How to know your spouse.. 1. What kind of marriage do u want? 2. Make sure you have the same perspective of marriage 3. Know God to spot a godly person 4. Know your values: negotiables and non- negotiables 5. Marry from d same christian tribe 6. Purpose before your partnership 7. Healthy vs unhealthy conflicts 8. Teachability: is the person teachable or willing to learn? who are the person's mentors? 9. Dont be led by emotions... 10. Make sure the person is strengthening you spiritually, financially and mentally. 11. Third parties are important in relationships. You must look for d right 3rd party. 12. Be healthy: if you are desperate your chance of making the best decision is slim to none. I might have missed some. I also didn’t arrange them in a sequential order.
My major pick up point is not to casually see weaknesses or make defenses for them, if you cannot deal with it, don't hope that things will change or get better cause in marriage, weaknesses get magnified as you're closer and becomes more unbearable. So if you can't deal now, quit, to avoid "I didn't know" Cause you do, you just decided to ignore the slight appearance. Thanks so much for this.
Marry from your faith tribe! Because I have discovered that even though we're all Christians, different churches have different beliefs and traditions. This is huge for me, this was very insightful!
Wooow! Really good. I was watching with my book and pen. I got quality knowledge and i believe my head is correct now😅.Let me first be enjoying my single life 😅.Thank you very much The Winlos and Pastor K. God bless you all for your priceless wisdom and directions.
How To Know Your Spouse: 1: What kind of marriage do you want. 2: Make sure you have the same perspective of marriage. 3: To God to spot a godly person. (Discernment) 4: Know your values: negotiable and non negotiable 5: Marry from the same christian tribe. (Faith Tribe)(Proximity should never equate suitability) 6: Purpose before your partnership. 7: Healthy vs Unhealthy conflicts. ( Your conflicts makes you bitter or better?)(Lol, she said they really quarrelled, had lots of misunderstanding when in relationship) 8: Teachability -- is the person teachable or willing to learn? Who are the person's mentors? 9: Don't be led by emotions. 10: Make sure the person is strengthening your spiritually, financially and mentally. 11: Third parties are important to a relationships. You must locate the right third party. 12: Be healthy. Desperation slims your chance of making the right best decision.
The part of already falling in love with someone before knowing their true self, I always appreciate friendship before going into either a relationship or marriage
Thank you so much. It really helped me make an on the moment decision and I feel so relieved. I actually paused the video and did what I had to and came back to finish the video ❤Thank you Pastor K ❤️and The Winlos❤️
Wahala everywhere. Isn't it better to stay single?.The issue is no one can match all those things. What should you compromise on and what shouldn't you compromise.
It's your duty to know your own non-negotiables and negotiables, that's how you know what you can compromise on and what you can't compromise on, it differs for everyone.
How to know your spouse..
1. What kind of marriage do u want?
2. Make sure you have the same perspective of marriage
3. Know God to spot a godly person
4. Know your values: negotiables and non- negotiables
5. Marry from d same christian tribe
6. Purpose before your partnership
7. Healthy vs unhealthy conflicts
8. Teachability: is the person teachable or willing to learn? who are the person's mentors?
9. Dont be led by emotions...
10. Make sure the person is strengthening you spiritually, financially and mentally.
11. Third parties are important in relationships. You must look for d right 3rd party.
12. Be healthy: if you are desperate your chance of making the best decision is slim to none.
I might have missed some. I also didn’t arrange them in a sequential order.
Thank you for this!!!
Thanks for this
Thanks for the summary. Let me move to another video
Thank you ❤
You finish work here ooo. Weldone 🎉🎉🎉🎉
My major pick up point is not to casually see weaknesses or make defenses for them, if you cannot deal with it, don't hope that things will change or get better cause in marriage, weaknesses get magnified as you're closer and becomes more unbearable.
So if you can't deal now, quit, to avoid "I didn't know"
Cause you do, you just decided to ignore the slight appearance.
Thanks so much for this.
Marry from your faith tribe! Because I have discovered that even though we're all Christians, different churches have different beliefs and traditions. This is huge for me, this was very insightful!
The same thing I am facing right now
PK, this campus visitation you mentioned is really a great idea. Students really need to hear the message the Lord has given to you, Sir.
My favorite ppl in one frame… just missing Pastor Mildred.❤😅
Exactly I love them so much❤
My people too😊
Pastor Kay actually did us great, inviting the Winlos my first time listening to them though.....❤️
Wooow! Really good. I was watching with my book and pen. I got quality knowledge and i believe my head is correct now😅.Let me first be enjoying my single life 😅.Thank you very much The Winlos and Pastor K. God bless you all for your priceless wisdom and directions.
How To Know Your Spouse:
1: What kind of marriage do you want.
2: Make sure you have the same perspective of marriage.
3: To God to spot a godly person. (Discernment)
4: Know your values: negotiable and non negotiable
5: Marry from the same christian tribe. (Faith Tribe)(Proximity should never equate suitability)
6: Purpose before your partnership.
7: Healthy vs Unhealthy conflicts. ( Your conflicts makes you bitter or better?)(Lol, she said they really quarrelled, had lots of misunderstanding when in relationship)
8: Teachability -- is the person teachable or willing to learn? Who are the person's mentors?
9: Don't be led by emotions.
10: Make sure the person is strengthening your spiritually, financially and mentally.
11: Third parties are important to a relationships. You must locate the right third party.
12: Be healthy. Desperation slims your chance of making the right best decision.
My relationship mentors in one frame. This is beautiful
I look forward to meeting you all physically this year
When people show you who they re believe them, though you have to be healthy to know.... Thank you sir (s) and ma
The lady be dropping valuable gems
It was awesome having The Winlos in Sokoto, we're looking forward to having Pst K and Pst M too. Don Yesu include us in the tour. A Nigerian tour🫣
My favourite marital mentors in one frame .❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you Sir and Ma for collating all of these, I hope all genders understand this so well. It has been my strength and I am so proud I am in track
Topic discussion starts at 05:50
The part of already falling in love with someone before knowing their true self, I always appreciate friendship before going into either a relationship or marriage
My heart is happy and I’m blessed! My favorite anointed people of God..🙏🏿❤️
Very Impactful. Thank you pst K and The winlos. Always a blessing
I'm glad I watched till the end. Very filling 😌. More Grace Sir/Ma
Wonderful message.
My question is how do you deal with a spouse who's Godly but is easy going with ladies
Follow laws not exceptions.... Thank you sir
God bless you my people an ivorian fan
I have learn a lot with you! 🎉🎉🎉🙏🏽🙏🏽🥰
Wonderful Teaching. Thank you so much.
Thank you sir(s) and ma
Was richly blessed and enlightened too
God bless you Pk and the winlos.❤
This was a great session. Learned a lot.
Very rich and amazing teachings... I love it and I learned a lot. Thank you so much to PK and The Winlos ❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much. It really helped me make an on the moment decision and I feel so relieved. I actually paused the video and did what I had to and came back to finish the video ❤Thank you Pastor K ❤️and The Winlos❤️
This is just timely for me. Thank you so much
Thank you The Winlos and Pst K
I love these people
Pls i need a Family i can join that we can talk about the word of God and worship together im in Lagos lekki Ajah
What are you tasting? Is it ogbono or egusi soup?
Wahala everywhere. Isn't it better to stay single?.The issue is no one can match all those things. What should you compromise on and what shouldn't you compromise.
It's your duty to know your own non-negotiables and negotiables, that's how you know what you can compromise on and what you can't compromise on, it differs for everyone.
An exception cannot be a rule
Thank you, sir
Impactful
Thank you
Thank you so much Pastor Sir ❤
Wooow... Great.... Thank you
Good discussion.Please, when will Pastor K be in Atlanta and Houston,does anyone know?
Iyanla should take several seats down. 14 years indeed, if her ancestral worship didn’t open her eyes, whose fault?
Thank you very much for your time ⏲️
This is so good!!!
Lovely my lovelies ❤
My people ❤❤😊
Awesome session
So there are still people in Sokoto part 😂
Interesting
Please don't do it, it 's a trap,
ha, ha,
L.O.L.!!