ADOPTION DAY!!! Our Journey Through Our Unique Adoption As An LGBT Family In Texas

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  • Опубликовано: 21 сен 2024
  • Our Adoption Journey | October 7th, 2022
    This video documents our process through our adoption from February 2022 through October 2022!
    Please feel free to comment with any questions.
    THANKS FOR WATCHING!
    Instagram - / stephenholgate
    contact: theholgatefam@gmail.com
    MAILING ADDRESS:
    PO Box 315
    FRISCO, TEXAS
    75034

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  • @vickigolden3596
    @vickigolden3596 Год назад +227

    She actually looks like a perfect blend between the two of you; this had me crying happy tears congratulations on the adoption

  • @helenvalentine8372
    @helenvalentine8372 Год назад +453

    What a lovely family. Every kid should have such loving parents as these.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +18

      You are so sweet! Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @bellaroyaltykpopgstan4675
    @bellaroyaltykpopgstan4675 Год назад +87

    I'm a single mother raising 2 teens alone and I'm proud to have both my kids , even if my children don't know what it's like to have a father , they know they have a amazing hard working mother and grandparents to love them . I enjoyed this video because it shows the true beauty of loving parents to they're child . The bond that this amazing beautiful family has is something only built by true love , congratulations on the adoption perfect family 👪 💜 keep up the amazing job guys

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +12

      Thank you so much for commenting! I wish I could give you a big hug!!
      Thank you so much for your sweet words. Your kids are so lucky to have a mom like you. Sending you so much love 🥹❤️

    • @monicahachola4374
      @monicahachola4374 Год назад +3

      I can relate a single mom of 2❤❤❤❤

  • @tinaharing9545
    @tinaharing9545 Год назад +183

    I wish all children had the love, support and happiness that Kenzie gets from these wonderful parents. 💜

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +8

      Awww Tina thank you so much!!! Means a lot to us. ❤️❤️

    • @RabbitHoleDiaries
      @RabbitHoleDiaries Год назад +4

      omg, right!! nothing but love ❤❤❤

  • @harrisonhathaway1865
    @harrisonhathaway1865 5 месяцев назад +24

    I was adopted by two gay dads in 2001 and I’m now 25 years old. I’ve played sports my whole life and served in the military. The most common misconception when you have two fathers is that they’re going to raise you to be feminine. This is not true. Two gay fathers at the end of the day are still men. It might be different with girls but as a man, in my experience, I had been raised to be a mans man. As i talk to my fathers today as an adult, they always seem to be blind to the fact that they are men just like any other man and that that being raised by two gay dads is no different than being raised by two straight ones.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  5 месяцев назад +3

      Loved reading this. Thank you so much for sharing! Totally agree with you!

  • @julievanderleest
    @julievanderleest Год назад +47

    Gosh, this one broke my heart. I can’t imagine what Kenzie went through in her young life. She is certainly a strong young lady but no child should ever have to suffer abuse. It’s evident that she is now very much loved and cared for and living a happy life. She has the most beautiful smile ever.❤

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +7

      Thank you so much, Julie. Appreciate you and the sweet comments ❤️❤️❤️ Love ya

  • @DanielHall212
    @DanielHall212 Год назад +71

    This is what a family should look like. Full of love and understanding of each other🎉

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +4

      Awww 🥲🥲 thank you so much!!

  • @alwayslovinlife9497
    @alwayslovinlife9497 Год назад +79

    I only came across this video when I typed in adoption day. All I see are two loving parents and a child that needed a home. Two very loving individuals opened up their hearts and their home . Whether it be two women, two men, or a male and a female it doesn't matter. As long as the child is loved and nurtured. Clearly your daughter is such! From somebody who was adopted, thank you for giving her a home. Thank you for loving her.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +6

      This is so so sweet ❤️❤️❤️
      Thank you so much for your sweet words! Means a lot to us 🥹

  • @loriwentz3391
    @loriwentz3391 Год назад +13

    You can see what a beautiful well adjusted young lady she is because of the love and care she has received. What a blessed family...Congratulations!!!

  • @tiffanymoss6125
    @tiffanymoss6125 Год назад +219

    I'm so sorry for the amount of hurt and pain your family must have gone through over the years and for that I'm so sorry 😔 I truly can't imagine. I'm happy that Kenzie is in a home where she gets to flourish and thrive and become the best version of herself in a loving and healthy environment ❤️ Like I said on y'all's insta posts CONGRATULATIONS 😁 🎉👏

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +15

      We ❤️ you. Thank you so so much love. You are the sweetest person. 🥹

    • @mortalclown3812
      @mortalclown3812 Год назад +8

      You said what is in my heart, too.

    • @One_direction_015
      @One_direction_015 Год назад +3

      thank you sm i just found your account and i’m a teen and me and my gf have been rly worried about how to start a family as two girls but you gave us a bit of hope 🌈❤️

  • @BMarie774
    @BMarie774 Год назад +17

    My heart broke. I just left a long comment hoping and praying that Kenzie’s mama could get her life together and come back in as a supportive parent one day. It breaks my heart to know she’s passed.

  • @sarahchipperfield28
    @sarahchipperfield28 Год назад +34

    This was just a random pop up on my page. I am SO glad I watched this. Just so sweet, had me crying happy tears for you all 🤍. Love from Australia 🇦🇺

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +3

      Hi! Aww thank you so so much!! 🥹❤️

    • @sarahchipperfield28
      @sarahchipperfield28 Год назад +1

      @@TheHolgates it’s currently 2:12 am in Australia, not sleeping so well. What better to do than binge watch all your cruise videos 🤍

  • @lenoresage6636
    @lenoresage6636 Год назад +81

    So sorry for everything Kenzie went through. She’s so fortunate to have two parents that love her and support her. Thanks for sharing this wonderful part of your life with us.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +3

      Aww thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @marisaodonnell9994
    @marisaodonnell9994 Год назад +27

    I love how you love her! You are raising a smart, happy and confident young woman. Congrats on officially becoming a family, although it looks like you were always one from the beginning. Much love 💞

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +2

      Omg Marisa this is so sweet! Thank you SO much! Means a lot 🥹❤️

  • @SUSIEPIP
    @SUSIEPIP Год назад +38

    I don't know how your video showed up in my feed, but what an absolute pleasure to watch your beautiful family at an incredible time in your lives.. Kenzie is one lucky girl to have two parents who adore her. Sending lots of love to you all from England. These wonderful memories you have all created together are so full of love they made this Daddies girl who no longer has her Dad cry happy tears. xxx

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +6

      Awww this comment warmed my heart sooo much!! Thank you so much for it. So sorry you’ve lost your dad… Bryan lost his mom when we first met and I have seen that hole it leaves in one’s heart, that can never be replaced. Sending you BIG a hugs and lots of love. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @tihannabear
    @tihannabear 10 месяцев назад +10

    The way ya'll mention her beauty then follow with how she's going to do amazing things and her organizational skills. THIS IS PARENTING RIGHT! I don't GAF the make up of what makes "parents" or "guardians" so long as the child is loved, shown what love means and has a life similar to what we see here.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  10 месяцев назад +2

      That is so sweet of you to say! Thank you SO much!

  • @karyanb
    @karyanb Год назад +5

    I could not keep the tears away on this one!! Words can’t describe how touching & special it was to share in your day. She is one blessed young lady. You can feel the love radiate from the screen. Wishing you all a wonderful life. I’m here for as long as you’re making the videos Going through a rough patch & your joy and family brings me a sparkle. So thank you!!! 🌈💜🩷

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +1

      Awww I adore you! You’re so sweet. Thank you so so much! Reading this made my day 🥹😭❤️

  • @melissagaylor4692
    @melissagaylor4692 Год назад +24

    OMG!! I'm in tears!! I'm so happy for you!! I'm happy that Kenzie was blessed to have such wonderful Dad's. I am happy I found you three on RUclips. Your videos always brighten my day. Congratulations Holgate family! Much love and respect! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +2

      Thank you SO much, Melissa!!! That means so much to us. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @heathercripe5573
    @heathercripe5573 Год назад +42

    She is such a beautiful girl. You can tell how genuinely happy she is. Such a sweet family! Well done dads! ❤

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +2

      You are so sweet! Thank you so much, Heather ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @heathercripe5573
      @heathercripe5573 Год назад

      @@TheHolgates Thank you for sharing your family! ❤👪❤ All the best to you!

  • @jackrobinson6277
    @jackrobinson6277 Год назад +25

    OMG what an absolutely beautiful Video. Diddy, you have raised this little girl with sooo much love, as your own daughter. You can tell she absolutely loves you, as she does her biological dad. Together you have created a home so full of love and fun. This beautiful young lady feels very safe, and is able to express herself freely. Thank you for giving this child a safe loving home that is filled with fun, excitement and lots of love. From Jack and Family (all 9 of us, including 1 adopted and 3 foster kids) from Brisbane Queensland Australia.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +1

      Hi!!! Awwww thank you so much!!! Made my day reading this this morning!! And thanks for sharing about your family! I love that so much!!!

  • @maggnezjaynne8782
    @maggnezjaynne8782 Год назад +42

    No matter how much pain she had to experience through her biological mother. Angels sent another two angels to save her and provide the love, protection and affection she deserves. A COMPLETE NUCLEAR FAMILY. 💞💞💞💞💞

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +6

      You are so sweet. Thank you so much! 🥹❤️

  • @liacole4710
    @liacole4710 Год назад +10

    This randomly showed up in my RUclips feed this morning and it gave me all the feels! 😍😍😍 SO happy for Kenzie that she has such a beautiful home to grow up in and two amazing dads to be there for her! 😁

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад

      Awwww thank you so much!! That means a lot to me 🥹❤️❤️❤️

  • @Liz2727271
    @Liz2727271 Год назад +4

    Sometimes God does for you, what you can’t do for yourself. The devotion this man has for Kenzie is full of Love.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад

      Awww 🥹🥹 thank you so much! Means a lot to me!

  • @MsRoxas101x
    @MsRoxas101x Год назад +118

    I had no idea the process was so long. I thought she was already yours (like surrogacy)! I even thought you guys were adopting again 😭 This is the most wholesome video. You guys are amazing!!

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +7

      Aww thank you so so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @delilahfrost
    @delilahfrost Год назад +5

    Congratulations on Adoption Day! Even though your 3 hearts have been bound all along, you now have the added security of legal bond, as well. It signifies that every day & in every way, you are a family! You guys are a gorgeous couple with a gorgeous daughter; even your dog is gorgeous! You're all so lucky to have one another. Your love for each other & your love for her have created such an amazing life together.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад

      Thank you so much! What a sweet comment. I appreciate it so much! ❤️

    • @delilahfrost
      @delilahfrost Год назад

      @TheHolgates You're so welcome! I just call it like I see it. It's refreshing to see relationships that bring out the best in everyone involved. I think this calls for a flash mob just busting out, in the spirit of total awesomeness, with "It's Raining Men" outside on the courthouse steps! Just saying...

  • @marymary1976
    @marymary1976 2 месяца назад +1

    Diddy, i wrote to you on instagram a few weeks ago, and just re-watched this video, another 3 times with many tears of love and joy in my eyes as well as sadness but all in all of huge respect for you both as parents to kenzie giving her such a stable and loving life, you are such an example to the world of what good parenting is, WELLDONE i love getting to know you all more and more.

  • @toki_007
    @toki_007 Год назад +8

    You guys are angels. Don't let anyone take away those beautiful spirits yall were given. I hope Kenzie n yall have the best, most amazing, adventure n fun filled future!

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +1

      Awww Liz this is so sweet. 🥹 Thank you for your incredibly kind comment. Seriously made my day. Thank you ❤️❤️

  • @RJDelk
    @RJDelk Год назад +93

    I cried so many happy tears for y'all during this video! Congrats on becoming an "official" family.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +5

      🥹🥹 awww so sweet. Thank you so much!

  • @marisoltorres6519
    @marisoltorres6519 Год назад +5

    You raise her for ten years, regardless of legal documentation, she is your child. God bless your family. 🙏❤

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +2

      You are so sweet 🥹 that means a lot… thank you so much, love! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @georgiaseay8299
    @georgiaseay8299 Год назад +32

    Not a dry eye in our household after watching this! This is an incredibly beautiful journey to see. Thank you for sharing and huge congratulations to your family ❤️

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +2

      Awww thank you sooo much ❤️❤️😭 y’all are so sweet. I appreciate your sweet comment. ❤️❤️

  • @lyssaice
    @lyssaice Год назад +9

    I am so happy for you all! It is so important for children to be in a home like you guys have for Kenzie! Go dads!

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад

      You are the best. 🥹 Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @kc_2525
    @kc_2525 Год назад +4

    Oooh girl! This was the most poignant & wonderfully real story that I’ve seen in a long time. It made me smile & laugh, made me cry, & in the end…gave me strength & hope. What an intimate glimpse into the lives of a fabulous family that was destined from the start. It was evident in the first few photos of Diddy with Kenzie as a little one, that you two would be inseparable.
    I could not be happier for your family, and for the happy milestone of Kenzies adoption! Y’all share so much love, laughter, personality, patience and fun! I’m thankful 🙏🏻 to have discovered your family. You have gained another cheerleader. Gooo Holgate Family!! 🙌🏻💜

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад

      Oh my gosh you have no idea how much this made our day 🥹 Thank you SO much! Had to screenshot your sweet comment to save it. Thank you for your kindness and words. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @why25why
    @why25why Год назад +41

    What a lucky little girl! What lucky daddies! I want to live in a family with endless show tunes and everlasting love! 💞

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +2

      Aww thank you soooo much!!! Love ya ❤️❤️❤️

  • @TanBryan-eb7fl
    @TanBryan-eb7fl 3 месяца назад +1

    Yours and kenzies relationship is the absolute best. You’s have an amazing friendship which makes up for most of a relationship with a child in my opinion. The fact you’s can be so sarcastic, funny honest and open with eachother is amazing. She is so lucky to have you take care of her along with her bio dad. You’re absolutely fabulous. In All ways! Wish you guys nothing but love, luck and happiness!!!

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  3 месяца назад

      This is so incredibly sweet ❤️ thank you so so much!

  • @opheliagarza3321
    @opheliagarza3321 Год назад +5

    Just finished watching the adoption vlog and it was a tear jerker. You can tell that Kenzie is so loved by you both and she is so lucky to have you as her parents! She is one lucky girl! ❤❤

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад

      Thank you so so much!! 😭😭❤️❤️ Means so much.

  • @MoMo21819
    @MoMo21819 Год назад +4

    So happy for Kenzi and Didi. The videos of her growing up was beautiful. Seriously, she has the best dads.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад

      Aww thank you sooo much! You’re the sweetest 😘😘

  • @NicoleS0913
    @NicoleS0913 Год назад +22

    Hi! New here. I’m so happy for all of you!!! Kenzie is a little princess!!! She’s growing up in a home with so much love and fun. I’m very sorry about her mama. That is terrible. On the other side now she will be growing up with 2 men with fashion sense. That’s Amazing in itself!!!💛💛💛💛💛

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +2

      Hi! What a sweet comment… 🥹 you are amazing. Thank you so so much!

  • @sharonsimpson6363
    @sharonsimpson6363 Год назад +7

    A child needs love and support. Your daughter is blessed. ❤❤❤

  • @juliegillett6239
    @juliegillett6239 Год назад +21

    This was absolutely beautiful and thank you for sharing. I thought she was officially both of yours. This has to be my favorite video yet. So tender and loving. She is one lucky little girl to be blessed with to daddy’s who love her unconditionally. Your family is beautiful. Congratulations 🎉

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +1

      😭😭 Thank you so much! You are so sweet. We appreciate it! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @donnadee1966
    @donnadee1966 5 месяцев назад

    Kenzie is growing up with the love and support of two people who love her wholeheartedly and are committed to this family unit. I wish every child could know so much love and witness such commitment. You all rock!

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  5 месяцев назад

      This is so incredibly sweet. Thank you so much!

  • @drewwho4512
    @drewwho4512 Год назад +5

    I just found your videos this past week. I was curious as to the dynamic of your family. You all seem so happy. It's great to see so much good come out of such tragic circumstances.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +1

      Hi! Aw thank you very much! ❤️❤️

  • @Notta_Brat
    @Notta_Brat 10 месяцев назад +1

    I know this is a year old ... just want to say congratulations on becoming one of the most awesome families in these United States!!! So super happy for you all !!!

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  10 месяцев назад

      Aw thank you so much! ❤️❤️

  • @jodygiles8223
    @jodygiles8223 Год назад +6

    I sobbed and sobbed through the photo slide show!! You guys have the most fun filled, Loving , Joyful and real bond I’ve ever seen with a child and parent xoxooxox Truly your such a blessing to this beautiful little girl and it’s very clear how much she absolutely ADORES you and her daddy! It’s too cute 😆😆❤❤❤

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +1

      Awww Jody! Your comment made me smile!! I had to screenshot it to save it. Means so much! Thank you so so much!!! 😭😭❤️❤️❤️

    • @jodygiles8223
      @jodygiles8223 Год назад

      @@TheHolgates well I’m glad I could make you smile!!! Sending MASSIVE LOVE FROM AUSTRALIA 🇦🇺 ❤️

  • @annijewiss3142
    @annijewiss3142 Год назад +2

    That is so special, my husband adopted my daughter. You are a lovely family and is so special as you have been a constant in her life from a baby Kenzie is a beautiful young lady ❤

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +1

      Awww I love that! Thank you for sharing. ❤️❤️

  • @janelydiaz_
    @janelydiaz_ Год назад +19

    This video was filled with so much love. I am so happy for each you! Congratulations to you all! Thank you for sharing!

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +1

      You are so sweet ❤️❤️ Thank you SO much!!! 🥹❤️❤️❤️

  • @AdventureBoundWithAinsleyJoe
    @AdventureBoundWithAinsleyJoe 3 месяца назад

    "I'm not crying your crying!!!" We said to each other! Y'all are the definition of love and family! Ya'll warm our hearts!

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  3 месяца назад

      Awww you all are so sweet!

  • @charlenescraftsandcreation3511
    @charlenescraftsandcreation3511 Год назад +5

    I just found y'all's channel, I'm so glad I did. This is such a sweet and loving video. Kenzie is a beautiful young lady. And I'm so happy that y'all have your happily ever after 💗

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +1

      Aww thank you so much!! 🥹❤️❤️❤️

  • @nadaleenbrady8183
    @nadaleenbrady8183 7 месяцев назад +1

    Such wonderful memories! You can see how much Kenzie is loved. Stephen you are a great dad. The only thing that matters is she is loved, in a stable home, and loved. Well done dads you are making Kenzie into a wonderful lady!! ❤❤❤

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  7 месяцев назад

      Aww this made my day to read. Thank you so much!!! 🥹🥹

  • @ОльгаГригорьева-ц8р

    Не поняла ни одного слова,но столько позитива и добра от этой семьи,что досмотрела весь фильм!Люди,будьте счастливы и любимы!!!

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +4

      This made my day! Thank you so much! ❤️❤️

    • @ksutoda8741
      @ksutoda8741 Год назад +2

      Эххх.... я бы с радостью перевела бы Вам всё видео, такая милая семья)) Жалко видео долгое.

    • @АидаБаласанян-ч7ы
      @АидаБаласанян-ч7ы Год назад +1

      Ужасно,когда красивые молодые мужчины,вместо того,чтобы создать нормальную семью с женщиной и иметь своих детей,извращаются друг с другом и им ещё девочку дают на воспитание(((

  • @mariepennington1632
    @mariepennington1632 Год назад +1

    Two of the most deserving and beautiful Dads ever! What a wonderful video! Much love and respect, I loved this video. There needs to be more people like your family in the world.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад

      Awww you are so sweet! Thank you so much!!

  • @brianpettit8951
    @brianpettit8951 Год назад +19

    I am so glad Kenzie is now in a safe, non-abusive home

  • @andreataranenko4811
    @andreataranenko4811 7 месяцев назад

    How am I JUST NOW SEEING THIS!? This little girl is so loved and it radiates out of her. She's going to have the best life that she deserves.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  7 месяцев назад

      Awww thank you for saying that! Means a lot to us. 🥹❤️❤️❤️

  • @karla6998
    @karla6998 Год назад +4

    Omg!! 😢 thank you for this ❤️🥰. You have no idea what this video has done for my life and those around me. Please pray for my family that my husband will be able to adopt my daughter (our daughter). 🙏🏼❤️.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад

      Awww your comment is sooo sweet! We will definitely be praying for you guys that your adoption will happen!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Aprilmayjunexooxo
    @Aprilmayjunexooxo Год назад +1

    I cried like a baby when I realized she’s been singing songs with you since she was little! Stephen you are an amazing person, you and dad are doing a fantastic job raising a Queen we are so happy for you Kenzie you really did get you’re happy ending ❤❤❤❤❤
    #weloveourholgatefamily

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад

      Awww April 😭😭 you are the best. Thank you so much means a lot ❤️❤️

  • @theresakent8461
    @theresakent8461 Год назад +3

    Oh my gosh! What a beautiful family! I am adopted from South Korea so I love stories like this! Congrats! 🎉

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад

      Hi!!! Awww thank you so much!! And thanks for sharing your being adopted! I love that ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @monicasgh68
    @monicasgh68 Год назад +2

    What a heart warming video. I am so happy Kenzi is safe now and with 2 amazing, loving dads. You guys are doing an awesome job! You are a beautiful family!

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад

      Aw thank you very much! 🥹❤️❤️❤️

  • @namitales
    @namitales Год назад +8

    This was beautiful! I’m so glad I found you, you’re such a fun family. You can tell you all love each other and are definitely best friends too. My mom is my best friend and as much as people say your parents shouldn’t be your friends, I have to strongly disagree. Kenzie is going to be able to come to you with everything as she grows up and even when she’s an adult. She won’t be sneaking out doing things, because she has a home environment where she’s allowed to be herself and express herself. I’m pansexual and never had to come out of any closet, as my mom is a strong ally and I grew up seeing all kinds of people. She would ask if I liked any boys OR girls my entire life and always said she hoped I found a good husband or wife someday. When I got a girlfriend I just told her “mom I’m dating this really cute girl” and my sexuality was NEVER discussed. Because to her it really doesn’t matter at all. People ask me how I came out all the time, as I’ve been out since childhood, but I can’t answer that question and I’m actually grateful for it? Sorry for ranting, but you two just remind me of my mom and she’s a star, so it’s beautiful to see her grow up in such a beautiful environment. Thanks for sharing your story, earned another sub. 🥰❤️

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +4

      Oh my gosh, Naomi I loved reading your comment so so much 😭😭😭 Just read it to Bryan and Kenzie. You seem so amazing and it definitely sounds like you have one special Mom. I love that you were lucky enough to have an environment like that to grow up in where you could just completely be who you want to be. That is SO how it should be. We’ve always hoped that because of the type of relationship we have with kenzie that as she ages it will strengthen and she will always be able to come to us with anything and be upfront and honest. So I loved reading that part from you! 😭😭
      You have no idea how much your sweet words made our day!!! ❤️❤️❤️

    • @namitales
      @namitales Год назад +1

      @@TheHolgates Omg you angels! 🥺 I didn’t think it’d even reach you and I’m so glad you read this with her, I promise you’re doing amazing and you’re lucky to have such a wonderful and beautiful daughter. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @LorynPruitt
    @LorynPruitt Год назад +1

    Such a touching story and video. I found your family through our shared loved of Disney but I instantly felt a connection to your guys energy and love for one another. My family has had a hard few years and its been tuff to find the silver lining but I've been watching your channel every morning to put my in the best mood for the day. You all are an inspiration for other family's and parents out here. So glad I found your family to watch! ❤❤

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +1

      This is SO sweet!! wow thank you so much! Means a lot to us. Sending you a HUGE hug! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @nicoeeek.7181
    @nicoeeek.7181 Год назад +3

    You are blooming hilarious!!! Kenzie is an absolute sweetheart, great job guys! Beautiful video, Congratulations.

  • @BlowingRaspberries
    @BlowingRaspberries Год назад +1

    You make me cry! Wow I can feel the love there, all the pictures,times ,dedication and you are truly her dad .Honestly , if every family has a Diddy ,the world will be better and the kids will more happy . Fatherhood requires love, not DNA .love you guys.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +1

      This is sooo sweet! Omg I had to screenshot cause it means so much to me!!! Thank you so so much!!! 😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @BlowingRaspberries
      @BlowingRaspberries Год назад +1

      @@TheHolgates I wish I can give you the 10 % of love you give

  • @deriusmassey6675
    @deriusmassey6675 Год назад +7

    This is like the show “The Fosters” Where in the show... the kids were being raised by two moms. In your case It’s two dads❤ which is pretty awesome & cool. I’ve been waiting for something like this to happen. Your family is beautiful

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +1

      Aww thank you! I love The Fosters! Such a good show. Thanks for the sweet comment 🥹❤️❤️❤️

    • @christicomstock8389
      @christicomstock8389 Год назад

      So happy for you all 1! MY fav movie was Annie as well when i was younger ! Congrats to youall

  • @lizacastillo4665
    @lizacastillo4665 Год назад +2

    OMG her little note at the end made me cry like a baby 😭 you tell should be extremely proud of yourselves! You're raising her better than most parents with a mom and dad. I can't speak from experience because i only had my mother growing up. But I just KNOW most people don't have this much love for even their own children, let alone one they've adopted. My son in law actually adopted a little girl and he's very abusive towards her and stuff it's very sad. Anyways congrats 👏🎉 i bet you're just over the moon happy about your amazing little family ❤❤

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад

      Awww you are such a sweetheart. Thank you so much! That means a lot! 🥹
      I’m so sorry about the situation with your son n law 😢
      Sending you big hugs ❤️

  • @evey7702
    @evey7702 Год назад +2

    Adoption day...Kenzie was absolutely stunning. You guys are so fun all around.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +1

      Aww thanks so much!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @onedoor_
    @onedoor_ 6 месяцев назад

    I nearly cried when it got to the videos of her birthdays...i never knew one video could radiate so much love and positivity ❤

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  5 месяцев назад +1

      Awww you are so sweet! Thank you!

  • @daleadoherty7000
    @daleadoherty7000 Год назад +3

    She looks very happy. She has a great family and the stability she needs.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад

      Aww so sweet of you to say 🥹❤️Thank you so much!

  • @angu15
    @angu15 9 месяцев назад +2

    Is it weird that after one video I love you guys already?
    Your family is so cute! Wishing the best for you guys!

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  9 месяцев назад

      Awww thank you!!! You’re so sweet! Love ya ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @alexanderallan215
    @alexanderallan215 Год назад +11

    I’m so glad Kenzie has her happy ending ( beginning) with her Diddie ( legally) forever.
    Thank you for the window 🪟 into your wonderful family. 👨‍👨‍👧🐶🐱

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +1

      So sweet 🥹 thank you so so much ❤️❤️

  • @chandrimadutta8629
    @chandrimadutta8629 10 месяцев назад +1

    Hello!! I just came across this channel and needless to say I'm so glad how you guys had been taking care of her as two fathers. She's really lucky to have you both! Love from India 🤍

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  10 месяцев назад +1

      Aw thank you very much!

  • @Me-jg4yk
    @Me-jg4yk Год назад +70

    She is so lucky to have two dads

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +6

      Thank you! 😭❤️

    • @levilovesrolblox
      @levilovesrolblox Год назад +4

      Ikr! Double the dads, double the fun is what I say ❤

    • @casluvs
      @casluvs Год назад

      Right. I ever so wish I had 2 dads or 2 moms even

  • @lorrisell1
    @lorrisell1 Год назад +1

    Omg.... who's cutting onions 🥹🥲😢 What a beautiful and blessed young lady Kenzie is to be covered in so much love ❤ Love this and a super late congratulations to your sweet family ❤️

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +1

      Awww you are such a sweetheart! Thank you so much! ❤️

  • @Me-jg4yk
    @Me-jg4yk Год назад +3

    You know what you two make the best parents I've ever seen so far on RUclips or really in real life she is an adorable beautiful beautiful child growing up to be a beautiful woman you have raised her since she was a baby and I've been watching you guys since she was a baby your RUclips videos are beautiful I hope you guys last forever and more in your marriage and more and watch her grow up to be a beautiful woman as she is a beautiful girl now you guys treat her so good but now you need a little brother or a little sister so work on that she's going to want a sibling but she's very well mannered very respected child I am very surprised your videos are absolutely wonderful cuz you guys tell it how it is you guys don't sugar coat anything and that's what she loves about both of you God put you in her future and now she's adopted and that is the most beautiful thing in the world

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +1

      Wow this is so sweet!! We appreciate it. Thank you so so much! 🥹❤️❤️

  • @kathrynsinclare8459
    @kathrynsinclare8459 Год назад +1

    I’m 70yrs. young pick me, pick me! Oh please! You three are adorable! I’ll be really good!
    I’ll never understand what makes people so against gays. I just don’t get it. The three of you plus pets and extended support are the prime example of health and happiness. The Lord Jesus Christ could not be more pleased with this incredible family. Truly I’m so happy for each of you. Congratulations! 🎊🎉 🎂🥳❤❤❤👋🏻🧑‍🦳😊🥳🎂😀💐

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад

      Oh my gosh you are such a sweetheart!! Thank you so much! Screen shotting this to save ❤️❤️❤️ Sending you big hugs!

  • @mendelmurphy5016
    @mendelmurphy5016 Год назад +3

    I cried !!!! 😢 Such a wonderful family !!!!!

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +1

      Aww thank you so much!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @deniseescalante6345
    @deniseescalante6345 Год назад +1

    Hello BEAUTIFUL Holgate family! I am so sorry that Kenzie had to go through through so much at such a young age but how BLESSED she is to have 2 such wonderful involved Fathers. This warms my heart so very much. I started watching your videos a few months back when I booked my first Disney cruise. After awhile I just enjoyed watching you guys and absorbing all the positive vibes. My Dad passed away late July and watching your videos have definitely helped lift my spirits. I am extremely happy for your little family and send you all a great big hug in congratulations for this momentous occasion. HAPPY BELATED ADOPTION DAY!!!! XOXO

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад

      Aww Denise I loved reading this 😭❤️
      Thank you SO SO much for your incredibly sweet words. Means the world to us. I am so sorry about the loss of your father 😔 sending you big hugs and positive vibes. I’m so glad you left a comment. You are the best. 🥹❤️❤️

  • @mitschis_omegaloop_life
    @mitschis_omegaloop_life Год назад +5

    What an amazing, beautiful and loving family you are... So many kids would love to have such loving parents

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад

      You are so kind! Thank you so much!!

  • @terryrosendahl3173
    @terryrosendahl3173 Год назад +1

    Thank you for this. Especially when people are so unknowledgeable about what makes a family.
    I have seen both ways being positive but also negative. I love the positivity in families. Because blood doesn't always make a family. A family is full of love, nurturing and kindness as well as teaching and belonging.
    I'm so happy for your family and am excited to see what's next.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад

      I love this. Thank you so much! ❤️❤️

  • @Natalie_track_XC
    @Natalie_track_XC Год назад +6

    What a loving family ❤

  • @leonepitt8188
    @leonepitt8188 10 месяцев назад +1

    I am so delighted to come across this special video. You all brought so much joy to my heart. Bless you all forever.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  10 месяцев назад

      Awww thank you so so much!

  • @terikeo3752
    @terikeo3752 Год назад +3

    What a lovely story, congratulations to the family ❤

  • @C.O._Jones
    @C.O._Jones Год назад +1

    How sweet! It’s so clear how much love y’all have for one another. Congratulations!

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +1

      Awww thank you so much!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @johnsanders1978
    @johnsanders1978 Год назад +3

    BEST FAMILY EVER💜❤️💙💛💚🧡 I’m so sorry Kenzie had to experience trauma regarding her bio mom, but I am so happy she has 2 loving parents who adore her. Anyone would be lucky to be adopted by Diddy!

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +2

      Awww thank you so much, John! You are so great. Appreciate it 🥹❤️❤️❤️

  • @musicgirl999
    @musicgirl999 Год назад +2

    Congratulations!! This makes me sooo happy! I’ve been obsessing over the videos you have on IG from when she was a toddler.
    Thank you guys for posting this video!

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +1

      Aww thank you so much!!! 🥹❤️

  • @juanpersonal4327
    @juanpersonal4327 Год назад +5

    Les deseo lo mejor de la vida a ustedes!!

  • @38xavierable2
    @38xavierable2 Год назад

    I’ve always noticed Kenzie looking a lot like Daddy Bryan. I cried a little after Diddy said, I’m not gonna cry, I hate crying. So much love and happiness shining! I’m so touched by how you guys are to each other every day that I’ve watched the videos. I’m a silent subscriber and quite guilty of not commenting every time I watch. I’m thankful that I’ve found you guys and it brings me joy every time I see you guys! Many blessings to you and to yours! Happy, healthy, peaceful family life from me to yours! 🥰😘

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +1

      Awwww you are so sweet! Thank you so much! 🥹 I appreciate you taking the time to comment. Sending big hugs! ❤️❤️

  • @sparehart6092
    @sparehart6092 Год назад +2

    Such a beautiful family ❣️❣️ stay blessed guys ❤️❤️❤️

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +1

      Thank you so much! ❤️❤️

  • @nhawker7609
    @nhawker7609 2 месяца назад

    Love your happy ending (I'm adopted too and it's the best thing ever!). Family is who has your heart and you have theirs!

  • @ТатьянаСереда-у4э
    @ТатьянаСереда-у4э Год назад +8

    Люблю смотреть на счастливых и красивых людей. Желаю вам здоровья, любви и МИРА !!! With love from Ukrain/

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад

      Hi! Thank you so much! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @vihaansota1515
    @vihaansota1515 2 месяца назад

    I wish i had a family like that .... During all my childhood what I could hear were screams and hate. Now I'm 37 and as an adult I can see all the mistakes and traumas they have given to me. I hated them back then, and I still do now, even if my father passed away. Family like the one in this video are a blessing.... Much love to you. Guys and daughter ♥️

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 месяца назад

      I’m so sorry for what you went thru. Thanks for your comment. Hugs ❤️

  • @Sandra-vr8rz
    @Sandra-vr8rz Год назад +6

    Смотрю и радуюсь за девочку,видно что родители любят её. Большого человеческого счастья вашей семье!❤

  • @missy543
    @missy543 Год назад

    This is my first video of yours. The therapist said it right. You are all amazing. The love jumped right out of this video. To a life time of smiles,hugs, kisses dress up and love ❤️ 🩷🧡💛💚💙🩵💜

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад

      You are amazing. Thank you so so much!! 🥹❤️❤️❤️

  • @0003skye
    @0003skye Год назад +3

    If possible I wish for all families to have a set of parents it’s not the same growing up in a single parent home. Coming from one I know the impact it has on children. I love how many different ways a two parent home can be and this is a perfect example.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +1

      So sweet. Thank you so much! ❤️

  • @ronny-lb1cr
    @ronny-lb1cr 11 месяцев назад +1

    Watching this from Germany and this is what America makes great

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  11 месяцев назад

      Aww that is so sweet! Thank you so much! ❤️

  • @Natalie_track_XC
    @Natalie_track_XC Год назад +3

    I’m so sorry for kenzies mom 😢but I’m glad Kenzie is in a good home ❤

  • @littleripper312
    @littleripper312 8 месяцев назад +2

    This looks a heck of a lot better than growing up with my hetero parents who hated each other and were literally only staying together at that point due to finances.

  • @Детскиестрахи
    @Детскиестрахи Год назад +10

    Прекрасные папы 👍🔥 ! Безумно красивая , милая , доченька 😍🌹

  • @ChellenBobby
    @ChellenBobby Год назад +1

    Man I wish I had you 2 for Dad's your family is so precious I'm so happy for all of you and for it to finally be official just makes life so much more happy now to just add maybe . ❤❤❤❤

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад

      Awww thank you SO much 🥹❤️❤️❤️

  • @malyunabdi7293
    @malyunabdi7293 Год назад +1

    I looovvvee this! this is soo cute, you can really feel the love through the screen. Congratulations on the adoption!!
    Kenzie is so beautiful, sweet and smart. You guys are such a lovely family. Every kid should have such loving parents, you guys are amazing and fun parents you should really be proud of your parenting style . You guys relationship is so loving! This is how parenting should look like. ♥🥰

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад

      Oh my gosh thank you so much! Reading this made my day! 😭😭 we appreciate it! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @ashleybeachem9623
    @ashleybeachem9623 Год назад

    I happened upon your account as we are planning our first Disney cruise, but I have become obsessed with your videos! This one in particular had me in ugly tears. Your family is such a beautiful example of love❤❤❤

  • @carriehoskinson1651
    @carriehoskinson1651 3 месяца назад

    I have just recently found your channel and have fallen in love with your family!
    This vlog was the most heart warming thing I have watched probably ever.
    I cried such happy tears watching this...thank you so much🥰.

  • @jodygiles8223
    @jodygiles8223 Год назад +1

    Hold upppppp!! I just came across this in my recommendations and OMG I’m screaming with JOY!!! How how HOW is there only 2.7 k subs????? Um NO NO!! You guys are going to be huge ON HERE SOON I KNOW IT!!!!!!!! Xoxoxooxooxoxo

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  Год назад +1

      ❤️❤️ You are by far the sweetest ever! Thank you!