SPOILED GIRL SUMMER: How to Be Light Feminine Like Sabrina Carpenter & Lana Del Rey | Shallon Lester
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Got a love, dating or friendship question? You've come to the right place! I'm Shallon Lester, a two-time published author, NYC magazine editor and star of Howcast's viral kissing videos. I spill the tea on celebs like Kylie Jenner, the Kardashians, Beyonce, Shawn Mendes, Justin Bieber, Hailey Baldwin, Rihanna and more, breaking down their relationships, scandals and psychology to see what lessons WE can learn, and give you no-nonsense advice and real-world tips on everything from dating apps and players, to family and friends!
As a 74 year old Greek woman, I have accepted that I am a Goddess!
Είστε μία θεά!!
😍😍
You are not a godess you are an imperfect human
@rhemirs you should try removing the stick from your ass.
A lot of greek women look like a bulging trash bags.
I remember when everyone used to hate how Lana Del Rey would portray her femininity in her artistry/music, but I just connected with her so much as a woman. I’m glad her aura is finally getting the recognition it deserves 10+ years later.
Shallon in her Goddess era, look at that face and hair!
Need a hair tutorial asap! Is this extensions or all her own? Need all the secrets!
@HRHsissie Yes!!
“There’s a reason this channel doesn’t have 10 million subscribers”… you’re right, Shallon! We are the elites! Quality over quantity!
It took me 45 years to meet a man that allowed me to fully lean into my feminine energy, and there’s literally nothing more liberating or amazing feeling! Ladies have to remember it’s not what they say they’re gonna do. It’s their actions proving that they do what they say. And when that’s the case you allow them to lead, and it’s feels soooooo good. ❤
I'm 29 and I met someone like this for the first time last year. It was the most beautiful symbiotic feeling imaginable. I know exactly what you mean. ☺️
But it's also shifted my perspective on the majority of men even further because he just effortlessly set this whole new standard.
yesss! I feel the same way about my husband. it has been hard to be open to it. I wouldn't accept help, and he would encourage me to dress in ways I was never confident enough to do it.
You're so right! It's just so difficult to discern the good from the not so good❤️
That burp was in my ear 😂😂😂
This comment gives me so much hope!
Best tip for curtain bangs:
When you pin them back to wash your face or do your makeup, Criss-cross them and pin in place!! It trains them to look amazing styled.
Iv never commented here, but shallon I want you to know, there is a random girl in nz who’s been on her damn deathbed for a year and you have single handedly pulled me out of a darkness I never knew existed, thank you thank you, so much for the raw and real life advice you offer, you have changed my whole character in the best way, keep doing what your doing, she’s right, you were meant for this ❤️
Hope you're doing fine, girl 👧 Much love from Iran❤
I love the burp at 23:05 when we were talking about light feminine energy😂❤❤
I loved it hahaha I had to rewind
“You actually don’t trust yourself” SHEESH SHALLON called out at my desk at 3 pm
My three things are 1) making my home super clean and pretty -while embracing that I’m a maximalist. 2) Going on dates and letting people treat me like a princess. 3) cultivate my look - from style to the continued weight loss and sculpting of my body.
Whew!! The vid is back up. I always try to watch her vids twice. First leisurely with a mocktail, then a second time with my Shallon Lester guide: a notebook where I breakdown how the vids applies to me and how I can incorporate her words into my day. I realize im becoming obsessed with this ritual because i could not deal when the vid disappeared 😭
This is a genius idea.
@@plummage give it a try! It's helped me stack small changes that have really added up.
@@plummage if Shallon were to design a companion guide/journal for her vids I'd buy it so fast 😁
Shallon, It's Leningrad Mimi, Sorry I had to tap out of the group. Tested positive for cancer. Getting my affairs in order. Been a whole thing. Still love you xx
sending you all the love and care that is needed! 🫂
God bless babes 🙏♥️
Get well soon
God bless you. I hope you get better.
Hope u are ok babe
It’s the burp for me 😂😂😂❤
I started to cry watching this one. The realities were coming so fast I saved this to its own playlist so I can take my time with it. I probably have another 25 years left on earth, and it's finally time to MAKE SOME CHANGES. Thank you more than I can say.
i’ll be 68 in August. I think I look darn good. I am at peace with myself. So yes, you do have “older” listeners. We have been there done that on a lot of this shit. I wish there would’ve been RUclips when I was younger so I didn’t waste so much time being a dolt.
Same! I’m interested even though I’m not going through it myself at this point. I wish I had shallon when I was in high school!
Holy crap. I’m at work so I can’t watch until later but you look GORGEOUS! The thumbnail caught my eye lol
True! Girl has done her homework and (apparently) a color analysis - she looks stunning! Hair color, blouse/dress, makeup, ... on fleek 👌🏻👌🏻👏🏼👏🏼
When you said “ I just prefer not to look” 👀 i was like omg i just told a friend a few hours ago that I’m afraid of choosing wrong so i prefer not to chose at all
Three things I’m going to do to spoil myself are:
1. Write a short film to produce myself.
2. Write research reports on any topics or themes I want because I enjoy writing and research.
3. I’m going to sign up for the event planner certification course so I can be an event planner.
4. BONUS: I’m going to travel and explore!
You go girl ♥️
I didn’t know there are certifications for event planning?:O could you please provide me with more infos 🙏🏽
@@kokohala9407 Absolutely! QC Event School has a bunch of different courses on event planning such as corporate events, weddings, etc. You can purchase what courses you want to take and then you can get certifications from them!
this video must become a book!!! I’m gonna rewatch this and write notes! soooo many realizations Shallon god bless you! I’m crying!
-Self Integrity and discipline is self care and gives me so much confidence.
-a clean und tidied up home
- I spoil myself with putting boundaries
Girl. This is by FAR my favorite video you've ever done. BRAVO! I too am leading my example of this new phase to help inspire women to soften and step into their goddess era. Side note, you are a MAJOR reason why I got into doing RUclips - you are an inspiration 💝
girl you look beautiful! try curling them upwards and putting them in some curlers i feel like it would look great! pink is ur color btw
You were meant for this shallon. Thank you for sharing your light (I’m a therapist and i love you)
I do tarot and I started because I wanted to understand myself better, and better embrace my feminine energy. It's helped me A LOT. Love that you're into it!
Do yu do readings for others?
@@NicolineNDahl I do it for friends. I'm not one of those super psychic people like Shallon went to. I'm intuitive but very analytical most of all, and I interpret the cards along with the person I'm reading for, not *for* them -- if that makes sense.
This is the video I needed today. Almost 38 and feeling so old and past it, and unhappy in my relationship - I’ve just stopped expressing my feelings because it got me nowhere. But worried there’s nothing better out there for me. I’m so tempted to come to Italy!
Go to Italy!
freeze your eggs, break up, and date as if you were 28 again. because the only difference between 28 and 38 is fertility, everything else, experience, wealth etc has probably improved.
Go for me, I've been there 7 years ago.
@@marykay7878 well, the looks also change between 28 and 38
@@joannawinters6592 depends, for white folks thats true, but for poc like me, there is no visible difference other than we have more money in the 30s and therefore more disposable income for haircare and skincare etc. but as in ageing process, i dont look older in my 30s than i did in my 20s. and there are also many white women like nicola coughlan that dont look older in their 30s than they did in their 20s. its probably a mix of genetics lifestyle (as in if you expose yourself to uv and alcohol and nicotine) and skincare.
about the karma - we don't know what happened to the warlord at the end, how he died, maybe he payed some of that at some point. on the other hand- karma doesn't mean striking down, so you cannot get up. this struggle to make yourself warmer, softer, more patient is part of that karma - you have to shed the warlord.
I think you help people achieve self integrity, self sovereignty and the enjoyment of the “material” world without guilt.. It’s the essence of the queen pentacles, I feel :)
I've put this on while I was working out and at the end of my push ups I've realised the topic is embracing feminine energy 😂
That must be the cutest burp I’ve ever seen/heard!! 🤣 omg Love you Shallon!! 💕
She edited and re-uploaded, some people are being mean about it but it was such a subtle cute burp lol I didn’t even notice it at first
I kept thinking about the movie "The Other Boleyn Girl". These two are a prime example of light vs dark femininity
Shallon, i really think this is the best video you’ve ever made 👏🏼
Every time I come out of watching one of your videos, I feel so seen and like a part of me has healed. You hit the nail on the head every time and I learn some monumental life lesson from all of your content. You're doing God's work here, Shallon! 🥰
Thank you I needed this. I broke up with my fiancé after 6 years of being together. He found a friend by playing a mobile game and let him crash at his home (I was about to move in). That guy lost his job and became homeless. I’ve endured his stay for 2 months and let my ex chose. Either he’ll be gone by the next day or I’ll leave and won’t return. He let me go and told I’m heartless 😂
I have seen your videos for a couple of years,and i am in LOVE with your growth, It feels like you put into words what i have been feeling and thinking.
Keep going💪🔥💕
Saludos desde España 🇪🇦
Three things I'm gonna do to spoil myself! 1. Prioritize my playful/creative time like it's my job 2. Be consistent about my bedtime so I'm well rested and have all the time to do the things I like to do in the mornings 3. Make lots of money to afford a place of my own :)
Read to filth Shallon. I was just talking to one of my girlfriends about the realization that it’s me who I can’t trust. You are too right! Thanks for preaching the good word 😊💖🌸
Ok I’m being spoiled with all these videos Shallon!❤ thank you
Shallon, I am going through the same process as you! I feel like we are twins!!
Currently practicing acceptance, flow, patience and kindness! And it feels so gooooood!❤
Good luck on your journey, I hope you also reap the rewards of these learnings 🩷
I’m “all light feminine.” My grandpa (my father figure) protects me, so I don’t have to. Growing up without that masculine protection may be why so many women have trouble resting into their feminine these days.
I have absolutely no issue resting into my feminine while dating. My soon-to-be fiancé knows he’s expected to fully protect and provide for me, or he’ll be a failure in my family’s eyes. Fortunately, he’s more than happy to embrace those roles. He always says I must have been a princess in my past life because princess treatment is all I know how to accept 😂
The downside? Career has never been a focus for me. And I feel very behind / disempowered in that area. Fortunately, I don’t have the same fears about being provided for that many women have today. Embodying that trust in God and masculine energy comes very naturally to me and no fear-based, masculine-energy woman can convince me out of it.
Resting into feminine energy and having no financial independence are two different things though.
@@annazielinska8415 I earn my own money, have way more saved than any of my female friends, and am in line to inherit enough to live on. Im good. I just don’t have a thriving career like Shallon. I find her career very admirable and at times wish I could create that for myself. But having that AND being in your soft feminine is hard to do simultaneously. And the path I’ve chosen is much more aligned for me than hustling to be my sole provider. Not saying it’s the right path for everyone. There are many flavors of feminine energy. Mine is soft and submissive and I like it that way.
Yes, I agree that a lacking of reliable "father" figures is why women are struggling to find their peace today. Similarly it is also why men are floundering as well. Men and women CAN do "it all", we just aren't meant to do so. We can do it, but neither will flourish. Unfortunately most of us will never experience a reliable or safe relationship in this day and age. We may think we have but in a time when 90+% of men are unfaithful it really doesn't make much sense to attempt to do so. ❤
@@annazielinska8415 how do you know though? A lot of stay at home moms have their own bank accounts, some even have 401k's that is paid for by their husbands. Not everybody without a career is financially abused. I say this as a surgeon btw, I love my career and it pays well but I would prefer being a housewife if I was earning less than 60k/year. For some women slaving away at corporate jobs at the expense of their kids being raised by babysitters isn't worth it.
Women have trouble to be feminine nowadays becouse many men are becoming more and more agressive, see the red pill communit, yes, I am afraid but not trying to convince anyone to not be financialy dependent on a man.
Finally, in my 40s, I am finding my strength and confidence in my soft feminine. Thanks for this message, Shallon!
Ahhhh when i come to RUclips and Shallon uploaded a new video 15 minutes ago, best feeling ❤😂
Your hair is phenominal! Your videos always resonate with me! omg i just bought all these girly dresses, im growing my hair. im taking pilates, im doing it all baby!
the burp at 23:10 😮 that was bad ass. Please don’t take it out Shallon. great content today 🌟
I had to rewind it to make sure I heard that right 😂
I think she needs to fire her editor. I've noticed in a few videos lately she will slip up then pause and start again yet they don't cut ?
@@sarebear3779 I thought she said that she doesn't edit, she sits and records and that's that. Because she's a pretty darn good public speaker, so she can pull it off.
@joannawinters6592 Oh I didn't know that!
It has been edited, but someone failed and the burp is still right there fyi
I heard your cry for help on curtain bangs! Use a round brush and don't part them, and blow dry them up and forward ( you can try out also instead of flipped under) as if you had '80s bangs. When they're completely dry then you can part them where you want and let them kind of fly back a little bit on the sides and spray them with hairspray. Bonus point for a 3 inch blow-dry brush. Tip: go up at the root with the brush while doing this. So you get volume ❤
Okay Shallon I need this answered 😫 What do you ask for at the hair salon (colorwise) and what’s your natural hair color? I really have wanted that golden kinda dark blonde shade forever! Also, never remove those bangs!
Yes please tell us 🙏
The Twin Flame Journey is SO hard. Up/down, hurtful/ the most amazing love, etc. however, the outcome will always be the same. You will end up with this person. The road to get there may look a little different, mostly painful, but you will get there. And that will be your person.❤️ but you must lean back. And let go.
So true! LEAN. BACK. He’s on his own path and me being impatient is not only unattractive it doesn’t even work!
@@shallonlester You go your way. And let him go his way. There is nothing more magnetic or attractive. He will return. And if he doesn’t, as you said, something better is waiting. ❤️
Yeah it's basically the bpd pipeline...
It actually makes so much sense that you’re meant to do this in this lifetime because it just proves cancel culture won’t take you down. This is your purpose and trolls can’t take that away from you. The universe is such a powerful force 🤯
I'm not a reader but have been deeply into Human Design for years and years, and I'm so excited for you, as this information can be profoundly life-changing and transforming.
This part of you that's emerging, Shallon, I love it
I can’t express to you enough how much I appreciate who you are. I believe you are either a Type One or Type Three on the Enneagram because of your tenacity and authentic ambition to succeed. You’re an excellent role model. Even if people don’t always agree with you, the confidence and evidence with which you present your views set you apart from those who are wishy-washy or misunderstand themselves and others. I truly appreciate the effort and time you put into everything, and thank you for sharing who you are. It’s something I value greatly.
you look amazing Shallon! This pink satin, the hair color and the makeup 🔥 you’re on a fire! Try switching the black eyeliner with the brown one maybe that will suit you even more!
gosh - can’t seem to finish writing…one more thing came up - yes this video about spoiling yourself essentially treating yourself the way you - I deserve-SUPER POWERFUL and life changing for me too. I realized I have been doing that, but my surrounding tries to guit trip me for that. I am not putting up with that anymore ❤️😁 So girls, woman let’s spoil ourselves let’s show them how it’s done❤❤❤
Hmm. Shallon I love the genuineness and vulnerability you are showing lately in these videos! Keep them coming!... Well to play along I plan to do MANY things to spoil myself this summer (what I've already done: xoxox is buy myself the Tom Ford Azure Lime perfume I had wanted for this season- 10 year anniversary re-newal of this awesome citrus scent, perfect for lazy days by the pool.) Also, got myself several crystals and stones over the last couple of months (energetic upgrades, and my all time favorite is the kambaba jasper stone -= nerdy side coming out, warning: 300 billion year old fossilized algae. That's my "indulgence." I am a perfume and a rocks/ fossils/crystals fanatic. Okay, to get serious and answer your question, the rest of the summer I am taking a beach trip to pensacola florida, and 1. will buy myself a very nice swimsuit cover up so I don't burn up on the frisky mermaid boat ride as well as tradition of buying some comfy sweatpants and sweatshirts that say pensacola beach on them. 2. I am going to collect shells on the sea shore as part of a private islands excursion to carry back as my "mermaid treasure." and 3. I am adopting an attitude of peacefulness, receptivity, and radical acceptance - like you suggested, makes a perfect number 3. Cheers! and hope you have a wonderful time in rome! I am turning 40 this year for my birthday and one of my goals is to start taking trips with a group of girlfriends. I feel like my forties will be that time!...xoxoxo
Light and dark are both necessary. Balance of em is the key.
Thank you for this video Shallon!🌻 This is what I am going to start doing (and I saw 111 as I am writing this):
1. Wake up early so that I have more time on my hand.
2. Have less things on my to do list (not more than 5)
3. Do scrapbooking because it brings me joy.
I attest to this. I've changed my mindset and being the last few weeks, and things have been instantly better. It's incredible! Loving my light feminine energy
I literally just discovered your channel just over an hour ago and watched this entire video. I relate to you so so much. Plz continue touching on the same/similar topics! Thank you 🤍
Idk what I’d do without you Shallon
I've always dreamed of going to Italy (bucket list) & came into my inheritance recently so I can actually afford it now, but my bf was just diagnosed w/ cancer, i'm afraid & i'm his caregiver. Hope all you Shalligaters have a fabulous, mind blowing time! 🎉
I am gonna go next year to Italy with you all! I am transforming my life! Thank you for the pep talk @Shallon!
Oh, good - this video has reappeared.
Thank you, Shallon.
Hey Shallon just popped in from my brand new account all about what ATHENA guided me to do! I just wanted to say THANK YOU❤❤❤ for introducing her to me! Thank You so much for all your content ❤❤❤ Bookstore is also AMAZING!!! I also got my soul song from dust of soul - ❤❤❤THANK YOU AGAIN AND GOD BLESS YOU❤❤❤
NO ONE ASKED, BUT! About karma - Shallon said that ‘karma is not real’ and of course it is true but! for the mainstream meaning of karma (if you do good, good will come back to you, if you do bad, the bad will come back to you.)
The actual spiritual karma, as I view it, doesn’t work like this. Karma is very personal, it’s only for you - you work through your spiritual lessons throughout your lives and work for ascending to the higher realms or levels of consciousness (I’ll just call it that.)
I don’t see Shallon being a warlord in her most recent past life and living a fairy tale in this one as if it’s a proof that karma doesn’t exist, quite the contrary - she had spiritual lessons to learn and a mission to fulfill while being a destroyer (which wasn’t good or bad, it just was) and now she has spiritual lessons to learn and a mission to fulfill while being a builder.
Almost each person on this planet is a soul who is here to learn something for themselves and we should view them as such. Karma is neither good nor bad, it just exists. Before* you reincarnate, you pick your own karma to be working through during this lifetime.
Shallon,
This is one of the best videos youve ever done. I love your content and been watching you for years. Tempted to come on one of these trips xx
You dont know HOW desperately I needed this right now. Thank you ❤
"Leaning back" is something I have been putting into practice in my relationship, and it is HARD but sooo rewarding! I have always wanted to control, control control. But once I started stepping back, replacing time I'd normally spend stressing with time for myself, trusting myself....I feel so much more whole and happy. My emotions no longer rely on others.
this will be my soft summer. ✅
Such a great episode! Everyone should read the book called “codependent no more” by Melody Beattie. It literally talks about everything you are talking about. Women (our audience) doing way too much, giving and doing until the point that they becomes so angry and so resentful. Trying to fix everyone around them. Getting angry at the person that they are trying to fix; when they are the one themselves who decided to do it. Which is ultimately trying to control. Which is ultimately not feminine energy whatsoever. Help me shift so many perspectives about codependency that even considered codependent behavior!
your timing is so perfect! God bless you
i’m obsessed with your videos.
PREACHER SHALLON…girl you were on fire in this incredible share out!! You brought to my mind the single “What have you done for me lately??” Thank you for spilling your guts and insight!! This is most definitely your calling! Luv you and your genius ❤️🔥♥️
Shallon Lester, This is great! I liked it and subscribed!
I think Shallon looks light feminine but is dark feminine personality wise
Oooh I am obsessed with the Italian Renaissance too, Shalllpn! A woman after my own heart. You're such a well-rounded queen
Satin makes you look radiant!
Agree.
Amazing..where is shirt from? What brand?
Wow! last tarot reading I got I was told I was going to end up alone, miserable, broke & killing myself, which she claimed i'd done in all my past lives. Whats scary is she's the 3rd psychic to tell me this 😢😢😢💔 💔 💔
Whenever someone speaks something negative over your life you need to "firmly" and with conviction cancel their words. Negative tarot readings can become "word curses". Nothing is set in stone even it's the most advanced tarot reader.
btw my reading was also different she made me take notes…and she was like just write you will understand later….you can also book her online- so you don’t have to go to the store but if you can - go❤
I dont know whether it's the colours you're wearing or the new hair, but this video and the last, you look 🔥
Thanks for reuploading this :)
Always perfect timing. I recently had to walk away from a friendship that looked perfect from the outside but was filled with red flags from the inside, I was so drained and one question always kept coming to me: what's in it for me?
Walking away and choosing myself and really thinking about it hard and choosing my consequences was very difficult but this is exactly what my past has lead me to and what it taught me. I chose myself and for the first time ever I truly trusted myself. I am currently dealing with the consequences but one thing I can say is that I'm at peace.
The timing of this video is perfect! I have been focused on my new era as a more feminine version of myself. ❤ You look absolutely beautiful!
Thank you for this video! I’m a gay dude but definitely in that light feminine. You explained this perfectly. I’ve realized that you definitely can’t be too nice. You can’t accept everything. Kindness and acceptance are virtues society values but you need that balance. I like how you explained dark feminine. It puts the opposite side (which we should embrace) into perspective
I LOVE that you burped in this video.. . . . There's so much value and brilliance in this video, but this really tickled me.
Curtain bangs look great as they are!
Hi Shallon 💗 thank you for all your videos! So much wisdom and realness. It literally makes my day every time you post. And you look so amazing btw. ❤️🔥
Loving this frequencyyy
So needed to hear this. I’ve been treating a guy like my project, so I’m working on trusting myself.
I had a tarot card reading in November 2023 that changed my life too. He helped me realise I am meant to be a coach, not a therapist. He helped me realise what my blockages are, and that they come from my parents influence and generational issues that I need to dig up. It was extremely spooky.
This video was life changing Shallon thank you 🙏
That burp was pure gold
Curtain bangs require a blood sacrifice on every third new moon, hope this helps ❤
Can you please do videos on books to read? You are great! Thank you for all your informative and inspirational videos!
This is your best message received yet!! I wish I could go back to Italy with you ❤
Also you look GORGEOUS
You're always beautiful but you look stunning in this video shallon
Such a powerful video! Thank you Shallon. You look beautiful as always.
I have been watching you for years - constantly learning from you!! Your advice has helped me through many situations
Thank you Shallon! You inspire and motivate me to continue moving forward and trusting my path and the process im currently going through 🙌
I gasped - you're meant to be soft??? Yessssss.
This background is so pretty!
Shallon Lester, Subscribed because your videos are so much fun!