The Paradox of Violence | Tim Larkin | TEDxGrandForks

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  • Опубликовано: 5 апр 2015
  • Violence is rarely the answer, but when it is... it is the only answer. This provocative talk explores the uncomfortable realities of violence. There is no greater fear that being physically dominated by a bigger, faster, stronger attacker. Yet there is actually little good information on how to use the tool of violence. Here you will learn the surprising truth about violence and how we have stigmatized the study of violence to the point that only the criminal elements have access to it.
    A former military intelligence officer, Tim Larkin was part of a beta group that redesigned how special operations personnel trained for close combat. He has a 25-year career, training people in 52 countries on how to deal with imminent violence. Over 10,000 clients are trained in his Target Focus Training (TFT) from military special operations units, special law enforcement teams, celebrities, and high profile business leaders on how to use physics and physiology to injure any human(s) trying to attack them.

    The nation’s leading pro-victim rights and personal safety advocate as well as a member of the Black Belt Hall of Fame, Tim’s numerous magazine covers and articles in the martial arts and self-defense industry are as controversial as his "pro-victim advocate" position on self-protection.
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

Комментарии • 371

  • @adeolaola4516
    @adeolaola4516 4 года назад +98

    "Wolves don't kill unlucky deer. They kill the weak ones."
    Wind River

  • @bmclaughlan
    @bmclaughlan 8 лет назад +288

    A needed dose of reality. Predators don't think of violence as distasteful. They just think of winning.

    • @Wraith.Genesis24
      @Wraith.Genesis24 5 лет назад +5

      Your message is true however you sound like doctor lecter rn xD

    • @n.randall6152
      @n.randall6152 4 года назад +5

      @@Wraith.Genesis24 Its okay to be Lecter when needed.

    • @LOKI77able
      @LOKI77able 3 года назад

      Doesn't the same mindset apply to sports in many cases?

    • @lifesabuzzwhoopwhoop
      @lifesabuzzwhoopwhoop 3 года назад +3

      To predators violence is a means to an end, like the guy says "violence is a tool"

    • @dotinglydreaming5486
      @dotinglydreaming5486 Год назад

      As a naturally violent person and drug addict i can confirm that violence is used by people with different views.

  • @josephmorott9660
    @josephmorott9660 8 лет назад +84

    This is a fantastic presentation. The subject may be a bit uncomfortable, but Tim does a great job of explaining why it shouldn't be taboo.

  • @vitalfitnessselfdefense9648
    @vitalfitnessselfdefense9648 8 лет назад +220

    "The best protection for good people against violence are good people trained better at violence"
    Sgt. Rory Miller - Meditations On Violence

    • @KrwiomoczBogurodzicy
      @KrwiomoczBogurodzicy 8 лет назад +12

      +Vital Fitness & Self Defense
      "Being good at violence doesn't make you a violent person..." - Mike Gillette. May I recommend Tom Kurz - Basic Instincts of Self-Defense DVD. Because Tim Larkin's stuff is good, but it can get you jailed in some countries. Unfortunately what we (laughingly) call "THE LAW/JUSTICE SYSTEM" doesn't always protect the victim(s).

    • @dininelbourne
      @dininelbourne 7 лет назад +2

      I downloaded that book an hour before reading this comment. Looking forward to the read.

    • @chriscrawford7240
      @chriscrawford7240 7 лет назад +6

      Vital Fitness & Self Defense "How to Survive the Worst 5 Seconds of Your Life" is a seminal book by Tim Larkin and his co-founder. The most important concept is crippling/killing an attacker by specifically targeting key body points.

    • @jvincent6548
      @jvincent6548 5 лет назад +1

      What a terrible world that would be.

    • @aptcmpasion
      @aptcmpasion 5 лет назад +3

      rather: good people KNOWN to be better at violence

  • @nausheen329
    @nausheen329 8 лет назад +156

    I hate that people who consider themselves educated and feel they are in a place to educate others ,totally negate the importance and utility of violence. You cannot always wait for justice...many times it doesn't come and i wouldn't be caught dead ever hanging hope on that in the moment . Society teaches children to hold off and in earnest creates more opportunity to be victims where there could be a better understanding that circumstances can change if you know when and how to act because everybody is not thinking the way you are. Its not scary to prepare. Its scary to send loved ones out w lessons that take away from their instinct to defend themselves. Im pleased ted talks,having thought provoking lectures acknowledged the importance of times to be more physical and urgent. We exist in a physical world and have the privilege when we have the safety to think and educate ourselves.

    • @apalumbo8585
      @apalumbo8585 5 лет назад +1

      gillecroisd 92 I thinking that violence is a part of everyone will make you handle better the situation where violence occur and you will be able to do more good because you know that this is a part of human nature

    • @Alex-ud6zr
      @Alex-ud6zr 4 года назад +1

      Violence is sometimes the answer. However, I have a bigger issue with people employing violence and justifying it on untenable grounds, but believing themselves it is indeed justified based on basking in a continual inundation of their ideology.

    • @jh9725
      @jh9725 2 года назад

      @@Alex-ud6zr well we wouldn’t be individuals if we all thought the same . Different mindsets

    • @noblebrown6077
      @noblebrown6077 Год назад +2

      Historically, violence is the only way to achieve a political paradigm shift. Even on an individual level, violence is often the only way to shift a badly skewed power balance.
      Violence isn't the problem. Problem is that our current political system doesn't budge unless violence is employed.
      We shouldn't have to resort to violence in order to get heard.

  • @scotttrail522
    @scotttrail522 3 года назад +30

    When you're faced with a kill/be killed scenario, it's not so much that you have to physically prepare, but . . . you also have to mentally prepare for what's going to happen.
    When something is happening all at once, whether it's someone hurting another person or that person is hurting you, you don't have the right amount of time to physically prepare, it's mostly about mentally preparing. When "physical prepare" isn't enough, it comes down to the point of "mental prepare".

  • @The2012Victory
    @The2012Victory 8 лет назад +62

    This is a hard but important subject to think about. Most people want to get along with others and think others should do the same. No matter how much we might wish to bury our heads in the sand, long-term that can lead to a significant loss. Tim Larkin teaches not only the mechanics of how to stop a violent attacker, but also the mindset, which is where most people need to begin.

    • @MrGospelGuitar
      @MrGospelGuitar 8 лет назад +2

      Baron Dekalb You said it best here. Mindset is the most important part.

    • @The2012Victory
      @The2012Victory 8 лет назад +2

      I deplore violence, but after being 'run over' a few times, and seeing other innocent people killed by however warped individuals with a cause or a habit, I have decided to stand up to these people as much as I am capable. Tim Larkin helps honest people become more capable...

    • @andrewdomenitzdmd
      @andrewdomenitzdmd 7 лет назад +1

      You got that right. Need to be ready for anything, exactly when you probably ar not ready. There is not going to be any "fair " fight.

  • @felinedorcus
    @felinedorcus 4 года назад +9

    I remember how someone who teached me martial arts once said to his students, in the moment of danger you shouldn't care about the law or that kind of stuff, the number one thing to protect is yourself. Now I realize what he was trying to say...

  • @jbriansimsmd652
    @jbriansimsmd652 8 лет назад +17

    Tim tells it like it is. Having done his training I can tell you it gives you a different perspective that is needed in this violent world we live in.

  • @danafreeman1948
    @danafreeman1948 8 лет назад +4

    Tim, you are the only person with the cajones to speak what needs to be spoken. As you say, against violence by people who don't care, violence is indeed the only option! Carry on....

    • @PTSenators9643
      @PTSenators9643 10 месяцев назад

      True. Facing Unemployment twice now. So just practising kickboxing during unemployment from IT industry now.

  • @aaronr.2974
    @aaronr.2974 7 лет назад +66

    I highly recommend his book. How To Survive the Most Critical 5 Seconds Of Your Life. This is essentially a 17 minute distillation of the book.

  • @gurgsindine06
    @gurgsindine06 4 года назад +64

    When faced with violence you respond with more violence then the enemy could ever imagine is possible.

  • @SteveW51
    @SteveW51 8 лет назад +8

    Something that occurred to me while listening to this is that people who know little to nothing about the realities of violence almost universally espouse opinions of breathtaking absurdity.

  • @craigh1697
    @craigh1697 8 лет назад +20

    Interesting. Now that I'm a parent, my point of view on a lot of things have changed, including protecting myself and now my family. When it comes to fight or flight and you have kids that don't have the ability to evade as you may, then the only choice would be to fight. And I'll be dammed if I let anything happen to my family.

  • @deidrarae9286
    @deidrarae9286 2 года назад +8

    As a martial artist, I approve this message. There are no rules in a real life fight. You do what you gotta do to survive. In competition, it takes more strength and control to not cause physical harm.

  • @whitecrow1949
    @whitecrow1949 4 года назад +12

    I appreciate your honest, frank examination of violence. I have witnessed it more times than I would want. I have been threatened with serious harm. Grace, patience, & a strong community of protective warriors have kept me safe.

  • @brandonm3375
    @brandonm3375 3 года назад +1

    Tim Larkin should be a regular presenter on here. This is information everyone needs, but few are willing to embrace.

  • @tygersoul
    @tygersoul 8 лет назад +45

    Excellent point at the end about mindset. "I am the dangerous one." "I am the tiger that eats wolves." Also, good point about combat competition and how unrealistic it is with all it rules. To explain it in a better way, Martial Arts (the school of violence) are divided into two categories: Sports (competition), and Warfare (self-defense). Many of the worlds Martial Arts systems have been watered down into sports since the advent of the gun. The core; the true purpose and origin of Martial Arts is to understand and harness the realities of violence in the mindset of Warfare. In this way I've become a strategist; I understand wolves because I have thought like a wolf. Lastly, It's good that he has the mind, but the body must match the mind or you will lose. When you are attacked first, if you don't know any techniques and have no experience you will die. If you run out of breath bc you're out of shape, you will fail. If you are physically weak, you should have a weapon.

    • @starsixtyseven195
      @starsixtyseven195 2 месяца назад +1

      If you fear your opponent has a weapon you should have armor

  • @pepehorhae
    @pepehorhae 4 года назад +7

    he knew, humans are savages in nature, no matter how you sugarcoat it
    -Rorshach

  • @ronselliers6951
    @ronselliers6951 8 лет назад +15

    Tim's stature and demeanor add so much to his presentation. He is the perfect person to make us realize that we need to be able to understand violence to begin to be able to face an unwanted situation.

  • @dukeman7595
    @dukeman7595 8 лет назад +15

    You nailed it, people are reluctant to hurt another person, they believe they
    can talk their way out of a bad situation.

    • @EricMerolaFilms
      @EricMerolaFilms 3 месяца назад +1

      Sometimes you can when one-on-one (one human to human) ... but you can't talk yourself out of a country-on-country, like USA/NATO vs. Russia.
      Russia can only be defeated with violence, not "talking". (Russia understands this).
      "Talking to Russia" is Russia's indication of your inherit Achilles Heel of your weakness.
      And thus, talking to that "Federation" will end in your demise.

    • @dukeman7595
      @dukeman7595 3 месяца назад +1

      Buulsh*t, I think you need to do more study on the subject. Believe you have it in reverse.@@EricMerolaFilms

  • @mykalsavage2041
    @mykalsavage2041 8 лет назад +3

    Until you have settled it in your heart, that you are willing to do whatever it takes to survive, you will perish when violence comes to your doorstep. Tim is spot on, thank you Tim.

  • @Aikidomelbourne
    @Aikidomelbourne 8 лет назад +8

    Thank you, Tim. I started out looking at TED talks on peace and then thought I should check out ones on violence as a means of peace keeping. I was right: I could relate to both perspectives. Although I am very much a peace-loving person, I have been involved in Aikido for many years and this question of when is it appropriate to disable or even kill a person keeps coming up. Tim's so right. Violent criminals are far more expert than clean living martial artists. Yet that is at that base, sick level. I suspected that there were many rules in UFC - on the battlefields of old there were no rules. Aikido for me is about becoming more peaceful - that is what our training leads to and yet it also deals with the issue of responding in a physical way to violence. It's a multi faceted, intriguing topic.

  • @drakem.9763
    @drakem.9763 8 лет назад +1

    I think the proper mindset is just as, or even more important than the actual technical and tactical repertoire. I learned so much from you Mr. Larkin (presentations, blog spots, DVDs, and book.) This one is also an excellent summary of vital informations of which most of the people does not know, or not even thinking about. But they should, because in certain circumstances it can save your life, or a life of another. You are waking up sheeps and help them to become sheep dogs. Personally, your teachings helped me much. Thank you sir, and keep up that great work! All hail from Hungary!

  • @davidcollins1221
    @davidcollins1221 8 лет назад +2

    That was Great Tim! I'm certain that opened a lot of peoples eye's about how to react to a situation as well as always be alert. Sorry you had so many problems on the trip...
    All the Best!
    David

  • @MarkusLaumann
    @MarkusLaumann 8 лет назад +60

    I fully agree that violence is just a tool and everyone should be aware of how to use it. My daughters (7 and 9 years old) are in BJJ because I don't want their first exposure to conflict to be at the attacker's choosing.

    • @anthonymaloney6838
      @anthonymaloney6838 8 лет назад +8

      Bravo sir. They will be well trained in our art. You are a model father my friend.

    • @bibarra7851
      @bibarra7851 6 лет назад +1

      Markus Laumann bjj??

    • @andrewruddy962
      @andrewruddy962 6 лет назад +13

      The ground is a bad place to be especially on the street in a violent situation.

    • @novelaviator
      @novelaviator 2 года назад

      @@bibarra7851 brazilian ji jutsu

    • @vittoriol8244
      @vittoriol8244 Год назад

      Good choice , bjj !!

  • @lindahansen6272
    @lindahansen6272 8 лет назад +68

    Be sure it's the only answer. And when it is - answer loudly and definitively. If you give a lethal attacker any chance to recover in ANY way, you are giving them another chance to take your life.
    Tim - keep up the good work to let people know the world is getting uglier and more brutal and the chance for violence in your life is ever greater. We all need to be mentally prepared to deal with it appropriately.

    • @jvincent6548
      @jvincent6548 5 лет назад +5

      The data does not support your argument that 'the world is getting uglier and more brutal'. Quite the opposite in fact.

    • @MM-Iconoclast
      @MM-Iconoclast 4 года назад +4

      @@jvincent6548 Nonetheless, we still need to be (at least mentally) prepared. Overall stats don't erase individual occurrences.

    • @fuggles2544
      @fuggles2544 4 года назад

      The world is getting more brutal according to who? 500 years ago 15% of all people died as a result of violence. In the 20th century it was 5%. Today it is less than 1%.

    • @martinjugolin2087
      @martinjugolin2087 Год назад +2

      Use violence to defend and offend, people are getting too sensitive and peaceful like, just one bad day for peace lovers and its over

  • @charlesg8359
    @charlesg8359 3 года назад +1

    Man, condensing this topic into a 17 minute talk is a tall order. He didn’t even go into the distinction between antisocial aggression (where there’s choice; think deescalation/defusion/verbal judo/walking away) and asocial violence (where there’s no communication, no choice; inaction equals essentially participating in your own injury/death). Confusing antisocial aggression for asocial violence is a good way to land in jail/prison. Confusing asocial for antisocial is an effective way to get hurt/killed. Studying the tool of violence is like learning to swim to survive drowning. You’d never want to experience nearly drowning again if you’ve been there. So too it is with violence. Well done Tim!

  • @springbloom5940
    @springbloom5940 4 года назад +10

    The problem is that in reality, in a Civilized society, most people dont have it in them to intentionally injure another person. Its hard to stick your finger into someone's eye and pick it out like a booger, or to bend someone's arm over your knee and break it like a tree branch.

  • @rudyperez5656
    @rudyperez5656 8 лет назад

    I've been impressed with Tim's presentations and have ordered his online training. This information is explosive and should be used judiciously but, thank God, Tim has made it available to us just in case.

  • @douglaswood9159
    @douglaswood9159 8 лет назад +1

    Great talk! I have purchased several DVD packages and am a member of the TFT online training program. My background is in traditional martial arts and World War 2 combatives. The information they teach is based on principles that work! It is well worth your time and money to get this training! I hope to be able to attend a live seminar in the future.

  • @dantheman4421
    @dantheman4421 6 лет назад

    This is a good piece, Mr. Tim Larkin. I teach these same ideas to my martial arts students...competitive sports is one thing, but in a real life fighting situation when your life is on the line, the eye jab/gouge and groin kick are the FIRST unarmed tools to be trying to use. End the threat to your life as fast as possible.

  • @geralddavis3903
    @geralddavis3903 8 лет назад +1

    Tim I love your talk and your course. The demonstration you presented points out that all self defense starts with your mindset to preserve your your life and physical being. Great job Tim----Thanks!

  • @bobbygray3220
    @bobbygray3220 8 лет назад +1

    This is a topic that frightens people but needs to have the light of truth shined upon it. No one wants to be a victim of violence, but what Tim Larkin presents provides the comfort to be prepared to act when necessary and to be successful. Don't be part of the 70% that waits until it happens to them or someone they know. Get trained and be ready to respond.

  • @keithhay2599
    @keithhay2599 8 лет назад +1

    Sir! Thank you for the work that you do. It is so important, but a difficult lesson for most to learn. I am a Krav Maga instructor where the fact that there are no rules is a key component. Yet I am amazed at the look on my student's faces when I discuss the answers to "real violence". Students who have no problem throwing punches at another's face become faint when I discuss the possibility that gouging an eye might be necessary in an asocial violence situation. This is why TFT and your continued efforts at education to the public are so crucial. Evil walks this earth and we the sheepdogs must not only stand guard, but help the sheep to understand what they themselves can do to stay safe and survive.

  • @johns-videos3455
    @johns-videos3455 8 лет назад

    I have bought several of Tim's DVDs and attended two of his live training seminars. All present a realistic and effective tactics to survive a violent encounter.

  • @beth-bi9yv
    @beth-bi9yv 5 лет назад +5

    Wow....the demo he did was very enlightening. I didn't for a second consider what my actions would have been as the aggressor.

  • @rcushen
    @rcushen 8 лет назад +1

    Tim-you made a great point about how a criminal views violence.I am a counselor & I work for the NYS DOC.S.Violence for them is a way of life and they do see themselves as the aggressors.They are predators and relish in knowing that they will go to whatever length to take someone out and to reach whatever their objective is irrespective of the consequences to themselves or others.Great work you are doing.

  • @margaretcarson7648
    @margaretcarson7648 8 лет назад +6

    A terrific and succinct presentation of what should be a common sense approach to extreme situations. The mindset is the thing. It all starts with stripping away the pacifistic preconceptions and mischaracterizations of violence that make us victims. As Tim Larkin says, "Violence is a tool." Stigmatizing its use in extreme situations merely perpetuates the criminal sociopath's advantage. Choose to be the winner! Intention, intention, intention.

  • @localmarketingresourcelmrv4347
    @localmarketingresourcelmrv4347 8 лет назад +2

    Thank you for your No nonsense, practical, cut through the bullshit methods for anyone, any size, and a great knowledge to have hoping you never need it. Be safe-not sorry and learn his teachings. .

  • @fraulamansfield8999
    @fraulamansfield8999 8 лет назад

    I enjoyed the video very much, and I thought that it had real great point of interest; and it would be worthwhile to get involved with Target Focus Training for your protection with Tim Larkin! thank you so much Ronald Freund.

  • @memberman
    @memberman Год назад +1

    Brillant presentation. This is much needed in our society especially for good men who can handle their violence for moments like this.

  • @Nightstick24
    @Nightstick24 4 года назад +3

    I think we absolutely should teach people violence isn't the answer... Until it is.
    I'm not sure who it was that said it but someone said "When you choose to use violence make absolutely certain you are using the same or a greater level of violence than the other party." Violence shouldn't be your first choice, but when you choose it you have to give it everything you've got. You can't limit yourself to a set of rules the other party won't follow. If that means going for the groin, or the eyes, so be it. The most important thing to do is to inflict as much pain as possible as quickly as possible so you can either disengage and get away or take control of the situation.

  • @Liberum69
    @Liberum69 Год назад +3

    I stopped training in MMA when I read about the Rough-and-Tumble fights they used to hold in the southern United States 200 years ago. They regularly gouged eyes and ripped off testicles. There's no preparation for that other than just getting big, strong, fast, and carrying a gun or carrying the largest knife you're legally allowed. It was then that I learned that the only fights that are worth fighting are those that are worth fighting unfairly. The ones that are thrust upon you when you didn't want any violence. After all, the only people that will push that on you are those with severe advantages (they're bigger than you or have more friends). So why fight fairly?

  • @ronlysonly8742
    @ronlysonly8742 8 лет назад +1

    I have been looking for this for a long time. Maybe it is not too late, I'm 68 years young. LOL
    I am sending the link to my two daughters and their husbands. I believe bad times are coming and I want them to have the very best chance to live fairly fear free.
    Thanks Tim.
    Ron

  • @DavidLilyMae
    @DavidLilyMae 8 лет назад

    Tim Larkin's message rings true. I recommend his training to anyone, no matter your age nor fitness.

  • @gilpineda1116
    @gilpineda1116 8 лет назад +2

    Absolutely love this philosophy. I've studied martial arts for decades, (boxing, korean traditional system, krav maga, etc) and this makes to most sense if you value your life.

  • @rickandchrismetz265
    @rickandchrismetz265 8 лет назад +2

    Fantastic!!! This needs to go viral!!!!

  • @ThadForester
    @ThadForester 8 лет назад

    Great information. I fully trust everything Tim Larkin teaches b/c I have his TFT Survival Pack and he teaches how to deal with reality. With help from Tim's training, I hope I'm always ready and able to protect my family and myself.

  • @carlgoulding2587
    @carlgoulding2587 8 лет назад +4

    I've followed Tim Larkin for years. I see the wisdom in his approach. It's been difficult to wrap my mind around the core concept, that I need to be the aggressor, the person who will take injury to an attacker FIRST and FAST. And it's mostly because doing so is going to make me be a murderer, (in all likelihood), but also because the culture has been so influential through every good-guy movie, portraying the only "good" good guy, is really the guy who come's from behind, after a terrible beating to win by virtue of his ... "virtue". I never go out (where I'm possibly vulnerable to attack), without the knowing ahead, how my key's are going to be my weapon to tear with, to get me in position to really hurt or end that threat, ... that I didn't ask for. Thanks for the message.

    • @spiorad8008
      @spiorad8008 8 лет назад +1

      Carl Goulding There's a big difference between murder and self-defense. Learn the law about when deadly force is justified. Firearm training usually covers this pretty well, and the same principles apply with other weapons or empty hands. With firearms, you shoot to stop a threat, not to kill. Once the threat is stopped, you stop; otherwise, you get into murder. Same thing with causing injury by any other method. Stop the threat, then stop.

    • @MrGospelGuitar
      @MrGospelGuitar 8 лет назад

      Thomas Caruthers I've watched several of the Target Focus Training videos and it seems the idea is not to get away when you are the target of predatory crime. Rather it seems the idea is to render the predator totally non functional and the best time to do it is after you've knocked him down. In other words pile on and keep injuring him. I'd like to add here that if I did that I wouldn't call 911 and wait for the police to come and arrest me, I'd just get the hell out of there. And don't worry about any witnesses. There aren't going to be any because nobody wants to get involved in asocial violence and they will just assume it was gang related anyway and he got what he deserved.

    • @bigal6114
      @bigal6114 8 лет назад

      Foxwalker With a firearm training do you take careful aim to wound the attacker, assess the effect of the first the shot, and only if necessary shoot again?

    • @spiorad8008
      @spiorad8008 8 лет назад +2

      Big Al First, never shoot to wound. Whether you agree with that or not, that is illegal in most places, on the idea that if you're only shooting to wound, you are not facing grave bodily injury or death. If there is an imminent threat of grave bodily injury or death, you have the right to respond with deadly force to stop the threat (some states require retreat if possible, others not (Stand Your Ground)). Don't take my word for it, read up on it.
      Some firearm schools teach you to make two shots to center mass/thoracic cavity (double tap), and if that doesn't stop the threat, go for a head shot. Other schools do not teach two shots specifically but rather two to five, and may say heart or head rather than center mass. Despite what you see in movies, a center mass shot will often not drop a person immediately but more like in 10's of seconds or even minutes. Also, a head shot does not mean the forehead as bullets have been know to travel under the skin around the skill, which is thicker and harder above the eyebrows. A head shot means the band around the head between the eyebrows and bottom of the nose, as that's where the head is softer and has openings (eyes/nose/ears).
      After you stop shooting, all schools I've been to teach you to assess and scan the target and the environment around you one way or another (and reload if you can). One way is FAST: Fight, Assess (target), Scan (Environment), Top Off (reload). Many would throw Move (to concealment or cover) in there after Fight.

    • @jvincent6548
      @jvincent6548 5 лет назад

      Surely if he is as good as he says he would have noticed you following him by now and turned around and beaten you to pulp !

  • @markyb3620
    @markyb3620 8 лет назад

    I have been fortunate enough to attend a TFT class and the information presented is priceless. Thanks you Tim and your amazing team for your insight and commitment to share this information with the rest of us "social" folks!

    • @donniesmith8779
      @donniesmith8779 Год назад

      was it worth the money you spent... just asking 7 years later..

  • @janfranceschi8458
    @janfranceschi8458 8 лет назад

    Once again Tim, great job. Hope you come to the Atlanta area some day!

  • @wendyyoungblood1468
    @wendyyoungblood1468 8 лет назад +2

    Great presentation - Thank you.

  • @chrishelmuth4065
    @chrishelmuth4065 2 года назад

    Such a HUGE help for curing women. You Rock Tim Larkin! 🤗😎🤩 Now to teach pre-MMIW. I've been fighting death for 50 years living in mainstream. Plan on living to 100!

  • @AikiBudo22
    @AikiBudo22 8 лет назад

    Well done, Tim! If people don't "get it" after hearing this, they are destined to remain the victim of whatever criminal they happen to be unlucky enough to fall prey to.

  • @davem4757
    @davem4757 8 лет назад

    I ONLY CAME ACROSS, TIM LARKIN A COUPLE MONTHS AGO, AND THIS GUY IS MADE OF ALL THE RIGHT STUFF!!! THANK YOU, TIM!!

  • @samiannetta
    @samiannetta 8 лет назад +1

    Great presentation Tim, all I can hope is that people take this the right way and learn some REAL high quality Self Defense which starts with an offensive plan. Thanks Tim.

  • @GITMachine
    @GITMachine 3 года назад +1

    One of my original instructors (karate) would always talk about the difference between competition and 'real' fighting. He would say that competition was a noble pursuit and that the training would make you a better athlete, a more humble person, but he would always emphasize that it wasn't complete as there was no element of life or death. "Dark alley fighting" as he would call it, involved an element of kill or be killed, and he would remind us that if a fight like that lasted for more than 20 seconds, you were doing something wrong.
    The uncomfortable truth is that sometimes violence is the only answer.

  • @robertfoertsch
    @robertfoertsch 4 года назад +3

    Excellent, Shared Millions Of Times Through My Liked Videos Playlists...

  • @26michaeluk
    @26michaeluk Год назад +1

    War in Iraq and Afghanistan showed me just how violent I could be. We've all got it in us. I embraced violence and that's why I can write this statement today.

  • @frankr7068
    @frankr7068 8 лет назад +1

    Tim is absolutely correct. Every fight I've been in was absolute chaos. Nothing like the movies or martial arts. The only thing the other folks wanted to do was injure me. Having TFT training gave me the answers on how to injure first to win the fight. Without it, it's hard to stop the other person cold. Doesn't matter your strength or size, injury is the key.

  • @thenebraskan6977
    @thenebraskan6977 3 года назад

    Tim Larkin is the best in what he teaches. His book “ When Violence Is The Answer” is the key to opening the door on your journey of self protection. Don’t delay or one day it may be too late!!

  • @raymondjuliano1390
    @raymondjuliano1390 8 лет назад +5

    Excellent presentation...altho difficult to accept, we need to look at violence like that...Tim tells it like it really is...no sugar coating, as your life will often depend on knowing the truth about violence and how and when to use it.

  • @speedbuggy16v
    @speedbuggy16v 3 года назад +2

    great video, things to remember if you have to fight, fight like a cornered cat, and speed, surprise, and violence of action. No one is going to save you but YOU.

  • @joanneyankovich8787
    @joanneyankovich8787 8 лет назад +30

    An excellent talk. This information saved my life.

  • @ethanr.4992
    @ethanr.4992 4 года назад

    Probably first and only ted talk i have liked, not for the violent nature, but the analytical, teaching, spread the wisdom kind of talk.
    (P.S. look at the guys wikipedia page it has a hidden gem.)

  • @EpicBunty
    @EpicBunty 6 лет назад

    This was a surprisingly nice and eye opening presentation. Self defence for the masses! if only we all could protect ourselves

  • @lyndafrizzell6707
    @lyndafrizzell6707 8 лет назад

    As always, Tim tells it like it is. The truth is not candy-coated, but a reality we all face on a daily basis. I've read and purchased several of his training videos. They are well worth the time and money. To everyone watching this Ted Talk: be prepared, stay safe.

  • @ThePuff18
    @ThePuff18 Год назад +2

    Violence is never a solution. Its a question. And the answer is yes.
    -Sun Tzu

  • @victorhurtado6523
    @victorhurtado6523 8 лет назад +1

    The unasked question is thoroughly and undoubtedly answered in 17:11 minutes.

  • @missnikitas8316
    @missnikitas8316 8 месяцев назад

    Excelente ,impresionante su punto de vista ,real ,gran profesional ,sigue salvando vidas ,gracias

  • @bryankeegan2331
    @bryankeegan2331 8 лет назад

    Survival must be the primary motive...well done!

  • @cassandro9445
    @cassandro9445 2 года назад

    Thanks so much, I really needed this.

  • @DeerAgeGuy
    @DeerAgeGuy 8 лет назад +2

    Great presentation Tim!

  • @Kyusoath
    @Kyusoath 7 лет назад +1

    Thank you Mr Larkin.

  • @stefanuskedang911
    @stefanuskedang911 2 года назад

    honest explaination, thank you sir !

  • @rickdamico7146
    @rickdamico7146 8 лет назад

    Tim Larkin's training is the only self defense system that really works and will save your life. Awesome!

  • @rickporter1869
    @rickporter1869 8 лет назад +34

    It's about time someone has the guts to call it like it is!
    I really don't care if it isn't politically correct to state that, "If you are dealing with a sociopath, who is either going to plead that he was insaine when he committed a crime against you, or that he wasn't responsible, when he commited a crime against you, because he has a horrible childhood, you should be able to state that you were well within your rights to respond to this sociopath's attack with equal and opposit force, because you didn't want to be killed, injured or maimed by an insane, or damaged person, who also feels they are well within their rights to distroy you! I'm fed up with the attitude that we should let violence happen, and live with the consequences, while the crimminal element run's wild and fills our jails to capacity and then complains that our jails are overcrowded! They are overcrowded, so stop committing acts of violence and they won't be!
    I supposedly have the right to defend myself! I think Mr. Larkin knows exactly what I need to do to accomplish that, and let's see congress try and pass a law saying I can't do that, because with the way thing's are going in this country, the right to bear arms is a lost cause! Let's hope we still have the right to protect our lives from a criminal who want's it!

    • @MrGospelGuitar
      @MrGospelGuitar 8 лет назад +2

      Rick Porter I understand how you feel. Here's my solution. I've already decided if I have to hurt someone in a asocial situation I'm just going to walk away. The police probably won't care anyway because he was a career criminal and got what he deserved and any witnesses won't want to get involved because they will assume it was gang related. Also I live in LA County so I can't get a CCW anyway but since I don't live in a bad area I don't worry about it too much. But if I didn't live in a good area and I needed to carry I'd do like the Nike commercial says and JUST DO IT. Better tried by 12 than carried by 6.

    • @rickporter1869
      @rickporter1869 8 лет назад +3

      I'd love to walk away also, but what we are both talking about is, "What if you can't walk away? What if this sociopath just will not consider you walking away an option? What then? Let him kill you? I lived in LA for 15 years, and walked away a lot, and mainly was lucky enough to be aware enough to walk before I didn't have a choice, but lately it's getting harder and harder to walk away!

    • @MrGospelGuitar
      @MrGospelGuitar 8 лет назад +3

      Rick Porter
      I meant walk away after you kill or maim him. Don't call the police and wait for them to come and take a report and arrest you.

    • @lordscrub
      @lordscrub 8 лет назад

      MrGospelGuitar I hope I don't sound like a horrible person for saying this but your comment was funny as hell man

    • @MrGospelGuitar
      @MrGospelGuitar 8 лет назад +1

      To lordscrub. No, you don't sound like a horrible person at all. In fact to survive asocial violence directed at you, you have to become an asocial animal yourself. The difference between you and a predatory criminal is after you render him non functional by becoming a asocial predatory animal and descend to his level to do what you have to do to survive you can rejoin the world of normal people afterwards just like nothing ever happened. The asocial predatory criminal can never be a normal human being with feelings and concern for his fellow human beings. He will always be a predatory criminal.

  • @davidkeck1878
    @davidkeck1878 8 лет назад +2

    Those that have never encountered true asocial violence truly cannot fathom the truth behind Tim's words. Most people want to feel that they are good moral people and therefore nothing like this should ever happen to them. Unfortunately that is the exact mindset that a predator will depend on.

  • @mikebarcikowski1691
    @mikebarcikowski1691 3 года назад

    Tim-as always great advice-victim or victor-choose victor in any of these situations instinctively

  • @masterplumbermark
    @masterplumbermark 7 лет назад +2

    That was a great talk... I wish Tim could have gone on for another 15 minutes....

  • @jfilm7466
    @jfilm7466 3 года назад

    Thank you, Tim.

  • @marianwalker7461
    @marianwalker7461 8 лет назад +5

    Great presentation--I only wish it was longer!

  • @HarryD831
    @HarryD831 8 лет назад

    Very well presented. Mindset makes the master in all confrontations.

  • @Spockfucious
    @Spockfucious 3 года назад

    Simply excellent.

  • @BHarris25
    @BHarris25 Месяц назад

    “It is better to be a warrior in a garden, than a gardener in a war.” Miyamoto Musashi

  • @CenterTree777
    @CenterTree777 8 лет назад +20

    Your mind is a powerful weapon. Use it. Good video.

    • @jvincent6548
      @jvincent6548 5 лет назад +1

      The pen is mightier than the sword. The tweet is mightier than the pen!

  • @wallrider73
    @wallrider73 8 лет назад +6

    I've studied martial arts since I was a kid and in the last few years my focus has been on personal protection. The information in this talk is gold. I've never trained with Tim or in his system but I would jump at the chance now. Forget the step by step Jason Bourne fantasies in a lot of krav type classes; the mindset Tim presents here is invaluable.

    • @aaronr.2974
      @aaronr.2974 7 лет назад

      Grab his book if you can. It's life changing.

    • @wallrider73
      @wallrider73 7 лет назад

      DAVID BARON Huh? You lost me there pal.

    • @paulyhart
      @paulyhart 7 лет назад +1

      yeah. a month in a muy thai kali training camp or tim... either one.

    • @jvincent6548
      @jvincent6548 5 лет назад

      They're ain't no martians I keep telling you, at least none that are artists!

  • @Tmm2Fantomo
    @Tmm2Fantomo 9 лет назад

    Never thought about it that way

  • @n.randall6152
    @n.randall6152 4 года назад

    One of the most helpful Ted Talks.

  • @EricMerolaFilms
    @EricMerolaFilms 3 месяца назад

    Thank you!

  • @douglasgerber2276
    @douglasgerber2276 8 лет назад

    Would have been nice to hear the audience responses to some of his questions. It is like someone's "A ha" moment. Great presentation though. It is something we often do not think about or consider. Even though I carry a handgun, there are times where it may not be suitable or available. Knowing hand to hand combat techniques are something you have with you always.

  • @franciscolima5892
    @franciscolima5892 2 года назад +1

    I’m here after reading the book!🔥🔥

  • @SarasotaHomesChannel
    @SarasotaHomesChannel 8 лет назад +1

    As always your talks, demonstrations and video's are great! Thanks again!!

  • @MrEdium
    @MrEdium 4 года назад +2

    THIS IS THE PERFECT ANSWER TO WHY YOU NEED TO NOT JUST STUDY BUT TO USE HIS SYSTEM WITH A CLEAR CONSCIOUS. THANK YOU SIR.

  • @richardwatts8832
    @richardwatts8832 25 дней назад

    Real wisdom for people.

  • @michaelgutterres3439
    @michaelgutterres3439 8 лет назад

    Life saving information.

  • @pedrosolis8608
    @pedrosolis8608 8 лет назад

    Amazing perspective on a very unpleasant subject from a leading expert. I believe this to be highly valuable and immediately useful information. Thank you Mr. Larkin!

  • @robertmcbride3
    @robertmcbride3 5 лет назад +1

    Tim trained me 15 years ago. He is the real deal.

    • @vitoratio2718
      @vitoratio2718 5 лет назад

      How much live sparring have you done since then?

  • @frontsquats
    @frontsquats 2 года назад +1

    This is why I love Tim Kennedy. He was a high level UFC fighter, but also understands true violence. Tim Kennedy knows how to make soup.