" YOU DO NOT WANT TO MARRY A FEMINIST " | CALCULATED COUPLES | EPISODE 1

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  • Опубликовано: 16 окт 2023
  • #calculatedcouples #relationship #advice
    Episode 1 introduces each couple to the show and we quickly learn which couple will be able to give Paul the best advice.
    Calculated Couples is a unique and heartwarming RUclips show that follows the journey of Paul Bridges, a charismatic and relatable businessman who is on a quest to seek relationship advice from five diverse couples. Paul is determined to learn from those who have successfully navigated the ups and downs of love.
    The show spans five weeks, with each episode focusing on the different couples. Paul engages in candid conversations with these couples, exploring their unique dynamics, challenges, and the wisdom they've gained from their own relationships. While it's not a traditional therapy show, "Calculated Couples" offers viewers valuable insights into the complexities of love and relationships.
    In a world where social media often showcases only the highlights of relationships, "Calculated Couples" provides an authentic and relatable look at the joys and struggles of real couples, offering both guidance and encouragement to anyone seeking to improve their own relationships.

Комментарии • 563

  • @sanaa1062
    @sanaa1062 9 месяцев назад +119

    Paul you cannot judge spiritual things with carnal knowledge. Gain a relationship with Christ first before you can really understand where Arike is coming from.

    • @tarirobinson
      @tarirobinson 9 месяцев назад +5

      Exactly my thoughts.
      Well said Sanaa👏👏👏👏👏

    • @d_GM123
      @d_GM123 9 месяцев назад +12

      Brother no, Paul is right here. Is this show real? A pastor took another mans girl 😭

    • @thesocialbreakoutt
      @thesocialbreakoutt  9 месяцев назад

      💯

    • @GospelGraceTv-j7g
      @GospelGraceTv-j7g 9 месяцев назад

      For sure..

    • @ofureughu7560
      @ofureughu7560 9 месяцев назад

      @@d_GM123😂😂😂😂

  • @marvaff6878
    @marvaff6878 9 месяцев назад +166

    Paul is a comedic genius and he doesn’t even know it. He told Solomon to his face he’s tapped😂😂 a national treasure

    • @thesocialbreakoutt
      @thesocialbreakoutt  9 месяцев назад +1

      😂😅😅

    • @Onuh_Ekele
      @Onuh_Ekele 9 месяцев назад +3

      I swear that i didnt read this comment before sendig this video to my brother saying, "Paul Bridges is a clown"😄😄😄

    • @thesocialbreakoutt
      @thesocialbreakoutt  9 месяцев назад +1

      @@Onuh_Ekele 😅😅

  • @mohamedkonneh9705
    @mohamedkonneh9705 9 месяцев назад +194

    Pastor : You can’t embrace the new without letting go of the old
    Paul : WISDOM😌

  • @tecx2213
    @tecx2213 9 месяцев назад +98

    paul giving his own opinions are so unneeded but so entertaining 😂

  • @trishm7013
    @trishm7013 9 месяцев назад +369

    How did Paul say “A city girl is a girl that worked in the city” 😂

  • @thesocialbreakoutt
    @thesocialbreakoutt  9 месяцев назад +56

    Thank you everyone for being here and showing support, please be open minded as you watch each couple share their stories. Could we ask you for a favour? Can you hit the like button on the video! Helps us a lot!!

  • @D-Wayne
    @D-Wayne 9 месяцев назад +40

    Paul just showed real life relationships as opposed to the scripted thing he was in prior to this, smart move in so many different ways.

  • @missmorris6450
    @missmorris6450 9 месяцев назад +64

    Who gave Paul a platform? Ffs 🤦🏽‍♀️ 😂

  • @racheal4revival
    @racheal4revival 9 месяцев назад +47

    it’s the way paul goes very still after askin the questions 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @babatopelewis3031
    @babatopelewis3031 9 месяцев назад +74

    Great to see you again Paul and the "Let us pray" scene is awesome!😆

    • @thesocialbreakoutt
      @thesocialbreakoutt  9 месяцев назад +2

      We’re glad that you enjoyed…..looking forward to the rest ?

  • @marykay412
    @marykay412 9 месяцев назад +47

    Madam Prophetess is not being honest.. It took you 6 years to make the decision because you were waiting on a replacement husband before you let go. Stop making everything about the holy spirit and religion.

    • @johannandatinda7816
      @johannandatinda7816 9 месяцев назад +4

      Very very true

    • @iffysd9864
      @iffysd9864 9 месяцев назад +7

      The guy didn't even live in the UK or have a visa lol 6 years of Facebook

    • @someyoutubeshit
      @someyoutubeshit 9 месяцев назад +10

      aunty is dating her nephew

    • @EmmalovesJesus
      @EmmalovesJesus 9 месяцев назад +2

      How do you know?

    • @dianne2190
      @dianne2190 9 месяцев назад +2

      It's her decision to marry who she wants....let her rest😂

  • @lydiak2219
    @lydiak2219 9 месяцев назад +102

    Shaq and Tanya are extremely honest
    I rate it lool
    Seems like they learned and matured though.
    Waiting for the next episode

    • @thesocialbreakoutt
      @thesocialbreakoutt  9 месяцев назад +7

      That’s what life is about….honesty and growth 🙌🏾

    • @bentleysbugattis414
      @bentleysbugattis414 9 месяцев назад

      Men like Shaq, who don’t carry the same pathetic mentality as these red pill misogynistic men do, always seem to have long lasting relationships. Meanwhile, the red pill men can’t keep a woman if their life depended on it.

    • @kobbyscratch5799
      @kobbyscratch5799 9 месяцев назад +4

      ​@@thesocialbreakouttYo 😂😂😂 She was just chatting bare sh*t

    • @suziesmith9076
      @suziesmith9076 9 месяцев назад +1

      They’re kids, they didn’t make no sense

  • @LFC-KAMZ
    @LFC-KAMZ 9 месяцев назад +46

    Considering what’s going on in the world right now I’m glad I’ve come across this. Paul is funny as F

  • @richiemalingo
    @richiemalingo 9 месяцев назад +14

    You've outdone yourself here Paul ❤. This is the type of contents you should be creating and be on; I love the maturity and honesty that went into this. Well done and keep up the good work. Great concept, and You are AMAZING ❤.

  • @Mymusic-ws7yr
    @Mymusic-ws7yr 6 месяцев назад +2

    ABSOLUTELY AMAZING SHOW. May even be the best show I’ve come across in ages 💯

  • @cheekogramz16
    @cheekogramz16 9 месяцев назад +38

    Paul is actually hilarious no cap!!!😂

  • @amina_blessed0162
    @amina_blessed0162 9 месяцев назад +66

    I’m loving this show already! All the couples are so interesting and so different….each bringing their own spice to the show. Well done 👏🏽

    • @thesocialbreakoutt
      @thesocialbreakoutt  9 месяцев назад +3

      thank you so much! cant wait for you to watch the rest..

  • @Ms-bg6nq
    @Ms-bg6nq 9 месяцев назад +11

    Couple 3, absolutely loved them. Such gems were dropped!

  • @CeeCee113
    @CeeCee113 9 месяцев назад +18

    The second couple looks more like a mother and her son

  • @tanyciagrace9556
    @tanyciagrace9556 9 месяцев назад +24

    This was good. I knew full well Paul wasn’t going to JUST take advice 😂

  • @motivations9296
    @motivations9296 9 месяцев назад +30

    Paul is talking facts, you should never diss where you come from. I am now very comfortable and still live in my endz
    This show btw 🍵 paul

  • @MiaWatches
    @MiaWatches 9 месяцев назад +31

    Paul is funny! Glad he has ventured out to other things to showcase his talents. This episode was insightful and entertaining. Looking forward to more!

  • @writingpad7142
    @writingpad7142 9 месяцев назад +9

    Fine show! Felt real, looking forward to the nxt episode... press that notification bell all (Well done Paul)

  • @kimberlychiimba
    @kimberlychiimba 9 месяцев назад +7

    I didnt expect to enjoy this episode so much. Usually very sceptical of Paul ngl. But hats off to this man in this episode. Very amusing and entertaining. @paul please release another episode 🙏

    • @thesocialbreakoutt
      @thesocialbreakoutt  9 месяцев назад

      Thank you for the feedback, new episode will be release on Tuesday

  • @Phebiking
    @Phebiking 9 месяцев назад +20

    Some of this is actually funny! But we’ll done Paul this is so much better than 🔵 cough cough lol! 🔥 This show has placed you in a better light! I totally get your vibes. Well done!

  • @simonesimone2148
    @simonesimone2148 9 месяцев назад +18

    "If I had listened to the people who told me not to date him..." Erm... sis... that's exactly what you did lol. You listened until you found out he was buying/selling property lol. I would have done the same, but let's call a spade a spade.

  • @Terabyte1244
    @Terabyte1244 9 месяцев назад +27

    Miles & shay are absolutely beautiful, I wish them a abundance of happiness

  • @rickztaworld7588
    @rickztaworld7588 9 месяцев назад +45

    The show we all been waiting on! 🔥🔥🔥🤣

  • @aviahsaaa
    @aviahsaaa 9 месяцев назад +20

    Finally a real good good show 😁😁

  • @peacemunii910
    @peacemunii910 9 месяцев назад +18

    Loved the Shayla and Miles segment!! Also my favs M&M good to see them here. Great concept hoping for more episodes 😊

  • @dfworld731
    @dfworld731 9 месяцев назад +30

    Paul the only guy that didn’t force or over Play his character

  • @ScorpioEnergy247
    @ScorpioEnergy247 9 месяцев назад +4

    This is absolutely genius. Love Loved it🙌🏾

  • @SassyJ
    @SassyJ 9 месяцев назад +8

    Ok, i think i enjoyed it. Let's see what next week has to offer.

  • @b4Ellz
    @b4Ellz 9 месяцев назад +9

    Thoroughly enjoyed this!!! 😂😂 Paul is hilarious 😂😂❤❤

  • @WeDeyChop
    @WeDeyChop 9 месяцев назад +6

    This was soo good 😭😭

  • @MissCriticizer
    @MissCriticizer 9 месяцев назад +38

    This far betterthan Blue therapy.

    • @thesocialbreakoutt
      @thesocialbreakoutt  9 месяцев назад +12

      each show brings great dynamics to our screens, lets be supportive of black owned content - theres enough room for everyone

  • @mythumbsup
    @mythumbsup 9 месяцев назад +4

    Solomon Buchi and Arike ❤❤
    I learnt a lot from this Paul, thanks for this platform!

  • @marykay412
    @marykay412 9 месяцев назад +44

    The way Mr Bridges asks his questions 😂😂😂😂😂😂 comedy gold

    • @thesocialbreakoutt
      @thesocialbreakoutt  9 месяцев назад +1

      He’s a very inquisitive person isn’t he 😅🤣

    • @banksinatra9480
      @banksinatra9480 9 месяцев назад +1

      hahahaha trust me

    • @DeluxCakeQueen
      @DeluxCakeQueen 9 месяцев назад +1

      Natural comedian 😂😂😂😂

    • @CathFerook
      @CathFerook 9 месяцев назад +1

      The hand gestures had me hollering😅

  • @leniquelouis
    @leniquelouis 9 месяцев назад +12

    This show is my guilty pleasure 😂

  • @DeluxCakeQueen
    @DeluxCakeQueen 9 месяцев назад +19

    Really enjoyed watching this. This side of Paul is hilarious...😂😂😂😂 plenty wisdom

  • @adomahdarteh3593
    @adomahdarteh3593 9 месяцев назад +3

    Paul!!! I love this already and I’m just getting started

  • @marykay412
    @marykay412 9 месяцев назад +27

    So instead of ministering and saving the youth, they were ministering and moving themselves out of brother and sister zones .

  • @yung-bbreezy1773
    @yung-bbreezy1773 9 месяцев назад +2

    Love this 🔥🔥🔥

  • @namastebawoni1356
    @namastebawoni1356 8 месяцев назад +2

    These episodes need to be promoted better, I stumbled on it by chance. Educative and hilarious😂

    • @thesocialbreakoutt
      @thesocialbreakoutt  8 месяцев назад

      Any ideas we could take on board ? Thank you for the kind words too

  • @hollyviela7094
    @hollyviela7094 8 месяцев назад +2

    Looooool Paul is so funny unintentionally

  • @trishm7013
    @trishm7013 9 месяцев назад +7

    The way I rolled my eyes when I saw whoopi speaking about solomon… fast forward this part

  • @7temii
    @7temii 9 месяцев назад +6

    "WISDOM!!" 🙌🏾

  • @eunicebloom5854
    @eunicebloom5854 9 месяцев назад +8

    this looks good already

  • @elijahnelson9803
    @elijahnelson9803 8 месяцев назад +2

    Big up miles I remember my man from back in the day I had to pause this to clock on to who this was. Or shall I say who he is now big up my bro👏👏

  • @missi_kalo
    @missi_kalo 9 месяцев назад +23

    UNPOPULAR OPINION: Should i review this on my youtube channel?.. God doesn't choose a partner for us. It's our own decisions to make. If that relationship doesn't work out, are you going to blame God for picking that partner for you. I believe God shows you red flags/ bad characters that will be continuous and affect your relationship, mental health, and emotion, but the decisions are always yours to make to stay or leave. That is why ppl stay in a healthy or unhealthy relationship. The choices are yours to make, not God. God just reveals the true characters of people. My review on this is out on my channel , and I went in more details focused on pastors' relationship and belief on God told them to marry each other

    • @shondinho
      @shondinho 9 месяцев назад +4

      Yes do a review, it will be interesting to hear your perspective

    • @thesocialbreakoutt
      @thesocialbreakoutt  9 месяцев назад +1

      You should definitely do a review

    • @missi_kalo
      @missi_kalo 9 месяцев назад +1

      Okay guys. I will do the review on this. Coming soon

    • @seyyyyy3027
      @seyyyyy3027 9 месяцев назад +3

      I understand where you coming from but I think if you really understand the will and ways of God, you wouldn't say what you saying....no hard feelings tho

    • @shuc3032
      @shuc3032 9 месяцев назад +2

      Louder!!!!

  • @feliciamoore8440
    @feliciamoore8440 6 месяцев назад

    I really enjoyed this platform…and I will say I see a lot of growth here. I also would say I agree with Paul when he speaks about going back to the end….however I also understand Miles…what he is saying is sometimes we need a new circle. That circle is how he got where he was…I appreciate Paul’s take on going back to the End or as we say here in the states…The Hood. ❤

  • @sundieamony1034
    @sundieamony1034 9 месяцев назад +13

    Paul's facial expressions have me 😂

  • @SajoMt
    @SajoMt 9 месяцев назад +2

    We been waiting for this 🎉😂

    • @thesocialbreakoutt
      @thesocialbreakoutt  9 месяцев назад

      What did you think of the first episode then? Who do you think Will give the best advice to Paul?

    • @SajoMt
      @SajoMt 9 месяцев назад +2

      @@thesocialbreakoutt I think Paul will be Paul, meaning he will disregard everyone's advice and go on his own intuition anyway

  • @jkafo
    @jkafo 9 месяцев назад +1

    His face and gestures always gets me lol😂😂😂😂

  • @HelyBel
    @HelyBel 9 месяцев назад +23

    A lot of waffling going on here 😂😂😂😂 specially the church people 😂😂😂

  • @missdigioia
    @missdigioia 9 месяцев назад +10

    Pastor dropping pure 'wisdom '

  • @trishm7013
    @trishm7013 9 месяцев назад +18

    Pauls commentary is killing me 😂

  • @Tam974eva
    @Tam974eva 9 месяцев назад +8

    It is so strange seeing Paul on the opposite side of the room on THAT chair LOL.

  • @trishm7013
    @trishm7013 9 месяцев назад +13

    Pauls notepad moment 🤣

  • @marykay412
    @marykay412 9 месяцев назад +2

    🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 we are waiting

  • @angeldestiny3640
    @angeldestiny3640 9 месяцев назад +27

    LAST COUPLE..SORRY I AGREE WITH PAUL..with his advice.😂😂😂😂😂

    • @thesocialbreakoutt
      @thesocialbreakoutt  9 месяцев назад +1

      😅😅

    • @A.nge.l
      @A.nge.l 9 месяцев назад +3

      When he said some couples are annoying he meant them

    • @Tam974eva
      @Tam974eva 9 месяцев назад +3

      she said that if her husband walked off a plank to commit suicide, she would join him. that's STUPID. lol. if ur husband leads u astray from God and is not kind, u don't need to submit. ur husband is not the final authority. she didn't even answer the question "why him?" she answered "how did yall meet?"

  • @ShadowiTV
    @ShadowiTV 9 месяцев назад +5

    Good concept! We just need consistency now… 🙌🏾

  • @jelkesvwamhi8934
    @jelkesvwamhi8934 9 месяцев назад +1

    Its the tiny note pad for me 😂❤

  • @andreayb0523
    @andreayb0523 9 месяцев назад +2

    I really enjoyed this😊

  • @irielsmith8501
    @irielsmith8501 9 месяцев назад +19

    What a show, for a second I thought the girl in black was chioma 😂

    • @SassyJ
      @SassyJ 9 месяцев назад +3

      She sounds so much like her lool

    • @b4Ellz
      @b4Ellz 9 месяцев назад

      Sameee!! Lol

    • @thesocialbreakoutt
      @thesocialbreakoutt  9 месяцев назад

      Really ? Lol, oh gosh

  • @supersonja
    @supersonja 9 месяцев назад +11

    Wasn't a massive fan of Paul, he came across somewhat arrogant on Blue Therapy, but I must say, I've enjoyed this episode, and like what you've done here Paul, so thank you and well done. It's very refreshing to hear some genuine relationship wisdom from emotionally intelligent grown folk with clarity and direction. Love the honesty and openess from all the couples. Great concept and great execution 👌 Paul you might still be that arrogant character I wasn't keen on, but I have to take my hat off to you on this one. Blessings to everyone that took part and brought this to us viewers❤

    • @thesocialbreakoutt
      @thesocialbreakoutt  9 месяцев назад +2

      Thank you so much for the amazing and encouraging words 🙌🏾

  • @chrisvictorious9313
    @chrisvictorious9313 9 месяцев назад +8

    I've been waiting for this video and to be honest this is so interesting to watch to thank you for having the Buchi's
    💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼

    • @thesocialbreakoutt
      @thesocialbreakoutt  9 месяцев назад

      Thank you for the kind words…really glad you enjoyed the first episode

  • @mariajennifer2286
    @mariajennifer2286 9 месяцев назад +1

    Have waited a great deal for this 😂😂😂😂

  • @elizabethamah9817
    @elizabethamah9817 9 месяцев назад +25

    Paul's facial expressions are hilarious 😂💯👍🏾🇳🇬🇬🇧🥇

  • @daleneikemefuna2344
    @daleneikemefuna2344 9 месяцев назад +3

    Honestly, the subject of submission can be tricky as well as the context in which it is used. Paul, I think Buchi and his wife made their point with regards to what works for them and there are people who can relate. But saying people shouldn't listen 'i disagree'. She was clear on what Submission means.

  • @anonanon4136
    @anonanon4136 9 месяцев назад +4

    Especiallyyy the church guys! 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @emmanuelokine9512
    @emmanuelokine9512 9 месяцев назад +8

    When the girl said ' I have 2 male friends', Paul's eye immediately turned to look at her guy. That killed me ; )

  • @merabwerimo
    @merabwerimo 9 месяцев назад +2

    I waited for this one

    • @thesocialbreakoutt
      @thesocialbreakoutt  9 месяцев назад

      What are your thoughts?

    • @merabwerimo
      @merabwerimo 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@thesocialbreakoutt It was amazing but I wish it was at most 3 couples per episode. It was a lot for the mind to process all of them

    • @thesocialbreakoutt
      @thesocialbreakoutt  9 месяцев назад

      @@merabwerimo - thank you for the feedback, we really wanted to give you at least 1hr of entertainment to really get to know each couple lol

  • @TaffyMazhara
    @TaffyMazhara 9 месяцев назад +10

    Here's for the Solomom and Arike

  • @stacyd7297
    @stacyd7297 9 месяцев назад +18

    Same paul that didnt want my chiomi to chop eba and soup .. is now talking about y people always feel the need to break out from the ends becus they on high vibration...😂well done sir

  • @Jordantby
    @Jordantby 9 месяцев назад +2

    Paul is BOX OFFICE‼️😂

  • @nessramirez175
    @nessramirez175 9 месяцев назад +1

    Paul the goat for this

  • @SweetVeekayy
    @SweetVeekayy 9 месяцев назад +18

    @ 19:22 I’m actually dying at this edit 😂😂😂 he’s a pastor you knoww, you lot can’t play him like that 😂😂

  • @kikiwithvee6597
    @kikiwithvee6597 8 месяцев назад +2

    😂😂😂 "you're a cool guy but your tapped at the same time" 😢😂😂

  • @margeyb.8665
    @margeyb.8665 9 месяцев назад +3

    The last couple 😅👀 🚩🤣🤣🤣 this show is good.🥂

  • @Rakzhype
    @Rakzhype 9 месяцев назад +3

    I rate Paul’s mind set especially at the part with the couple that travel a lot. And really like the space that couples in the ones that travel a lot 💫🙌🏾

  • @teyaruben7196
    @teyaruben7196 9 месяцев назад +2

    Best advice I can give you is
    Be the father and the brother, friend and mostly be the husband playing all this character it will help you to succeed in relationships. and Renew your relationship one of the reasons why relationships destroyed coz of routine. Wish you a happy relationship.

  • @MutiaForever
    @MutiaForever 9 месяцев назад +5

    I need to find a man like Miles. Favourite couple for now💓

  • @feyicoker8686
    @feyicoker8686 9 месяцев назад +8

    Great show and feels very authentic

  • @Sophie-cw7bf
    @Sophie-cw7bf 9 месяцев назад +5

    Shaq and Tanya yessssssss amen they still together ❤❤❤❤

  • @lahbemkensam6542
    @lahbemkensam6542 9 месяцев назад +3

    It's the wisdom for me😂😂😂

  • @1995tamzy
    @1995tamzy 9 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you Lord for this episode ❤

  • @Anticz_p3
    @Anticz_p3 9 месяцев назад +4

    Wisdom 🗣️

  • @kwameoluwasomi
    @kwameoluwasomi 9 месяцев назад +2

    This is a good look

  • @uduakobongudosen7703
    @uduakobongudosen7703 9 месяцев назад +4

    The way I rannnnn to Solomon and Arike's part eeehhh 💃💃💃💃

  • @adetutuodumosu
    @adetutuodumosu 9 месяцев назад +3

    Does Paul even know that he is effortelessly funny🤣

    • @thesocialbreakoutt
      @thesocialbreakoutt  9 месяцев назад

      😂😂😅it’d be a huge shock if he didn’t know lol

  • @jojobissel3928
    @jojobissel3928 9 месяцев назад +3

    16:10 How can the news make bro adjust his blazer and tie 😂😂😂

    • @thesocialbreakoutt
      @thesocialbreakoutt  9 месяцев назад

      He had to make sure he was on point init lol and was hearing correctly 🤣😅

  • @toyin2376
    @toyin2376 9 месяцев назад +4

    We disappear for you to appear 😍

  • @estherade5015
    @estherade5015 9 месяцев назад +1

    This is actually hilarious…. 😅😅

  • @hmhistory6196
    @hmhistory6196 8 месяцев назад +1

    She a real one foshooo

  • @ChiiNw
    @ChiiNw 9 месяцев назад +11

    Solomon and Arike are a Christian couple. Lovely to see

  • @trishm7013
    @trishm7013 9 месяцев назад +5

    My fave couple right now is Myles & Shay

    • @thesocialbreakoutt
      @thesocialbreakoutt  9 месяцев назад

      They are great, aswell as all the other couples ! 🙌🏾

  • @tynicakayla6123
    @tynicakayla6123 9 месяцев назад +7

    Wisdom ! 😂

  • @daizygold3969
    @daizygold3969 9 месяцев назад +10

    I'm learning my idea of ride or die might be a bitttttt different.. cus huhhhhhhhh

    • @jay97xx
      @jay97xx 9 месяцев назад +2

      😂😂😂😂I’m telling you, i was like not me but okay go on sis

    • @thesocialbreakoutt
      @thesocialbreakoutt  9 месяцев назад

      What’s your idea of ride or die then? lol

  • @IsraelSocials
    @IsraelSocials 9 месяцев назад +3

    Paul is talented