Hair Wash Routine for Our Autistic Toddler | 4B Natural Curls

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  • @cynthia-iz9ew
    @cynthia-iz9ew Год назад +179

    God didn't make no mistake when he gifted you Mikko. ❤❤❤

    • @audreymo63
      @audreymo63 Год назад +3

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @maryjane-rx4sq
      @maryjane-rx4sq Год назад +5

      So true. ❤

    • @JAKEYRAWILLIAMS
      @JAKEYRAWILLIAMS Год назад +10

      I 100% agree she perfect just the way she is and very intelligent

    • @theire483
      @theire483 Год назад +4

      Wonderful parenting.

    • @maxinegilman2010
      @maxinegilman2010 Год назад +5

      I'm here thinking the very same thing . They are so patient with their baby girl and I know it's not easy for them but they make it look so easy man.❤

  • @allthingsnatural3882
    @allthingsnatural3882 Год назад +133

    You can also part her hair and then twist it in like four to six sections and wash each section. Take down one section Detangle it, then wash it. Then twist it back up. If you don’t twist it back up into those sections after washing it. Her hair will tangle right back up. So this part is very important. Do
    each section like that one by one. You will see that the aloe vera juice makes the hair easier to comb through, because it makes her hair slippery and moist so the comb will go through her hair easier.
    Note: If you don’t have an aloe vera plant. You can use an all natural detangler, or an all natural leave in conditioner. Also if you’re going to buy these products from the beauty supply, make sure they don’t have harsh chemicals in them and make sure they’re for Kids.

    • @allthingsnatural3882
      @allthingsnatural3882 Год назад +9

      Just sent you a short video on Instagram on what I’m talking about.

    • @yoyom1521
      @yoyom1521 Год назад +18

      That’s how I wash and condition my hair or it will matte on itself. So glad we are learning to care for our natural hair.

    • @allthingsnatural3882
      @allthingsnatural3882 Год назад +3

      @@yoyom1521 Exactly me too!

    • @puntinprincess7343
      @puntinprincess7343 Год назад +8

      That sounds like a wonderful idea. Poor baby, all that hair and with a tender head i cant imagine.

    • @lolaottinger3038
      @lolaottinger3038 9 месяцев назад +1

      Oh my goodness, that baby has tons of hair, and it always looks so nice! Good job from these loving parents.

  • @TraceysTake
    @TraceysTake Год назад +72

    So gentle with her. I believe her hair is more 4A than 4B but she can also have both. Here a few suggestions I have.
    1. Use a wide tooth comb instead of a pick. It gives you a better grip and control.
    2. Those knots on the ends are single strand knots or fairy knots. So many reasons as to why Mikko might get them. Google offers many ways to avoid them.
    3. Use a detangler. Its so many to choose from.
    4. Deep conditioning or use a leave in conditioner.
    5. Try to avoid combing her hair when its dry. Always use a product or try using the LOC method to maintain moisture.
    6. Protective styles help to keep hair tucked away and moisturized.
    7. Try finger detangle.
    8. Use the method that works best for you.

    • @tyraaiken7159
      @tyraaiken7159 Год назад +15

      I also assumed her hair was 4a or even 3c because the textured appeared looser. But I could be wrong because I'm not physically there. Either way, her hair is gorgeous 😍.
      And great tips you listed. I'll definitely be doing the same for my hair. ❤

    • @lindasamba4816
      @lindasamba4816 Год назад +7

      Definitely because it looks very slick for 4b 4a or 3c makes more sense maybe a tiny bit of 4b

    • @jjones565
      @jjones565 Год назад +4

      They’ve mentioned before that she uses her hair to stim, & if you notice in the videos, she *always* has a hand in her hair at all times, I’m guessing that’s part of the reason it’s so tangled.

    • @zonamay6515
      @zonamay6515 Год назад +4

      i've seen her attempt to use a wide tooth comb on her and Mikko threw that thing across the world lol

    • @ughkaliyah.
      @ughkaliyah. Год назад +1

      It’s 4a and 4b, not 3c.

  • @ycsdramaqueen
    @ycsdramaqueen Год назад +19

    Poor babe - her hair is so thick, and the pulling must hurt so badly. Good job to everyone involved for getting through it as slowly and painlessly as possible!

  • @Dignityclouds
    @Dignityclouds Год назад +31

    She’s the purest sole on this earth and I’m so glad she has you both as parents!

    • @Dignityclouds
      @Dignityclouds Год назад +1

      I crocheted a small Miss Rachel doll and I’d love to send it to Mikko if you’d be okay with that.

    • @puntinprincess7343
      @puntinprincess7343 Год назад +1

      You are just so sweet.

  • @julialori4591
    @julialori4591 Год назад +46

    Your daughter is beautiful, and she has very loving and caring parents!

  • @CallmeChrissy876
    @CallmeChrissy876 Год назад +50

    I love how gentle you guys are with her❤

  • @LifewithBreanna_
    @LifewithBreanna_ Год назад +80

    Hey mom, have you tried a detangling brush? It would work wonders for her curly hair, make detangling less painful, and save you guys time. You can use it on wet or damp natural hair (perfect for wash & styling days) ❤.

    • @ari333
      @ari333 Год назад +5

      Someone from youtube recommended it to me. It works wonders!

    • @AnjGuy
      @AnjGuy Год назад +9

      Yes, a detangling brush works much better than a comb or pick. My hair is similarly thick. And I would add that parting her hair into at least 4 sections would be great, to detangling one section at a time. Hopefully, over time you find what works best for her and she also gets used to it. 🙏🏾

    • @glorianorwood6581
      @glorianorwood6581 Год назад +2

      You two are such an inspiration for me and my daughter. Her son is 3 years old and autistic. Where did you purchase the neck support for Mikko?

  • @AfricanDee
    @AfricanDee Год назад +16

    As a parent with a daughter with a lot of hair (3c/4a). Hear is some Advice (take it or leave it): start wash in small sections. Braid the sections Get tangle teezer brush. It is your best friend. Before detangling make sure to Use A LOT of conditioner with good slippage per section. Use a tangle teezer brush, not a pick. It takes longer, but it’s gentler. Never comb her hair without conditioner Or leave-in de-tangler conditioner. Also, when manipulating, try not to create more tangles. Manipulate hair in a SMOOTHING downward action. After shampoo/conditioner, keep those same sections and apply a moisturizing cream and oil. Or you can just add oil after your leave in conditioner.

    • @sheranmitchell5985
      @sheranmitchell5985 Год назад

      Totally agree my granddaughter is not artistic she has the same hair type and when she was smaller we learned the hard way but now at 11 her is much better (side bar leaving the water running helped) but that's a great way to take care of her hair 👍 she is doing much better than about a year ago

  • @newnightstarhair4572
    @newnightstarhair4572 Год назад +22

    Aloe Vera gel will help you detangle her hair easily. Make sure she is not allergic to it first. Also use leave in conditioner that is creamy before you start sectioning her hair. It will help a lot. Try to also only finger detangle and see if that helps. She is so adorable and can sleep when daddy is massaging her hair! How cute? 🥰🥰🥰

  • @fefe9111
    @fefe9111 Год назад +13

    My granddaughter has the same type texture hair so her father decided to give her dreadlocks and it so much easy to do. Wash day takes less time I saw your testimonial on you sharing that you too have been diagnosed with autism!! I truly thank God for your channel. My granddaughter has autism. You, Nikko, your twins & husband are a blessing to us. Also thanking your husband for his service.

  • @1957Loyal
    @1957Loyal Год назад +14

    Mikko is so precious and beautiful! You two are amazing parents…GOD chose you because he knew Mikko would be in awesome hands. 🥰🥰🥰. All kids have anxiety when getting their hair done …you all are amazing..can’t say it enough.

  • @della9884
    @della9884 Год назад +31

    Pre-Wash: Dry detangling with just fingers and part hair into 4 sections and loosely twist them up. If dry detangling doesn't work try detangling with conditioner with a lot of slip. Depending on the hairstyles she wore before if her hair is stretched out from braids detangling could be easier.
    Washing: Shampoo and condition each section separately. Use more conditioner to make the detangling brush glide through the hair. If you take out smaller section from the section you're working on detangling should go smoothly. You can also try out different detangling tools like a tangle teezer brush or a simple wide tooth comb ( instead of that metal pick)
    Post-wash/styling: After washing I personally use a Leave in, cream and oil (LCO-method) and try to keep my hair not too dry throughout the week as my hair tangles up more the drier it is. And I'd suggest using some kind of protective style over night either like you did mini braids or a big pineapple with satin scrunchies and maybe even a satin bonnet during night to avoid some friction and more tangles.
    In a nutshell: section out and detangle hair before washing and use more conditioner with lots of slip when wet detangling. Try out new stuff and see how it goes. Good luck 🍀

    • @sharonbrown7806
      @sharonbrown7806 Год назад +2

      First I’d like to commend you both for supporting one another because hair wash days are no joke! My granddaughters have curly hair that gets tangled very easily too! It’s so hard to keep it detangled! Their hair type loves moisture! What works best for us is, keeping the ends trimmed, wetting the hair before any tool is used and using leave in conditioner after shampooing with a bonnet for 5-10 minutes to soften n detangle before we even try to comb or brush! The detangle brushes n wide tooth combs do work best but not the metal pick! To start…You can section, lather with the leave in, detangle and braid or twist it up after that section is detangled or it will just tangle back up! The trick is to not let it dry or tangle back up! I’ve seen people even wash the hair while twisted or braided to avoid tangling! Also a few parents have opted to just get it Loc styled to avoid combing and pulling on the child’s already very sensitive scalp! It’s sometimes a sensory issue with ASD children! Mikko has so much hair which is why it takes so long to do! Hope any of these suggestions help! Most of all being loving, gentle and taking breaks as needed helps her comfort levels! 🙏🏽💕

  • @deja957
    @deja957 Год назад +51

    I think she has 3c 4a as hers it a lot similar to mine I’d say a wide tooth comb and a detangling comb works best so it will be easier to comb ❤

    • @ladyl22
      @ladyl22 Год назад +14

      That what I was thinking because it too curly and loose to be 4b

    • @golden22h8
      @golden22h8 Год назад +11

      Yes her hair is 3c 4a ❤❤❤

    • @TheJCMlove
      @TheJCMlove Год назад +6

      And more 3c than 4a.

    • @Adora-il5xb
      @Adora-il5xb Год назад +4

      She’s 3b 3c

    • @deja957
      @deja957 Год назад

      @@Adora-il5xb no 3b is a lot looser than her curl type but she may be 3b in the back

  • @MsMonique
    @MsMonique Год назад +24

    Such a beautiful baby and both yall have so much patience 😊.

  • @nothing7666
    @nothing7666 Год назад +28

    If that was me my parents would had hit me you guys are the parent she needs she is blessed to have you guys

    • @nmd298
      @nmd298 Год назад +5

      Really your parents must be mean parents to hit such a beautiful person who don't even have control of what they are doing

    • @tanieshadavis8740
      @tanieshadavis8740 Год назад

      YESSS!!!

    • @cherry_bear_aestheticd6840
      @cherry_bear_aestheticd6840 Год назад +1

      So sad

    • @eponymous2684
      @eponymous2684 Год назад

      For real, it was nothing for my mom to pop me in the head with the back of the brush if I did not sit still.

    • @samanthasaldana120
      @samanthasaldana120 Год назад

      It's one thing to get hit when you didnt stay still 80s kids will understand but for an autistic child that's cruel.

  • @pameladavis895
    @pameladavis895 9 месяцев назад +2

    You did a nice job with her hair. Two hours from start to finish isn't bad. Hair parts don't have to be straight, as long as her hair is clean and kept. It gets better with time. Cleanse, condition (and brush when wet for more ease), and style! Remember those 3 things and you'll be fine! Love dad how you gave Mikko a massage during the hair washing and conditioning!🥰🥰🥰

  • @finallyanaccount
    @finallyanaccount Год назад +10

    You may also need to keep her hair in protective styles during the week in order to avoid too much tangling. So like some bigger plaits or twists with her usual hair accessories. For me, if I’ve been wearing my hair out during the day, once I’m going to bed that night I will put it in some sort of twists or plaits to avoid it tangling when I sleep. And the other thing too is I often keep the same parts from wash day so that when I need to moisturize it mid week or whenever the parts are there for me to reuse. These are the same parts that I detangled my hair in… roughly 8 or so sections. So for Mikko, you can do these parts prior to washing, detangling in these parts where the hair already has some oil with a good conditioner or detangler. When you wash it, wash it in these sections. What happens is the shed hair makes the hair more tangled so if you detangle prior to the wash, it reduces the knots. And as other ppl have mentioned, you can wash each section at a time… starting from the top to the back if she lying down that way you’re not washing back dirt on to a clean section. And definitely invest in a solid plastic wide tooth comb (that metal comb isn’t the best). Also I don’t know if she keeps a bonnet on at night but that also helps to reduce tangles before the next wash day.
    I hope that helps. 🙏🏾

    • @finallyanaccount
      @finallyanaccount Год назад +3

      I’m seeing the hair style she has on now. Lovely!
      Even bigger plaits may prove less stressful for both of you. 🙏🏾

  • @brendabell9007
    @brendabell9007 Год назад +10

    Patience and love. That's what it's all about. My autistic son is in his late 20's and attends college and loves the drama club and choir. He didn't start verbally talking until he was three. It seemed each year he increased his vocabulary. I am so very grateful for my son. He has taught me so much about myself and how important it is to always take a deep breath and keep on going. He is on par with people his age, but it was not easy.

  • @vasa95419
    @vasa95419 Год назад +5

    Hello Loves! I recommend that you try co-washing (washing with conditioner only). Get a large, very ride toothed plastic comb. The metal Afro pick’s teeth are too small and narrow. Instead of shampooing, you dampen her hair with water and then saturate it with conditioner. Massage her scalp well to listen any dirt and then while the conditioner is still on her use the comb to section her hair into four sections. Massage her scalp and comb each section out. It will be super easy with the conditioner still in. With the conditioner still on do a chunky two strand twist for each section and secure the end with a rubber band. THEN comb each section out while rinsing out the conditioner. Once the section is rinsed out re-twist the section and move in to the next one. Pat the twists dry with a towel and voila. Clean, detangled and done. It will be so much easier on everyone. Hope you’ll try this method. Blessings to you and your beautiful family. ✨🫧✨🫧✨

  • @golden22h8
    @golden22h8 Год назад +19

    You guys are the best parents ever!!! also I think her hair type is actually 3c 4a mix ❤, not that hair typing matters, but if you search 3c 4a detangling you might find videos that cater towards her hair and have helpful tips compared to 4b 4c! but ofc u know ur baby best ❤❤❤

  • @yoyom1521
    @yoyom1521 Год назад +5

    Mom you’re amazing and I love how involved Dad is. Wish someone will gift you an anniversary vacation. 🤞🏽

  • @debberacoleman3932
    @debberacoleman3932 Год назад +3

    Blessed to have each other. She's so beautiful. And God couldn't have given her better parents. She did a great job. She has so much hair. My daughter when young use to cry every time I'd wash her hair also. And she isn't Autistic. Most all Toddlers do. So in saying that's normal behavior. But she is conquering everything that is thrown her way. Stay blessed

  • @JustFluffyQuiltingYarnCrafts
    @JustFluffyQuiltingYarnCrafts Год назад +5

    I love your little salon set in the kitchen. Mikko did such a good job. 😍
    Chris, this is the first time that I’ve seen a Dad be such an active part of their child’s wash day. Thanks to you and Precious for sharing your “Gentle Life” techniques with the world. ♥️

  • @karlenespencer8824
    @karlenespencer8824 Год назад +10

    I just love your daughter. She is so cute. God bless your family

  • @Mslat3p
    @Mslat3p Год назад +1

    It breaks my heart when Mikko sobs. I cried along with her. Please give her a hug from me. Lots of love xxx

  • @Lysaidaromero
    @Lysaidaromero Год назад +8

    Washing my son’s hair is an event too. I separate his hair when I put conditioner and after I wash off the conditioner I put in a leave in conditioner and separate it again. I then start to detangle with a wet brush. It take me half and hour to do his hair. Also I rough section and spray more water if needed to detangle. You’re amazing parents!

  • @pamelaferebee3648
    @pamelaferebee3648 Год назад +3

    She is definitely daddy’s little girl. My daughter has the same type hair. I use moisturizer and water. She didn’t like getting her hair done. Daddy don’t like his baby upset. She is an angel.

  • @Publiette
    @Publiette Год назад +7

    Love the realness. Parenthood realness. Relationship realness. Patience and frustration realness. You can see the progress and love! Dont forget to take time for yourselves and as a couple. I am not educated to guve the suggestions but it does seem like some different tools and products will make this much easier for you guys! Best wishes

  • @dawnmitzel6419
    @dawnmitzel6419 Год назад +3

    I love the way you work together to do these tasks that I’m sure are stressful for her. And despite that stress she clearly fully trusts you both. You’re both great parents!

  • @vee408
    @vee408 Год назад +1

    Hearing mikko cry breaks my heart. So much work, but such beautiful hair. Good job parents! I’ve used shae butter products and detangle my daughters hair while the conditioner is still in her hair, really makes a difference.

  • @ronij7212
    @ronij7212 Год назад +3

    Good job dad! Nice to see you take part in her grooming as well.

  • @beaudoz3603
    @beaudoz3603 Год назад +17

    I detangle my daughters hair in sections using conditioner. I twist each section and then wash her hair whilst in the twist.
    Edit: Put product in your daughters hair before parting it. It will make it easier.

  • @allthingsnatural3882
    @allthingsnatural3882 Год назад +19

    You can detangle her hair with any type of leave in conditioner, that doesn’t have a lot of chemicals or sulfates in it. Make sure it is all natural! You could also take the juice from an aloe vera plant and rub it in her hair. It would make her hair softer and you will be able to put the comb through it easier. It will give her hair elasticity. Also, you want to use a detangling brush.

  • @Nub1anPrincess
    @Nub1anPrincess Год назад +8

    Some helpful suggestions:
    1) Section her hair in braids/twist then wash and condition. Hair and scalp will be clean with her hair not tangling.
    Less stress on all of you.
    2) Add detangling product to each braid/twist, then detangle by each braid or twist.
    3) THROW THE PICK AWAY. It is entirely too small to detangle all that hair.
    4) Get a large detangling brush and a very very large comb. It will work so much better.
    Good luck.❤

    • @apara2005
      @apara2005 Год назад

      Please don't do this!!! Always wash hair loose. Washing in braids doesn't wash anything...it's still dirty!

  • @ladyt5957
    @ladyt5957 11 месяцев назад +3

    I have a granddaughter with very thick hair like Mikko, plus she is tender-headed, with autism. I wash and condition her hair. The real work is to brush and comb it.
    1) Get rid of the pick it will cause too many tears.
    2) Get a wide tooth comb, wet brush and a regular comb.
    3) take a very small section of hair, put a very moisturizing leave in conditioner on her hair and work from the bottom to top. The leave in moisturizer should help to glide the tangles away, plus less tears.
    4) Use the wide tooth comb to manage and get the tangles out the hair with the leave in conditioner. Once the wide tooth goes through the small section, then use the wet brush or regular comb. Take your time and be very gentle, for an autistic child is very sensitive.
    5)Then you repeat this process in each and every smaller section of hair. Style it however you want as you go through each section.
    6) Although it is a very cute style for kids, I would recommend not to put her hair in puffs. It causes a lot of tangles and it is a nightmare to untangle. The best style is braids, twists, french braids, corn rows. These styles help to protect her ends from knots aka fairy knots.
    I wish you guys all the blessings, and support that comes with having a blessed gift such as Mikko ❤️ ☺️

  • @taurust3864
    @taurust3864 Год назад +1

    I wish more parents who have kids with intellectual disabilities spent more time with them. Help them with their care and teaching them. I’ve had so many come in as adults and know nothing about self care or how to help themselves. I appreciate parents like you. Please keep going.
    (Note: I’m talking about adults who have disabilities. I understand she is a child and still is learning. However, it starts as a child where they learn. So that’s why I am praising her parents.)

  • @jackiepearson5505
    @jackiepearson5505 10 месяцев назад +1

    Mikko, your hair, your glorious hair! What a lovely little girl you are. Both mom and dad helping with your glorious hair. Although I am white, I have very naturally curly hair, white or black, curly hair can be tough. I'm so thankful you have loving parents to help you with caring for your hair. It is beautiful.

  • @maxinegilman2010
    @maxinegilman2010 Год назад +1

    God entrusted you with this baby girl because He knows your beautiful hearts. He knows us more than we know ourselves and you guys are perfect in your doings. I love y'all so so much man. You have touched my heart in more ways than one. God bless your family.❤

  • @shannonstearns5803
    @shannonstearns5803 2 месяца назад

    This sweet little girl just melts my Heart every time I see her❤

  • @Rayach_Napash
    @Rayach_Napash 11 месяцев назад +1

    I don’t know why this is about to bring me to tears. We are for certain our daughter is autistic even though her doctor is saying otherwise we know our child. I’m gone keep on praying. We end up cutting baby boy hair off because he was so upset. I’m so mad at myself I let baby girl hair get tangled so now I’m paying for it. Once I get it detangled this time I plan on styling it once a week. Thank you for sharing this

  • @karlenespencer8824
    @karlenespencer8824 Год назад +1

    You are so patient with your daughter. God bless you!

  • @karenm1965
    @karenm1965 Год назад +2

    Love the gentle approach and every child is different as you already know & have said. Plus, what works with washing hair sometimes changes with age & sensitivities. From sink, to tub, while she was outside playing with water table, now daughter (14) loves to stand up in shower & play with water while I wash, condition, detangle hair. Hand held shower head a blessing. Daughter has similar hair. I finger detangle then use tangle teezer for curly hair detangling brush , ends first. All done with lots of conditioner on hair. She likes to pick the one she likes scent of (all natural). It’s all a process continuing to find what works best for her at each stage & age. Keep working with her like you are. For A few Products we like Treluxe (whole line) ,Melanin hair care leave in , Tabitha Brown leave in, Curls blueberry bliss shampoo. Miss Jessie’s coily custard. But everyone is different with what they like. On days when she needs a break during process, I put conditioner on & shower cap & she does something she likes for awhile and then easier to go back to it. But usually we go through whole wash time & wash & go and she’s happy during & after. We use As I Am JBCO water Restore spray throughout week to refresh when needed. 💕💗🤗

  • @purpleladybug95
    @purpleladybug95 Год назад +6

    Try putting her hair in 8 braids before washing, and wash and condition her hair in the braids… don’t take the braids out till you’re ready to style it, less stress on her. I do that because thick hair gets tangled when wet 😊and that way you can focus on one section at a time

  • @boymamaof382
    @boymamaof382 Год назад

    You guys are Amazing what a Blessing seeing you all work together and be everything for this precious baby girl!! Love from PA! Beautiful family!!

  • @donna948
    @donna948 Год назад +1

    YOU'RE SUCH A BEAUTIFUL FAMILY. THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR JOURNEY. 🤎🤎🖤🤎🤎🙏🏼

  • @rhodagibbs3046
    @rhodagibbs3046 Год назад +14

    Good job mom and dad!!!

  • @mssan2016
    @mssan2016 Год назад +2

    She is more of 3C/4A with shrinkage. Her hair is more prone to tangles. Section into 4 or 6 and pre poo her first. Works wonders for my 4 year old niece. Spray with water and use a detangler n let it sit a bit. Then comb through it with wide tooth. Twist each section up as you go through the shampoo and conditioning process. So much easier and less hassle. This is also the time we alot for tablet time. Many kids go through the washing hair pains at this age, its normal, but structuring wash day will make it a smoother process

  • @7117Dina
    @7117Dina Год назад

    God Bless your family and thank you for sharing. Mikko is so special and such a joy.

  • @maryjohnson1144
    @maryjohnson1144 Год назад

    I salute you two loving, gentle, caring & very strong parents.❤❤❤

  • @spiritualchild3015
    @spiritualchild3015 Год назад

    Two loving and caring parents. Keep up the patient work 🙏. It will pay in the end.❤

  • @MYSTICMANDY22
    @MYSTICMANDY22 Год назад +11

    Detangle with a lot of conditioner in the hair, wet, with a wide tooth comb first. Start from the bottom of the hair and slowly work up to the scalp. Go from a wide tooth comb to the pick and then to that brush in phases for each section. Use alligator clips or butterfly clips to clip sections out of the way to make it more manageable. Clip all hair out of the way, only start with a small section and then as you do the whole phase on that area & finish, clip it out of the way, move onto the next. I Hope this helps. ❤ Bless your family and beautiful baby ❤

  • @fedupto68
    @fedupto68 Год назад

    I think you guys are awesome. She got blessed in the parent department. And both of you got blessed in the partner department.

  • @yalondalawler1359
    @yalondalawler1359 Год назад +1

    I love your family. The way the two of you care for Mikko brings glory to the Father. Kinky Curly Knot Today is a great conditioner. It will make your detangling a lot easier. ❤❤

  • @Hugs4you500
    @Hugs4you500 Год назад +1

    She’s so precious! Good job on her hair parents!❤❤

  • @gsopinions8254
    @gsopinions8254 9 месяцев назад +1

    Hair section washing may be another choice for hair washing day. You guys are doing such a great job.

  • @tbatt4364
    @tbatt4364 Год назад

    I LITERALLY fell asleep watching that head massage. Had to watch again..Great job.

  • @SandySoSo
    @SandySoSo Год назад

    I teach autistic children and I know it’s hard. It takes a of patience and I want to tell you both, Precious and Chris, you are amazing parents. Keep up the great work!😊💕

  • @lexygardner1076
    @lexygardner1076 Год назад +2

    Hi 👋🏿,
    I have a few suggestions of things to buy as a baseline for a possible easier time when parting her hair ~
    • Leave In Conditioner
    • Hair Oil
    • This is especially for Scalp and Ends, before combing or parting, but you could also put it everywhere in her hair.
    • Clips for sectioning
    I definitely think when it comes to textured hair ✨ Moisture ✨ at all times is the most important ingredient.
    💕 With Love 💕
    Lexy
    p.s
    I could be wrong, but I would suggest putting leave in conditioner in before the oil as I've heard that oil, although moisturing itself; is for locking in moisture.
    p.p.s
    Thanks for sharing your journey 🥰 It's an honor to be able to witness your memories and precious moments ❣️

  • @afuasaafir8564
    @afuasaafir8564 Год назад +1

    You all are so beautiful as a family! I am so glad that she has you for parents and that you all have her for a daughter. I definitely suggest putting her hair in about six large sections and then washing each section one at a time and re-twisting with conditioner. Then comb through to de-tangle with the conditioner still in her hair (one section at a time). Then rinse and re-twist. Then add oil and/or leave-in conditioner and finish any de-tangling section by section again away from the sink. Do everything section by section. This way her hair does not have the chance to dry out or tangle up further during the process. I hope these steps might help make the process easier on all of you. Thank you for sharing your lovely family with all of us! 💛🌸🦋🌷🌺

  • @louiserawle8999
    @louiserawle8999 Год назад +1

    Wow what a fabulous amount of hair she has ,lucky girl Mikko ❤️❤️

  • @shantrellhunter2219
    @shantrellhunter2219 10 месяцев назад +1

    As a curly girl, detangler, aloe and hibiscus work wonders! Cactus oil and a spray of water can be miraculous as well!❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @deborahhandy1201
    @deborahhandy1201 Год назад +3

    Such good parents, keep the good work up it's hard sometimes but don't stop!!!👏👏👏❤

  • @mab1414
    @mab1414 Год назад

    What a beautiful baby and loving parents more especially your husband supporting you all the time ❤

  • @Danniii8888
    @Danniii8888 Год назад +3

    My hair is exactly like your little girls. I use Aussie conditioner. I’ve tried a ton of conditioners, natural ones, ones specifically for black hair. But the only one that works is the Aussie moist conditioner. Also get a Tangle Teaser. It’s the only one that works on my curls. I’m very tender headed and I never feel pain when I use the tangle teaser brush.

  • @sweetlady3651
    @sweetlady3651 Год назад

    Such loving parents may God continue to bless you and your husband . You are such beautiful parents

  • @pretoriaafro5074
    @pretoriaafro5074 Год назад +1

    You two parents are so Amazing!!!

  • @gness32
    @gness32 11 месяцев назад

    I use Carol's daughter conditioner, a detailing brush comb and I comb it while it is wet and conditioner is in the hair. It's made my life a lot easier. Miko is precious!

  • @tracygaters4901
    @tracygaters4901 Год назад +3

    I recommend mixing conditioner in with the shampoo. It works wonders!!!!

  • @peaceriver1793
    @peaceriver1793 Год назад

    Good Job Mommy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And Daddy!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I took a sigh of relief with you all at the end. LOL!!

  • @joyphillips4858
    @joyphillips4858 Год назад

    Hi Precious. Give yourself grace. You and dad are doing a great job. Sometimes it takes teamwork in the hair department as well. ❤

  • @EritrawenetKuburMenenet
    @EritrawenetKuburMenenet Год назад +2

    I've got 4 c hair and I detangle it while water is running over my hair🙏🏾(It's so much easier to detangle my hair on wash days since I use that methode)
    Adorable daughter btw🤎

  • @cherry_bear_aestheticd6840
    @cherry_bear_aestheticd6840 Год назад

    She is just so cute ❤❤ she did so good I love Mikko because shes so amazing and unique. Good work! 👍🏽

  • @jhicks2045
    @jhicks2045 8 месяцев назад

    Both of you show your love for all your children

  • @loveme8037
    @loveme8037 Год назад +4

    She is so amazing. Perfect❤

  • @remeldafields8099
    @remeldafields8099 Год назад

    Beautiful Hair!!❤❤❤Awesome Parents,Awesome family!

  • @WrightLC73
    @WrightLC73 Год назад

    I use Creme of Nature Perfect 7 on my hair as a detangler, moisturizer and conditioner after washing. My hair, since birth, has been like your daughter’s thick and tangles after washing. I would cry too.
    Keep up the good work Mom and Dad.

  • @mostdefinitelymonique2.0
    @mostdefinitelymonique2.0 Год назад +3

    Her hair is so thick and full 🥹 I would suggest using a wide tooth comb or a detangling brush. The pick is to harsh on her hair type

  • @tonyathomas2034
    @tonyathomas2034 Год назад

    Good job Mikko! You got through it! Job well done Mommy and Daddy!
    We love Mrs. Rachel over here too…lol😃👏🏾💪🏾💯🙌🏾❤️❤️💕

  • @sikhumbuzomabhena5004
    @sikhumbuzomabhena5004 Год назад +1

    Love watching your videos,love Mikko too much ❤❤

  • @Inamichan
    @Inamichan Год назад

    I love that y’all are a team with her

  • @mandyjoi7015
    @mandyjoi7015 Год назад

    First off, just let me say you guys made me so relaxed watching the tag team effort to wash and detangle her hair. You guys did/do such a great job with those curls!
    I feel like I ran a marathon after doing my sons hair...like WHEEEEW CHILE! Back all hurting....lol
    Anyway, my gang changer product for both my and our sons hair is Aunt Jackie's Knot on my Watch. Its a detangler for after you wash/condition and works AMAZING! Knots don't stand a chance.
    I actually wet my hair, then detangle with this, before washing/conditioning, etc and my life is much easier. Not sure what type of hair we have but its much tighter than your daughter's.
    My son no longer screams and cries while I'm detangling his hair.
    Give it a try, I'm 1000% positive your fingers, detangling brush or wide tooth comb will glide any tangles right on out!
    Good luck 😉

  • @LeeW7233
    @LeeW7233 Год назад

    You do a wonderful job with her hair, it is gorgeous. I use a wide tooth comb to detangle. Leave in conditioner and still spritz water as you style is key. She has a mixture of 3c and some 4a and b in there. My granddaughters have hair just like that.

  • @soyinimarcano7775
    @soyinimarcano7775 Год назад

    Garner Fructis sleek and shine leave in conditioning cream. That is my go to and my daughter has the same curl pattern and is autistic and sensory sensitive around her head and face. Apply when wet and then section as you like. I hope it works well for you!❤️

  • @luotosirpa5458
    @luotosirpa5458 Год назад +3

    Amber Ansah (in Belgium) has really kinky curly hair. I think her daughter is 2&1/2. She has her own washing day routine and may have some products that she uses for her daughter. Worth looking up her youtube channel. You did well with your little one! ❤️

  • @shirleyvincent131
    @shirleyvincent131 10 месяцев назад

    Your wonderful parents. She has some gorgeous hair ❤

  • @blahblahblah1988
    @blahblahblah1988 Год назад

    You guys are amazing & she is absolutely beautiful. Sweet souls❤️

  • @cwnj40
    @cwnj40 Год назад

    Teamwork makes the dream work💜💜💜 I have found that detangling before shampoo with water and lots of conditioner with good slip, works great. Suave conditioner is inexpensive for large bottles. Tangle teezer brushes and a wide tooth combs are great tools. Hope this helps. Peace and Blessings to you💜

  • @cynthiahillian
    @cynthiahillian Год назад

    Mikko is doing so well!!❤

  • @kenedyg2374
    @kenedyg2374 Год назад

    She has thick gorgeous curls. Try a tangle teezer you can get it at target and online.. they come in different colors, the purple one is specifically for curls. It’s a bit more expensive but trust me it’s worth it. It cuts detangling time down and doesn’t snag and pull as much as traditional combs. Hope this helps ❤

  • @TYXOXY
    @TYXOXY Год назад +3

    My gosh. I wish I could be there to help you guys. A Denman brush works well for detangling. Mielle makes a hawaiian Ginger hair butter that works extremely well with softening the hair to detangle. It was like magic for my daughter's hair

  • @jayedenise4812
    @jayedenise4812 Год назад +2

    I use Pantene gold series conditioner or carols daughter wash day delight conditioner. It works great for detangling. Along with a good detangling brush.

  • @judywright4809
    @judywright4809 Год назад +6

    Beautiful family!

  • @dawnwilliams2181
    @dawnwilliams2181 8 месяцев назад

    You guys are so freaking Awesome. She is so beautiful and a wonderful soul. She looks and acts just like my grandson. Except, we could never be that calm washing his hair because he loves water, so he wants his head directly under the running water the whole time😂

  • @justcallmej.v_
    @justcallmej.v_ Год назад

    Kinky curly knot today is the BEST detangler!

  • @ronib2071
    @ronib2071 Год назад

    She’s an absolute beautiful gift from God 🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @justme-ew3ri
    @justme-ew3ri Год назад

    A product with a lot of slip or that specifically mentions detangling keeping her hair very wet (having a spray bottle). I have hair similar to Mikko the As I Am “So much moisture” product works great! It is light and adds a lot of slip. My sister has 4c hair and a product called “Rizols curls refresh and detangle spray” helps her hair a lot.

  • @donna948
    @donna948 Год назад

    WOW! SHE'S SO BEAUTIFUL🤎🤎

  • @chloeivannah5661
    @chloeivannah5661 Год назад

    The new tangle teezer for 3c to 4c hair works amazing and also wide tooth combs and detangling spray works good too

  • @saeintrests
    @saeintrests Год назад

    I think just a routine of sections in fours while washing and research out a really good detangle conditioner for kids applying to each section one at a time.
    I had six girls-hair wise that’s a life saver.
    She has beautiful hair and she’s seems tender headed is all.❤