How To Build Rapport With Anyone | 9 Matching And Mirroring Tips

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  • Опубликовано: 26 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 49

  • @TinaLeder
    @TinaLeder  4 года назад +10

    Hey! This is the first time I shot content standing up (if you haven't noticed)😜
    Thinking this is so much better which just goes to show, our physiology affects us a LOT in rapport with strangers and self.
    Do what you will with that and let me know which of the 9 was your favorite?
    1) Posture
    2) Gesture
    3) Expression
    4) Breathe
    5) Blink
    6) Speed
    7) Volume
    8) Tone
    9) Words

    • @jamesmckee2653
      @jamesmckee2653 4 года назад

      Lady Tina I like it with you standing up and interested in rhythm but my favourite is the part where you and your mum keep getting louder in rapport kind of funny. All the best for your birthday this weekend

    • @TinaLeder
      @TinaLeder  4 года назад +1

      Thank you @@jamesmckee2653!
      Haha yeah I'm actually thinking of bringing her on my channel to steam LIVE this weekend.🤔

    • @jamesmckee2653
      @jamesmckee2653 4 года назад +1

      I’d like to see that, good idea

    • @BobbyToombs
      @BobbyToombs 4 года назад +1

      Standing is much better. Liked how u jumped in on us at the beginning

    • @TinaLeder
      @TinaLeder  4 года назад +1

      @@BobbyToombs Haha okay good to know! It felt better too.🙌

  • @spicelabscandy
    @spicelabscandy 4 месяца назад +2

    Birds of a feather … who would have thought that 4 years later that would be the title of a huge hit song 😁

  • @TinaLeder
    @TinaLeder  4 года назад +16

    Also it's my Birthday this weekend!👍😀😁

    • @vic501
      @vic501 4 года назад

      wow really, happy birthday Tina!

    • @TinaLeder
      @TinaLeder  4 года назад

      @@vic501 Thank you!!

    • @jenniferrobinlee
      @jenniferrobinlee 4 года назад +1

      Have an amazing birthday Sister!! 🍰

    • @TinaLeder
      @TinaLeder  4 года назад +1

      Thank you @@jenniferrobinlee!!

    • @BobbyToombs
      @BobbyToombs 4 года назад

      Lady Tina Happy birthday Tina!!

  • @thekinglion9135
    @thekinglion9135 4 года назад +3

    Enjoying the consistency of these videos. Very insightful!

    • @TinaLeder
      @TinaLeder  4 года назад

      Glad you like it haha thank you!

  • @demetrius9291
    @demetrius9291 4 года назад +3

    Hey Tina! I just found your channel in the comments from that April Fools video that Graham did (got me good lol)! Also our birthdays are in this same month! Happy Birthday!!! Instant Sub!

    • @TinaLeder
      @TinaLeder  4 года назад +1

      Oh that video had me really worried one of my favorite RUclipsrs lost their mind.😂
      Thank you and glad to see you on here!
      Also Happy Early or Late Birthday!!🎉🎉🎉

  • @ahmadbusaribabatunde2501
    @ahmadbusaribabatunde2501 Год назад +1

    Thanks a lot for the nice speech

  • @santorinisme790
    @santorinisme790 4 года назад +2

    Me, I liked the volume of your voice. It is enthusiastic! Usefull advices! Thank you👌

    • @TinaLeder
      @TinaLeder  4 года назад +1

      Ah thank you and glad it was useful!👍

  • @julious3603
    @julious3603 9 месяцев назад

    Great Video!

  • @lg369AO
    @lg369AO 4 года назад +1

    Great tips. Love the tonality topic. Happy birthday 🎉🎂. High Five!

    • @TinaLeder
      @TinaLeder  4 года назад

      Thank you Eric!
      High five!🙌

  • @iandouglasrobinson2713
    @iandouglasrobinson2713 4 года назад +2

    Absolutely loving your content which is always extremely insightful...like the standing delivery too! Lady Tina...have a super splendid birthday now (despite the curfew!)😁

    • @TinaLeder
      @TinaLeder  4 года назад

      Yeah I don't know why I haven't done any of my content standing besides my hiking video, but there's a different energy to it that I think I'll keep!
      haha Thank you so much Ian!🐱‍🏍

    • @iandouglasrobinson2713
      @iandouglasrobinson2713 4 года назад

      @@TinaLeder maybe that energy level standing up is about being subconsciously in fight or flight mode...I do my best thinking whilst pacing... I think!

    • @TinaLeder
      @TinaLeder  4 года назад

      @@iandouglasrobinson2713 I'm the same way with the pacing!
      Not sure if it's flight or fight since I don't have fear or anxiety, but to your point, I think it did something to my subconscious and it felt great!

    • @iandouglasrobinson2713
      @iandouglasrobinson2713 4 года назад

      @@TinaLeder ...I sense you're quite an aficianado on NLP...a very interesting subject, I feel a new Udemy course beckons!

  • @Oyuki-Mayonesa
    @Oyuki-Mayonesa Год назад

    Ya girl, that was awesome.

  • @xeejthor7167
    @xeejthor7167 4 года назад

    The cross over matching & mirroring is something new I'm totally going to try out now.
    : )

    • @TinaLeder
      @TinaLeder  4 года назад

      That's where the true fun begins, glad you're going to try it out!

  • @hectorarriaga2017
    @hectorarriaga2017 3 года назад

    Nailed it

  • @KundanKumarVlogs
    @KundanKumarVlogs 4 года назад +1

    excellent tips, love from India

  • @aamirbilal3205
    @aamirbilal3205 3 года назад

    Cool way to explain

  • @raniarania3824
    @raniarania3824 3 года назад

    What do you do if you are not speak in your native language in regards of speed

  • @HallowSeeds
    @HallowSeeds Месяц назад

    You would make an amazing mom, I feel it

  • @lukissmith5408
    @lukissmith5408 4 года назад +4

    Has these 9 techniques been scientifically tested? Whats the research to support these techniques?

    • @rocodiaz5221
      @rocodiaz5221 3 года назад +1

      I’m wondering the same thing. Some of these things sound weird.

  • @EVELYNTABADA
    @EVELYNTABADA 3 месяца назад

  • @franciscoolaya2459
    @franciscoolaya2459 6 месяцев назад

    wow

  • @adamwieszt5767
    @adamwieszt5767 4 года назад

    Hi' Congratulation! :) It is a very good video! :) And you are so energetic :) I would like to ask you What about the dating with woman? :) Do you think could I use this technich to be more succes? :) I'm serious :)

    • @TinaLeder
      @TinaLeder  4 года назад

      Of course! It doesn't matter if you're dating, a sales person, or talking to your kids. The same principles apply because it's playing with human psychology.

    • @adamwieszt5767
      @adamwieszt5767 4 года назад

      Thank you :) Actually I teach In my country man how to conecting, and dating man with woman, and I'm not sure wich is the more efficient, the very self confident body -language or the mirroring :D

  • @robertvandyke9781
    @robertvandyke9781 3 года назад +2

    I bet she is a killer flirt!!!

  • @BobbyToombs
    @BobbyToombs 4 года назад

    🙅🏽‍♂️🤣