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  • @drx6139
    @drx6139 2 года назад +901

    That was prob the most transparent and honest break up testimony ever.👏🏽It takes a lot of courage to be vulnerable and that truthful, especially from an influencer. I’m sorry this happened but Niki is so resilient that I think after she weathers this storm and mourns the breakup she’s going to soar again. Mark my words: I have a feeling her channel is going to evolve and be even better once her head and heart get on board. This will push her to thrive!

    • @mckenziemcglynn1286
      @mckenziemcglynn1286 2 года назад

      Gosh

    • @miniasworld
      @miniasworld 2 года назад +2

      I came here to say this, but you said it better. I also never really that they were a good fit...I just assumed there was off camera chemistry that didn't come through on her channel. Nonetheless, now she's free to spend her time with someone more compatible.... Because Nikki is effing AWESOME!

  • @shellsncheese9934
    @shellsncheese9934 2 года назад +224

    "The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone" - Robin Williams
    We are all rooting for you, Nikki 💜

  • @caroliinec
    @caroliinec 2 года назад +371

    Nikki, I'm saying this with the most love and care for you: The "sweetest person" doesn't prioritize their friends over their significant other. The "sweetest person" doesn't just go cold turkey with someone especially when they are FULLY AWARE that person is going through a difficult time. The "sweetest person" wouldn't let their significant other feel out of place. Someone who is sweet and caring would put you first because they care about you. They would reach out to you because they want to. They would make an effort to help you feel comfortable because they care. This guy definitely does not deserve to be called the "sweetest" and does not need excuses to be made for him. He is a grown man who is incapable of handling a mature relationship. It's a shame he was blind and didn't realize the gem of a person you are RIGHT THERE IN FRONT OF HIM. He took you for granted. You deserve more than that. You are worth more than that. You deserve someone who is genuinely sweet and I hope one day you will meet someone who will show you what the "sweetest" person is, and then you will see everyone else before that person PALES in comparison. Work on you. Spend time with you. This is the only way you will learn and know your worth so then you will be able to recognize people who can match it or not. It will save you so much heartbreak, time, and tears in the long run. Highly recommend this video: ruclips.net/video/7Hnlk28K0S0/видео.html

    • @littlegem357
      @littlegem357 2 года назад +31

      THANK YOU for saying it!!! I feel like this keeps happening to her 🤦🏼‍♀️. She’s gotta find a MAN and no more little boys!! We love you Nikki 💖💖💖💖

    • @amerikanka
      @amerikanka 2 года назад +6

      Perfect comment until the end linking to Shallon Lester who has severe internalized misogyny and has been diagnosed as a narcissist, and it shows as her entire channel premise falls on identity disturbance... a common narcissistic trait where you live vicariously through/project your perceptions onto other people you've never met in your life. and the worst narcissistic behavior of hers--smear campaigns. she has no conscious regarding spreading false information about people she has a negative bias against, as well as complete disregard for their reputation or mental health as a result of her spreading lies about them... *shocker* mostly its women who she disrespects. she's a horrible, disordered c***

    • @pinkrainbow1
      @pinkrainbow1 2 года назад +27

      I think one of the problems is that she prioritized him too much, moved her whole life to be there for him and provided a home for him that he wouldn't have been able to afford himself. Agree with everything you said. He prioritized everything else over her. 😥

    • @ranahhhh92
      @ranahhhh92 2 года назад +11

      agree! i got little boy energy from him

    • @kaigreenewife2207
      @kaigreenewife2207 2 года назад +6

      Shallon Lester gives me femcel vibe. She is so negative

  • @laurenbx
    @laurenbx 2 года назад +205

    The fact you weren’t his priority, especially when you were losing max, speaks volumes about his maturity and commitment so you’re definitely better off. Miss seeing Max - hope you’re taking good care of yourself x x (also v glad you vlog on RUclips as I don’t use Instagram!)

    • @Jesssmia
      @Jesssmia 2 года назад +8

      I couldn’t agree more.. he seems selfish.. like who would wanna see their friends more than his bff( his woman?) nah girl she’s better without him for sure, plus you’re a smoke show! ❤️

  • @ysanchez4
    @ysanchez4 2 года назад +438

    Like my momma said “If I gotta ask for it, I don’t want it”. Building a life together takes 2. The right man will make u his priority even amongst his family

    • @anouschkatsk
      @anouschkatsk 2 года назад +4

      😊🙌🏻great point

    • @ingridkrir
      @ingridkrir 2 года назад +1

      Frida kahlo said that

    • @TassiaWagner
      @TassiaWagner 2 года назад +2

      Exactly 👏🏾👏🏾 No shade to him but he is still young minded

    • @zivilesalniene3511
      @zivilesalniene3511 Год назад

      100%, my man left everyone and moved away to another continent with me. Everyone is just temporary, the two of you are forever ❤

  • @kcmarie3774
    @kcmarie3774 2 года назад +439

    I wasn't ready for all this sadness. I swear when it rains it pours. Teddy sounds like he's still pretty young and wants to hang with his friends in his little free time. So sorry you are going through a breakup and grieving a terrible loss. Sending you lots of love and hugs.

    • @erintooley1070
      @erintooley1070 2 года назад +16

      Yea that’s what I was thinking too- he just seems so young. Sometimes it’s all about the timing.

    • @littlegem357
      @littlegem357 2 года назад +2

      @@erintooley1070 imo this should have been evaluated before she moved. It’s not hard to tell this stuff before making the big jump! Poor girl

    • @audreyjackson7379
      @audreyjackson7379 2 года назад +1

      @@littlegem357 you’re definitely right, but love is blind; when you’re in a long distance relationship even for a year and a half you get to skip over majority of the unpleasantries that people in normal relationships face. She probably thought she knew him pretty well.

    • @Miumiu-bc4rz
      @Miumiu-bc4rz 2 года назад

      Love you babe but please choose better partners 💃🏻 this is self love too.

  • @MentalHealthMonday
    @MentalHealthMonday 2 года назад +228

    Nothing is worse then feeling lonely in a relationship. Fighting for someone's time is tough and definitely drains your energy. When the time is right you will find someone who makes you feel adequate! In the mean time keep living your best life !!
    Also sorry about Max. I lost a pet and it is a grieving process.

  • @hoothoot6788
    @hoothoot6788 2 года назад +84

    Sweet girl, you focus on you. I used to work at a coffee shop that group of ‘friends’ would frequent when they were in flight school and the tea is they were ALL chatting it up with VERY young girls. Teddy was always wonderful to the staff and never caused problems BUT I always was weary of the people he surrounded himself with. Moral of the story, the universe has a way of protecting you sometimes.

  • @Fiddler4mySavior
    @Fiddler4mySavior 2 года назад +91

    “If he wanted to, he would”. Girl!! You deserve to be a priority!! You also deserve to grieve with the love of the world and you definitely have that! Max was so lucky to have you as a mom! I’m so sorry for your loss. If I could reach through the screen and hug you, I would!

  • @bentleyh305
    @bentleyh305 2 года назад +279

    My husband is an Air Force pilot and I cannot imagine trying to integrate myself into that life if my husband didn’t try his absolute hardest to fit me in and prioritize including me in his time off. It’s a very difficult group to infiltrate on your own. I completely understand where you’re coming from in that regard!! And my most sincere condolences about Max :( I’ve loved watching you for many years and wish you all the best!!!

    • @marahmoonflower7926
      @marahmoonflower7926 2 года назад +11

      thank you for your personal sacrifice for being a military wife, sincerely. We see the flights overhead lately morning noon, and night where I'm at near Los Angeles. We feel the resolve is near now. There are many more millions of people who know the military is actually saving the world right now. ...and we are so grateful!. We also do look forward to be able to give the love, respect, and celebration to them and families who sacrifice for all at this time during the secret war we are actually in. Sending love and admiration from a long line of military family. (My grand pops was a fighter pilot in WWII). the other side of the rainbow is near. God bless our military and families!!

    • @Michelle-by9fp
      @Michelle-by9fp 2 года назад +1

      My husband was K9 in the Air Force and now is on the SWAT team for a Sheriff's department as well as the Air guard. The time thing is so hard. It needs to be intentional or else it falls apart pretty quickly.

  • @DrDrayzday
    @DrDrayzday 2 года назад +36

    Sad to hear about sweet max 💔

  • @taylorlane6289
    @taylorlane6289 2 года назад +157

    With your break up you will find someone who values quality time just as much as you do. And won’t make you feel bad or awkward that you asking for more time. I think you’re such an easy going person that you would be happy doing whatever as long as your with the right people. I’m sorry teddy didn’t see that you were just wanting to be loved but instead he took as you being needy. The right person will understand how you need to be loved.

    • @LemansSunset350
      @LemansSunset350 2 года назад +1

      100%. I just said something similar ☺️

    • @dragonixheli5474
      @dragonixheli5474 2 года назад

      I wouldn't take it that way, I am in a relationship with someone whose time is rare due to their job and it is really hard on their side to make it good for everyone. If you spend your rare time with only one person, someone else is always offended so you want to make it right for everyone.
      My bf often has to argue with others if he spends time with me because everyone wants to see him and nobody is interested that the day has only 24h.
      I manage to give him freedom and I understand his struggle but it was definetely a hot topic the first years of our relationship.
      And not everybody wants to put the energy into this and that's absolutely understandable and ok.
      I am sure Teddy saw what Nikki wanted but Teddy shouldn't ignore what he wants and needs as well and both things just didn't fit into their lives right now

    • @jessicalara2900
      @jessicalara2900 2 года назад +5

      She won’t even have to ever ask for more time with the right guy 💕

    • @hdmartyh
      @hdmartyh 2 года назад +3

      He had to work...I get the sentiment but the way it is presented was that he had long hours and she simply didn't. You cant blame the guy for wanting to earn a living.
      I feel like your dumping on the guy for a cutesy tag line...he did nothing wrong here.

    • @taylorlane6289
      @taylorlane6289 2 года назад +2

      @@hdmartyh people are allowed to feel however they want to feel.

  • @brittanymoore4946
    @brittanymoore4946 2 года назад +93

    First red flag with Teddy was when you guys first started dating/talking and he didn’t respond to your messages and it wasn’t a big deal to him. He may not be a bad person but he is dense and you’re way too beautiful inside and out for that 💛

    • @notcountingsheep3361
      @notcountingsheep3361 2 года назад +3

      That's what I said when they were talking about it in that video, I was like RUNNN

    • @littlegem357
      @littlegem357 2 года назад +4

      🤣 I didn’t wanna be mean and say this shit but I’m glad someone did

    • @mr.marcus2822
      @mr.marcus2822 2 года назад +1

      So many messed up chicks out there that actually want the guy even more when they use this approach.

  • @velvetp5754
    @velvetp5754 2 года назад +196

    I love how positive you are about your breakup. Some things just aren’t a match-made in heaven and that’s okay. Doesn’t mean you have to bash the other person. Doesn’t mean bad blood. Doesn’t mean drama. Just peace and love ✌🏼. Wishing you the best, you beautiful soul!!!

  • @Invalid2223
    @Invalid2223 2 года назад +150

    Nikki,
    I’ve followed your journey since 2014 and also purchased your meal+training coaching plans. I’ve seen a lot of your content and have related with you so much to what you’ve allowed us to see.
    I am 5 mins into this video and my heart dropped when you mentioned the passing of Maximus! I want to say, he lived a life full of love and nothing less than a king with you as his person. I hope your heart heals and you think only positively about all the joy you provided for him. Your bond with him was more than most will ever experience. Don’t ever forget what a blessing you were to him and to this world.
    Rest peacefully, Max.💙

    • @shanluann6417
      @shanluann6417 2 года назад +6

      You literally took the words right out of my mouth!! We all love you so so much Nikki! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @aurahippiesoul
    @aurahippiesoul 2 года назад +216

    i appreciate you sharing your authentic feelings regarding more personal things like the break up. it helped me to hear you speak openly about your feelings 💛

  • @yupyupyippe4568
    @yupyupyippe4568 2 года назад +347

    Nikki, first of all you look SO GOOD GIRL! And I am so sorry about Max, just know you have a lot of followers that are pet lovers and we are always here for you! Love you! Stay Strong Girly.

  • @aroundtheson1096
    @aroundtheson1096 2 года назад +177

    I can see the relief!! Honestly, you just seem so much more comfortable without Teddy. You deserve the World Nikki. ❤❤❤
    And i am so sorry about Maximus Prime. I know that love & pain. 💔

  • @UnstoppableMorgan
    @UnstoppableMorgan 2 года назад +146

    I wass married to a Marine once, also a Navy SEAL. I completely understand what you mean by how much they work. Especially me being a woman that has been self employed since 22, It is a job in itself finding a way to wait for your man to be home and available. It's for the best you move on. You will find a good match for you beyond the perfect match you are for yourself. Sending you hugs Nikki.

    • @thecaninefoodie
      @thecaninefoodie 2 года назад +1

      I’ve been there too sister. Was married to a SEAL for 7 years. It’s HARD.

  • @laurawassy
    @laurawassy 2 года назад +53

    I missed this Nikki… not sad Nikki, but free and open Nikki. You’re being your full, authentic self and it shows. So much growth is on your way girl, embrace it!! We’re here supporting you 💗

  • @phaton89
    @phaton89 2 года назад +6

    The best advice about relationships I ever got was from my own blind frustration: Stop looking for a life that you fit into, and make space in your life for anyone to come in to it. It came from how utterly awful I felt after trying SO hard to jam myself into someone’s already established life in a place I knew not a single soul.
    I’d spent so long trying to mould my life into something for someone else and it always ended up with me feeling like I never had anything for myself. It was when I stopped trying to fit, and started to create the spaces in my own life that I wanted to share with someone else that things clicked. You start looking for people in the places you want to meet them instead of going with what you think should fit or work.

  • @sarysiever
    @sarysiever 2 года назад +10

    Just lost my cat of 12 years, my baby, the pain is indescribable of watching them go my heart is with you ❤️

  • @macrosformommy9808
    @macrosformommy9808 2 года назад +100

    Nikki,
    Vulnerability is a super power, and thank you so much for showing us that it is okay to open up. I can only imagine how difficult it can be to share your life with the world and it takes a level of resiliency that most people aspire to. You are healing so well and are doing great things for the world. Your presence matters, your talents matter, your soul matters. Please don’t forget that! Life certainly throws us curve balls, and it will be exciting to see you emerge on the other side full of energy, healed, and doing all of the boss babe stuff. You’re doing great!
    By the way, I absolutely empathize with much of this…I will have a glass of wine in our honor. Lol.

  • @jeb5247
    @jeb5247 2 года назад +115

    Your boyfriend should want to spent his free time with you! Sure, not all of it, but he should have made efforts to have quality alone time. You’ll find someone that wants to spend all their time with you!

  • @rublejessica89
    @rublejessica89 2 года назад +26

    Good for you for standing up for yourself and saying I need someone who wants to be WITH me, spend time WITH me. He doesn't want to spend time with you someone else will. Sounds like he wasn't ready to be in a grown up relationship. Eventually he will grow out of it but you deserve someone who is ready for your level, and the type of commitment you deserve.

  • @ariamtaglieriramos5604
    @ariamtaglieriramos5604 2 года назад +109

    You’ve always have been so mature on breakups but in this one you’re in another league! I think is amazing how are you handling it even with all your anxiety and depression. We love you and support you! You’ll find someone that’s just right for you. I cannot say enough how hard has been watching you say goodbye to maxi! But we all know that you gave him the best life he could possible have and he knew it! Can’t wait to see you blossom even more!! You look amazing 🥰🥰

    • @amyprussia2858
      @amyprussia2858 2 года назад +1

      She really does look fantastic….glowing!

  • @PersephoneRisingTarot
    @PersephoneRisingTarot 2 года назад +15

    I resonate with this so much. It's wild how some environments feels so aligned and easy, then some feel so cold and alien.

  • @bunyz2
    @bunyz2 2 года назад +23

    I'm here with you Nikki, going through similar paths. You got this, we got this!this!! Love you

  • @KaraCorey
    @KaraCorey 2 года назад +27

    Missed your vlogs but I'm glad you took the time you needed before coming back. Always appreciate your vulnerability, and can relate to the loss of a furbaby, thinking of you🙏♥️

  • @Ana-xq3yr
    @Ana-xq3yr 2 года назад +97

    So sorry about Max. He was the sweetest bebe. No doubt he’s having the best time in cat haven right now. Sending positive vibes ur way❤️

  • @ashleywommack8746
    @ashleywommack8746 2 года назад +10

    One thing we all love about you, your transparency. You da best! Love you!

  • @helen020y
    @helen020y 2 года назад +10

    Awww Nikki , keep your head up!! you've grown so much from years ago, since I've started seeing your videos soo inspiring! Sending hugs!! Hope you know you don't have to do much to even brighten up someones day

  • @MK_3777
    @MK_3777 2 года назад +6

    Your raw openness & honesty is so refreshing. Makes the internet feel less toxic :)

  • @Yzhangw
    @Yzhangw 2 года назад +60

    Keep on smiling girlie! Teddy reminds of my ex husband I was with for 10 years, I kept wishing he would grow out of partying and going out all the time, but guess his love for me wasn’t as strong as his love for his friends, I eventually had to file for divorce because I deserve better. It’s so much better that you guys are ending it now vs years down the road. You will be so happy this happened once you give it some time. So happy you are back!

  • @rubyred93chev
    @rubyred93chev 2 года назад +23

    _Hearing about Maximus Prime broke my heart, and words alone can not describe the sadness I feel about your loss. (He was the best kitty ever)! The new sofa looks great in your house too. Glad that you're staying in San Diego as it's always been a beautiful oasis in Southern Cali. Having been a follower since day one of your RUclips vlog, I'm totally here for you 'darlin. At the end of the day, you, Nikki Blackketter is the most important person to yourself no matter what._

  • @samkaelun
    @samkaelun 2 года назад +12

    So sorry to hear about Max. I cried with ya through the journey. My cat is my child, so I feel you. You’ve made me feel better through so many stages of my life. I hope we can do that for you. Sending lots of love and support.

  • @angelacrawford2255
    @angelacrawford2255 2 года назад +87

    Crying watching you cry about max 🥲 I can’t even begin to think about the day we lose an animal. Our oldest is 10 years. The relationship is so different than with humans ❤️ love you so much Nikki. I’ve missed you!

  • @Mariely1
    @Mariely1 2 года назад +16

    13:28 gave me casadenikki vibes....The boat chandler, brick wall. Ive been a fan of your for so many years now. You are such a fun and funny person Nikki, there are people who love to be around you. I’m happy to see this side of you again cause i can notice a new energy now. Sending u a virtual hug. Love ya!

  • @stephlyndsey3932
    @stephlyndsey3932 2 года назад +25

    I love that you never seem bitter after a breakup, just better 😉 You're amazing, stay true to yourself and your person will come. We love you, take care of yourself 💕

  • @Aniniji
    @Aniniji 2 года назад +4

    Thanks for being so vulnerable and honest with us Nikki!!!! You’re truly the big sister I look up to! I’m having a very difficult time too and your openness and positivity motivates me a lot! Love you and will support you for Eva!!

  • @jesusiskingofmyheart
    @jesusiskingofmyheart 2 года назад +16

    I’ve never been a cat person but man, I’ve always been able to feel your love for your cats Max & Ruby! 🥺❤️ They’re so sweet & precious! I’m so sorry to hear about Max’s passing! 😭 Also, your feelings regarding your breakup with Teddy are totally valid. I’ve been in that same position before where it felt like I was constantly fighting for a spot in my partner’s life & the relationship began to feel very one-sided. Quality time is my love language so I truly believe actions speak louder than words! Please remember how much we love you 🥰 Keep your head up, beautiful. Stay strong Nikki 🙏🏼✨

  • @lovely87ym
    @lovely87ym 2 года назад +22

    Going through a breakup after 10 years this is the hardest thing ever and so painful but I won’t give up on my self anyone feeling lonely just know things will be okay! We got this!

    • @julianalvarez6610
      @julianalvarez6610 2 года назад +4

      Going through it too, 7 years of forcing things to work. I’m glad I made the first step. Leaving the house and starting from scratch. We got this!!

  • @JLatham325
    @JLatham325 2 года назад +3

    I've always adored how open, honest, and raw you are. It's so refreshing and honestly so helpful to those of us that could be feeling the same way but are ashamed to vocalize it. I just love you

  • @ElouraWild
    @ElouraWild 2 года назад +7

    I’ve been here since 2014. You’ve been through a lot since then and I’m sure a lot we don’t know about too. You’re so strong and inspiring Nikki 🤍 Love from West Aus! 🦘

  • @prncscaitlyn2195
    @prncscaitlyn2195 2 года назад +4

    I’ve grown up with you & watched you talk about break ups a couple of times now & you always do it with such grace. You’re a beautiful person inside & out and you’ve been such an important role model in my life 🥲

  • @gretchenmanresa4435
    @gretchenmanresa4435 2 года назад +9

    You deserve someone who puts you first! I’ve friends but my husband has been #1 from the start & i’m his too! Sending you good vibes! Keep shining ✨

  • @Lindsay-uo2rp
    @Lindsay-uo2rp 2 года назад +2

    I too have been a fan for many years. Seeing your travels, moving here and there. You inspire me to be healthy. watching your transformation over the years. your success with friendships, sponsorships and social media I enjoy when you takes us on the vlog. For me the biggest reason I think I continue to follow your journey is your just the girl next door! I love that about you! I do miss u closer to ur little sisters and mom and dad you seem to be a different happy when your closer to them guys! Love ur content thanks for inviting us into your life! We always have time for you!!!!

  • @budgiebean9405
    @budgiebean9405 2 года назад +73

    I know it’s not really appropriate but laughed so hard at you calling it “lukewarm tea”😂 I love you so much Nikki thanks for posting again!

  • @iLuvMarlenyNunez
    @iLuvMarlenyNunez 2 года назад +11

    Hello beautiful Nikki It’s been a while I have watched you for a while let’s say u are one of my reasons to start RUclips I love you I’m very sorry about Max My condolences to you & I want to share with u that u are definitely not alone when it comes to finding the right partner the right one will come❤️

  • @UNRULYMARSHA
    @UNRULYMARSHA 2 года назад +21

    Breakup are hard but it can be a good thing. You don't want to waste your life away trying to work on a relationship that is not meant to be

  • @dianarojas5210
    @dianarojas5210 2 года назад +1

    I’ve been following you from the start and I feel like your little sister watching you grow and evolve and in that journey you’ve guided me through your resilience and strength. You’re such an inspiration and I see myself in you through the experiences you share with us 💗 Sending you love and peace queen 🌬🌎💗

  • @Sesumii
    @Sesumii 2 года назад +1

    I loved all of the loading transitions between clips. I appreciate you putting in the energy to talk to us. You’re trying so hard to be strong and you’ve taken on so much since Max’s diagnosis. Your vulnerability shows the trueness of your heart and I hope that we can lift you up through your days that aren’t so easy. You are truly sunshine and I am sending you huge hugs and am hopeful your spirits will be up again soon. ❤️

  • @Charelhuisman
    @Charelhuisman 2 года назад +90

    Man I feel you about teddy, that’s so tough but I do believe your partner should be before friends imo personally but you’re right you cant force that so no one was really wrong, you just have to find someone who feels the same way.

    • @sonyatv7463
      @sonyatv7463 2 года назад

      So true....Girlfriends needs to be a Priority also.

  • @julianalvarez6610
    @julianalvarez6610 2 года назад +13

    Oh my goddess, I just broke my relationship of almost 7yrs. And let me tell you, my story was the same as yours. I’m glad you didn’t waste time likeI did. Thank you for this video! We love you!

  • @amandabrezina4950
    @amandabrezina4950 2 года назад +7

    Nikki, I just want to send such a big virtual hug. I’ve followed you for over 6 years now and I feel like you have been such a big part of my journey in so many ways even though you have no idea. From fitness, to life things and relationships and mental health. Just know you are such a ray of sunshine and touch so many people. I am so sorry you are going through the loss of your best friend right now but if Max could talk you know he would be so proud of you. Keep your head up gorgeous, your puzzle piece will make someone else’s complete one day when it’s the right person and just stay true to you and what you have been doing 💛 good things happen to good people. Hang in there!!

  • @madisonrai
    @madisonrai 2 года назад +3

    Nikki girl you are such a force. I’m so so sorry about Max, it’s truly the hardest thing to go through. You are so powerful, I’m rooting for you!

  • @NS-1234
    @NS-1234 2 года назад +4

    Youre so strong girl! I've watched you since the beginning and youve grown so much. Stay strong ❤

  • @jessigarza1018
    @jessigarza1018 2 года назад +6

    I love you Nikki & trust me, we miss max too. I really hope you keep going like you’ve been. You motivate me to continue to prosper at my goals. 💗

  • @5831113
    @5831113 2 года назад +2

    Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your feelings with us Nikki. We love you so much, and are here supporting you every step of the way xxx

  • @krissygirl2609
    @krissygirl2609 2 года назад +107

    Maxi poo is still with you Nikki! always and forever!
    teddy sounds like he needs to grow up. I hate to be that person but the age difference is definitely playing a role here. his priorities aren't aligned with yours. I'm sure you learned a lot regardless!
    the fact that he can go cold turkey without talking to you speaks volumes as well. sigh. no worries, WE MOVE. no matter what, always keep moving! ❤️✨💅

    • @miami7446
      @miami7446 2 года назад +3

      So true. Love from Australia

    • @krissygirl2609
      @krissygirl2609 2 года назад +1

      @@miami7446 aw, sending you love from Detroit Michigan ❤️ and yes WE MOVE 💪✨✨

    • @98marr
      @98marr 2 года назад +2

      Going “cold turkey” just sounds like he wanted to get rid of her asap. I hope Nikki blocked him cause she deserves better!

    • @krissygirl2609
      @krissygirl2609 2 года назад +1

      @@98marr he's a child. she will be just fine!

  • @MarieSarah66
    @MarieSarah66 2 года назад +5

    I remember finding you when you made your breakup video with CG and it helped me so much at the time! Thanks for being so transparent. It breaks my heart seeing you sad over Max… wishing you love and healing this year.❤️🥰

  • @Verxyrias
    @Verxyrias 2 года назад +4

    I went and looked at your instagram stories about Max and that tore me up.
    Sweetest cat ever and I could tell you were his whole world & heart. He seemed to have a fulfilling life full of love. 🙂 Wishing you the best, always.

  • @megankranz5934
    @megankranz5934 2 года назад +2

    I just had to put down my fur baby of 12 years yesterday and it was the hardest thing I’ve ever done. Never knew how much an animal could effect me

  • @daniosowski9743
    @daniosowski9743 2 года назад +1

    Nikki I swear every year you get more and more beautiful! I’ve followed you for a few years now and you are always so open which is amazing to see. I’m so sorry for the loss of your dear Max. Our pets are truly family and their loss from our lives is felt so deeply. As for your breakup, know that you deserve someone who makes you light up from the inside out. You deserve to be a priority and you will find a man that wants to invest in you fully! You did what you could to try to save the relationship. Allow that thought to give you peace. Sending healing your way ❤️

  • @daniaal-daouk4236
    @daniaal-daouk4236 2 года назад +3

    I’m also going through a pretty bad breakup right now and the whole thing has been very toxic on both sides. Watching this made me feel a little less alone so thank you🥺 love you Nikki!

  • @MariaMartinez_07
    @MariaMartinez_07 2 года назад +3

    You’re beautiful all around Nikki and you’re so calm and rational regardless of the heartbreak you’re going through. You’re so strong and you got this! So sorry to hear about Max. Continue to feel and take care of yourself. I went through a breakup in June and I did the same thing with writing notes in my phone when I wanted to text my ex, it is therapeutic. I too also attended therapy and it was helpful. ♥️ Also, that couch looks amazing!! Well done!

  • @melidamaldonado3636
    @melidamaldonado3636 2 года назад +4

    I feel nothing but admiration for you I had one of my cats sick, in and out of emergency vet the pain I felt those 4 days unexplainable... ❤

  • @kimpanzee08
    @kimpanzee08 2 года назад +4

    Nikki, I started following you based on your break up video with CG. I was going through a painful break up at the time too. I’m so sorry we are both in the same spot, again. Thank you for making me feel less alone during these times. You’ve made such a difference to me by being open ❤️

  • @kathyhuynh5435
    @kathyhuynh5435 2 года назад +32

    Girl u deserve better, and I know this is a change in the right direction. I'm so sorry about Max, but he is definitely protecting u and watching over u always❤️ love u Nikki, missed it videos and was worried u were gone for a bit. Hopefully u start feeling better and the Nikki gang is here to support and love u❤️❤️❤️

  • @Pashmina007
    @Pashmina007 2 года назад +18

    I can tell your sparkle is slowly coming back. I’ve been subscribed to this channel for so long and watching you grow has been so cool. You’re still such an inspiration not for fitness but for self love, healing, and remembering that we’re all human. Thank you 💕

  • @drew2473
    @drew2473 2 года назад +3

    Love you Nikki B! Been following you close to 8 years now and you feel like an old friend. So so so sorry about Max he was such a great kitty. Also sorry that Teddy didn’t appreciate the gem that you are. Thanks for always being so kind and genuine throughout the years. Keep being you!

  • @alanareynoso2579
    @alanareynoso2579 2 года назад

    You’re amazing! Watching your videos got me through , after I saw my dog pass in front of me after a week of fighting for his life after an accident. I really felt it when you said that watching the thing you love most pass. It completely changed me as a person. You inspire me in how you are handling things in a healthy way. I am so sorry for your loss.💗

  • @stephc6235
    @stephc6235 2 года назад +38

    It's never easy going through big life changes, it doesn't help that everything kind of happened at once. I think you and Teddy are both absolutely amazing human beings, but at the end of the day, sometimes things just don't work out and or you just aren't the right people for each other, thats ok! Just know you are loved and it's 100% to take time you need yo fully heal from your loss of Max as well. You are in my thoughts ❤

  • @Mari-eu9yr
    @Mari-eu9yr 2 года назад +10

    More than anything it is disappointing to hear that he didn’t give more to you. Time is so valuable and you moved in with him. If he was not ready to solely commit to you he was not ready. Moving in was probably not the best decision in the first place. It is sad to hear you are dealing with 2 pains but you are strong. I pray that you will find a man that loves you, takes care of you and is really to commit. I really don’t know what is going on with this men anymore. Sending you lots of hugs!

  • @JadeandRob
    @JadeandRob 2 года назад +2

    Sending you allll the love Nikki❤So sorry to hear about Maximus. I've literally watched you since you had your home with Sammy and followed your journey (silently) ever since. You are such a beautiful soul and deserve the world. oh and your hair is STUNNNNING you're literally glowing, here's to things only getting better🙏❤

  • @TaylerLeonard
    @TaylerLeonard 2 года назад +5

    I am incredibly sorry about max 😭 … but also Nikki girl you’re such an inspiration. I hope you know that. I have the same luck with you with relationships and from what you explained , I can literally relate so hard , that’s the exact reason my last break up happened . I’m almost 28 and really desire a partner and kids but you make me feel great about still being single . 🙏🏼 God bless you and I know everything will get better !!!

  • @x0phile
    @x0phile 2 года назад +3

    Sending you peace and healing, Nikki. We lost our pets around the same time so I feel like we have been going through this together. ❤️

  • @taylorguillory5594
    @taylorguillory5594 2 года назад +11

    Ok wow this hair style and color is so perfect for you! You look like a model

  • @lydias6335
    @lydias6335 2 года назад +6

    Oh Nikki I am so so sorry for the struggles you have faced lately. Just know you are not alone at all!! Sending you all the good healing vibes.

  • @AR-rz2jy
    @AR-rz2jy 2 года назад +1

    In all the sadness and grief, it's lovely to see you growing into your own apartment, seeing Ruby and the new friends! I've followed you since your OG competing days and Maximus was always such a staple in your videos. I hope it's some comfort to know you gave him a great life and lots of sunshine and love. Glad to see your videos are back

  • @victoriaharris8543
    @victoriaharris8543 2 года назад +5

    I’m so sorry about your love life. You’re the cutest and sweetest and I’m hoping that happy ending happens for you and myself too . I went through a break up too and it’s definitely not fun .. very dark months..

  • @justinetundidor6551
    @justinetundidor6551 2 года назад +4

    I am so happy for you to be on your way to better things and just getting life by rolling with the punches. I’m in the same boat as you and that weight is lifted. I totally get the anxious feeling but also can’t wait to get back up and out there. So many pieces are going through it ! Big hugs ! We got this lovely! ✋🏼. The only way is up from here and tacos !

  • @KellyKro
    @KellyKro 2 года назад

    I’m sorry Nikki for your loss. 💕🥺. I also appreciate your openness. You’re the most relatable social media person I know. You deserve so much happiness. 💕✨

  • @maddyG7414
    @maddyG7414 2 года назад +15

    Oh Nikki I’m sorry about everything hard happening. I feel like all your older followers really understood how much you loved max and so we all were so sad for you. It also sounds like Teddy was in a different, younger space and you guys just had conflicting needs. But I’m glad you seem to be finding your path. I’ll always follow the journey you’re on and support you!

  • @jenniferh8800
    @jenniferh8800 2 года назад +75

    As much as a person can “sense” via RUclips 😂, I didn’t sense a match with you guys 🔮. Wishing you happiness always!!

  • @Rachelmarie413
    @Rachelmarie413 2 года назад +10

    Nikki you’re like a fine wine, I swear! Been subscribed for years and I truly with we could be frandz in real life

  • @idgaf159
    @idgaf159 2 года назад

    This is such an inspiring video! Thank you for saying you will be open and actually doing so because your honesty and small tips throughout of things that have been helping you just helped me so so much. I had to put down my 19 year old dog just a few days before max :( I feel your pain and I just hope you get everything you want this year. One of my besties got me following you in about 2017, she was always hyping you up and I completely understand why. Please don’t ever change, your honesty and openess with us followers that you refer to as friends is life changing. So much love for you Nikki! 🤍

  • @PoppyJone
    @PoppyJone 2 года назад +11

    Girl you look fantastic and the sets are so cute I love the flirty pink one

  • @taylifts
    @taylifts 2 года назад +6

    I've been following you on and off for 7 years and I'm cryin like I knew I would for Max 😭 I cry at the thought of losing my own and she's just a baby 😢 Max will be truly missed on this channel!!!

  • @lucist
    @lucist 2 года назад +3

    With truth, honesty & vulnerability, Nikki is once again showing us all how to be a human being.

  • @shilohpark1091
    @shilohpark1091 2 года назад +1

    so proud of how strong you have been Nikki! sending you lots and lots of hugs ♥️🍀🌈

  • @kzfingerprint
    @kzfingerprint 2 года назад

    I just adore you. I've literally been watching you since waaaaaay back, like super early workout vlog days. I've continued to enjoy your vulnerable, open, honesty, TOTALLY relatable content. ❤️ You will find someone when you least expect it.

  • @brehannahhh4026
    @brehannahhh4026 2 года назад +11

    I wasn’t aware you broke up! I’m sorry boo, I’ve followed you since 2014 and I’ve seen you grow in so many ways and have always looked to you to find balance between the gym and living a healthy lifestyle. I’m loving these Lounge sets omg you look SO GOOD. Side note I’m loving the natural tatas! 😂🥰

  • @samanthavuono8084
    @samanthavuono8084 2 года назад +3

    I wish I could give you the biggest hug. I've been with you for a very long time and have always been routing for you! It is the worst feeling when your partner always picks others over you - been there, done that. I just know you will find your person, start fresh and find the happiness you deserve. And I know Max is looking down on you so proud! Sending you all of my love and light

  • @Brileyjo5
    @Brileyjo5 2 года назад +1

    I’ve been watching you for the longest. I’m touched by your life and how you continue to share through the good and the Bad. It’s quite admirable considering your influence count. I’m rooting for you and continue to live in your truth. ❤️

  • @cobragirl15
    @cobragirl15 2 года назад

    You're Great, Nikki. Thank you for always being so vulnerable and open with us. I've missed you. Been sending you loving and healing vibes for several months now. Love you

  • @dr7678
    @dr7678 2 года назад +6

    Long time follower here since like 2013. So sorry about Max. I know he meant so much to you. And sorry you got broken up with during such a hard time already. It must’ve been super hard that the person you were sharing life with left during such a hard time and cold Turkey at that. I am so sorry you’re going through that, no one deserves that. Depression is a real thing…not easy to just up and go hang out with new people.I hope you find someone who truly loves you and values you💖

  • @chocolatelover0702
    @chocolatelover0702 2 года назад +7

    I remember watching with heart ache what you were going through with your gorgeous Max as our family dog Floss was also very poorly and passed away just a few days before. Sending all my love to you Nikki, you deserve so much joy! X

  • @kharazif
    @kharazif 2 года назад

    Nikki, you are SO STRONG. Just listening to you speak so calmly and maturely about what you’ve gone through the past few months is really beautiful and inspiring. You deserve all the happiness in the world! Love you and missed you! I’m so glad you’re back to vlogging! 💕

  • @MT-zm1yb
    @MT-zm1yb 2 года назад +2

    Girl it is trippy how similar breakup situations we are going through. Watching your stories and posts with Max have had to be some of the most wholesome parts of the internet for the last several years I have followed you. No one can deny you didn't give that boy the best kitty life he could have asked for, and then some. My heart goes out to you so much. Like I said, also very eerily similar breakup situation we went through. Trying to force something that just wasn't meant to be. All love for him, just not a great fit. Maybe it's a pisces things but I was def the one in the relationship trying to latch on and not ready to let them go meanwhile my partner was like yeah....we gotta end this. Even though I had been aware of all the differences and incompatibility being faced with rejection/abandonment was devastating. I know I'm just a stranger on the internet but I can't help but feel very connected to you in this moment and the hurt you are going through. But I can't deny you are one strong cookie so I know you got this. Sending you so much love and healing vibes over these next few months. I can't wait to see what this next chapter has in store for you Nikki