coming to terms with liking women (speedpaint)

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  • Опубликовано: 28 окт 2024

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  • @coffeesoup3016
    @coffeesoup3016 5 лет назад +440

    Since I was a kid I always showed interest in lgbt community, seeing same sex couples warmed my heart and filled me with peace, figured out I am pansexual, came out to my mom, she told me to give her some time to understand it, these have been the largest 10 months...
    I love your art, keep the good work going on
    Happy Pride Month!!!!

  • @zooway
    @zooway 5 лет назад +197

    I love the way you say “women”

  • @irlw0rm
    @irlw0rm 5 лет назад +120

    I actually relate to this on a personal level-
    accept I just kept convincing myself I liked dudes along with liking girls.... I was wrong.
    I only ever liked girls....

  • @Electrosa
    @Electrosa 5 лет назад +64

    Orientation is hard. It can take a whole mess of time and figuring out to come to grips with yourself, but it's always so warming to hear people being confident in their identities. Thank you very much for sharing and happy pride month from Australia!

  • @crowbirdyy
    @crowbirdyy 5 лет назад +39

    As a lesbian who still struggles with accepting myself for loving girls, this makes me feel not so alone.
    Thank you.

  • @Pinkbunsa
    @Pinkbunsa 5 лет назад +273

    "What the kids call"
    What it actually is

    • @MsKiko000
      @MsKiko000 5 лет назад +54

      Some women don't like the term "lesbian", I don't really know why but most of my friends would rather go with "gay" or "homosexual"

    • @littlebusterbrown
      @littlebusterbrown 5 лет назад +22

      They mainly dont like the term because so many homophobic people have ruined it with their extreme cruelty. Yet, I have my own opinion as I'm abrosexual.. simply not saying anything towards your idea of it

    • @epicfromepicgames8222
      @epicfromepicgames8222 5 лет назад +4

      @@littlebusterbrown Yeah..

    • @epicfromepicgames8222
      @epicfromepicgames8222 5 лет назад +3

      @@MsKiko000 yes.

    • @n.c.435
      @n.c.435 5 лет назад +3

      is joke i believe

  • @wishtopublish
    @wishtopublish 5 лет назад +45

    Lmfao I was the opposite: thought I was a lesbian, turns out I'm an asexual

  • @rian-cg9fx
    @rian-cg9fx 5 лет назад +30

    i’m so proud of you!! these things take a long time to come to terms with and i’m happy you feel comfortable sharing! as a pan guy, i can say it took years of confusion and i’m so glad that i finally figured myself out as well! beautiful art as always!!

  • @ЕленаЛавыгина-х4т
    @ЕленаЛавыгина-х4т 5 лет назад +8

    I think I am lesbian too, but I'm not sure. I am not too interested in men, but recently i met a girl whom I became very attached. But I do not want people to start to treat me badly and do not want people to treat her badly, and I’m not sure that she’s like me. so I think I better just be alone

    • @spencergoth1cgutz205
      @spencergoth1cgutz205 5 лет назад +2

      Lily Q If you’re ready, tell her about your feelings, you never know and besides that, fuck people who treat others disrespectful, no one deserves to be harassed on, no matter what :)

    • @epicfromepicgames8222
      @epicfromepicgames8222 5 лет назад

      @@spencergoth1cgutz205 aw, I love your reply.

  • @throwawayaccount2485
    @throwawayaccount2485 5 лет назад +129

    LESBIANS UNITE 💪😤💓💔💕💖💗💟

    • @pooppoop7896
      @pooppoop7896 5 лет назад +20

      im a bi man but I just wanna say I support you so much

    • @Iaem129
      @Iaem129 5 лет назад +10

      @@pooppoop7896 we support you too 💓💓💓

    • @roxytheangeldragon4466
      @roxytheangeldragon4466 5 лет назад

      WOOOO UNITE

    • @strawberryguts8513
      @strawberryguts8513 5 лет назад +2

      I'm a lesbian and I LOVE this comment section! Everyone is so POSITIVE,If we find any homophobes in the comments will we find them!👀👊👊👊👊

    • @weastley0
      @weastley0 5 лет назад

      im bi but perfer girls does that count-

  • @bnha
    @bnha 5 лет назад +10

    Oof lol I’ve known I was at least slightly gay since 2nd grade, I think. I met this girl in 1st grade who I got a crush on in 2nd grade, and the crush lasted until 3rd grade. Then, I got a crush on this dude in 4th grade, who found out I liked girls and called me disgusting. Then, in 5th grade I liked a girl named Lucy, who liked another girl named Kyla, then, when Lucy stopped posting and kinda disappeared from the internet (this was a month into this summer) I got a crush on my best friend, who confessed to me recently then I confessed too.
    So I was straight, bisexual, gay, and now pansexual. Oofie.

  • @casscat7
    @casscat7 5 лет назад +2

    I used to identify as Bi, and then Pan, and for a long time I was confused... And I never desired any romantic nor sexual intimacy with another boy, and wasn't attracted to them like that. It was uncomfortable for me, including the friendships which I was also open to, but they were uncomfortable. The Pan part was also due to being under pressure for me and so was the Bi part. I've had a similar journey in realizing that I am a Lesbian. But, I am also Asexual and desire no sexual intimacy with anyone. So yeah...

  • @mufffin4582
    @mufffin4582 5 лет назад +15

    Me at the age 6 or 7 to a girl: "I dreamed about you
    Girl: *Ignored me for the rest of the school year*
    Years later: *discover that I'm bisexual and might have frighten that girl*

  • @juliaissi5245
    @juliaissi5245 5 лет назад +4

    I’ve seen your art on instagram YEARS ago and surprised to see you on my feed just now Jesus ash and Elliot and all of your ocs oddly hit me with mild nostalgia??? Loving your art forever happy to find you again!

  • @onibeebee
    @onibeebee 5 лет назад +1

    i reread some entries for when i had a diary phase in highschool and in one of them i literally go "but im not, like, into _girls_ or anything" and im sitting here like *oh my sweet summer me*

  • @ZacMio
    @ZacMio 5 лет назад +10

    Your artstyle is so adorable!! ❤️

  • @fogsmog9325
    @fogsmog9325 5 лет назад +2

    I always feel more comfortable with myself when I watch these videos in this month, love your styleeee

  • @foolofhearts4553
    @foolofhearts4553 5 лет назад +3

    I’m still confused about my sexuality, tbh. I mean i THINK i’m gay but sometimes i’m attracted to girls.
    But i’m glad you figured things out, being unsure is a pain in the butt.

  • @leche.y.miel.1621
    @leche.y.miel.1621 5 лет назад +43

    Im also officially been known to me as a pansexual( even do people say ur not ready) but i am pansexual fight me and congrats im happy that ur happy

    • @anastasiaphan4202
      @anastasiaphan4202 5 лет назад +4

      What is pansexual ? Enlightening me , please ☺

    • @leche.y.miel.1621
      @leche.y.miel.1621 5 лет назад +8

      @@anastasiaphan4202 a pansexual is technically someone who has no sexual limited choices from biological sex, gender, or the gender identity of a person

  • @isimbai4799
    @isimbai4799 5 лет назад +8

    I am Demisexual, I don’t know anyone in real life that is Demisexual but reply if your Demisexual, if not just say what you are.

    • @leafersweets
      @leafersweets 5 лет назад +5

      I'm not demisexual, but I'm homoromantic asexual and I didn't want you to feel alone!😊

    • @haileyt857
      @haileyt857 5 лет назад +3

      I’m grey ace!

    • @shifter9653
      @shifter9653 5 лет назад +2

      I'm straight up straight

    • @ember5031
      @ember5031 5 лет назад

      I'm bisexual ☺ can someone please explain what demisexual is?

    • @epicfromepicgames8222
      @epicfromepicgames8222 5 лет назад +1

      What's that?

  • @marbletoon7101
    @marbletoon7101 4 года назад +2

    I’m pan.
    I was five when I saw my mom cooking dinner. I saw a pan and fell in love-

  • @mariarzyt_3D
    @mariarzyt_3D 5 лет назад +1

    First I thought I was kind of ace but romantically interested in guys, but even that not too much. Later I had a thicc crush on my best friend and thought bi, then pan, then pan-ace, then omni and now just bi, because yk Omni would sound too "fancy" and I came to the conclusion that labels are not important. But I used to care sooo much about it, it was stupid

  • @difficultabroad2665
    @difficultabroad2665 5 лет назад +42

    lgbt squad. where you at.

  • @zotheghost
    @zotheghost 5 лет назад +9

    so proud of you! love you dearly tea 💕
    edit: also... i still adore your voice, so so sweet and soothing and soft

  • @nopenottoday4190
    @nopenottoday4190 5 лет назад +10

    Kid me: Ew boys are icky
    FTM and Pan me: Ha, I was so wrong

  • @spencergoth1cgutz205
    @spencergoth1cgutz205 5 лет назад +2

    what’s the difference between being gay and a lesbian?
    Okay, gay is used more often for males attracted to males but I see a lot of lesbians calling themselves gay
    Besides that, I know I’m happy but still, happy pride month qwq xD

    • @sgtruru
      @sgtruru 5 лет назад +1

      No difference except lesbian only refers to woman liking woman. Gay just means one gender liking the same gender.

    • @epicfromepicgames8222
      @epicfromepicgames8222 5 лет назад

      Yeah.

  • @eljaejaewalters5232
    @eljaejaewalters5232 5 лет назад +4

    I'm lesbian too!! :O :D

  • @monsterclaw6748
    @monsterclaw6748 5 лет назад +6

    Can you make a video about being trans/being non-binary/having disforia? (sorry i can't spell ;-; )

  • @scenfau
    @scenfau 5 лет назад +6

    Are you comfortable with just the outer, clothed appearance of women or genitalia is a must when it comes to that?
    (For a major part of my life I was uncomfortable with the thought of male genitalia but I tried to convince myself that I was straight and all when it was really not the case)
    Asking because I never saw gay people talk about this aspect a bit more and I want to know what more individuals think about this

  • @Izzayroach
    @Izzayroach 5 лет назад

    That title is a mood

  • @airplanemode1501
    @airplanemode1501 5 лет назад +1

    I’m lesbian... I came out to both of my parents... they are excepting! My dad is going to get me a therapist to help me fully understand my sexuality

    • @mariarzyt_3D
      @mariarzyt_3D 5 лет назад

      If you need help with that, then go for it. But honestly, just live your life. Nice that you have such parents :) good luck

    • @airplanemode1501
      @airplanemode1501 5 лет назад +1

      mariarzyt Thank you very much!

  • @cazererrah
    @cazererrah 3 года назад

    This is exactly how I came to terms with being lesbian! You're pretty relatable! 💗

  • @rainniebee
    @rainniebee 5 лет назад

    When I was in 2nd grade my crush was my bff and she was a girl, and in the third grade my crush was also my best friend (I had moved schools) and she is a girl. My two best friends know I am pan, but my other best friend moved to my school this year and she doesn’t know yet

  • @Zayats_MW
    @Zayats_MW 5 лет назад +1

    You've heard it here first guys, liking women is gay. Check-mate "straight" guys

  • @weastley0
    @weastley0 5 лет назад

    The way i found out i was bi is a long storyyyy- but here is a summary. I met a girl in the fith grade after being very alone in the 4th grade. Thats when i met this girl who we are gonna call faith (my gf) i was always very close with her, but because i didnt understand alot of my feelios, i thought i hated her for the longest time. But i came to terms with my sexuality and told her that I had feelings and she reciprocated. We have been together for 2 yeare 💘💜💙

  • @Unzahlige
    @Unzahlige 5 лет назад

    Neat character!

  • @MEME-fd1nf
    @MEME-fd1nf 5 лет назад

    I have no clue what I am. I’ve only been attracted to 2 people, ever. Both boys but I feel like that isn’t enough to make an assumption about my sexuality.

  • @chikubijiggy148
    @chikubijiggy148 5 лет назад +3

    Well I like no one... See where I'm getting at

  • @cheesefries6783
    @cheesefries6783 5 лет назад

    I notice how your sketches are so clean. How do you do thaaaat

  • @mylittlelpstube9481
    @mylittlelpstube9481 5 лет назад +1

    I am lesbian too! Pride!!! :p

  • @annabelledodd-sutton3427
    @annabelledodd-sutton3427 5 лет назад +2

    Ok i'm young
    I wont tell you how young but i am young and i am pansexual
    I'm currently closeted other than some of my closest friends and some strangers on the internet
    Shoul'd i stay closeted or come out?
    I feel like my parents would say you're too young to know??
    I dont know do i or dont i

  • @adachihater1234
    @adachihater1234 5 лет назад

    Im trans and gay! Im also some degree of ace but i havent figured out which yet!!!Congrats queen!!!

  • @sans_undertale
    @sans_undertale 5 лет назад +1

    mood

  • @rakkumay2863
    @rakkumay2863 5 лет назад

    Your voice is so beautiful

  • @omknockershanjabaris6555
    @omknockershanjabaris6555 5 лет назад +1

    You got vibe checked with the big gay

  • @alienlapdance
    @alienlapdance 2 года назад

    let’s go lesbians

  • @BlitzNyx
    @BlitzNyx 5 лет назад

    Welcome to the community uwu

  • @sunnyliciouss
    @sunnyliciouss 5 лет назад

    We stan an artistic lesbian!

  • @iluvu7551
    @iluvu7551 5 лет назад +1

    I'm straight but I have something for girls but not too much

  • @quimiu4400
    @quimiu4400 4 года назад +3

    Nobody:
    Absolutely nobody:
    Hair at 0:24: **S L O W L Y M O V E S**

  • @chickenn00dlesoup74
    @chickenn00dlesoup74 5 лет назад

    Oh my god me too! :D

  • @japorwave8892
    @japorwave8892 5 лет назад +1

    I think im bi? I like girls differently than guys though so idk. I usually like girls as friends but I like b**bs and that stuff and I think girls are cute but im wayyy more obsessed with guys and I wouldnt mind being in a relationship with them so idk lol.
    The last time I had a actual crush on a girl was in like 3rd grade cause I thought she was a guy

    • @runningfree1710
      @runningfree1710 5 лет назад +4

      i think you are just straight, you seem to only be attracted to men romantically
      straight people can still appreciate the same sex's body and not be attracted to them ^^

    • @evelynhuante2768
      @evelynhuante2768 5 лет назад

      I actually think there's a possibility you are bi, of course I can't assure that because that's something you have to think about, but I can say that happens to me too! I always denied it because I didn't like women the way I like men, but bisexuality isn't 50-50!! You can like men more than women or vice versa; that's valid. There's so much bi erasure and biphobia, like saying you are straight just because you like the opposite sex or have a partner of the opposite sex.
      I can't still come to terms with it because I have lived with that thought my whole life and it is so internalized I can't get rid of it that easily haha! But I already considered it and I suggest you do too! I'm not saying that you should, but if you identify with this, at least consider and think it well 💕💕 i hope this helps!!

  • @ang3lcomplex
    @ang3lcomplex 5 лет назад

    Im bi, I'm still confused, but I dont think I'm fully bi, but I feel like I like both girls and boys.

    • @mariarzyt_3D
      @mariarzyt_3D 5 лет назад

      You can have preferences, that's normal. If you like both at some degree, you're bi (if you want to put that label on yourself) :)

  • @BloodBlueIris
    @BloodBlueIris 5 лет назад +1

    ayye, I've watch you on DA for about a year lol. I didn't know you had a youtube

  • @dragunovsvds48
    @dragunovsvds48 5 лет назад

    I’m not gay, but I really liked the video!
    I really like ur style and ur way to talk and etc, actually I really like everything about ur channel!
    Continue with the good work :)

  • @VORTEXXNEON
    @VORTEXXNEON 5 лет назад +1

    I am....
    ♠️

  • @leviplays4451
    @leviplays4451 5 лет назад

    I love your voice, it's relaxing to listen yo, it may be flat, but still!! And I'm a lesbian aswell!!

  • @oslayer1616
    @oslayer1616 4 года назад

    Ahhh~ you go gurl ❤❤❤❤

  • @abs7755
    @abs7755 5 лет назад +1

    I thought it said inking woman
    like you only inked male characters. lol

  • @ailyn5645
    @ailyn5645 5 лет назад

    I want to meet you in real life, you look like a really cute and kind girl c,:

  • @lovelyheartjackson9619
    @lovelyheartjackson9619 5 лет назад

    LET'S GO LESBIANS!!!!💗

  • @roxytheangeldragon4466
    @roxytheangeldragon4466 5 лет назад

    Ha I'm late but WOAH LES PRIDE

  • @demonetizedartist1068
    @demonetizedartist1068 5 лет назад +4

    Wait is this the DOLLIEGUTS from DA?????
    OML wow WOW WOOOOW Im SUCH A BIG BIG FAN!
    You've been (still are) my inspiration for art.
    UHHHHHHHHHHH i cant I cant i cant.

  • @ShepardCommander
    @ShepardCommander 5 лет назад

    I to was always interested in women since forever. Might be because Im actually a man. XD

  • @chxnces2871
    @chxnces2871 5 лет назад

    I thought I was pan but then realised I’m bi looooool (I tend to swing more to girlZ lOl)

  • @spookyspider2820
    @spookyspider2820 5 лет назад

    Your art styles really beautiful. I don’t have anything other to say then that right now sorry..

  • @purroductive_yabby
    @purroductive_yabby 5 лет назад

    I’m proud of you ma’am!!

  • @ricephobic
    @ricephobic 5 лет назад +4

    i've recently found out that i'm non binary!! happy LGBTQ month!!

  • @tsukuyomiakari
    @tsukuyomiakari 5 лет назад

    het-ace here... but honestly everyone (including me) thinks I'm at least 25% gay so maybe I'll turn out like you?? xd

  • @vampizou
    @vampizou 4 года назад +1

    Her: women
    Me: lemon?

  • @shifter9653
    @shifter9653 5 лет назад +1

    Lol

  • @pokipack5754
    @pokipack5754 5 лет назад

    I'm not the only one who feels that her voice is relaxing, right?

  • @Kuyoki8
    @Kuyoki8 4 года назад

    Im a boy but i dont like men and women idk why HeLp Me

  • @froggieman5062
    @froggieman5062 5 лет назад

    how are you a lesbian if you’re nonbinary?

  • @Bambi_bun
    @Bambi_bun 5 лет назад

    And I'm sick :D

  • @M801-c6o
    @M801-c6o 5 лет назад +1

    Your a cool lesbian❤❤❤❤

  • @ChrisBrown-cp1ex
    @ChrisBrown-cp1ex 4 года назад

    Random question: now that you’re non-binary, *how are you considered a lesbian*

    • @starryphosphenes
      @starryphosphenes 4 года назад +3

      there are nonbinary terms like feminamoric and trixic:D! some nb ppl still use lesbian too!

  • @rakkumay2863
    @rakkumay2863 5 лет назад

    What are your pronouns?

  • @nycto_nyx
    @nycto_nyx 4 года назад +2

    **INHALES**
    You identify as Non-Binary, but call yourself "Lesbian" you make zero sense-

    • @hazbiin2025
      @hazbiin2025 3 года назад

      I think this was before they came out as non-binary, I believe? I could be wrong

    • @dddmn
      @dddmn 3 года назад +9

      Nobody cares stop dictating what others can identify as,, also im pretty sure enby lesbians have existed way longer than you LOL

  • @Sinc3r3ly
    @Sinc3r3ly 3 года назад +1

    Lesbian ; definition , a woman who loves only other women .
    I’m sorry but like , by definition you’re not a lesbian or gay . A more accurate label would be trixic , or sapphic . I feel very weird when afab enby people leach off of the lesbian community .

    • @lunarrover4923
      @lunarrover4923 3 года назад +10

      Saying nonbinary lesbians are leaching off the lesbian community is one of the grossest things I've heard someone say this year... like, God, do you actually care that much that you're assigning different labels on someone else and claiming they're leaching off the group they identify with? That's such a horrible thing to say I cant even believe what I just read.....

    • @lisiafanka8327
      @lisiafanka8327 2 года назад

      this is so disgusting /ay