Khadeen & Devale Ellis Talk Monogamy, Petty Arguments, Free Passes + More

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  • @iamtherapy2493
    @iamtherapy2493 3 года назад +1031

    Dear breakfast club..black culture is starving for this kind of content..raw, empowering, practical and relatable.

  • @aidakone95x3
    @aidakone95x3 3 года назад +878

    Speaking from a single woman. I don’t never look at anyone relationship as goals but I admire their communication, transparency, and honesty regarding their relationship and it’s truly inspiring. Thank Y’all for this and all the content for the culture.

    • @California-king
      @California-king 3 года назад +4

      Why you single ?

    • @bigh8121
      @bigh8121 3 года назад +11

      @@California-king It is best not to ask sir.

    • @wefinnasee7067
      @wefinnasee7067 3 года назад +53

      As a married woman, I commend you on that bc folks always say "marriage goals", but you have NO idea on what happens behind closed doors nor what it took for that couple to reach that point in their relationship.

    • @yennettesmith2628
      @yennettesmith2628 3 года назад +7

      Facts!!

    • @aidakone95x3
      @aidakone95x3 3 года назад +18

      @@California-king I’m just now seeing this but to answer your question, I’m still working on myself And at my age I’ve come to a decision that when I do start dating it would be with intent because I would like to be married and all that other stuff so not to say that everything goes as planned but that’s how I am working towards that

  • @nettibahanson7426
    @nettibahanson7426 3 года назад +287

    When Devales said "I got married to serve", I was blown away. I'm a single woman and I have never heard a man had that view about marriage..oh damn man. This is a powerful statement he made. Many people go into marriage with the wrong intentions and then it fails.

    • @lovedbymany37
      @lovedbymany37 3 года назад +11

      I agree

    • @notoriousMAG
      @notoriousMAG 2 года назад +7

      His Dad serves his family, he was taught by example ❤️

  • @jamikatheplug
    @jamikatheplug 3 года назад +535

    The reciprocity of serving each other is so fruitful in a marriage. That’s what God intended it to be.

    • @noname-en4ig
      @noname-en4ig 3 года назад +4

      Only if u find the one for u

    • @SGTVbcuzz
      @SGTVbcuzz 3 года назад +6

      You’re wrong actually 😑 God intended on Woman serving Man...... period. And be fruitful in creation 😑🤷🏽‍♂️that’s it

    • @LifeWithYah
      @LifeWithYah 3 года назад +10

      @@SGTVbcuzz no you are very ignorant of the word! You can google the role of a woman in the Bible and the husbands role. Basic thinking don’t respond back until you do the research

    • @bigh8121
      @bigh8121 3 года назад +5

      @@LifeWithYah Are you using a recently redacted version of the Bible??? Because in my 1950 version, it states 'that women must submissive to their husband the same way the church is submissive to God.' But, people pick and choose what they want from the word and ignore the rest. Remember in genesis the wording of Eve as Adam's second wife??? Lilith was his first wife who didn't want to submit to God or Adam. Story goes that questioned God on why she should submit to Adam, and told God that she will never do so. She further stated that she will NEVER submit to any man.
      Take your time and look it up.
      Have a good day sister. But I would appreciate it if women would stop injecting feminism/womanism into The Word Of God.

    • @LifeWithYah
      @LifeWithYah 3 года назад +5

      @@bigh8121 one verse compared to how many about spousal roles lol

  • @KharisB.A
    @KharisB.A 3 года назад +429

    I remember how Derrick Jaxn dragged Devale on his platform concerning the Monogamy topic Devale and Khadeen discussed on their podcast not knowing that all along this same Derrick Jaxn was having multiple extra-marital affairs. And, to top it off, the Jaxn character's true self of being a narcissist got revealed. God, indeed doesn't like ugly.

    • @charlenemckinney7858
      @charlenemckinney7858 3 года назад +22

      👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿That's A WORD RIGHT THERE!!

    • @BigLance27
      @BigLance27 3 года назад +27

      That's how it be cus the Universe will always reveal the truth and bring whatever you do to light especially in matters such as Derrick Jaxn case. Cus he was making all that 💰 pandering to woman about the type of no good man or how a man should value a woman when all alone his ass was the same type of guys he talked about to them.

    • @missqueen5878
      @missqueen5878 3 года назад +3

      yup 💪🏿

    • @KiaFlow
      @KiaFlow 3 года назад +2

      Woooow, that's crazy! We gotta be careful who and what we speak on?

    • @ericafielder8134
      @ericafielder8134 3 года назад +19

      I like how they never acknowledged Jaxn's response to that clip. He is a non factor with his jacked up life.

  • @LizzyLuv80
    @LizzyLuv80 3 года назад +1172

    I fucking love Devale & Khadeen and this is one of the best breakfast club episode in a long time💯

    • @jaeeluv
      @jaeeluv 3 года назад +8

      💯‼️

    • @or1946
      @or1946 3 года назад +9

      Have you checked them out on RUclips ? It’s called “ The Ellises “ I Love it .

    • @California-king
      @California-king 3 года назад

      @@jaeeluv 💪🏾

    • @survivn30s
      @survivn30s 3 года назад +3

      Got me in legit tears...it’s so real and restores hope

    • @taricamoppins8838
      @taricamoppins8838 2 года назад +1

      Yes it is.

  • @AngelaM731
    @AngelaM731 3 года назад +601

    The beauty in this genuine conversation.
    Accountability, honesty, and partnership.
    This is life.

  • @zackarybates2120
    @zackarybates2120 3 года назад +237

    The authenticity of Devale and Khadee is what draws the world the Ellis family! salute

  • @startdontstop1
    @startdontstop1 3 года назад +767

    He definitely made the point that his BEST FRIEND IS HIS WIFE! #trueintimacy

    • @ericafielder8134
      @ericafielder8134 3 года назад +15

      Love how he keeps saying my wife. My husband does that. They love saying it, makes them proud.

    • @faithwatkins7811
      @faithwatkins7811 3 года назад +3

      yeah but you see he also said that he tends to forget shes his wife cause he talks to her like she's one of the guys. Calling her bro and my dude like you don't call your girl names that you call your homeboys.

    • @startdontstop1
      @startdontstop1 3 года назад +12

      @@faithwatkins7811 regardless of how she’s acknowledged/ referred to it’s very evident that they both realize that nothing means more to them then each other. It doesn’t take too long to know them before that’s picked up. I applaud their commitment

    • @startdontstop1
      @startdontstop1 3 года назад +1

      @@ericafielder8134 yep- speaks those things continually and you eventually become them.

  • @patrickjjames5400
    @patrickjjames5400 3 года назад +393

    I feel when they said don’t hold a person to that moment. I personally have never cheated on my wife and I’ve been married 19 years but we’ve had our issues. The beautiful thing is trying your best to making it work. Big shout out to these two.

    • @mrsb0215
      @mrsb0215 3 года назад +25

      May God bless your union! 🙏🏼❤️

    • @patrickjjames5400
      @patrickjjames5400 3 года назад +8

      @@mrsb0215 Thank you 🙏🏽 much appreciated #blackloverocks

    • @cupcakepatrice8418
      @cupcakepatrice8418 3 года назад +26

      Congratulations 🍾🎊🎈🎉 I’m extremely proud of you for not cheating on your wife! It takes a real man to know himself

    • @patrickjjames5400
      @patrickjjames5400 3 года назад +26

      @@cupcakepatrice8418 thank you I’m just trying to stick to my vows and hold myself to standard.

    • @ohioboy7574
      @ohioboy7574 3 года назад +31

      @@patrickjjames5400 me too bro 11 years married wish we was close it would be nice to chill wit a homeboy who on what you on seem like it’s a rare breed

  • @musiqman8771
    @musiqman8771 3 года назад +2625

    Protect this Marriage at all cost

    • @willquoikapor
      @willquoikapor 3 года назад +51

      Didn’t they just say not to put them on a pedestal??

    • @reneef.4996
      @reneef.4996 3 года назад +19

      because all it takes is for one of them to get caught cheating....

    • @1handsmoke565
      @1handsmoke565 3 года назад +41

      💨💨💨💨It’s up to them to PROTECT their MARRIAGE not anyone else. ’ve watch them from time to time on their RUclips Channel they BOTH seems like CloutChasers to me and their MARRIAGE seems FAKE like the Rest of the RUclipsRS.
      He act as if he doesn’t want to be around her on some videos. Most of The MARRIAGE couples on YT seems as if their MARRIAGE is so GREAT but later they come on RUclips announcing their divorce and admit that they have been living a lie by misleading us just for money. ......I am not HATING... Honestly I am not I just listen and see things. I hope they are receiving marriage counseling to better themselves.

    • @musiqman8771
      @musiqman8771 3 года назад +15

      @@willquoikapor lmfao I wasn’t talking to y’all🤡

    • @valgetit12
      @valgetit12 3 года назад +1

      Period!!!!!

  • @kayekaye08
    @kayekaye08 3 года назад +331

    What I love about Devale is he funny as hell but he speaks with a message

  • @ChristineIdokogi
    @ChristineIdokogi 3 года назад +844

    “Every time I focus on my business , my goals, and my woman I am successful!” #MESSAGE

    • @H1GHD3FF
      @H1GHD3FF 3 года назад +3

      Successful from not getting divorced

    • @dumbeezy5480
      @dumbeezy5480 3 года назад +3

      but women can’t do the same lololol

    • @Anti-democratChick
      @Anti-democratChick 3 года назад +3

      That needs to be on a shirt🤣

    • @Kmama801
      @Kmama801 3 года назад +1

      @@dumbeezy5480 yeah agree, if a women focused on her business that’s too unattractive 🤣🤣

    • @katoyabroxie4276
      @katoyabroxie4276 3 года назад +1

      That statement will make a good shirt and book.

  • @TheOGMillennial99
    @TheOGMillennial99 3 года назад +171

    I appreciate these two. I've been married 13 years, and some of the things D and K are admitting and taking ownership of, could really help this generation. I love..."not on brand!" Set the standard, and don't let down! God bless!

  • @thankyoutaylor12
    @thankyoutaylor12 3 года назад +65

    I remember in a sociology class I learned the kids shouldn’t be the #1 priority. People were so upset, but I understood it.

    • @contessanowacki5754
      @contessanowacki5754 3 года назад +4

      Your absolutely right...
      From a biblical stand point Colossians 3:18-21 states the order of the home. A marriage is no good if they both first don't submit to God and than to each other. If that is done the children will be cared for properly.

  • @meshukorina
    @meshukorina 3 года назад +154

    I am a London (UK) native and have been following the Ellises since they were in Brooklyn (Roro was a baby) and I have been following the Breakfast Club since 2012... Boi am I so proud to see this??!! My heart is soo full!!!

  • @deswacypowell5356
    @deswacypowell5356 3 года назад +149

    I remember years ago meeting Devale on this set for a RUclips series that Khadeen was in and we were just chopping it up about life and finding your purpose. He’s a real down to earth dude and she’s such a sweet person. I’m Glad to see them on here.

  • @fieldhousefades9260
    @fieldhousefades9260 3 года назад +542

    Man I love this couple! Solid, comedic fatherhood and classy modest motherhood! Salute! Thanks for being great examples!

    • @jmodadon9981
      @jmodadon9981 3 года назад +2

      DG!

    • @kj7682
      @kj7682 3 года назад +11

      Khadeen....modest? Nah

    • @iamashleyyvette
      @iamashleyyvette 3 года назад +9

      Agreed. It’s so great that they love and appreciate each other for who they are. People hate on it because they don’t have it themselves or don’t think they are deserving of it. It’s refreshing to see.

    • @fieldhousefades9260
      @fieldhousefades9260 3 года назад

      @@kj7682 oh dang fr, did I miss something?

    • @fieldhousefades9260
      @fieldhousefades9260 3 года назад

      @@jmodadon9981 my boy!!!!

  • @SHOTTAeastcoast
    @SHOTTAeastcoast 3 года назад +61

    I admire these twos journey. From NFL, social media, TV roles, to The Breakfast Club. Def enjoyed watching their growth. A Brooklyn Love story

  • @sfleury2011
    @sfleury2011 3 года назад +172

    If you can’t submit to each other, definitely not ready for a marriage, yet alone a relationship.
    Y’all definitely speak the truth and stand to it, love y’all work.

  • @romegrey2600
    @romegrey2600 3 года назад +537

    I respect their relationship real talk. They're open about who they are, don't hide much and don't apologize about it even though they have haters

    • @contessanowacki5754
      @contessanowacki5754 3 года назад +2

      You already know what the haters mean.
      Their mad because they made it
      Hate their happiness
      And they want what they have for themselves.
      That's motivation....😉

  • @dangamaas
    @dangamaas 3 года назад +270

    As soon as she was raised in a West Indian household I already knew what she was going to say. "You don't tell people your business".

    • @vatricegeorge
      @vatricegeorge 3 года назад +47

      That’s like a universal black thing, black American and black African families have the same sentiment.

    • @gettygets872
      @gettygets872 3 года назад +19

      @@vatricegeorge , No, not necessarily. When you compare West Indians to Black Americans, West Indians are on another level. In other words, Oprah Winfrey and other talk shows (the whole talk show culture) would not do well in the Caribbean. We DO NOT chat our business !

    • @blazesimpson8830
      @blazesimpson8830 3 года назад +15

      She had to act like West Indian people know better than American blacks, that's how bs starts between us smdh. Talk show culture is not black people's thing period but it's a money making business in European culture

    • @gettygets872
      @gettygets872 3 года назад +9

      @@blazesimpson8830, I didn’t detect any sense superiority based on what she said. However, whatever the motive of the talk show culture is... be it money, fame, attention or simply a culture of ‘sharing’. Her point is as West Indians, we do not partake cause wi nuh chat fi wi business !!

    • @mst7186
      @mst7186 3 года назад +2

      Ahaha yes! I even said it with her ! Lol.. Jinx!!

  • @ArmandyLaPearl
    @ArmandyLaPearl 3 года назад +245

    He said he got married to serve oooo I left that 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽😍 yesssssss God is good!

    • @Tno901
      @Tno901 3 года назад +4

      Left Or FELT

    • @suezq-h3987
      @suezq-h3987 3 года назад

      @@Tno901 to pop and

    • @CWTGD
      @CWTGD 3 года назад

      Ain’t no god

    • @Katakurienergy
      @Katakurienergy 3 года назад

      Kevin Samuels laughing at your mindset

    • @nik-at-nite
      @nik-at-nite 3 года назад +7

      @@Katakurienergy Devale is the one that said it. So I guess KS would be laughing at this happily married man 🤔

  • @beauteefood
    @beauteefood 3 года назад +642

    Normalize talking about marriage issues..society make you feel like you have to be perfect in marriage or its not going to work

    • @blankmandastankman
      @blankmandastankman 3 года назад +14

      A lot of men don’t qualify for y’all to submit to and that’s an issue that brings a lot of conflict in marriages

    • @blankmandastankman
      @blankmandastankman 3 года назад

      @Nurse Mochaaa ur statement begs the question that human quality, and especially the quality of marriage, has dropped?

    • @blankmandastankman
      @blankmandastankman 3 года назад +1

      @Nurse Mochaaa I’m just asking a follow up question why ru getting so defensive? I feel like what u said was kind of broad

    • @TheShalalala22
      @TheShalalala22 3 года назад

      Exactly!

    • @curlygirl9023
      @curlygirl9023 3 года назад

      I’m not talking about our issues to others though lol not in regards to sex and what not lol

  • @beautifulyoung23
    @beautifulyoung23 3 года назад +140

    Watching how they interact as a couple genuinely makes me smile.

  • @worldofshe8582
    @worldofshe8582 3 года назад +1591

    Bruuhhh They made it to the Breakfast Club.... I love themmmmm yasssss

    • @ljmosley8427
      @ljmosley8427 3 года назад +6

      Whyyyyyy did I say just that 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🎊🎉🎉🎊✨✨

    • @JoAnnaG1
      @JoAnnaG1 3 года назад +3

      Exactly 🤍

    • @Dideeeee
      @Dideeeee 3 года назад +2

      Made it from where? Never heard of them before, but I like them

    • @melaninqueenfit
      @melaninqueenfit 3 года назад +6

      Yes!!! Growth...stay the course and it pays off!

    • @braidabunch4363
      @braidabunch4363 3 года назад +3

      SAME THING I SAID ... THEY MADE IT 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🎯

  • @kamilahspeaks2200
    @kamilahspeaks2200 3 года назад +53

    I feel like this is one of the only interviews where the interviewees actually just talked... not a lot of questions were needed 🤞🏽 BLOOM Ellises 🦋

  • @SashaS924
    @SashaS924 3 года назад +80

    I learn SOOO much from them, it’s crazy! Not just in relationships: in business, in friendships, in purpose, in LIFE.
    THANK YOU, ELLISES! ❤️

  • @chinkz6375
    @chinkz6375 3 года назад +54

    The transparency and accountability is everything ! I love the fact that they’re each other’s best friend ... that intimacy is special 💙

  • @ThePeetes
    @ThePeetes 3 года назад +143

    People want a long lasting healthy relationship, but don’t want to put the work in! Like she said... we are seeing 19 years in the making. That’s what we always say! It takes WORK.

    • @TheShalalala22
      @TheShalalala22 3 года назад +3

      !! Yes!

    • @pablomyersmyers6914
      @pablomyersmyers6914 3 года назад +3

      💯💯💯💯💯 everybody want it already made but don’t wanna put in the work.

  • @justinhines9644
    @justinhines9644 3 года назад +474

    This might be my favorite breakfast club interview since they came back to the studio.

  • @yoshi1288
    @yoshi1288 3 года назад +24

    Omg how can you not love these two, they are truly authentic, so real and loving....they aren't perfect but they make it work for their family!!!

  • @regenesis4life
    @regenesis4life 3 года назад +198

    The energy between this couple vs. Derrick Jaxn n his wife!lol Energy dont lie

    • @MrJbaby305
      @MrJbaby305 3 года назад +20

      You ain’t shit for this comment 😂

    • @amanlizamasha1937
      @amanlizamasha1937 3 года назад +3

      😬😬😬

    • @KharisB.A
      @KharisB.A 3 года назад +15

      😂😂😂😂😂You made me remember the army uniform Mrs. Jaxn had on 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. That's another level of brainwashing that the narcissistic Derrick Jaxn had done on that lady..

    • @regenesis4life
      @regenesis4life 3 года назад +8

      @@KharisB.A I know Derrick wish Iyanla was still around to fix his life and get a check.lol ha

    • @amanlizamasha1937
      @amanlizamasha1937 3 года назад +5

      @@KharisB.A that poor girl 😬😂😂

  • @missjaz2006
    @missjaz2006 3 года назад +50

    I don’t think I’ve ever watched a full breakfast club episode until now, The Ellises are just great people and I am so proud of all they have accomplished. Just such a dope family and couple 🔥

  • @veronicafreeman2545
    @veronicafreeman2545 3 года назад +20

    I love how he says, "he is here to serve his wife" This right here.... Is the game changer for relationships!!!

  • @Nunofyabizzzzz
    @Nunofyabizzzzz 3 года назад +384

    I love hearing Devale say he knows he has to serve his wife!! *You are supposed to serve each other!* I’m 24 and I can tell you right now dating as a young woman is HORRIBLE. These new young men don’t know how to serve women and expect the world without giving anything while lacking everything.

    • @jayclearmen411
      @jayclearmen411 3 года назад +8

      I guess..👀u need to check yourself or the company you keep cuz that is crazy

    • @blanketwilliams9178
      @blanketwilliams9178 3 года назад +4

      I’m old but I’m so glad me and my husband schooled our daughters

    • @cupcakepatrice8418
      @cupcakepatrice8418 3 года назад +41

      @@jayclearmen411 nall she ain’t lying 🤥 she woke woke, it’s not the company she keeps, it’s a lot of single women due to the lack of fathers teaching their sons
      It’s a big gap

    • @jayclearmen411
      @jayclearmen411 3 года назад +13

      @@cupcakepatrice8418 nah I can’t agree with that statement... cuz I’ve seen things on the other side it’s way way way too many women running off their man/ trying to trap a guy in a relationship using a baby they getting scorned then using their men’s children to hurt em...on some spiteful petty vengeful shit lets keep it a 💯 that shit is way too common in the states.
      so forgive me if I don’t just believe u off rip..plus check the divorce stats it’s mainly women leaving 70-80 percent so that part of your statement is 🧢
      that being said ppl need to be more accountable an responsible for who they lay with that goes double for women...if you aren’t 1000% sure dude wants to be a father the absolute worst thing you can do is force a baby on duke

    • @brandonWilliams-yr4re
      @brandonWilliams-yr4re 3 года назад +9

      Kevin Samuels needed.

  • @Kendra_KG
    @Kendra_KG 3 года назад +285

    I typically don’t look up to celebrities as “#relationshipgoals” yet, their love, transparency and authenticity is the exception to my rule. It’s the vibe with these two. I love it! 😍💖

  • @theresalor
    @theresalor 3 года назад +220

    I'm ready for them to win! This is black excellence for real 👏🏾🙌🏾

    • @theresalor
      @theresalor 3 года назад +10

      @VCres1000 I wasn't talking specifically about the cheating. But the partnership, legacy building, is def respected.

    • @jayc5756
      @jayc5756 3 года назад +2

      @VCres1000 TF??

    • @neit2talktalk120
      @neit2talktalk120 3 года назад +5

      @VCres1000 you THINK they haven't cheated 🤣🙃

    • @JaguarPride3
      @JaguarPride3 3 года назад +2

      @@neit2talktalk120 That part!!!! Baby you don't know WHAT them people was doing back in the day....they just stayed together cause it was cheaper to keep her...half the time you don't find out about any extramarital affairs until folks are on their death bed or at the funeral...

  • @airicacain7255
    @airicacain7255 3 года назад +122

    I fell in love with them on IG... i did not know their background..and their background did not matter because they're awesome together. I pray that God continues to show them favor. Black Love Matters

  • @nekolehenry1811
    @nekolehenry1811 3 года назад +38

    I love them fir just being themselves and I love that Devale is not afraid to say when he has messed up or is wrong! Very admirable trait in a GROWN MAN and father.

  • @Covers-and-Commentary
    @Covers-and-Commentary 3 года назад +441

    how is he a simp for loving his wife? How is she too submissive when she's serving her husband? The internet is wild. Lotsa people speaking from no experience at all looking from the outside in. I hope this relationship keeps thriving.

    • @jessicachanae9977
      @jessicachanae9977 3 года назад +92

      People are used to dysfunction that's why. They're used to women being degraded. They're used to men having multiple baby mamas. They don't understand the science behind the family dynamic.

    • @thagrandpubah
      @thagrandpubah 3 года назад +13

      Because most women think men are disposable and just use them as foolish simps, especially in marriage.

    • @kkgreen7946
      @kkgreen7946 3 года назад +41

      And these people ain’t got NO marriage or proposal in NOBODY future. And they wonder why.

    • @KharisB.A
      @KharisB.A 3 года назад +10

      @@kkgreen7946 Your comment cracked me up 😂😂😂😂. It's true though

    • @Covers-and-Commentary
      @Covers-and-Commentary 3 года назад +1

      @@thagrandpubah but this isn’t the case and it’s hard to do that in a marriage unless the man just doesn’t care anymore

  • @ChocolateNeeNee
    @ChocolateNeeNee 3 года назад +71

    This interview was so entertaining, refreshing, and true!!! Love the authenticity and transparency of Devale and Khadeen. And they always come with the comedy ❤️❤️❤️

  • @uigoods254
    @uigoods254 3 года назад +34

    I appreciate the honesty of the monogamy clip. It was so honest. They both were.

  • @leahg1424
    @leahg1424 3 года назад +100

    These two are my cousins in my head. I don't put them on a pedestal and realize that no other couple will be #relationshipgoals for me, but I can appreciate their transparency and hustle.

  • @ollieharris1148
    @ollieharris1148 3 года назад +66

    tht’s why I love Devale. he accepts accountability and lot of dudes just dont.... My former spouse (rest. his soul) he was great communicator. can’t say with the present spouse...

  • @veemiller8525
    @veemiller8525 3 года назад +24

    This was so refreshing to see that it brought a joyful tear to my eye. In a world where we spend so much time "reading each other for fifth" and telling all the "tea," this was a beautiful and refreshing sight to see. I loved watching every minute of this. May God continue to bless this beautiful union.

  • @LANDCASTER206
    @LANDCASTER206 3 года назад +36

    Great example of breaking generational curses in a black marriage I love these two will be tuning in to their podcast regularly

  • @simplyclarke5502
    @simplyclarke5502 3 года назад +52

    Khadeen and devale need their own show ASAP!
    LOVE THEM!

  • @JRBooker1988
    @JRBooker1988 3 года назад +30

    I know what a simp is. This man is not a simp. And it's clear he has earned her trust enough for her to submit to him which she doesn't have to. Yall sound crazy.

  • @jrichie3799
    @jrichie3799 3 года назад +30

    I love their balance. They're both very attractive and could do whatever they want but they choose each other. Dope stuff.

  • @sassygsand
    @sassygsand 3 года назад +82

    I REALLY like them as a couple so this interview was refreshing and fun to listen to. Thank you TBC and Khadeen and Devale, we support yall!!!👏🏽💪🏽🤴🏽❤👸🏽

  • @GoldenGirl2009
    @GoldenGirl2009 3 года назад +74

    Ni**a WE made it!! Ayyeeee my favorite couple the Ellises 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 So excited for what’s to come for y’all, super proud ✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾

  • @333apope
    @333apope 3 года назад +36

    Such a natural conversation. They were so excited to be back in NYC.

  • @djdetox513
    @djdetox513 3 года назад +71

    I dont look up to couples but this is my favorite REAL couple right here! Respect

  • @mst7186
    @mst7186 3 года назад +36

    Just love their energy sooo much. The awareness they discovered within themselves and each other is profound! So important and worthy 🙌

    • @shersher5076
      @shersher5076 3 года назад

      not one down point in the interview....#golden#

  • @shunbean8715
    @shunbean8715 3 года назад +31

    Just when I think I've heard all the stories, they hit me with another one! I genuinely love Devale and Khadeen and their family!! Y'all got a lifetime supporter right here... #Deadass

  • @omegabutler928
    @omegabutler928 3 года назад +48

    I love their energy. The family, business and team structure is amazing.

  • @Nicole0131
    @Nicole0131 3 года назад +80

    These two are my faves. It’s the honesty and the mutual respect that I simply appreciate.

  • @susansusan138
    @susansusan138 3 года назад +39

    I love the fact that they have such a great relationship but they don't act like they are perfect within their relationship. ❤♥️♥️ Thank you Khadeen and Devale for being real....

  • @AfroMillennialMomma
    @AfroMillennialMomma 3 года назад +86

    That birth control libido thing is real, kudos to him for being an understanding husband

  • @skyexmonique
    @skyexmonique 3 года назад +178

    I love their family dynamic, love the way their raising their boys!

    • @eddyd6403
      @eddyd6403 3 года назад +2

      I peeped that too, I like they move too I respect that to the fullest.. fr

    • @willanderson716
      @willanderson716 3 года назад +2

      I love Khadeen and Devale... Dead Ass! 😁🙂

  • @prayalways8562
    @prayalways8562 3 года назад +33

    This couple is the truth. Such a great example for black families/marriage!!!

  • @zuba710
    @zuba710 3 года назад +32

    They dropped some Gems!! She is his wingman, FOR REAL. Every time he had a "crazy" idea she supported and pushed him. Love this.❤

    • @tashawnahamilton6558
      @tashawnahamilton6558 3 года назад +4

      Right, I noticed that. He’s a great leader and she’s a great supporter.

  • @jameshudgeon9385
    @jameshudgeon9385 3 года назад +9

    Their marriage relationship position is accurate to the scriptures in the bible. They are doing it the true way that we all should be doing according to The Most High. "Husbands love your wife", "wives submit to your husband". Their marriage is a refreshing ray of light and hope that marriage among our people can succeed in these times. All praises!! May The Most High continue to bless their marriage.

  • @naidaknate
    @naidaknate 3 года назад +60

    I got mad respect for Khadeen and Devale. Love them!

  • @uncommonvegan
    @uncommonvegan 3 года назад +94

    Whomever gave the thumbs down is Whack! I love these two and what they represent as a black, successful couple who have mastered the Unit Grind! Salutations to the Top!

  • @RAYBOZZ
    @RAYBOZZ 3 года назад +103

    I love Khadeen and Devale. The Ellises and the Dead Ass Podcast are all that. I appreciate their honesty. I love their kids. Keep on doing what you are doing and showing us that black love is indeed beautiful.

  • @Wendy-pr2xh
    @Wendy-pr2xh 3 года назад +10

    Love khadeen and devale they teaching the younger population so much! Hope their family keeps striving and WINNING!

  • @jimpodolski7871
    @jimpodolski7871 3 года назад +124

    I like their transparency BUT You can be with someone for long and NOT cheat on them. Cheating on your spouse is NOT normal!!

    • @geovanajalio4200
      @geovanajalio4200 3 года назад +2

      Cheating is the norm. But it's still wrong. Cheating is wrong.

    • @danieltatum4220
      @danieltatum4220 3 года назад

      Nope cheating for a man is normal that’s why marriages last for so long sometimes a dog needs a new bone every now and then but will still come back to it’s owner

    • @jimpodolski7871
      @jimpodolski7871 3 года назад +16

      @@danieltatum4220 men and dogs are different things buddy. we are humans, dogs are animals lol

    • @SkywalkerGhost
      @SkywalkerGhost 3 года назад +15

      Facts! My older cousin has been married for 20 years, and he’s highly successful in the military. He’s told me plenty of times that he’s had the opportunity for some side pussy, but the risk of losing his kids wasn’t worth it to him. He didn’t want his kids to look at him crazy either

    • @jimpodolski7871
      @jimpodolski7871 3 года назад +1

      @@SkywalkerGhost Exactly and Its way easier to do if you are a christian. Glad to hear he didnt

  • @tysh11
    @tysh11 3 года назад +54

    MY FAVORITE FAMILY, I have been waiting for them to be on the show for years.

    • @uniqueone8928
      @uniqueone8928 3 года назад +1

      Lets us all be that fave family. We need to take accountability and be better

  • @kaliciarogers2911
    @kaliciarogers2911 3 года назад +29

    I’m so proud and happy for them. Couldn’t stop smiling during this interview. Congratulations Khadeen and Devale

  • @Cece7060
    @Cece7060 3 года назад +25

    Their podcast is really the shit I learn so much they just give me fun loving vibes and it’s beautiful to see a union be so positive. They really be teaching a lot thru their experiences and I love itttt . Love them

  • @Murielpalace
    @Murielpalace 3 года назад +6

    Being open honest and transparent I freaking love it

  • @Ace2Holmes
    @Ace2Holmes 3 года назад +19

    I truly love them, I love listening to their story and be comfortable, open and so regular with sharing their growth. Come up, and their families and goals. I admire them for helping showing what young marriage can look like.

  • @DannieLj14
    @DannieLj14 3 года назад +11

    "life is so much more peaceful when you choose to be monogamous"... So true

  • @thatguytraverlers9846
    @thatguytraverlers9846 3 года назад +128

    I can tell who is married and who is not in the comments. I like the fact both have parents and grandparents that are married. Fondation helps with marriage. Congratulations Ellis's.

    • @lifeventures6651
      @lifeventures6651 3 года назад +3

      Right! They have a strong support system, which makes all the difference in the world. A lot of ppl are broken when it comes to relationships (men and women) because they didn’t see this sort of dynamic growing up or saw nothing but dysfunction, so it’s foreign to them. Sad

  • @melissawhite5688
    @melissawhite5688 2 года назад +5

    Love the transparency and honesty between the two.The way they communicate and the Love they have for each other. No relationship is perfect but if you put in the work it will last. Nothing but growth here.

  • @sfreeman417
    @sfreeman417 3 года назад +13

    Love their transparency. People only see the success, but don't understand the journey that led to successful relationships.

  • @sheaballard9715
    @sheaballard9715 3 года назад +100

    I’m so proud to see how much they have accomplished together...I love them but who are the 21 dislikes 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @kkgreen7946
      @kkgreen7946 3 года назад +7

      People that are haters and hate black love families and success. It’s more than 21 losers out there trust! Sad but true.

    • @slingeries
      @slingeries 3 года назад +3

      Haters smh! Good ALWAYS outweighs the bad!

    • @DC-zj4ov
      @DC-zj4ov 3 года назад +4

      Haters hate.....

    • @HoneyBLuvly
      @HoneyBLuvly 3 года назад +2

      Haters

    • @KeyPoetic-Justice4
      @KeyPoetic-Justice4 3 года назад +4

      People That Hate! On Love!❤ but, Enjoy Negativity!

  • @legra75
    @legra75 3 года назад +11

    Wow! This was worth the wait. The Ellises never disappoint. Always honest, always sincere, always informative and always rathchet and righteous. Love it! I wish them much love and respect. 🇺🇸🇯🇲🇻🇨

  • @smile32ful
    @smile32ful 3 года назад +83

    I am proud of this interview as it portrayed our people, our marriage, our love and our men in a positive light. Word of God says a man that finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord. Devale, CTG and Envy admitted that principal is true. God ‘s word will never return back to him void.

  • @dreahannah709
    @dreahannah709 3 года назад +40

    Me and my husband have real conversations like this and it’s so freeing sometimes it can come off mean and crass but it’s still rooted in love and I wouldn’t trade us for the world

  • @LivingOnTheContrary
    @LivingOnTheContrary 3 года назад +22

    This the most perfect interview!
    It touches every single area of life !

  • @missyedwards1876
    @missyedwards1876 3 года назад +50

    Just love them - First interview I've watched without skipping around. So happy for their prosperity. Everyone has a story tell....make yours amazing!

  • @AngelaM731
    @AngelaM731 3 года назад +94

    Breakfeast club need to invite them on the show more often❤🔥🔥

  • @pearlwilliams3897
    @pearlwilliams3897 3 года назад +12

    Devale is IT ! The accountability and whew lawd 😭❤️ she is lucky!

  • @KharisB.A
    @KharisB.A 3 года назад +9

    I couldn't click fast enough when I saw one of my favourite couples, the Ellises, in the thumbnail. They are one of the genuine couples out there; and when they share their marital and family experiences, I can't help but burst out laughing😂😂😂. Keep soaring Devale and Khadeen👏🏾👏🏾

  • @brandyc1633
    @brandyc1633 3 года назад +19

    Love them and their children's book is the best! It breaks down systemic issues in a concise clear explanation that every age group can learn something from. The clearest timeline and a great foundational piece to journey into understanding. I look forward to seeing more from them.

  • @mrsbbrown4life
    @mrsbbrown4life 3 года назад +384

    I would love to see Khadeen and Devale, and Envy and Gia on a POSITIVE reality show.

    • @Pascy2473
      @Pascy2473 3 года назад +6

      Yassssss!!!🙌🏾

    • @Justme12369
      @Justme12369 3 года назад +63

      Can we throw remy and pap in?

    • @Covers-and-Commentary
      @Covers-and-Commentary 3 года назад +7

      @@Justme12369 YESS!!!!

    • @mzflygalrose0228
      @mzflygalrose0228 3 года назад +8

      @@Justme12369 yes and I’ll even say Yandy & Mendeecees!!!!!!

    • @Nicctay
      @Nicctay 3 года назад +24

      @@mzflygalrose0228 Let's trade them for Denzel & his wife. We need a old school couple

  • @SlayPositive_
    @SlayPositive_ 3 года назад +15

    This is too good. Devale’s transparency is admirable

  • @menaj2954
    @menaj2954 3 года назад +10

    No one is perfect and relationships are flawed by nature due to 2 imperfect coming together. I admire the honesty from this couple. May God continue to bless and protect there union 🙏🏽

  • @jalynngrant6018
    @jalynngrant6018 3 года назад +6

    Never listened to the podcast but I will now! Being a Caribbean women myself I would love for them to have a conversation about what needs to change in how Caribbean's raise their kids because the story about how she reacted to her son getting covid is definitely how a Caribbean mom would react LOL. I could picture it clearly

  • @bigh8121
    @bigh8121 3 года назад +971

    Derrick Jaxn is watching and taking notes so he can do a rebrand.

    • @KharisB.A
      @KharisB.A 3 года назад +109

      😂😂😂😂😂. Do you remember how Derrick Jaxn dragged Devale for his responses on the Monogamy topic he and Khadeen discussed on their podcast? Now we know for a fact that at the time Jaxn was dragging Devale for his comments (which was based on how unfair Khadeen had been treating him in that week), Derrick himself was having multiple extra-marital affairs. That guy is a two-faced narcissist.

    • @bigh8121
      @bigh8121 3 года назад +5

      @@KharisB.A Exactly!!!!

    • @TNCReacts
      @TNCReacts 3 года назад +13

      @@bigh8121 bro you ruthless for it lol but i respect it because he had no place to judge with every skeleton homie had in his closet lol

    • @MrAllysonn
      @MrAllysonn 3 года назад +6

      😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁

    • @mrinnovator11
      @mrinnovator11 3 года назад +8

      😂😂😂

  • @tamarwilliams4516
    @tamarwilliams4516 3 года назад +18

    I love them,! The purity and the honesty of their relationship is a good representation for our black families 🖤

  • @PorscheTurner870
    @PorscheTurner870 3 года назад +8

    I just love them and their entire family, I have always appreciated their honesty about their friendship, marriage the up’s and downs and sharing their family with us as they grow love to see the boys from the womb to now 😍

  • @blkmurrah-ai
    @blkmurrah-ai 3 года назад +13

    You can feel the authenticity. True trials and tribulations. Devale, when that sitcom comes brotha, we ALL gone celebrate ya!! 🙏🏽🔥

  • @catinaservin10
    @catinaservin10 3 года назад +6

    I love Khadeen & Devale their relationship bc honesty/communication is key among other things that were spoken about. I watch all their videos on Instagram & RUclips they are too funny & set a lot of great example for couples/families.

  • @kimm3385
    @kimm3385 3 года назад +43

    Omg I knew they would be here someday this is crazy! I LOVE THEM

  • @MsTina0411
    @MsTina0411 3 года назад +227

    They like the real life Derwin and Melanie

  • @sfreeman417
    @sfreeman417 3 года назад +12

    I love the effectiveness of the Ellis's communication