War Veteran with PTSD interview-Rob
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- Опубликовано: 26 сен 2024
- Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Rob, a war veteran dealing with PTSD with music. You can find Rob’s music at Rob Fess on Spotify, Apple Music and RUclips. / rob fess - topic
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The comments are incredible! The love and support is tremendous! I appreciate Mark for giving me the opportunity to share my story and my music. It makes me feel good that my music can help people! Thank you for everyone that commented! It's awesome! Mark is one special guy to hear these stories!
Thank you for sharing your story. Nothing good comes from war. Both sides lose loved-ones….for what?
People in power don’t agree with who the other people worship?!! It doesn’t make anyone right or wrong, it just makes them different.
As long as a person’s beliefs don’t harm anyone, what difference does it REALLY make?! If a person’s beliefs get them through a difficult time, or brings them comfort and joy….that’s what matters.
There’s enough room on this planet for everyone.
I saw a show one time where the host would invite people from opposing countries to break bread together. There was some tense moments, with acceptance….all things are possible. Sharing a meal, or your home, is the kindest thing you can do for other living beings.
Im still hopeful….😢
I'm a 70% rated PTSD combat veteran myself. The last thirty years were hell until I decided to go to the VA and get help.
@thomasc5817 sorry..It's not easy! It will be manageable over time
@thomasc5817 thanks for your service
The music is therapeutic and thank you for being americas ambassador
Great guy! I worked with him and we took a couple killers off the street together. He had no fear and a huge heart
🤲🏽💙💚to you both.
You can tell by listening to him that he has a huge heart. He seems like an awesome, no bullshit, kind of guy.
Thank you for your service. 💕
no one has no fear
Rob, the US Army and the US was fortunate to have you of service.
You play the piano beautifully….music is balm, I wish you continued healing.
Hell yea Brother
I’ve known Rob for over 25 years since before he went into the military. He was married to my best friend who he has kids with. It breaks my heart to see what he has gone through over the years after combat. He truly does have a good heart and would do anything for anyone. Keep playing your music, it’s beautiful.
You need a good woman
Thank u
He wouldn’t do anything for anyone. Throwaway comment
@@terrytownsend5583 who are you ?
@@terrytownsend5583 not anyone 100%
Widow of a Viet Nam Vet with severe PTSD, and ultimately lost to Agent Orange cancer, this interview with Rob profoundly speaks for many Veterans of later "theatres" of war, Bravo for this soldier for being able to speak of it, and finding solace in music. RESPECT!!
So sorry...it's not easy
Sorry for your loss. Thank you for loving him.
Thank you as well
My father in law was a Vietnam vet and died of the same cancer. Everything he did was with dignity and respect. He lived that way and passed that way. I know that was incredibly difficult for you and I'm sorry for your loss.
Agent orange also took my algebra teacher when I was a freshman in HS. Cool guy, he was
Awesome dude. I was blown away when he started playing the piano! Absolutely beautiful! I was not expecting that to come out of him!
He definitely can play! I know you weren't being insensitive. ☮️
@@meow11.11 seriously 🤦🏻♀️ y'all really be finding every little thing to huff and puff about
@@meow11.11🤷♀️🤦♀️
@@vanessaaacThank you.
@@meow11.11 what? 🤨
“Without music life would be a mistake” - Friedrich Nietzsche
Beautiful music Robert! Remember, God is our hope and our peace 🤗
I’m a nurse who works for the VA and I love my veterans. I wish nothing but the best for this man and then him for his sacrifice. Everybody should thank a veteran for their sacrifice when they see them.
Sacrifice for whom? Not for Americans and individual freedom but for destruction of the Middle East and the balkanization of the Arab nations. When Sec. of State Madeline Albright (((Jana Korbel))) was asked about the deaths of 800,000 Iraqi children because of the U.S. sanctions did not allow food or medicine in, she answered “it was worth it."
Mark interviewed another veteran who said not to thank him because what he did in war was awful
@@sublime7480 Most people (including the veterans) do not understand the true point of the wars.
VA is terrible
Wow Robert that piano solo was absolutely beautiful!!! Thank you for serving in our military!! I am so sorry for what you had to go through. I am so glad this can help you with your PSTD. And so glad you have this wonderful support system. YOU ARE A GOOD MAN!!!!! ♥️🇺🇸♥️
Thank you for the kind words
@@robfess23 thank you for your service as both a soldier and a police officer. Music and other art therapy is such a wonderful way of managing mental health. As a pharmacist I can tell you that medication is also a helpful tool but getting the right combination is key. I wish you all the best in your future and keep on playing that beautiful music not only for yourself but for other vets ❤
@tammic2016 thank you! Means alot❤
@@tammic2016thanks
He’s a great guy and a great leader. Was my platoon leader at FORT Lewis.
Thanks buddy!
People don’t understand how difficult it is for people battling with mental issues like ptsd hopefully he has a blessed life and overcomes this .🙏🏼
I have sever PTSD and autistic I tell you it's not easy dealing with it all the thoughts u get are scary
@@cameronlowery3424Ty for your service sir 🙏🏻🇺🇸❤
I’m a retired therapist and people with PTSD need to get connected with a therapist experienced in trauma informed therapy. It really works. It’s the latest treatment and I’ve worked with vets my entire career, not exclusively but in acute suicidal states and I wish this treatment was available 30 years ago. Even 10 years ago.
PTSD sucks , the night terrors haunt oftentimes.
@@cameronlowery3424❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I am his cousin, I am so proud of him, with so much talent❤️🤗
Liar
To every single person reading this who has been/is military or a first responder, thank you for your service.
I’m so very glad you made it home. I’m so sorry for the things you’ve experienced/seen that nobody should ever have to experience/see.
Please make sure you’re taken care of, because you deserve that….and you matter.
Thanks you❤
After battling 20 years of chronic pain, PTSD, and the like, I can totally relate to music being used as a tool for coping, and sweeping the litter from the mind. Rob, may you continue playing for yourself, and for your brothers and sisters. It is a very good thing to share.
Noooo.
@@scottcrawford7674
Never again volunteer yourself
@@scottcrawford7674 well thankfully for the military a new sucker is born every minute
@@scottcrawford7674 gawd bless Murica 💩🖕
@@scottcrawford7674 sure I will move you going to pay for it?
Mark, please do more interviews like this that inspire us with ways to overcome life's challenges. I was expecting hard rock but instead was so pleasantly surprised with that beautiful, relaxing tune.
Thank you❤
Known Rob for many years! Man with so much emotion when he plays the piano and one with the biggest heart you could ever imagine. So proud of you Sir for all you have overcome over the years! Keep it up!!
Thanks ❤
People don't understand the gravity of what war is like. War is hell.
They don't understand what 'Hell' is
Exactly! Because people would rather be, excuse my language, dumb-fucks who won't get off of TikTok to face the bitter truth of reality and, sorry for the expletive again, just won't give a shit.
I absolutely loved this guy. Music definitely helps bring order to chaos. He plays beautifully!
Love these interviews and these guys don’t get the love appreciation and respect that they deserve coming home from that shit they endured and still struggle with
Gawd bless Murica 🤓🖕
What a beautiful person. Truly our armed forces, first responders, Police, Firefighters, & all others that are similar deserve the highest honors for their selflessness and desire to better their community & world. Myself included - I know many of us would have a hard time caring so much about this that we would commit our career to it. For some, they give their lives. Even if they return home.
Thank you❤
@@robfess23 thank YOU man. Thanks for sharing your journey & especially what work you are doing to try to move forward. 🙏 helps us all
FTP
I am a female disabled veteran with PTSD. Music is my best friend and I believe it has prevented me from committing suicide. This true hero has admitted his truth and it’s the only thing that can make you feel free again. Truth is wicked but necessary. I was a corpsman who did not see combat but experienced Military Sexual Trauma multiple times and I realize after victory with my claim #iamvanessaguillen recently during the psych exam that I have been manic for over 33 years. If the general public could just once step foot into a VA facility they would be shocked at what they see. The malpractice I personally have witnessed is appalling. My father a Korean vet also recently passed and reality is we get $300 for a dead sailor who died from mesothelioma all for his country.
It’s insane the stories we all have but most of all I am grateful to God to allow s to live another day of victory and triumph. Rob I am glad you are not one of the 22 a day we loose to suicide. There are many triggers that can test us , but you are changing lives by telling your story. Thank you for letting us in. Semper Fi Anchors away IGY6 Dental Doc 1988-1996
Thank you for your service. My dad is a Marine ❤
I'm so sorry all that happened to you. I understand what you mean about music. Lately I've been listening to Hold On by Triumph. It helps bring my sprit up. It is very sad how our country treats the veterans that fought to protect us and others during times of war. Also veterans that have been traumatized during their service time.
You’re story is💔, I’ll glad you have discovered music is therapeutic, I wish you the all the best☮️
our stories are very similar, i’m also a disabled veteran (out of the army) i did have a combat deployment YET my PTSD is mainly from the sexual trauma i experience in the Army. the VA is such a joke, and it’s such a terrible feeling seeing how many other women are in such a similar position as i am. you’re not alone 🩵
I was also a corpsman! Sorry to hear about your awful experience while in the Navy. I hope you are doing much better now
Thank you Mark for facilitating the interview so we had the chance to hear Robert play on a grand piano. There’s definitely a story to be heard in his music as well! Well done!
I wish there was something I could say that would bring some healing to you and every person suffering with PTSD which would make a difference.
Thank you and all military personnel is thank you for your service. I’m sorry it came at such a high cost, greater than we can imagine.
I appreciate your openness.
Thank you for sharing your source of peace
with us.
Keep on being you. Don’t down yourself for the hard times.
Love and a hug from this Michigan grandma ❤❤❤
Thank you! Means a lot!
@@robfess23 ❤️
His music is so full of emotion.
Thank you for that.
Thanks ❤
The more people that tell there story the better brother. Your strength will bring strength to others like us.
Thanks
I’ve never seen my father in someone else so much, fantastic interview. Genuinely brought me to tears. I hope every veteran gets the help they deserve!
Thank you
Hope is not a plan
Did not expect the amazing piano performance at the end. You never know what ppl have unbelievable natural talents. You would never know that The men or women you work with on a daily basis have some sort of talent. Because most ppl just casually get thru life without really sharing anything about themselves. Work consumes ppl and you really just begin to think, “This is what life is all about”… but nope not at all. Life is about being surprised with things like this from the least ppl you’d imagine.
His piano playing really hit home...as a guitar player it's the only way to escape the pain.
Guitarist here also, and I totally agree ❤
I could listen to him play all day. Beautiful. Don't ever stop playing.
Thanks
You're amazing. Genuine, honest, big heart, brave, vulnerable, badass. People are blessed knowing you.
Glad you found music.
So so sorry for all you've experienced.
GOD BLESS YOU FOR ALL YOU'VE DONE FOR US.
Speak for yourself
Major respect for this humble, courageous man.
Chills, swelling in my chest, teary eyes, internal bliss and peace- how I felt listening to you play. It was beautiful
Thank you❤
@@robfess23loved the playing brother from one veteran (Navy) to another. Keep the Faith! 💪
I never did drugs but the casinos and beer and woman were my F ups after I got out. So I feel the pain. Those casinos are dangerous lol. Been reading the Bible more and taking walks out in the nature. Listening to Rob play the piano was like a breath of fresh air. Maybe I should look into learning.
@@drewdelaney4166 you are right about casinos 💯
I don't have the words, I'm so inspired and grateful for this man's testimony and the sacrifice he and all the other men and women have made to protect our freedom. Shalom
Thanks
Moved to tears...hearing his heartbreaking story of his time in the service, and then to see and hear this beautiful music flow from his soul...amazing. That, to me, is like the Gods healing hands flowing through him, giving him the peace he needs. Thanks for your service ❤
THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE ROB AND TO ALL OUR AMERICAN SOLDIERS!
Thank you❤
Serving the elite 🤓🖕
Best of Luck to you! Thanks for serving our country! 🙏🏼🇺🇸💜
Serving the elite
What a lovely man. Best wishes!
Thank you ❤
His music touches the heart. Beautiful.
THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE ROB. YOU GUYS ARE AWESOME! RESPECT! 🇺🇸
Thanks
He seems like a wonderful human. I find it inspiring how much he believes in the healing power of music.
He’s my brother. Music heals
The price we pay for US imperialism is an ocean of blood, the least we could do is help these soldiers reclaim normal life if possible once they leave the service.
Speak for yourself
Wow what a beautiful human being!! You deserve so much peace and respect! Thank you for sharing a part of your life with us, and please play that beautiful music every chance you get!! I started to cry when you began to play and my heart goes out to you!! ❤ Thank you for your service!! 🇺🇸❤
Stay strong, brother! Your music is great, keep at it!
Solid dude! OEF 2008 11B here. Glad this gentle, giant it's doing good, and fighting a good fight !
Hooah
13B OEF ‘11 🫡
👏🏼👏🏼 I’m active duty Army, love and play piano. Never went to combat and pray I don’t have to. Thank you for all that you’ve done for the military and the police force.
That is a very honest answer!,I'm a 10 years British army veteran and I remember listening to recruit's and new draft proclaiming their thirst for going to war whilst I was praying that they wouldn't get their wish,I understood their thinking but,as you will appreciate,the war lasts longer than just your overseas ops,the war comes home with you and effect's everyone differently and,now as a civilian I have attended more funerals to my friends who came home than 23:24 to the men we lost in combat.i wish you well in your service!
Thank you ❤
Rob, the US Army and the US is fortunate to have had you of service!
You play the piano beautifully….music is balm, I wish you continued healing.
Thanks❤
This was a very touching interview. Loved it. When he started playing I started wiping the tears. Good luck to him and thank you all for your service. God bless ❤
Thank you ❤
Thank you for your service Rob🙏🏻🇺🇸
calm down his efforts over there were pointless. i dont get people who glaze people who served in the army. you're plumber is has more worth than these naive dumb asses who served. you dont see people riding their dicks. greatest miltary couldn't take over a nation of goat lovers in sandals.
Thank you for sharing your experiences with us, Rob. Much love and respect to you!
Oh my gosh. The music was absolutely beautiful. It gave me chills. You are so talented. Thank you for sharing it with the world. ❤
Thank you ❤
Rob plays so beautifully, I hope he continues on his recovery journey. He seems like a great guy who I hope keeps sharing his talent.
Rob, thank you for your service. You play beautifully.
More interviews like this, please! Especially in a time with so much war breaking out it is important for people to truly understand what war is.
I love how Robs face relaxes as he starts to play ! PTSD has been part of my journey due to childhood trauma and self inflicted trauma later . Music has helped me as well . Thank you for your service Rob and I wish you peace 💜
Thank you! Hang in there! You can always reach out to me!
Thank you, Rob for your music. Keep playing. You are not only healing yourself, but you are also healing all who hear its beauty. A gift from above!
Absolutely beautiful, I could listen to him all day. I really was interested in his story and happy that he has found a way to live. Rob, thank you for sharing it all, you are a beautiful soul.
Great interview, Mark. Combat veterans do not get the recognition that they deserve for everything they've been through. Was I the only one who felt like I was chopping onions while he played the piano? It was beautiful! 🩷
What a great guy. I have so much respect for him. I just want to wrap my arms around him and give him the biggest hug. God bless him and heal his pain. 🙏🏻💗
Absolutely breath taking.having a bad day as the anniversary of my husband's death approachs.that music warms my heart.thank you.from the frozen praire of South Dakota peace.
I'm sorry....that's not easy
Beautiful music and amazing story Rob! Thank you!
His story is truly sad but inspiring.
His song at the end was absolutely beautiful. I'm a musician and I am amazed at the complexity and feeling in this piece. Absolutely brilliant ❤️
Thank you
Thank you Rob, for being so brave through your traumas and sharing your story. As a female Veteran, I'm still fighting through 22 years of pain, combat deployments and multiple traumas myself. So accurate and relatable, thank you Mark for posting the War Veteran's story.
You will be ok never give up
Thank you !❤
Thank you ❤ Thank you for your service❤
Rob thank you for your service and sharing your story. You play the piano beautifully.
Like these interviews when veterans have a moment to share their stories, like he is on too, talking helps. Wish him the best ! Greetings from Sweden
Thank you for serving & protecting our country Rob. & thank you to all the active & vets watching this video. 💕
How beautiful the journey he played on the piano. It told a story
Great piano player! He’s a good man and I wish him nothing but the best! My husband is a retired A10 pilot. He’s seen combat from a different perspective.
Thank you Mark for bringing us Rob! It is so refreshing to have an uplifting story… first in a while. I must admit, I’ve had to look away from SWU lately to preserve my own mental health. With current events around the world, the strength, healing, struggles, and positivity Rob shows us here brings hope. After all, what do we have left if we don’t have hope? I am looking for his beautiful music to not only hear more for myself but to help support him in his strive for stability. Best wishes to you, Rob. Many thanks to you, Mark. Peace and love for everyone. We all need more peace and love. ☮️
Thank you❤
Thank you❤
@@robfess23 Your music is incredible. I think the one that put me in a trance is called ‘Breathe’… it is beautiful! ☮️
Thanks for your service Rob! I have four sons who served with the USMC in Iraq and Afghanistan. I appreciate your insight on things like using music to help.
That is awesome! I know you are very proud!
Wow a Marine! That is awesome!! Marines are always professional and always ready to serve
Serving the elite 🤓🖕
Unbelievably beautiful music!! I suffer from MAJOR anxiety and when I heard him play it immediately calmed me!! Sorry you had to go through that to get to this! What an amazing gift to all of us!!
Thank you❤
Wow!!! It’s crazy how music with no words can be sooo deep!! Amazing talent! ❤❤
This was a great interview. Listening to his beautiful music right now. Best wishes to you, Rob. Thank you for your service.
Thank you❤
Serving the elite
WOW!! Thank you Mark🫶 Thank you for sharing your story Rob & for your Service🙏🇺🇸👏🏻👍🏻👍🏻
EVERYONE NEEDS A PURPOSE TO SERVIVE❤🤍💙
Lost my father in 2002 then a good friend a few months later, graduated High School in 2003 and joined the Army Infantry. Did 4 deployments total(2 Iraq, 2 Afghanistan), sudden loss and trauma was nothing new but losing friends in War changes you in ways people will never understand unless they lived it. Quit drinking 4 years ago, solid support system from my wife and son, counseling and working full time has saved my life. Take care brother.
Its good to read that your live is better now.
Thanks for your service!
Thank your for your service warrior!
Rob thank you for your service! You play beautifully so keep making the right decisions ❤
Wow thank you for your service wishing you lots of mental well being
The song reminded me of the fragile condition of humanity not lost, but won!
You're an incredible person Rob- keep making the right decisions. You've done more for humanity than most will ever even attempt. Thank you for your service and I wish you all the best 🎶 🎵
The interview, the music, all perfect. ❤
If Rob is single, so am I. 😊
Mental illness is the worst illness. I totally sympathize with anyone that suffers this horrendous illness. THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE! ❤️♥️❤️♥️
Those who’ve never experienced it, will never understand.
@@baublesanddolls
Never say never
Simply beautiful
Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your experience.
My partner has a similar veteran story.
Also, you are a wonderful pianist! Keep it up.
Thank you!
I have the most respect for our Country's military, especially those that have been or are in combat. Thank you to all that serve, to me it is not just a small sentiment, it is coming from my heart and soul. I have cried for those we lose, I may not know them, but I have shed many tears.
Absolutely amazing! Way to go Rob!! I can imagine a beautiful ballet with this music.
Brave men ; our vets. Respect - no one understands a vet like another vet. ❤
Thank you so much for your service and putting your life on line for our country. My husband was 5 yrs Army and 2 yrs Air Force reserves with 2 yrs being a police officer. He has PTSD and hearing everything he has told me is something a lot of us can’t comprehend because it’s just horrific.
Thank you❤
Very uplifting to see Rob find a productive and healing way to work through his emotions. Sharing his gift with others is the most selfless act possible. Thank you Rob for caring.
Thanks for your service Rob. My dad was in WWII he had PTSD.
Thank you! And your father's service
I have the utmost respect for you, Rob. It brings me to tears how much you and other U.S. military men and women sacrifice, well beyond your years of service-really, for the rest of your lives-so people like me can live without fear in freedom. Your music is so powerful and touching-I am now headed to Spotify to listen to more of you! THANK YOU, from the bottom of my heart…more than I can ever say…for your selfless sacrifice. Wishing you strength, peace, and healing.❤
Thank you
Thank you to SWU for bringing this inspiring content. Thank you Rob for sharing your moving story and your beautiful music. Thank you so much for your service. ❤
What a great guy, may God bless you ❤
Thank you so much for your service I know that sounds cheesy but, I have a daughter in the Air Force I worry about her, I also struggle with PTSD and spend most of my day in my bedroom, haven't found my purpose yet, Lost my son, entire family is military may God bless you❤. Rambling don't know what to say
Amazing beautiful playing, thank you for ur service
Beautifully done Robert. Thank you for your Service to our Country Sir
Thanks
Rob, thank you for your service to our country. Your music is wonderful - very moving. So glad to have seen and heard you play.
Thank you for getting your story out in the public eye. As a vet myself, music is diffidently a great outlet for us that have PTSD....🙏
Thanks
Rob, your song told a story to me, extraordinary talent.Keep on keepin' on, keep your head above water. America needs you! Truly thank you for your service 🇺🇸 ( my Dad was a Marine and played piano at the VA too ) ✌️
Thank you ❤
Great story and a great solier.God Bless him ,he tells it like it is and doesn't hold back.I pray for him and all the other military men and women all across this wonderful nation we live in
Sucks that he still struggling with his addiction. As a recovering drug addict i can definitely relate. Seems like such a great dude and i have nothing but respect for him and i would like to thank him for serving our great country. Thank you sir! Beautiful music.
Thanks! Yes I struggle with cocaine. But I have been good
Rob, I am ever grateful for you choosing to come on Mark's channel. This morning I woke up w not good feelings from family problems and not feeling loved kind of a thing and I heard you play and I keep repeating this over and over and it has soothed my worries. My faith in God and mankind in me awakened turning my not so good feelings into a beautiful day ❤
Much love my friend, great interview! Told you not to stress it. Your a great man, with one hell of a gift!
Thanks Fabian!
Who else was flooded with emotion when he started playing?🙋♀️ Thank you, Rob for sharing your heart with me and with world. Thank you, Mark. You are loved. And to whomever is reading this, you are loved. God bless all❤🌏
P3as
Thank you
For me it told it's own story :) Beautiful :)
Eyes a still a bit wet
@@FockYeah Yep! Anyone got a tissue?