Chinese Girls' True Opinions on Splitting the Bill on Dates
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
- Here on the streets of Shanghai, China, we interviewed numerous Chinese women, asking them about their thoughts on splitting the bill between couples. The responses were surprising, varied, and full of personality! What do you think? Let me know in the comments.
From advocates of equality who believe in going Dutch to traditionalists who think men should take the financial lead, this video offers a fascinating snapshot of contemporary views on love and gender roles in China. You'll hear from women of all ages and backgrounds, sharing unique perspectives that highlight the evolving dynamics of relationships.
If you're interested in Chinese culture, modern romance, or just love a good street interview, this video is A must-watch.
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These Chinese girls are all reasonable and nice.
These chinese women are more open than many western women
第一次听到这样说的，大部人都说中国女生保守。不过我感觉可能是有这两种情况：
1、上面受采访的女生都是出国留学的吧，认知提起来了就会比较开放。
2、上面的女生比价年轻，价值观还是比较正的。
Sure and the USA aka IOU-country has no debts and little-India is a superpower
The fact that you're willing to go dutch, already is enough for me to not let you go dutch. That of course has to be coming from the heart first.
Reasonable and sensible responses from these young girls.
Did anyone else notice how clean the streets are and the refreshing absence of graffiti on the buildings?
This is FFC, the very best part of Shanghai (and maybe all of China).
Walk a few blocks east or north and you'll see graffiti, trash, and grannies' big ole panties drying on every other patio.
Good work comrade!
Because crime gets punished .. where as here in the USA…. . 🤷🏻♂️
@@funkychicken2119 yes….the criminals run the show and buy elections and the media and….
@@funkychicken2119 yes even speaking is considered a crime in China. Progress!
What a contrast to the "hate all men", "down with the patriarchy", "female superiority" BS in the west. This sounds more level headed and down to earth.
Dont be fooled.
Dont be fooled.
Many chinese women are still influenced by feminism, however it is correct that china wants more traditional roles and people actually respect eachother
yeah and those woman suffer loneliness here pretty hard. Chinese men just not gonna mess with those or rather those woman don't date "normal" chinese men, and the caliber of men that they want don't want to touch them with a 10 foot pole. Some chinese woman take that as an example and going back to traditional gender roles with more realistic standards
Oh they're just acting. I'll be damned if I trust any of these city women.
Chinese women actually are very independent and thoughtful, thank you for sharing, I love your channel! 🎉
The current Chinese women between 23-45 are the most greedy generation of Chinese women in the last 100 years. When you interview them, many will take the high road.
😂😂😂😂😂
Thank you for the Chinese subtitles! It's really helpful to have both English and Chinese subtitles.
thank you so much for your hard work! thanks especially for the mandarin subtitles, it helps me learn 🥰💕✨👍
@@kenneseyl2819 it’s my pleasure! 😇
Interesantes respuestas de las mujeres chinas parecen mas de apoyo mutuo que exprimir al otro y sacar provecho de la situacion.
I think this video is more accurate. I'm British born Chinese. China is not westernized like a lot of youtubers say it is. A lot of women in China are like this, they like to either go AA or split the bill. Sometimes they pay for the whole meal (not something that I want but they fight to pay the whole bill, then I have to fight them back). Nothing like western women at all. Obviously you will always come across women who expect you to pay for everything, but it's rare in China.
I'm not an old man, so I don't know what an old man experience is like lol. A large percentage of women make around 300 to 400 uk pounds per month. Factories, coffee shops, McDonald and restaurants. Women that make more are in the upper 30 percent
you really don’t know chinese women 😅 your experience is strictly british
@@youtubeaccount1716 yeah maybe. Being British helps I think. These are my experiences though and feel Chinese women are nice imo. I don't know how they are towards Chinese men in China. I always had good experiences and find them reasonable
It's commonly accepted or even required to take marriage as a tool to move women's social class up in China, which then leads to a lot of behaviors, including having men to pay the bill. There are exceptions, mostly in tie-r 1 big cities, but the common culture is like that. The tolerance for gold diggers and trophy wives is signficantly higher in China, or even in many parts of Asia, compared to America and Europe.
I thought the views showed Chinese women are pretty balanced in their thinking
Going Dutch means friendzone. Treating the guy meals occasionally and buying him gifts is called dating.
C'mon...we know the exact meaning... Dutch look at their money like hell...
Going Dutch means an equal split of a bill. I think we understand what it means. It's up to the people in the relationship.
@@freddupont9605and you dont? Must be why your here commenting on their habits while the dutch own the most valuable company in europe.
@@Jalee4852 No, I don't look at my money like them, they're cheapskates. "while the dutch own the most valuable company in europe.": no, they don't.
@@freddupont9605 As a Dutchman i can tell you that that is not the case anymore. literally. and we dont even split bills often anymore as well. only when we are with friends. dates? guys often pay. which i am not ok with mind you. women can pay as well
Great channel, thx youtube for recommending this video out of the blue
Most of these girl's are stunning beauties :-)
When in relation or not share the bill.guy and lady like tht look to have value.😊😊😊
I have a face!😂
I think she meant goodlooking.
same with vietnamese culture, we guys generally prefer to pay for the girls that we are interest in...and vice versa, once the guy pay for the dinner, the girls often offer to pay for movies or something else. Unlike the US, not all, but the ones that expect the guys to pay for everything even though they aren't married or anything like that, those belong to the trash bin.
VN girls are awesome
@FrickinCCDeVileV but some of them can be crazy, they take the vow till death do us part...literary.
@@thienpham911 I saw some crazy stuff when i went there yes 🤣
😂这是在上海的采访吗？观念比我们小地方先进不少🎉🎉我们这边母人巴不得把男的钱包吸干榨干
Exactly. Even in Shanghai women there are still gold diggers haha.
I'm Dutch. Lets go.
do dutch actually "go dutch" and how do they call it?
Ok lets goooooo
To be honest, I don't like it when people pay for my food. I like to pay for everyone's meal, it feels wrong not to do so. XD
Give what you have will set you free (he/she then can say you love money more than me)
Never listen to them and see what they do
if you don't want to split it , you can pay it all.
Learn something new everyday. Especially Dutch.
As a Native Dutchman i can assure you that the phrase Going Dutch means literally nothing anymore. we are way too americanized for that. we guys have to pay for literally everything here. the only thing we dont pay is the bill if we go out for drinks with friends. we do split the bill often. but on Dates? yeah no its the guy who pays.
@@metalvideos1961 are you a gentlemen?
@@Go4Broke247 i am a guy but i have different meanings of a Gentlemen is. its not paying for a dinner thats for sure. people can make their own money and pay for their own food right? why should we as a guy have to do that literally never made sense to me.
Love Shanghai accent. quite easy to understand for me
They dont have any accents, just mandarin
@@annieq4049 EVERY Country on the planet got different accents in between their own borders. Northern Chinese is completely different then Sothern Chinese.
Gimme those girls who contribute to the share!!
seems like most chinese girls prefers the guys to pay.
Hi just I would like to ask do you have any friends women here in Sydney so I can go for a drink coffee?
Just be natural and not calculative for a relationship to work. Give and take.
Nowadays the part of give looks like hadr a lot for many women, especially in western countrys
If you have a woman making $5000 a month, and a man making $2000 a month, then maybe the woman should find a man that also makes $5000 a month? Is that what love is? Finding someone in the same pay scale as you? Might as well be a feudal society.
Chinese women are very practical or they call it "realistic" and that's being nice because gold digging there is as old as time except their digging is far more sophisticated and undetectable than most women in other countries.
That is the truth about love in the 21st century. All that Disney movies and romantic comedies lie to us the whole time. A man is loved by what he provides, at least most of the time or at least 99.9999999999999999% of the time.
what mean "as long as he has a face"?
Men should always pay for their date period at least I do
Simp
What is a simp?
Who are you to make that rule for man
@@SUPERFLUID88 dude....c´mon.
Cool place and vibe, where is it?
USA
NYC chinatown
Indonesia
Men always treat first apparently lol.
At point dating is dead for man at this point because woman with the mindset of being entitled
版本t0
我从朋友那里听说过t0，也在网上看到过，现在又看到了。我想知道t0是什么意思！
As a man if you invite a woman out you pay. It’s up to you for a man to set up a second meeting base on what you sensed on the first one. If you feel used with no chances why waste time, move on to another one, and if not what you expect better be alone than used. Beauty does not entitle to abuse people around you.
No why is that automatic? I violently disagree no one elected you king of the world to make rules for all men.
所以女人如果觉得自己是受害者，那最好自己一个人，而不是被害。停止你对男人的规训，管好你自己。
As a man you are assuming too much that the woman would go out with you the first time as a date who expected you to pay everything and not merely just as friends and good company and in which case she might be the one who prefers to split the bill and draw a boundary. Welcome to the 21st century.
I'd be mad too if everything must be split totally equal cuz it's actually very hard to count every damn thing
You divide by 2 bro………
@@moonknight4053 and if we go out on a date and i order more food than her and actually eat more than her, should we still divide by 2? I'd rather pay for her, plus, it's gonna make me look good anyway
@@wallaceling6140 Then you can pay her abit extra? It’s not hard bro. You don’t have to impress to the point where she’s treated like a princess! Paying constantly for everything isn’t good. You deserve the same treatment then if we’re going by logic and common generosity
@@moonknight4053 i hear you man, and i think it has to be mutual too, but like maybe she can then treat me to the movies or sth else, it is like i pay for the dinner date, and she pays for the movie date. i would feel bad about her too if I'm the only one contributing. but quite honestly, my silly worthless male ego would still want to pay at least a bit more than her overall LOL call me old fashioned for that😂
i don't think anybody expect you to pull out calculator i don't even do that with my male friends but if i paid for date and we go on second one you better at least offer to pay it
the girl at 0.10. i'm in love with her. IG?
5:27 girl on the left with glasses is so cute. I want to go to China and marry her. Would she be willing to marry a Chinese American and live in Hawaii?
Would you be willing to live in China instead? USA is not so great to live and too expensive and dangerous and politically unstable
You are crazy 😂
where can i find these girls? lol especially the girl in tank top! ;D
Well china
@@michikatsutsugikuni3098 💀
Wild guess....China.🤷♂
@@michikatsutsugikuni3098 How can you be so sure
"Going Dutch" ahahah if even China they know 😅
I loved the sincerity and practicality of Asian women. These women clearly don’t put money as the most vital factor in their dating lives. It’s good to see absolutely BEAUTIFUL women be so down to earth. All potential marriage mates. This is why men here in the west are getting passports. ❤
I forgot to ask.. which city is this..?
@@Ghosted760 Shanghai
The woman at 0:12 is thoughtful and stunning. Marriage material.
no no.....look again will you
@@korigang I looked again... I still say she is marriage material. Every man has different taste in women.
interview and fact is different. most girls want man to pay
A man should always pay on a 👉🏼date👈🏼 with a woman.
No have money, dont go on date.
Going Dutch should be done with friends on a dinner, if it is not a celebration.
And yes, Dutch are real Scrooge 😂😂😂
Going Dutch : Anglo-Saxon way of saying Dutch are stingy.
They seem pretty reasonable, very refreshing coming from the gold diggr and left over vvomen videos lol
Words are just one aspect of perception, you should take consideration of their facial expression and eyes moving. Chinese women, lmao....
men are not obligated and shouldn't pay for women on dates unless they're officially become a couple. all men's gentlemen actions are now regarded as simp actions if that woman is not in a couple relationship with him. when men facing modern women, being a traditional men is stupid. there are too many gold-digger women in this era that try to take advantage on men and we need to learn how to protect ourselves.
Well they say put your best foot forward...either way you will pay
If u think paying 20$ for a woman’s meal is gold digger that just means you’re extremely poor. Stay single
Men should pay, but women should give them something in return. This is how life should work, men do the one thing, women do the other.
@@anneliselim602why do you want free meals? Are you broke, no income? Or just have entitlement mentality?
@@anneliselim602sad brag
lol the ones that dont go half will be left over with cats.
such bull answers. they say they are ok with it now but when its pay time their attitude will change real quick. also their friends wont let this be either and will shame the man endlessly for being cheap and not a real man. nice propaganda video...NOT
Communists trying to appear “wealthy,” and Western!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Isn't it sad that these communist have the 2nd most billionaires in the world and are 2nd biggest economy in the world? The irony that a communist country is richer than a capitalist lmfao
They dont want to be western, they are more wealthy
You trying to appear Westerner is the real joke.
It is the opposite as they don’t want to date guys who are cheapskate. Western men want to be split 50/50 so they are totally not western like minded.
Did you know some western countries are also communist?