Shuler King - She Wanted Him To Pay For Everybody

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  • Опубликовано: 28 дек 2024

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  • @crownedroyalty5991
    @crownedroyalty5991 2 года назад +2648

    I’m a 42 year old woman and I don’t understand these young girls either. Even if someone is paying for me I don’t go nowhere without my money in my pocket. WHO THE HELL GOT 18 FRIENDS PERIOD????🤣

    • @corenecarter7934
      @corenecarter7934 2 года назад

      …any idiot who tells people there’s a free meal.

    • @monicamackey4122
      @monicamackey4122 2 года назад +217

      She got them fake folk who tagging along to use her like that little girl trying to use this dude and he schooled her perfectly

    • @tashawoods7807
      @tashawoods7807 2 года назад +122

      Always bring money for yourself..u never know if you'll need it or not

    • @trishacollymore4397
      @trishacollymore4397 2 года назад +87

      Facts, this a life lesson...getting embarrassed. I've seen girls get left at Denny's for this

    • @jrwolf7319
      @jrwolf7319 2 года назад +160

      All 19 of them are broke together...that's why they're friends!!!

  • @joemomma3208
    @joemomma3208 2 года назад +4391

    He should “pay” all of them no attention & leave them right where they’re at. 💯

  • @ashleyaustin672
    @ashleyaustin672 2 года назад +2282

    She's selfish and highly immature to assume that he would pay for 10+ people. That's something you discuss beforehand.

    • @DHigable
      @DHigable 2 года назад +125

      There “is” no discussion for something like that.

    • @deehawkins6793
      @deehawkins6793 2 года назад +46

      AMEN daniel h. The young and shameless. 🤡😡🤬🤡

    • @latoyajohnson8695
      @latoyajohnson8695 2 года назад +43

      WAY beforehand!!!

    • @latinchick21011
      @latinchick21011 2 года назад +106

      I wouldn't be surprised if she had promised her 18 friends that he was paying for everybody and then got her face cracked when he said nope!

    • @rozellswanson9170
      @rozellswanson9170 2 года назад +3

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  • @Here1965
    @Here1965 8 месяцев назад +49

    That's why so many of these new women are alone and will remain alone.😂😂😂😂

  • @godfavored5
    @godfavored5 2 года назад +941

    She was flossing with her friends and got embarrassed when he didn’t show out for all of them. Girl bye 👋 dismissed!

    • @ms.ladybug6186
      @ms.ladybug6186 2 года назад +26

      Exactly, and if you look at their faces I the background those girls are smirking & grinning😏 & already on their phones📱 probably posting it all👥👩‍💻...they are getting a kick out of it ...& More likely jealous of her anyway & not true friends..and the ones that will give crappy💩advice to ruing her relationship & they'll slide right in🏃🏽‍♀️👩‍❤️‍👨!.. those are the looks I'm seeing in the background..& she's so immature she wouldn't know the difference btwn friend & foe!👀🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @vanniyoung1
      @vanniyoung1 2 года назад +6

      That's exactly what happened. Now you won't have a man who will take you out.

    • @c.d.j300
      @c.d.j300 2 года назад +13

      And if he would've, some of em would've been in his DMs tugging on his belt when her back turned.

    • @sierramilan7410
      @sierramilan7410 2 года назад +11

      Got Embarrassed then tried to punk & embarass him

    • @reggiedixon2962
      @reggiedixon2962 2 года назад +2

      Well said!

  • @toniar8505
    @toniar8505 2 года назад +2250

    The fact that these friends are standing there watching this all unfold and not settling their own bills is beyond me. Im so happy I'm an adult and have adult friends.

    • @smoothmorrison7203
      @smoothmorrison7203 2 года назад +58

      Right. The waiting is what's astounding me. Me, I would have went in told them what I had and paid and took my happy a _ _ home ✌️❤️🍷.

    • @maxxbarzz
      @maxxbarzz 2 года назад +24

      In longer clips of this video the friends are even arguing with the boyfriend saying he wrong and calling him broke.

    • @shanawatson8440
      @shanawatson8440 2 года назад +57

      who knows she probably made them think that was the plan for him to pay...I blame her for all of it, putting him on the spot like that!!! that's crazy!!!!

    • @toniar8505
      @toniar8505 2 года назад +14

      @@maxxbarzz wow really?

    • @toniar8505
      @toniar8505 2 года назад +3

      @@smoothmorrison7203 okay!!!!!

  • @stephanie8202
    @stephanie8202 2 года назад +2569

    SHULER, I agree with everything you said. When people show you who they are... BELIEVE THEM!!!

    • @theessenceofsuccess888
      @theessenceofsuccess888 2 года назад +26

      Say that, and more Stephanie thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @argerinejordan4703
      @argerinejordan4703 2 года назад +20

      Truth!!!

    • @Ms.Wanda60
      @Ms.Wanda60 2 года назад +35

      I bet her friends thinking just how stupid she looks for doing this......but they wouldn't have done it to their man🤣

    • @ebjay1
      @ebjay1 2 года назад +27

      Chilllllll this girl need to be schooled from the old schooled cuz this ain’t it.

    • @yekarahanne6200
      @yekarahanne6200 2 года назад +11

      AGREED!!!

  • @jackiegarvin8967
    @jackiegarvin8967 Год назад +71

    I’m 62 years old and back in the day, we made sure we had money to make a call in case of an emergency and cab fare to get home.

  • @daniellhead9269
    @daniellhead9269 2 года назад +1141

    The most powerful thing he said was…… you got 18 people with you, but you ain’t got 18 friends. CHURCH

    • @smoothmorrison7203
      @smoothmorrison7203 2 года назад +9

      😶 ✌️❤️🍷

    • @sylviaking87
      @sylviaking87 2 года назад +62

      That's right as soon as she gets away from them they will start talking about her like she's less than human. And it's a guaranteed 1 or 2 of them would be trying to get to him if he would let it happen.

    • @lovefelix1566
      @lovefelix1566 2 года назад +10

      Preach!!!

    • @saihemebillings2820
      @saihemebillings2820 2 года назад

      @@sylviaking87 trust me about half of those females don't like her and another half don't got a man lol she breaking up with her man in front of 18 females of half willing to sleep with her soon to be ex, such a dummy.

    • @theacartwright2504
      @theacartwright2504 2 года назад +10

      Yes lawd on this....

  • @moniquebrown1234
    @moniquebrown1234 2 года назад +782

    The fact that she made the statement " He's making her look broke in front of her friends!" BABY YOU ARE!!!! He is not obligated to pay for everyone. How are you trying to flex on somebody else pocket? GIRL BYE!!!

  • @angelheaven2826
    @angelheaven2826 2 года назад +1968

    They should have their own money, and pay for her too. I would have left all of them and her right there too.💯👌🏽

    • @Xayjohns
      @Xayjohns 2 года назад +34

      I would have taken my money and just gone somewhere and got my grub on without them

    • @angelheaven2826
      @angelheaven2826 2 года назад +7

      @@Xayjohns 💯💯😁

    • @sayitaintso7544
      @sayitaintso7544 2 года назад +29

      Yeah now this is what you call a "bye Felecia". its not even worth arguing over. Get your keys, get in your car and dont even look in the rear view mirror.

    • @deehawkins6793
      @deehawkins6793 2 года назад +13

      This should have wayyy more likes. FOH, she aint even built like that. 😂🤣hot ass mess.

    • @markdavis6039
      @markdavis6039 2 года назад +6

      Straight up facts

  • @mickiamajor8110
    @mickiamajor8110 2 года назад +326

    "People not being raised. Y'all just being kept"- Shuler King 💜

    • @WalkersWay-2024
      @WalkersWay-2024 8 месяцев назад +2

      !!!!!!!!!!! What a STATEMENT! And it’s all Shuler’s! So much TRUTH!

    • @lbell5185
      @lbell5185 7 месяцев назад +1

      Raised to believe they're some kind of Princess.

  • @corenecarter7934
    @corenecarter7934 2 года назад +440

    Clearly she told her friends, “C,mon y’all, my man got dis”. Brotha should stop talking, walk away and give those two gifts in his hand to someone who’ll appreciate them: his mother or grandmother.

    • @YBK_Sauze
      @YBK_Sauze 2 года назад +3

      What if the gifts are panties 👀😭

    • @KC-qr3wk
      @KC-qr3wk 2 года назад

      @@YBK_Sauze Moms and grandmas need panties too.

    • @novaiamme8705
      @novaiamme8705 2 года назад +7

      Yep she definitely told them he’s gonna pay

    • @ritaagbor7487
      @ritaagbor7487 2 года назад +2

      Word

    • @jackbo3070
      @jackbo3070 2 года назад +2

      Well said!

  • @thepatshowonwp
    @thepatshowonwp 2 года назад +295

    Something similar happened to me recently. I treated a friend to lunch for her birthday and she brought two extra people. I separated the check, bought her lunch and kept it moving. No more birthday lunches for her.

    • @deboraford1549
      @deboraford1549 2 года назад +27

      Good for you! You did the right thing 👏 🙌
      She'll know next time with someone else she try that foolishness on.

    • @jerjorju
      @jerjorju 2 года назад +12

      👏🏾👏🏾

    • @turonhayes1518
      @turonhayes1518 Год назад +10

      In my Charles Edward Murphy voice No more lunches for you 😚 bye bye!!

    • @MelvinaEthridge
      @MelvinaEthridge 9 месяцев назад +3

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @keimorgan5654
      @keimorgan5654 8 месяцев назад +4

      That was rude. 😒

  • @venus2361
    @venus2361 9 месяцев назад +30

    They are all damn foolish for expecting this man to pay for dinner meals for ALL.

  • @pauljordan1080
    @pauljordan1080 Год назад +41

    I'm not even about to argue, this relationship is terminated ✌️ out 😂😂😂😂

  • @msfavored3052
    @msfavored3052 2 года назад +585

    She called each and every one of them and said, “watch me make this sucka pay for all of us!” The reason she doing all of that shaking and arguing, he made her look like the sucka. 😂😂😂😂

    • @treetop1283
      @treetop1283 2 года назад +40

      Exactly! Thought she had a simp and dude flipped it on her and made her look like she isn’t the “bad b***h” she claims to be to her friends.

    • @ritaagbor7487
      @ritaagbor7487 2 года назад +5

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Typeshi77
      @Typeshi77 2 года назад +6

      U right 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @ritaagbor7487
      @ritaagbor7487 2 года назад +1

      She's the sucker now

    • @XMAN4708
      @XMAN4708 2 года назад

      WWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW

  • @lh6784
    @lh6784 2 года назад +894

    I don't think this woman cares about her man. There is no way I would have my significant other going in debt for all those grown people. They were not his responsibility. They all should have made an allotment for a meal along with the money they spent on hair, makeup, and dresses.

    • @lannettelewis3848
      @lannettelewis3848 2 года назад +37

      Abso..damn..lutely lol. This is the most sensible comment posted

    • @lh6784
      @lh6784 2 года назад +10

      @@lannettelewis3848 Thank u..lol

    • @deehawkins6793
      @deehawkins6793 2 года назад +35

      He's a TRICK to her, NOT her man.

    • @RBZ-1
      @RBZ-1 2 года назад +31

      Exactly! No woman that resepcts and cares about her man, would ever do this. I would imagine she would not even want any of those skeezers anywhere around a man she really cared about.

    • @otisnicksion2405
      @otisnicksion2405 2 года назад +8

      Facts smh

  • @mellimel1174
    @mellimel1174 2 года назад +359

    “That bag is fake, then shoes fake, and that outfit is coming outta Rainbow”. Tell ‘em Shuler.🤣

  • @TheWellnessAmbassador1970
    @TheWellnessAmbassador1970 2 года назад +57

    in my younger days invited a young lady out for drinks and when I got there she invited 6 other female friends👀👀 I knew immediately she didn't give a damn about me...so I politely took all their drink orders with enthusiasm "expensive as hell"... headed to the bar to get the drinks...place the order, on my way back to the table, took a slight detour and took me a taxi home...she called later ....left a voice note cussin me out....played it 10 times..lol....what an enjoyable night🤣😂🤣🤣

  • @anthonygillespie7233
    @anthonygillespie7233 2 года назад +478

    Almost had the same thing happen to me at a casino. Met this woman and she asked me if she could join me for dinner. I noticed she asked me how many and how much comps I had on my card. I told her I had enough to cover our meals. Next thing I know, she's calling her brother, sisters, and cousins to join us and told them I would take care of their meals, (without even asking me if I mine). Well guess what, I waited until they all were seated, at their tables and then I walked out and went back to my room and ordered room service. Don't know what the outcome was for their meals, but I told the host what the situation was and told her not to charge anything to my card. She understood and even agreed with me.

    • @wegotthis247
      @wegotthis247 2 года назад +61

      HILARIOUS!!! And that was the best move to make!!!

    • @anthonygillespie7233
      @anthonygillespie7233 2 года назад +21

      @@wegotthis247 Dam right it was !!! lol

    • @chrissyh3270
      @chrissyh3270 2 года назад +30

      No ma'am you cannot join me for dinner or lunch or coffee.

    • @zaya187
      @zaya187 2 года назад +12

      Sounds like vegas

    • @kendrill220
      @kendrill220 2 года назад +10

      Amen! You got me bent. Lol
      Not today

  • @awakenedbeauti4977
    @awakenedbeauti4977 2 года назад +694

    She probably is the same type of female to call herself a "Boss B****". Pay for your entourage BOSS!!!!!

    • @chalkywhite2598
      @chalkywhite2598 2 года назад +37

      Exactly… and you know they was drinking too lol

    • @weezyg5084
      @weezyg5084 2 года назад +19

      😂😂😂 right!!!

    • @kittycat1004
      @kittycat1004 2 года назад +25

      She a grown independent woman, however she depends on a man to pay for her entourage 🤣🤣🤣 # delusional
      Are they sister wives to your man?
      # crazyyyy

    • @wnbglurk5300
      @wnbglurk5300 2 года назад +4

      she finna be fnf now

    • @foxxyldyfrca
      @foxxyldyfrca 2 года назад

      Bawhahaha, right!

  • @skytoni8825
    @skytoni8825 2 года назад +493

    I'm not even paying for 18 of my family members to eat out lol especially if they invited themselves

    • @tashumbriamiller
      @tashumbriamiller 2 года назад +20

      I don't even have 18 friends and family (unless you count kids) that I would invite to a party, let alone pay for!

    • @blizz1004
      @blizz1004 2 года назад +15

      Factz. Mom dad brother and my daughter lol that's all

    • @latoyajohnson8695
      @latoyajohnson8695 2 года назад +3

      I know that’s right!!

    • @mzlexxus0314
      @mzlexxus0314 2 года назад +6

      Preach...I'll do 2 but not the remaining 16

    • @denisemitchell7796
      @denisemitchell7796 2 года назад

      True

  • @thecraftyrn
    @thecraftyrn 2 года назад +51

    She's crazy!!!! I would never expect my man to pay for my friends. I feel they should pay for mine if it's my birthday!!!

  • @reel1tv587
    @reel1tv587 2 года назад +737

    This is so sad that she even thought that it was OK to ask her "bf", in reality she doesn't actually care about him, to pay for almost 20 people the SHE brought with her. This woman is the worse type of person.

    • @pamelabranch7438
      @pamelabranch7438 2 года назад +35

      18 broke friends. A dam shame.

    • @fitawrarifitness6842
      @fitawrarifitness6842 2 года назад +15

      Almost 20? Him her and 18 friends is 20

    • @zoriya7224
      @zoriya7224 2 года назад +6

      Yeah, I don't like them either. Guess I roll different cause when I went out with my friends, they usually paid for me, not the other way around.

    • @AJWise
      @AJWise 2 года назад +23

      Because she doesn't respect him at all and she probably been playing him.

    • @reel1tv587
      @reel1tv587 2 года назад +19

      @@AJWise she's playing herself she'll never find a good dude with type of mentality.

  • @leviticusashley4447
    @leviticusashley4447 2 года назад +585

    "Free Birthday Parties" are for the chillren! Once you grown, let your friends know they got to pay for their own 😏

    • @latoyajohnson8695
      @latoyajohnson8695 2 года назад +6

      OKAY…or at the very least help pitch in

    • @LS-pc5ur
      @LS-pc5ur 2 года назад +14

      They should know that already. WTH? 😒🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @jacquelineedwards9550
      @jacquelineedwards9550 2 года назад +2

      Word!

    • @tinkthestrange
      @tinkthestrange 2 года назад +15

      Unless SHE had a catered event and SHE paid in advance. It’s her party after all. She could have rented a venue and hired a caterer if she wanted her friends to eat for free. Bums

    • @smoothmorrison7203
      @smoothmorrison7203 2 года назад +1

      I know that's right. ✌️❤️🍷

  • @decoypeak
    @decoypeak 2 года назад +434

    Does anyone else realise how weird it sounds demanding that someone else pay for your food. YOUR FOOD!

    • @bullydakidd2023
      @bullydakidd2023 2 года назад

      They're waiting because they have "gamed" other fools into paying for all their dinner bills before. When she picked this dude to go out, she thought he was a thirsty Simp who would be foolish enough to pay their bills just for a chance to sleep with her. And if he would've paid the bill, she would've ghosted him and gone sleep with her thug dude who doesn't buy her anything

    • @onlyfacts077
      @onlyfacts077 2 года назад +10

      Yes. Could you imagine if this was reversed? I can't even comprehend it

    • @ENYPolyglot
      @ENYPolyglot 2 года назад +4

      Exactly!!!!

    • @mastabla3ta684
      @mastabla3ta684 2 года назад +2

      Thay gets disguised by "be a real man"

    • @mzprince4139
      @mzprince4139 Год назад

      My bf's absolutely took me out on my birthday, and paid for everything for me. It is absolutely delusional for her to request that he pick up the entire tab, unless he is a professional athlete, and even then it's not something you spring on someone.

  • @ljeffrey76
    @ljeffrey76 2 года назад +105

    Her friends have the audacity to stand there as if they're waiting for the man to pay the bill. Those girls are delusional.

    • @turonhayes1518
      @turonhayes1518 Год назад +1

      These GIRLS add lil girls playing dress up even Barbie had her own lil plastic card LITTLE GIRLS
      UGH 😣 😑😑😑😑😑😑😒😒

    • @kathreeauguste9391
      @kathreeauguste9391 8 месяцев назад +1

      Can you imagine 😂 this is ridiculous 😂 He only owe her, that’s it.

    • @turnerm7000
      @turnerm7000 8 месяцев назад +1

      In one of the girls defense, who wasn't shown on camera, you can see she tried to pull her hand as to say come on let's go but the girl pulled her hand away and keep talking to the guy.

    • @herecomesdatrain
      @herecomesdatrain 8 месяцев назад

      I noticed that too​@@turnerm7000

    • @deniseberman8633
      @deniseberman8633 5 месяцев назад

      Well I’ll be kind but smells like lowlife ghetto nonsense. There’re probably unemployed or unemployable!🤣

  • @starrababy31
    @starrababy31 2 года назад +292

    She wanted to stunt on her friends and ended up getting embarrassed for her birthday 🤦🏾‍♀️😂😂😂

    • @austinellois1455
      @austinellois1455 2 года назад +5

      🤣 🤦

    • @zee_lolaj7382
      @zee_lolaj7382 2 года назад +2

      Yep

    • @degrees-ls2qw
      @degrees-ls2qw 2 года назад +1

      2 Little Ceaser’s Pizzas and 1 Liters of Coke ! Rainbow? Hell ya ! They take EBT and don’t sell food ! “ Girl , it’s your birthday, I’m going to take you shopping on me , I got the Goodwill store on lock ! Your birthday falls on 80% off Friday and you can spend a whole $20 and donate the change. No Burger King today! Because it’s your birthday it’s Wendy’s and we can sit down and eat , nope , you don’t have stand outside my car to finish that meal today,you can sit down and eat . Your man is going all out ! I only spent $7 when I met you and $5 went on gas . You are moving up baby and I’m proud of you.

    • @barbaraissac5029
      @barbaraissac5029 2 года назад

      Yep

    • @ImJustSayingBTW
      @ImJustSayingBTW 2 месяца назад

      Smh

  • @Sarai_144
    @Sarai_144 2 года назад +267

    You had me crying … “your whole outfit is $31” lol

  • @DADEFUYE
    @DADEFUYE 2 года назад +843

    She's the type of woman that wants you to bring food for her other kids.

  • @saundreayoung9171
    @saundreayoung9171 2 года назад +49

    You are 100% correct. All that hair could pay for her so-called “friends”. Ladies, don’t use or abuse good men. They are as precious as good women

  • @kymberlyporter7337
    @kymberlyporter7337 2 года назад +73

    I’m 44 .. and my mom (rest her soul) always told me about having my own… so if I have a man.. fine! If I don’t have a man.. fine!! Every time I went on a little date she said “make sure you have money to get home, and loose change to use a pay phone (old skool..lol)” she called it “mad money” if he get mad for whatever reason he can’t leave you stranded!! I love and miss my mom & dad❤️🥰

    • @anitabouldin6602
      @anitabouldin6602 2 года назад +5

      Amen Sis no other way to roll!!! You foolish if you do....

    • @amsunkiss7629
      @amsunkiss7629 2 года назад +6

      I love it! Mad money yep you gotta be prepared

    • @woodamck
      @woodamck 2 года назад +7

      You had real parents for sure

    • @nitroluskincaid
      @nitroluskincaid 2 года назад

      Moms hitchu with that good Wisdom!! 💯👏🏽🙏🏽 "Mad Money!!" MF get mad and wanna act up and leave you stranded... You can always get home! Very Wise!! 😉👍🏽

    • @sowyzsewing3993
      @sowyzsewing3993 Год назад +4

      Exactly! "Mad Money."
      I got that information as well. Miss you Moma and your wisdom.

  • @patriciap5355
    @patriciap5355 2 года назад +19

    My husband always says, “That’s the difference between a woman and a girl.”

  • @RockyDaTherapist
    @RockyDaTherapist 2 года назад +281

    I had a group of coworkers get mad because I didn’t want to split the check evenly when my meal was $20 and each of them spent $40 plus extra for alcohol. Every dinner there after we all paid for our own food.

    • @arleneaugustahair8393
      @arleneaugustahair8393 2 года назад +61

      I don’t do split checks. I pay my way and so will everyone else. F that!

    • @necishin3353
      @necishin3353 2 года назад +36

      And they are typically the ones that will RUN the server all night, then barely tip 10%!
      I don't care who I'm dining with, we need separate checks, because I'm not paying for any of your incidentals and I don't expect anyone to pay for mine. Separate checks please. Period. Full stop.

    • @necishin3353
      @necishin3353 2 года назад +36

      I typically tip well. I had a friend who wanted to know how much I was tipping so that she could tip less off my bigger tip.
      No boo...tip on YOUR CHECK. Uggh
      Tipping is part of eating out...If you cannot afford to tip, then you cannot afford to eat out.

    • @ShugerPlum0263
      @ShugerPlum0263 2 года назад +19

      And that was best. I ask for separate checks when certain folks come out to eat. You always got those trying to be slick and ordering the most expensive items they normally wouldn't thinking we're splitting the check evenly. Not

    • @G0dismabestfren
      @G0dismabestfren 2 года назад +16

      I should have done this with my one outting with coworkers. I didn't make a big deal about it but I spent more than I should have because we split the check and I was the only one who got soda and not a drink. I had a best friend at the time have a birthday get together. Her other best friend came late with a guy and they spent the most money on food then said to split the check. I think I have whatever I knew I spent my money on which was like 25 bucks including tip. The funny thing is those would be the same people to call you selfish but don't see their acts as selfish behaviour when it is. Why come and spend almost 100 in food and expect people to split that with you? I ate one meal and had a soda or water.

  • @soniapinkney1342
    @soniapinkney1342 10 месяцев назад +8

    My Daddy taught me and my 4 sisters this lesson .
    Thank you Dad ! 🖤🤎🖤🤎

  • @atlnla4112
    @atlnla4112 2 года назад +427

    They ate at Maggiano’s, which isn’t that cheap and most of them have to-go bags so they ordered a lot so they could take some home. That’s definitely wrong for expecting him to pay for all that without establishing that upfront.

    • @heathertea2704
      @heathertea2704 2 года назад +26

      I ate there one Thanksgiving, and it Wasn't cheap for a Chain restaurant.

    • @arleneaugustahair8393
      @arleneaugustahair8393 2 года назад +25

      Wait! So they were done eating, what’s the argument about? Apparently, they paid their own way so the conversation shouldn’t even be discussed.

    • @mzturtle7673
      @mzturtle7673 2 года назад +9

      Maybe they ordered the meals that come with one to go.

    • @jarrettharper2906
      @jarrettharper2906 2 года назад

      Mafia is is actually cheap, that shit ain’t fine dining at all. One step above Olive Garden actually! Shit get expensive cuz mofos wanna get apps and drink liquor!

    • @tinkthestrange
      @tinkthestrange 2 года назад +23

      @@arleneaugustahair8393 maybe she felt embarrassed because they had to pay for themselves.

  • @MsAngelvoice1
    @MsAngelvoice1 2 года назад +226

    I'm with you Shuler. My mama always told me be able to pay your OWN way. EVEN if someone asks you out have your own money and way home. I have tought my kids the same.

    • @samlewis6615
      @samlewis6615 2 года назад +5

      EXACTLY!!

    • @KandyJohnson1
      @KandyJohnson1 2 года назад +11

      Same! I don’t even step out my door 🚪 if I ain’t got my own.

    • @deehawkins6793
      @deehawkins6793 2 года назад +2

      PREACH!!!! Yessss THIS!

    • @xenakaii3922
      @xenakaii3922 2 года назад +3

      This is Going out 101!!

    • @eciliaenelson6293
      @eciliaenelson6293 2 года назад +4

      Amen. Granny always said to have vex money😃😃😃

  • @tysonhawkins7349
    @tysonhawkins7349 2 года назад +153

    She told her so called friends that her man was gonna pay. Otherwise most of them wouldn't have even showed up. She should've discussed that with him first.

    • @ReadyorNot811
      @ReadyorNot811 2 года назад

      Lmao

    • @sadiefrazier9314
      @sadiefrazier9314 2 года назад +11

      Right cause all them not her friends

    • @tiffday41
      @tiffday41 2 года назад +11

      @@sadiefrazier9314 right they standing there trying to see the outcome so they can go hit him up soon as she leaves. I don't know nobody that have 18 true friends.

    • @timmythetooth7924
      @timmythetooth7924 2 года назад

      Shouldn’t even been thought 💭 of a Conversation about this .. Common Sense Should have answered that ? …TF .. 😳

    • @zee_lolaj7382
      @zee_lolaj7382 2 года назад

      Boom👌🏿

  • @deborahhayes7572
    @deborahhayes7572 Год назад +28

    She is ridiculously crazy to think that this man should pay for 20 people!!!

  • @Qmorrison1017
    @Qmorrison1017 2 года назад +151

    "That Whole Outfit Come Outta RAINBOW" 🤦🏿🤣🤣🤣🤣 Shuler a WHOLE DAMN FOOL 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @andimurray2896
    @andimurray2896 2 года назад +189

    And if it was that serious, why didn't her 18 friends take her out and pay for her lunch/dinner??? They ain't her friends either!!!

    • @doreengibbs-gifford1215
      @doreengibbs-gifford1215 2 года назад +6

      That part?? 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @yutashajohnson6988
      @yutashajohnson6988 2 года назад +9

      Because she probably told them that he was taking them dinner for her bday. And he didn't get that memo...she assumed he'd be down with that. Smh

    • @janedough6410
      @janedough6410 2 года назад +1

      The entire story doesn't add up. Why would he be among 18 women? Most guys would say.... Nah! Go with your friends and have a good time. We will do something later? Did he go expecting a meal too? Did he try to piggyback off of this event, so that he doesn't have to do anything, or did he plan something privately and 18 women showed up? Which is more likely? If you know you don't have the funds, why go?

    • @lesliemelton1100
      @lesliemelton1100 2 года назад +2

      @@janedough6410
      Most likely he was aware of all the other guests, but he wasn't aware of the fact that he would be footing the bill for the entire party. And there was at least one other man in her party that looked like he was having words with her BF.

    • @janedough6410
      @janedough6410 2 года назад

      @@lesliemelton1100 Yeah... he told the BF he could have at least paid for his GF meal. The BF's response, "She makes the check, now spend it". Someone this inconsiderate on your birthday, most likely wouldn't pick up a tab for 18 people. The GF was delusional (if true) thinking he would on her birthday.

  • @kimberlywilliams4847
    @kimberlywilliams4847 2 года назад +119

    He needs to walk away from this relationship. Her friends standing back there expecting him to pay for their meals...completely ridiculous!! She and her friends got a lot to learn. If her friends were truly respectful of her, her birthday, her relationship with her man, they would pull her aside and assure her that they can & should pay for their own food! Get it right girls!!!

    • @janedough6410
      @janedough6410 2 года назад +1

      Most likely they did because the video takes place after eating. Either the birthday girl paid for it all, her friends or combined. The guy either paid for his own meal or NOTHING. He definitely didn't pay for his woman's meal. So if anyone needs to walk away it's her.

  • @Yogaismylife7
    @Yogaismylife7 Год назад +4

    18 FRIENDS 😮😳🤨 I have ONE BEST FRIEND, that’s all I need. PEOPLE are not LOYAL, PERIOD!!!

  • @cocodivababy36
    @cocodivababy36 2 года назад +636

    Shuler your speaking a good word brother a lot of people need to hear this. 👏🏾 👏🏾

    • @terrancetylers2040
      @terrancetylers2040 2 года назад +6

      Hell yeah he is

    • @JJ-wj6ur
      @JJ-wj6ur 2 года назад +3

      I agree with you ShulerKing. You said that right. Happy birthday by yourself. 👌🤣🤣🤣🤣👍🥰

    • @RelentlessDjango
      @RelentlessDjango 2 года назад +2

      You're***

    • @rw8303
      @rw8303 Год назад

      You said it. I second that, I don't like them ignant folks neither.

  • @francianawilliams494
    @francianawilliams494 2 года назад +94

    I had to school my father(May he Rest in Power) when I was younger going out on a date and I asked him for money, my father asked me why did I need money if the guy was taking me out, i told him it was “Mad Money” if the guy expected something from me because he was taking me out and I said NO, and he got “Mad” I had “Money” to come home. Since then, whenever I would go out on a date, my father would ALWAYS give me “Mad Money”. Love and Miss You Daddy!🥰🥰

    • @leeleea4164
      @leeleea4164 2 года назад +6

      Beautiful story ❤️

    • @blackcatlady2172
      @blackcatlady2172 2 года назад +4

      Love it!!

    • @johannees622
      @johannees622 2 года назад +3

      Nice! 👍🏽

    • @tacet21
      @tacet21 2 года назад +4

      Yes, this! My dad taught me about "mad money" when I was younger. I took it to heart, and never forgot!

    • @misskris117
      @misskris117 2 года назад +5

      We sistas definitely know about “mad money”. Older bw always taught me that before I was old enough to date.

  • @bernaclischurchill4463
    @bernaclischurchill4463 2 года назад +525

    You hit it right on the head, when you said that people who like money so much, never have any, and become angry when you will not pay for them. Unfortunately, I have a family member that fits that description. She knows that it is not supposed to be that way, but she is trying to show off for her friends, but now she is embarrassed.
    Ms. B. Churchill

    • @kittycat1004
      @kittycat1004 2 года назад +17

      This is also true with respect, ppl who disrespect others easily, demand respect . I see it in grown older folks, but as I digress, she get this behavior from her parents/ broke momma who told her men r supposed to do everythg financially for a woman. These type of women only offer u looks n body, cus u see how she start to act out in the streets when she can’t get her way, 🏃‍♀️ brother 🏃‍♀️

    • @jbw503619
      @jbw503619 2 года назад +16

      Yes, they believe they are entitled to everyone else’s money and may not even want to work for theirs.

    • @tarusnash9632
      @tarusnash9632 2 года назад +14

      I would have left her right there🏎

    • @LW97672
      @LW97672 2 года назад +16

      She probably told her friends “Girl yeah, he paying! My bae got money!” 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @prolific1518
      @prolific1518 2 года назад

      Yup nothing pisses off a broke woman more than her being unable to get in a man's pockets.

  • @Cynthia-jx7qi
    @Cynthia-jx7qi 2 года назад +88

    She done went and lost her ENTIRE mind 🙄 why he still standing there tryna explain why he ain’t gone pay for all 18 of her friends is beyond me. That’s time wasted that he will never get back. Girl BYE 👋🏽

    • @turonhayes1518
      @turonhayes1518 Год назад +5

      RIGHT walk off period

    • @deniseberman8633
      @deniseberman8633 5 месяцев назад +1

      I would’ve made my way to the bathroom and put the back door and tell the manager why!😳🤪😂

  • @bambam841ify
    @bambam841ify 2 года назад +196

    Simple: self entitlement, lack of basic understanding of how the world SHOULD work, and ZERO empathy for anybody but themselves.

    • @jacquelineedwards9550
      @jacquelineedwards9550 2 года назад +5

      Word!

    • @ibmortality1617
      @ibmortality1617 2 года назад +1

      That’s majority of women isn’t it?

    • @helenbobo1948
      @helenbobo1948 2 года назад +2

      @@ibmortality1617 Heck no! But I do know there's lots of "men" out there who want to come over to Netflix and chill at a lady's place and maybe a six pack when he knows she likes wine. 😆 I hear about them all the time.

    • @ibmortality1617
      @ibmortality1617 2 года назад +2

      @@helenbobo1948 good for you!

    • @bambam841ify
      @bambam841ify 2 года назад +4

      @@ibmortality1617 I feel it's the current generational mentality, not just gender specific 🤔

  • @LetsBeCivilShallWe
    @LetsBeCivilShallWe 2 года назад +89

    My dad always covered everything when we went out as a family. _But,_ when I started going out with friends and dating, he always told us to make sure we had our own. He’d send us with more than enough money to “Go, Get, and Get back”. He would have had our mom whoop the wheels off us, if we were any of these broke heifers in the background, waiting for another woman’s boyfriend to pay for our meal!

  • @temekamiller1584
    @temekamiller1584 2 года назад +47

    When he said the dress came out of RAINBOW I hollered‼️ $31 for the entire outfit and accessories ‼️😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @tamraholmes3082
      @tamraholmes3082 2 года назад

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @Dirtnap1986
      @Dirtnap1986 2 года назад

      Fashion Nova/Shein!! Fake gold and diamonds!! Cheap shoes!! But want to pop shit and talk about other women.

  • @mslarlo
    @mslarlo Год назад +6

    I happened to be hanging out one night and my bff was in town with her man and another couple. They found out it was my birthday weekend and from that moment on i didn't have to pay for ANYTHING and the one couple didn't even know me. Bottles and drink service and food came out of nowhere. THAT'S HOW GROWN FOLKS PLAY. These are kids. And honestly I'm glad that young man saw who he was really dealing with so he can move on and meet him a nice young woman who will appreciate the chivalry and a nice young man. These lil girls.. . Smdh

  • @saxyrep1
    @saxyrep1 2 года назад +71

    If I was one of the 18 friends, I'd have been embrassed and rejected the idea that this man could pay for my food. It's called pride and dignity. They ain't got none evidently...

  • @emzzzzz0998
    @emzzzzz0998 2 года назад +65

    I remember going out with my friends for there birthday…and we would all buy the birthday girls dinner. Meaning we would buy our food and then each of us would put a little in to pay for the bday girl…all these girls now want to be taken care of rather than working. 😂🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @csporter1
    @csporter1 2 года назад +61

    My grandmother used to say “you raise chickens, but you rear children.” So this young one was raised!

    • @tonyabela3799
      @tonyabela3799 2 года назад +2

      You missing the point. she plan this, so she can have a justifiable reason to break up with him cuz that's what she wanted to do anyway. this is premeditated.

    • @Erika-be9hq
      @Erika-be9hq 2 года назад +4

      I say reared also!! Lol

    • @Erika-be9hq
      @Erika-be9hq 2 года назад +2

      @@tonyabela3799 your position isn’t too far fetched. That must have been her plan because what she’s asking for is outlandish.

    • @lymarie1974
      @lymarie1974 2 года назад +1

      @@tonyabela3799 I had to think through what you said and I believe your correct. What a way to hurt and embarrass even emasculate him. But she is in the wrong.

    • @evelynad445
      @evelynad445 2 года назад +1

      My grandmother said the SAME thing.

  • @DISHYMESSIAH
    @DISHYMESSIAH 2 года назад +16

    I love how he wasn’t even talking about leaving her, as in breaking up, but that’s where she took it. They say one of the types of people that will tell you how they really feel are angry people. Hopefully he realizes that.

  • @jackbo3070
    @jackbo3070 2 года назад +167

    Pure embarrassment! I would have left her standing there and told her to lose my number. How in the hell are you going to argue with someone when you have no money yourself? Anyone defending this lady who is running her mouth is a straight ZERO like her! They literally add up to nothing.

    • @sharonfincher2032
      @sharonfincher2032 2 года назад +9

      Those are the same ladies that's gonna back door her ass, and slick get with her man, if I was him I would teach her a good lesson and show her who's really her friend.

    • @jackbo3070
      @jackbo3070 2 года назад +4

      @@sharonfincher2032 - Excellent point!

    • @turonhayes1518
      @turonhayes1518 Год назад +1

      @@sharonfincher2032 no need she taught him two things broke is as broke does birds of a feather ain’t no amount of pretty worth trying to compensate by petty. Ice all of them especially the slick I’m not like her the weaver before the choke NOPE 👎🏾

    • @LisaRIfill
      @LisaRIfill 9 месяцев назад +1

      You made laugh when you said "lose my number". Couldn't agree with you more.

  • @dabanjo
    @dabanjo 2 года назад +68

    Some wisdom there Shuler. If you go out to eat with someone, no matter the arrangement, make sure you have enough money to be able to pay your way. Never know what's gonna happen and the person you're with goes to the restroom and never comes back!

  • @DeJahMode
    @DeJahMode 2 года назад +13

    One of them going to end up sliding into his dm’s like “that was crazy huh?”.

  • @dorothywilliams5851
    @dorothywilliams5851 4 месяца назад +3

    He right and never go anywhere broke...period!!!💯🥰🥰🥰

  • @bosslady9108
    @bosslady9108 2 года назад +72

    Shuler didn't tell not one single lie. This new generation feels like someone is obligated to do all of this extra stuff for them.

    • @degrees-ls2qw
      @degrees-ls2qw 2 года назад +1

      2 Little Ceaser’s Pizzas and 1 Liters of Coke ! Rainbow? Hell ya ! They take EBT and don’t sell food ! “ Girl , it’s your birthday, I’m going to take you shopping on me , I got the Goodwill store on lock ! Your birthday falls on 80% off Friday and you can spend a whole $20 and donate the change. No Burger King today! Because it’s your birthday it’s Wendy’s and we can sit down and eat , nope , you don’t have stand outside my car to finish that meal today,you can sit down and eat . Your man is going all out ! I only spent $7 when I met you and $5 went on gas . You are moving up baby and I’m proud of you.

    • @degrees-ls2qw
      @degrees-ls2qw 2 года назад

      2 Little Ceaser’s Pizzas and 1 Liters of Coke ! Rainbow? Hell ya ! They take EBT and don’t sell food ! “ Girl , it’s your birthday, I’m going to take you shopping on me , I got the Goodwill store on lock ! Your birthday falls on 80% off Friday and you can spend a whole $20 and donate the change. No Burger King today! Because it’s your birthday it’s Wendy’s and we can sit down and eat , nope , you don’t have stand outside my car to finish that meal today,you can sit down and eat . Your man is going all out ! I only spent $7 when I met you and $5 went on gas . You are moving up baby and I’m proud of you.

    • @bosslady9108
      @bosslady9108 2 года назад +1

      @@degrees-ls2qw 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @ElamZ15
    @ElamZ15 2 года назад +550

    Her and her friends look real foolish, crazy af thinking anybody gonna pay their damn way, what kind of mess is this?!

    • @increasekru5123
      @increasekru5123 2 года назад +2

      He has to have paid for something like this before, this can't be the first time this has happened.

    • @thruthemotions
      @thruthemotions 2 года назад +6

      Whats crazy is... they're *her* friends. Not his.

    • @rondaallen7211
      @rondaallen7211 2 года назад +8

      @@increasekru5123 nope. i believe she told those girls to show up and now is whining to save face. she didn't have the money and she is putting it all on him.

    • @helenbobo1948
      @helenbobo1948 2 года назад +11

      @@increasekru5123 Nah. I think he's probably just been good to her. Probably bought her a few nice things and she (stupidly) thought he was a fool. She thought she had his nose wide open. She's one of those folks you can't be nice to. Takes his kindness for weakness.
      .

    • @increasekru5123
      @increasekru5123 2 года назад +3

      @@rondaallen7211 Everyone is entitled to their opinion but I can not believe she is acting this crazy, and he has never ever paid big money for her before, I could be wrong, but either way, that would my last day seeing her with that ignorance.

  • @darqueronin3935
    @darqueronin3935 2 года назад +53

    Conversation would've consisted of one word "No!" Then I would've just walked away, there's absolutely nothing there worth salvaging!

    • @follow-me-lead-the-way
      @follow-me-lead-the-way 2 года назад +2

      Like for real. Why he going back and forth

    • @tychris9464
      @tychris9464 2 года назад

      See, you could be missing out. 😏 Could be all 18 was gonna thank him personally🤣

  • @ericlee194
    @ericlee194 Год назад +4

    Take Shuler King to 1M subscribers please!!!

  • @bubble5335
    @bubble5335 2 года назад +96

    First of all, no one has “18” real “friends”. The older mature people get, the smaller their circle of friends get. Your could probably count them on one hand. Real friends would not expect someone’s significant other to pay for their meals.

    • @teachyou9779
      @teachyou9779 2 года назад +4

      Amen

    • @zuhalterei4090
      @zuhalterei4090 2 года назад +1

      I have paid for my wife and one or two of her friends because I can. But she wouldn’t invite 18 MFs

    • @bubble5335
      @bubble5335 2 года назад +4

      @@zuhalterei4090 that part!!!

    • @cherijones6722
      @cherijones6722 2 года назад +3

      SAY IT AGAIN!!! 👏🏼

  • @dandnclaxton
    @dandnclaxton 2 года назад +132

    “Them bags is fake, these shoes fake and those outfits came out of Rainbow. The whole outfit cost $31 and you talking about you independent.” 💯 😂

    • @valeriegadsden7898
      @valeriegadsden7898 2 года назад +5

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @thecoach11
      @thecoach11 2 года назад +3

      Clapback was epic 🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @BethLuv
      @BethLuv 2 года назад +2

      RAINBOW!!!!!🤣😜🤣

    • @LadiiBori
      @LadiiBori 2 года назад +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭

    • @danitasmith1245
      @danitasmith1245 2 года назад +3

      Why?......why?.....why?....you got me cracked and broke up laughing at this statement 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Mrs.Wright0727
    @Mrs.Wright0727 2 года назад +53

    "Not being raised, yall being kept." - Shuler King🙌🏾🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @catmama65
    @catmama65 2 года назад +12

    He's crazy for not turning around & walking away standing there arguing with her while her & freeloading friends stand there watching. They deserve each other!

  • @raginawright1708
    @raginawright1708 2 года назад +49

    He should’ve ordered pizza for her birthday so all her friends meal would be paid for😂😂😂😂

    • @BullishArms
      @BullishArms 2 года назад +1

      Everybody get a slice and a drink box 🤣🤣

  • @itz_akuma
    @itz_akuma 2 года назад +76

    You know how I spend my birthday .?? At home with a blunt. I keep it economical . 🥴🥴😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @RPYMCMB
      @RPYMCMB 2 года назад +6

      You’re the GOAT for that

    • @otismeotisme7987
      @otismeotisme7987 2 года назад +6

      Solo is the best., you keep all that GOLDEN energy.

    • @brivvy
      @brivvy 2 года назад +7

      Mine is coming up in two weeks and I feel you! ME AND MY DOG, I’m smoking and she will be probably nibbling on her foot or something - but we about to be aaaaaaallright!

    • @LevenLyfe
      @LevenLyfe 2 года назад +6

      I made my own sushi 🍣, fed my family and pulled out the projector 📽️ to watch movies in the backyard. Spending the day with my family was good enough

    • @otismeotisme7987
      @otismeotisme7987 2 года назад +2

      @@brivvy Brandon, have a GOLDEN KING Birthday, sendin cool vibes from San Jose,Ca

  • @dbethea50
    @dbethea50 2 года назад +243

    Hey Shuler. My wife and I, as well as another couple came to your 7pm show this past weekend in Houston @ the Improv. We sat directly off to stage steps to your left, you facing the audience. MAN YOU GAVE ME MORE THAN WHAT I PAID FOR THE TICKETS THAT NIGHT. I WANTED TO TELL YOU I HADN'T LAUGHED THAT CONSISTENTLY HARD AND A MANY YEARS WATCHING DIFFERENT STAND-UP COMEDIANS. YOU DID A GREAT DAMN JOB BROTHER! I WISH I COULD HAVE STAYED AFTER THE SHOW TO MEET YOU AND ALSO LET YOU KNOW I'M AN SCSU BULLDOG RIGHT THERE IN ORANGEBURG, SOUTH CAROLINA. IT WOULD HAVE BEEN GREAT TO CHAT WITH YOU, BUT HOPEFULLY THE NEXT TIME YOU COME TO HOUSTON I'LL GET THE CHANCE TO MEET YOU. KEEP MAKING US PROUD BRO!

    • @lanaboo98
      @lanaboo98 2 года назад +6

      I was there too. It was a great show.

    • @larryjonnson8093
      @larryjonnson8093 2 года назад +5

      Thanks Damon Bethea, Glad you enjoyed the show! But, Bro, why are you in the comments section yelling! Lol, my hears are ringing now! Lol, Please understand that *"when on the internet"* and interacting/communicating with others through *"comment sections and chat rooms",* typing in all *"Caps"* is the *"equivalence"* of yelling! Lol, going to have to go and take something for a headache now! 😂😂😂😁😂😁😂😅😅😅,

    • @victoriabrown6457
      @victoriabrown6457 2 года назад +1

      THIS! He was on it! Too funny. You weren't Mr. Tan Hat Guy were you? 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @degrees-ls2qw
      @degrees-ls2qw 2 года назад +1

      2 Little Ceaser’s Pizzas and 1 Liters of Coke ! Rainbow? Hell ya ! They take EBT and don’t sell food ! “ Girl , it’s your birthday, I’m going to take you shopping on me , I got the Goodwill store on lock ! Your birthday falls on 80% off Friday and you can spend a whole $20 and donate the change. No Burger King today! Because it’s your birthday it’s Wendy’s and we can sit down and eat , nope , you don’t have stand outside my car to finish that meal today,you can sit down and eat . Your man is going all out ! I only spent $7 when I met you and $5 went on gas . You are moving up baby and I’m proud of you.

    • @dbethea50
      @dbethea50 2 года назад +1

      @@victoriabrown6457 no, I wasn't. Enjoyed seeing US, enjoy US though..

  • @KINGDEVON16
    @KINGDEVON16 Год назад +3

    My 17yr. Old daughter through my Wife is like this when it come’s to her friend’s! The difference is that my wife take’s them out to eat, on trip’s and pay for the majority of everything. Sad thing is that they also have parents who don’t seem to send them out with money. I pay for our children only, not the friend’s. If it’s not family (Children, Niece’s, Nephew’s, etc.), don’t expect me to pay for nobody else’s children UNLESS I (not the children) invite them out.

  • @jaystew730
    @jaystew730 2 года назад +85

    After she said that he had the nerve to say, "Are you coming with me or are you staying with them?" Naw cuz still giving her too many options. I don't want her no more if that come out her mouth. I would have walked and told her, "Anything you had at my place will be on the porch waiting for you to come pick up"

    • @kittycat1004
      @kittycat1004 2 года назад

      Agreed , he seeing a whole 🚩 and saying however come this way, he putting up with a lot of her bs 😞 man get some self respect and ditch that bitch 😩

    • @TeamNoSide77
      @TeamNoSide77 2 года назад +13

      Fr. She would've been enjoying the rest of her night with them ✌🏾

    • @smoothmorrison7203
      @smoothmorrison7203 2 года назад +4

      No birthday D for her. 😂 I feel for you brothers today. ✌️❤️🍷

    • @godc1109
      @godc1109 2 года назад +8

      🤣🤣🤣 I was saying thru the whole vid, that would’ve been the end of us🤣 Remove the makeup, hair, clothes, relations, etc. she is who she just showed u, she was.

  • @dreamboy6434
    @dreamboy6434 2 года назад +90

    Finally someone speaking facts 💯

  • @FlexWheeler2nd
    @FlexWheeler2nd 2 года назад +235

    Definitely seeing the trend here: the Mom that got 5 kids, wanting one of the Dads to feed all of them, not just his own. The woman that brought the whole family to the blind date expecting the man to pay for all their food. I don’t know if it’s lack of parenting, bad economy that causing everyone to want a free meal, something in the water, maybe all of the above?!

    • @martigras8927
      @martigras8927 2 года назад +42

      It's gotta be SOMETHING because this bum behavior is looking contagious at this point 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @kittycat1004
      @kittycat1004 2 года назад +25

      Women r showing themselves up to be bums n it’s sad😩 the desperation is stifling

    • @mistercutright
      @mistercutright 2 года назад +17

      Wait....what woman brought her family on a blind date

    • @FlexWheeler2nd
      @FlexWheeler2nd 2 года назад +7

      @@mistercutright Shuler did a video about it maybe 9-12 months ago.

    • @cynthiaholland13
      @cynthiaholland13 2 года назад +4

      The one with the five kids was fake

  • @kf6182
    @kf6182 Год назад +2

    Amen to every word you said I wish I might want someone to pay for my friends food smh

  • @purplesoul9927
    @purplesoul9927 2 года назад +150

    All facts Shuler you right better tell em🎯

    • @degrees-ls2qw
      @degrees-ls2qw 2 года назад

      2 Little Ceaser’s Pizzas and 1 Liters of Coke ! Rainbow? Hell ya ! They take EBT and don’t sell food ! “ Girl , it’s your birthday, I’m going to take you shopping on me , I got the Goodwill store on lock ! Your birthday falls on 80% off Friday and you can spend a whole $20 and donate the change. No Burger King today! Because it’s your birthday it’s Wendy’s and we can sit down and eat , nope , you don’t have stand outside my car to finish that meal today,you can sit down and eat . Your man is going all out ! I only spent $7 when I met you and $5 went on gas . You are moving up baby and I’m proud of you.

  • @ebonyiiis
    @ebonyiiis 2 года назад +57

    She must've told the friends that he was paying for everybody that's why they all standing around waiting for the outcome.

    • @BlackCulturalPreservation2023
      @BlackCulturalPreservation2023 2 года назад +2

      She’s silly for assuming…wild assumption… Wise words I was told…never ASSume…bcs you make an ass out of you and an ass outta me. She just wanna be seen. She should be paying for they food or everyone there own…guess they need to call them momma now 😂

    • @michellelane6527
      @michellelane6527 9 месяцев назад +1

      Look at how they are looking

  • @CookingwGlo
    @CookingwGlo 2 года назад +28

    Shuler is passionate about this! I love it. He raised a few good points! 😆

  • @venus2361
    @venus2361 9 месяцев назад +2

    That's right Shuler. A grown woman has HER coins & securement.

  • @wolfbite1984
    @wolfbite1984 2 года назад +27

    Tv and social media got a like of folks heads messed up

    • @RPYMCMB
      @RPYMCMB 2 года назад

      Factsss!!! Been saying that

    • @jasonallen3678
      @jasonallen3678 2 года назад

      Ninjas with money did it and you would actually be surprised of how many ninjas got money nowadays..

  • @arnoldsanders6878
    @arnoldsanders6878 2 года назад +39

    THIS IS WHY YOU HAVE A HOUSE PARTY. EVERYBODY know, when you do a restaurant party. You pay your own. The restaurant supply the cake. Unless you bring the cake.

  • @privatenineNaturalWoman
    @privatenineNaturalWoman 2 года назад +23

    FACTS!
    Like Fergie's daddy use to say, "If YOU ain't got no money, TAKE [STAY] YO' BROKE ASS HOME!"

  • @elainelyons4261
    @elainelyons4261 Год назад +3

    "Yes, I'm talking about yo mama!" 😂😂 And not the $31 Rainbow outfit! 😂😂 I'm so dead! 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @soloac3234
    @soloac3234 2 года назад +149

    “I don’t know what it is about these new girls” lol. This story is so disgusting and makes me ashamed to be a woman, we’re not all like this!

    • @guccideltaco
      @guccideltaco 2 года назад +2

      Yup, I've been paying my own way since I graduated college!

    • @austinellois1455
      @austinellois1455 2 года назад

      no all women are but they are a certain few out there it's pretty grim out here especially when you don't know people motives man, to me mindset is everything I don't want to have that burden of entitlement or feeling like anyone owes me anything because reality is nobody owes anyone anything now we all do need help from time to time but people are not obligated but if someone chooses to help out of they're heart then we should be grateful because it is not on anyone else to fix our lives it's up to us at the end of the day so I always try to hold myself accountable for my decisions in my life because I know no woman owes me anything and vice versa people should be thankful to encounter sincere people with good hearts it's so much entitlement and attitude that it makes me want to puke because it's a two way street and the rules apply both male and female nothing in life should be one sided at all because we're not really evolving as human beings and reaching our potential but that's why you have to mindful of how you treat people and the energy you put out into the world because it will come back it always does

    • @angelah1759
      @angelah1759 2 года назад

      These are not "WOMEN".....they are Females but in NO WAY a "WOMAN"!

    • @LoniLoni11
      @LoniLoni11 2 года назад +2

      That right!

    • @rosieparez
      @rosieparez 2 года назад +8

      I'm not sure why you would be ashamed to be a woman because of them🤔 Big difference in a grown woman and a lil girl. Big difference between mature and immature. Since when did this lil girl become the spokes person for all woman kind 🤔

  • @CrixusHeart
    @CrixusHeart 2 года назад +91

    He should leave and call the cops on all the rest of them. 😆 "911? They dine & dashin'!"

  • @MatthewTelemaque
    @MatthewTelemaque 2 года назад +11

    "Ya'll ain't being raised... Ya'll being kept" WOW.. that's powerful... let it marinate good people!

  • @theundergroundsubway
    @theundergroundsubway Год назад +3

    And they have the audacity to call him “cheap”

  • @jopinscott1777
    @jopinscott1777 2 года назад +68

    If you get talked into paying that bill make it the first and last time. Let her go. "She belong to the streets."

    • @realtalk37851
      @realtalk37851 2 года назад +12

      No don't get talked into nothing and still drop her

    • @jopinscott1777
      @jopinscott1777 2 года назад +5

      @@realtalk37851 ; I don't disagree, but the reality is sometimes males (not men) get talked into doing things...

    • @sayitaintso7544
      @sayitaintso7544 2 года назад +5

      @@jopinscott1777 LoL so do women. I know a chick that got talked into buying her man some rims for his car. Most women are in jail because of a man. It just goes both ways

    • @atombomb6719
      @atombomb6719 2 года назад

      With her European hair 👀

  • @wkljny
    @wkljny 2 года назад +34

    That's right! All of my sisters were taught to have "just in case money" even if they're going out on a date. This is so wrong. I would have walked out and if my lady wanted to be with her friends, bye Felicia.

    • @mya5683
      @mya5683 2 года назад +1

      Right! My momma always told me this! She taught me at a very young age, no matter what always have your own money and independence.

  • @pinkyjyb
    @pinkyjyb 2 года назад +8

    I did the math. $150 times 18 people is $2,700. NOT including himself. I don't blame this man.

  • @tonyarodriguez2098
    @tonyarodriguez2098 10 месяцев назад +1

    Everything you said ON POINT!!

  • @dr.simoneobryanphd7721
    @dr.simoneobryanphd7721 2 года назад +53

    Honestly, I think he should have taken her out for a SOLO birthday celebration, and HER friends should have taken HER out separately (where they could then argue among themselves who was going to pay)! AND, how is it that one of these friends in the back is arguing with him?! The sense of entitlement is unbelievable!

    • @degrees-ls2qw
      @degrees-ls2qw 2 года назад +1

      2 Little Ceaser’s Pizzas and 1 Liters of Coke ! Rainbow? Hell ya ! They take EBT and don’t sell food ! “ Girl , it’s your birthday, I’m going to take you shopping on me , I got the Goodwill store on lock ! Your birthday falls on 80% off Friday and you can spend a whole $20 and donate the change. No Burger King today! Because it’s your birthday it’s Wendy’s and we can sit down and eat , nope , you don’t have stand outside my car to finish that meal today,you can sit down and eat . Your man is going all out ! I only spent $7 when I met you and $5 went on gas . You are moving up baby and I’m proud of you.

  • @valjackson7850
    @valjackson7850 2 года назад +102

    First this convo should have been had prior to the bday dinner to set expectations .
    Second, girl, don’t let anyone count your man’s pockets!

    • @simonehall-williams3110
      @simonehall-williams3110 2 года назад +3

      This!! 💯

    • @smoothmorrison7203
      @smoothmorrison7203 2 года назад +4

      Obviously she must have told them her man built like that. And the one with the grinning behind her, looks like she is going to be the one calling him to be that ear to vent, that arse to wax and the next to try and run his pockets. 😂 ✌️❤️🍷

    • @rozellswanson9170
      @rozellswanson9170 2 года назад

      ( #KEVINSAMUELS #VOICE ) ( #BLACKWOMEN #NEVER #LEARN #IN 2👽22 ) BUTT ( #ALL #NONBLACKWOMEN #LEARN ) 🙃🙃🙃🙃 #WOKE #5D #BARS

    • @frederickq234
      @frederickq234 2 года назад +1

      @@smoothmorrison7203 🤣

    • @frederickq234
      @frederickq234 2 года назад +3

      @@rozellswanson9170 #loosermuch

  • @lavernbradley891
    @lavernbradley891 2 года назад +50

    She would have made a perfect match for my ex husband. Everytime we went out to eat with his large family he always paid for their food against my wishes and they had more money than the ATM. We would argue all night about him doing that until finally I filed for a divorce and he asked me why I want out and I told him ain't no need of both of us being in bankruptcy somebody need to be debt free to tell the story so I tell it every chance I get 😂

    • @dgillie
      @dgillie 2 года назад +4

      Girl I’m 🤣😂😭

    • @crlundy86
      @crlundy86 2 года назад +1

      😆😆🤭

    • @rosieparez
      @rosieparez 2 года назад +2

      He did that to show out. It's one thing if you got it like that and want to be generous but even then it's just not smart. They can pay for their damn self. That money should be put towards your family, not him trying to show out.

    • @SistahTuMuchMarley
      @SistahTuMuchMarley 2 года назад +1

      I hollered!!!!!

    • @mslovelylesley
      @mslovelylesley 2 года назад +1

      👀💀😭😂😭😂💀👀

  • @SharonHampton-b5o
    @SharonHampton-b5o 25 дней назад +1

    "AMEN... PREACH"
    💜🕊️💜🕊️💜🕊️💜

  • @LionelLiftsVegas
    @LionelLiftsVegas 2 года назад +80

    Yeah, I don’t know what man in his RIGHT mind would pay for everyone like that.. They got hands… So go wash some dishes!! 😂🤣

  • @jaylene.turner6524
    @jaylene.turner6524 2 года назад +258

    He’s only supposed to pay for
    HIMSELF.
    If he pays for the two of you,
    that’s being generous.
    But NOBODY in their right mind is paying for friends.
    Some of these women today.

    • @andreaa.1393
      @andreaa.1393 2 года назад +10

      They are crazy today 🙄

    • @pigalottafattenton5003
      @pigalottafattenton5003 2 года назад +38

      For her birthday he’s supposed to pay for her (only her), just like she’s supposed to pay for him for his birthday. Men and women both missing part of the dating equation.

    • @heathertea2704
      @heathertea2704 2 года назад +9

      She's BOLD as HELL!😒

    • @LIVEINPEACE2023
      @LIVEINPEACE2023 2 года назад +13

      Generous @ paying for just her❓👎

    • @georginaflemmings5074
      @georginaflemmings5074 2 года назад

      The modern woman 🙄
      You men are partially to blame…
      You’ll need to date more
      before courting or calling her your woman
      Men wherever you are
      why are you stuck at attraction but not looking
      @ the overall reality of the situation….
      Too many of you men are wooed by
      her figure🙄🙄🙄
      Whoso findeth a wife…Prov 18:22
      A good women according to scripture
      is disciplined…aims at making
      her man’s life better ….
      She is the crown of him…if she shames you
      it’s rottenness to the bones…Proverbs 31:30 kjv
      How can she be so heartless and
      expect to be rewarded…
      that woman in the vid
      has no compassion for her man…
      Nobody is perfect but look @ the poor
      choices you men make…
      Look at the image she’s painted that
      man to be in front of her friends…
      imagine behind your back🤦🏽‍♀️
      Look @ how she’s disgracing him in
      public
      Wake up men …red flag 🚩🚩🚩
      *************************
      Acts 2:38 kjv
      Shalom✌️and Agape💕
      *************************

  • @jayp6521
    @jayp6521 2 года назад +56

    He took you out for your birthday while wearing a fruit of the looms t-shirt on a special occasion, and you thought he was paying for all 25 of y’all? Bish you crazy 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

    • @heycokocoko1254
      @heycokocoko1254 2 года назад +1

      Lmaooo yu said that shit lmaooo but she different lol

    • @Vanessa47912
      @Vanessa47912 2 года назад

      🍇🍎🌳🤣🤣🤣

    • @Kay-uz1ec
      @Kay-uz1ec 2 года назад +1

      😅🤣😂..i can't stop giggling

    • @tonyabela3799
      @tonyabela3799 2 года назад

      Yeah, she plan that! she wanted to embarrass him on her birthday so she can have a justifiable reason to break up with him.. because that's what she was going to do anyway, so you hit the nail right on the head with that!

    • @janedough6410
      @janedough6410 2 года назад +1

      Attire states he tagged along. A dude with the means don't want to be the only guy among 18 girlfriends.

  • @MsPathow
    @MsPathow 2 года назад +5

    TELL THEM SHULER KING!!!! PREACH!!!
    YES!!!
    Please don't get me started.
    Honey we were TAUGHT this too. My momma made sure we had $3.00 for a taxi cab home and 10¢ to call home should we need too. OOPS! I dated myself. Laugh. But we were TAUGHT how to conduct ourselves as ladies and in business.
    Listen, 2 years ago this man took me to dinner. Got the tab, looked in his wallet and said he had no cash. Just credit 💳. Asked if I had cash because he doesn't like using his credit 💳.
    I said I had money to pay my tab and he'll have to wash dishes. I'll pay mind and catch a cab home.
    The guy was angry. He paid the tab and drove me home.
    Wanted to go out again but I'm no dummy. I refused because if a man can't pay with a credit 💳, then he has a significant other at home who he don't want her to see the credit 💳 billing statement; or perhaps he knows that the card may be declined.
    No Sir! Not going on no date anywhere without my money and transportation.
    Have mercy. Shuler! I can't tolerate silly women. ALL them silly.
    Yet, why didn't he make it CLEAR to waiters in front of them that he was paying for the birthday girl and his food only. Everyone else is paying for their own. That should have been the FIRST business of that event.
    These are the kind of women that the Bible call SILLY WOMEN.
    Read 2 Timothy 2:6
    Shuler King, you have spoken truth.