Writing with the Enneagram: Type 3

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  • Опубликовано: 11 окт 2024

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  • @isajohns8746
    @isajohns8746 6 часов назад +152

    He’s such a 3

  • @genevapatterson6629
    @genevapatterson6629 3 часа назад +20

    ... I've never felt so called out by a video in my entire life

  • @hevel-f3d
    @hevel-f3d 5 часов назад +66

    I’m not exaggerating when I say that these enneagram videos have changed my life. Thank you, Local Script Man.

  • @Neyanca
    @Neyanca 6 часов назад +85

    All I do is win, win, win, no matter what. Got money on my mind; I can't get enough.

    • @localscriptman
      @localscriptman  6 часов назад +36

      But what happens when you step up in the building???

    • @vantablack6288
      @vantablack6288 5 часов назад +16

      @@localscriptman everybody's hands go up

    • @multi-snakedragon4184
      @multi-snakedragon4184 4 часа назад

      @@vantablack6288and they stay there (there)

    • @myheadhurtsagain
      @myheadhurtsagain 3 часа назад +5

      @@vantablack6288 Sounds tiring, surely they go down after right?

    • @abigailbartlett6084
      @abigailbartlett6084 3 часа назад +7

      @@myheadhurtsagainyou’re gonna wanna sit down for this

  • @LighthoofDryden
    @LighthoofDryden 6 часов назад +155

    If this comment doesn’t get the most likes, the hole in my heart will remain unfilled
    If it does, the hole will remain unfilled

  • @BeanieStoat
    @BeanieStoat 6 часов назад +43

    glad to have you back pookie

  • @VJ-Vice
    @VJ-Vice 5 часов назад +46

    I think Lelouch from the anime Code Geass has that exact 3 redemption moment at the end of that story that you described at the end of the video.
    Essentially in this story, Lelouch is a lower prince of the British Empire who has been exiled to the colony of Japan to live among the commoners. He becomes entangled in a resistance movement and becomes their ambiguous leader operating under an alias. However, he eventually takes full control of both the resistance movement and eventually the entire empire, but he completely morally bankrupts everything to achieve this goal. It becomes clear that he's doing this to satisfy his own insecurities of being abandoned and exiled by the royal family as a kid, and everyone around him starts to hate him, including his crippled little sister who was the initial pure-hearted justification Lelouch gave to himself for doing all of the shit he does.
    In the end, he uses everyone's hate towards him by orchestrating his own death. He realizes that everyone despises him, but that everyone was also united in their hatred of him. He convinces his former best friend turned bitter enemy to kill him and to become the hero that everyone can unite under going into the future by sacrificing himself as the ultimate villain. No one knows about this sacrifice other than that former best friend, and Lelouch is remembered in history as a heinous villain. I think that fits under your theoretical ultimate 3 growth moment of ruining one's reputation for the greater good without receiving any praise for it, and it's one of the most powerful endings to a story I've seen.
    (Btw sry if I fudged any specific details Code Geass fans, it's been a decade since I've seen it lol)

    • @JoaoRenatoBail
      @JoaoRenatoBail 3 часа назад +10

      Exactly, I was about to comment on Lelouch being that exact character until I saw your comment, and that ending being considered one of the best of all time in no coincidence, it's the exact peak 3 moment being searched for here.

    • @Taib-Atte
      @Taib-Atte 2 часа назад +3

      Wow yeah you nailed it

    • @godofthecripples1237
      @godofthecripples1237 36 минут назад

      I thought EXACTLY this immediately

  • @a_m_m444
    @a_m_m444 3 часа назад +7

    ngl my autistic ass gets a lot of social revelations out of these videos 😂 your insights on character psychology help me understand characters motives better but also, people in general better. life should come with a handbook for these things 😩

  • @TomEyeTheSFMguy
    @TomEyeTheSFMguy 6 часов назад +48

    WE MADE IT OUTTA THE BOG WITH THIS ONE!

  • @13mungoman13
    @13mungoman13 6 часов назад +12

    I'm writing a story with a tragic 3 as a deuteragonist, and this video confirmed that I am absolutely nailing it

  • @SteveJubs
    @SteveJubs 5 часов назад +7

    On the enneagram, Local Script Man’s a perfect 10

  • @shpambypamby3113
    @shpambypamby3113 5 часов назад +19

    I don't think that Batman has a 3 fixation in The Dark Knight, but interestingly, his arc in that movie ends the way you described a perfect 3 story would end; he performs a selfless act of good (taking responsibility for Harvey's actions) and accepts that people will condemn him for it.

  • @RantforTent
    @RantforTent 6 часов назад +34

    Usually I just use this as a way to improve and flesh out my characters but wtf how the hell are you describing exactly how I live life? I was convinced I was a 1.

    • @nianexus135
      @nianexus135 3 часа назад +1

      Real question what’s your tritype?

  • @Trixiethegoldenwitch
    @Trixiethegoldenwitch 3 часа назад +3

    The New Sound by Geordie Greep seems to be a heavy 3 story.

  • @ramseyjames
    @ramseyjames Час назад +1

    I just finished reading “Tomorrow and Tomorrow and Tomorrow” and that book has some fabulous examples of three characters in various stages of health

  • @BundesNachrichtenDavid
    @BundesNachrichtenDavid 5 часов назад +3

    Every piece of art is a self portrait

  • @McFlurry3301
    @McFlurry3301 6 часов назад +15

    Local Script Man, thank you for your enneagram so much, for on thing, it’s improved my life since now I understand myself also, it’s brought me back to writing, I had given up thinking why do this since it was in vain, but now I understand how to do it I love this so much now I spend a long time working on my craft, THANK YOU LOCAL, have a good day

  • @filiformis
    @filiformis Час назад +1

    11:47 Mr Script man really looks at Patrick Batmen and goes "I can fix him".

  • @123happily
    @123happily 6 часов назад +6

    Heyy! Nice to see this. But do take care of yourself, we’ll survive with or without these videos.
    That said, i’m very glad to have them!

  • @minedantaken1684
    @minedantaken1684 3 часа назад +1

    Now I have no excuses. IT'S WRITING TIME!

  • @MoruDragon
    @MoruDragon 6 часов назад +4

    holy moly is that a 14 minute LocalScriptMan video! and two of them?! i can die happy now guys

  • @Fwoppy808
    @Fwoppy808 5 часов назад +7

    gotta shout out naruto for being one of the few healthy type 3 characters

  • @markbv591
    @markbv591 5 часов назад +6

    Damn… I’m not a 3 but the 3 fixation is definitely a visible part of me.

  • @lucymariposa
    @lucymariposa 6 часов назад +13

    I've been thinking about a story with a 3 protagonist for a while but was struggling with the redemption - this helped massively. Its finally clicked why no options were working before because they were all in some way allowing her to regress and kind of get off scot free.

  • @Alanspiderkipz
    @Alanspiderkipz 4 часа назад +3

    9:28 bro snuck in my exact type and instinctual variant and thought I wouldnt notice

  • @reesekelly2388
    @reesekelly2388 3 часа назад +2

    RANGO MY BELOVED!!! RANGO!!! I LOVE THAT MOVIE… Rango fans were you at??? This made my day 3:10

  • @whattowatchwednesdays
    @whattowatchwednesdays 5 часов назад +1

    That cut to Taylor Swift at 7:31 was so good. I was legitimately thinking to myself "this sounds like Taylor Swift" and then BAM. There she is. Legitimately made me laugh out loud.

  • @Frostbite08
    @Frostbite08 4 часа назад

    6:06 I'm so glad to hear you say that, I thought it might have just been a weird thing I was trying to shoehorn into existence when I typed the Attack on Titan characters and like 90% of them were 6's or 8's.

  • @debrachambers1304
    @debrachambers1304 4 часа назад +1

    Dang, he actually included a reference to the lines of integration.

  • @shirendjorgee9320
    @shirendjorgee9320 35 минут назад

    I couldn’t decide whether one of my characters was a type 3 or not, because she has a lot of traits of type 8 externally, but has very low self esteem. I’m writing a post-apocalyptic story, so something that helped me was you saying that type 3s can pursue goals that aren’t typical 3 goals. My character before the apocalypse was very concerned about being popular and liked, especially within romantic relationships, but after the apocalypse switches priorities to taking care of her sister and being the leader of the group . It helped me see that even though she does genuinely want to protect people, she is still trying to validate herself by being a good sibling and a good leader because she feels some survivor’s guilt due to her parents dying, and wants to prove she is worth being alive. And she takes it hard on herself when she messes up or things don’t go well. It’s like she’s validating her type 3 complex through type 8 goals and traits. She has to learn to step down from being the leader sometimes and let others take care of her.

  • @H-otApp-le-Pies
    @H-otApp-le-Pies Час назад

    I've done a lot of research on the 3, and I was hoping I didn't miss anything (in this video particularly). I didn't.
    Especially that 3's have to succeed in a way that personally fits that hole in their heart.
    Really looking forward to your video on type 2. Its another type I think I know a lot about, but I believe there's a few things that will be clarified for me in someone else's words.
    Really liking the series!

  • @nouraretzu1513
    @nouraretzu1513 6 часов назад +2

    I BEEN WAITING FOR THIS ONE. TURN IT UP

  • @jaydoesitagain
    @jaydoesitagain 6 часов назад +3

    Our father has returned

  • @kevinhu162
    @kevinhu162 3 часа назад

    Schrödinger's Enneagram is sickkkk

  • @fandomlibrary9506
    @fandomlibrary9506 4 часа назад

    I'm writing a short story about an enneagram 3 right now, so this video came just in time! I wasn't sure how to end the story, but the video helped out a lot and now I have a few ideas for where the story could go.

  • @TheRealMang0Man0fMystery
    @TheRealMang0Man0fMystery 6 часов назад +1

    Let's Go! Thank you LocalScriptMan!

  • @HOUROFPOW3R
    @HOUROFPOW3R 6 часов назад +11

    Bro I KNOW I've seen that ultimate growth moment you mention at the end, but it is SUPER slipping my mind. This is actually messing with me so bad lmao. I might actually be thinking of historical examples instead of fictional ones.. augh, gonna pour over that all night I guess.

    • @Anienem
      @Anienem 5 часов назад +2

      Isn't that kind of what happened with The Boss in Metal Gear? I don't know much about the series, but she's the character who accepted the complete ruination of her reputation in order to prevent nuclear war. I don't know enough about her character to know if she's a 3 though. Based on the quick skim of the Metal Gear wiki, she's probably not.

    • @bodhitree628
      @bodhitree628 5 часов назад +1

      Closest thing I can think of is the dark night rises but Batman is not a three

    • @EnvyOmicron
      @EnvyOmicron 5 часов назад +1

      @@Anienem Considering how Type 6-centric the Metal Gear games are, it's probably safe to assume The Boss is a 6 who's figured her shit out.

    • @LighthoofDryden
      @LighthoofDryden 3 часа назад

      Code:Geass ends a little like this, but I’m not sure if Lelouch would be a 3, personally!

    • @Anienem
      @Anienem 2 часа назад +1

      I guess that's the problem, there are definitely characters who choose to ruin their reputation for the greater good, but none of them are doing it in DEFIANCE of their own inner compulsions. In fact, most of these examples seem to feed into the character's type rather than defy it. A 1 would do it because it's the "right" thing to do (in their mind), a 6 would do it to serve some external entity, a 4 would embrace the drama of it all, etc etc.

  • @mahrinui18
    @mahrinui18 3 часа назад

    The 3 arc you talk about at the end is the arc of Richard Hendricks from Silicon Valley. He spends the whole series trying to build the next big thing in tech and ultimately develops a new Internet that's more efficient than the old one, but after he achieves his goal he realizes that it compromises encryption software. In order to save privacy he has to make his product fail spectacularly on launch so that not only does it not get adopted but also no one tries to recreate his tech because they think it's a dead end. Not only does he have to give up on his dream, he has to become a disgrace

  • @skele_vision
    @skele_vision 5 часов назад

    Thank you for the feast!!! I hope your break was everything you needed and more ^^

  • @TheMightyKawama
    @TheMightyKawama 6 часов назад +1

    Oh let's go baby I've been waiting for this

  • @farisweiss2373
    @farisweiss2373 5 часов назад

    Very lovely video, you and Josh's 3 video really feels understanding of the experience
    As a 3 i appreciate it!

  • @magicbeamish
    @magicbeamish 4 часа назад +1

    Back then I didn’t watch White Lotus because I didn’t want to pay for the subscription. Now I don’t watch White Lotus because it’s “co-worker TV” and I’m too elite for that.

  • @SunnyIsOnline
    @SunnyIsOnline 2 часа назад +1

    Ah I see, as a 3 the solution was staring me in the face this whole time, I need to quit my job and grind the fortnite battlepass!

  • @Tigerfisherr
    @Tigerfisherr 5 часов назад +1

    I can’t believe I got here early, I so excited for this

  • @ITSNAPHILL
    @ITSNAPHILL 3 часа назад

    LETS GOOOOO, been waiting for this

  • @straps-of-skin
    @straps-of-skin 22 минуты назад

    I hope we get a more detailed explanation of that type 2 superiority complex in the next video because it sounds juicy

  • @enoXiwame
    @enoXiwame 5 часов назад

    you're a better man than me if I was doing an enneagram series I would simply skip my own type and hope no one noticed

  • @faizanquraishi4126
    @faizanquraishi4126 Час назад

    Enneagram man is back at it again

  • @FirstName_LqstName
    @FirstName_LqstName 3 часа назад

    13:50 I'm stealing this. Thank you !

  • @Marsupial_Enmascarado
    @Marsupial_Enmascarado 5 часов назад +1

    I think another thing that could really test 3s is the COST OF SUCCESS. Say that the 3 is a hero, well what if the cost of doing the right thing becomes personal? what if it becomes devastating? Or, what if a 3 must do the right thing but doing this right thing makes others hate them and curse them? I call it THE COST OF SUCCESS because not all 3s are good, or heroes, but it serves its purpose. I also like to make a list of all the worst possible things that could happen to a 3, and put them through it, see if they still want what they want, or better yet, if they start to introspect and get to root of WHY they want what they want.

  • @acencakes4526
    @acencakes4526 5 часов назад

    Sweetie come down, dinner is ready ‼‼‼🗣🗣🗣

  • @clairethecat1
    @clairethecat1 5 часов назад

    welcome back, king👑

  • @cyb3r_Ang3lBee
    @cyb3r_Ang3lBee 4 часа назад

    brilliant video as usual

  • @alasjoy7849
    @alasjoy7849 4 часа назад

    Looking forward to the 2 video because you might mean these as writing advice but I'm applying them to myself and I figure I'm *probably* a 2.

  • @imstupid7614
    @imstupid7614 55 минут назад

    The ultimate three redemption sounds like the plot of Wicked. there's a movie coming out soon but i'm still skeptical about its quality

  • @sammy_vee
    @sammy_vee 4 часа назад

    I BEEN WAIT FOR THIS

  • @nouraretzu1513
    @nouraretzu1513 6 часов назад +1

    the only example i can think of regarding a character compromising their image for the greater good and never telling anyone the truth would be Ned Stark. not that i think he's a 3 though.

  • @CooperWood-lf7ry
    @CooperWood-lf7ry 6 часов назад +1

    My 3 ass is so hyped to get roasted oml

  • @clivah1499
    @clivah1499 5 часов назад +1

    it's so tragic that the final outcome of a 3 is tragedy- hm. Their highest high is to fall down into the ground level, at the mercy of its residents... A tale that must remain dead....
    hm.

  • @LittlePilangton
    @LittlePilangton Час назад

    YESS YESS! if i tell you i was manifesting you won't believe it! GOODBYE. My character will run 🎉🎉🎉

  • @Mashemart
    @Mashemart 4 часа назад

    14 minute 28 second roast session criticizing my entire being, so based

  • @peanut3438
    @peanut3438 5 часов назад

    This is super helpful! Thanks for sharing this!

  • @yasbrhy
    @yasbrhy 5 часов назад

    ...I keep thinking about Bakugou 😭 he definitely feels like a 3 character

  • @elijahbedinger1222
    @elijahbedinger1222 4 часа назад

    Okay, so just Ralph from Wreck-it Ralph. Got it.👍

  • @godofthecripples1237
    @godofthecripples1237 35 минут назад

    Watch Code Geass (just the series, no movies or anything) and you'll find what you're looking for.

  • @SuperCool898Gaming
    @SuperCool898Gaming 2 часа назад

    ITS FINALLY HERE GUYS

  • @gregjayonnaise8314
    @gregjayonnaise8314 4 часа назад +3

    It’s wild to think Princess Tiana and Pearl are both in this category, but it makes sense, cus they have opposite developments.
    Tiana works hard, and manages to find a healthy balance between her goals and her own personal fulfillment, and her hard work eventually pays off with a romance and the restaurant of her dreams.
    Pearl is focused on a goal of being a famous dancer but is fundamentally incapable of having it (mostly because she’s insane, but also because of her income status, dysfunctional home life, and general 30s era sexism) and ends the story miserably accepting her broken dreams and her broken home.

  • @beetle_journey
    @beetle_journey 5 часов назад

    Damn is 3 relatable as all can be or do I just empathize with weakness…. Can’t wait for all the videos to do a full self diagnosis

  • @average_duck00
    @average_duck00 6 часов назад

    Yess i've been waiting for this one

  • @francolmable
    @francolmable Час назад

    The perfect 3 end happens in attack on titan, as eren does a genocide in order to become the bad guy. By foing that and making his friends kill him they become the good guys and can have a happier life without being discriminated and demonized for simply existing.

  • @whynotanyting
    @whynotanyting 4 часа назад

    Every video I feel like that's my type until the next one drops. Except 4, I couldn't quite understand the 4 type.
    Gonna have to go back through the videos once the series is done.

  • @amanofnoreputation2164
    @amanofnoreputation2164 2 минуты назад

    Rocky: 9
    Creed: 3
    Adonis is trying to be like Rocky because he's been fed an incomplete picture of Rocky and has to find out the hard way why they are different.

  • @P.Manoel
    @P.Manoel 2 часа назад

    Sigma males are 4's, Alpha males are 3's. Thank you for the knowledge.

  • @beetlejuice4893
    @beetlejuice4893 3 часа назад

    thank you local script man. im ready for 2 now. im ready to be hurt.

  • @flipout_1216
    @flipout_1216 6 часов назад +1

    Damn, I'm accidently writing a three 😂

  • @fulldivemedia
    @fulldivemedia 5 часов назад

    Nice and educational

  • @decadesyearoldthingsreview6595
    @decadesyearoldthingsreview6595 5 часов назад

    Man feel free to take a break no matter how short you allow yourself want it to be

  • @LightGardenFlowing
    @LightGardenFlowing 2 часа назад

    Oh my GOD EVERYONE SHUT UP LOCALSCRIPTMANPOSTED

  • @blubird-q6k
    @blubird-q6k 5 часов назад

    The more i watch this video, the more i so badly relate to it..

  • @chrismorris6452
    @chrismorris6452 5 часов назад +2

    What’s “coworker tv?” 2:52 Sounds like a criticism, to me. Is it something you only watch so you can talk about it at work with coworkers, around the watercooler? Or like a workplace comedy, as in The Office? Google is giving me no good answers for this term.

    • @grantm.5975
      @grantm.5975 3 часа назад +1

      It’s ill-defined but I think coworker TV is “something that has mainstream popularity with a lot of people that aren’t similar to you.” Neither you nor your friends like it, but your coworkers might, and they’ll talk to you about it endlessly during your shifts together. This is also probably what “coworker humor” is as well.

  • @NotEHcop
    @NotEHcop 4 часа назад +2

    aside from revenge, what other compulsions do you feel stand on their own narratively that don't fall under any enneagram type?

  • @himignicest1571
    @himignicest1571 53 минуты назад

    GANG, WE'RE SO CLOSE TO ENNEGRAM 2‼️‼️‼️ (MY TYPEE)

  • @maxbense3646
    @maxbense3646 2 часа назад

    Talking about 3 characters and NOT mentioning Tar is criminal

  • @JaySub-q7u
    @JaySub-q7u 4 часа назад +1

    Can a 3 be paralyzed by the idea of failure despite wanting to succeed?

    • @localscriptman
      @localscriptman  4 часа назад +2

      Well the way threes typically work is like “that doesn’t matter anyway” like they’ll intellectualize and find a way to justify not even trying. They might resign themselves to a small corner of the world where they can be the best

    • @JaySub-q7u
      @JaySub-q7u 3 часа назад

      @@localscriptman That makes sense. I kind of thought I was a 5 or 6, kind of, but after watching you basically describe my entire life more or less, I think I'm definitively a 3.
      Fuck.

  • @bubustudios
    @bubustudios 5 часов назад

    like i KNEW he would describe me in one of these videos but now im offended

  • @spiderbro7166
    @spiderbro7166 4 часа назад

    Big happy because new enneagram video came out, but big sad because have to wait for next enneagram video.
    From a 1... I think

  • @duskadown6751
    @duskadown6751 Час назад

    thank you so much for this series!!!!
    silly question for funsies: What is your favorite vitamin?

  • @sophiagonzalez7944
    @sophiagonzalez7944 Час назад

    This is a wonderful video! I do have a nagging question---if threes genuinely want to be the "real deal", and prefer it to being a highly-regarded liar or fraud, then how would the ultimate growth movement---sacrificing reputation for the greater good---truly represent growth? Wouldn't any three, regardless of how far into their arc they are, choose to sacrifice their reputation in this case? Why would a three have to grow in order to make this choice?

  • @lunaponta594
    @lunaponta594 Час назад

    i felt ungodly angry when goku just let mr. satan have credit for defeating the big bad i don't remember. this video clarified things for me but i'm basically completely certain i'm a 2. none of the videos stood to me as much as your little comments to heart types and 2s

  • @HumanAki
    @HumanAki 3 часа назад

    Is Nolan's Batman a 3? He ruins his rep to spare Dent's and the city? Am I off track? Also, thanks, dad.

  • @Truthshallsety0ufree
    @Truthshallsety0ufree 5 часов назад

    Is Batman in Chris Nolan's trilogy, the 3 redemption arc? He ruins his reputation for the good of all....

    • @localscriptman
      @localscriptman  5 часов назад +3

      I think no, he’s a one. That’s just an in character choice. But the Batman at the end of Batman Begins would have done that

    • @EnvyOmicron
      @EnvyOmicron 4 часа назад

      I agree with Lucas; I think Batman is usually either a 1 or an 8, depending on who's writing him.

  • @oliolion
    @oliolion 3 часа назад

    I always thought Cristan Cole was a 6 due to his need to be a part of the white cloaks in order to disguise his shame. What makes him a 3 and not a 6?

  • @mel-burnes
    @mel-burnes 4 часа назад

    i already knew ianthe was a three (ha)! but damn, she is *such* a three

  • @BloomingRose438
    @BloomingRose438 6 часов назад

    OMG IT’S HEREEEEEEEE

  • @heartofthesea572
    @heartofthesea572 6 часов назад

    whiplash guy

  • @PaulTimothy
    @PaulTimothy 5 часов назад

    stop reading my mind

  • @fluffledreamyy7650
    @fluffledreamyy7650 3 часа назад

    ok so now my question is have i been writing 3’s or have I just been writing me???
    anyways amazing video as always hope ur getting better
    Jesus loves you

  • @makeyourownpie
    @makeyourownpie 5 часов назад

    I am romantically in love with you local scrip man

  • @afoolbyitself3960
    @afoolbyitself3960 6 часов назад

    Whooooo!!!!

  • @KaylaLoveHeart
    @KaylaLoveHeart 5 часов назад

    Could Don Draper in Mad Men be a redeemed 3 by the end of the show?