God's Word to Abuse Victims, Compilation
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- Опубликовано: 16 май 2021
- Watch the entire devotional series from Pastor Jeremy as he teaches us what God says to those who have been abused.
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I feel like I have been a magnet for narcissists, psychopaths and sociopaths. Everything I cared about has been ripped away from me. People have turned against me because of lies. The most recent narc, now ex husband, cause me to research deeply to the point where I realized I was raised by narcissists and most relationships I had were with narcissists. My mentally handicapped son has been brainwashed by his father, and he has turned against me too. I thought he never would. I feel like I have lost everything important to me. I keep praying and trying not to give up. This message really spoke to me. What a gifted preacher. I wish the churches in my town had preachers like you. Powerful.
Please pray for my family to be restored better than before. - In Jesus' Name
We will certainly be praying for restoration for your family! Please also feel free to submit requests to our Prayer Team directly here: timeofgrace.org/pray/. For more resources on abuse, please visit our website: timeofgrace.org/abuse/.
Hi Jeanine, I hope you have been able to access some prayer support and more, via the links included in the reply to your comment. I wonder, maybe reading 2 Corinthians Chapter 1 verses 1-11 may help too? I've been praying for you too. Maybe look at Isaiah 51 v 3 & 12, and Isaiah 54 v 11-17 ❤️
Me too.
Suffering from narc abuse too...Jesus is the only One who has the power to give me freedom from this....i would have been either in an asylum or in a grave if i did not turn myself to Him
Thank you so much for this message. It is healing my very abused hurt heart. May the Lord bless you richly and anyone else reading this.
Sending you love ❤ May you find healing
This is SO necessary. Thank you for not shying away from this subject. For way too many years, the church has hidden from what needs to be done to help save people who cannot figure out how to escape a deadly situation.
Thank you for this message, I am appreciated
what about people who cannot figure out how to heal from a wounded past
@@kaishiden4586 Seek professional help from a recommended Christian counseling center.
@@khumphrey2231 A christian counseling center will be as much help as a counseling center.
Deadly, abusive, corruptness, they claim it's punishment or something were doing wrong, no matter what type of corrupt control or abuse it is
22 yrs of verbal abuse, told I was ugly,and told I can find someone else that he never loved me ,he just saved me from my grandma ,he cheated on me with co work , and calling his ex,wife behind my back and sending her money , and I go without things , blame me for taking things he misplace, if I could find a place move I would but housing cost to much for me and my older kids, half time I feel I have walk eggshells around him, I pray every day God will send me money or away to get a new house so I can be free from him , it what keep me going
Thank you, not just for the message, but for the tone and sincerity in your voice and expression.
Praise the Lord for your message, and my heartfelt thanks to you for your ministry.
When I met God I had the most beautiful Bible studies and couldn't get enough of His Word. When I met my ex partner in church, we became heavily involved in church leadership together and, on the outside, lived a Christian life. In the beginning everything was wonderful, and I thought all my prayers had been answered. Later, in private, my ex partner was very violent, and many Sabbaths involved bashing, strangling, rape, and endless name calling and verbal abuse, often the night before attending church service. He rarely left bruises in obvious places, and I learned how to cover or explain away the rest. We were such hypocrites. I often feared for my life. The only thing that kept me from committing suicide was continuing to pray that God would lead us both out of our circumstances.
When I left him for the final time, after seven years, my horrors with PTSD began. I saw his eyes change from blue to black in my dreams, and had regular flashbacks about being strangled, raped, beaten, spiritually crushed, and controlled. I found church services and Bible study triggering, so had to stop and resort to praying - much of which was hurt and confused prayers.
Where was God, my all-powerful and protective Father, when I was being bashed? Why didn't God Almighty intervene in my case? After reading about others who experienced miraculous intervention from God, I felt that for some reason God had cast me aside and forsaken me. But confused, because I know God is love.
For a long time I have been praying for God to show me answers and help me understand His love and my confusion. I've had people try to logically explain sin etc, but it doesn't hit the heart in a truly changing way in this case. Your message hit my heart today. For the first time in five years, today I found joy in scripture. Thankyou.
I'm grateful as a Christian survivor of childhood sexual, physical and emotional abuse and ongoing gaslighting, manipulation and control in my family, that my church has enough insight and an elder who is also a child psychologist, to include this in a bible study with a small group as so many Christian churches fail survivors of abuse by compounding hurt and shame
Wonderful message of truth and hope. Thank you pastor.
Thank you, I had to leave my 33 year abusive marriage . I haven’t found a pastor that agrees with me about my decision. I’ve come to realize that they care about the marriage more than the person. Does God hate divorce, yes but he hates abuse more .
I feel like In the same boat, they just wanted to stay in marriage becuase of my kids but pyschologically I was going insane just being hurt over and over again. It is a conflict of interest becuase my dad is the pastor…..
So sorry to hear about that, they also don’t understand narcissistic abuse but God has called me to peace as it states in 1 Corinthians 7:15. Also mine was in porn for the whole 35 years and says he is a Christian . That’s a big fat no you’re not . Ephesians 5 states how a husband is suppose to treat their wife . I wish more pastors would understand that God doesn’t want us destroyed .
Awww this little light of mine was my favorite song in choir when I was little ❤ it wasn’t until I was an adult I found Jesus because he sought me out, praise God!
My ex-fiance brutally beat me in July over a two day period. How I loved him though he was rarely kind, was not faithful. I loved him anyway, though God warned me. To hear this, that Jesus accepted the abuse, for such a "broken" one as I. Thank you for this message!!
So sorry to hear of this horrible experience! We pray that you have been able to experience some help or relief since that time. If you were not already aware, we have some additional resources on our website timeofgrace.org/abuse/ that might be encouraging as you heal. If still in the midst of an abusive relationship, you may want to check out this series, "Escape and Abusive Relationship" ruclips.net/video/6ThAIjilM6Y/видео.html. We also have a number of free resources, including podcasts, devotions, and sermons at timeofgrace.org that we pray might be helpful on your journey of restoration and knowing who you are in Christ. God's blessings!
@@timeofgrace Thank you for sharing those additional resources with her. This is true Christianity in action - helping the oppressed, the needy, and the vulnerable in practical ways. I bet Jesus is so pleased with that. Thank you for this little corner of light on RUclips. 🥺❤️ And to the woman who made this comment, may you find healing and develop healthy self-worth and self-esteem. You didn’t deserve such treatment from that heartless man.
This video brought me great comfort in an hour of great distress and pain. Thank you and may god bless you
Thank you Pastor Jeremy. I just left a very abusive home, having to leave someone behind there. It was a big system that reached into the church. The Pastor was notified and asked for help, saying he would meet and never did. The family is in the church with his brother giving sermons. The brother was notified 4 months prior. Silence from all, including the Pastor and Brother, assistant Pastor. Thank you for stepping up, for bringing this to the forefront. Your words mean so much now.
I have always had strong bond with god. The amount of times god has directly helped me and protected me from harm is unbelievable. I cried watching this. I feel like this video was sent to me by god. Thank you truly from the bottom of my heart thank you. 🙏🏾
'This is SO necessary. Thank you for not shying away from this subject. For way too many years, the church has hidden from what needs to be done to help save people who cannot figure out how to escape a deadly situation.'
what about people who cannot figure out how to heal from a wounded past
Thank you for sharing this. I will listen to this over and over.
Thank you for this powerful and necessary message
Please pray for my relationship as I’ve been abused for a long time.
My face is broken and my girlfriend is in jail and I somehow love her so much I just wish God would change her heart of stone.
I’d give my life for her to just be a good person.
She’s pretty smart and has so much potential.
I’d give my life to death for her to change. Even if it meant her not being with me 😞
Please pray for me.
I’m so broken……
Thank you
I truly appreciate how you shared truth with such gentleness. I need this today.
You are a loving man.✝️
Thank you❤
I felt this... thank you for making this video. God is now my refuge and my strength. There is no need to drive into the ocean anymore.
Please feel free to visit our page timeofgrace.org/abuse/ for additional resources. Praying these will be helpful and encouraging to you on your journey of healing!
Yes thanks for this. I hope more ppl can watch this.
i need to hear this may you remain strong i Jesus name God bless you im grateful !
Thank you for this message, I really needed it today. Good is good, he brought this to me with his perfect timing. May God bless your ministry.
Thank you on this subject. I have been through all these abuses. It hurts ,cripples anyone.
The third story about trust really got me 🥺❤️ Thank you for your content and for helping us feel less alone in this world. I’m a child abuse survivor. Started my healing journey in 2022 (late Dec 2021 to be exact) and still in the process of being restored. May Jesus protect all of us survivors of abuse... I do feel like we need extra protection and care and gentleness. The enemy likes to prey on the most abused and vulnerable via our trauma - and I say this from experience. May Jesus shield us and keep us safe. ❤
P.s. I was beaming by the end of the third story when you were talking about relationships and religious trauma and finding those who speak God’s love and care into our lives. I thought about someone in my life who did, recently.
This ist so beautifull. Im so glad that JESUS is good and not like Man, WHO lie and abuse. JESUS is Holy and He love me. JESUS is not Narcist and He will always protect my soul 🩵🫁🩸🙌 AMEN 👑🔥
Thankyou so much. This is God sent to me. thankyou so much.
I wish this series addressed the repentant abuser.
Thank you Pastor Jeremy.
It is ALL in how I THINK. PERIOD. God won’t answer the cries of children, much less adults. BUT, the minute I listened to that stupidly thought “ it is all in your mind”. I started listening to positive affirmations, I took the 21 day challenge, morning and night!
INDEED MIRACLES! IT IS ALL IN YOUR MIND, THINK WHAT YOU WANT AND IT SHALL BE!
Being in FEAR ATTRACTS MORE FEARFUL SITUATIONS AND PEOPLE!
It is ALL IN YOUR MIND!
Shalom!!!😊 thanks SO very much!!!😥😥😥😥😥😥😥
i feel like ur talking to me i didn't do anything to deserve the abuse i feel soo hopeless an crushed at times an i am feeling like the lady i wanna be free
Love your messege God bless you
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Thanks very, very much for this teaching 😮😢😅
Thank you, Sir. God is with you. Continue and evil will not be to be continued. You are gifted- God is among us now, we don't even require as much prayer to contact what God thinks like- orders- desires for our salvation in every way including the substitute holy Savior idea God invented and built for us and it is at work keeping us alive on life support until we reach the fully safe destination of the other more protected realm Heaven afterlife. I am never going to quit stopping EVERY deception in the World today in the sector I am working in. We are together United the human real thoughts of God. See you later after we defeat the last shred of this Satan-excrement going throughout the world for its last version this time. We can stay safer after a little while more. God will have a real new order instead of the evil new world order. We will remain the same and therefore figuring out more adaptation to the life only allowed to go righteously as time progresses. Our learning from God is ongoing, but we are already given enough which is the miracle blessing we mainly need and obtained thanks to God the one true God. I'm glad God made the real family of his of what we really are when not deceived, and I will try to help you. I've gotten through some other stuff lately but unable to help you on here because of what was required of a life change temporarily for God to solve the other problem momentarily. As long as these pages are around I'm still aware you're on here for everybody no matter what too. Scott Gross
I've been a Christian for a year and a half. I put all my trust, love, worship and repentance in God! However, mu life is STILL spiraling into the abyss! It doesn't matter how hard I work and try I'm in bad luck!
I think it's with demons attached to us through bloodline, through some traumas, soul contracts (I don't remember ever signing). They demons cowardly stick to us, don't wanna leave
Can you find mature Christians to pray for you? Are you involved in any way with a church where they are born again, and Spirit filled, and sincerely serious about God and others? If you can find one where they genuinely care and love people, that could help a great deal. Maybe you could also contact Time Of Grace? They pray for people. Demonic forces can still affect us from out past and bloodline, but many of us know Jesus setting us free, in so many different ways. Jesus is infinitely more powerful, and can definitely do this. I pray you find the help you need, and find freedom ❤️
It's not luck - it's the enemy - Jesus said 'in this world you will have trouble' - as long as we are still in the world we will have trials and an enemy who wants to destroy the work of God in our lives. However, God is greater and we can rest in him. Your phrase "It doesn't matter how hard I work" reveals you are relying on your own strength - I only say this because I'm also prone to self- sufficiency and had to learn to re-trust and rely on God instead of myself. It's early days in your walk as a Christian, but pray and ask Him to show you how you can Rest in Him and the Holy Spirit, rather than on your own strength - he wants to take your burdens. Have prayed for you x
Read your Bible everyday. The more often you read the more the devil take one step back from you
Thank you for this video.
Thankyou
Yes, “you make me do it” what the abuser says
Amen thank u so much!
Thank you so much!! Thank you for the church!! I needed This!!
Thank you Pastor. I needed to hear your message tonight.
In the hope that this may also help:
2 Corinthians Chapter 1 verses 1 - 11
Isaiah 51 v 3 & Isaiah 54 v 11-17
AMEN AND AMEN!!!
I KNOW HOW ALL OF THE ABUSES FEEL!!!
BUT THANK "GOD FOR ISAIAH 53"
NOT ONLY BY AN SPOUSE BUT ALSO BY PEOPLE IN HIGHER POSITIONS!!!
I REMEMBER THE INCIDENT WITH THE MOTHER AND HER CHILDREN DRIVING INTO THE OCEAN!!!
I AND MY FAMILY, WE ARE NOT VICTIMS BUT "WE ARE MORE THAN A CONQUERS IN CHRIST JESUS!!!"
I PRAY FOR THOSE WHO DON'T KNOW "JESUS" IN THE PARDON OF THEIR SINS... AND THOSE WHO ARE DEMONICALLY IN SLAVED!!!
"I AM THERE THAT THOSE EVIL DEEDS DOES NOT HAVE RULE OVER ME AND I PRAY THE ABUSERS COME TO KNOW "JESUS" AND ALLOW HIM TO ENTER INTO THEIR STONEY HEART AND GIVE THEM A HEART OF FLESH THAT THEY MAY INHERIT THE KINGDOM OF "GOD!!!"
THAT'S IN TRANSPLANTS
"JESUS GAVE HIS LIFE THAT WE MAY LIVE!!!" "JESUS WAS/IS THE ULTIMATE SACRIFICE FOR ALL HUMAN BEINGS!!!"
Please do more on this subject because I’m dealing with mental, emotional, verbally and physical abuse. I’m becoming bitter and hateful towards my abusers. I want better, but I need to isolate to remain safe, plus I trust no one. 😔
I love Jesus but I feel I burden him with my prayers of help, or else I’m not worthy of receiving help because of my bitterness and refusing to forgive the abusers as he did, will stop him from hearing my prayers.
Please rest assured that you are not burdening Jesus with your prayers! He hears your prayers and wants healing and restoration for you. We do have some additional resources on abuse here: timeofgrace.org/abuse/. There is another series here as well: ruclips.net/video/6ThAIjilM6Y/видео.html. Praying you will find some of these materials encouraging as you navigate a very difficult situation. God bless you!
I think the negative feelings towards abuse is the natural body, soul reaction. Some Christians tried to silence me whenever I spoke my first words on abusers, didn't like the abuse and Jezabelic abusers and their motives and agenda
Can appreciate your feeling the need to isolate in order to protect yourself. I know God can help you, because He did it for me and others. He loves and cares about you very much. I've found these helpful: Isaiah 51 v 3 &12, Isaiah 54 v 11-17, and 2 Corinthians Chapter 1 verses 1-11. ❤️
@@susandumbill8805 Thank you for your kind words, God Bless. 🙏🏼
Hi, thank you. Just thinking, as I just read your initial comment again; it's understandable that you feel like this towards those who have treated you that way. I rather think many of us have felt this way. I know for me, stepping away from abusive people and staying away from them, has helped me to become more calm, and I don't feel so hateful. In fact I don't feel hateful now, just very sad and very upset inside. I've been visiting a different church 19 miles away, it's normal and healthy, and I'm talking things very carefully and gradually. I used to feel I was burdening Jesus by praying the way I was doing, but I'm pretty sure He doesn't mind, because it means I'm still talking to Him, and He can handle it. I really hope things work out for you: Romans 8 v 28: "All things work together for good to those who love God".
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From personal experience, I will say the woman in the mini van likely did not plan to drive into the ocean, it was a reaction she was probably unaware of in the moment. She was not allowed to perish, there are no accidents in this regard. However, this is not an automatic reoccurring response from the universe. We need to learn gratitude for being saved without asking, and how we can change from that point forward
God help me, why do I feel you have abandoned me?
So sorry to hear you are experiencing feelings of abandonment! God loves you and does not want any of His children to suffer abuse. For more resources on abuse, please see our website: timeofgrace.org/abuse/. Here is a link to a devotional series on escaping abusive relationships: ruclips.net/video/6ThAIjilM6Y/видео.html. Praying some of these resources will provide real help and guidance as you navigate an undoubtedly difficult situation!
Jesus tried to get out of the abuse of the cross but he could not.
I have been abused by so called Christian’s horrendously.
They brainwashed me to feel so bad about myself I thought I deserved abused.
Which was false.
God tells believers to avoid abusers.
If you can’t avoid it you should try to endure it and do the best you can .✝️
Yes sadly some so called Christians believe in this and stand by this evil
Great video, the challenge with this perspective is that many takes it as an obligation to stay in the marriage because after all Jesus was abused too
Jesus never asked anyone to stay in an abusive marriage. Abuse is never okay - the bible just says that Jesus understands what it feels like. God doesnt want you hurt or controlled by anyone. Boundaries are biblical - we are to also love ourselves and establish healthy boundaries with those who may seek to control us. Henry Cloud's 'Boundaries; course is a good one for this and he has many free video resources on Utube.
Remember that psychological abuse and trauma happens to little children by their own parents. My experience nearly killed me. The signs in the children are noticeable if one knows what to look for. Look. Please look.
Then, pastors need to more supportive to help the woman (or man) to leave the abusive situation.
If he was abused why do we have to be? I can’t think about anything other than wishing it would all end now.
My husband Punched me so hard that I almost drop while I am carrying our 1 year old Daughter, I lost trust in him ever since, I want to Separate from him but my child... How am i gonna do this alone I have nobody with me😥
Seek help from domestic abuse lines in your area/police. This is criminal assault,.
Where is your church ?!!! I need counseling like this
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I’ve been abused and am being neglected and God hasn’t done anything. I’m thinking he doesn’t fucking exist. There’s no justice
Hello Pastor - does god allow or permit divorce if the partner is abussive ?
Do you guys have any more material for those who have experienced abuse?
Definitely. Please check the compilation of resources at timeofgrace.org/abuse/. Here is another video series that might be helpful to those currently in abusive situations: ruclips.net/video/6ThAIjilM6Y/видео.html. Praying some of these resources will be encouraging to you!
Thank you so much. And thank you also for the prompt response.@@timeofgrace
I simply don't believe there's a God who is just.
Children are abused to death everyday- how is that love? Why?
3 AM ...my heart 💜 is weeping, wishes it had the ability to use a Kleenex Tissue.... biggest question is WHY??? Why why why??? And how so many are willing to jump on the band wagon and be willing to destroy another person that did them no harm and without any proof of any wrong doing?? Not having the decency to listen to both sides of the story..... They walk on a filthy dark and dirty road,they cannot see truth,or clearly see what they have become...sad....so sad...my road is now difficult , I do not know this road i have been put on and have to navigate without a map....its is getting lighter , there is a man here, i belive he is a construction worker...he is clearing the way...he carrys a road sign ..he give instructions..... another soul whisperered to me. .....his name is Jesus Christ.....He Will Get Us Down this road..we are safe...he is Power...He is Righteousness...He is Truth and he is Love and Justice.......
Thank you for your understanding let me just say one thing when nobody believes you because the person that is hurting you is such a great guy and everybody believes it must be your fault and even the very ones that you thought would support you don't even believe you let me just say Our Father in Heaven sees it all and He knows sometimes I feel like that's not enough because we want to be rescued but the truth is he's already rescued you now you need to walk in it I was told to turn the other cheek put my focus on the mark of the High Calling of Christ and not to respond to people that are trying to break me. For me not being physically abused that was hard for me to take if it's only emotional, is this good information for a Christian wife that can't seem to get out of victim mode? It seems like just knowing that God knows the truth sometimes is enough even without an immediate rescue. Sometimes yoy just wants someone to believe you and to stop blaming you. Please let me know if this is the wrong way of thinking and please let me know how we can grow spiritually from covert emotional abuse and neglect
How can we respond to a covert emotional abuser in a way that sort of spitz in the enemy's face spiritually speaking as we grow in Christ right in front of them how can we sit at that table and dine that God has prepared for us in the presence of those who would harm us? How can we respond as Christians in the momen without giving them the fuel that they need to say see she's crazy and leaving the abused person to feel further abused when everyone believes the abuser?
I understand that God wants us to know that he hears us and he believes us but how do we respond in the moment?
While I believe in Jesus and was born again a long time ago, I have experienced abuse from the time of childhood to now. I can forgive, but God doesn't seem to fix the damage, and I question just why am I here at all? The only conclusion I can come to is God is a great rug maker, because I get walked on, and many others get walked on too, figuratively. Where is he? Where are the guardian angels to protect? It simply happens, and I wonder if maybe someone is sitting down on the job??
Lots of sick sadistic power hungry abusers out in the world! This evil mentality for power, dominion and control comes from our enemy!
I think your still evading the subject. When will the church stand up against the wolf and defend the lamb. A lot of words but no help.
The church will be protected from the wolves, and I don't mean the buildings.
@@brainbomb. what do you mean then?
@@molokaimerahawaiifivefit4653 The real church are Christ's people. The modern church is of the world.
@@brainbomb. do you think abuse does not live in both worlds?
@@molokaimerahawaiifivefit4653 The modern church will become like the abusers, and the real church, though still experiencing trouble, will escape the cycles and be seperate from the world.
Pastors,men like this fella,by men,are castigated as "new age and a message like this is always mocked as "social issues"and for a major reason.I find NOT ONE scripture in the Bible that that expressly and strictly and EXPLICITLY says in point blank terms a decree against domestic violence such as something like "Let no man of ye be found among thee that raise thy hand against in violence of anger the wife thou hath chosen as mother of thy children lest thou be,in my wrath struck down like one struck down by the thunder
bolt this sayeth the Lord thy god that ye mayest learn to fear the Lord o'israel for I am the Lord thy god."JUST ONE verse like this is all it would take to convince me the Bible isn't a chauvinists book.That's all it would take.JUST ONE. Yet I find complete SILENCE on that specific topic amid all other topics that the Bible does discuss AT LENGTH.
Ponder THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!
You gave no help to the abused , God hates abusers.
It is the one behind the abuser that is responsible for all the abuse.If we can see this then we can have sympathy and pray for the abuser.Satan is responsible. He needs to be bound by prayers of the church. This is the full armor. Of God.
God doesnt care
Oh I can testify that He does. Because of the abuse, 23 years ago I drove my car into a pole at 180km/h, attempting to end my miserable life. But there, when I woke up from the accident, there was Jesus and two angels close to me. I felt an incredible peace. You would see the car you wouldn't believe any one could still be alive. The thing is, I woke up with the car upside down and only half my legs still ...in the trunk (not a hatchback) of the car....meaning, while the car was rolling over, I had miraculously got from the driver's seat to the inside of the trunk...We could not see the car from the road...and almost no one was driving there it was far into the country...but someone saw a little bit of smoke and turned around. It was winter, I could have froze to death. I was deeply injured, and could have died from the injuries. ... It took me 5 years to finally meet Jesus, then He gave me a brand new life. That was 18 years ago and He completely changed my life. I am sorry you are in pain. If you cry out to Him, with a sincere heart, He will reveal Himself to You and heal you.
@@evera_ I've tried that a milion times..but nothing. Life just keeps on throwing one hard-luck event after the other at me! God and Jesus are the greatest things you could believe in on earth, considering everything else there is....if they can actually help you is an entirely different question.
He died for your sins so that you do not have to go to hell!!!!!!!
@@evera_ AMEN!!! To Yah be the GLORY!!!
GOD DOES SO CARE!!!! Please, why does your profile name and pic look to lovingly acknowledge our Creator, Father and yet you say the words of the devil?? Why are you behaving like a snake??
Thank you❤