THE NOSTALGIA THEORY

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  • Опубликовано: 15 ноя 2020
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  • @nathanieldrew
    @nathanieldrew 3 года назад +3042

    Such a beautiful video man. It was a pleasure doing this with you!

    • @nevereverstopsinging
      @nevereverstopsinging 3 года назад +5

      I love my faves 💗

    • @MA-fh7ui
      @MA-fh7ui 3 года назад +3

      the animation omfg

    • @janbreburda
      @janbreburda 3 года назад +4

      Tought you are taking a Break from Social Media Nathan!

    • @marvin2678
      @marvin2678 3 года назад

      @@janbreburda he did but he's back xD

    • @anja7787
      @anja7787 3 года назад

      I miss you Nathaniel!!!

  • @Madderthanjoker
    @Madderthanjoker 3 года назад +2340

    Johnny: "It was one of the happiest days of my life"
    Also Johnny: "I don't remember it all"
    Johnny's brain: wtf

  • @chupachuplover
    @chupachuplover 3 года назад +1324

    If you're already very lonely, nostalgia is more harmful than comforting. You lose yourself in the memories of good times and overlook all the negative experiences, especially about people. Then when you are brought back to present day, your lonely reality hits you hard with the knowledge that you can never go back to the past - to the good times, the achievements, and the friendships you once had. The intensity of it hits you hard.

    • @jamesw288
      @jamesw288 3 года назад +16

      In dreams you can

    • @isabellabotto8738
      @isabellabotto8738 3 года назад +47

      i feel like it depends more on what you do with it, yes you can think "o i can't go back" or you can use that feeling as motivation to start doing forward motions with your life. you can say " i can't go there again" or build from scratch a better future for you so you can fill happier

    • @im.rihito
      @im.rihito 3 года назад +7

      I felt this in my heart

    • @Machinelf
      @Machinelf 3 года назад

      So dont watch this?

    • @chupachuplover
      @chupachuplover 3 года назад +13

      @@Machinelf I wouldn't know the full contents of a video until I watch it. This video made me realise that people experience nostalgia in differently from me, in positive ways.

  • @NabilSutjipto
    @NabilSutjipto 3 года назад +23

    What’s scary to me about nostalgia is that it may give a false perception that you won’t be able to have a moment like you had before. As we move forward in life, things change, and clinging to how things were in the past, of wanting to recreate that moment would only lead to an eventually disappointment.

  • @BuenoSuertes
    @BuenoSuertes 3 года назад +1067

    "...in Greek, “nostalgia” literally means “the pain from an old wound”. It’s a twinge in your heart far more powerful than memory alone. This device isn’t a spaceship, it’s a time machine.
    It goes backwards, forwards, takes us to a place where we ache to go again." - from Mad Men

    • @metanoiaom
      @metanoiaom 3 года назад +17

      The Kodak carousel

    • @mohammadrashed3218
      @mohammadrashed3218 3 года назад +1

      Amazing...

    • @mariosathanasopoulos1405
      @mariosathanasopoulos1405 3 года назад +22

      Actually "nostalgia" in Greek comes from "nostos" and "algos", the pain of remembering..

    • @maxedwardsantos
      @maxedwardsantos 3 года назад

      Great show

    • @thetheodora2371
      @thetheodora2371 3 года назад +12

      Don Draper is the king of nostalgia. It's palpable in most of his campaigns. He rejects that deodorant astronaut idea in favor of a cowboy, just as American pop culture is shifting from obsession with the past to one with the future. He's constantly longing for the upbringing he never had, you can see that in the Hershey's pitch meltdown. And even the nice parts of his past like his time in California, he never actually seems content when he gets back there - that special something is gone, can't step into the same river twice.
      Mad Men is the show I always recommend to people, because many don't seem to realize it explores such poetic themes. It's not just that show about dudes in advertising - though it is helpful to somewhat know the industry lingo to appreciate all the office dynamics.

  • @SamjThompson717
    @SamjThompson717 3 года назад +271

    'Memories warm you up from the inside. But they also tear you apart' - Haruki Murakami - Kafka on the Shore

    • @will9648
      @will9648 3 года назад +4

      I do love that book. It's full of memorable quotes that make you think

    • @Shibexx
      @Shibexx 3 года назад +3

      Every time I finish one of Murakami's novels I get engulfed by a sense of melancholy, Kafka on the Shore is my favorite book by him so far.

  • @prennyabs
    @prennyabs 3 года назад +155

    It’s one of the reasons I can’t ever get rid of my Spotify subscription... it connects me to so many different parts of my entire life. I have a playlist for each part 😂

    • @jobeyy
      @jobeyy 3 года назад +2

      wow that's amazing you have stories from some steps in your life...

    • @muhammadahsan9336
      @muhammadahsan9336 3 года назад +2

      Gosh I felt this

    • @Charloteblahblah
      @Charloteblahblah 3 года назад +1

      Samee, I love the playlists Spotify makes of music I liked years previously, I listen to them a LOT lol

    • @syneditzz
      @syneditzz 2 года назад +1

      Same, I have made separate playlists for years 2015 - 2020 and when I listen to those songs I feel nostalgic

  • @nelsonnmc
    @nelsonnmc 3 года назад +125

    Personally when I get nostalgic is super easy for me to fall in a depression because all I think is I will never be that happy again, so I usually try to stay present and enjoy the moment. The way I see it nostalgia is just an idealization of a past situation, thinking about both the good and bad things of that moment/situation helps me not to get stuck in the past.

    • @jaynestaggy9775
      @jaynestaggy9775 2 года назад +2

      I disagree.....nostalgia gives you ways to comfort yourself.....Yes it's sad that we are not back there now but we experienced it and it gives us a warm feeling.

    • @ManishSingh-jz2hx
      @ManishSingh-jz2hx 2 года назад +3

      @@jaynestaggy9775 it only comforts people who are not in the worse position right now compared to their past self.

    • @aanchaltiwari9205
      @aanchaltiwari9205 2 года назад

      @@ManishSingh-jz2hx you're absolutely right

  • @13has
    @13has 3 года назад +401

    9:17 I'll never look at Mastercard the same way again.

    • @ijpmac
      @ijpmac 3 года назад +50

      Linking your memories with your emotional network: PRICELESS

    • @vincentraxe
      @vincentraxe 3 года назад +3

      😂

    • @leejaerim8972
      @leejaerim8972 3 года назад +5

      @@ijpmac you deserve this: 🏆

    • @abdullahemad9457
      @abdullahemad9457 3 года назад +1

      lmaooooo

  • @rishidixit7939
    @rishidixit7939 3 года назад +106

    “People underestimate the power of nostalgia. Nostalgia is truly one of the greatest human weaknesses, second only to the neck.” - Dwight Schrute

  • @HistoryTime
    @HistoryTime 3 года назад +428

    Amazing video. Found you via Nathaniel Drew . Super interesting stuff. Im gonna watch more.

    • @joaquinqueijo6086
      @joaquinqueijo6086 3 года назад +4

      Well Welcome to the fan club!

    • @patriciosolorzano5737
      @patriciosolorzano5737 3 года назад +1

      It's an amazing channel.
      Nathaniel is awesome too. 💕

    • @lyndsikaya
      @lyndsikaya 3 года назад +1

      You guys both make amazing content! Yay to you finding each other. Maybe we can see a collaboration someday ❤

    • @Infernus25
      @Infernus25 3 года назад

      If you love Nathaniels content you'll love Johnnys

    • @valerieivanova2433
      @valerieivanova2433 3 года назад

      I second that; although Im here after their collab with Craig WheezyWaiter, y’all should check him out too!

  • @MorgzMitchell95
    @MorgzMitchell95 3 года назад +11

    Dude, I'm a neuroscientist and this was honestly the perfect combination of neuropsychological theory, story telling, political philosophy and sweet animation/graphics to comprehensively present the phenomenon of nostalgia. I love your work Johnny, always very inspiring and informative. Keep it up!

  • @ehmmmjay9907
    @ehmmmjay9907 3 года назад +505

    Me when I see-
    Johnny with beard: Teach me things!
    Johnny without beard: Gimme your lunch money!

    • @johnnyharris
      @johnnyharris  3 года назад +136

      Bahahahaha! man this is soooo true.

    • @aliasgerchallawala4582
      @aliasgerchallawala4582 3 года назад +5

      @@johnnyharris haha

    • @cottontheeastercottontailr265
      @cottontheeastercottontailr265 3 года назад +3

      third here don’t mind me i wanna see when this blows up

    • @maelstrom4126
      @maelstrom4126 3 года назад +9

      @@johnnyharris Nostalgia has positive and negative effects. It can relieve depression and also accelerate it. Nostalgia produces a distorted sense of how the past was. Your brain edits an experience to be something more than it really was. In a sense, your brain reduces a complex scenario and presents you with a simple emotional response. Most people are passive thinkers that react to the moment as-is and gain little insight into their experiences. (Very) Few people are active thinkers who analyze their memories and understand that their nostalgic feelings are a gimmick, but one with lessons if you examine the memory. Nostalgia is used by all kinds of people to slant their world view to see what they want to see. In essence, it's just an emotional filter. Both political parties (whether left or right) use nostalgia to color their politics. Nostalgia doesn't present the truth, because history is often more complex than we permit ourselves to comprehend. Reality is often not the same as nostalgia. It's more like wishful thinking.

  • @thecuriosityconcept
    @thecuriosityconcept 3 года назад +60

    Love the storytelling in this! It's lowkey scary how timely this video is because I've been thinking about nostalgia a lot the past couple of days. Especially how you can feel nostalgia for a past you never experienced. Like when you listen to old music or watch an old movie and you feel that concoction of cozy happiness, warm relatability and deep longing, even though they're not your memories. Fascinating. As was this video!

    • @waj_jia6820
      @waj_jia6820 3 года назад

      Exactly! since last few months this feeling of nostalgia has been frequent and seems never ending.

  • @bookish.calirican
    @bookish.calirican 3 года назад +27

    This made me feel better about how much I don’t remember from my past. I’m sure if I see photos or maybe talk to people about events those memories would resurface but sometimes it freaks me out how much I’ve forgotten.

  • @nikkijoseph3614
    @nikkijoseph3614 3 года назад +13

    this is so crazy. i woke up today and faced some insane changes that took me by storm. i haven’t stopped crying all day and i’m by myself. this video was sent to me i swear. thank you

  • @ultrahalf
    @ultrahalf 3 года назад +555

    Am I the only one in their 20s
    who doesn't have more than 10 pictures of their self.

    • @yahyakanouni
      @yahyakanouni 3 года назад +67

      I’m 16 and I hate picture myself because I think it ruins the photo. I appreciate more taking photos of a beach or a mountain or someone else.

    • @ladasodaexplains3355
      @ladasodaexplains3355 3 года назад +56

      There's no point taking pictures if all the memories bring you pain, tbh

    • @user-ls9ff4cu9x
      @user-ls9ff4cu9x 3 года назад +6

      Relatable

    • @andreylucass
      @andreylucass 3 года назад +20

      Our lives are boring

    • @joaquinqueijo6086
      @joaquinqueijo6086 3 года назад +10

      @@andreylucass I mean, I just ate a sandwich. Soooo.....

  • @thechrishau
    @thechrishau 3 года назад +66

    I think about that weekend at buffer festival a lot! This video about nostalgia made me nostalgic lol.

  • @omg.pslino
    @omg.pslino 3 года назад +27

    In Portuguese we got this word: saudade.
    It is basically a nostalgic felling regarding some good distant memories from someone - or a period of time - that you wish were back. A great appreciation of memories

  • @shravanakarthikeyan5914
    @shravanakarthikeyan5914 2 года назад +6

    I feel like nostalgia is great sometimes, brings back good memories and feels and all that, but if you’re already feeling lonely it’s just gonna make you want the past even more, which you can’t have, and is gonna take you away from trying to make the present better

  • @pluralizes01
    @pluralizes01 3 года назад +100

    The presentation is absolutely unbelievably good!

  • @alvaroop6307
    @alvaroop6307 3 года назад +7

    This video has touched me deeply. I have found myself sinking in nostalgia time and time again when looking at old pictures. More often than not, it starts to hurt and I simply run away from such memories. I thought that was just me who felt that way... It feels great to hear that this is a common pattern. Thanks a lot Johnny for such a beautiful work.

  • @austingaebe1731
    @austingaebe1731 3 года назад +31

    Made me think of this quote from Spike Jonze's "Her": "I caught myself thinking about it over and over. And then I realized that I was simply remembering it as something that was wrong with me. That was a story I was telling myself that I was somehow inferior....The past is just a story we tell ourselves."

    • @goldenmagnolia5424
      @goldenmagnolia5424 3 года назад +1

      "Her" is in my top 5 for sure. The soundtrack, cinematic themes, and character depth is incredible :)

    • @Flutterbyby
      @Flutterbyby 3 года назад +1

      I was just re-watching Her the other day and that sentence stood out to me.

  • @zivgidron4676
    @zivgidron4676 3 года назад +5

    Johnny. This was beautiful man. It’s such a pleasure watching you grow as an artist/creator. The more you’re willing to expose of your inner workings and feelings the better the videos get (not to say they’re not always pretty spectacular)

  • @NadirOnTheGo
    @NadirOnTheGo 2 года назад +11

    Watching this and thinking about stuff gave me goosebumps bro. Thank you for making this

    • @normalguy11.11
      @normalguy11.11 2 года назад

      Same

    • @sheikhjaber2415
      @sheikhjaber2415 2 года назад

      Its been a while I have been enjoying his videos but I just want to say that nowadays I love your contents too 🖤
      Thank you guys for being in RUclips,

    • @ScienceAndBeyondSAB
      @ScienceAndBeyondSAB 2 года назад

      Nadir Bhai apni ekhane?!??!!!!!!

  • @ramiel-sayegh1929
    @ramiel-sayegh1929 3 года назад +10

    The video I didn't know I needed - but is exactly how I have been feeling and in some ways struggling with. Thank you, Johnny.

  • @batyushki
    @batyushki Год назад +2

    I've been scanning, transcribing and editing my journals that I've kept since about age 14. This is a long process as I wrote a lot over many years, so it's been more than a year-long journey so far, and I'm only halfway through. I notice that reviewing old memories that I haven't reviewed in a long time causes me to care more for my current relationships, to think more highly of myself and others, and to make me more grateful for all the experiences and people that have been part of my journey. It also shows me how much I've changed psychologically, and how much my beliefs have evolved. It reminds me that we should not attach ourselves too closely to our beliefs (they change) and that we should work harder to keep the relationships that matter to us (they are easily lost). Thanks for a very well produced video!

  • @marcsoren7
    @marcsoren7 3 года назад +11

    I've been watching a lot of things I watched as a little kid recently, and the nostalgia is such a comforting thing. It feels like a warm blanket that I don't want to get out of. Although, watching them now again, is creating new memories of those things I watched, and it feels weird to be changing the way that I remember something.

    • @tomashudak3641
      @tomashudak3641 3 года назад +1

      Exactly... i listened to a song which i listened to last time probably 8 years ago and the nostalgia was powerful. But i turned it off immediately because i did not wanted to create new memories to that song

    • @aanchaltiwari9205
      @aanchaltiwari9205 2 года назад

      @@tomashudak3641 relatable.... there are so many songs which i dont listen purposefully to avoid them being "RESETTED" or should i say "Spoiling Nostalgia"

  • @nikki5095
    @nikki5095 3 года назад +4

    I'm grateful that this video found me today. It was exactly what I didn't know I needed. Kind of like nostalgia. Thank you both for putting this into the world. 🙏

  • @JorgeSanchez-je4bt
    @JorgeSanchez-je4bt 3 года назад +58

    The experience of nostalgia for those who have lost a loved one is a painful one. My sister died of cancer when she was nine years old. Last year my mother died of cancer. I have old videos of my life as a child, memories that included a healthy, happy childhood, just like yours. Today those old videos will remain in its place. In my closet. They are painful memories. The passing of time and the passing of those whom you love creates a deep, continuous reminder of one's mortality, which I believe is unnatural and a result of untimely death. It is unnatural because it robs you of innocence and hastens the inevitable through melancholy. Moreover, to those who did not have a happy childhood but was fraught with abuse, it is also painful, leaving one with something that was stollen deep in what makes them human. To those who suffer from nostalgia, I would say that today's moments are a safe haven that even now is being stollen due to the pandemic, leaving many deeper in loss. The only solution is to see the systemic issues in this country, the issues that have predictably shortened the life of those of color, and also the loss of meaning in those of privilege, and seek a better society with all the support that is needed from a civil people.

  • @LashanR
    @LashanR 3 года назад +2

    This video made me feel so many different things. Reminded me why I document and journal so much, I feel like most of the time I'm living so in the moment, so in that bubble that I can sometimes forget who I am. It's always good to look back and remind yourself

  • @teatree5633
    @teatree5633 3 года назад

    Thank you so much for this. For the past months I've dreaded the future so much, at the same time held on to my mistakes in the past. I've had my worst breakdowns this year and I feel suffocated. This really gave me relief. My ring was too big that I forgot to be grateful of the things in front of me. Great video, thank you!

  • @coe8159
    @coe8159 3 года назад +4

    Thank you for making this video.
    I was just going through a nostalgia depression episode and I was greeted by this video and I feel better now.

  • @matteodrago7522
    @matteodrago7522 3 года назад +8

    This is one of the most wonderful, precise, and quality works of storytelling merged with science divulgation I've ever seen so far. Congrats Johnny!

  • @soupiedog23
    @soupiedog23 3 года назад +1

    two of my favorite creators in the same video. this was amazing to see.
    there was a day last year where i had a nostalgia like feeling after a concert with my best friend. the feeling of wanting to go back was so intense and i felt sick. i talked to my friend and she said she felt similar. i still don’t know what to make out of that day.
    im going to school at the moment and see my friends everyday but i’ve just felt really disconnected from them. i get this feeling all the time of not being close enough to people i care so deeply for and that one day they’ll leave. looking back at old memories helps but i usually start crying. nostalgia is something so beautiful but i normally try not to get into it.
    there are songs i haven’t played in years because i just don’t think i can. i save some so that i can remember the memory that goes with it. i’ve just been waiting to play them now.
    there’s also a feeling i get when i hear a song that isn’t tied to a memory but just has that nostalgic feel to it. polly by moses sumney is one of those songs. i don’t know what it is. but i feel so connected to it.
    this was much much longer than i intended but i don’t expect anyone to read the full thing. if you want it go ahead haha. hope you all are doing well. reply to me if you need anyone to talk to. quarantine has been difficult for many of us.

  • @youtubefan6822
    @youtubefan6822 2 года назад +2

    I’ve leaned on nostalgia during rough anxiety patches in my life. This video did a really great job with the circle in your theory. That was what had me hooked. Nostalgia is nice, but can be too much for me at times. Yearning for days from the past gets to me. Great video sir👍🏽

  • @anamerkury8881
    @anamerkury8881 3 года назад +3

    This was amazing. I'm literally crying over it, understanding how nostalgia is poisoning my life. I have been trapped in one period of my life for the past three years, since I've experienced it. I have been returning to these times, understanding that it is out of control, but not knowing, why. But now I at least have some insight into it and how it could have influenced me

  • @AntonWongVideo
    @AntonWongVideo 3 года назад +140

    Nostalgia being used by politicians...or as South Park put it, people are eating too many "member berries"

  • @matthewrodriguez9408
    @matthewrodriguez9408 3 года назад +1

    I myself am somebody that's going through a lot everyday this video really brought a light back to my days that I've been missing for years remembering all the times I've forgotten. I just want to truly tell you thank you

  • @goldensun979
    @goldensun979 3 года назад +1

    It has been a long time since a video really captivated and resonated with me like this one. While I watching it felt like you vocalized many of my own thoughts of nostalgia and even seeing old footage of your life weirdly made me remember some very happy parts of mine. Thank you for such a wonderful video man, looking forward to your other content!

  • @thenaughtykidproduct
    @thenaughtykidproduct 3 года назад +39

    Did anyone else notice Julie Nolke at 6:15? two of my fav creators in one frame.

    • @marazao
      @marazao 3 года назад +1

      Is there a video of that conversation?! i wanna see!

    • @soniashapiro4827
      @soniashapiro4827 3 года назад

      yup

    • @hedgehog_1086
      @hedgehog_1086 3 года назад +6

      I swear all my fav youtubers know each other, like some kind of conspiracy

    • @TheNixie1972
      @TheNixie1972 3 года назад

      Yes, noticed that too! Just high-fiveing.

    • @qwertz314159
      @qwertz314159 3 года назад

      He definitely has a crush on her

  • @NelsonDellis
    @NelsonDellis 3 года назад +229

    Loved this video. Nice work!
    But an odd realization occurred to me while watching it. I do what you did for 30 days, EVERY DAY. Like, I can't imagine a day where I don't purposefully experience nostalgia. And this has been my whole life. Am I the odd one out here? I thought this was just something normal people do. Or maybe most people don't do it as much as me?
    It sounded crazy to me that you had to go and dig up your old photos/video/music. For me, they are regularly being visited.

    • @oogenesis
      @oogenesis 3 года назад +5

      same here.

    • @scruffytuna
      @scruffytuna 3 года назад +21

      Doesn't the effect wear off when you visit the old menories multiple times? Like your brain remembers the last time you remembered it then the new memories get mixed with the old

    • @The98597thMark
      @The98597thMark 3 года назад +10

      Johnny said in a previous video (the one about photos) that you should make time to go through your memories. I think this might be another way it makes sense.
      I don't make time for it, but what that also means is that I'll be going through my photos, or going through a box of stuff, for some unrelated reason, and next thing I've triggered some nostalgia and I'm going down the rabbit hole for hours. It's always bittersweet, and it's always unexpected, and in a way structured time for it may be better.

    • @cloverhamilton2453
      @cloverhamilton2453 3 года назад +4

      ISFJ is the most common personality type, which is super big on nostalgia and the past.

    • @klaudiaklaudia7155
      @klaudiaklaudia7155 3 года назад +1

      I don't experience nostalgia very often. I like watching old videos and photos but I just... don't do that as often, I don't know why

  • @somethung8188
    @somethung8188 3 года назад +2

    Your analogy is a perspective my mind could have never thought of, yet it's so flawless!

  • @ankur.mahajan
    @ankur.mahajan 3 года назад

    Hands down one of the best video journalist. So much diversity of topics that you cover. Doesn't ever seem like you are preaching. It's like you are genuinely sharing your experiences in ways that most people can relate.🔥

  • @BrunaClaas
    @BrunaClaas 3 года назад +11

    Wow the production and sound effects in this video - so inspiring!!

  • @bederhajali
    @bederhajali 3 года назад +7

    it's very interesting how you address the concept of nostalgia really enjoyed the video I find when it comes to that type of loneliness the best mechanism is to understand that you are a tenant of the present a traveler of the past and a dreamer of the future and you shift back and forth throughout your day through these three positions that you have but the other aspect of loneliness is that actual loneliness where people are currently lonely and I think the result of that is selective community in a sense that people now understand that they can achieve a lot more if they don't interact with people and with the means that we have now that gets amplified because you have constant access to knowledge and entertainment and information and so that's the real loneliness that people are facing I notice even in my own family the younger generation are disconnected because they'd rather talk to somebody across the world than sit with their own family because their family does not understand them or they feel alienated where in reality that it's in the past you had to compromise and change and grow together and that helps you develop more and more into social understanding

  • @bidenadministrationischina5091
    @bidenadministrationischina5091 3 года назад

    Those times were so great that in comparison you feel like you left something behind.
    You covered this very well. Every year around winter I get this feeling. I remember simple playing. Trees, snow, forests, friends, all those things. I get really sad in remembering. But they every year I remember what I love to do here. Fishing and camping. This has immense positive leads. Now I'm taking kids to the park and striving every weekend to get out and be simple. Thank you

  • @addas4
    @addas4 3 года назад +1

    Thank you very much for sharing.
    Please note that every person is different as human and we are all parts of varied spectrum whether on relationships or past nostalgic experiences so recommeding taking a dosage on nostalgia can affect you differently.
    For instance, nostalgia has a counter effect and big hit on me because I am not socially active person and do not take lots of photos/videos and I never had a true friend which made me feel bad about myself.
    Anyway it made me feel I need to take more photos/videos every once in a while.
    To anyone seeing this, you are never too late, focus on your self-development and you will win on the long run!
    Thank you Johnny for your hard work and I really notice your mixed emotions on this video, whatever you feel be proud of yourself and never feel lonely because you have a huge number of people that support you from the whole world in RUclips.

  • @kartikchoukse8050
    @kartikchoukse8050 3 года назад +3

    Man, I literally cried after watching this video. I can relate to every single thing based on your theory. Thank you for such an honest video.

  • @Wickerss
    @Wickerss 3 года назад +6

    This video has made me realise how different I experience life compared to others if this is the ‘norm’. For me, it’s more that I live in a constant state of nostalgia all the time, to the point when things are happening in the moment, I know that I’m making a permanent memory of that moment and how I felt and how sad I am that it’ll end, even though it’s still currently happening. Idk it’s weird to explain.

    • @marielbrown3030
      @marielbrown3030 Год назад

      I feel this often too

    • @anairaMPatricia
      @anairaMPatricia Год назад

      I’ve feel this.

    • @flowerfox333
      @flowerfox333 7 месяцев назад

      Crave by Paramore is a song that talks about this. “I can’t wait to memorise this day, a picture could not contain the way it feels. You say “live in the present”, I’m already dreaming of how it begins and trying to savour the moment but I know this feeling will come to an end. So I crave to do it again, all again.”
      Makes me cry every time I listen to it because I feel like I am never able to fully immerse myself in an experience and truly enjoy it because I’m trying so hard to make it a memory. And sometimes I get disappointed with an experience I’m having in the moment because it doesn’t feel as big as my brain wants it to be.

    • @MadTracker
      @MadTracker 3 месяца назад +1

      I get that. I’m incredibly nostalgic, + a lover of history. A side effect of this is a kind of hyper-awareness of the present, recognizing what are pivotal as well as supporting moments as they’re being processed, and the ability to appreciate things more fully because of it.
      I believe most people have this hyper-awareness when confronted with hallmark events, but don’t engage with it during the mundane.

  • @feelmyjulian
    @feelmyjulian 3 года назад

    my absolute favorite youtuber and one of your strongest videos. was nice to visualy see that ring because i can completely relate to it, especially the bigger one as i am an overthinker

  • @hafsahkhan7200
    @hafsahkhan7200 3 года назад

    Your videos, editing, the thought process just everything is absolutely beautiful perfection. Please keep doing what you do.

  • @MatthewOliphant
    @MatthewOliphant 3 года назад +68

    "Nostalgia is to memory what aspirin is to penicillin, a sugar-coated pill that’s easy to swallow, but won't alleviate symptoms." -Ian Shoales

    • @inquiry5961
      @inquiry5961 3 года назад +2

      So in short, nostalgia is literally copium

    • @sarahmoon-sapp1195
      @sarahmoon-sapp1195 3 года назад +1

      @@inquiry5961 Both of these comments are underrated gold lol good job 👏🏻

  • @anaritacoelho6689
    @anaritacoelho6689 3 года назад +23

    That feeling you are describing is what we portuguese call "saudade", it's sad but it's good, it's feeling sad about something good that's gone. Look into it!

    • @Mateo-et3wl
      @Mateo-et3wl 3 года назад +1

      It's just nostalgia. There's nothing magical about the portuguese word. And the entire video is him looking into it!

    • @anaritacoelho6689
      @anaritacoelho6689 3 года назад +1

      @@Mateo-et3wl I didn't say there was something magical, I just said there is word that describes it.
      But, because there is a word in a language the people who use that language are more aware of what that word describes.

  • @maggiekollar4635
    @maggiekollar4635 3 года назад

    So often, I'll watch Johnny's videos and feel empowered or informed...this video felt so different. It triggered my own nostalgia and the message at the end made me tear up. Thanks for being so engaging and versatile, and for always speaking to the moment.

  • @nilsjanssen6981
    @nilsjanssen6981 3 года назад +1

    Honestly man, your videos are SO good. All of them are so good. Also, thanks getting me through the lockdown (netherlands). I watched all your videos, all day every day until I have seen them all, loved them. You really mad lockdown 100x better, THANKS!!!

  • @VG0901
    @VG0901 3 года назад +4

    “Mourning something and yet celebrating it too” . No more perfect way to define this. Absolutely awesome!

  • @alethearia
    @alethearia 3 года назад +125

    Johnny: I have a theory
    Scientists: *hypothesis
    (it's okay, we know what you mean and love you anyway)

    • @johnnyharris
      @johnnyharris  3 года назад +61

      But I’ve empirically tested it and seen predictable results and then fortified and modified it based on those results. So I guess I’d still call that a (personal) theory.

    • @alethearia
      @alethearia 3 года назад +29

      @@johnnyharris Man, it's gotta be peer reviewed. xD mostly I'm messing with you. I'll accept personal theory. It hasn't earned that capital T yet.

    • @abhiinair
      @abhiinair 3 года назад +6

      @@alethearia He's got millions of "peers" reviewing it xD

  • @CatHostage
    @CatHostage 3 года назад

    Thanks for the video, Johnny. I can honestly say it brought me to tears. I think we can all empathize with the feelings of longing and loneliness and nostalgia you presented in this video; in a sense it’s the only thing that a lot of us have been thinking about in this isolation inside and it’s been hard and it keeps getting harder, but at least we have our memories.
    I want to feel better and to think clearer about my story “as me” so to speak, i think you touched on it in the video and you described a feeling that i have never been able to put into words before, and so i thank you for that. I think a way that we as people, myself most certainly included, can learn a lot about ourselves that we may have either forgotten or moved on from or what have you, by doing exactly what you did here. Nostalgia, arguably, is one of the most powerful emotions we can feel - both in deep happiness of beautiful dates and certain sunsets and meals, but also the longing to go to a place that we’ve been before but can never truly experience again - just as you put it.
    I really needed this tonight, so thank you again.

  • @AaronHalson
    @AaronHalson 3 года назад

    Such contrasting videos and always informative, either from yourself or what you have learnt and passed on! Love the videos man!!

  • @FlashDriveFilms
    @FlashDriveFilms 3 года назад +45

    “Reactivating dead thought patterns, over and over again, we can feel old desires like ghosts, moving us this way and that as we put ourselves under their sway again. A 15-year-old boy remembers wanting to become an astronaut. A 23-year-old man laments a lost girlfriend. Even the little things carry ghosts: a shopping list never fulfilled for an old project, a half-finished drawing, a story idea in a line.
    If bad memories nag, happy memories can be even worse. Winning a medal in sixth grade. Old soccer trophies. A special love letter. To be sure, we remember these times with love and fondness, but there is also something bad there. There can come to be a strange gnawing feeling and a dissatisfaction with a present that can never live up to the polished memories of old expectations.
    Be careful what you force yourself to remember. Be mindful when sending messages to your future self, because it might not want to be bothered so much.”-Lion Kimbro in Mind Performance Hacks (2006)

  • @Cole_Bailey
    @Cole_Bailey 3 года назад +4

    Wow that is really deep. Thank you for this mind opening experience.

  • @ToogiDesign
    @ToogiDesign 3 года назад +1

    i discovered your channel today and its been a very refreshing dose of deep, meaningful, intellectual, self reflecting content that I needed in my life. thank you!

  • @giogerard6
    @giogerard6 3 года назад +1

    Thanks Johnny, I really needed this. Been feeling super disconnected all year and this reminded me of how much I'm loved by people around me :)

  • @swaravaishnav8718
    @swaravaishnav8718 3 года назад +6

    "Taking the edge off with a dose of nostalgia." I am crying already! *happy tears*

  • @MuhammadAhsan-qu1tt
    @MuhammadAhsan-qu1tt 3 года назад +101

    Johnny you look like the Harvard version of Casey Frey

  • @UtkarshJoshi_
    @UtkarshJoshi_ 3 года назад

    I really appreciate the way you provide such prospectives towards everything.

  • @seljiang
    @seljiang 3 года назад

    Wow this is so spot on and you beautifully articulated this feeling that is always in limbo.

  • @kenhard
    @kenhard 3 года назад +25

    I wanna be Johnny Harris when I grow up, and I'm 24 years old

    • @spacebunsarah
      @spacebunsarah 3 года назад +1

      I came here to write this comment, except I’m 27 and well past the grown up stage. Crazy to think I’ll be 30 soon, and while I’ll never be a cool journalist like I wanted, I can live vicariously through this fucking guy.

  • @jinngeechia9715
    @jinngeechia9715 3 года назад +8

    The most beautiful moments in your life are also the saddest. Because they will never ever happen again. 𝘌𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘪𝘴 𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘣𝘦𝘢𝘶𝘵𝘪𝘧𝘶𝘭 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘸𝘦'𝘳𝘦 𝘥𝘰𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘥. 𝘠𝘰𝘶 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘯𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘣𝘦 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘯𝘰𝘸. 𝘞𝘦 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘯𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘣𝘦 𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘢𝘨𝘢𝘪𝘯. - Homer

  • @ayushdutta8050
    @ayushdutta8050 3 года назад

    i have started watching all your videos recently. I LOVE ALL OF THEM :) stay safe and healthy

  • @lavidawithjoey
    @lavidawithjoey 3 года назад

    I've been watching your channel for quite some time. I watch every video you upload but man... This was the most moving video yet. Nostaglia presents differently for different people based on your life experiences but this video really hit home in both good and bad ways

  • @ShiaGirl18
    @ShiaGirl18 3 года назад +4

    14:43 I LOVE THIS BACKGROUND MUSIC!!!!!!!!

    • @ruifchaves
      @ruifchaves 3 года назад

      Can you tell me what song it is?

    • @user-cj2dx5tf8g
      @user-cj2dx5tf8g 3 года назад +1

      @@ruifchaves it's called "Good Morning" by Laxcity

  • @Yellowsnow69420
    @Yellowsnow69420 3 года назад +7

    I’ve always said, “Forever and never are just two weeks in the past or future.”

  • @luanads
    @luanads 3 года назад

    I love how dedicated and passionate you are with your work. Your videos are amazing.

  • @Visuallynoisy88
    @Visuallynoisy88 Год назад

    This is one of the greatest pieces you've ever done Johnny. I'm a massive fan of your journalism and videos. Big kudos!

  • @carolinelittle4258
    @carolinelittle4258 3 года назад +6

    That very brief moment when he played motion city soundtrack made me feel so seen

  • @CasterAzucar
    @CasterAzucar 3 года назад +18

    [for me] it can be a swamp where time stands still. I avoid it, hence why facebook is firmly in the back seat.

  • @gabrielmarks154
    @gabrielmarks154 3 года назад

    Johnny, you are easily one of the best video creators on RUclips. Your narratives are honest, important, and informative. You stay true to the story and make sure any bias is low. Keep making vids they’re amazing.

  • @akhilvabbilisetty4026
    @akhilvabbilisetty4026 3 года назад

    This is the first video of yours that I’ve watched . Must say it was mind blowing , especially the first few minutes . I’ve experienced this when I read my old chats for hours. I literally have a roller coaster of emotions. Thanks man !

    • @akhilvabbilisetty4026
      @akhilvabbilisetty4026 3 года назад

      Also, I watched that the video looked similar to Vox videos and then checked the description to see that you contribute for Vox. That’s amazing.

  • @mei62789
    @mei62789 3 года назад +4

    halfway thru and I've concluded that nostalgia is too deep for me. peace.

  • @metamorphosis_77
    @metamorphosis_77 3 года назад +9

    Loneliness shouldn't intimidate you. It is a state that you should use in order to work on yourself.
    A state where the space that you inhabit should act as the training ground for the development of your soul.
    There is freedom in loneliness. Free yourself there.

    • @klaudiaklaudia7155
      @klaudiaklaudia7155 3 года назад +1

      But there is a difference between being alone- which can be a great state to work on yourself and feeling alone- which is well, not that great and quite depressing

  • @tobillotorres
    @tobillotorres 2 года назад

    Men, i've been watching your videos for the last four weeks. You're amazing. I'm really surprised about how you script your videos. Also, and maybe cause i'm argentinian and spanish speaker, it keeps me focused trying to understand all of what you're talking. Thank you so much.

  • @bindu996
    @bindu996 3 года назад +1

    timely video man, made me tear up. this shit gets more complicated when that nostalgia is tied to loved ones who have passed

  • @Rviere
    @Rviere 3 года назад +4

    Nooooo, you hit the mark with this one, how dare you make me cry alone in my room during quarantine! D':

    • @johnnyharris
      @johnnyharris  3 года назад +2

      😌

    • @aadarshahumagain402
      @aadarshahumagain402 3 года назад

      @Katya River. THANKS FOR PUTTING YOUR MUSIC COLLECTION. FOUND SOME GREAT SONGS 🎵😇❤

  • @chrissessions6108
    @chrissessions6108 3 года назад +62

    Should have called this one "How the US Stole Nostalgia" 😁

  • @TomScryleus
    @TomScryleus 3 года назад

    Really nice video Johnny. I'm one of those who lean on nostalgia (probably more than most).
    thank you for explaining how it works. It actually helped me.

  • @emanuelcarvalho8510
    @emanuelcarvalho8510 2 года назад

    one of the greatest video that I have seen from a youtuber, being honest

  • @rakaipikatan8922
    @rakaipikatan8922 3 года назад +73

    If you feel lonely, try talking to a mirror with a candle in the middle of the night, guaranteed a company! (psychosis not included).

    • @powerranger2467
      @powerranger2467 3 года назад

      🙏

    • @marksilla8276
      @marksilla8276 3 года назад +15

      Are you okay bro?

    • @prashnaveetprasad8339
      @prashnaveetprasad8339 3 года назад +12

      I did that but that lady was very angry and was screaming at me, not friendly at all.

    • @azidie3682
      @azidie3682 3 года назад +3

      @@prashnaveetprasad8339 Same the lady keeps following me. Now I don't even have alone time anymore, it's annoying!

    • @prashnaveetprasad8339
      @prashnaveetprasad8339 3 года назад

      @@azidie3682 lucky you, it must be soo romantic and cute to have someone chase you.

  • @ryuk9414
    @ryuk9414 3 года назад +16

    Sometimes I really feel like "Am I the same person anymore?"

    • @klaudiaklaudia7155
      @klaudiaklaudia7155 3 года назад +3

      When I remember how I used to hang out with my friends all the time in middle school, I ask myself how did I do that? Because now I spend almost all of my time by myself (even before corona) and I definitely was happier then. But I don't know if it's simply because of growing up or if new people will bring me happiness?? I'm only 18 and it feels like I'm a completely different person like I don't have the same experiences with people now

    • @icarus9980
      @icarus9980 3 года назад +1

      @@klaudiaklaudia7155 maybe we’re just growing up and leaving people behind is a part of the growing pains. Sometimes I ask myself did I lose myself trying to grow up

    • @klaudiaklaudia7155
      @klaudiaklaudia7155 3 года назад +1

      @@icarus9980 leaving people behind is normal, but I don't know what kind of people do I want. What do I want in general lol I don't know

  • @DavidDavid-lp9yv
    @DavidDavid-lp9yv 3 года назад

    I cant say how much I love the spotify playlist that show you your most listened songs of every year. Those songs bring a crazy amount of nostalgia. If I listen to them i feel like im in those years again

  • @MrShrongshu
    @MrShrongshu 3 года назад

    Thanks Johnny this helped me out a lot. I recently found your channel, and I’ve already watched almost all of the videos on your channel. You are very inspiring...

  • @temper44
    @temper44 3 года назад +3

    This clip reminds me of the Mad Men episode on Nostalgia.

  • @washuotaku
    @washuotaku 3 года назад +13

    Johnny Harris: Does multiple projects in order to provide content each week. Me: Watch RUclips all day.

    • @rajadhirajmaharaj
      @rajadhirajmaharaj 3 года назад

      21st century is not for working class humans. 21st century is for the privileged ones.

  • @momoonline4857
    @momoonline4857 3 года назад

    The memories this made remember..... The content you make is something special and is awesome!

  • @jiwan88
    @jiwan88 3 года назад +1

    Johnny, you really changed my mood for recommending a dose of nostalgia. Keep making more such videos. cheers.

  • @anonymousaccount100
    @anonymousaccount100 3 года назад +19

    you know it's crazy because I grew up in the Philippines listening to filipino music in Tagalog. I remember a year or two ago, having been in America for over 8 years already, driving around I put on a playlist of these old songs, and they literally sort of time-traveled me back to those carefree childhood days, and I actually started to tear up. As I listened to the music, the moments and memories of that past time felt more real than any virtual/augmented reality tech we have today. You're right, it's such a weird dualistic battle of emotions, I'm not even sure if those tears were of joy and fondness or of sadness and longing. Probably both! Which is such a crazy concept to understand

  • @jakekempen4400
    @jakekempen4400 3 года назад +3

    I'm gonna watch this video again in 2028 and be like, "Woah."

  • @rissamayrox
    @rissamayrox 3 года назад

    this was incredible. the memory diagram was super helpful and i resonated with it a lot. I'd add that when we do get these doses of nostalgia though it will still be met with melancholy, i think those memories can serve as both a reminder of who we actually are as well as reference point for how far we've come. but as you said, the brain isn't always the best at sorting all this information. looks like i've also unintentionally been doing this experiment alongside you and Nathaniel... I've been going through my own family photo albums, only keeping those "essential" photos and deleting the rest (per your advice aha)- and I've noticed an overall improvement in my mood and mental health. nostalgia in small doses definitely does wonders ✨

  • @jayheh
    @jayheh 3 года назад +1

    This was such an enriching video to watch, you managed to present exactly how I felt, but wasn’t able to express into words so eloquently.