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  • Опубликовано: 7 сен 2024
  • #budgeting #debtjourney #cashstuffing #hyperjar #ukcashstuffing
    My name's Jen and I'm on a journey to pay off £27k of debt!!! I do regular cash stuffing and debt updates, and have a general chit-chat about my budgeting week. This week is a little different to usual as I empty all of my funds to cover an unexpected move!
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  • @budgetsdreams
    @budgetsdreams  2 года назад +51

    I am truly overwhelmed by all of your amazingly supportive and kind comments (in a good way, lol). I will do my best to get back to you all, time permitting. But wow! With this kind of support I can get through anything! Thank you all so, so, much 💛

  • @Lucyluxor
    @Lucyluxor 2 года назад +46

    I have every faith that you will find somewhere else. When I was in this position a few years ago I put a reminder in my phone for a years time saying "it will have got better by now" I'd completely forgotten about it then when it came up on my phone I cried because it had!!!! ❤

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  2 года назад +4

      Wow! That’s awesome. I will do the same. Love that! 💛

  • @catshawforpresident
    @catshawforpresident 2 года назад +44

    You don’t need to feel bad for using the Christmas money (easy for me to say, I know!) because what a wonderful early Christmas gift to yourself and your family - to provide safety and security for them in the form of a new place to live! I hope the move goes smoothly and you make wonderful memories in your new home

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  2 года назад +5

      Aw thank you, that means a lot 💛

  • @penniesandpositivity3773
    @penniesandpositivity3773 2 года назад +16

    What an amazing achievement that you needed cash quick and you have it there! No credit no loans you did it yourself within a few days! It’s an emotional situation leaving your family home but you are handling it amazing ❤ wishing you a smooth move and to make the best memories in your new home! You have built your cash up once and you can do it again 😊❤ sending you lots of positive vibes for this time xxx

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  Год назад +1

      Aw, thanks babe 💛 Hope you’re feeling a bit brighter now xx

  • @Scottish_LassFinance
    @Scottish_LassFinance 2 года назад +17

    I’m sorry for what you are going through. You are a strong lady! Look how quickly you have turned it around and found a new home, give yourself more credit because that is remarkable and still you managed to re budget while all of this is going on. I hope it all works out for you and I’m sure it will all work out once you have settled into the new home ☺️ xx

  • @ThisMomBudgets
    @ThisMomBudgets 2 года назад +14

    Oh how heart breaking for you to lose your house over no fault of your own! Your memories will move with you, you won’t lose them because of where you are living. ❤
    I hope this is just a way for the universe to tell you that you need to be in another space to improve your lives even more x

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  2 года назад +4

      You know, I actually think that’s what’s happening. Our new place is so lovely. I really think we’ll be happy there 😊

    • @ThisMomBudgets
      @ThisMomBudgets 2 года назад +2

      @@budgetsdreams a home is who is in it, not the bricks and mortar ❤️

  • @alibudgetsplans
    @alibudgetsplans Год назад +6

    I was in this position a few years ago. Just as my new rental contract ended and I was about to sign a new one, the lady that owned the house died and her will said the house was to be sold. As you said, it was very stressful and at the time I had no budget whatsoever. I am sure you will work it all out, you do seem to have things more under control than you thought xx

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  Год назад

      Hi Ali 👋🏻 Sorry to hear you had to go through that. Hope you’re all settled now. And yes! I’m totally stunned that we already had as much money as we do!

  • @cole2404
    @cole2404 Год назад +6

    You are handling it all like the boss you are. First time on your channel and I thank you for being so open with us and sharing. You are so organized it's very impressive. We are rooting for you guys from Virginia, take care 😘

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  Год назад

      Hi Nicole 👋🏻 Thank you so much!!! 💛

  • @emibudgets
    @emibudgets 2 года назад +8

    Oh my goodness. I’m so sorry to hear this. But I love how optimistic you are! Sometimes we just have to do what we have to do. And look at you! You are so close to your goal! I am so very proud of you! ☺️

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  2 года назад +1

      Aw! That’s so sweet, thank you 💛

  • @TheBudgetDragon
    @TheBudgetDragon Месяц назад +1

    I discovered your channel from this video! Finally caught up to this point - amazing that you already had so much in your binders. Well done! Looking forward to seeing your journey from here. This gives me a lot of hope 🖤

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  27 дней назад +1

      I can’t believe you’re still rolling through them all, thought I’d have sent you loopy by now haha! Yeah, I was so glad back then that we’d starting cash stuffing. No way would we have been able to turn things around so quickly! And SO glad we found such a beautiful home so fast, we were really lucky! Rental prices shot up shortly after.

    • @TheBudgetDragon
      @TheBudgetDragon 24 дня назад

      @@budgetsdreams Haha nah I’m already a bit loopy anyway, so you’re fine! That’s very lucky you found a new home before rent shot up.

  • @sprinkledbeanies760
    @sprinkledbeanies760 5 месяцев назад +1

    Well done thank goodness u have been stuffing those envelopes sounds like your on top of everything your a star hope your happy in your new home 🏡

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  5 месяцев назад

      Ah thank you 😊 It was a real relief at the time. We love our new place. Although not so new now haha! Xx

  • @squadmeta
    @squadmeta 2 года назад +6

    Has the eviction been served legally? I don't trust the story you've been given one bit unless your landlady is family. She's probably realised she could get an extra £300 a month and knows it would be impossible to increase your rent that much. Did you try to offer more money, I'd hate to see you notice your current house up for rent again in a few months. I hope you can keep your dog with you, bear in mind under future tenancy agreements landlords have to give full consideration to pets as long as insurance is in place to cover them for damage. I've been on both sides of the rental market, this is the ugly side that needs to be reformed far more than they're planning. You're very strong, be proud of yourself.

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  2 года назад +1

      Thanks. Yeah, she is family, and her circumstances are rotten. She lost her partner to Alzheimer’s a couple of months ago and the family are putting the pressure on so they can sell his house. I won’t be surprised to see if back on the market tbh but if I’m honest… I think we needed this push to find somewhere more suitable now that my son is older. At least in the new house he won’t be wedged into a box room 👍

    • @squadmeta
      @squadmeta 2 года назад

      @@budgetsdreams Terrible situation but I always believe things happen for a reason and go with it. On the positive side your previously cheap rent allowed you to do very well getting debt under control and I seem to remember your interest rates were extremely low so no need to feel rushed to clear them. On the other bright side as much as you seem unhappy about paying someone else's mortgage by renting, there are benefits. Boiler breaks, not your problem, water leak, not your problem, roof leaks, not your problem, etc. etc! Buying vs renting isn't as clear cut as many people think, benefits and pitfalls to both, if you see somewhere even better to rent it's very easy to move, if you own a house and want to move it's very expensive. Some years back I owned a nice enough house and then new neighbours from hell moved in, couldn't wait to sell, if I'd have been renting it would have been much easier and cheaper! Stay positive and try to take all the positives you can from the situation.

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  2 года назад +1

      @@squadmeta You’re so right! There are huge benefits to renting. The only downside is the sense you are constantly “losing money” and no nest egg for little ‘un. We are going to give some serious thought as to whether we buy at all, or anytime in the near-ish future. To me it makes more sense to wait until our son is off on his own and we can then buy our forever home… which could be any size, anywhere. No consideration of catchment areas required 😂

    • @squadmeta
      @squadmeta 2 года назад

      @@budgetsdreams At some point in the future when the time is right take some financial advice, you can build nest eggs and get some passive income from other things than just property. For me personally I like some dividend paying shares, they give passive income and if needed I can sell small amounts, I can't sell a bit of a house. The more you learn now about the financial world the more you can give the little 'un a good money education that they will never get from school. If there's one thing I've learnt from random rich people I've known over the years is how they look after their money, there's a reason so many lottery winners go broke within a few years, they just don't know how to make the money work for them. I've rambled enough, thanks for taking the time to reply to my original comment :)

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  2 года назад +1

      @@squadmeta Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts. I hadn’t thought of taking advice on other types of investing (other than the bitcoin my husband plays with). Definitely something I’ll to do in the future. Thank you.

  • @alexfulleylove7875
    @alexfulleylove7875 2 года назад +2

    coming at you across the atlantic ocean, i can hear the melancholy in your voice all the way through but the excitement creeps in a bit to see that during this emergency you still have nearly £1.5k available funds that you wouldn’t have had before starting this journey. incredible. sending you lots of love and care and distanced hugs and even more love xxx

  • @Bindersandcash19
    @Bindersandcash19 Год назад

    Dear Jen when ever you feel down oleaae watch back at this video, and see where you were and how far you have come since you are doing great and things will be even greater, be kind to yourself, make me sad when you get down, you always cheer me up x

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  Год назад

      Aw Elaine! That’s so kind of you! Thank you. And you’re right. Come a long way in short amount of time. Thank you 💛💛💛💛

  • @forensic2010mnr
    @forensic2010mnr 2 года назад +5

    I am so sorry that this is happening. I am so proud of you and how you are handling this. It is completely normal and ok to fall apart during this kind of thing. I am the same when it comes to being good at handling the crisis and then falling apart after.
    Potential is an icky word to me as well. ADHD life and all that.
    I also couldn't tell that your nails weren't perfect. They looked fine on camera and I couldn't see what was up with them.

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  2 года назад

      ADHD life indeed! Currently flapping to get my son’s birthday cake finished because, you know, procrastination! Why do we do this to ourselves?!

  • @sarahchambers909
    @sarahchambers909 2 года назад +5

    So sorry you are going through such a 💩 time. You are handling it amazing, really pleased you are managing to get sorted!

  • @debbieblincoe9880
    @debbieblincoe9880 2 года назад +3

    Firstly I 100% understand and am exactly the same about the word "Potential". Secondly Happy 11th Birthday for your son!
    OMG i'm so beyond sorry you going through having to move out of your home of 11 years.
    Sending huge hugs for your mental health from a mumma who goes through the same thing.
    Huge congrats and everything crossed on your possible new home.
    So sorry about poss having to rehome your dog.

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much Debbie 💛 Potential is such a loaded word isn’t it… I’ve just always felt I must be letting everyone down if I’m not living up to this “potential” I’m meant to have. But the more I think about it… potential for what? In whose eyes? I might reflect on that for a bit 🤔

  • @natalieharrington5246
    @natalieharrington5246 2 года назад +2

    Honestly heartbreaking! Im so happy to see becuase of budgeting youve managed to pull it together! I wish you and your family all the best in your new journey xx

  • @tracejefferson3169
    @tracejefferson3169 2 года назад +3

    So sorry to hear that you are having to move from your home in such a hurry! What a roller coaster of emotions that you are going through! Sending hugs 💜

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  2 года назад

      It never ends for me 😂 My life IS a roller coaster of emotions. I’m used to it 😂💛

  • @SimpleBudgets
    @SimpleBudgets 2 года назад +3

    Instead of the word potential use possibilities, don't worry about your nails we're here for you 🥰.
    Try and look for the positives, I know it's hard and I feel for you I really do lovely, but you have saved up money in doing this to be able to pay for your deposit etc and it's a fresh new start for your family and you will be okay because you are strong and you have each other and your families and friends, and atleast you will be settled for Christmas.
    You can do this lovely!
    And don't forget ( in regards to your mental health) it's okay to take time for you and its okay to have a down day and it's okay to look after you! 💜
    Your not moving backwards, keep your chin up and keep on making those steps in the right direction.
    Big big hugs to you 🤗 💜💛💜💛💜

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  2 года назад +1

      You are the bestest! I will take all the hugs 😂 xx

  • @Budgetmeright
    @Budgetmeright 2 года назад +1

    My sweetie, wish I could give you a big hug right now! Makes so much sense that you have such caring friends, because of YOUR PERSONALITY. I am very happy to be a little reminder that you should be kind to yourself 🤗. My family rents and throughout my childhood we had many adventures with homes so I totally understand you! This summer I have learnt that the children of my landlord (who is a very old lady in her 90's) plan to sell all the houses they will inherit and move to Sweden. Great shock for me, can't even do something about it. Wish I could afford to buy it, but sadly can't. Renting is so stressful. And prices always go up like crazy. I don't care for possession however I would love to stop moving every few years or so!

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  2 года назад

      Oh no! I hope they give you plenty of notice and you end up finding somewhere perfect for you! You’re so lovely and kind, you’re in my thoughts often. Many people have heard me talk about “my Greek cash stuffing friend” haha! 💛💛💛

  • @xoxolorae
    @xoxolorae Год назад

    New subbie here! I can see why you have such good friends. You have such a positive, beautiful spirit, even despite how hard things are. I hope you're able to figure out your housing situation!

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  Год назад

      Ah, that’s so sweet thank you 💛💛💛 We did sort it out, thank you. Settling into our new house now xx

  • @boriquaindia
    @boriquaindia Год назад +1

    I’m so sorry your going through this 😢
    Lots of prayers your way

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  Год назад

      Oh thank you xx We’re all settled in our new home bow and doing really well 💛

  • @ThePennySaver
    @ThePennySaver 2 года назад +2

    I'm so sorry you and your family are facing such a difficult situation. Hopefully these things happen for a positive change xx

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  2 года назад

      Thanks Lisa. I really do think this will be a positive change. Our new place is so nice! Just have to keep everything crossed for the checks 🤞

  • @rachell4694
    @rachell4694 2 года назад +2

    Sorry to hear things have been tough for you.Sounds like you have a lovely place to go to though and you will get your deposit back from the place you are leaving . Stay positive. It will be alright ❤

  • @Budgetmeright
    @Budgetmeright 2 года назад +4

    Jen I am so proud of you going through all this! Watching adds right now, so you can dedicate your first RUclips paycheck to moving expenses. Thank God we follow this system, otherwise you wouldn't just have this amount of money around the house laying around. You and your husband acted so fast, already found a house!! Truly admire that!! last time I was in a similar situation, I froze up. My father found the house I am currently living and talked to my landlord. I just send one month of rent to book it without even seeing the place! You are capable of amazing things 😘. Sending you my love, wish I could help you pack! I am so good at decluttering, packing and organising! Lol. You could make a home tour if you like! New beginnings are stressful but also refreshing. You got this 💜

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  2 года назад

      Ah bless you, I’m not surprised you froze up… it’s such a mammoth task! And lol to the ads… watch away 😂

  • @rainbowbudgetsandplans
    @rainbowbudgetsandplans 2 года назад +2

    Aw I'm so sorry for you and your family! It's so hard to leave somewhere with so many memories but I echo what everyone else has said and you are being incredibly strong and handling it amazingly! How amazing that you have the money available to help you ❤️ this is just a slight pit stop in your journey and I have no doubt that you will build all those envelopes back up again! X

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  2 года назад +1

      Aw thanks Natalie 💛 I didn’t feel half as bad as I would have consolidating everything and focussing on just one envelope if it hadn’t have been from seeing you do the same before. It gave me a lot of hope actually 💛

  • @whatwouldpicarddomakeitso9607
    @whatwouldpicarddomakeitso9607 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing . My heart hurt for you..but so glad you had started to save before . You did sound a little excited when you talked of your new home 😉 so I’m sure once you are in and settled it will soon be time to get excited of where to put your Christmas decorations in your new home . As for the teachers..could have more potential comments…well you proved you achieved potential…you sound like a wonderful mum and also what a great wife in taking on the cash stuffing journey and succeeding..even though I’m newish here by you being able to pull on that money…YOU HOLD YOUR HEAD UP, you and your hubby did this and it’s a fantastic achievement and you have proved to yourself YOU DID IT,YOU TOOK CONTROL AND SAVED and you can do it again 👍🏻 .As for the dog…my nephew had a one year old dog and he was made redundant and had to move out of his rental…so I said I’d take the dog while he sorts his self out for a year….anyway 9 years later he’s still here 😉…they worm there way in to that heart somehow 😂lol . You take care and I tell you ..you are worth your weight in gold .best wishes to you and yours on your new adventures..cuz that’s what it is 😉. Tracey 😘🇬🇧💛🤍

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  2 года назад +1

      Aw 🥹 Thank you so much Tracey! We are excited about the new place, it will be a much happier home than here… just amazing vibes the second we walked in. I’m putting the dog to the back of my mind for now… I just can’t cope with it and everything else going on. My mother in law did say “who knows, I might want to keep him permanently” so fingers crossed for that 🤞 He’d have a great life with her. She’s retired and loves being outdoors. We’re lucky to get him out around the block some days which is not fair for a Beagle. So, tbh, aside from the issues with renting a new place it has actually made us take stock of what’s best for him in general… could he be happier somewhere else regardless? Urgh… nope… not thinking about it 🙈😭

    • @whatwouldpicarddomakeitso9607
      @whatwouldpicarddomakeitso9607 2 года назад

      @@budgetsdreams dogs definitely adapt quickly..so as she likes the outdoors he’s going to have plenty of adventures of his own…new places to explore and new things to sniff 🌲🐕, he will think he’s on holiday😉😀.
      It sounds like she’s preparing for long term if needed which takes a huge stress off of you . So now he’s the family’s dog..if he’s anything like my dog the more attention he can get the more he wants 😂. Seriously sweetheart you are all going to be fine and happy.best wishes to you and yours, Tracey 😘

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  2 года назад

      @@whatwouldpicarddomakeitso9607 Thank you 💛💛💛💛

  • @kellyhamilton2062
    @kellyhamilton2062 2 года назад +1

    I'm so sorry for what you and your family are going through! I wish you all the best and hope it all goes to plan! Just remember you started this journey with nothing at one point and look what you achieved!! You can do this again! 😘 X

  • @evertheoptimist
    @evertheoptimist 4 месяца назад +1

    As an undiagnosed ADHDer i was often told i "wasted my potential" or wasn't willing to unlock my potential. I just didn't know how to. I was diagnosed at 35 so now so feel like if i'd know that earlier things could have been different.

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  4 месяца назад

      It’s so awful isn’t it, all we needed was someone to offer some guidance instead of just making us feel like we’re failing in some way. I like to think nowadays someone would consider WHY a young person might not be reaching their potential and come to the ADHD conclusion sooner. I’m happy to hear you have your diagnosis now and I hope it’s bringing more sense to your experiences and empowering you now 💛💛

  • @Bindersandcash19
    @Bindersandcash19 Год назад

    Chrustmas is just a day, your familys secure is far more important,l really wish you all the best of luck, when you are as low as you can be, the only way is up, you are a great inspiration to lot of people. X

  • @debee_doo
    @debee_doo 2 года назад +1

    Oh Jen I am so sorry to hear this 😢 What a shock for you all, but I’m so glad you have found somewhere else to live so quickly and it sounds perfect (apart from the doggy situ 😢) Thank god for budgeting though aye? You have done so well and although heartbreaking having to un-stuff everything, what a relief that you do actually have the cash available. You have done so amazing with your budgeting 😘 You know where I am if you need a chat etc xxx

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  2 года назад

      Aw, thanks Deb. It’s all a bit poopy, especially as I’m signed off work atm too! Was gonna update about that next week… spoiler alert, lol.

    • @debee_doo
      @debee_doo 2 года назад

      @@budgetsdreams 😕😘😘

  • @Lillith.
    @Lillith. Год назад

    I'm really happy I'm watching this from the future and being able to see that everything seems to be okay. I can't imagine how hard this must have been to go through.

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  Год назад

      Ah bless you! It was tough but like everything, we’ve made through the other side 😊 x

  • @tracyclose8313
    @tracyclose8313 2 года назад +1

    😢omg I’m so sorry. I would have thought she would have to give you more time surely. If I could help I would. Hopefully you can find a nice place for your dog so you can still see him/her. Stay strong and I hope all goes really well. My thoughts are with you and your family x😊❤

    • @squadmeta
      @squadmeta 2 года назад +1

      2 months is the standard notice period for a section 21 no fault eviction unfortunately

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  2 года назад +1

      Thanks Tracy 💛 I did contact her mid panic and said 2 months wasn’t enough, she reluctantly extended to 4 months but by this point the tension was already there so I’m very relieved we have managed to move forward so quickly. It’s been a nightmare sorting out all the who owes what money for what. Meh… moving forward now though xx

  • @GoldenGirlBudgets
    @GoldenGirlBudgets 2 года назад +1

    You are capable of amazing things 🤩 I won’t trigger you with this weeks affirmation 😬 sending you hugs!!! Love that you found a new place. Please allow time for self care however that looks for you!

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  2 года назад

      Haha, I appreciate that 😄 Thank you, I will xx

  • @YasminOakOfficial
    @YasminOakOfficial 2 года назад +2

    Sending all my prayers and love to you!!! Stay strong... ♥

  • @80Beez
    @80Beez 2 года назад +1

    It's such a lot to handle and you're doing it so well. The house is perfect for you all. I did feel a little lump in my throat there when you mentioned dear doggo, he'll be OK tho. He'll be warm, fed and loved :) 💖

  • @CardinalGrad
    @CardinalGrad Год назад +1

    Blessings on your new transition. You sound determined and motivated. You got this! 👍🏼

  • @auntyharry
    @auntyharry 2 года назад +1

    My heart goes out to you. What a life upheaval. Am I awful to admit that I’m worried about your dog? I hope everything works out. Your subscribers are with you.

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  2 года назад

      Aw, that’s so kind, thank you 💛

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  2 года назад

      Not awful at all! I’ve compartmentalised that element for now… it’s terrifying!

    • @Nwladylaura369
      @Nwladylaura369 Год назад

      Yes, very sad you can’t take your dog with you. Not sure why landlords don’t understand that pets are family too! 😢

  • @CraftyBudgeting
    @CraftyBudgeting 2 года назад +1

    Sorry to hear your news but amazing that you have so much in savings to help 🥰

  • @savingwithjas9528
    @savingwithjas9528 2 года назад

    Jen you are handling this so wonderfully, I’m so sorry this has happened to you and your family, I truly hope everything goes smoothly for you, and I suppose the only positive I can offer is that look how far you came this year with your savings, it’s heart breaking to have to unstuff them but you have done so amazingly that I know once you can you will bounce back and they will get topped up again much faster than you think xx
    You are doing so well with what is a unfair situation, and I’m 100% good things will be around the corner for you all x

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  2 года назад

      Aw, thanks Jas, that’s really kind 💛

  • @charlottelavelle3953
    @charlottelavelle3953 2 года назад +1

    That’s awful I am so so sorry, as someone in a similar situation to you with a family and renting it’s a huge concern of mine that there’s no long term security. The government really need to address the rental situation in the UK.

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  2 года назад

      Oh they do! It’s just awful. House prices in general are just disgusting! But what can anyone do about it? 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @EmmaPottsx
    @EmmaPottsx Год назад +1

    In February we had to do exactly this, our situation was a little different but we literally had to up and leave our old flat in a week. If it wasn’t for my envelope savings we would have had to stay in a very awful situation. My heart breaks for you and your family because the amount of stress you have to go through to get a roof over your head quickly is a lot!

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  Год назад +1

      Aw Emmy, I’m sorry to hear that 💛 Are you all settled now? Xx

    • @EmmaPottsx
      @EmmaPottsx Год назад

      @@budgetsdreams thankfully yeah and I restarted my cash envelopes this week, finally getting back on track xx

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  Год назад

      @@EmmaPottsx Awesome news 😊 It sounds like it’s been a not so smooth ride for you so well done for getting through it 💛

  • @Mariemarie-uw7id
    @Mariemarie-uw7id 2 года назад +2

    Darling dont worry about the nails we watch it not to judge you❤ hope things get better for you, so sorry that happened😢

  • @lauragravenell7711
    @lauragravenell7711 2 года назад

    Oh lovely lady… I’m sorry this has happened to you and I’m sending thoughts to your land lady too.
    You have just evidenced how bloody amazing you are!!! So resourceful!
    Well done gorgeous xxxx

  • @angbudgetanddebt
    @angbudgetanddebt 2 года назад +1

    Our report cards sound similar! 😂😂 I’m so sorry that you are going through so much stuff!! I’m sending love and prayers!

  • @michellefoster5592
    @michellefoster5592 2 года назад

    You got this Jen! You need to give yourself more credit! Look at the amount you have in your binders and savings!
    Once you get settled in your new home, you will get back on track with your savings and debt plan.

  • @savingwithrosie7678
    @savingwithrosie7678 Год назад

    I am so sorry you are having to go through so much in such a small amount of notice, well done on getting it sorted and thinking forward, cash stuffing will help you so much, we are all here for you❤️❤️❤️

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  Год назад

      Cash stuffing has saved my neck on this one, that’s for sure! Thank you, everyone’s support had been amazing, so encouraging and brought be a lot of strength 💛

  • @TheOscar15432
    @TheOscar15432 Год назад

    New subbie. Really enjoyed. Sending hugs and glad y’all found a new place.

  • @solobudget
    @solobudget 2 года назад

    Oh girlllllllllllll! This is insanely impressive that you managed to get the house searching thing and all the things in such short time! And then you're able to raise this amount of money from all the binders on which you have been budgeting so well through this whole time! YOU ARE SUCH A STRONG WOMAN THERE!!!!!❤❤✨✨✨💛💛
    Best wishes for everything!🙏🏻✨

  • @kristinem6118
    @kristinem6118 2 года назад +1

    Obh. Im sorry for the turmoil. Prayers for things to settle down and things go well. I hope you wont have to rehime your dog.

  • @eccabaybudgets
    @eccabaybudgets 2 года назад

    I'm so sorry this is happening to you. I'm so glad you were able to have so much money already saved up in your sinking funds and not have to worry about how to find the money to move.
    I just subscribed and can't wait to follow your journey.

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  Год назад

      Hello 👋🏻 Thank you, it was a surprise to me there was so much! Even thought there was actually less than I thought 😂

  • @piapedersen
    @piapedersen 2 года назад

    Oh, wow. I'm sorry, that's so difficult. Eleven years is so long. I'm pleased for you that you've found a new place. Best of luck to you and you and your family!

  • @thomaschew2191
    @thomaschew2191 Год назад

    My wife and I started paying off our debt in late 2017, we had quite a bit. The only thing left is a car loan that actually goes back to late 2020. Since we had eliminated a huge chunk of our debt we have been putting serious money towards the car and also we have a decent emergency fund and ....drum roll.... a written budget that we started first of this year . We were putting money into a sinking fund to pay our real estate taxes, in the past we paid them at the very last minute and this caused us to pay a 10% penalty. Because we put the money aside and had it we paid it as soon as we got the bill (mid August) and thus we got a 2% early payment discount. It seems amazing 10% penalty or 2% discount that's a 12% spread and resulted in a $900 (US) savings. The best part is we didn't have to scramble to come up with the money and it didn't affect our lives in any way. So having that money even though it was for something else saved you a ton of anxiety, Bravo!

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  Год назад +1

      Ah, thanks Thomas! And wow you’ve managed to make so many positive changes in your own finances, that’s amazing 🎉💛

  • @barefootdreamer9025
    @barefootdreamer9025 2 года назад +1

    Oh my goddess, I’m so sorry for what your family are going through :( rents are extortionate at the moment :( sending love 💛

  • @briwinter5098
    @briwinter5098 2 года назад

    Although the situation is pretty dire you are handling it pretty well! I am so sorry for you and your family but I also think you will manage fine. Sometimes change can be very hard! I keep my fingers crossed for you and wish you all the best! ❤

  • @coldcountess
    @coldcountess Год назад

    So very sorry to hear that, I hope you have found a new place to live.

  • @GillianBudgets20203
    @GillianBudgets20203 2 года назад

    Great video Jen ... every cloud has a silver lining...I think that's the saying. Yes the new rent is more...but thank God that you started this budget journey beforehand... it really does prepare us and look at what you've managed to save! Stay positive and you'll be surprised at how things will turn out. Thanks for sharing with us. Gillian

  • @mrsi82
    @mrsi82 Год назад

    This is incredible, thanks for sharing your experience. I wish you luck with you move

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  Год назад +1

      Thank you 💛 Nearly time now. We get the keys on the 24th October. Eek!!!

  • @learningtolivelifeonabudge7723
    @learningtolivelifeonabudge7723 2 года назад

    Oh lovely, I am so sorry you are going through all this it is heartbreaking. But still a great video and I am so pleased you have found somewhere new and have a huge chunk towards your goal. I'm thinking of you all through this stressful time. Sending love 💜🥰🥰xx

  • @PiratePanda00
    @PiratePanda00 Год назад

    I’m usually a silent watcher and don’t comment. Anxiety lol. But I couldn’t stay silent with this one. I love your videos and usually watch as soon as they go up, bit late to this one and I can’t tell you how sorry I am to hear of your current situation. You are an inspiration and everything will come up tops for you, I am sure of it. You have inspired me to start my own budgeting journey as I am sure you have inspired many others. ❤️ Good luck with your move and I hope things settle quickly for you.

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  Год назад

      Aw hello 👋🏻 Thank you so much for dropping me a comment 😊 How is your budget going?

  • @kristinesharp6286
    @kristinesharp6286 Год назад

    Three days and you had a place. I think it was the universe being kind to you for being kind to the land lady’s situation. Must have been hard though to move with a husband and child. Single probably easier. Especially when not your idea.

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  Год назад

      Yeah, we are so fortunate to have found this place, and so, so, grateful 💛

  • @sarabecker4695
    @sarabecker4695 2 года назад

    Good luck on your move. That would be such devastating news. I know a family we knew had the same thing happen to them and it was a scramble but it will be a new and exciting adventure

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  Год назад +1

      Thanks Sara, it will. We’re looking forward to having a new space to play with 😊

  • @kendal11D
    @kendal11D 2 года назад

    Sending positive thoughts your way! Hopefully this is a minor detour in your budgeting journey and you can get back on track after you've moved to your new home. 🙂

  • @ThisMomBudgets
    @ThisMomBudgets 2 года назад +1

    I’ve never hoped for a title to be clickbait so much before! 😢
    Watching video now x

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  2 года назад +1

      Aw 😢 Sorry. I felt weird posting it like that but I really didn’t know how else to put it without writing an essay 😂

  • @ewwitsnatalie3881
    @ewwitsnatalie3881 2 года назад +1

    I am so sorry to hear about you losing your home. I hope your next home brings you just as many sweet memories and joy.
    Hearing you talk about your friends really struck me - I’ve also struggled with imposter syndrome and just wanted to reinforce that you are worthy of love and the genuine friendships you have! ❤️❤️

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  2 года назад

      Imposter syndrome! That’s it for sure. It’s always been there. Sorry you suffer from the same. Thank you for your kind words 💛💛

  • @andshebecameabutterfly416
    @andshebecameabutterfly416 Год назад

    I just found your channel today (subbed), and I'm just so, so sorry for your housing stress. You WILL get through this! Sending you ooodles of love n hugs ❤️🤗 Emma xo

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  Год назад

      Aw thank you Emma! And hello 👋🏻 Thank you so much for watching and leaving me a comment, it’s very kind xx

  • @shelleyc5849
    @shelleyc5849 2 года назад

    Sorry to hear of the last minute rental changes. Well done sourcing the new house, that's why we save. 💗 Rent is crazy in Canada too. $1600-$1800 CAD for a small one bedroom unit. That is 1050-1100 pounds. 😱 Hope you love the new place.

  • @manifestationbudgets
    @manifestationbudgets 2 года назад

    Sending lots of love ❤️ I always worry about this as a long term renter, but sounds like you have done amazing finding somewhere so fast. I hope you are very happy in your new home. Feel so sad seeing you take it out but as you say atleast you have this in place xx

  • @rebudgets
    @rebudgets 2 года назад

    You are indeed capable of amazing things love!
    Sending you prayers and positivity 💕💕

  • @Sandy83
    @Sandy83 Год назад

    You are going to do great! - I made sure to watch all the ads in this video, I know its small but I hope it helps.

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  Год назад +1

      Ah bless you, that’s so kind. Please don’t ever feel obliged though… your time is precious xx

  • @kerrylane1979
    @kerrylane1979 Год назад

    Only just stumbled across your video and subscribed.
    Wishing you all the best in your new home. X

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  Год назад

      Aw, thank you so much Kerry 💛 And hi 👋🏻

  • @amyjones8613
    @amyjones8613 Год назад

    I like the Jars! Those are pretty neat 👌 Here's hoping things will work out well with you 😊 Be sure to give yourself a little bit of a treat for all your work. Bless

  • @BronwenBudgets
    @BronwenBudgets 2 года назад

    I'm so sorry your family is going through this and really feel for you. It is so saddening having to unstuff everything. Thank goodness you have money available to you though. I hope your relative is able to keep your dog for longer or the new landlord allows you to keep him. Perhaps you could offer a pet deposit? You are strong and capable. Even this week's affirmation was sent to try you! Take care 😊

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  2 года назад

      Thanks Bronwen 💛 I’m totally avoidant of the dog situation right now. Once we’re in I’m sure it’s all I think about though 😭😭😭

  • @charlottesharp7178
    @charlottesharp7178 2 года назад

    Sorry about your house but I have to say you are on a roll and doing great sorting everything out 💜 keep going 🌈 x

  • @mymoneymatterswithest
    @mymoneymatterswithest 2 года назад

    Aww Jen! Sorry bit behind on watching the video, like you said bitter sweet! I’m encouraged by the fact you can keep smiling and keep going despite this tricky situation, may you come out stronger for it. Lots of virtual huggs! Take care hun, Esther from My Money Matters 🐖

  • @joelizabeth12
    @joelizabeth12 2 года назад +1

    Aww jen so sorry 😭 your luck sounds a bit like mine, but every hardships brings strength, pity you couldnt have bought a wee doer upper house cheap, id cry paying that rent 😭 saddest part is your wee doggie 😭😭😭 dont worry about christmas, as long as you are warm and cosy and have a full belly and each other you have everything you need, i think you could make a lot of money on etsy making budget stuff you have a creative eye, if i win the lottery il buy you a wee house ❤️ xxx

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  2 года назад

      Haha, you’re the second person to say that about the lottery 😂

  • @gmj1636
    @gmj1636 Год назад

    I don't know who you are but I love you and I am with you. I am currently at home with my little one, so I am big on budgeting at the moment too... Big hugs and keep up the good work (you have a lovely voice, very pleasant to listen to and I love the nail varnish colour too! ❤)

    • @gmj1636
      @gmj1636 Год назад

      I also know how bad it is when you have to leave a place when it is not your own decision... This is the reason why we bought a house as soon as we were able to. At the time we only had one kiddo but I wanted security more than anything else - and I have to say it's worth every penny. Also, our mortgage is around the amount that you pay for rent now (and the way rent is going up is just scary... :( ). I think the sooner you can afford your own place the better, you are a strong and wise woman, I am sure you can make it happen if this would be your goal 💖

    • @gmj1636
      @gmj1636 Год назад

      By the way, I am using Emma as my budgeting app, it's linked to my UK bank account so I can do all of this on my phone. I am not sure about how others feel but I am pretty worried about keeping all our monthly budget in cash at home so I have "virtual envelopes". It automatically directs things to the categories as you set it so it's also very convenient. If you need any help on this just give me a shout :)

    • @gmj1636
      @gmj1636 Год назад

      Oh, one more! You mentioned that you are buying clothes from Next... Try the Vinted app! Since I discovered it, I haven't bought clothes new, apart from trousers (as I can't figure out my size without trying things on) but for skirts, blouses, jumpers etc. it has been amazing! I have some trusted brands (Dorothy Perkins is one) where size 10 fits me perfectly, when I buy those I don't seem to fail. I buy pretty much new branded bits for a fraction of the price - I never dressed so well, and for so little money... :) I am not buying home decor, kids clothes etc. from there too, works wonders and saves an incredible amount of money! Keep up the good work, you're doing great! 💝

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  Год назад +1

      Thank you for all your comments Judit, so sorry it’s taken me so long to these ones. Your views on mortgage vs. rent are really valuable… it is something that is in our considerations. Thank you so much for all the support. It means a great deal 💛

  • @Yvonneb_
    @Yvonneb_ Год назад

    Hi, I have just found your channel and subscribed. I can't wait to see your new home and hope you all live happily forever. Xx

  • @jackiewyatt2984
    @jackiewyatt2984 2 года назад

    I’m so sorry to hear this, we went through exactly the same 2 years ago so I feel your pain. Stay strong ❤

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  2 года назад

      Thank you. Sorry to hear you went through the same thing. Assuming you’re all settled now?

    • @jackiewyatt2984
      @jackiewyatt2984 2 года назад

      @@budgetsdreams Yes we are thankyou. We had 3 months notice but when we were told ( first day of our holiday 😢) like you we started looking immediately and within a few weeks we had moved. We love the house we are in now. Wishing you luck and lots of happiness xx

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  2 года назад

      @@jackiewyatt2984 That’s awesome 💛💛💛

  • @thepursewhisperer8383
    @thepursewhisperer8383 2 года назад

    Hi Jen. You are a superstar. Look at what you've accomplished in such a short space of time. I'm with Violet. Watching ads and hoping to get you a good first YT pay. Chin up bubs 🧡 xx

  • @MissBudgets
    @MissBudgets 2 года назад

    Sending you heartfelt wishes. Good luck with your new home. Xxx

  • @eSusan12
    @eSusan12 Год назад

    Wow you got a new place fast!

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  Год назад +1

      We sure did! A mixture of fast action and sheer luck!

  • @rosemarie-karma
    @rosemarie-karma 2 года назад

    Such crap news. Memories are just that, memories, you take them with you. You'll make new ones. Treat it as a new adventure. So sad about your dog, that would slaughter me. Sending positive vibes 💚

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  2 года назад +1

      Thanks Rosemarie. I’ll take all the vibes you can send 😂💛

  • @kristine_budgets_and_bujos
    @kristine_budgets_and_bujos Год назад

    Ack! 🥴 “Potential” is a trigger word for me, too! I heard it quite a bit growing up. 😂
    I’m so sorry for the upheaval you and your family are going through. You will get through this!

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  Год назад

      It’s a weird one isn’t it?! Thank you xx

  • @rinakaur7245
    @rinakaur7245 Год назад

    I'm new to your channel, did you not have an emergency fund? Well done on finding somewhere new so quick!

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  Год назад

      Hi Rina 👋🏻 No sadly not. It felt weird to have savings sitting there when we could use it towards debt. We are doing both now 😊

  • @AmandasBudgets
    @AmandasBudgets Год назад

    New subscriber here also a all cash stuffer with a channel 🇺🇸
    Love your videos you are inspiring me in my own time of crisis. Keep it going 🎉 you’ve got this

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  Год назад

      Hello 👋🏻 So sorry to hear you’re not in a great place right now 😢 I hope you’re coping OKxx

  • @tanyasbudgetandchaoticlife3116

    New here!! I'm sorry you are going through this, but things will get better hugs mama!!! 💞💞💜💜

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  Год назад

      Aw, thank you Tanya 💛 And hello 👋🏻

  • @piapedersen
    @piapedersen 2 года назад +1

    Rent is so disgustingly high. I'd be bitter too. I'm renting as well so I get it

  • @leanita7549
    @leanita7549 Год назад

    Well done and keep going

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  Год назад

      Thanks lovely, I most definitely will! 💛

  • @lauraphelps178
    @lauraphelps178 2 года назад

    I’m so sorry that you are going through this but You are doing fab xx

  • @budgetsaveshare6313
    @budgetsaveshare6313 Год назад

    Hello! 👋🏿 New subbie here! I hate to hear what's happened to you. We had a similar experience a couple of years ago. New management took over our place and remodeled the property. We had thirty days to relocate. I hope it all works out. 🙏🏿

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  Год назад

      Hello 👋🏻 Oh my gosh! How awful for you!!! I’m guessing you’re all settled now?

    • @budgetsaveshare6313
      @budgetsaveshare6313 Год назад

      @@budgetsdreams Yes, we are! We love our new place so much more. I'm sure its all going to work out for you too!

  • @shecanbudget1170
    @shecanbudget1170 2 года назад

    Hope the fact that you have most of the money you needed in your folders already will make your potential health dip once things calm down impact you less than you expect / than previous 🤞🏻 Wishing you the best of everything 😊🐧x

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  2 года назад

      It might well do. Thank you lovely 💛

  • @moneywithjustliving5258
    @moneywithjustliving5258 Год назад

    Oh no, sorry to hear this. I am a new follower to your channel. Hope you find a better place.

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  Год назад

      Hello 👋🏻 Thank you! We’ve just had confirmation of a move in date for a new place that we love so hopefully we will settle in quickly x

  • @Bindersandcash19
    @Bindersandcash19 Год назад

    Many new memories to look forward to and old ones uouvwill always remember, hope you can one day buy your own home, sorry hear about uour dog, l had leave my cat with neighbour whrn l left the home x

  • @debbieblincoe9880
    @debbieblincoe9880 2 года назад

    I love your colorful cash envelopes where are they from please? Now just watched the end and saw you made them! OMG you should sell them they are amazing!

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  2 года назад

      Ah, thanks lovely. I am considering it but I can’t afford a PO Box and I’m not sure how I feel about my home address being on the etsy sales slips. I’m gonna give it some more thought xx

  • @lin90210
    @lin90210 Год назад +1

    I hope all is going well with finding a new home dear

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  Год назад +1

      Ah thank you! It’s all going smoothly so far 😊💛

    • @lin90210
      @lin90210 Год назад +1

      @@budgetsdreams ah so happy to hear that

  • @debraguk
    @debraguk Год назад

    Hope she gave you the correct notice.

  • @brendaplatero1918
    @brendaplatero1918 Год назад +1

    Hello. I’m new here and loved your video and money. I’m from the United States and trying my hand at learning to budget myself. I still have a long way to go and have not started yet. I just love your envelopes 🥰. Is your money currency equal to the US Dollars or slightly different? Thanks for your time. 😊

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  Год назад +1

      Hi 👋🏻 Congrats on starting your budget! The pound (GBP) is usually worth slightly more than USD but recently they have gotten pretty close. I checked just now and it’s $1.12 to £1.00 💛

    • @brendaplatero1918
      @brendaplatero1918 Год назад

      It mind sound silly but I wanted to also start collecting foreign currency in exchange to US Dollars, to decorate my walls.

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  Год назад

      @@brendaplatero1918 Ah wow! That sounds amazing… but pricey! Have you seen the Australian dollars… they are super colourful!

  • @RamblingsofGeo
    @RamblingsofGeo Год назад

    Sorry to hear you have to move, 2 months really isnt long to find somewhere is it. I hope that it all goes to plan xx

    • @budgetsdreams
      @budgetsdreams  Год назад +1

      Thanks lovely. We had confirmation today that all the checks have gone through. Just got to set to packing! And continuing to bury our heads in the sand about the dog 😢