Men Need To Stop Focusing On These Types Of Women
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Here the problem with this guest I saw one of her videos and it was flawed, I highly encourage you to watch one of her videos because she isn't one to be talking about the dating market. Haven't seen the video but unless she's changed from her last video then this video is moot.
Im happy you did this video, I lost respect for you did the videos about bashing women just because they did only fans or dressed in a certain way. That type of energy makes people think your toxic, judgmental and dehumanizing people and no woman wants to be with a man like that. And same goes with men.
@@GuidetteExpert OnlyFans is trash.
@@GuidetteExpert are you responding to the me or roommates?
@@RedRoseSeptember22 I don't think he gets it....
Guys that believe there are no good women, they manifest exactly that. Reality shapes itself to your belief. Us men literally blind ourselves to good women.
AMMMMEEEEEENN to that .
Laws of attraction as entered the chat .
Rofl that’s until she's bored of you and chooses to cheat on you and make you raise another mans kid. There are no good women. There are only women and they are all the same at the end of the day
@@TheUnique69able I feel so sad for you. You are defeat from the beginning in the relationship arena😪
Men get caught up in the "excitement" of the women they choose. Most of the time thus "excitement" is drama, chaos and anger hiding
Exactly!! It’s also the same way around as well. But usually when most men say that I sense they are bitter and angry. Kind of like that Red pill movement thing or MGTOW. They say they are going their own way but yet they are talking negatively about women. Toxic toxic.
It’s refreshing to see both men and women take accountability. If there’s no accountability, there’s no trust it’s starts within healing ❤️
That's why I hate fresh and fit.....its 90% negativity towards women
@@stayhumblea1115 Gentlemen, if you want a good Woman_ it first starts by you being a good Man!..
A woman will understand your place, "only when You" come into knowing your place! *Headship of your family.* (certainly not tyrannical ruler).
As far as I can tell, and that which I have been taught, a man is not exactly the same thing as a "Gentleman". When a man prepares himself, and then steps into the world as lead/Headship of his family_ he steps in not as an overlord or dictator in a position of control and privilege?
Rather, this is the negative stereotypical image of tyrannical control in a male head-of-household which is the constant message perpetuated by feminist dogma that is either subtlety or out-right pumped into the minds of young women and men these days by popular-culture news & entertainment media.
Not all media nowadays?_ But, nearly all media depicts a man/ father as absent, separated, incompetent, baffoon, and (feminist favorite), abusive! Well, if his character depiction is a positive TV Dad in the typically shown 50/50% couple_ he is at least beneath the surface, ineffectual, inept, indecisive, and often he's just "simp-y"_ generally with no backbone! Nevertheless, he's fun to be around?... Now "keepin it real", most folks that watch movies & TV these days, yawl know I ain't lying?!
If the fe/ male popular-culture and feminist ideologists continue this current media onslaught of lousy men/fathers characterizations, you'll help parents to raise another yet worse off generation of young boys with these cornball traits! Women See This Suff in a Lot of Men Now! This should and it can change. Of course?
Getting back to my main point_ A Gentleman operates with integrity, honor, and purpose. He realizes that the headship of his family is "realistically" a position of "responsibility" and not Lordship. What the hell... How should it be anything else? (Asking you_ feminist?)
Now, here's the controversial question? Why should a man Not tuck his tail between his legs and follow lead of the typically smaller more demure human vessel? If we can just get out of "Hollywood-Land" for just a bit, come & bring our minds back to reality, we can logically see why this usually does not work!
First of all many people often want to (selectively) avoid, dismiss, or criticize any or all types of religious beliefs to escape any truths which it may have to offer? However, religious beliefs have little to do with the basic observable facts which we humans commonly know of in our "natural world". So with that in mind, there's enough current present day and ancient historical evidence to explain the natural dynamics between men & women. No need to try to over complicate the issue in order to try to deflect or deflate the facts!
Gentlemen, do all that you can to make yourself be the desirable, acceptable men for the type of ladies that you know that you want to attract. And don't worry about the "fems" that choose not to get with the program & follow along. They'll just get left behind!... ✌
There are often times people will dismiss good values & proper upbringing as so-called "old-school"/ "old-fashioned in favor of avoiding what is actual and factual. That which is right, correct & true can't ever go out of style!...
There are many injustices throughout human history which indeed needed to be corrected? However, that which is true & good should never be discarded! I'm sure that you are discerning and intelligent enough to see that we nowadays live in an "everything goes" "free for all" type of world where almost anything that you "feel" like doing, it's Ok under the guise of fairness, social justice, & civil-rights?
Take a real close and objective look at our society. Can you honestly say that every aspect of our family life in society is for the better since these past social movements? Yup, some important things are good_ let's not throw the baby out with the bathwater? Most things are Not so good, the pendulum has swung way too far in a bad direction. We as thinking cognizant people, need to take a step back & reevaluate?!
@@stayhumblea1115 depends. The issue most of these "anti women" podcasts or channels point out is that women have it easy from the start with their youth and fertility, and make terrible choices, because they don't realize it until it's gone.
Fresh and fit tho has a bit of a double standard. I don't mind the double on casual sex, but it's the fact that they glamorize it. While telling the women their attitudes need to change. I feel like there's a certain level of arrogance or self indulgence about it.
@@vickmurray5751 I'm sorry bro but nobody reading that.
The best point y’all made is that about the happy women being the quiet women. That couldn’t be more true. I’m a happily married 30 year old, started dating my husband ten years ago and we have two kids and all the great women I know who are happy are not loud and active on social media or in the culture. The best advice is for everyone to escape this negative culture and society in every way not only relationships. Love what y’all said! Keep it up, spreading truth!
Amazing happy for y’all
But what you just said speaks volumes! We need more of yall happy women to become louder than these miserable women until they finally become quiet but the reason why yall happy women have learned to remain quiet is because you know these miserable people will try to destroy what you have if they realize they can't have what you have. Sad, but true. Feminism has become too powerful where it is hurting women the most now.
Spot on
That sounds great! Hope you don't mind passing the good vibes on and your philosophy on to the younger generation?
I think the message that a lot of men nowadays are trying to convey to women is please dial back on the hostile, negative feminist ideology & attitude? Please dial back on the passive-aggressive masculine energy which most of you often project? Nothing wrong with educating yourself and having something to offer in the way of your work or career. But, please do not have this be your biggest priority, your overarching & all encompassing focus that guides your life.
Unfortunately the so-called "modern woman" has almost completely lost their feminine essence. Yeah, they may look, dress, sound & even act feminine_ but from deep down showing no true feminine mindset, attitude nor philosophy? Thus female or "feminine essence". That's what it is...!
So many times women because of indoctrination and feminist propaganda will try to tell men what they should want or expect in a woman, instead of finding out or asking us? They'll often bash men & hate masculinity_ while at the same time, turnaround and continue taking on more masculine traits? Then, they'll offer this crap to us? Then, we be like... "What"?? 😟
@@MicMaine Gentlemen, if you want a good Woman_ it first starts by you being a good Man!..
A woman will understand your place, "only when You" come into knowing your place! *Headship of your family.* (certainly not tyrannical ruler).
As far as I can tell, and that which I have been taught, a man is not exactly the same thing as a "Gentleman". When a man prepares himself, and then steps into the world as lead/Headship of his family_ he steps in not as an overlord or dictator in a position of control and privilege?
Rather, this is the negative stereotypical image of tyrannical control in a male head-of-household which is the constant message perpetuated by feminist dogma that is either subtlety or out-right pumped into the minds of young women and men these days by popular-culture news & entertainment media.
Not all media nowadays?_ But, nearly all media depicts a man/ father as absent, separated, incompetent, baffoon, and (feminist favorite), abusive! Well, if his character depiction is a positive TV Dad in the typically shown 50/50% couple_ he is at least beneath the surface, ineffectual, inept, indecisive, and often he's just "simp-y"_ generally with no backbone! Nevertheless, he's fun to be around?... Now "keepin it real", most folks that watch movies & TV these days, yawl know I ain't lying?!
If the fe/ male popular-culture and feminist ideologists continue this current media onslaught of lousy men/fathers characterizations, you'll help parents to raise another yet worse off generation of young boys with these cornball traits! Women See This Suff in a Lot of Men Now! This should and it can change. Of course?
Getting back to my main point_ A Gentleman operates with integrity, honor, and purpose. He realizes that the headship of his family is "realistically" a position of "responsibility" and not Lordship. What the hell... How should it be anything else? (Asking you_ feminist?)
Now, here's the controversial question? Why should a man Not tuck his tail between his legs and follow lead of the typically smaller more demure human vessel? If we can just get out of "Hollywood-Land" for just a bit, come & bring our minds back to reality, we can logically see why this usually does not work!
First of all many people often want to (selectively) avoid, dismiss, or criticize any or all types of religious beliefs to escape any truths which it may have to offer? However, religious beliefs have little to do with the basic observable facts which we humans commonly know of in our "natural world". So with that in mind, there's enough current present day and ancient historical evidence to explain the natural dynamics between men & women. No need to try to over complicate the issue in order to try to deflect or deflate the facts!
Gentlemen, do all that you can to make yourself be the desirable, acceptable men for the type of ladies that you know that you want to attract. And don't worry about the "fems" that choose not to get with the program & follow along. They'll just get left behind!... ✌
Happy women are quiet ones lol. That's true for me. I was definitely more active on social media when I wasn't happy. Now that I'm happy, I'm super quiet on social media now.
I hear that @Ally Cakes,
And honestly it’s the same for me.
In 2018 and 2019, when I decided against my plan to commit suicide off a bridge, I instead turned my depression and frustrations with life toward social media and posted controversial and frustrating communication almost every other day for over a year online, picking fights with everyone whom I ever knew, family and friends alike, who were on social media, because I felt like I had nothing to lose and didn’t care about my past history with them because I just wanted to fight in the present.
But then CoVid happened, and I lost a job I hated, and lost a rental which I hated too, and ended up moving to another state. And amidst all of those changes, I met some good caring people who showed that they actually cared about me as a person, and that motivated me to spend less time on social media and more time around better things for me.
@@snicker12 super happy for you Nick! Things happen for a reason and I'm happy you didn't jump off that bridge. Life is precious and beautiful when you're surrounded by the right people and environment ❤️
Indeed ^_^ been happily married for 3 years now, together for 6 :D
What made you happy ?
@@maljones1398 getting out of a toxic relationship
Not every woman is out here trying to be a city girl and have a hot girl summer
Majority are and even if they are not they still get influenced by their friends
@@igpxmaster preach
@@igpxmaster this is true. And you should keep in mind who the friends are because that says a lot about that person.
Rather than focusing on tearing down sub par women, up lift women who are exceptional. Females who engage in hot girl culture, are self destructive regardless if you give your attention towards putting them on blast.
As a Christian and married i see the hot girl summer trend a huge problem in our culture. I wish more young single women would have good girl summers 😅
@@sofiabravo1994 u wish more young ladies had your mind set ma'am God bless u
Men and women need to be patient and discerning when choosing a mate, a lost art in today’s world...🖖🏽
So much swiping and scrolling and it’s a surprise that wasn’t an adequate way to determine someone’s character.
Gentlemen, if you want a good Woman_ it first starts by you being a good Man!..
A woman will understand your place, "only when You" come into knowing your place! *Headship of your family.* (certainly not tyrannical ruler).
As far as I can tell, and that which I have been taught, a man is not exactly the same thing as a "Gentleman". When a man prepares himself, and then steps into the world as lead/Headship of his family_ he steps in not as an overlord or dictator in a position of control and privilege?
Rather, this is the negative stereotypical image of tyrannical control in a male head-of-household which is the constant message perpetuated by feminist dogma that is either subtlety or out-right pumped into the minds of young women and men these days by popular-culture news & entertainment media.
Not all media nowadays?_ But, nearly all media depicts a man/ father as absent, separated, incompetent, baffoon, and (feminist favorite), abusive! Well, if his character depiction is a positive TV Dad in the typically shown 50/50% couple_ he is at least beneath the surface, ineffectual, inept, indecisive, and often he's just "simp-y"_ generally with no backbone! Nevertheless, he's fun to be around?... Now "keepin it real", most folks that watch movies & TV these days, yawl know I ain't lying?!
If the fe/ male popular-culture and feminist ideologists continue this current media onslaught of lousy men/fathers characterizations, you'll help parents to raise another yet worse off generation of young boys with these cornball traits! Women See This Suff in a Lot of Men Now! This should and it can change. Of course?
Getting back to my main point_ A Gentleman operates with integrity, honor, and purpose. He realizes that the headship of his family is "realistically" a position of "responsibility" and not Lordship. What the hell... How should it be anything else? (Asking you_ feminist?)
Now, here's the controversial question? Why should a man Not tuck his tail between his legs and follow lead of the typically smaller more demure human vessel? If we can just get out of "Hollywood-Land" for just a bit, come & bring our minds back to reality, we can logically see why this usually does not work!
First of all many people often want to (selectively) avoid, dismiss, or criticize any or all types of religious beliefs to escape any truths which it may have to offer? However, religious beliefs have little to do with the basic observable facts which we humans commonly know of in our "natural world". So with that in mind, there's enough current present day and ancient historical evidence to explain the natural dynamics between men & women. No need to try to over complicate the issue in order to try to deflect or deflate the facts!
Gentlemen, do all that you can to make yourself be the desirable, acceptable men for the type of ladies that you know that you want to attract. And don't worry about the "fems" that choose not to get with the program & follow along. They'll just get left behind!... ✌
To be fair, patients has never been a thing. Most of our grandparents met and were married one month later.
Women don't have time like men do. Women need to be Tactical not patient
@@danginn6118 Nope, they engaged fast, but after that, they spent a long time planing the wedding day and also the marriage, they had a long time to discover if they were compatible.
There's a saying that I always heard growing up in Barbados..."Always love the person who loves you!"
So simple and yet so difficult to do for a lot of people..
I thought I was the only bajan here
🇧🇧🇧🇧🇧🇧🇧🇧🇧🇧
That seems a bit offputting since you may not always be into the person who "loves" you, I think it sends a bad message.
@@RedRoseSeptember22 some people gotta settle , what's better than settling with someone who is all about you
I still think that the main reason why many men chase after a woman that doesn't like him is because of her looks
well if this woman was fat, ugly, pimples all over her face and greasy hair do you think she would have as much subscribers as she has?
A boy wants a trophy to brag about like girls want that pretty accessory to show off while real men and women just want a healthy partner to confide and grow with. I just wanna grow food :D
Or attention. I avoid these types bc I know they just want attention from any cute girl that will be nice enough to
@@chloebrooke6307 Word but I mean when a man is with a woman whose not attractive people generally say nothing but in their minds they are saying poor guy it's the best he can do.
@@ichoosemysanity6467 but wouldn’t you say most women are average looking?
This is why it can be extremely dangerous in this day in age where people only watch specific content and only get recommendations for said content. It forms a narrow minded mentality. Because if all the billions of blogs, posts and vids you have been consuming over years has told you one thing about something, you're likely stick with that mindframe.
Content recommendation is very dangerous.
It's why I have that turned off.
The annoying part though is that I then keep getting ads to join FB despite them having unrighteously banned me. 🤣
👏🏼
I was just pondering on this today and it scared me! I feel disabled in a way because of it.
Yup I'm going through it now
This is why men should include women in these conversations and vice versa.
The best growth for anyone is to expose yourself to the other side.
Agreed! That “advice from singles vs actual married people” meme popped into my head.. There’s too many single men/women giving dating and marriage advice when they haven’t actually had success.
Right and something out of your NORM
Real men don't care what woman think!!!!
Hopefully it goes well..everyone cannot calmly talk about this!
@@jamesholloway6473 Gentlemen, if you want a good Woman_ it first starts by you being a good Man!..
A woman will understand your place, "only when You" come into knowing your place! *Headship of your family.* (certainly not tyrannical ruler).
As far as I can tell, and that which I have been taught, a man is not exactly the same thing as a "Gentleman". When a man prepares himself, and then steps into the world as lead/Headship of his family_ he steps in not as an overlord or dictator in a position of control and privilege?
Rather, this is the negative stereotypical image of tyrannical control in a male head-of-household which is the constant message perpetuated by feminist dogma that is either subtlety or out-right pumped into the minds of young women and men these days by popular-culture news & entertainment media.
Not all media nowadays?_ But, nearly all media depicts a man/ father as absent, separated, incompetent, baffoon, and (feminist favorite), abusive! Well, if his character depiction is a positive TV Dad in the typically shown 50/50% couple_ he is at least beneath the surface, ineffectual, inept, indecisive, and often he's just "simp-y"_ generally with no backbone! Nevertheless, he's fun to be around?... Now "keepin it real", most folks that watch movies & TV these days, yawl know I ain't lying?!
If the fe/ male popular-culture and feminist ideologists continue this current media onslaught of lousy men/fathers characterizations, you'll help parents to raise another yet worse off generation of young boys with these cornball traits! Women See This Suff in a Lot of Men Now! This should and it can change. Of course?
Getting back to my main point_ A Gentleman operates with integrity, honor, and purpose. He realizes that the headship of his family is "realistically" a position of "responsibility" and not Lordship. What the hell... How should it be anything else? (Asking you_ feminist?)
Now, here's the controversial question? Why should a man Not tuck his tail between his legs and follow lead of the typically smaller more demure human vessel? If we can just get out of "Hollywood-Land" for just a bit, come & bring our minds back to reality, we can logically see why this usually does not work!
First of all many people often want to (selectively) avoid, dismiss, or criticize any or all types of religious beliefs to escape any truths which it may have to offer? However, religious beliefs have little to do with the basic observable facts which we humans commonly know of in our "natural world". So with that in mind, there's enough current present day and ancient historical evidence to explain the natural dynamics between men & women. No need to try to over complicate the issue in order to try to deflect or deflate the facts!
Gentlemen, do all that you can to make yourself be the desirable, acceptable men for the type of ladies that you know that you want to attract. And don't worry about the "fems" that choose not to get with the program & follow along. They'll just get left behind!... ✌
Great conversations!!
Men and woman need to watch this!!!
As a happily married woman with an amazing husband.
Best advice I can give men and woman wanting to find good and healthy partners:
Stay away from negative people, try to get offline as much as possible, and focus on being a hardworking and good person.
It attracts like-minded people.
Simple and sound advice 🙏🏼🍀
Amen!
Well said!
I agree what he said about balance, and these redpill channels being too one sided. After watching so many redpill videos I realized I was starting to hate all women and avoided them at all costs. I think men and women need to come together and find common ground more often like this video.
Same
They dont though, they're comfortable in the tunnel vision
Yep they use this kind of trick to make money...it help us to see the difference bad women and good women if you do not have any exemple in your family but that's it...
The conclusion of this video is correct only if both sexes were equal when it comes to dating. The issue is they are not, dating and sexuality are completely stacked in women's favor.
Men are much more biologically driven by their sex drive to pursue women at their own detriment. It makes guys do the dumbest of decisions just to have sex. They are clouded most of their time with this carnal desire that impedes them from doing what they want. Women don't face that problem and it doesn't even register for them. They can go very long periods of time if not remain completely abstinent. It's an option for them that they can exercise on a whim.
The other how society treats dating and how the 2 sexes interact. It's an unwritten rule that guys have to approach. This relinquishs the guys power and concentrates all the power in the females hand. Thus, letting women play the role of God when it comes to male sex life and dictating who gets some (10%) and those who don't. Men are also constantly vilified when expressing their sexuality, while women are praised for theirs and even encouraged.
Whichever way you look at it, in dating and intersex relationships, men and women aren't and will never be equal.
@@TheUnique69ableYou speak facts. And sadly, there is no solution to that issue that I can think of. Women have something men can’t offer, and they can and will leverage that until men stop chasing it. Which will never happen. It is possible to abstain from sex as a man though. Takes years of practice and experience 😆, but it is possible.
"Happy women are some of the most quiet women" I can confirm that... I am very quiet, I have a great body that I dont want to show online, I do not look for attention or approval of others, I just live my life, I have an amazing relationship with an awesome man that is exactly the same type of man that most unquiet women desire: rich, tall, successful, caring, handsome, etc. I dont need to be showing my partner, the restaurants I go to or the trips. I am just so happy with my life and I have fulfilling relationships :) "if no one knows, no one can destroy it"
congrats some of us want to 🤣
@Jean juju So should I reject a nice man because he is rich, tall, sucessful, caring or handsome?! Just to prove a point?!
Just for your information, I wasnt even trying to get him or even try to find a man like him, he was the one trying to get me and looking for someone like me. I always dated (or tried to date) all types of men: short, tall, skinny, fat, funny, serious, europeans, asians, middle easterners, etc. And all of them were poor anyway.
“I wanted men and women to hear each other’s stories’!!! What a great goal! If we listened and just asked each other questions without the ego, biases and really trying to understand each other it would be so beneficial for both sexes!
Beautiful! I hope you won't mind passing the good vibes on?...
Gentlemen, if you want a good Woman_ it first starts by you being a good Man!..
A woman will understand your place, "only when You" come into knowing your place! *Headship of your family.* (certainly not tyrannical ruler).
As far as I can tell, and that which I have been taught, a man is not exactly the same thing as a "Gentleman". When a man prepares himself, and then steps into the world as lead/Headship of his family_ he steps in not as an overlord or dictator in a position of control and privilege?
Rather, this is the negative stereotypical image of tyrannical control in a male head-of-household which is the constant message perpetuated by feminist dogma that is either subtlety or out-right pumped into the minds of young women and men these days by popular-culture news & entertainment media.
Not all media nowadays?_ But, nearly all media depicts a man/ father as absent, separated, incompetent, baffoon, and (feminist favorite), abusive! Well, if his character depiction is a positive TV Dad in the typically shown 50/50% couple_ he is at least beneath the surface, ineffectual, inept, indecisive, and often he's just "simp-y"_ generally with no backbone! Nevertheless, he's fun to be around?... Now "keepin it real", most folks that watch movies & TV these days, yawl know I ain't lying?!
If the fe/ male popular-culture and feminist ideologists continue this current media onslaught of lousy men/fathers characterizations, you'll help parents to raise another yet worse off generation of young boys with these cornball traits! Women See This Suff in a Lot of Men Now! This should and it can change. Of course?
Getting back to my main point_ A Gentleman operates with integrity, honor, and purpose. He realizes that the headship of his family is "realistically" a position of "responsibility" and not Lordship. What the hell... How should it be anything else? (Asking you_ feminist?)
Now, here's the controversial question? Why should a man Not tuck his tail between his legs and follow lead of the typically smaller more demure human vessel? If we can just get out of "Hollywood-Land" for just a bit, come & bring our minds back to reality, we can logically see why this usually does not work!
First of all many people often want to (selectively) avoid, dismiss, or criticize any or all types of religious beliefs to escape any truths which it may have to offer? However, religious beliefs have little to do with the basic observable facts which we humans commonly know of in our "natural world". So with that in mind, there's enough current present day and ancient historical evidence to explain the natural dynamics between men & women. No need to try to over complicate the issue in order to try to deflect or deflate the facts!
Gentlemen, do all that you can to make yourself be the desirable, acceptable men for the type of ladies that you know that you want to attract. And don't worry about the "fems" that choose not to get with the program & follow along. They'll just get left behind!... ✌
Thats a goal alright, but unrealistic. Thats not how things work in the moment. This is an interview, and that means a paced conversation where both people agree to the rules of conversation. Real world ain't like that.... at all. Emotions run wild and people wont check their ego, why ? - because people run their life off incentives and checking ones self is to practice being humble which doesn't fit with most people & with all of Social Media saying be a Hype beast.
Exactly.
Yess!!
It's kinda sad in a way though that Courtney has to explain that she's sometimes the exception. Some of these Dudes have never experienced a solid woman in their life... but you also probably weren't looking... fellas.... hang out with women based on how they treat you, others, and themselves not how they look.
So true. In college, I had many bad women experience and I started to get cynical about women not out of hurt but just logic. I was starting think this is how it is. Well I worked a job and my coworker was a woman and she was amazing in how she treated me. We became really close and I thought about the women in college and realized that alot of them are still single. They were also mean and constantly point out my flaws. That's when it dawn on me that I was around the wrong women. My coworker ended up getting married to her boyfriend. It really makes sense.
So true .... regular/everyday woman
MOST men have never experienced a solid woman in their life. woman like her truly r the exception.
@@juanwononeyuan sad that you think so . She is more common then you think
@@dallasbrat81 i'm hopin so! 🤞 i remain skeptical tho. humanity is getting worse every year.
i thought i had a unicorn, but after 6 years she stabbed me in the back. makes u realize that u can never really know anyone. ur hopes and ability to trust is dependent on ur confidence to be a good judge of character.
It’s because of your channel that I became a Christian. I know your channel isn’t a Christian channel, but you constantly use verses from the Bible and because of that I said “Maybe the Bible is something that could help me be a better man?” Now I am a Christian and I’m fully dedicated to making myself better. Thank you so much brother
As someone from the Middle East (where the alleged character Jesus was from) and I tell it to your face, the whole of Christianity is just a sham. A roman conspiracy to control the masses, and subdue the majority of the population to be weak and feeble
@@TheUnique69able thats cap dude, the romans already had their own religion and they did their best to try to stop Christianity, so your history is not right at all. Plus you can look at the ancient Jewish texts for support for Jesus.
Yeah i do like the implementation of Bible verses as well
@@itstriplem2069 j walking is 100% correct. jesus ministry exactly followed the same path as julius ceasar war path through isreal. it was designed to make passivity a virtue. don't fight for justice...just wait on god and be happy with ur oppression. "do not resist evil. turn the other cheek, and if ur enemy strikes u, give them ur other cheek. if anyone wants to steal ur shirt, hand them ur coat also." it makes people easy to subjugate.
there is a lot of ancient wisdom that had past down for thousands of years, doesn't mean it was inspired by god.
@@juanwononeyuan have you read the Bible?
There are a lot of great women out there. You gotta get off this social bs and find someone actually living their life
Well said!
This why I like roommates soo much they always bring on guest you wouldn't expect to see
More like they bring themselves to the guests places! 😂 It is a big advantage over others who are not willing to put on the work to produce quality content like them. That is why they growing so fast.
@@mackblack5153 true😂
The conclusion of this video is correct only if both sexes were equal when it comes to dating. The issue is they are not, dating and sexuality are completely stacked in women's favor.
Men are much more biologically driven by their sex drive to pursue women at their own detriment. It makes guys do the dumbest of decisions just to have sex. They are clouded most of their time with this carnal desire that impedes them from doing what they want. Women don't face that problem and it doesn't even register for them. They can go very long periods of time if not remain completely abstinent. It's an option for them that they can exercise on a whim.
The other how society treats dating and how the 2 sexes interact. It's an unwritten rule that guys have to approach. This relinquishs the guys power and concentrates all the power in the females hand. Thus, letting women play the role of God when it comes to male sex life and dictating who gets some (10%) and those who don't. Men are also constantly vilified when expressing their sexuality, while women are praised for theirs and even encouraged.
Whichever way you look at it, in dating and intersex relationships, men and women aren't and will never be equal.
@@TheUnique69able I am not going read but PREACH
@@someone-mm5jz Gentlemen, if you want a good Woman_ it first starts by you being a good Man!..
A woman will understand your place, "only when You" come into knowing your place! *Headship of your family.* (certainly not tyrannical ruler).
As far as I can tell, and that which I have been taught, a man is not exactly the same thing as a "Gentleman". When a man prepares himself, and then steps into the world as lead/Headship of his family_ he steps in not as an overlord or dictator in a position of control and privilege?
Rather, this is the negative stereotypical image of tyrannical control in a male head-of-household which is the constant message perpetuated by feminist dogma that is either subtlety or out-right pumped into the minds of young women and men these days by popular-culture news & entertainment media.
Not all media nowadays?_ But, nearly all media depicts a man/ father as absent, separated, incompetent, baffoon, and (feminist favorite), abusive! Well, if his character depiction is a positive TV Dad in the typically shown 50/50% couple_ he is at least beneath the surface, ineffectual, inept, indecisive, and often he's just "simp-y"_ generally with no backbone! Nevertheless, he's fun to be around?... Now "keepin it real", most folks that watch movies & TV these days, yawl know I ain't lying?!
If the fe/ male popular-culture and feminist ideologists continue this current media onslaught of lousy men/fathers characterizations, you'll help parents to raise another yet worse off generation of young boys with these cornball traits! Women See This Suff in a Lot of Men Now! This should and it can change. Of course?
Getting back to my main point_ A Gentleman operates with integrity, honor, and purpose. He realizes that the headship of his family is "realistically" a position of "responsibility" and not Lordship. What the hell... How should it be anything else? (Asking you_ feminist?)
Now, here's the controversial question? Why should a man Not tuck his tail between his legs and follow lead of the typically smaller more demure human vessel? If we can just get out of "Hollywood-Land" for just a bit, come & bring our minds back to reality, we can logically see why this usually does not work!
First of all many people often want to (selectively) avoid, dismiss, or criticize any or all types of religious beliefs to escape any truths which it may have to offer? However, religious beliefs have little to do with the basic observable facts which we humans commonly know of in our "natural world". So with that in mind, there's enough current present day and ancient historical evidence to explain the natural dynamics between men & women. No need to try to over complicate the issue in order to try to deflect or deflate the facts!
Gentlemen, do all that you can to make yourself be the desirable, acceptable men for the type of ladies that you know that you want to attract. And don't worry about the "fems" that choose not to get with the program & follow along. They'll just get left behind!... ✌
Don’t let negativity into your mind. See the world for what it is. Don’t be naive but look through an optimistic lense.
I am fighting to do this, but I see the world for what it is, realistically. It wont change anytime soon and that doesnt make me feel optimistic. How do you feel with certain issues going on in the world?
True ... look at everyday, the real type not IG Models or social media platforms
Amen
I agree, I also think a lot of men have been hurt by "bad women" because they have have experinces with "good women" that allowed them to let them selves get hurt. Can't forget that. The sexual market is stacked against men, but the marriage market is stacked against women - We're jealous of women because we desire sex and women are jealous of men because they desire marriage. It makes for some nasty feelings on either side of the fence.
@@truecrimejungle I like how you recognise that our struggles are different but they still exist.
She has such an attractive, feminine voice
Yeah I love her voice
Yes It’s so soothing and classy
I feel like it doesn’t match for some reason
@@chabweezy9905 how? Her voice is a perfect fit?
@@Ronin-kk4bt I feel like if it was deeper and more smooth it would fit better
She’s right, if you want a healthy long lasting relationship, those channels and contents are not what you should be watching.
“What sells on RUclips is Negativity” that point right there! I hate it here. There are so many videos that start and I switch after the first 15 seconds.
That’s life in general....the media, the internet, music, movies, etc. people gravitate towards negativity
@@YoungYahtz94 true and we have to be conscious enough to know that if it’s a relationship we want, we can’t listen to ppl who aren’t in relationships or don’t want them. Too many ppl wabt relationship but take advice from others who aren’t living the life they want.
On the bright side at least it exposes you to other points of view rather than toxic positivity
It applies to society in general, not RUclips. Take a look at the mainstream news.
@@PatrickMenesesYTOfficial4945 that is also very true. I listen to both sides with the ability to deduce what is useful and what is not. I wish more ppl can deduce the same.
I like her. She’s doesn’t sound like a woman who is just saying what people want to hear and she’s logical.
She’s saying what a very lucrative demographic want to hear. make no mistake lol
@@hi-je7km and what do you wanna hear?
NEVER focus on someone who does not want you.
Common sense dummy
Yes it s common sense but only can be done through healing and Real Self Love which we can all reach. It requires you to want it Strongly and be Focus on that.
Anything you want requires Deep Focus, Strong Will and Consistency (Rince and Repeat over and over again until it becomes Natural)
@@billyjeankingfx I mean it's common sense isn't it. it's like friendship, why do you want to build friendship with the rude or that arrogant person in your class, school, work place and so on. you would probably just be civilized with them, and it does not mean you care about them.
This is the one thing that I really disagree with. Actually, I'm a psychotherapist and I can say it's 100% wrong. I understand where they are coming from but they lack so much empathy to say this. I highly recommend they both educate themselves in grief and loss. I've heard him say this in other vids too and I am just at cringing point. To anyone who does ❤️ someone else where it isn't reciprocated, it sure does suck!! Take your time. Journaling often helps. Stay occupied. Now is the time for self-care. Surround yourself with positive energy ❤️❤️❤️.
@@elijahreilly9247 Yes, to you and me, it is. However, I am always amazed at how many people are out there chasing someone who obviously does not want them.
She is a very well put together woman who can compassionately articulate her thoughts in a level headed manner. Absolute gem/catch of a lady!
The conclusion of this video is correct only if both sexes were equal when it comes to dating. The issue is they are not, dating and sexuality are completely stacked in women's favor.
Men are much more biologically driven by their sex drive to pursue women at their own detriment. It makes guys do the dumbest of decisions just to have sex. They are clouded most of their time with this carnal desire that impedes them from doing what they want. Women don't face that problem and it doesn't even register for them. They can go very long periods of time if not remain completely abstinent. It's an option for them that they can exercise on a whim.
The other how society treats dating and how the 2 sexes interact. It's an unwritten rule that guys have to approach. This relinquishs the guys power and concentrates all the power in the females hand. Thus, letting women play the role of God when it comes to male sex life and dictating who gets some (10%) and those who don't. Men are also constantly vilified when expressing their sexuality, while women are praised for theirs and even encouraged.
Whichever way you look at it, in dating and intersex relationships, men and women aren't and will never be equal.
@@TheUnique69able only because men degrade women with sex so ofcourse women have to be more selective despite their own need of sexual fulfillment. There is a reason why vibrators and dildos are a multimillion dollar industry. That and that fact women are more successful achieving orgasms on their own more frequently and more often than with male partners.
should've been that at 23
@@satoshinakamoto7253 she's 25 that's a perfect age.
@@smoowear You literally made not one ounce of sense.
The sphere sees Courtney as a chameleon because she’s attractive yet doesn’t present herself in the same way as “modern women” and the typical behaviors attached to them. Shes capable of holding her own accountable , can show empathy for mens struggles and displays more traditional values. She’s genuinely part of the middle ground. Her channel is one of the few that provides alternate viewpoints worth exploring.
Well the funny thing about a chameleon is that bo matter if its red blue or green. It's still a fuckinmonet hungry asset coveting chameleon
@@jackwhite8238 Someone got hurt and hasn't recovered.
It’s too late. You won’t be able to turn the ship around at this point. She sees a market for her content & she is correct. Still, don’t be fooled. Some sucker will wife that up and be in family court sooner or later. You can count on it!
@@sardonumspa8113 Truth = She reminds me of this "Double Edge Sword" she playing her cards right. Manipulation is a women best craft, I'm not saying she this, but she also reminds me of Black Widows the breeding process if the male is not care he's death.
@Violeta Happy women are quiet. That’s the best way to put it!
Somebody tell me what’s the current generation of men’s obsession with IG models?
They show their bodies, especially their booty for free
and its not even real
@@rainbowcity911 true. They know how to arch that back lol. And most get implants and workout so that you can't tell they are implants
Because at least 90% are addicted to porn.
@@gmoney537 imagine ehhhh
You are both some of the only content out there that doesn't just reuse the red pill woman-hating tropes and the purple-haired man-hating tropes. I don't have it all figured out, but I believe the truth lies somewhere between self-awareness and responsibility.
It always has been this way! Being absolute in anything in life, is most of the time wrong!
Facts. The truth doesn't lie in the extremes, but in the middle.
The conclusion of this video is correct only if both sexes were equal when it comes to dating. The issue is they are not, dating and sexuality are completely stacked in women's favor.
Men are much more biologically driven by their sex drive to pursue women at their own detriment. It makes guys do the dumbest of decisions just to have sex. They are clouded most of their time with this carnal desire that impedes them from doing what they want. Women don't face that problem and it doesn't even register for them. They can go very long periods of time if not remain completely abstinent. It's an option for them that they can exercise on a whim.
The other how society treats dating and how the 2 sexes interact. It's an unwritten rule that guys have to approach. This relinquishs the guys power and concentrates all the power in the females hand. Thus, letting women play the role of God when it comes to male sex life and dictating who gets some (10%) and those who don't. Men are also constantly vilified when expressing their sexuality, while women are praised for theirs and even encouraged.
Whichever way you look at it, in dating and intersex relationships, men and women aren't and will never be equal.
@@TheUnique69able so?
@@shalyfemusic Gentlemen, if you want a good Woman_ it first starts by you being a good Man!..
A woman will understand your place, "only when You" come into knowing your place! *Headship of your family.* (certainly not tyrannical ruler).
As far as I can tell, and that which I have been taught, a man is not exactly the same thing as a "Gentleman". When a man prepares himself, and then steps into the world as lead/Headship of his family_ he steps in not as an overlord or dictator in a position of control and privilege?
Rather, this is the negative stereotypical image of tyrannical control in a male head-of-household which is the constant message perpetuated by feminist dogma that is either subtlety or out-right pumped into the minds of young women and men these days by popular-culture news & entertainment media.
Not all media nowadays?_ But, nearly all media depicts a man/ father as absent, separated, incompetent, baffoon, and (feminist favorite), abusive! Well, if his character depiction is a positive TV Dad in the typically shown 50/50% couple_ he is at least beneath the surface, ineffectual, inept, indecisive, and often he's just "simp-y"_ generally with no backbone! Nevertheless, he's fun to be around?... Now "keepin it real", most folks that watch movies & TV these days, yawl know I ain't lying?!
If the fe/ male popular-culture and feminist ideologists continue this current media onslaught of lousy men/fathers characterizations, you'll help parents to raise another yet worse off generation of young boys with these cornball traits! Women See This Suff in a Lot of Men Now! This should and it can change. Of course?
Getting back to my main point_ A Gentleman operates with integrity, honor, and purpose. He realizes that the headship of his family is "realistically" a position of "responsibility" and not Lordship. What the hell... How should it be anything else? (Asking you_ feminist?)
Now, here's the controversial question? Why should a man Not tuck his tail between his legs and follow lead of the typically smaller more demure human vessel? If we can just get out of "Hollywood-Land" for just a bit, come & bring our minds back to reality, we can logically see why this usually does not work!
First of all many people often want to (selectively) avoid, dismiss, or criticize any or all types of religious beliefs to escape any truths which it may have to offer? However, religious beliefs have little to do with the basic observable facts which we humans commonly know of in our "natural world". So with that in mind, there's enough current present day and ancient historical evidence to explain the natural dynamics between men & women. No need to try to over complicate the issue in order to try to deflect or deflate the facts!
Gentlemen, do all that you can to make yourself be the desirable, acceptable men for the type of ladies that you know that you want to attract. And don't worry about the "fems" that choose not to get with the program & follow along. They'll just get left behind!... ✌
This is an excellent video. Too many men and women have become bitter because they have been hurt. It is impossible to find a successful loving relationship if you are bitter.
Women are not a monolithic group. Men are not a monolithic group. There are good women and bad women and good men and bad men.
I know a lot of really good people, both male and female who are single. These people would make the perfect spouse but they are ignored by the opposite sex. Many really good people live relatively quiet lives so they are often hard to fine.
Something I've noticed is that people of today are primed for contrarianism and negativity. When presented with anything new, the first inclination has become to start deconstructing it to find flaws, be it people or ideas. It's like if you find a host of problems before hand, you have a reason not to put forth an effort at all.
Yikes. True
Omg so true. This is a great observation. I’ve noticed the same thing. You can’t say anything without people immediately questioning it.
With all due respect, her point about “thats not the type of content to be watching if you want to be in a successful relationship” is extremely naive. To be in a happy relationship you need to filter out bad partners at some point. That type of content opens your eyes and allows you to filter a significant amount of women. Which is NECESSARY to get a happy relationship.
It's sad you didn't get very many thumbs up!!!
What part of the video I'm at 3:52?
I think it's more of, watching too much of it is bad. It's okay to watch that kinda content because it keeps you aware of how some people are. Things to watch out for and red flags 'n all that. It's not bad to watch it but it's just terrible if that's all you watch instead of balancing things out.
nah, i believe she means continously watching/reading that type of content is subconsciously programing you to only view things one way and is causing you to subscribe only to those ideals/philosophies on dating and relationships despite the amount of toxicity and negativity and self propraganda is included in the content/material. Overtime you refuse to accept the opposite sex as anything else other than what you believe to be true about them , thats the point she is making i believe
To have a happy relationship you need to learn how to communicate in a healthy matter. If you learn how to communicate and what's healthy for you, you will naturally filter out the bad people from the good. Yes, sometime their are obvious signs to someone being unhealthy, but for the most part you still have to talk to them to find out and watching some stuff might help. But learning to how to get to know people in health a manner and they make you feel will do you tons better.
This conversation is encouraging, I’m a business owner and very happily married and stopped creating content because it wasn’t getting views and/or likes. I regret giving in so quickly because more positivity is needed on so many levels.
Channels like these give me hope in my dating life lol
This should have a lot more views, so sad that the society we live in today do not value true wisdom and the truth.
This is such a crazy world_ where people don't believe that "water is wet"? And if remind them that the sky looks blue, they will argue you down and try to confuse the issue with new definitions or just out-right denial! They'll jump up & down screaming it's not fair! They'll whine, trying to brow beat you into believing "the sky is red"!
There are often times people will dismiss good values & proper upbringing as so-called "old-school"/ "old-fashioned in favor of avoiding what is actual and factual. That which is right, correct & true can't ever go out of style!...
There are many injustices throughout human history which indeed needed to be corrected? However, that which is true & good should never be discarded! I'm sure that you are discerning and intelligent enough to see that we nowadays live in an "everything goes" "free for all" type of world where almost anything that you "feel" like doing, it's Ok under the guise of fairness, social justice, & civil-rights?
Take a real close and objective look at our society. Can you honestly say that every aspect of our family life in society is for the better since these past social movements? Yup, some important things are good_ let's not throw the baby out with the bathwater? But, most things are Not so good, the pendulum has swung way too far in a bad direction. We as thinking cognizant people, need to take a step back & reevaluate?!
If her actions aren’t superior to her words fall back, you’ll be saving yourself from dealing with someone who can’t match up to what you put out
Love each other, and delight in honoring each other. Romans 12:10.
Amen🙏🏾
If you take advice from people who are bitter from bad experiences they can only teach you how now to fail. Only those who are doing well can teach you how to succeed. There's an important difference between not failing and success.
Lol sounds like your throwing shade towards a certain youtuber.
I love that you had her on! She did a great job summarizing what it's like being a woman online and seeing both sides of not liking the woke modern woman but also men online who are entitled as well and low value.
This women’s energy has my heart burning on fire in such a good way calm intellectual, balanced and beautiful I appreciated this videos perspective
healed Divine feminine energy can do that. Embodied masculine and feminine people can do great things.
agreed
just found this woman last week and now she’s on this channel, you guys are on it finding these new voices in the community
This interview or rather, conversation, is a breath of fresh air. Thank you.
Just got to say thanks for the work you guys do, up until recently I’ve been the kind of guy to just stay in and watch tv and games. But I saw one of these vids, it’s helped open my eyes. Now I’m getting involved with other stuff and getting other real men to learn from. One step at a time, keep it up brother!
This was a breath of fresh air because as a mom it kills me to see what my sons will be facing future wise.
Ask a woman only twice and if she declines, move on. Chasing women is a waste of time for men.
Great convo! I love that you bring great women on here that actually contribute to the convo not just from the basic bimbo POV. I followed Mary Jo cuz you had her on here.
She is great. Her videos restored my lost faith in women and relationships.
You know I started to think that when a man becomes successful he’ll immediately leave or cheat because of his options. I also started to think that men were unable to be faithful because they needed sex all of the time. When I was consuming these types of negative media it really was shaping my thought process and I realized that something was wrong and decided to stop consuming those types of media and make a broad stroke of judgement on an entire community. 🙃 just know that there are good women out their just like I know that there are good men out there. It’s just now about fighting through the noise from our it past experiences, media and head because then we can be that person who actually chases a good person away. Thus perpetuating the cycle and adding fuel to those negative thoughts.
@@Shaladash I"m almost sure that there are many guys that can appreciate you!
Gentlemen, if you want a good Woman_ it first starts by you being a good Man!..
A woman will understand your place, "only when You" come into knowing your place! *Headship of your family.* (certainly not tyrannical ruler).
As far as I can tell, and that which I have been taught, a man is not exactly the same thing as a "Gentleman". When a man prepares himself, and then steps into the world as lead/Headship of his family_ he steps in not as an overlord or dictator in a position of control and privilege?
Rather, this is the negative stereotypical image of tyrannical control in a male head-of-household which is the constant message perpetuated by feminist dogma that is either subtlety or out-right pumped into the minds of young women and men these days by popular-culture news & entertainment media.
Not all media nowadays?_ But, nearly all media depicts a man/ father as absent, separated, incompetent, baffoon, and (feminist favorite), abusive! Well, if his character depiction is a positive TV Dad in the typically shown 50/50% couple_ he is at least beneath the surface, ineffectual, inept, indecisive, and often he's just "simp-y"_ generally with no backbone! Nevertheless, he's fun to be around?... Now "keepin it real", most folks that watch movies & TV these days, yawl know I ain't lying?!
If the fe/ male popular-culture and feminist ideologists continue this current media onslaught of lousy men/fathers characterizations, you'll help parents to raise another yet worse off generation of young boys with these cornball traits! Women See This Suff in a Lot of Men Now! This should and it can change. Of course?
Getting back to my main point_ A Gentleman operates with integrity, honor, and purpose. He realizes that the headship of his family is "realistically" a position of "responsibility" and not Lordship. What the hell... How should it be anything else? (Asking you_ feminist?)
Now, here's the controversial question? Why should a man Not tuck his tail between his legs and follow lead of the typically smaller more demure human vessel? If we can just get out of "Hollywood-Land" for just a bit, come & bring our minds back to reality, we can logically see why this usually does not work!
First of all many people often want to (selectively) avoid, dismiss, or criticize any or all types of religious beliefs to escape any truths which it may have to offer? However, religious beliefs have little to do with the basic observable facts which we humans commonly know of in our "natural world". So with that in mind, there's enough current present day and ancient historical evidence to explain the natural dynamics between men & women. No need to try to over complicate the issue in order to try to deflect or deflate the facts!
Gentlemen, do all that you can to make yourself be the desirable, acceptable men for the type of ladies that you know that you want to attract. And don't worry about the "fems" that choose not to get with the program & follow along. They'll just get left behind!... ✌
This is why I just love him !!! Always willing to have open conversations, direct but not rude. Just an amazing channel all together
Really appreciative of you guys content. It breaks my heart the amount of men and women who are jaded. Either jaded through hate of the other sex or jaded by the “idea” of what a woman or man should be. Please keep going!
I absolutely loved this interview! Shes right up there with Rebecca Lynn Pope in the fact that they both give honest, straightforward advise with their own personal experiences, as well as those around them. Great job Hafeez! 👏🏼
Gentlemen, if you want a good Woman_ it first starts by you being a good Man!..
A woman will understand your place, "only when You" come into knowing your place! *Headship of your family.* (certainly not tyrannical ruler).
As far as I can tell, and that which I have been taught, a man is not exactly the same thing as a "Gentleman". When a man prepares himself, and then steps into the world as lead/Headship of his family_ he steps in not as an overlord or dictator in a position of control and privilege?
Rather, this is the negative stereotypical image of tyrannical control in a male head-of-household which is the constant message perpetuated by feminist dogma that is either subtlety or out-right pumped into the minds of young women and men these days by popular-culture news & entertainment media.
Not all media nowadays?_ But, nearly all media depicts a man/ father as absent, separated, incompetent, baffoon, and (feminist favorite), abusive! Well, if his character depiction is a positive TV Dad in the typically shown 50/50% couple_ he is at least beneath the surface, ineffectual, inept, indecisive, and often he's just "simp-y"_ generally with no backbone! Nevertheless, he's fun to be around?... Now "keepin it real", most folks that watch movies & TV these days, yawl know I ain't lying?!
If the fe/ male popular-culture and feminist ideologists continue this current media onslaught of lousy men/fathers characterizations, you'll help parents to raise another yet worse off generation of young boys with these cornball traits! Women See This Suff in a Lot of Men Now! This should and it can change. Of course?
Getting back to my main point_ A Gentleman operates with integrity, honor, and purpose. He realizes that the headship of his family is "realistically" a position of "responsibility" and not Lordship. What the hell... How should it be anything else? (Asking you_ feminist?)
Now, here's the controversial question? Why should a man Not tuck his tail between his legs and follow lead of the typically smaller more demure human vessel? If we can just get out of "Hollywood-Land" for just a bit, come & bring our minds back to reality, we can logically see why this usually does not work!
First of all many people often want to (selectively) avoid, dismiss, or criticize any or all types of religious beliefs to escape any truths which it may have to offer? However, religious beliefs have little to do with the basic observable facts which we humans commonly know of in our "natural world". So with that in mind, there's enough current present day and ancient historical evidence to explain the natural dynamics between men & women. No need to try to over complicate the issue in order to try to deflect or deflate the facts!
Gentlemen, do all that you can to make yourself be the desirable, acceptable men for the type of ladies that you know that you want to attract. And don't worry about the "fems" that choose not to get with the program & follow along. They'll just get left behind!... ✌
I think the message that a lot of men nowadays are trying to convey to women is please dial back on the hostile, negative feminist ideology & attitude? Please dial back on the passive-aggressive masculine energy which most of you often project? Nothing wrong with educating yourself and having something to offer in the way of your work or career. But, please do not have this be your biggest priority, your overarching & all encompassing focus that guides your life.
Unfortunately the so-called "modern woman" has almost completely lost their feminine essence. Yeah, they may look, dress, sound & even act feminine_ but from deep down showing no true feminine mindset, attitude nor philosophy? Thus female or "feminine essence". That's what it is...!
So many times women because of indoctrination and feminist propaganda will try to tell men what they should want or expect in a woman, instead of finding out or asking us? They'll often bash men & hate masculinity_ while at the same time, turnaround and continue taking on more masculine traits? Then, they'll offer this crap to us? Then, we be like... "What"?? 😟
I like this channel more now that he ALSO points out the issue with some men. Perspectives are becoming more balanced and debates fairer and more constructive . Subscribing
Welcome to the red pill 😂
I'll be honest, Redpill philosophy did open my eyes to the nature of things like me being the problem and I should get off my ass and get out there.
BUT, there is such a big topic of dumping ALL woman in the category of 304's... and you know, I get it, but adopting that mentality is bad, cause it's really negative, almost gives you no hope for a lasting relationship.
People always point out the issues with men where have you been?.. That's why red pill and MGTOW was formed so that men wouldn't continue thinking that only they are the problem..
@@Jaydavid25. True... God dammit.
@@Jaydavid25. there is a realistic nature to men that the world is not supposed to feel sorry for us because if we were rewarded for negative behavior we would continue to produce the same mistakes possibly leading us into Extinction. Obviously in this modern society away from nature we are basically going through a d evolution period
I love the conversation you guys are having. Dating life is looked at through social media goggles and it’s sad. People see an image and create an illusion of what they think the person should be like and if you don’t meet that expectation even a little then you are generalize.
Neat! I just discovered her channel in my suggestions couple weeks back, and here she is doing a collaboration. Hell to the yeah!
This conversation is so essential. Thank you for this.
I think the message that a lot of men nowadays are trying to convey to women is please dial back on the hostile, negative feminist ideology & attitude? Please dial back on the passive-aggressive masculine energy which most of you often project? Nothing wrong with educating yourself and having something to offer in the way of your work or career. But, please do not have this be your biggest priority, your overarching & all encompassing focus that guides your life.
Unfortunately the so-called "modern woman" has almost completely lost their feminine essence. Yeah, they may look, dress, sound & even act feminine_ but from deep down showing no true feminine mindset, attitude nor philosophy? Thus female or "feminine essence". That's what it is...!
So many times women because of indoctrination and feminist propaganda will try to tell men what they should want or expect in a woman, instead of finding out or asking us? They'll often bash men & hate masculinity_ while at the same time, turnaround and continue taking on more masculine traits? Then, they'll offer this crap to us? Then, we be like... "What"?? 😟
This is an amazing exchange - I love it 💕
another Great one Roomates! y’all keep doin what y’all doin and standing up for what y’all Believe. Loving it!
I always thought teachingmenfashion was the only channel to truly understand relations and the needs of both men and women, but this video definitely makes me feel so much more respect for this channel. Keep up the good work guys, love the content!!!
I've learned so much about myself with the RP books/podcasts. It's more about the person, it's more about me, and how I can become better. it's not meant to be about hating women. it's learning why I am the way I am (in general), and why women are the way they are. I kept being made to feel like there was something wrong with me for not thinking like society and women want me to think. There is nothing wrong, I am a man and they are women. We are different no matter how hard society tries to tell us that we are the same. I can pull my life out of the ditch.
The disconnect I see from my observation isn't the positive message, it the positive message going against what they seen and experience in their real lives. It is hard to accept a message that tells you there is good outside but every time you go outside you see the complete opposite. What needs to happens is creating the communities that connects these good people together and then promoting as loud as possible.
Wholesome discussion. Love it! We need more of this sort of media to help change the frame.
That conclusion is facts, Hafeez. Keep up the good work
Humans have a negativity bias. You could get a hundred well thought of great comments on this video, and the one egregious troll will stick out to you simply because of the negativity.
There's a book called 'the stress test' that outlines WHY we remember the stressful/ bad things: it's a defense mechanism/ survival instinct to avoid the bad thing, this thing hurt me,so avoid it,so think a million times how to avoid it.
Gentlemen, if you want a good Woman_ it first starts by you being a good Man!..
A woman will understand your place, "only when You" come into knowing your place! *Headship of your family.* (certainly not tyrannical ruler).
As far as I can tell, and that which I have been taught, a man is not exactly the same thing as a "Gentleman". When a man prepares himself, and then steps into the world as lead/Headship of his family_ he steps in not as an overlord or dictator in a position of control and privilege?
Rather, this is the negative stereotypical image of tyrannical control in a male head-of-household which is the constant message perpetuated by feminist dogma that is either subtlety or out-right pumped into the minds of young women and men these days by popular-culture news & entertainment media.
Not all media nowadays?_ But, nearly all media depicts a man/ father as absent, separated, incompetent, baffoon, and (feminist favorite), abusive! Well, if his character depiction is a positive TV Dad in the typically shown 50/50% couple_ he is at least beneath the surface, ineffectual, inept, indecisive, and often he's just "simp-y"_ generally with no backbone! Nevertheless, he's fun to be around?... Now "keepin it real", most folks that watch movies & TV these days, yawl know I ain't lying?!
If the fe/ male popular-culture and feminist ideologists continue this current media onslaught of lousy men/fathers characterizations, you'll help parents to raise another yet worse off generation of young boys with these cornball traits! Women See This Suff in a Lot of Men Now! This should and it can change. Of course?
Getting back to my main point_ A Gentleman operates with integrity, honor, and purpose. He realizes that the headship of his family is "realistically" a position of "responsibility" and not Lordship. What the hell... How should it be anything else? (Asking you_ feminist?)
Now, here's the controversial question? Why should a man Not tuck his tail between his legs and follow lead of the typically smaller more demure human vessel? If we can just get out of "Hollywood-Land" for just a bit, come & bring our minds back to reality, we can logically see why this usually does not work!
First of all many people often want to (selectively) avoid, dismiss, or criticize any or all types of religious beliefs to escape any truths which it may have to offer? However, religious beliefs have little to do with the basic observable facts which we humans commonly know of in our "natural world". So with that in mind, there's enough current present day and ancient historical evidence to explain the natural dynamics between men & women. No need to try to over complicate the issue in order to try to deflect or deflate the facts!
Gentlemen, do all that you can to make yourself be the desirable, acceptable men for the type of ladies that you know that you want to attract. And don't worry about the "fems" that choose not to get with the program & follow along. They'll just get left behind!... ✌
@@vickmurray5751 Long read, but worth it
Being the Right man is not easy. We have to improve ourselves. I am a Virgo and I naturally judge people it's something that I have got a handle on as I got older. It's very HARD to be the right person that you want to attract. Getting frustrated happens because as humans we want to see automatic success and results.
@@ichoosemysanity6467 Never thought the horoscope thing would come from a man. But it's true that judging is a natural instinct, I think it is the first step to understanding. Stereotypes exist for a reason, but most people will never work hard to prove that they are reasonable individuals.
This is great ddialog. I like the fact both of you acknowledged that both sides will end up alone if people stick to the extremes of not dealing with the opposite sex.
I legit subscribed to her channel 2 days ago lol. Good mindset. Smart and intellectual.
This video gave a great perspective and made me learn what I did wrong and how I can address and fix. Keep doing what your doing broski
I loved listening to this conversation. She is definitely not the typical 25-year-old she is an anomaly and she is not afraid to spit out logical facts.
Brenda thats the problem if she was the norm.... relationships would be a lot better.....
@@triplelexxx9407 That's right.
At some point in time, we will have to reassess the utilization of media (television, internet, magazines, etc.) and its effects on human conditioning. It is a memory overload that honestly, isn't necessary and as a result, perceptions can become skewed and sculpted before any real world experience is formed.
People need to stop pointing at media. You control your eyes and ears. You choose what makes it into you mind. A grown, mature person runs their lives and makes choices. It's like blaming McDonald's for obesity when they just make the food and don't force you to eat it. You can't stop the production of negative ideas in a free society. You only can only control you.
Matthew Gaines ignorant man. Nations don’t spend billions of dollars a year on propaganda because it might work. They KNOW it’s going to work. Because the human brain is predictable as is behavior. You’re not in control of urself nearly as much as you think.
@@pathofpotential953
You're actually ignorant You hear things that were never said and then put them into someone's else's mouth. On top of that, you don't seem to think personal responsibility is a thing. You're just a powerless fool being manipulated by others. Good luck with life with that perspective. Accountability is krytonite to you too. No need to take any personal responsibility in life because you can always blame the media for your outcomes.
@@matthewgaines10 some people are born into wealth. some people are born with life altering disabilities. To remove luck from life is just repeating what you heard and is popular. Its very rare to think for urself today man i do not blame you brother
Most billionaires don't let their children digest any of these things, Steve Jobs kids never had a cellphone when he was alive.. i wonder why
This is what I've been waiting to hear from y'all... 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Great content and great conversation between both of you!
"The happiest women are the silent women".
I suppose over the years of rejection I have figured this out by myself that if you can love one, you can love another one too. Also I learned it hard way that you have stick with someone who also loves you back, otherwise I am turned off no matter how beautiful she is. You can't force love onto others. Yes, you also need to be out there, expressing your feelings and interests. However if the person isn't interested, then it's over. Keep going.
Thank you for such a powerful message! 👏♥ society needs this message to be spread!
Great video! Thank you for talking about the truth! This is sooo important to highlight!
FINALLY, a masculinist channel with sensible, useful messages for men!
8:53 I came to this realization last week. After seeing a seemingly endless stream of delusional women on the Godfather's channel I noticed it made me feel some type of way towards women. (No disrespect to KS or his viewers). It made me take a break and reflect on the content that I was consuming and made me more aware of how it is/was shaping my views.
What’s the content and what are you aware of now
@@lrrussellrussell8227 Kevin Samuels and I felt the same way/\. I had to take a step back before I became bitter.
@@lrrussellrussell8227 the content is/was channels like Kevin Samuels and FreshandFit. (Again, no disrespect to those channels or their content). The realization is that despite the seemingly relentless barage of delusional women, the real world is actually far more nuanced than what certain RUclips channels make it seem and as such every interaction I have with woman going forward needs to start from that understanding (of nuance) and not on the assumption that she's like the rest of them.
@@sebastianplatt6815 agreed 👍. I also started feeling bitterness towards these women creeping in. Introspection and reflection was definitely necessary to understand why...
Good for you for coming to that realization. I wish you much success!
I like seeing your humility in regard to evolving. Great discussion!
Love this video. Def sharing this with someone
Alone is so underrated. Spending time and money.
Matthew 7:3, KJV: "And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?"
Your channel is much needed
Wow this is such an amazing collage, good job on both of you.
Attractive women are a dime a dozen, a smart, kind, loving woman is a needle in a haystack.
The conclusion of this video is correct only if both sexes were equal when it comes to dating. The issue is they are not, dating and sexuality are completely stacked in women's favor.
Men are much more biologically driven by their sex drive to pursue women at their own detriment. It makes guys do the dumbest of decisions just to have sex. They are clouded most of their time with this carnal desire that impedes them from doing what they want. Women don't face that problem and it doesn't even register for them. They can go very long periods of time if not remain completely abstinent. It's an option for them that they can exercise on a whim.
The other how society treats dating and how the 2 sexes interact. It's an unwritten rule that guys have to approach. This relinquishs the guys power and concentrates all the power in the females hand. Thus, letting women play the role of God when it comes to male sex life and dictating who gets some (10%) and those who don't. Men are also constantly vilified when expressing their sexuality, while women are praised for theirs and even encouraged.
Whichever way you look at it, in dating and intersex relationships, men and women aren't and will never be equal.
Move to Romania bro. Not ONE SINGLE UNSUBMISSIVE WOMAN here. xD
@@d4mterro320 idk what country you’re from but here in the US (I’m in one of the most liberal states btw) I have a whole group of women who believe in biblical wife roles, like submission. I think you’re not looking in the right places my man 👌🏼. We’re out there! We just aren’t on social media, at the clubs, etc.
Awesome comment but the same goes for men.
Fax
Notice how beautiful and great women are, they are very quiet and about their businesses and still earn respect from the men they Have in their lives
Excellent video. Keep it coming!!
Love this conversation 🤍 wish it was longer!
The RP community it beneficial in many ways but it can become unhealthy if you over saturate yourself in it.
That’s what I’ve realized.
100%
From a black woman’s perspective, the first thing I noticed when I started viewing red pill channels was...wow these men really sound like angry black women. They literally sound like us when we’re fussin with the girls. But I never spoke on it because I understand the necessity of the manosphere. This video expresses the exact way that I feel about everything. Whenever I would comment to guy friends about, well men do it too...or men need to do better as well...they’re only rebuttal is why can’t it just be about women...and I’m like 👀
You can’t just point fingers at each other and do the blame game. Own up to your mess and do better. Plain & simple.
I get you’re point there is hurt and bitterness on both sides. Problem is neither side wants to take accountability because the hurt and bitterness clouds them
Let’s be honest today’s black women are out of order
@@aarongray1981 exactly. Accountability is the key word. That can only happen when we’re healed. And that’s a process some are not willing to do.
@@igpxmaster indeed. Some of us are. And all black men are innocent angels being taken advantage of? there’s work that needs to be done on both sides. That’s what ultimately clear.
Cool, long as you realize your fellow black women are out of order as well, we good.
Courtney Ryan and Hafeez you guys are doing a fabulous job. Do not worry what people says. You guys are just awesome. God bless you.
hey bro first time on your channel love the video. it was a nice change of pace from the usual videos on this topic.
I agree that watching content that bashes one sex or the other will make you jaded for sure.
The issue I see are the facts against one sex over the other in marriage and relationships.
Women leave relationships 80% of the time.
Divorce laws favor women 85 - 90% of the time.
Men's requirements for women about 4 - 5 items
Women's requirements for men, the encyclopedia
In 55 years I've seen a major transformation in one sex, not so much the other
I love this conversation. A lot of low value men are getting batteries in their back from the channels calling women out so their think it is only the woman as the problem
I needed this. Thank you.
Thank you for telling me that my choices are liberating. Its never too late to realize that. Thanks Hafiz and Courtney!
I’ve noticed that people on Instagram actually make it pretty clear to other people what kind of person they are. People just don’t listen.
If a girl is constantly posting photos of herself posing instead of photos having a good time she is seeking attention for all the wrong reasons... and those wrong reasons are going to manifest in ugly ways in your relationship.
If a person on IG has more photos of them posing than genuinely laughing, then they don’t value the beauty of a smiling face ... you’ll spend the rest of your life posing together rather than laughing together.
If people are constantly posting photos showing off their car, expensive watches, etc. (or their desire to own one) they are clearly signaling to what they value/want to spend money on (plus that they are show offs).
People are showing you what they are. They’re not going to change any time soon! Listen to them!
We are all imperfect. It starts within.. Always be yourself. Honesty and communication is key. The only pers
on you can change is yourself. Men think first and feel second. Women feel first and think second. Relationships are work if you think or feel other wise you are delusional. Love is not always about sunshine and rainbows. Just my experience. Humility.
Congrats on 400K subs 🎉 lots of love from Australia and thanks for the new insight provided in this video
goddamn! This is so refreshing. Finally! the only two coaches who get me! keep spreading the positivity
- I just want to let anyone who’s reading this, and going through a tough time know that it’s going to be okay. You’ll get through it! ✨
I needed to hear that ❣️
Thank you
Stay blessed 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
The best thing you can do is rid yourself of the lust you have for low vibrational women and give yourself a set of standards for the type of woman you want in your life. It's better to have standards and never come across that woman than to deal with just any woman and end up paying the price later.
This exactly. This is where so many men tend to mess up. And definitely end up paying in the long run. 🥴
This is the answer for all romantic relationships problems, yall.
Congratulations On 400K!!!