張堅庭導演X鄭丹瑞父女：留學英倫-探索名人爸爸的抉擇與女兒的蛻變
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- Опубликовано: 4 ноя 2018
- 著名導演張堅庭先生這次將夥拍多年好友，另一著名導演鄭丹瑞先生(旦哥)，同場細談送子女到英國留學的心路歷程。當中發生過甚麼事情最令兩位爸爸難以忘懷呢? 有人甚麼不為人道的辛酸呢?
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爸爸以2個女兒為榮，2個女兒也以爸爸為榮👍🏻👍🏻 旦哥是一個好的爸爸，而2個女兒也很有智慧，很得體，很好的家庭榜樣👍🏻👍🏻😊
有這樣懂事的女兒，莫大的福氣。鄭瑤說得太好了👍👍👍
一對非常有氣質的女孩、美女與智慧俱俻。👍
作为一名开明开通的家长是使得孩子没有束缚的自由发展的前提。旦哥把千金们的教育是以放手和信任去扶持而造就，今天真的获益匪浅。女儿提到的语言是知识，知识是能力，这句话是千真万确的。我是马来西亚第四代华侨，很幸运的有机会学习多种语言。出国读书后真的觉得语言是开创我们对世界视野的钥匙，有中文的底蕴加上英文主流的时代，我们所占的优势是很多西方民主望尘莫及的。所以我们要好好把握我们基因的优势，别浪费了。我也非常鼓励家长让孩子很早就开始让孩子们接触不同的国家文化，去旅游但让他们参与策划行程，学习看地图选择当地交通工具，学习基本的惯用句子语言等等。习惯可以独立和自由的在地球村游行。
十分欣賞他/她們！
旦哥丶你講得真好丶真心佩服
鄭丹瑞你生咗個女咁乖呀你真係三生有幸呀
大囡非常有自信，好獨立，好強
大家姐完全可以做立會議員、演講家、電視台好主
持！
如果做议員就香港惨了，又是一位可能教青年暴徒的
家姐説的部份最精彩👍🏻
大家姐，好有智慧！
鄭丹瑞 is so proud of his daughters.
大家姐好有獨特見解， 有自信， 好叻
好好睇這個節目
家庭教育很重要,旦哥教導有方👍👍👍兩個女兒好可愛👭靚女💯
兩位千金好自然美麗氣質高尚大方，鄭丹瑞怎麼做到涷齡如此？好young look!可否賜教？
大女真係無得頂😍😍😍
兩姐妹好叻👍👍👍👍👍👏👏👏👏💪💪💪💪💪
the older daughter is very polite and nice, looks well educated, polished, and intelligent. Younger one has not spoken much yet; but, have seen her in another episode as a health fitness coach in the Trybe gym
健康旦有两個如此精𩆜叻女，值得驕傲
家姐说的很好！thanks for sharing, it is really a good session! 🥰
謝謝分享，給年輕人更多鼓勵。
阿旦的兩位千金真係好靚女
讲得好
proud dad congratulation!!!
I’m very impressed with both daughters. Good job, parents!
有正能量的家庭教育出來的孩子是優秀的，旦哥太棒了👍👍👍👍👍🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Congrats, Mr Cheng……..your two daughters have the right attitudes to life……..your parenthood mission gained FULL MARKS :))
後尾蛋哥回答好好也是我心聲
The world is your oasis. Be thankful you have the opportunity to go overseas.
However Academic achievements do not define oneself. Success has different meaning at different stages of our life. Be it big or small. Have pride in whatever you do. Love what you do. Be grateful for what you have. Most importantly, to do good for others. Peace x
Thank you so much. Two daughters are so smart.
旦哥2位千金好靚女
阿旦家庭教育方式值得參考
蛋歌兩位千金非常美麗👭
更正: 蛋哥
不要常常以歧視為藉口。有沒有自我反省一下自己的問題先？香港更多被歧視的事情發生呢⋯⋯人要尊重别人，才會被人尊重的。年輕時可以出外學習，比什麼都是寶貴的。
The return is they become a talented individuals. We raised 2 daughters and they both became a pharmacist. We borrowed loan for their tuition and they found a part-time job in college. They paid the remaining loan when they found a job. Mr. Chen's daughters are both very bright and beautiful.
旦哥最後一段說話令我感動落淚
He’s done a great job with his daughters!
二女又靚又聰明
這節目很舒服，好過日日關注遊行，抗爭，暴亂等等垃圾內容。
Great Show! Useful INFO for HK parents.
Totally agreed
I think it’s also important to note that the environment and views to education in both systems is different, and most importantly
姐姐很漂亮
旦哥，倆個女都叻，大女好西利，好幸福吖
政治環境只有沒有更差只有更差😟
做議員冇得頂👍👍👍👍
👍👍👍
Well said, parents should not ask for returns because once day our children will also need to raise their family too.
Feel compelled to respond. The views expressed by the two young fathers and fledgling daughters (in their early 50’s and 20’s I guess, respectively) are undoubtedly genuine, but nonetheless should be taken with extreme caution. Reason being the ultimate consequences from those two fathers' acts; and inference from their theories/judgement have yet to be revealed and proven. From personal experience, I’d speculate Messrs. Cheung and Cheng will outgrow such mentality within a decade, if not sooner. Hope they will come back by then to speak about the lessons they have learned since. Despite not being regarded as a Hong Konger, I did graduate from high school there before embarking upon my lifelong overseas adventure. I had attended quite a few so-called prestigious schools, including Imperial and Cambridge in the UK, Penn and UCLA in the US, and eventually wound up becoming an engineer and a physician. My last HK connection was my stint as a Medical Officer with the Queen Mary Hospital. there. More importantly, I have also raise my next generation. To Dadi OSSC, as a parent, I’d be delighted to give my “belated” perspective about sending our beloved offspring abroad for education.
P.S. Mr. Cheng, with all due respect, I’d implore you to refrain from making sarcastic statement of “No archaeologist has ever starved to death”. It irks, as not all archaeologists/ordinary people are desensitized to it.
旦嫂有料到
張導演當年教人唔好再讀啲知識型嘅科目,因為人工智慧將會取代曬呢啲工種,反而創意嘅產業就唔會受影響,所以就叫人要揀啲係對創意有幫助嘅去讀. 眨下眼就五年喇,而家似乎人工智能已經進化到其實可以作曲畫畫, 以我認為張導演似乎對個未來預測得唔係好準確,因為人工智能而家對創作都似乎己有把握喇,再過幾年唔知會點呢? 好似好有前瞻性,但係其實佢講嘅又係咪啱呢?
张导演问 丹 给多少零用钱 女儿 ，阿丹兜兜转转都没有讲几钱 ，哇 听得有点疲倦
If you earned 1st Class Honour you will get a letter to join foreign service. That included security. On the other hand you can still join the service.
其實最主要我番黎都係因為稅制~ 做野一定係香港好, 同大女講既野一樣, 英文幾好始終係外人, 都有困難, 交稅有咁大著數交少咁多緊係番香港做野, 中意外國生活咪搵夠先番外國
希望你哋發點正能量，正確的指導一下如今的香港青年人，特別是一些俾人利用的年青人，
成本越来越高是真的，底层的是没办法承担的。
I'm jook sing from the US. I love that I can speak fluent Cantonese because it may become a lost language. I totally agree with the older daughter!
Unless your kid is mentally mature, I won't recommend sending them overseas before the age of 16. Kids will have a lot of freedom without parents around and some of them could go to the wrong path and waste a lot of time and money. This is from my own experience when I was in Canada decades ago.
父母對仔女係一生一世无私嘅奉献，點樣嘅父母就有點樣嘅仔女，社會同以前唔一樣了，佢哋有佢哋嘅世界
過去我也十分認同孩子要到遠一點的地方升學,可以開拓眼界。但疫情下,那裡都是網課,還值得花那麼多錢到歐美升學嗎?
多謝你的留言! 我們的學生很多都在上網課, 但他們很多都與我們反映網課難以吸收和專注, 而且課堂體驗始終不如面授課堂, 再加上不能使用學校設施 (圖書館、體育設施、實驗室)等等, 所有以前不想上學的同學, 現在都轉為狠不得能每天親身上學了😂
Am glad she did not work in china
留學英國，首耍條件是－－－－錢！
鄭丹瑞 is actually the smartest...not his daughers... LOL
家姐說得對，她的英語很好，但弱點就是中文不佳，香港人太重視英文，輕視中文，如果要留在香港發展，只擁有良好的英語能力，而沒有流利得體的中文水準，也不易找到理想的工作
看你未在香港住過，除了做公務員。中文是不需要的
@@minkeiken1 係啊
I wonder if the 2 gals went to German Swiss? My 2 nephews went to German Swiss and got into both UK and US colleges. One ended up in LSE and the other one ended up in UC Berkeley.
monica w they just said they both did. Impressive girls.
我1976 一個 credit 都入到 HKU Science, 鄭丹瑞報錯系。我畢業有 2nd Honour. Btw 當年在商業電台參加你的 fun fun fun 節目得獎。
家姐好靚女
大女在1:07 分鐘。
精彩！
聽完佢兩個女講野，我有女一定要佢地學廣東話，因可以用言語表達情感，唔駛只可以用一D驚嘆語黎表達。
香港人一向倚賴性強，很少機會發揮自己的空間，缼乏獨立思考。
重點係父母要有錢先
correct
can't agree anymore
但讀普通話嘅人無品嫁，英文嘅因背景文化影響，其實人品會好啲嫁。
我就覺得你哋人格人品有問題啦！
What if the two girls are British citizens, and each got a good job , will they really , honestly wanted to return to HK??
學得流利英文固然好啦。 但又唔需要因為美國人睇唔起所以學英文。 有些美國人要睇唔起中國人, 點都會睇唔起你。美國人都有好有壞。 溝通到就得啦。 我係美國土生土長反而想學中文。
Agree
全家都好吹得。
自由喎！ 哈.........
一巴巴 打埋嚟！
正呀！ 張大導 ( 你估不到 )
外國長大 咪又係 努力學 廣東話
虽然我也认同英文的重要性，但2050年自动翻译软件成熟、各国资讯的同时共享会不会造成努力学语文不需要了
鄭丹瑞不是曾經在外國被告賠稅收賠很多嗎？
第一條件有錢允許您到外國讀書唔係人人做得到 重點係講嘅嘢冇建設性幫唔到任何嘢越聽越聽越迷惘
Gigi Tang 有錢才可以說出這番話。don’t expect in return.
Should 13 year old go to boarding school? The answer is what kind of life the kid had before age 13. A friend from Singapore praised the 2 year military service. He explained they were put into a pressure cooker the bonding last a life time and good networking. The experience is also functional later in life. There is always small talk materials to break the ice with total strangers. I saw an interview of a black Navy Seal,. The reporter prompt a question he was not expected. He instantly burst into tears saying he trusted those guys (white mates) more than he would trust his family. Five years at boarding school is a good melting pot. You watch each others back if not you get beaten up. As Bruce Lee said “books never hit back”. No he did not say that.
About soaking up Chinese in local school, I have a question for all in the room. How many of you were taught how to write essays at school?
收左幾銀廣告費呀?
廠
大女22:40講出外國讀書重點
Wait and see. These two girls are only skin deep.
張長女？
Really smart girls, but I don't necessarily agree with everything they say.
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點解細女不停搖腳，人搖福薄啊
相信细妹比较紧張而有的身体语言
都唔知你地想分享乜嘢？？？
陈医生, 我是你的病人. Ministry of transportation urban planner university of Waterloo alumni Vivien yip五十歲的葉蔚文(birth year 1970 September 7to 9)這二十五年來每日發五千個短信和电邮短信saying loving my husband. 這滋扰我的婚姻和工作和我和我先生建立的新家.
點解我成個腦都係陰毛？
Too much you know, not a very good English. You know? U know? I really don't know . Hahaha
UNO~
so annoying
I see what you mean... You know?! And then?!
the older daughter is very competitive, so annoying!!!!
講幾叻都是靠父母。
阿旦，請提醒你個大女，種族歧視係天性， 無處不在 ，所以要靠法律限制 。你個女， 讀政治系，不懂這一點，實在有點講不過去。
人類社會可悲的不是異族歧視，而是同族歧視 。 例如 ，華人共產黨員在香港，是一等居民， 講國語的是二等居民， 本土出生講粵語的是三等居民， 這就是同族歧視 。讀了那麼多年書，連這些基本的道理都不明白，亦看不清，公開教壞其他百姓，誤導香港人，你們是好心做壞事。
alex wong 同意！大女只睇重種族歧視，但又忽視香港現有氛圍！佢唔明白香港家長死慳死抵要供兒女出外，就係覺得可以得到嘅比留喺香港多！大女好明顯有份好工，又有外國護照，根本唔明白香港local school students and 大部分家長最擔心嘅問題！政治環境絕對係下一代要考慮嘅關鍵
我覺得共剷黨員在香港是九等居民
好煩!!! 不斷的吹自己有幾勁, 好唔謙虛!!! 嘩, 仲話自己英文比外國人好, omg.....真係叻其實係唔駛自己不斷重複地講, 去自我麻醉同認同的!!! 明明係100%講中文無問題的, 點解係都要加d英文係每一個句子到呢...if you wanna show off English, then say it in a whole sentence, you know?! 另, 話自己修讀兩個major, 美國大學只可以讀一個major, 一個minor的啊....其實一個人性格好就自然容易交到朋友, 唔需要話去外國一定要同外國人做朋友先至係學到英文...唉, 方向錯晒!!!
K R 其實美國大學可以double major噶 但其他方面贊同你
中國人去到任何國家都会比人岐視的，就算你幾有成就，你都是外人。
一堆港獨
讀考古，揾唔到野做，一早預計到，浪費去英國，失敗
鄭生同張生點解你唔叫啲仔出嚟做勇武者，個女仲可以做埋天使啊。你爸爸媽媽叫你做好人，點解你叫人去攬炒
How about you? 😚