dna LOl

  • @isshiomi6364
    @isshiomi6364 6 месяцев назад +394

    I'm an Indian engineer returned to India after working 10 yrs abroad...Now working in India,also assist my wife in all domestic work.. Life is good ...My wife , son & daughter.and too many friends, relatives, travel..still life is cool, slow, no stress

    • @S9.S4
      @S9.S4 6 месяцев назад +14

      Bro, you came back with 10 yrs Foreign experience, hence the good life.

    • @narenn3237
      @narenn3237 5 месяцев назад +10

      but in India, you will start working at 7pm and god knows when will you log off, mostly the US Client that pays you IT guys

    • @SIMARJEETMEHTA
      @SIMARJEETMEHTA 5 месяцев назад +10

      Just curious, not criticizing... but one good benefit from India is keep servants instead of doing domestic work? Even the video mentions this as their first point.

    • @edwinamendonca7525
      @edwinamendonca7525 5 месяцев назад

      11:01 no​@@narenn3237

    • @muhammadmeharmangi4562
      @muhammadmeharmangi4562 4 месяца назад

  • @Swamy-tv5sx
    @Swamy-tv5sx 2 месяца назад +104

    I earn more than 2 lakhs per month and live life King size in India..

    • @two8915
      @two8915 2 месяца назад +5

      then just imagine how guys earning 5 lakhs a month lives 😂😂😂

    • @Watchfunville
      @Watchfunville 2 месяца назад +2

      And just imagine how guys earning more than 5 lakhs per week lives 😅

    • @SayantanChakraborty-ub7ei
      @SayantanChakraborty-ub7ei 2 месяца назад

      ​@@two8915 comparison is a thief of joy.

    • @WORLDCITIZEN2004
      @WORLDCITIZEN2004 Месяц назад +6

      More than 30 % to 50% don't earn 2 lakhs a month in the USA..

    • @yopropertyexplorer
      @yopropertyexplorer Месяц назад +3

      Good for you

  • @vjain3971
    @vjain3971 6 месяцев назад +202

    Main problem is medical insurance, dental cost, living cost, zero saving for old age. Add to that drugs problem, children growing up are not safe, loneliness and bullying in schools.

    • @joyeetabhattacharya5902
      @joyeetabhattacharya5902 3 месяца назад +13

      What's remaining then 😂 This is everything!

    • @smitashelgikar8682
      @smitashelgikar8682 3 месяца назад +11

      License for guns 😮

    • @satwindersetia4367
      @satwindersetia4367 2 месяца назад +5

      + guns ( out of control ) problem.

    • @pallavisreetambraparni6995
      @pallavisreetambraparni6995 2 месяца назад

      @@vjain3971
      If you feel skeptical, one way to settle well in US ask anyone you know ( friend or relative) if they know of any reliable indian contact person in the city/town you are going to settle. Get the contact info. of an indian person like that. Then speak with this indian person who is settled in the town/city you are going to. Then that indian person can recommend any safe apartment complexes where lot of indian community are staying and which part of town the schools have a better rating, which subdivision has the most indian community etc.. A few of my friends have done this way, and they are quite happy.

    • @jeepercats3197
      @jeepercats3197 2 месяца назад +4

      Bullying happens in India too.

  • @brainstormingsession9150
    @brainstormingsession9150 2 месяца назад +22

    I lived in Atlanta working with an IT company for 2 years, I don't know what hell i had gone through in these years. Returned to india, cracked MP civil service and working in administrative department,. Happily living in indore.Those two years were a nightmare for me still seldom haunts me.

    • @shwetagandhi723
      @shwetagandhi723 Месяц назад

      Same with me

    • @Rohan_pa6el
      @Rohan_pa6el Месяц назад +1

      Why bro... could u elaborate..
      U went there on H1B visa ???

    • @shashishekharsingh3528
      @shashishekharsingh3528 21 день назад

      In India there is no match for class I job .Inspired by my own experience of serving in govt organisation ,I suggested my engineer daughter to appear for IES but she opted to work in INTEL,California USA ,Her husband is also there in CISCO .I don't know whether she did right or wrong .Please share your views .

    • @Rohan_pa6el
      @Rohan_pa6el 21 день назад

      @@shashishekharsingh3528 u mean *IAS* ?

    • @Rohan_pa6el
      @Rohan_pa6el 21 день назад

      @@shashishekharsingh3528 BTW how is your daughter- meaning is she now US citizen / green card
      Or his husband on H1b ??

  • @safrazhusain9612
    @safrazhusain9612 6 месяцев назад +16

    If you want to upset your life move to America,it is not the same as when I moved to America in 1975,after living there for 40 years I finally packed my light baggage and moved back to my home country of Pakistan in 2015.I am retired and living well in Pakistan in spite of all the ills in Pakistan,I could write a book about my life in the United States,life in old age is a very lonely experience in America

    • @seemva
      @seemva 5 месяцев назад

      how is the crime situation in Pakistan ?

  • @getvimlesh
    @getvimlesh 5 месяцев назад +55

    My cook here in india cooks nice food, my maid takes care of all house chores, hospital is in neighbourhood and doctors are available 24*7, Rent is cheap, Savings are great, parents are close & happy.
    I am so glad my H1B lottery didn’t work out 🤘

    • @seemva
      @seemva 5 месяцев назад +2

      good. you should get a tourist visa some day and visit New york, washington dc some day. America is a great place for tourism. Seemi from Virginia.

    • @pragawa
      @pragawa 2 месяца назад

      True except rent is high.

    • @rohanutep81
      @rohanutep81 Месяц назад

      What about studying loan how are you paying in InR?

    • @pragawa
      @pragawa Месяц назад

      @@getvimlesh - rent is cheap? What city do you live in?

    • @pragawa
      @pragawa Месяц назад

      @@seemva - true

  • @maharudra0725
    @maharudra0725 6 месяцев назад +155

    Rajat Bhai to be honest with you mujhe US bilkul achha nahi laga main tourist visa par gaya tha but sirf 24 din me waha se wapis bhaag aaya mujhe waha sabne kuch din or waha rehne ke liye bohot kaha but Mera waha Dil hi nahi laga because waha ke culture or hamare culture me bohot jada fark hai. Jisme adjust karne me mujhe bohot jada problem ho Rahi thi.
    Waha har koi apne kaam me busy rehta hai waha life ko enjoy karne ka matlab sirf weekend hota hai. Work day's me waha kisi ke pass dhang se family me bethkar ek sath khane tak ka time nahi hai jo chij mujhe sabse bekar lagi. Mere dadu (grandfather) kehte the insaan chahe Sara din kuch bhi kare kahi bhi rahe lekin raat ka khana poori family ko hamesha ek sath bethkar khana chahiye isse family me ek dusre ke liye pyaar bana rehta hai.
    Jab main Chhota tha to mujhe bhi abroad Jane ka bohot keeda tha but trust me 17 desh ghumne ke baad main yeh baat bol Raha hoon. Mujhe mera India jada achha lagta hai. Yaha jaisi mauj duniya me kahi nahi hai. I think US ghumne firne ke liye or paisa kamane ke liye thik hai but waha rehna I don't think it's good idea baki sabki apni soch hai.

    • @JM-ef7rh
      @JM-ef7rh 6 месяцев назад +13

      Same with me too.

    • @monwarbarlaskar1793
      @monwarbarlaskar1793 6 месяцев назад +9

      Bhai mai aapki sath sehmat hu,mai avi 3 bar US me ayee hu,1manth 20din.me Mera weight 2.5 kg Kom ho gya.mera ek ladki Sanfrancisco or 1 ladki Austin(Texas) me rehti he,or muje 4.2/1 manth mazburi se Mera wife ki sath.rehna podega.Avi or 3.manth mai kysi rahungi.Yaha ka Khan pan riti rewaz se Mai bilkul adjust kor nehi pa rehi hu.I think this is my last tour in US.

    • @kishoresoneji5952
      @kishoresoneji5952 6 месяцев назад +8

      You r right bro.I agree with you.Well said.👏👏👏

    • @enakshisahu8985
      @enakshisahu8985 6 месяцев назад +5

      Absolutely true

    • @amalangigkn
      @amalangigkn 6 месяцев назад +4

      Bilkul sahi baat kahi hai😊

  • @fazalirani2326
    @fazalirani2326 5 месяцев назад +10

    I have been to USA Canada England,, nearly all over in West,, but belive,,, India is best country in the world we have everything here...sahi mein MERA BHARAT MAHAAN HAI...

    • @Khushi-6696
      @Khushi-6696 25 дней назад +1

      atleast America is far better then India 😌as we all know indian men are born rapist as we can see bengal case wherein men raped a doctor atleast America is far better atleast people don't blame victims unlike India
      I India is third class cheap country 🤮🤮🤮 specially for women

  • @hello-wi4ek
    @hello-wi4ek 4 месяца назад +14

    I am an African living in the U.S and I approve this message!

    • @amyA5492
      @amyA5492 Месяц назад

      How did you understand Hindi?

  • @RKSPINTOO
    @RKSPINTOO 22 дня назад +2

    Ì have visited and lived in USA for quite long time from 2007 to 2020.And found the country fantastic and its people very humble.
    Met so many Indians who are having a contented life there.

  • @adityaahlawat5941
    @adityaahlawat5941 6 месяцев назад +15

    आप दोनों ने सारे point सही लिए ये problems है
    1. मिल जाती है live in वाली भी असल बात ये है की afford नहीं हो सकती बहुत expensive होगी
    2. जैसी pay वैसा खर्चा earn in dollars spent in dollars
    3. I heard some saying India की याद आ रही है अगर ये आप की शिकायत है तो ये universal है आप जहां अपनी family से दूर हुए आप को ये problem होगी Delhi के हो Banglore में job है आप को loneliness की शिकायत होगी ये normal है
    4. Parents की problem है no doubt. I think main problem is not कोई दिखता नहीं Indian as such do not have concepts that there are places where parents can go and have fun. Even if they know where to go you will need a car to go there and English to communicate. In nutshell hard on parents.
    5. Point of car is true, it is part of life in US, the phrase you need legs car is your medium to go around here.
    6. Insurance is a concept you have to live with it.
    In nut shell जब अपना देश छोड़ कर कहीं और जाओ तो देश देश में छोड़ कर आओ ये समज आ गया तो life मस्त है वरना भाई रोने के बहाने कभी भी मिल जाते है
    I believe if you survive first 5 years in US it will be impossible to leave the country. The percentage of people going back to their native country reduces drastically after they have stayed more than 5 year in US. If you do not have visa issues, that I heard is also a very big issue in Indian community.

    • @sandhyasheth3895
      @sandhyasheth3895 5 месяцев назад +1

      Agree with all ur points

    • @shashishekharsingh3528
      @shashishekharsingh3528 21 день назад

      My daughter and her husband both engineers are there for around 10 years .They have a son aged about 3 years also .Can I hope ,they will return to India , what is your view .They are loitering me till now on one pretext or the other .Your experience please ?

  • @Fortunately8
    @Fortunately8 6 месяцев назад +92

    I am living in Long Island New York since 10 years. No water problem, No power cut, No mosquitoes, No Traffic jams, V peaceful, High Quality food and Air.

    • @fairnesspaul2594
      @fairnesspaul2594 5 месяцев назад +1

      Air?

    • @sirg3137
      @sirg3137 5 месяцев назад

      Soon your children will be trans or your grand children 😂😂

    • @maheshpatil2538
      @maheshpatil2538 5 месяцев назад +6

      Langoti freinds ,relatives,indian party?

    • @tusharmore3967
      @tusharmore3967 5 месяцев назад +7

      Do you have maid for utensils, cleaning, friends, home cost , do you have aawas yojna, plumber, electrician . Hamare paas ye sab hain

    • @Fortunately8
      @Fortunately8 5 месяцев назад

      @@tusharmore3967 Do you have $$

  • @Vlogging_inUSA
    @Vlogging_inUSA 6 месяцев назад +86

    It's really important to show Indians the true picture. Great job😊

    • @Khushi-6696
      @Khushi-6696 25 дней назад

      atleast America is far better then India 😌as we all know indian men are born rapist as we can see bengal case wherein men raped a doctor atleast America is far better atleast people don't blame victims unlike India
      I India is third class cheap country 🤮🤮🤮 specially for women

  • @ritusharma2006in
    @ritusharma2006in 5 месяцев назад +18

    We have moved back to usa 2 years back. It was fine initially. But now when festivals come we miss the vibe and atmosphere of India. We have 9 yr old Son he too miss festivals and playing in ground with friends. Here in Minnesota it always snow .

    • @jontyrhodes4155
      @jontyrhodes4155 3 месяца назад +1

      Jhooth jhooth jhooth mat bolo
      USA best hai

  • @madhavx5751
    @madhavx5751 6 месяцев назад +76

    I was in mary land, i literally frozen to death during winter,,felt lonely,,missed 10rs chai,,street foods,,😢 i fully agree with u ,, Mysore

    • @ShuvraKumarDas-bu8ch
      @ShuvraKumarDas-bu8ch 4 месяца назад +1

      What kind of job you do there?

    • @sameerkadyan9191
      @sameerkadyan9191 3 месяца назад +2

      Aajo wapis aajo ..huma apna passport dedonhum rehkenga

    • @Babudikabachpan
      @Babudikabachpan 2 месяца назад +2

      So why are you stay there ..if america is not good

    • @madhavx5751
      @madhavx5751 2 месяца назад +1

      @@Babudikabachpan sorry it's my opinion,,,worked fr Pfizer,,,

  • @goel4979
    @goel4979 Месяц назад +6

    I live in Texas, where there is a large Indian community, lots of Indian grocery stores, indian restaurants, temples, Indian jewelry stores, etc. and Indian people. America is very big so no one size fits all, it depends upon where you are in America.

  • @narainsinha3627
    @narainsinha3627 6 месяцев назад +222

    Problem is that even desi don’t socialize with other desi

    • @rv8044
      @rv8044 6 месяцев назад +8

      That is one big concern.

    • @krisi7562
      @krisi7562 6 месяцев назад +5

      I disagree. I have lived in a few countries. I find Indians are easier to talk to, even strangers. Of course, one should not make silly, provocative statements or offer personal insults.

    • @haunting33
      @haunting33 6 месяцев назад +19

      That's fucking true.....the crab mentality is very real 😅

    • @Kate-fd5ni
      @Kate-fd5ni 5 месяцев назад +7

      Valid point, desi might ask another desi for help in everything.

    • @sirg3137
      @sirg3137 5 месяцев назад +3

      that's because unka acceptance chiyea bhar k logo ka . Unka lagta hay bo apna culture and apna Indian jitna v identify jura huya hay unka chor kar bahar ka sob kuch copy keraga to unka acceptance milaga . but kuch nahi hota . To bo log khud k logo say v dur ho jata hay is karan say . jo ho tum unka accept kro tab e dusra log tumko accept keraga . a sob jo new generation American hay un mey bhoth hay . jo ho tum usko promote kro . Aj nahi to kal tumko acceptance milaga he . but copy kar ney jaoga to kavi nahi milaga .

  • @shekharprabhakar4957
    @shekharprabhakar4957 Месяц назад +5

    I moved to USA in 2000.No issue.I joined USA army deployed to Iraq and Afghanistan no problem.I feel more comfortable in USA then anywhere else.

  • @shyamgupta5694
    @shyamgupta5694 6 месяцев назад +38

    आप बिल्कुल सही बोल रहे हैं, मैं भी एक पैरेंट हू मुझे बहुत अच्छा लगा आप ने एकदम सही बताया, वरना लोग बहुत बड़ा चढ़ा के बताते हैं,आप को बहुत बहुत आशीर्वाद

  • @rajinderchauhan4776
    @rajinderchauhan4776 2 месяца назад +6

    Please don't convert the dollars to INR. When you can pay 250$ then your salary is also accordingly.
    Problem with us Indians is that after seeing the price tag we convert it into INR. Come on guys stop this and one more thing when you move to another country try living accordingly.

  • @NareshKumar-xu2ks
    @NareshKumar-xu2ks 6 месяцев назад +28

    बेटा, मैंने जो समझा है, उसमें मैंने जो देखा है। वहां बहुत भारतीय रहते हैं। अगर सभी भारतीय आपस में मिलकर रहें। तब जीवन अच्छा और आनन्दमय होगा।
    If you are living in Dallas, TX USA from India have a get together then life will be enjoyable in the USA. Try to coordinate with each other all Indians living in and around your locality as well as Dallas. At least have a getogether once in a month or try to meet with each other on Indian festivals. Then I think you all like minded Indians will not feel Home Sickness in foreign land. It is my suggestion to all NRIs living in the USA as well as any country of the world.
    My son has been living in Dallas Texas USA for the last nine years and is facing the same type of problem there as you narrated in this video. Both are working in Dallas Texas USA. Try to make a list of all Indians living there and getting to know each other.

    • @jivandhuru1243
      @jivandhuru1243 5 месяцев назад

      Many people who have settled in USA are hiding the truth. Although they are unhappy and miserable in USA, they paint a rosy picture of USA and say that they are happy in USA.b

  • @qalandarkhan9176
    @qalandarkhan9176 3 месяца назад +4

    I am a Pakistani living in England for the last 20 years. We also face the same problems in England as you guys face in the USA.

  • @eaglehunt7176
    @eaglehunt7176 6 месяцев назад +154

    India is actually good place for everyone from begger to millenior no one dies due to starvation in India too many temples provides food to all people which is great part.

    • @proudhuman5829
      @proudhuman5829 6 месяцев назад +12

      Even Dargah and churches provide food

    • @garysinghsahota2908
      @garysinghsahota2908 5 месяцев назад +4

      Maybe not today but in years gone by in the year 1966 India didn’t get enough food

    • @TheMahesh1234
      @TheMahesh1234 5 месяцев назад +5

      What you wants to suggest 😂😂

    • @ibusinessoutlook
      @ibusinessoutlook 5 месяцев назад +13

      This is not always true, in India so many people dies due to hunger and country stood 11th rank in Hunger just above Pakistan, so food is easily available in wrong idea

    • @anupritapotnis7241
      @anupritapotnis7241 5 месяцев назад +10

      In which world are you living.this modi has made many people beggers.only his gujarati are millions.

  • @vijayachari8314
    @vijayachari8314 5 месяцев назад +5

    Same thing happened in every place..... I came from chhattisgarh to Kerala for work, at first I thought I cannot belong to this place where I stuck but after a while I ❤ Kerala so much.... Best place in the whole world.

  • @feelin9013
    @feelin9013 6 месяцев назад +46

    Ese videos se log realistic expectations rakhenge...its really good ❤

  • @PrashantSingh-mr5fn
    @PrashantSingh-mr5fn 2 месяца назад +1

    U have painted such a realistic picture of living in America...you both have been sooooo honest about everything...no qualms in admitting how challenging your own journey has been...

  • @dhruvdighe2459
    @dhruvdighe2459 6 месяцев назад +53

    Irrespective of crowd, home sickness/oneliness,(in big cities/Metros)exists in 🇮🇳 too.

    • @JaySR56789
      @JaySR56789 5 месяцев назад +9

      True. And when we live alone, whether in the US or India, don't we have to do all by ourselves anyways? Because the video uploader stressed so much on 'we have to do everything by ourselves' Lol Indian moms ne hame bigaad ke rakh diya hai haha

    • @asyed3117
      @asyed3117 Месяц назад

      i agree with you

  • @anjalisaxena2461
    @anjalisaxena2461 25 дней назад +1

    दूर से देखने से सब अच्छा लगता है। आपने जो भी शेयर किया है,वह सब सही है। सभी का काम करना जरूरी है एक के वेतन से घर चलाना बहुत कठिन है। हम तीन बार रह कर‌ आये‌ है।‌ बहुत ‌शान्ति है ‌वहां। पेरेंट्स के लिये ज्यादा टाइम रहना थोड़ा टफ है।

  • @rajkahlon8254
    @rajkahlon8254 6 месяцев назад +40

    I'm well settled in USA. And living here good life.

    • @nirajverma85
      @nirajverma85 5 месяцев назад

      What do you work there ??

    • @sathyanarayana887
      @sathyanarayana887 4 месяца назад +11

      Me too never go outside India...living in Bangalore, 3bhk flat, commercial properties plus farm house one jeep plus car ...good professional business...all friends, relatives everything is here...even my cousins in USA has zealous on me😂

    • @Babudikabachpan
      @Babudikabachpan 2 месяца назад +1

      Good 😊

    • @ifhamali2318
      @ifhamali2318 2 месяца назад +2

      ​@@sathyanarayana887wow your cousin's must zealous on your english 😂😂😂😂

  • @unusabraham4596
    @unusabraham4596 2 месяца назад +3

    That is an aspiration of every one to come to America. A person who works hard and takes risk can win his dream in America. Those who fail and wants easy life they are one who suffer most.

  • @manojkumartiwari3643
    @manojkumartiwari3643 6 месяцев назад +48

    आप लोग अमेरिका चले गए लेकिन प्यार भारत को ही कर रहे है बहुत अच्छा लगे आप दोनो, और कुछ दिन बीता कर वापिस आ जाओ भारत, कुछ ऐसा करो यहां पर ताकि दो चार को रोजगार दे सको,

  • @dr.subratapal8496
    @dr.subratapal8496 5 месяцев назад +2

    But we stayed for 4 months last year 2023 with our daughter. It was an amazing experience. I think if a person is a bit spiritual in nature it will not be a problem……….❤❤❤❤❤
    This year again we are planning to visit our daughter who is working in USA .
    Now the globe has become a tiny part of this universe. 🙏

    • @seemva
      @seemva 5 месяцев назад

      which state did you visit. Virginia is pretty, green state.

  • @sd8477
    @sd8477 6 месяцев назад +119

    Still America is far better than other countries. At least you are staying with your family and you have free time to shoot this video. I worked in Kuwait for 3 years. No salary on time, duty hours are from sunrise to sunset. One day off in a month and one month vacation for three years. Six persons forced to stay in a single room like chickens. Company sponsors hold your passport and sometimes they don't give even for renewals. If you complain about duty hours or accommodation or food, you would be put next available flight to India.

    • @ramachandranar1082
      @ramachandranar1082 6 месяцев назад +20

      It depends on the job you have in kuwait. If one is well qualified and holds tech position life is good

    • @jecinthadsouza5677
      @jecinthadsouza5677 6 месяцев назад +13

      ​@@ramachandranar1082
      No sir, Kuwait is good for only uneducated people. There is lot of discrimination to foreign workers. There's no labour law. If there's one, it favours to locals. Foreign workers are treated as second class humans. Even highly qualified Indians get one fourth salary, of what locals get for the same job. That's why most well educated / technicians (Indians) migrate to other countries.

    • @0__-_-..._-.Matter._-_._-_-._
      @0__-_-..._-.Matter._-_._-_-._ 6 месяцев назад

      But Every month so many indian students get killing in USA ,,,it's not safe for indians

    • @AZ.1988
      @AZ.1988 6 месяцев назад +4

      You should move to Oman, KSA or UAE. These GCC countries are far better than America. If you are a highly qualified person like a Doctor, Scientist Charted Accountant or IT professional. Uneducated low skilled labor is facing the same fate everywhere

    • @MrKakuaa
      @MrKakuaa 6 месяцев назад +1

      Greed is Good ( lalach ). Fase raho aur India me jhoot bolte raho.

  • @mukunddeshpande3837
    @mukunddeshpande3837 2 месяца назад +1

    अमेरिकन जीवनशैली बद्दल भारतीय लोकांच्या मनात खूप भ्रामक कल्पना आहेत. वास्तविक पाहता भारताइतका सुंदर देश जगात इतरत्र कोठेही नाही.

  • @anillimbachiya8522
    @anillimbachiya8522 6 месяцев назад +29

    After living in this country for about 30 years, I've come to realize that where you live matters most. Especially in places like NJ, specifically Edison, you have access to numerous resources that can enhance every aspect of your life, whether it's social connections, job networks, or religious beliefs. It's worth noting that NJ is the highest taxpayer state in the USA, which means you get what you pay for.

  • @RUBYMITRA-t2u
    @RUBYMITRA-t2u 5 месяцев назад +3

    Very true, people don’t understand from outside, also mention about the crime and safety issues, also majority people suffer anxiety and depression. Thank you

  • @raghvendrasharma9521
    @raghvendrasharma9521 6 месяцев назад +28

    Both of🙏 you🌹🇮🇳 have tried your Best to explain the scenario.

  • @atishbose1570
    @atishbose1570 5 месяцев назад +4

    Rajat, good you survived so long. Working life but retired atmosphere there. Here if you travel by bus, rickshaw, auto
    shared taxi, local train, metro etc. on the way you start chatting with fellow travelers, and because of the population you are always at home.All the best to you both.

  • @udaybatwal3719
    @udaybatwal3719 6 месяцев назад +25

    Good video . Both of you complementing each other hence it's synch .

  • @souradeepdas8195
    @souradeepdas8195 13 дней назад +1

    People from our country often go to the US to work part-time, such as washing dishes in restaurants or cleaning toilets in affluent American households. If you consider that cool, think about this: if a laborer from West Bengal in another Indian state were to perform the same job, it would be deemed as bad. However, we should respect all types of work, no matter how small they may be. A person engaged in tasks like cleaning or working in mines holds social importance, just like someone working in a software company. We are all laborers. The most rich 22 persons of India have the same money as that of 70 cr people have!

  • @nimeshshah7485
    @nimeshshah7485 6 месяцев назад +22

    Maito puri video me yahi sochta rahe gaya ki dono kitni patience ke sath milke video banate ho , good, i appreciate to both of you

  • @asifhussainshaikh3599
    @asifhussainshaikh3599 Месяц назад +2

    Sir ji, India is great. Come back to INDIA.

  • @vikaskumar4001
    @vikaskumar4001 6 месяцев назад +51

    भाई साहब अमेरिका आपके लिए होता होगा ऐसा हमारे लिए कुछ नहीं है। ना हमें अमेरिका जाना ना हमें अमेरिका पसंद ।हमें हमारा इंडिया ही मुबारक हो ।
    😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Babudikabachpan
      @Babudikabachpan 2 месяца назад

      Nice 😊🎉

    • @asyed3117
      @asyed3117 Месяц назад

      ✅US jakey utna hardwork karte ,woi yahan karo ,bahut success full honge India me bhi🇮🇳

    • @madhurishah3173
      @madhurishah3173 6 дней назад

      सही कहा ।😅

  • @vatsayana2004
    @vatsayana2004 5 месяцев назад +3

    Biggest problem in America is Medical services. One must have Health insurance to get treated even for common ailments. In India, Medical treatment is far cheaper than in America. One of my friend's new born baby was in Hospital for 15 days and his bill was $ 200000, so that was shocking for him and even health insurance couldn't coved that much he had to shell out $ 48000 from his pocket.
    After learning the reality of US life from my sister and other relatives and friends, I think if a person is rich here in India, there is no need to dream of going and settling in US just for showing Off and underestimating your relatives and friends.

  • @jyotishrivastava261
    @jyotishrivastava261 6 месяцев назад +19

    Aapki sab baat mein mujhe sirf health ka point sahi laga ki india mein wait nhi karna padta baaki sab chije mujhe lagti hai adjust karne ki baat hoti hai jaise yahan k log itni shaant se india k shorgul mein jaaye to unhe bhi accha nhi lagta. Jo b jahan ki ho india k chote se village mein ya US mein person ko adjust karna sikhna chahiye . Cold country mein logon se expect karna ki wo walk par yuhi nikle galat hai or internet aane k baad to aajkal india mein bhi log apne mein hi rehte hai.

  • @SupremeSanatan11
    @SupremeSanatan11 4 месяца назад +3

    Bhai, In India we all live in metro cities. Culture is similar to USA. If you are staying away from home in India or USA. I do not feel much difference

  • @Vidya12344
    @Vidya12344 6 месяцев назад +92

    You are so right … 😢😢 even parents don’t want to visit America nowadays … they don’t get to live their lives as per their styles😢

    • @ArchnaKapur
      @ArchnaKapur 4 месяца назад +5

      They are used as baby sitters and cooks. They should not.
      No routine of their own…live life based on how others live around you.

  • @gopabandhurath-q8d
    @gopabandhurath-q8d 6 месяцев назад +12

    The notion that this part of earth better and that part is not better are based on the famous saying Fools rush in where angels fear to tread. Body always loves to like ease of living . So the search is for better place, more money,more knowledge, better living and an inflated Ego. This driving force is with our ancestors, now it is with us and will continue with our future generations too. Let the show run in this way. But be happy, and God bless you.

  • @trushapatel2295
    @trushapatel2295 5 месяцев назад +2

    I’m living in America for 10 years. Life is very smooth with all machines like washers,dryers,dishwashers and all. Cost of living is high though.

    • @umaimauneeb
      @umaimauneeb 2 месяца назад

      All these machines are available in Indian cities too😊

  • @shaileshnagda6400
    @shaileshnagda6400 6 месяцев назад +21

    After having heard you both, I urge you to come back to India and serve the country.

    • @sarojrani788
      @sarojrani788 6 месяцев назад

      no responsibility of country, parents , family ,
      all greedy peoples are going and living in America , there they criticize india and indian peoples ,

    • @vasudevan2168
      @vasudevan2168 5 месяцев назад +2

      😂😂😂😂are thy in military to serve the country....software engineer do not serve the country..they earn good income and benefits the company they work

    • @seemva
      @seemva 5 месяцев назад

      kiya MODI JI khidmat nahi kar rahe ?

  • @arvindrajwade928
    @arvindrajwade928 2 месяца назад +1

    सही परिस्थिति बयान करने के लिए बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद सच है मेरा भारत महान है❤❤❤❤❤

  • @papprazziusa4817
    @papprazziusa4817 6 месяцев назад +22

    Depends on what area you live in. Sometimes us Americans are lonely and bored too.

  • @Sagaciti
    @Sagaciti 6 месяцев назад +2

    भाई आपको सुनके दया आ गई , मन कर रहा वहां आके कुछ दिन सपोर्ट दू। आप समझदार आदमी हो , खूबसूरत सी पत्नी हैं । खुश रहो ।

  • @veerendrasingh5300
    @veerendrasingh5300 6 месяцев назад +13

    Thanx Bhabhi ji poore video me apko hi dekhta rhe bahut khush ho aap log wha per i am so happy indian community doing good❤

    • @jontyrhodes4155
      @jontyrhodes4155 3 месяца назад

      Abbhey bhabhi kaha se ho gayi woh teri
      Apni aukaat mai reh tuh

  • @poonamprajapati2401
    @poonamprajapati2401 3 месяца назад +2

    In India also nobody knows whether the neighbour is at home,sick or anything about him or her.In India also joint family has finished so here also we are alone.Also here children are leaving India and going abroad for studies and settle there so here also PPL are remaining alone.Herr also big house but no one to stay Not much difference has remained.Maids have also become quite expensive so many people don't keep maids

  • @girijaprakash2418
    @girijaprakash2418 6 месяцев назад +11

    Very comprehensive information about the great America.

  • @Billy-y4j
    @Billy-y4j 5 месяцев назад +2

    America is not what it was 20 yrs ago. Nowadays there is more violence, shootings in schools and public places, more Racism, divisive politics etc. On the other hand, India has grown by leaps and bounds during the same time. Better Infrastructure, Ease of Living, Material comforts alongside solid social networks. But people migrate for various reasons, Good luck in their adventures. America is America, India is India. You pick and choose 😊

  • @shobhayra
    @shobhayra 6 месяцев назад +10

    It’s different in San Diego and depends on which neighborhood you r living and you don’t have to connect agencies all the time you can talk to ur neighbors cleaning lady they charge very less . But yes agreed with the point if u don’t have friends here then Yoy felt very lonely

  • @Universe2929
    @Universe2929 5 месяцев назад +2

    खूप सुंदर सांगितले तुम्ही..!

  • @ankitavashistha4813
    @ankitavashistha4813 6 месяцев назад +30

    Very true …. It’s real picture of USA. I am here from last 15 years , still miss India . I would like to put the light on one more aspect , grown up kids eg.high schoolers there thought process is completely different from us . We have given them the our best but they are facing a society ( school friend ) whose lifestyle and culture is different.

  • @pooj76
    @pooj76 Месяц назад

    Very true and realistic points shared! We had our struggles initially but things are better now and gotten used to it.

  • @sundareshans1474
    @sundareshans1474 6 месяцев назад +7

    Very true and honest facts. Other part of river is always green.

  • @medialords8647
    @medialords8647 2 месяца назад +3

    Jo log bhi bahar jate hain unko sabse jyada problem khud ka kaam karne ki hoti hai kyunki saste labour ki adat hoti hai,lekin jo log mehnati hain unke liye videsh sabse accha hai.

  • @cduran110
    @cduran110 6 месяцев назад +14

    I’m in Dallas and look forward to moving to Europe whenever I can

    • @rohanutep81
      @rohanutep81 Месяц назад

      Give me a job before moving😂😂😂

  • @lizzylewis-tl5if
    @lizzylewis-tl5if 3 месяца назад +1

    Thats why India is the best,one thing is why you people want to go abroad,second thing jitna ho sekha house work(jadu,pocha,bartan dona,khud kiya kero)aur dosti baat if u are in india,if you want to keep maid,then give her her salary in time,and respect them,....

  • @anu2089
    @anu2089 6 месяцев назад +9

    Actually we were. In US for ao many years, now in Banglore. I still misses America. It's really good place to live.

  • @imtiazfaruqui9729
    @imtiazfaruqui9729 20 дней назад

    I have lived, studied and worked and retired in New York for 54 Years - My experience is much more than of the gentleman who is cutting my comments .

  • @ashaa.v5949
    @ashaa.v5949 6 месяцев назад +22

    Whatever you say, with all the problems you mentioned, not many are returning to their own country. So definitely life there must be worth it finally. Am I right?

    • @ouramericandream1183
      @ouramericandream1183  6 месяцев назад +4

      Yes, see the reasons here ruclips.net/video/n3Zh7BxdGZ8/видео.html

    • @ashaa.v5949
      @ashaa.v5949 6 месяцев назад +2

      Yes thanks for your response. I have seen this link. I do finally believe that life there is worth it in the balance. Btw I really love your videos and especially Buddy and Teddy are so cute and interesting. Thanks again Rajat.

    • @Warriorgirl2018
      @Warriorgirl2018 6 месяцев назад +4

      Exactly my query too.. If itz such bad there , why are people so desperate to leave even if it means using illegal methods of migration!!!!

    • @deekshantbelwal1269
      @deekshantbelwal1269 6 месяцев назад +2

      I returned in 2016 after 5 yrs. Lot of my friends are now returning. Top tier college guys now staying in India.

    • @deekshantbelwal1269
      @deekshantbelwal1269 6 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@Warriorgirl2018 actually illegals and low end job guys have it better. Upper income people keep competing with peers and end up buying costly homes and get into debt trap.

  • @rakeshrawat6881
    @rakeshrawat6881 4 месяца назад +1

    In India you can take service of maid at Rs. 1500 to 2000 p.m. for household cleaning. Those who are earning 1 lac p.m. in India can live same as in America who is earning 5 lac p.m.

  • @abhisheksahoo628
    @abhisheksahoo628 6 месяцев назад +13

    Sir .... Racism, hate crime towards Indian ...Gun culture etc etc

    • @ouramericandream1183
      @ouramericandream1183  6 месяцев назад +1

      See this video ruclips.net/video/nTF6Dl7XmfQ/видео.html

    • @mesbahulhoda9539
      @mesbahulhoda9539 6 месяцев назад

      Ngl, there is more racism and safety issues in India than the US.

  • @guddar7861
    @guddar7861 Месяц назад +1

    I would still die to renounce my Indian citizenship

  • @rollykumari8131
    @rollykumari8131 6 месяцев назад +4

    The thing is people who have moved to Metros from other small cities go through the same situation.

  • @alexfrancis796
    @alexfrancis796 3 месяца назад +2

    You are absolutely right my brother, my neighbor are living in pencilvenia, but they are struggling every day.

    • @pragawa
      @pragawa 2 месяца назад

      It is Pennsylvania

  • @blackrose474
    @blackrose474 6 месяцев назад +6

    Good family couple sharing their experiences 🌹🌹🌹

  • @meenu5304
    @meenu5304 6 месяцев назад +106

    All you said is absolutely true Rajat and Shilpa Ji. one of my close friend who came to US after marriage felt so lonely that she got addicted to alcohol and sleeping pills and finally after rehab she became normal. Anyways there are always positive and negative sides. Thanks for the reality information Guys❤❤❤😊😊

    • @ouramericandream1183
      @ouramericandream1183  6 месяцев назад +7

      Thank you for sharing and sad to hear that. Hope she is better now

    • @meenu5304
      @meenu5304 6 месяцев назад +3

      yes shez absolutely fine now. its been long time😊

    • @manmauji5745
      @manmauji5745 6 месяцев назад +1

      Boring video . Repetition of the same point. V know the reality of all these countries

    • @Scarydiaries6
      @Scarydiaries6 4 месяца назад

      Same happened with my closed one

    • @praveenkumar-yo1xg
      @praveenkumar-yo1xg 3 месяца назад

      It's not loniless that's the truth about life.

  • @Sgy556
    @Sgy556 4 месяца назад +1

    Enjoy one’s present moment whether you are in USA or India or in Sahara Desert! That’s the essence of life!!!

  • @ravichoubey3727
    @ravichoubey3727 6 месяцев назад +10

    Very well explained
    My son in law and daughter are planning to move in US near future first time
    Pl continue to post similar
    informative clips
    Thanks

    • @girlgirl538-q3d
      @girlgirl538-q3d 6 месяцев назад +6

      Listen to everyone, but karo apni mann ki...of course there r some pros n cons in every country n situation but if u mentally strong with good will power ...no matter where u go ...it's all well.

    • @JaiSyndrome
      @JaiSyndrome 6 месяцев назад

      Why?

    • @komalnegicuj2284
      @komalnegicuj2284 6 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@girlgirl538-q3d.... very well said...

  • @DarkPsychologyofLove
    @DarkPsychologyofLove 3 месяца назад +2

    Chalo one thing is good!
    People who run after money and compromise on relationships, get to see this reality too

  • @nupurbhardwaj24
    @nupurbhardwaj24 6 месяцев назад +5

    You have not mentioned school taxes even in your previous 6 month old video with the state tax and all... as the school directly doesn't take a fee, but being a homeowner, you need to pay school taxes here in Pennsylvania in addition to state and all.That's a huge extra... it's as good as an extremely high monthly school fee. Nothing is free. Schools need funds, and it comes from the residents. Plus, if you have a little one like us, Preschool has a very high fee, which is extra, which you did mention.

    • @oldie-american
      @oldie-american 6 месяцев назад

      You mean property tax! Indians also pay house tax, which they chet upon by specifying much lower cost of the house than the market value.

  • @SagarKumar-gd8cz
    @SagarKumar-gd8cz 2 месяца назад +2

    Introvert ke liye sahi hai 😊😊

  • @dr.vinaykumarsingh8189
    @dr.vinaykumarsingh8189 6 месяцев назад +11

    Really sweet presentation 😊

  • @madhurishah3173
    @madhurishah3173 6 дней назад

    समस्याएं हर देश में होगी, पर उसके सामने जो बेनिफिट्स है वो अपने देश जितने कहीं नहीं होंगे।
    और यहां से भाग जाने के बजाय सब भारतीय अपने देश की तरक्की के लिए एफर्ट करे तो अपने देश का भी उतना ही विकास होगा। सब जिम्मेदारियां सरकार पर डाल देना गलत है।✌🏻👍🏻

  • @sanjayparekh71
    @sanjayparekh71 6 месяцев назад +26

    Greetings from Orlando! You are spot on with everything you both said. You guys make a lovely couple. God bless!!

  • @MinalJoshi-p2b
    @MinalJoshi-p2b 20 дней назад

    मी प्रथमच तुमचा व्हिडिओ बघत आहे . छान वाटलं ❤

  • @arnoldjackson-q2j
    @arnoldjackson-q2j Месяц назад +4

    In short America is for ADANI AMBANI 😂😂😂😂

  • @rockjhonson6486
    @rockjhonson6486 3 месяца назад +1

    All points what you Said are true ✅ I agree with you , as we are living in the Caribean Island Curaçao ( Central America )but exactly the life is same over here : Cost of living , do all your things yourself etc ..

  • @patriot7633
    @patriot7633 5 месяцев назад +8

    I am retired Live in Greater New York area, own a home. If I go back to India I can live a very comfortable life. However I still prefer to live here because of Medical reasons. Being retired Medicare takes care of our health related issues. I have to pay a lot for it but still better than India. Law N Order. Live in a small town 45 minutes drive from downtown New York City. But I love my town N feel good here. Dwarkadhessh Mandir next block N many other Mandir and Gurdwars also 15/25 minutes easy drive. Many Indian stores N Restaurant including South Indians around. International Airport direct flight BOM N DEL 30 minutes drive. My town is very safe. No problem. It is still winter in North America in end of March. Deal with snow to but I like it here.

  • @DIPTANIL
    @DIPTANIL 5 месяцев назад +2

    Mumbai and america is same you have to do your work yourself. For me america is great. In india prime drink is expensive but in america prime drink is less.

    • @umaimauneeb
      @umaimauneeb 2 месяца назад

      Mumbai is packed with people crowd heat and dust pollution

  • @anilmathur3049
    @anilmathur3049 6 месяцев назад +6

    Very true'. Thanks.

  • @dawoodshaikh856
    @dawoodshaikh856 5 месяцев назад

    I stayed abroad for 20 years but I still believe India is Incredible

  • @anilsatone5334
    @anilsatone5334 6 месяцев назад +5

    Thanks both of you for info..🎉

    • @ajaynigam5097
      @ajaynigam5097 6 месяцев назад +2

      आप सही बोल रहे है, भारत में कम पैसे में भी आनन्द में रह सकते हैं, अकेला पन महसूस नहीं होता है, गपशप कर समय व्यतीत कर सकते हैं

  • @karunab6425
    @karunab6425 Месяц назад

    Nice video with covering most of the points but you forgot to mention one thing that if you have a medical emergency and you go to the hospital, they don’t ask you for money first.
    You are first treated for your emergency then they ask for payment.
    If you can’t pay, they will work with you to set up a monthly payment or depending on your finances, will even waive the charges.

  • @rajanvagal1353
    @rajanvagal1353 6 месяцев назад +6

    Thanks to both of you for opening eyes of the rest indian. You have shown dareing to speak truth. God bless you.

  • @naveensharma4780
    @naveensharma4780 24 дня назад

    Sabki priorities alag hoti hain sabki requirements alag hoti hain aur sabki feelings..style of living and bonding bhi alag alag hoti hain..tou koi ye nahi keh sakta ki achha nahi hai na hi koi ye keh sakta hai ki achha hai...sabka nazariya apna hai..

  • @msmshortcreation3968
    @msmshortcreation3968 6 месяцев назад +5

    India is best country to earn money and most important..... to enjoy that money with your family, children, friends.

  • @madhurishah3173
    @madhurishah3173 6 дней назад

    मुझे ये बात समझ नहीं आती कि फॉरेन में इतने सारे चेलेंजिस होते है फिर भी लोग क्यों वहां जाना चाहते है???🤔🤔और वहां रहना चाहते है। चाहे डॉलर में कमाई हो पर सुकून न मिले तो ऐसे पैसों का क्या करना!!🥺🤔 I 💕 My India ❤️ मैं लाख डॉलर मिलने पर भी कभी अपना देश छोड़ के ना जाऊं👎 😀😐 मेरे देश में जो शांति है वो दुनिया में कहीं नहीं ✌️✌️✌️

  • @ashisharora6800
    @ashisharora6800 6 месяцев назад +19

    Every country and place have cons and prons , it depends on individual what is best for you , example some people like crowd , but some people like loneliness.
    So make a quick analysis and choose the best points for you
    America is good country , but as I said every country have cons and prons , it depends upon what you like. For me cooking is a habit , living in non crowd areas give me relaxation so it is good but it may differ person to person.