yes, because the system and society was constructed like this. We didn't create the rules, we just live according to the rules. If everything we wanna do needs money, who the fukk in this world would refuse it? But anyway, money sometimes is not the most important point, but it's an essencial point for a relationship. Moreover, there are plenty of different people in the world, each one with some specific tastes and characteristics, wanting to have a deep relationship and connection.
99.9% of the time it comes down to $ ( house , car , income , ) the remaining would be height , looks , location of your resident card , do parents rely on you etc. Money talks loud n clear
But they also say it in a difference sequence. Tall handsome comes first. If you have a lot of money and don't have looks, they will just use you for money. At that point it is better to go to the Chinese brothels for a quick rumble with a hooker.
Maybe it's just me, but these women were asked an unexpected question about a hypothetical situation and gave general answers. It's not like they agonized over those answers. They just popped out the first thing which came to mind and was socially acceptable. That's a long way from actually making a decision on a specific man. The question was also for a hypothetical "perfect man" who doesn't exist, not who they actually will settle for. I thought they did a fine job.
The interviewer is asking these women what their ideal (理想) type is, not necessarily what they actually expect. Not saying these womens actual expectations are realistic, but the question being asked has nothing to do with realistic expectations.
I think this is a good point to keep in mind. Half way through I was wondering if any of them are in tune with reality, then realised....the question wasn't about reality.
Oh, oooh, okay, I can play. Yeah, in a partner I'm looking for an incredibly beautiful, extremely wealthy and young woman who is only interested and completely loyal to me and wants to serve me and would never think of another man. At the same time she wants me to freely enjoy as many other women as I like and happy to provide me a big allowance for that. She's also very clean, organized and has a great sense of style and capable to carry on many conversations from art to geopolitics to spirituality. And take care of my dog when I travel adventure without her. Oh and if I die first, she'll remain grieving the rest of her life. Those are my standards and I won't lower them! Any other questions? WTF!
我觉得这些采访有趣也一个很好的方法学中文。You have several people giving slightly different answers and also saying similar vocabulary. It helps train listening skills. It would be interesting to hear their answers to “what do they think men look for in an ideal women？”，” what do they personally bring to a relationship?” , “ An ideal man should have xyz, what aspects are the women willing to be flexible on in a relationship “.
So many misogynists on the comment thread. Let me make it clear as a woman. A lot of us simply don't go for rich men but we simply seek compatibility and physical attraction atleast to the eye of that particular female atleast upto a certain extent to feel comfortable with the opposite gender by seeing him or for intimacy which any human being or even men seek.
trust me, china is way worse, ever heard about 'caili'? when marriage, the guy should give bride's family a huge amount of money, usually started from 10,000 usd, and what's fuck up about this is, most feminists in China think this is right.
@@ArtOf8Limbs-mc2ok yes, because the system and society was constructed like this. We didn't create the rules, we just live according to the rules. If everything we wanna do needs money, who the fukk in this world would refuse it? But anyway, money sometimes is not the most important point, but it's an essencial point for a relationship. Moreover, there are plenty of different people in the world, each one with some specific tastes and characteristics, wanting to have a deep relationship and connection.
As soon as you realize that ALL women want the same thing, tall, rich, funny, then you know they are not special. Remember, men are the prize, not them, and make sure the like you more instead of status.
Bro 99% of girls ideal type is like that. Also ideal type is different doesn’t mean they will go through with they said since an ideal type is not realistic
@@emarcostar men do not lose out in life if they remain single, I have never seen a miserable single man in his 50's and never seen a happy single woman in her 50s.
It usually comes down to tall and handsome with money (高富帅） or to have a car and a house (有车有房). Maybe some after a certain age, will also consider a good passport.
I think this idea of tall , handsome and with money is specially influenced by their social midia. Featuring a TV show where the main protagonist have all that characteristics. Maybe it's just like that worldwide, but we have to pay attention not to be lost in superficial characteristics only
Didn't think the delulu idea's of the west would be similar to that of chinese girls, although most of these girls in shanghai are typically richer so they have these 'higher delulu standards' i think the majority of chinese girls are not like this.
Most of it comes from tradition then mixed with the new foreigner culture. In their tradition a man to marry a woman has to give a dowry. Reason why many men are called "left over" in China and they don't care, not does the women who are left over. But many relationships in china doesn't rely on love or feelings. It is about if their are stable in life, if they have a house in certain area and a car.
jeppp ....... i found my favourite girl on 5:33 ...... open minded, friendly, long black hair, not to young, very good loooking and realistic - an experienced woman,not a dreaming girl ! With this kind of woman i could learn chinese hours over hours for a long time, visit many cultural place all over china, would have humorous tasting of streetfood and romantic evenings in luxury places or even in nature ... until we know eatch other without speaking, sitting side by side and feeling complete. Then we could share our wealth and do as much good deeds as possible all around the places for humans and animals in a christian and buddhistic way ..... and of course also enjoy enough for ourselves ;-)
The video "as long as he's responsable and good to me it's fine" the comments "women ask for too much, what can you offer? They will never find a real men. You men are the delulu ones if you think they asking for a clean, responsable men who treats his gf well is asking for too much 😂
Rich,loaded with money , a condominium, landed property, bonus with a luxurious car, always getting new gold necklace or bracelet during birthdays and lastly a lot a lot of credit cards. This is what mostly an ideal man for Chinese women to be searching.
The girls can state what they want to want & conditions of male partner to marry her; But hold on girls, to be fair to both sides, then you got to tell, *_What can you offer?_* (to the man you love to be your hubby!) (☝️this happened, during SK Sum's & wife recent 8 Days trip to Jiang Xi, China; When the young lady tour guide spoke out all her required conditions to marry any an eligible single man; Then SK Sum asked her, *_"What can you offer?"_* - to that man, she was stunned - unable to answer! the whole bus of others burst in a loud laughter! 😂🙏🙇♂️🌷)
@@autodigitvlogs She shld say, she can offer - stop working, live in his condo/apartment, housekeeping it clean & build up a happy family with him, use his car to send our kids, or parents, or buy groceries & essentials when needed, use his washing machine to wash, iron his clothes, so on & so forth.... with his sufficient monthly money given to her, save some of it..... and shall remain faithful & stay with him till death do us apart. 😁
@2:17. @3:05. @3:13. @4:06. @5:34. In my opinion, only the responses of 5 women were based on reality which is reflective of their maturity experiences, and intelligence.
What are men all over the world looking for? Easygoing, cheerful, supportive as a team player (does her part), and of course the most beautiful the guy can get. We don't care about your job or money but if too dumb you might not pass some guy's test. -------------------------------------- 1:23 3rd place ex-aequo 1:28 1:34 4'11'' fat girl - Over 6 feet lol there you go guys, it's worldwide lololol she adds "shouldn't get jealous easily" - beware guys you won't be the only one.. 2:27 it's a guy.. 3:09 she beat the record 6'1'' lolol 4:25 in pink - Cutie!!! 2nd place, could change after a date. 5:16 WINNER! She exudes a classy vibe.
@@ImaDreamerxd 185 in china ,giant? 这离谱了哥们，你低估了中国年轻人的身高，我189从来就没被说过巨人，我甚至都不是班里最高的，一次也没有!在2019年中国19岁男性平均身高就已经有175.7cm你可以去看看柳叶刀的文章Height and body-mass index trajectories of school-aged children and adolescents from 1985 to 2019 in 200 countries and territories: a pooled analysis of 2181 population-based studies with 65 million participants 在北京18岁男性的身高甚至有177
@@ImaDreamerxd 185 in china ,giant? That's outrageous dude, you underestimate the height of young Chinese people, I've never been called a giant at 189, I'm not even the tallest in my class, not even once! In 2019 the average height of 19-year-old males in China was already 175.7cm You can check out the Lancet article Height and body-mass index trajectories of school-aged children and adolescents from 1985 to 2019 in 200 countries and territories: a pooled analysis of 2181 population-based studies with 65 million participants In my hometown Beijing the average height of 18-year-old male is even 177
Frankly i dont think is unrealistic. when you ask a question "what is your ideal partner" whether is from a male or female perspective , most people have a dream partner in mind but that doesnt mean one will ever find one. for most men, i believe many will also wish too have a pretty and sexy partner.
Als Europäer find ich asiatische Frauen wenn das hier eine Art Querschnitt bildet doch arg unattraktiv und das im Vergleich zu dem was heutzutage im Westen so rumläuft.
I guess much probably only if he is in love. Because successful people tend to get togethe with people who has the same "status". So , except for a true love, a tall and rich guy woudn't marry them, lol.
Emotionally stable = Money
Confidence = Money
real smart = money
needs to spoil me = money
motivated = money
driven = money
bingo
@@slcainehmierz7681 bingo
😂
yes, because the system and society was constructed like this. We didn't create the rules, we just live according to the rules. If everything we wanna do needs money, who the fukk in this world would refuse it? But anyway, money sometimes is not the most important point, but it's an essencial point for a relationship. Moreover, there are plenty of different people in the world, each one with some specific tastes and characteristics, wanting to have a deep relationship and connection.
Rich and handsome are the top 2 priorities of all the women around the world.
Not possible, they are all unique butterflies.
Priorities have to matching to terms provided from the other end..
And tall..
@@PentaRaus very false
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99.9% of the time it comes down to $ ( house , car , income , ) the remaining would be height , looks , location of your resident card , do parents rely on you etc. Money talks loud n clear
But they also say it in a difference sequence. Tall handsome comes first. If you have a lot of money and don't have looks, they will just use you for money. At that point it is better to go to the Chinese brothels for a quick rumble with a hooker.
it's very hard to find people accept to do interview great job
Maybe it's just me, but these women were asked an unexpected question about a hypothetical situation and gave general answers. It's not like they agonized over those answers. They just popped out the first thing which came to mind and was socially acceptable. That's a long way from actually making a decision on a specific man. The question was also for a hypothetical "perfect man" who doesn't exist, not who they actually will settle for. I thought they did a fine job.
The interviewer is asking these women what their ideal (理想) type is, not necessarily what they actually expect. Not saying these womens actual expectations are realistic, but the question being asked has nothing to do with realistic expectations.
I think this is a good point to keep in mind. Half way through I was wondering if any of them are in tune with reality, then realised....the question wasn't about reality.
Oh, oooh, okay, I can play. Yeah, in a partner I'm looking for an incredibly beautiful, extremely wealthy and young woman who is only interested and completely loyal to me and wants to serve me and would never think of another man. At the same time she wants me to freely enjoy as many other women as I like and happy to provide me a big allowance for that. She's also very clean, organized and has a great sense of style and capable to carry on many conversations from art to geopolitics to spirituality. And take care of my dog when I travel adventure without her. Oh and if I die first, she'll remain grieving the rest of her life. Those are my standards and I won't lower them! Any other questions? WTF!
Finally, an abundance of beautiful Chinese ladies. My confidence in China has been restored. Thank you for this video.
Have only seen 2 max 3 that matches my taste. The rest are very below.
Second girl, blond one and the one with the black basecap.
Second one is definitely on a higher level than the rest. @@slcainehmierz7681
Ok Mr.Incel
@@slcainehmierz7681 "My taste"... it's a good thing you will only end up with 1 unlucky lady.
4:44 Beautiful of them all, not white skin but skin looks healthy and smooth and beauty is natural 😊
我觉得这些采访有趣也一个很好的方法学中文。You have several people giving slightly different answers and also saying similar vocabulary. It helps train listening skills. It would be interesting to hear their answers to “what do they think men look for in an ideal women？”，” what do they personally bring to a relationship?” , “ An ideal man should have xyz, what aspects are the women willing to be flexible on in a relationship “.
which country are you from?
So many misogynists on the comment thread. Let me make it clear as a woman. A lot of us simply don't go for rich men but we simply seek compatibility and physical attraction atleast to the eye of that particular female atleast upto a certain extent to feel comfortable with the opposite gender by seeing him or for intimacy which any human being or even men seek.
We need more of these types of video!
How high are dowry prices in Shanghai?
Girl who said she wants personality to be like *Thanos* is wild!
That's maybe the most unnerving answer I've heard in one of these videos, and I want to hear more.
The girl in a black dress is so beautiful and also has very nice personality
10. He must have 0 standards and must accept me when we meet.
I love how this vid just randomly pops up and i can't help but just laugh. I thought the US was bad but this one takes the cake.
trust me, china is way worse, ever heard about 'caili'? when marriage, the guy should give bride's family a huge amount of money, usually started from 10,000 usd, and what's fuck up about this is, most feminists in China think this is right.
They may all just say "solve my problems!" and save all those grocery lists.
2nd girl was so beautiful
haha yeah
And only money the rest doesn’t mean anything. You can literally treat them as shot as long as you have money.
1) very attractive
2) very attractive
3) wealthy
4) tall
5) very attractive
Short not that attractive but super rich Harvard educated guy comes in and won. 😂
@@ArtOf8Limbs-mc2ok yes, because the system and society was constructed like this. We didn't create the rules, we just live according to the rules. If everything we wanna do needs money, who the fukk in this world would refuse it? But anyway, money sometimes is not the most important point, but it's an essencial point for a relationship. Moreover, there are plenty of different people in the world, each one with some specific tastes and characteristics, wanting to have a deep relationship and connection.
Pinyin y Español. 🙏
Gracias.
As soon as you realize that ALL women want the same thing, tall, rich, funny, then you know they are not special.
Remember, men are the prize, not them, and make sure the like you more instead of status.
Men were never the price and will never be 😂😂😂
All women are the same just like all men are the same
Bro 99% of girls ideal type is like that. Also ideal type is different doesn’t mean they will go through with they said since an ideal type is not realistic
@@emarcostar men do not lose out in life if they remain single, I have never seen a miserable single man in his 50's and never seen a happy single woman in her 50s.
@@shayson1357 lol
It usually comes down to tall and handsome with money (高富帅） or to have a car and a house (有车有房). Maybe some after a certain age, will also consider a good passport.
I think this idea of tall , handsome and with money is specially influenced by their social midia. Featuring a TV show where the main protagonist have all that characteristics. Maybe it's just like that worldwide, but we have to pay attention not to be lost in superficial characteristics only
Judging from my online dating experience (in 2016): money, money, money...
Didn't think the delulu idea's of the west would be similar to that of chinese girls, although most of these girls in shanghai are typically richer so they have these 'higher delulu standards' i think the majority of chinese girls are not like this.
Most of it comes from tradition then mixed with the new foreigner culture. In their tradition a man to marry a woman has to give a dowry. Reason why many men are called "left over" in China and they don't care, not does the women who are left over.
But many relationships in china doesn't rely on love or feelings. It is about if their are stable in life, if they have a house in certain area and a car.
Can you do more videos like these covering different topics? They’re great for learning Chinese. Thank you!
Thank god somebody said "Funny", i'm still in the game xD
jeppp ....... i found my favourite girl on 5:33 ...... open minded, friendly, long black hair, not to young, very good loooking and realistic - an experienced woman,not a dreaming girl ! With this kind of woman i could learn chinese hours over hours for a long time, visit many cultural place all over china, would have humorous tasting of streetfood and romantic evenings in luxury places or even in nature ... until we know eatch other without speaking, sitting side by side and feeling complete. Then we could share our wealth and do as much good deeds as possible all around the places for humans and animals in a christian and buddhistic way ..... and of course also enjoy enough for ourselves ;-)
5:01 is hilarious
"You may not like it, but this is the ideal male body type."
are these the same girls of the other video? This is weird. the girl at 0:14 is also in another video.
@@ReallyBadJosy yes i interviewed her for different questions
Next question. Do you ladies have the qualities, attitude, mindset and character that the men you want, would want from you?
many demands while they are young, when they are over 30, anyone hahahaha!😅
Actually their demands increase when they're over 30... It's why there are now countless single (and delusional) 30+ year old women in China.
Once they reach 30, and still single most of them will become feminists 😂😂
Chinese women care A LOT about men's height I've noticed. They are similar to Korean women in this regard.
the other Chinese Channel said that they wanted gifts and Status symbol in a man makes 1 million Yuan a year-and in no way are they just a baby maker
It’s money 💰
感觉那个说“在一起舒服”的妹子是在说自己的真实想法（注意她的眼神，沉稳而坦然），别的女生很多一看就是标准的答题模式，说的东西估计自己不信。。。
This video should be titled: "What Are Chinese Girls and one Chinese Boy Looking for in a Partner?
The video "as long as he's responsable and good to me it's fine" the comments "women ask for too much, what can you offer? They will never find a real men. You men are the delulu ones if you think they asking for a clean, responsable men who treats his gf well is asking for too much 😂
Rich,loaded with money , a condominium, landed property, bonus with a luxurious car, always getting new gold necklace or bracelet during birthdays and lastly a lot a lot of credit cards. This is what mostly an ideal man for Chinese women to be searching.
u could just bundle all that under the hood of "sense of responsibility " like those girls did(most)
Did you even watch the video?
@@StanleyJohnson-b4v a load of lies.
As a man, that's my ideal type. 😅
Jezzzz i feel srry for men there then. thats why nobody is having kids now days.
The girls can state what they want to want & conditions of male partner to marry her;
But hold on girls, to be fair to both sides, then you got to tell,
*_What can you offer?_* (to the man you love to be your hubby!)
(☝️this happened, during SK Sum's & wife recent 8 Days trip to Jiang Xi, China;
When the young lady tour guide spoke out all her required conditions to marry any an eligible single man;
Then SK Sum asked her, *_"What can you offer?"_* - to that man, she was stunned - unable to answer! the whole bus of others burst in a loud laughter! 😂🙏🙇♂️🌷)
She should have said "a little" or not much.
@@autodigitvlogs
She shld say, she can offer - stop working, live in his condo/apartment, housekeeping it clean & build up a happy family with him, use his car to send our kids, or parents, or buy groceries & essentials when needed, use his washing machine to wash, iron his clothes, so on & so forth.... with his sufficient monthly money given to her, save some of it..... and shall remain faithful & stay with him till death do us apart. 😁
money looks and everything in the world that is top 1%.
"taller than 6ft" 💀
Girl want a guy to have Japanese anime character personality. Ok where can I sign up 😂
That chick really said a “womanizer”. That’s hilarious.
@2:17.
@3:05.
@3:13.
@4:06.
@5:34.
In my opinion, only the responses of 5 women were based on reality which is reflective of their maturity experiences, and intelligence.
What are men all over the world looking for? Easygoing, cheerful, supportive as a team player (does her part), and of course the most beautiful the guy can get.
We don't care about your job or money but if too dumb you might not pass some guy's test.
--------------------------------------
1:23 3rd place ex-aequo 1:28
1:34 4'11'' fat girl - Over 6 feet lol there you go guys, it's worldwide lololol she adds "shouldn't get jealous easily" - beware guys you won't be the only one..
2:27 it's a guy..
3:09 she beat the record 6'1'' lolol
4:25 in pink - Cutie!!! 2nd place, could change after a date.
5:16 WINNER! She exudes a classy vibe.
6 foot tall; 6 inch manhood and 6 figure income🥱
Either Chinese is the most efficient language in the world, or these chick's all speak really fast. Had no time at all to read most of the subtitles.
I know where the 2:16 Pushing 70 year old woman can find a man in her age range... In Canada... 😁🙃😉😍🥰😇
does these women bring any value to the relationship??
😂😂😂
no.
Buuuuu.....
I'm pretty sure they can produce babies for ultra rich men. 😅
No just a p trap
2:26 no way china has got them trans people now too hahahahha
Why not look a the whole ladyboy thing and other stuff.
Woman said “taller than 6’ 1”. So she just left out 96% of men as suitable. Good luck
hahah yes, this is like 1,85, imagine that in China. The guy is a giant
@@ImaDreamerxd 185 in china ,giant? 这离谱了哥们，你低估了中国年轻人的身高，我189从来就没被说过巨人，我甚至都不是班里最高的，一次也没有!在2019年中国19岁男性平均身高就已经有175.7cm你可以去看看柳叶刀的文章Height and body-mass index trajectories of school-aged children and adolescents from 1985 to 2019 in 200 countries and territories: a pooled analysis of 2181 population-based studies with 65 million participants
在北京18岁男性的身高甚至有177
@@ImaDreamerxd 185 in china ,giant? That's outrageous dude, you underestimate the height of young Chinese people, I've never been called a giant at 189, I'm not even the tallest in my class, not even once! In 2019 the average height of 19-year-old males in China was already 175.7cm You can check out the Lancet article Height and body-mass index trajectories of school-aged children and adolescents from 1985 to 2019 in 200 countries and territories: a pooled analysis of 2181 population-based studies with 65 million participants
In my hometown Beijing the average height of 18-year-old male is even 177
@@franklee2679 thanks for the info
@@franklee2679 I believe you are speaking in cm, and he was referring to meters.
these girls are not realistic
Because the question is stupid, instead of "practical" than "ideal."
Frankly i dont think is unrealistic. when you ask a question "what is your ideal partner" whether is from a male or female perspective , most people have a dream partner in mind but that doesnt mean one will ever find one. for most men, i believe many will also wish too have a pretty and sexy partner.
A rich simp. That's the video.
give me 99% of your money and I'll like you, okay how about no, lol
баярлалаа
4:47 哇哇！这个女孩真可爱。当然，我永远都会服从她。
be smart
@@gabrielgadze1208 what do you mean?
@@acebeariously9856 obey her ? really.whatever she says?
@@gabrielgadze1208 ye id like that.
@@gabrielgadze1208 if you know such a woman tell me her name lol.
说的大多官腔，到都来还是💰或颜值。当然两样都有是最好不过。 说些什么聪明，责任心，忠心都是屁话。
😍😍😍😍🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
I feel sorry for Chinese men living in China
Its not any better in other western countries
@shinrinyokumusic1808 it is a little bit better but China is closer to Thailand than America😅
Mad
Dowry or Credit Ka? 😂
They would date kim jung un for the right price
lol
所以国内有过亿的90后还单着。太会幻想了。
No chance
thats why i became hypergamy for a man i wont settle for less believing in love is naive only leads to disaster.
This is silly. No women know what they want.
Congratulations ladies you can have cats and dogs. Enjoy being single for rest of your life.
You damn Right
They already do 😂
Als Europäer find ich asiatische Frauen wenn das hier eine Art Querschnitt bildet doch arg unattraktiv und das im Vergleich zu dem was heutzutage im Westen so rumläuft.
lol
$$$
Bullshit.
All gold diggers
Garbage
would a rich tall handsome funny intelligent guy pick any of these females as a wife ?????????
No men with money are not tied down to the p trap
I guess much probably only if he is in love. Because successful people tend to get togethe with people who has the same "status". So , except for a true love, a tall and rich guy woudn't marry them, lol.
Really is just me or this video sounds like chin chon chin chan chin, chun chin chan, pam pum chin pin?
It's just you
It's just you. Cause you know nothing about mandarin. 😂 😂
Go take your medicine. Your ears are bad again.
哇，上海的转移支付美女这么多，咋采访的这么难看。。。
好看的还没起床，人要上夜班的
@@liyexiang666 🤣
Says the person with no profile photo lol
说的大多官腔，到都来还是💰或颜值。当然两样都有是最好不过。 说些什么聪明，责任心，忠心都是屁话。