She’s Completely Moved On - Can You Save Your Marriage Alone? | James’ Story

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  • Опубликовано: 3 окт 2024

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  • @GeoffreySetiawan
    @GeoffreySetiawan  Год назад +6

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  • @RobertRiggin
    @RobertRiggin Год назад +15

    “If you choose not to decide you still have made a choice” -Freewill by Rush

    • @digidrum2003
      @digidrum2003 Год назад +1

      I always loved that line....thanks Neil Peart!

    • @GYMETRIUS
      @GYMETRIUS Год назад +1

      This line popped in my head too

  • @victoriaoshea4865
    @victoriaoshea4865 11 месяцев назад +3

    My severe pain and shock at the reality of my situation with my husband, and all my familyrelationships.....
    Motivates me to work

  • @leroymthulisindlovu
    @leroymthulisindlovu 11 месяцев назад +3

    Another great interview! What hit home for me is that it all starts with me. This is the biggest lesson for me in all the videos I have been watching on this channel. I spent so long waiting for life and other people to make my life better and instead it just got progressively worse. Now that I am applying the tidbits I get from here, I can already see situations playing out differently in my life and it makes me want to do the program even more. Thanks so much for this Geoff.

  • @imagegotbeats
    @imagegotbeats 17 дней назад

    Man awesome video!! I swear Geoffrey is the best lifestyle coach on RUclips 💯

  • @Phoenix-lc7jv
    @Phoenix-lc7jv 8 месяцев назад +1

    I have realized that most people are in marriages or LTRs that are either so-so or outright miserable. Watching these testimonials reinforces my assessment.

  • @simonkwan
    @simonkwan Год назад +5

    Thank you Geoffrey, what you are doing is very meaningful! And thanks James for this great interview.

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  Год назад

      I love it! I'm glad you are gaining value from my content!

  • @alecmcd8536
    @alecmcd8536 8 месяцев назад

    See Geoff, this is why I believe your program is the best and why I continue to follow your videos. It is the only program that makes you grow yourself by shifting your paradigms to assume a new identity rather than embracing your victim mindset! 💯

  • @808Corsa80
    @808Corsa80 11 месяцев назад +1

    I see a lot of these “grass isn’t always greener” situations

  • @cowinsgaming9664
    @cowinsgaming9664 Год назад +4

    My wife of 18 years left me. She tells me she is trying to heal and find a way to come back after the damage I've caused. I take full responsibility for all of it. I broke my wife. I will never give up on us. I've taken steps to changing myself, but i know i need to know more and become unteathered and bulletproof. I conquered an addiction and am taking steps to get back on track of my own life. But i still want more for myself and my family and my wife. My wife and I are currently splitting our belongings and selling our house with the hope in the future to get back together. She wants us i believe, but there is massive resistance at this time. I've signed up for the masterclass.

    • @theman1526
      @theman1526 2 месяца назад

      Any updates?

    • @cowinsgaming9664
      @cowinsgaming9664 2 месяца назад +2

      @@theman1526 Yes! Long story short- we have reconciled and are going to renew our vows. Over a year has passed and we beat the odds and are better than ever. It wouldn't have happened if I didn't change and make positive steps every day to show how much I am a new man.

    • @MattBlogna
      @MattBlogna Месяц назад

      ​@@cowinsgaming9664how long apart

    • @MattBlogna
      @MattBlogna Месяц назад

      ​@cowinsgaming9664 how long were you separated

    • @NearHumanIntelligence
      @NearHumanIntelligence 14 дней назад

      @@cowinsgaming9664did you take this program?

  • @supermutant
    @supermutant Год назад +4

    Good for you, James. 👍👏

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  Год назад +2

      I am very proud of the work James has put in and honored to have him as a client.
      He has earned everything he is getting!

  • @Markyboy291266
    @Markyboy291266 Год назад +3

    So many lessons to learn here I identify a lot with things said here, brilliant, this is the first interview I’ve watched and only just started watching your videos, probably the best out there at this, I’ll be following more, thank you 🙏🏻

  • @victoriaoshea4865
    @victoriaoshea4865 11 месяцев назад

    EXCELLENT interview!
    I love how Geoff let it go a little longer which helped me explore what he was talking about and learn it on a deeper level.
    It wasn't rushed , I love that!
    I feel curious, the content is fascinating in release speaks to me.

  • @RossBayCult
    @RossBayCult Год назад +1

    Geoffrey. Thank you for what you do. You really have the cheat code.

  • @navderek
    @navderek Год назад +2

    Great interview 👍

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  Год назад

      Hi navderek,
      Yes, it is! Was there anything eye-opening that stood out to you?

  • @victoriaoshea4865
    @victoriaoshea4865 11 месяцев назад +1

    I have an interview on Monday 15 minutes only😮...
    I hope I get into the class...
    Even if my husband doesn't want me anymore.
    BECAUSE I know I need to change anyway if I dont want to live as a hermit.
    Almost ALL my relationships are DONE/OVER

  • @samueligorkutenski4582
    @samueligorkutenski4582 Год назад +1

    Soooo good!!
    Simply amazing!!
    Greetings from Germany!!🇩🇪

  • @victoriaoshea4865
    @victoriaoshea4865 11 месяцев назад

    1:11:58 Its AMAZING that James had the strength, insight, discipline to do this😮🤩👏👏👏👏

  • @hardybronah
    @hardybronah Год назад

    A lot of gems!! Geoffrey, would you be able to make a video on learning how to learn! That seemed very interesting and if you could go into any depth on it. Hardest thing to do is knowing what you don’t know and I’m really interested in learning how I don’t know how to learn lol would be nice to learn!

  • @jonjbivins
    @jonjbivins Год назад +1

    49:00 really hit me 😮

  • @victoriaoshea4865
    @victoriaoshea4865 11 месяцев назад

    I need badly the INTERNAL SHIFTS

  • @victoriaoshea4865
    @victoriaoshea4865 11 месяцев назад

    36:37 PAIN

  • @victoriaoshea4865
    @victoriaoshea4865 11 месяцев назад

    41:11 😮😂...soooo true!!!

  • @mfilipe77
    @mfilipe77 Год назад +1

    What do you do, if it's gotten to the point your wife gets physical when she can't take the pressure anymore and at the point she left with our children

    • @bigpeezyweezy
      @bigpeezyweezy Год назад

      Let me know how it goes same situation here

    • @mfilipe77
      @mfilipe77 Год назад

      @@bigpeezyweezy so sorry!

    • @txeazy
      @txeazy Год назад +1

      @@mfilipe77 & @bigpeezyweezy. your situation is not unique. don't ask for tactics. Just learn (whether by watching the videos or joining the program) that the most important thing about this situation's is that you need to have the right processes not for the outcome. but before of all of this you have to let go of the victim mindset and understand that you still don't know anything and that's where the journey starts. keep pushing but understand something, "you can't solve problems with the same mindset or definitions that brought you those same exact problems." so learn first and don't be impatient. just follow the right process.

  • @NAHHAN
    @NAHHAN Год назад

    Hi Geoffrey and co.
    I have been looking at your videos a while now, and it has really helped me. I am doing my best to focus on the process.
    I have one question, if anyone can give me some advise.
    Should I continously, choosing good moments, try to engage with my (insert correct term here) even though she wants space and does not want to talk to me outside of things like houshold plans? Examples; asking how she feels at work or how her day was. Or should I wait?
    I know that getting back togheter is not a topic to bring up right now, but the examples I would think is ok, or am I wrong?
    Any feedback would be grately apreciated.

  • @lilmermaid6201
    @lilmermaid6201 Год назад

    I've been married 12 years my wife with someone else I want to fix it and save it she wants a divorce it feels so hopeless and there's just nothing I can do I want to change myself and be a better man it's so hard not to give up I hate myself for letting it get this far and letting her get so far gone these videos give me hope though

    • @tb87670
      @tb87670 Год назад

      Any update? A month ago my wife of 6 years cheated then left me. I've been doing this advice from Geoffrey with mixed results.

    • @theman1526
      @theman1526 2 месяца назад

      ​@@tb87670any updates?

  • @victoriaoshea4865
    @victoriaoshea4865 11 месяцев назад

    💯 💯 💯!

  • @tonylochner4730
    @tonylochner4730 10 месяцев назад

    OK, so James you figured out what problems you brought to your marriage.
    But how did you fix those problems? Because those are the root cause why you and your wife had problems. You gotta fix those, not just identify them.
    How did you fix those problems?

  • @desmondbaxter2449
    @desmondbaxter2449 11 месяцев назад

    my wife is leaving me, she says that I ruined her nerve system, and she doesnt love me

    • @victoriaoshea4865
      @victoriaoshea4865 11 месяцев назад

      Watch and study all ll these videos!
      Do it for yourself

    • @Nuez234
      @Nuez234 3 месяца назад

      ​@@victoriaoshea4865 will it be possible to have a brief conversation with you?

  • @rezsoszocs2160
    @rezsoszocs2160 Год назад +3

    Geoffrey: Congrats on what you are doing, you make people explore their deepest subconscious that make them change their life - that leads to change their families life for better and for good! Keep going🙏🦾