When she calls him out for selling pills, or yells over everyone, it's clear she rather be right than keep Kenny happy. If you ever meet people like this. Put up with them, pretend to be in need of money, ask for like a few thousand, and never contact them again. Simple quick way to make shitty people despise you.
Sadly, there’s not much better out there. She’s pretty up there on the better list..... Every chiq I met at college was a raging alcoholic, some even had a full gold alcohol mixing set proudly displayed at their apartments. Reason she is better is solely because she doesn’t cheat (so far I know), a staple trait of the modern woman. If she does that, I’d say she pretty average. Men, women really not worth your time. Dont marry.
I agree with Gundam. Kenny, if you are reading this, please get out of that relationship. She is only one moonshine or pain killer away from harming you at any moment. Look how little she cares about you. I felt no love, respect, or concern for you from her. There is nothing emotionally holding her back if she decided to one day just harm you for one reason or another. Just like we tell women to get out of relationships with bad men, we need to encourage men to do the same. There are other fish out there. Let that catfish go back to the swamp.
Hey this is Kenny. Thanks for the kind words. I was watching Gundam videos in the bathroom like I usually do (hiding until the wife passed out) when I came across this comment. Just wanted to let you know that I saw and appreciate what you said. Peace out big dog.
@@catotheyounger879 Can you please promise us that you WILL DO SOMETHING ABOUT THIS PROBLEM you have? I mean it, we do care about you and we would like to see you do better. Take care man!
I had a judge ask someone this same question. That dumbass said he stopped drinking at 6am. It was 11am when he was on the stand and the judge said he could smell the beer on him.
I'm one of those people who, when finding something genuinely funny, most often just smiles to myself. But I burst out sniggering when this man, without hesitation, gave, "'Cause I have to live with her," as a legitimate answer.
Facts. As a man who’s dealt with a few women similar to this I found myself having that same kind of attitude just to get that individual to stfu. Thankfully, I realized my worth and no longer deal with women like that as I actually found a women who can use her head. I’m not religious but you best believe I thank the lord I found a keeper.
"When was the last time you were drunk?" "About five months ago!" Five minutes later: "Didn't you have to get dragged out of the bar last night and forced awake this morning for the show?" The utter lack of self awareness and compulsive lying of this woman is astonishing!
Women keep watching trashy tv dramas and apply what they see in *real life.* That's why I avoid chick flicks cause there is a high chance that your date will compare you to unrealistic standards (like when the man in the movie blows obscene amounts of money to show the woman that he "loves" them) then your date trys to GUILT you into copying that shit. That's when I put our relationship status into "pending termination" cause im getting too old for this shit. Im not a teenager I got bills to pay and a house to renovate!
"I just feel uncomfortable having sex with my wife when she makes advances under the influence" somehow equals him being a control freak according to the display on the show... amazing.
Didn't some feminist or someone go and say, if you have fun with a woman while under the influence of drink. That is the same as doing it without consent?
Woman: I am a strong indipendent woman, I can do whatever I want! Woman: *Proceeds to make herself as undesirable and unattractive as humanly possible, adopts unhealthy habits like drugs, tobacco and alcohol* Woman: whY woN't MeN apProAcH me fOr sEx!?
Zero humility. She can’t fathom that she is at all any part of the problem. She probably doesn’t even see him as another human being. She wouldn’t even be complaining, she’d go cheat on him if she didn’t have the worst personality that makes all men run immediately. No man is that desperate. I’m sure at one point she wasn’t like this, because the woman you divorce ain’t the one you married. I imagine all the drinking and pills she’s taken had destroyed her brain.
the moment she opened her mouth, I can already tell how miserable kenny's life is at home. he's constantly walking on eggshells. she picks fights with him on every little mistake he does and is often blown out of proportion especially if her girl friends are around. either that or they talk shit about him while he's away. he also hardly answers back to defend himself because it'll only lead to louder yapping and she needs to always be right or the yapping won't end. and finally, even her mistakes is somehow still his fault. bet.
those type of people have no friends around, they have all been chased off, part of the narcistic control she, only keeping it whittled down to her and Kenny
Plus she's mixing some super dangerous meds. Benzodiazepines, amphetamines, opiates, AND alcohol. That's practically suicidal. On a more anecdotal note, I've never seen anyone mix amphetamines with anything and not have their mental state decline very, VERY rapidly
My new struggle started when my wife passed from cancer. Marriage was actually good for me. I've listened to the stuff that my other married friends went through and counted my blessings I was in a good marriage. Poor Kenny. Alcohol isn't the problem. Stupidity is. Stupid Misty for looking for consolation in alcohol. Stupid Kenny for facilitating her alcoholism.
Sorry to hear about the loss of your wife I hope you’re going ok. I love my wife and have a very loving relationship and also hear all about the bad relationships from friends and people around me and count my blessings. I hope you find happiness and love in the rest of your life my friend
@@EdgarFriendlysCivicsTeacher She was strong when she needed to be, gentle, affectionate, and kind to all around her. She was my pillar of support, regardless of whether I made a right or wrong decision. She was there for me, and I was there for her. She was my best friend, my confidant, my partner.
"The last time I got drunk was 5 months ago" To an alcoholic, "drunk" usually means absolutely legless. She probably drinks till she's buzzed most nights but doesn't count that as "drunk"
@@riskvideos Takes around 10-20 times the human quantity of alcohol to be lethal to a horse. Their liver is around 2 times more efficient than a human to process alcohol and their body mass is 4-8x a human.
This is some definite gold. love how the audience started out on her side, then she kept talking... and arguing with the hosts, admitting to things she shouldn't... and then everyone seems to have jumped to Kenny's side. I would love a part two.
This is a piece of wisdom I've heard more than once recently: 'Never interrupt your enemy when they're making a mistake.' That's why Kenny got real quiet. He knew all he had to do was let her talk! 😁
Search youtube for "Face the Truth Kenny" and you'll get the a playlist with the full episode broken into segments. Spoiler Alert!! The audience votes that she needs rehab, the show offers her a free 90 day program and she freaks out. She actually claims, "No, that's giving him a vacation from me. I wanna make his life miserable." They almost talk her into it, but she turns it down backstage. And Kenny gets a hug from Vivica.
Amen. As soon as the guy mentioned alcohol was involved I knew exactly who is at fault. She may otherwise be a very nice person but by god once someone you love is addicted to alcohol they just arent the person you loved anymore. They no longer love you and they no longer value you. If they cant stop drinking for your sake then its time to leave them for your sake.
"I'm 45 years old, I can do whatever I want!" Does that include sexually assaulting your husband and forcing him to do sexual acts that he doesn't want to do? If so, I'm adding that to the "reasons to go monk and stay monk" list
Here on the Left Hand Path our Monks can fap unlike nearly all of those Right Hand Path wierdos who are in denial of such basic natural drives biologically hard wired into us
Personally, I couldn't care less how long between your uploads. I'm just happy when I see them and know it's going to be comic gold sprinkled with some worldly wisdom. You keep on keepin' on, and don't let upload schedules get you down.
I agree. One of the major reasons RUclips videos declined in quality so much is because they forced content creators to upload videos daily/weekly in order to maintain their channel relevant for the searching algorithms. You can't focus on the quality of your content if you are constantly rushing towards meeting the next deadlines.
Chris Rock had some wise words many years ago about dealing with the cops. One of the biggest points he made was don't go out with a mad woman, they will say and do anything to get your ass beat.
The especially fucked part, aside from the shit they're throwing at him, is he's probably forced to sell his pain meds because of how much that broad is drinking them out of home and into debt.
I mean, that's even *if* he's actually selling pain meds. I legitimately believe she's just throwing anything she can think of at Kenny to make herself sound less awful, true or not.
@@NefariousKoel Can confirm. It's like a $200/mo habit assuming two $25 bottles/wk. And that's at night after work, not including staying home and drinking all day. It'd easily be closer to $400/mo if I did.
As someone who grew up with an in-denial abusive alcoholic mother this hits. My dad put up with my mother for far too long too. She kinda ruined my life. Thankfully I am no contact with her now and just live my life, but women like this are awful and why I have issues.
Men are willing to live in abusive relationships for their values and children. My brother just started his own life of misery with his nasty narcissistic wife. Who dumped him at one point after their first kid to try and “save” a drug addict, who leaves him to take care of the child while she goes out to party, where she snoops at his messages constantly, there is so much more about her that is terrible. He still sticks with her, and even has another kid with her. My brother is really good at not listening to his other brothers. I told him many times not to have another kid. So it’s a mixture of ideals and stupidity. Staying with a woman and marrying her just cause she’s your baby mama. It’s sad to say his fate is in her hands, he may kill himself over her. Hopefully his rational mind kicks in.
@@NPClownumber81googolplex I don't know, I've seen some people I was sure would be impossible to defend get defended. I'll take a victory when I can get one.
I bet he's not even selling pills. He's just hiding them from his crazy wife who is now coming up with wild stories to explain why the pills are missing.
She's been exposed Kenny and a good portion of the free world knows about her. Now, if God forbid, she fell down some stairs or got into a horrible car accident, get your alibi lined up. No matter the outcome, we'll understand.
@@QuartuvLarry I remember. You guys won 2nd place in the tournament. Keith, our part time employee, dropped the camera in beer after so no team pictures this year though.
There's a point where a relationship goes beyond abusive and you are actually in danger of your partner causing grievous bodily harm or worse. This relationship has crossed that point.
Well, after seeing this. I think Kenny is a saint with how relax and clam he is through out the whole thing. Having to deal with a person like that every day of his life.
I can guess how this ends. She went and got a restraining order against him the next day alleging abuse, then filed for divorce soon after, and now Kenny is paying for her daily alcohol binges and can't afford his own medication.
I think it says a lot that she'd pull this poor man onto a TV show to air their dirty laundry like this... take it to a therapist! Go to some sort of rehab, jesus christ. My mother used to have substance abuse problems and you can't fix that sort of thing unless the person doing it wants to change. It's obvious this woman's problem is her own doing... I just feel sorry for the husband. I'm sure he feels like he has to stick around... but there comes a point where you do all you can do and there's nothing left. He needs to get out of that relationship and situation. My heart goes out to this guy...
Proverbs has a ton of great wisdom about what it means to live with a woman who doesn't love you. As someone who's been in that position, that seriously got me through it. Proverbs 12:4 - "An excellent wife is the crown of her husband, but she who brings shame is like rottenness in his bones."
So the whole "drunk at home" vs "drunk going out" isn't woman logic: that is 100% alcoholic logic regardless of gender. Alcoholics will make self-imposed rules to try to prove that they aren't alcoholics (only drinking at home, only drinking after a certain time/between certain hours, etc). Also she said her ADHD meds calm her down while she's acting a fool so she must be fully deranged without her meds.
As someone who have chronic back pain and have dilaudid and hydromorph-contin to take everyday, I can tell you can get very high with that kind of stuff if you don't take them as prescribed. That woman is a drunk and an accident waiting to happen.
I have a broken back and have been on Opana, fentanyl patches, MS contin, oxicontin, roxycodone and other narcotics throughout the last 14 years (at different times, not on them all at once). About 4 years after I broke my back I noticed my meds started to go missing for about 6 months in a row, enough that about 2-3 weeks into my month supply from the doctor I'd run out and start going through morphine withdrawals... each month for 6-7 months. Blamed everyone else that I could until one day I set up a camera on my computer to watch my meds and caught my fiance taking them. She ended up saying watching me in pain every day was too tough so she took them herself to deal with it... got the ring back and the bitch was out on her ass that day. You never accept that shit from a woman, kick her ass out of the house Kenny! From experience I can say it's the best thing possible to do and I never felt better than the day after I did it! Lol
Watching you in pain was too tough for her, so she decided to steal your meds so you wouldn’t just be feeling the pain from your broken back, but you’d have to deal with the pain of opiate withdrawal on top of it?! That’s one twisted woman smh
@@isitoveryet9525 I spent years trying to figure that one out... lol. Every time it happened I'd be curled up in the fetal position on the floor next to our bed shaking dealing with the hell that is withdrawals on top of my back pain and she would lay there holding my hand saying "I'm so sorry baby, I wish there was anything I could do to help you".... I don't know, maybe try not being a raging cunt by stealing my meds and forcing me into withdrawals? That would be a nice start. Lol And people wonder why I have trust issues in relationships. Lol
You spent 2 weeks of the month in withdrawal…for a minimum of 6 months??? And each time jumped back to your full dosage, only to go into withdrawal again? I've had back problems from I was 15 (was told I was too young to have them) so spent the next 20yrs dealing with them which resulted in 3 prolapsed discs, 2 of which ruptured, with the "jelly" from 1 impinging on the nerve root so severely that it completely disappeared in 1 of the slides in an eventual MRI. The only time I wasn't in pain was riding the motorbike and then a year later I was involved in a head-on with a car, in which I shattered my knee and sustained multiple other injuries. I spent 8 yrs undergoing limb salvage procedures to keep a leg which they'd made the decision to remove while I was bleeding out at the side of the road, have endured every knock-on effect possible from PEs to Lymphoedema to sporadic bouts of e-coli from an infection site they couldn't trace and been housebound for the last 12.5 years. The bet result, of course, has been crippling pain from the first time I was medi-vacced from the oil platform where a worked as well as actually being crippled by the accident. If *ANYBODY* had left me without my required meds for so much as 1 day, you best believe I'd have notified my chemist and Dr of the shortfall. Because they keep minute records of such things, I wouldn't have had to notify the police, because THEY would have best me to it, if it was a substantia shortfall from what they KNEW I had received from them, simply because it's a serious criminal offence. There's only 1 way you could possibly have endured such long-term absence from those high strength meds…you didn't actually need them. If you were really in so much pain that you required them, you COULD NOT have functioned without them. I KNOW!!! Not only that the withdrawal from missing as few as 2 doses has me climbing the walls and O can hardly move, yet you expect us to believe that you did NOTHING to try to mitigate your suffering? You didn't contact your physician to get more? You couldn't have for the reasons already laid out. You're either overstating your injury, your pain levels or dosage, probably all three.
@@iratepirate648 wow, aren't we just an over assuming jackass? Lol. Not that I have to explain anything to some random angry ass on the internet, but you're wildly off on your assumptions. I broke my back "falling" off a ladder, and I put that in quotes because it was kicked out from under me by a douché bag that was angry at what I was doing but that is a whole other thing, and fell about 15'. Landed on my feet and they said the pressure went straight up my spine causing damage. I fractured 4 vertebra (L2-5), 3 herniated degenerative disc's, and sheered the SI joint where you're hip meets your spine. 7 spinal surgeries in so far everything from basically JB welding the vertebra back together with some cement shit I can't pronounce to facet rizatemies to fusing the SI joint and even going through a discogram (literally the worst hell you can imagine). So the injury is there, whether you want to believe it or not is up to you, I honestly couldn't care less. Dosages on all my meds are apparently on the high side. My pain management doctor keeps prescribing them because I'm 6'10" 300 pounds and apparently have a metabolism faster than anything he has ever seen. But I've been dealing with the worthless workers comp system that constantly complains about my dose because they claim "safe" levels are at 50 MED (morphine equivalent dose) and below and I've been between 130-160 MED for over a decade. Once again, couldn't care less if you believe me, but if you really want proof I guess you could message me your number and I could send you pictures of my ever growing forest of pill bottles. I'm currently on oxicontin, roxycodone, gabapentin, trazadone and tizanadine. As for why I didn't run to the doctor, you're partially right, because they would of called the cops even before I could. I didn't know who was taking them, so what could of been done? They file a police report and then I have a mark on my record saying I wasn't responsible enough with a bunch of schedule 2 narcotics. Where does that get me? Not to mention my lawyer told me if I reported it workers comp would try to use that as justification to try and cut off paying for them because... well workers comp is a corrupt piece of shit ponsy scam and at the time I didn't have other insurance and couldn't afford an extra $1300 a month to pay for the meds. So I went about trying to figure out what was happening. Ruled out my fiance because I didn't believe she could ever do that to me, and basically ended up accusing everyone else that could have until I ruled all of them out too. Got to the point I thought I was sleep walking and doing something with them, that's why I set up the camera without telling the lady, figure I'd catch myself doing something then hand them to her and ask her to hide them from me.... imagine my surprise when I saw her taking them instead... As for dealing with the withdrawals, it was absolute hell no matter how you look at it. Insomnia, intestinal cramping to the point it feels someone is stabbing your gut, trying not to shit yourself constantly them sitting on the toilet doing nothing because you thought you had to go but there is nothing left inside you, shivering and having the feeling that even your clothes touching your skin bothers you... none of it is fun. A nurse friend told me of a way to at least cut the worst of it though, fill a 2 liter bottle half way with poppy seeds and lemon juice then the rest with water and let it sit overnight. The lemon juice breaks down the poppy seeds enough to release a tiny amount of morphine equivalent (not sure the exact type of natural opioid in them) and drink 2 of them a day. It by no means stops the withdrawal but it was enough to take the edge off somewhat. The rest, I was just a stubborn fuck and powered my way through it. There was nothing else I could do, so I dealt with it for as long as I had to. Thankfully the withdrawals start to subside in a few days, then it's just dealing with not wanting to move at all because of my back. So that's my story, like it or not little man. Fuck, didn't think I would have to write a novel just because of one little comment on a video... lol
@@iratepirate648 This is a whole bunch of spaghetti, m8. Guy has a completely different problem from you, not this whole LIST of bad luck and bullshit. My Father has worse problems than OP _and they won't even give him medication, opiate or otherwise._ 6 different surgeries on his back to replace discs, shave some down and even put a rod in there and it's still going to deteriorate constantly via spinal stenosis until he's stuck in a wheelchair and then eventually bedridden until he dies. He has chronic pain every single day, can't even take a walk outside for longer than a minute, if he's lucky and can hardly sit down for long periods. He's constantly hunched over due to the fact he can't straighten it out due to the pain, can't even raise his arms past his chest because of it, can hardly get dressed without my Mother's help and was advised never to lift more than a gallon of milk. The only Doctor he ever had that would give him pain meds? Forced to leave because, "He would take too long with patients." A good Doctor who listened to his patients and the Practice got pissy because it meant less people in and out, meaning less money for them and that the front desk had to be there longer. Do you want to know how pissed that makes me? My Father can barely function because of the pain. He lives every single day in agony because OTHER PEOPLE abused drugs and now they're punishing the people that actually need them, because the State government decided to crack down on all opiates in general and scared Doctors instead of actually trying to tackle the drug abuse issue. Because FUCK THEM, right? Do you really believe that little stunt stopped drug abuse or just fucked a lot of people over? I'll give you a hint, it's not the former. I'd love for you to tell me that "maybe he doesn't need them," because the last 24 years of my Father's medical history, from his different Primary Care Physicians, to different Neurological Surgeons, X-rays, Scans... etc. *all say otherwise* _and he doesn't even have A TENTH of the help you do._ Allow me to reiterate this. You want to dismiss this guy's story because of YOUR situation. _A much more drastic one at that._ I've never even heard of anyone in your situation before, even for the people I knew *for a fact* _needed the medication._ Yours sounds pretty extraordinary and I don't know how you think everyone somehow has this team ready to crack down if meds go missing, because OP's situation is unfortunately a common occurrence, usually for people who live with low income and around those with drug addictions. So, you know what? Cut it out. Not everyone has what you do and the majority of people are like OP or my Father, with no protections at all for what happens with pain meds. Hell, I don't even know where you live and it sounds like you have or had quite a bit of money if you get the luxuries. Meds go missing around here and the Doctors and Pharmacy go, "Oh well, nothing we can do."
That poor dude, I've been with someone like that the drinking the lying the stealing of meds and getting rid of her is one of the best things to ever happen to me. If you're going through this remember it can get better bros stay strong. We're all going to make it.
Maybe the lesson is women need to stop growing up to be Jadas, Hurds, and Misties. But we have a toxic femininity problem in this culture that encourages and glorifies this behavior.
Just avoid humans in general as a rule. At least if you hang out with hyenas you know what their intentions are. A contract only exists if both parties agree to the stipulations. If only one side honours the contract it's not a contract.
@@torch_fire9218 true but the one thing every man can do is try to avoid these kind of women. Them changing, changing the laws and society comes obviously later.
At the VA I go to we get that one show from Vancouver, the "I'm a part-time moth aromatherapist, my husband is an unemployed left-handed smoke-shifter, our budget is 23 million dollars" one.
A made up disorder that does nothing but make you a lazy bum that does nothing but blame fake disorders for their problems. Like come on you are 45 years old watching a 20 year olds videos? Grow up
I actually understand this situation. I was with a girl for about a month in college. I really liked her, but all she did was drink. The night she fell asleep on my chest in bed was the night I was done with it. This guy is 100% correct when he says you're on two different wavelengths. I just didn't feel right with her when she was drunk as hell.
I've rejected my wifes advances just to prove a point. She thought we would only do it when she wants to, but I made it clear that it's a two way street. She can be... convinced... more easily now.
WOmen tends to think that sex is how they control us. In some cases it is , unfortunatly. But in other cases, they forget that Men , we discover masturbation at the tender age of 12, for most of our lives we've been wankers... We've been satisfied of it 100% of the time. We like the coochie, but if we have to, we can go back to wanking and not even think about it, we do not care. One girl tried to do this shit with me, "if you don't do this then you can forget about getting some of this till you do what i asked" "Woman, i've been wanking since i'm 12, you think that going a couple of days without your ass is gonna be something so unbearable that i'll come crawling back?, Don't flatter yourself, you ain't that good..."
Funny, Kenny reminds me of another Kenny. You know: You got to know when hold'em, know when to fold'em! Know when to walk away, know when to run! Run Kenny run!
I was in a relationship like this, it ruined a large part of my life and my Daughters life. I suffered from Knight in Shining Armor Syndrome. The truth is you cant save or change someone from who they want to be. People with substance abuse issues will deceive, manipulate and guilt you into tolerating and supporting their behaviour for as long as they possibly can. The only person that can save them is themselves but as long as they can find people they can fool into believing they want to change they never will. If your constantly drawn to people who need fixing you'll never find happiness. I'm not saying these people are irredeemable but as long as they can find people that will tolerate, enable and support their behaviour they will never have any real reason to change.
Addictions are a complex subject but yeah, external support and pressure both have fairly limited effects. Unless the person has an epiphany (a "click") in their own mind and realizes that the irreparable harm they are causing to both themselves and people around them by far outweighs the "benefit" they gain from their addiction, external pressure will just make them dig in or chase them away. But even that is just the start because addictions are most often just symptoms of some underlying issues. You cant just get rid of it if you are unwilling to tackle the deeper issues. In the end, if someone firmly sets themselves on an auto-destructive course then the best thing to do is protect yourself by getting out of their way.
Saw the first upload. Didn't watch it yet. Had time, saw it was blocked. Went ahead to watch the original video, I couldn't stomach watching that woman after 2 minutes. You have true will power to watch crazy stuff like this on the daily. Thank you Gundam.
And she'll probably get away with it, like that lady in Europe that murdered a guy with a knife and the judge let her off because "(he) didn't want to ruin her live over a mistake"
@@1810jeff someone should delete that judge. If that happened to someone I'm related to and the judge let them off I would end that person, the judge and that person's lawyer.
@@1810jeff Don't worry we Aussies know all too well how soft our judges are they're all an embarrassment and should be forced to resign in shame. It's genuinely heart breaking and insulting the way our judges hand out sentences. For example of how things usually go down brutally murder someone and then try to hide the evidence that'll be 5 years only, brazenly commit a higher up the scale felony and show a complete lack of remorse or even contempt 2 years in lockup you get the point...
"I haven't been drunk in five months" As someone who has seen alcoholism up close, this was obviously a lie. An alcoholic, functional or not, is always "not drinking" and the list of accomplishments is not surprising. Her reaction is far more telling. If she doesn't have a problem, then why is she so defensive? Her husband literally just said that the problem isn't her, but the fact that he isn't comfortable doing anything because of CONSENT. Why does something that is reasonable make her angry? Chances are it is because she knows she has a problem and will not admit it. And I'd bet money that those "achievements" are lies. Just because she hasn't had a DUI doesn't mean she isn't still driving under the influence; it can easily mean she just hasn't been caught in awhile. And the idea that she'd tell anyone is laughable.
When my friend was real deep into his alcoholism him being not drunk was being able to down around a fifth of peppermint schnapps, but he wasn’t “drunk” because he could still remember what he did that night. Alcoholics have a different definition of drunk than the normal person.
As someone who grew up with an abusive alcoholic (psychological and emotional), she's got all the signs right there. The biggest red flag is when asked to not drink alcohol, the answer is "no" and "alcohol isn't the problem". For those without experience, here are the typical signs: 1. Refusal to give up alcohol (this is common of addicts of anything... asking them to not do it anymore and they get aggressive about it means they're addicts, or try to defend it... anything except being okay about giving it up). 2. Denial of previous problems having ever been a problem. Framing them as "in the past" and "I don't do that anymore" rather than "I'm sorry I did that and I do X instead". 3. Deflection of blame. Doesn't matter what the subject is. It's okay that she steals pills, because he sells them anyway. Therefore, she's not as bad. It isn't her drinking problem that isn't getting her laid, it's him not "being a man" and giving her what she wants, when she wants it. On and on. 4. Trying to create "tiers" of the bad behavior. In this instance, we only have her talking about alcohol, but most alcoholics will grade their bad behavior by "tiers". The example is "Oh, I didn't get drunk last night, I went out last night" when confronted with her lie about 5 months being the last time she was drunk. Alcoholics tend to "Tier" their bad behavior. It's only "getting drunk" when she's at home. It's "having fun on the town" when it's drunk at the bar. It's only "abuse" when they get caught, and it's "I was trying to help you" when they aren't caught. Bad behavior only becomes bad behavior when specific conditions and criteria are met. So... it's "tiered". 5. Sunken face is fairly dead giveaway. Usually a sign of repeated issues with kidneys and being unable to remove enough toxins from the blood stream. 6. Argumentative behavior. Alcoholics tend to be fairly argumentative about pretty much anything. Even inconsequential stuff. Even when sober. It tends to be their coping mechanism to feel good about themselves when they have nothing to feel good about. 7. Bringing up "past accomplishments" a lot. Drunks tend to live in the time of their lives when they felt the best. They don't move forward. They don't create new accomplishments. They bring up their old ones a lot. Even if their old accomplishments weren't all that great. They live in the past.
Gundam PLEASE! I absolutely NEED part 2 of this, great way to start my day. Also just wanna say you really didn’t have to go out of your way to make this extra content for us but I really appreciate it and I’m sure all your other subs do too. I enjoy your work.
Misty: "I'm ADHD for real" Kenny: "You just told on yourself" Kenny is the embodiment of all the guys who have been beaten down mentally throughout the years by a crazy wife.
Kenny breaks his back working, gets pain meds, sells them so his wife can be a drunk, she steals pain meds so she can be a drunk pill popper. THIS is America Childish Gambino
This is one hell of a trainwreck. I'm not surprised this is happening, but it's uncommon for so many of the signs of female instability to be presented in such a short time. This was a really good choice to do a video on.
The fact he didn't divorce her leads me to believe either he's the most patient man on the entire planet or she's got something over him. Like being able to see his kids 🤔🤷🏾♀️
I'm surprised they called out her lie about being drunk. Aren't they supposed to ignore them? I mean the whole point of these shows is to make these unattractive women feel "empowered"
I've seen this video before. But this video with your commentary has me literally cackling. When you started laughing at her dropping a dime on her husband I was in the car crying. I'm f*cking dead
8:28 "that's some female logic right there. It's like when a chick has sex with a guy she doesn't like, she doesn't count it" 🤣(That could've been my high school senior yearbook quote)
that lady looks like the min you get home she starts berating you until you lock yourself in a bathroom and start crying. then she comes and makes fun of you for crying, the fact the dude hasn't beaten her shows how much he just doesn't give a crap anymore. that poor dude probably had like 15 years of abuse from that hag.
It reminds me of that video of a woman telling the police that she never sold crack to another woman. She earns her money honestly by being a prostitute
Reminds me of one of the few times I instantly lost all respect for someone. When talking about dating and women being fully capable of taking the first step, an old friend said "rejection is worse for women, because they don't experience it as often as men." The fuck?
This is rapidly becoming one of my favorite channels on RUclips. Who else would cover a show like this? Pure gold, Gundam. Well played, friend. Cheers!
@@glass7923 Doing what I can till the tide changes, there is no victory in getting banned. But if things go back to normal then we shall have the golden age my lads!
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Let's go ROUND 2!
Ready!
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Thanks for enduring this frustration in the name of entertainment
i love you daddy gundam! watching this before they snipe it again XD
Here before it gets removed again!
"It's not the alcohol, it's you" Said every alcoholic ever.
totally
When she calls him out for selling pills, or yells over everyone, it's clear she rather be right than keep Kenny happy. If you ever meet people like this. Put up with them, pretend to be in need of money, ask for like a few thousand, and never contact them again. Simple quick way to make shitty people despise you.
For sure.
Can confirm.
When you're sober and no fun, that one friend be like:
It ain't got no gas in it, mmhm.
Kenny is a good man, he deserves better.
kenny needs a divorce and start over with a new woman
Real talk: bros. I feel for Kenny. That poor man...
A lot of Kenny’s out there, God help them.
A go fund me for Kenny to divorce that Karen.
Sadly, there’s not much better out there. She’s pretty up there on the better list.....
Every chiq I met at college was a raging alcoholic, some even had a full gold alcohol mixing set proudly displayed at their apartments.
Reason she is better is solely because she doesn’t cheat (so far I know), a staple trait of the modern woman. If she does that, I’d say she pretty average.
Men, women really not worth your time. Dont marry.
I love how she claims she isn’t a sloppy drunk, 5 minutes after being reminded that she was carried out of the bar by security.
That's just having a good time. You don't wanna know what sloppy drunk looks like for that one.
Looks like she also gets the same advice from the people who advise Turd.
I agree with Gundam. Kenny, if you are reading this, please get out of that relationship. She is only one moonshine or pain killer away from harming you at any moment. Look how little she cares about you. I felt no love, respect, or concern for you from her. There is nothing emotionally holding her back if she decided to one day just harm you for one reason or another. Just like we tell women to get out of relationships with bad men, we need to encourage men to do the same. There are other fish out there. Let that catfish go back to the swamp.
Hey this is Kenny. Thanks for the kind words. I was watching Gundam videos in the bathroom like I usually do (hiding until the wife passed out) when I came across this comment. Just wanted to let you know that I saw and appreciate what you said. Peace out big dog.
@@catotheyounger879 Can you please promise us that you WILL DO SOMETHING ABOUT THIS PROBLEM you have? I mean it, we do care about you and we would like to see you do better.
Take care man!
@@catotheyounger879 Grumpy old troll that lives under the bridge.
shes not a catfish, shes an alligator
This guy has it right on. I hope the dude on here sees that folks worry for him. Much love and respect to you and him both.
"When's the last time you got drunk"
"Maybe 5 months ago"
She's been drunk 5 months and still going strong.
Lol, that's brilliant,
but believing she could come up with a great verbal loophole like that on the spot is giving her waaaay too much credit.
I had a judge ask someone this same question. That dumbass said he stopped drinking at 6am. It was 11am when he was on the stand and the judge said he could smell the beer on him.
yo, too funny!
she looked like she was still drunk from the night before.
Lol!
Imagine a show where an alcoholic dude complains his wife wont sleep with him to 4 men.
Oh wait, that's called the bar.
Used to be called "Cheers". Frasier/Sam was Kenny and Diane was Misty.
@@teecakes Really good show with lots of good spinoffs. I approve.
Hahahahaha
I'd watch that because somebody will get roasted and a fist fight will happen and eventually everybody will go home and still be friends
The bar is not a show lol
@@BoredInTheComments when a fight breaks out it is. Lol
I'm one of those people who, when finding something genuinely funny, most often just smiles to myself. But I burst out sniggering when this man, without hesitation, gave, "'Cause I have to live with her," as a legitimate answer.
Facts. As a man who’s dealt with a few women similar to this I found myself having that same kind of attitude just to get that individual to stfu. Thankfully, I realized my worth and no longer deal with women like that as I actually found a women who can use her head. I’m not religious but you best believe I thank the lord I found a keeper.
Best since "are you Tibetan?"
"I could be."
"When was the last time you were drunk?"
"About five months ago!"
Five minutes later: "Didn't you have to get dragged out of the bar last night and forced awake this morning for the show?"
The utter lack of self awareness and compulsive lying of this woman is astonishing!
believe all wamon
Has nothing to do with women, she's a narcissist.
Abolishing daytime television talk shows will put us one step closer to fixing humanity and getting us back on the prime timeline.
Agreed, but this is a game about making money, not maintaining social cohesion
Next step will be getting rid off night talk shows
@@zanzazaar that one is slowly dying on its own.
Id agree with you if this wasnt so hilarious
Women keep watching trashy tv dramas and apply what they see in *real life.*
That's why I avoid chick flicks cause there is a high chance that your date will compare you to unrealistic standards (like when the man in the movie blows obscene amounts of money to show the woman that he "loves" them) then your date trys to GUILT you into copying that shit.
That's when I put our relationship status into "pending termination" cause im getting too old for this shit. Im not a teenager I got bills to pay and a house to renovate!
"I just feel uncomfortable having sex with my wife when she makes advances under the influence" somehow equals him being a control freak according to the display on the show... amazing.
Hydra Dominatus
Didn't some feminist or someone go and say, if you have fun with a woman while under the influence of drink. That is the same as doing it without consent?
Double standards most women claim the sexual assualt if they are drunk. This one says not doing it while drunk is abuse.
@@tacticianAlexandra yes lmao
@Alphagon & Omegarius When bots have better things to do, you won't have the time to type that question, so enjoy it.
Woman: I am a strong indipendent woman, I can do whatever I want!
Woman: *Proceeds to make herself as undesirable and unattractive as humanly possible, adopts unhealthy habits like drugs, tobacco and alcohol*
Woman: whY woN't MeN apProAcH me fOr sEx!?
Zero humility. She can’t fathom that she is at all any part of the problem. She probably doesn’t even see him as another human being. She wouldn’t even be complaining, she’d go cheat on him if she didn’t have the worst personality that makes all men run immediately. No man is that desperate.
I’m sure at one point she wasn’t like this, because the woman you divorce ain’t the one you married. I imagine all the drinking and pills she’s taken had destroyed her brain.
Shes a narcissist, has nothing to do with women. Narcissist think they are the greatest regardless of a lack of merit.
Saying tobacco is unhealthy is reductionist. Smoking is a social signal that you don’t follow the herd and that you follow traditional values
the moment she opened her mouth, I can already tell how miserable kenny's life is at home.
he's constantly walking on eggshells. she picks fights with him on every little mistake he does and is often blown out of proportion especially if her girl friends are around. either that or they talk shit about him while he's away. he also hardly answers back to defend himself because it'll only lead to louder yapping and she needs to always be right or the yapping won't end. and finally, even her mistakes is somehow still his fault. bet.
She already blaming him for her bad behaviour, that's for sure.
those type of people have no friends around, they have all been chased off, part of the narcistic control she, only keeping it whittled down to her and Kenny
U said it perfectly!
Plus she's mixing some super dangerous meds.
Benzodiazepines, amphetamines, opiates, AND alcohol. That's practically suicidal. On a more anecdotal note, I've never seen anyone mix amphetamines with anything and not have their mental state decline very, VERY rapidly
Poor Kenny, she’s going to turn him into an alcohol just so he can escape her mouth. He needs to get out while he’s still alive.
My new struggle started when my wife passed from cancer. Marriage was actually good for me. I've listened to the stuff that my other married friends went through and counted my blessings I was in a good marriage.
Poor Kenny. Alcohol isn't the problem. Stupidity is. Stupid Misty for looking for consolation in alcohol. Stupid Kenny for facilitating her alcoholism.
I was going to say the same thing
Sorry to hear about the loss of your wife I hope you’re going ok. I love my wife and have a very loving relationship and also hear all about the bad relationships from friends and people around me and count my blessings. I hope you find happiness and love in the rest of your life my friend
Ultimus Magus, sad to hear of your loss, but happy for you that you were blessed with someone good while you were together.
What was she like? If its not an inappropriate question.
@@EdgarFriendlysCivicsTeacher She was strong when she needed to be, gentle, affectionate, and kind to all around her. She was my pillar of support, regardless of whether I made a right or wrong decision. She was there for me, and I was there for her. She was my best friend, my confidant, my partner.
"The last time I got drunk was 5 months ago"
To an alcoholic, "drunk" usually means absolutely legless. She probably drinks till she's buzzed most nights but doesn't count that as "drunk"
Correct!
Yeah, for i friend of mine "tipsy" means enough alcohol to kill a horse.
Yup. If you can crawl to bed they don't count that as drunk
@@jhonatancock2302 granted it doesn't take a lot of it to kill a horse.
@@riskvideos Takes around 10-20 times the human quantity of alcohol to be lethal to a horse. Their liver is around 2 times more efficient than a human to process alcohol and their body mass is 4-8x a human.
This is some definite gold. love how the audience started out on her side, then she kept talking... and arguing with the hosts, admitting to things she shouldn't... and then everyone seems to have jumped to Kenny's side.
I would love a part two.
Just like Amber Heard
"I would love a part two."
So would I. Flat out I NEED to know how this ends with papa Gundam commentating.
This is a piece of wisdom I've heard more than once recently: 'Never interrupt your enemy when they're making a mistake.' That's why Kenny got real quiet. He knew all he had to do was let her talk! 😁
Search youtube for "Face the Truth Kenny" and you'll get the a playlist with the full episode broken into segments.
Spoiler Alert!!
The audience votes that she needs rehab, the show offers her a free 90 day program and she freaks out. She actually claims, "No, that's giving him a vacation from me. I wanna make his life miserable." They almost talk her into it, but she turns it down backstage. And Kenny gets a hug from Vivica.
Amen. As soon as the guy mentioned alcohol was involved I knew exactly who is at fault. She may otherwise be a very nice person but by god once someone you love is addicted to alcohol they just arent the person you loved anymore. They no longer love you and they no longer value you. If they cant stop drinking for your sake then its time to leave them for your sake.
Kenny is the epitome of "if only you knew how bad things really are"
Literally choked on my dinner when she said he sells his painkillers. Save this man
Im the one who buys them lol
@@philosophicaltrucker9279 You might wanna give'em back cause he needs them more than you.
Well, I mean, he has to pay for therapy somehow...
I guess that joke went right over my head. I don’t see how it’s the funniest thing ever.
She snitched now the plug gone
"I'm 45 years old, I can do whatever I want!"
Does that include sexually assaulting your husband and forcing him to do sexual acts that he doesn't want to do? If so, I'm adding that to the "reasons to go monk and stay monk" list
Before becoming a monk, google the origin of the expression, "once bitten, twice shy" lol
Rip and tear until it is done
... Wait
The bible says it's better to be single.
But if you can't resist, get married.
Clearly he can resist, but he made the oopsie choice.
Here on the Left Hand Path our Monks can fap unlike nearly all of those Right Hand Path wierdos who are in denial of such basic natural drives biologically hard wired into us
Sounds like Cartman from Southpark. Its my "hot body" ill do what I want.
I love it when Gundam looses his shit and starts laughing uncontrollably. No matter how shitty my day, it cures a good part of it!
Personally, I couldn't care less how long between your uploads. I'm just happy when I see them and know it's going to be comic gold sprinkled with some worldly wisdom. You keep on keepin' on, and don't let upload schedules get you down.
Yea but I would enjoy atleast every 3 months .
@@Deathsoup quality over quantity
I agree. One of the major reasons RUclips videos declined in quality so much is because they forced content creators to upload videos daily/weekly in order to maintain their channel relevant for the searching algorithms. You can't focus on the quality of your content if you are constantly rushing towards meeting the next deadlines.
I'm not a religious man, but I think I'll pray for Kenny's safety regardless.
same.
I am not even religious, but even I will pray for this guy
Just be sure you pray to a deity who won't jerk you around (Allah, Xenu, Moloch, etc.).
A-bloody-men. 🙏
Yep. Guy needs a new life. A new wife. A new God. Or new family. Cant live life miserable.
Kenny: "Well, ma'am...sometimes...she drinks...too much."
Misty: "IdontdrinktoomuchyoudrinktoomuchandevenifIdrinktoomuchsowhatImagrownwomanandIcanhaveadrinkorthreeifIwantointheeveninganditshisfaultanyway."
Kenny was WAY over the line, so she snorted it.
Underrated comment. Top Kek.
omg. I dropped my phone reading this... 🤣.. brilliant
I just fkn died😂😂😂👏🏻👏🏻
She reminds me of Amber Heard, actually..
"having sex with a drunk woman is rape"
Also
"Why won't be have sex with me when I'm drunk? 😭"
🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
That's your husband tho
They really do move the goal post around
@@bigt100 you can still be by your SO
@@sechabatheletsane9784 that's different becuz that's her husband if it was some random that saying would make more sense wouldn't it
@@bigt100 no it wouldn't, anyone has the capability of doing it, whether it's the SO or a complete stranger
Chris Rock had some wise words many years ago about dealing with the cops. One of the biggest points he made was don't go out with a mad woman, they will say and do anything to get your ass beat.
The especially fucked part, aside from the shit they're throwing at him, is he's probably forced to sell his pain meds because of how much that broad is drinking them out of home and into debt.
I mean, that's even *if* he's actually selling pain meds. I legitimately believe she's just throwing anything she can think of at Kenny to make herself sound less awful, true or not.
He can sell the pills if he wants idgaf he don’t need a reason lol.
@@Me7onCook13 Well, I'm glad you think so, but I think the laws of most states might disagree.
Alcoholism is expensive as hell.
@@NefariousKoel Can confirm. It's like a $200/mo habit assuming two $25 bottles/wk. And that's at night after work, not including staying home and drinking all day. It'd easily be closer to $400/mo if I did.
As someone who grew up with an in-denial abusive alcoholic mother this hits. My dad put up with my mother for far too long too. She kinda ruined my life. Thankfully I am no contact with her now and just live my life, but women like this are awful and why I have issues.
Men are willing to live in abusive relationships for their values and children. My brother just started his own life of misery with his nasty narcissistic wife. Who dumped him at one point after their first kid to try and “save” a drug addict, who leaves him to take care of the child while she goes out to party, where she snoops at his messages constantly, there is so much more about her that is terrible. He still sticks with her, and even has another kid with her.
My brother is really good at not listening to his other brothers. I told him many times not to have another kid. So it’s a mixture of ideals and stupidity. Staying with a woman and marrying her just cause she’s your baby mama. It’s sad to say his fate is in her hands, he may kill himself over her. Hopefully his rational mind kicks in.
Yeah my dads a shitty alcoholic. 7 years with him not in my life. I'm proud of myself for that.
I was pleasantly surprised that the hosts were calling this woman out on her, well, everything. Gives me some hope in humanity.
It's just because it's an extreme case, if it was more of a balanced occasion things would be different
well not that much hope but just
a little.
Only because she made herself impossible to defend which left the hosts no other choice.
@@NPClownumber81googolplex I don't know, I've seen some people I was sure would be impossible to defend get defended. I'll take a victory when I can get one.
I mean they should've called the cops on her ass, but hey, at least it's something.
I laughed my ass off. Kenny don't give up. You can be free.
I bet he's not even selling pills. He's just hiding them from his crazy wife who is now coming up with wild stories to explain why the pills are missing.
@@You_Rage_Quit if he really does, it's because she keeps draining his bank account to get drunk.
“If I was a drunk I’d tell ya”
Says every drunk in the history of man.
She's been exposed Kenny and a good portion of the free world knows about her. Now, if God forbid, she fell down some stairs or got into a horrible car accident, get your alibi lined up. No matter the outcome, we'll understand.
Hell, I'd invest in a body cam and wear it everyday! She'll definitely cry wolf one day.
I swear he was out bowling with me!
(Kinda need a bowling partner, btw)
@@QuartuvLarry I remember. You guys won 2nd place in the tournament. Keith, our part time employee, dropped the camera in beer after so no team pictures this year though.
Justifiable!
Her body language just screams abusive. If I saw a man do something like that, I would find a place for his wife to stay. The world is really weird.
Hail lobster
@@TOAOM123 bruh 😂
@@TOAOM123 establish your position on the dominance hierarchy, hail lobster!
Jp is a wonderful man lmao.
do the same for men when they have abusive wives
There's a point where a relationship goes beyond abusive and you are actually in danger of your partner causing grievous bodily harm or worse.
This relationship has crossed that point.
Well, after seeing this. I think Kenny is a saint with how relax and clam he is through out the whole thing. Having to deal with a person like that every day of his life.
He must divorce her otherwise it will end in a murder - suicide.
She has sapped his will to live. He needs a GoFundMe for a fair divorce. This hurts me. I feel so bad for him.
He like Ron Dunn if he got married.
I also think he's very clam and oystered
I know right. I probably would have ended up snapping a long time ago if I had to go through what he has gone through.
“He sells them”
😂 that woman is a liability Kenny.
Time to get the bleach and help our friendly neighborhood drug dealer.
@@rorrim0 Encourage her to get the 4th vaccine.
I would have loved if it turned out she was trying to get them to believe he’s a drug dealer, but he was actually a pharmacist
Man probably sells it to afford his therapist. 😂
I can guess how this ends.
She went and got a restraining order against him the next day alleging abuse, then filed for divorce soon after, and now Kenny is paying for her daily alcohol binges and can't afford his own medication.
“I’m 45 years old, I can do wut I want”
Me: not everyone wants to stick it in drunk crazy… darling.
But she clearly doesn't think he should be able to do whatever he wants lolol.
She's so far below the Mendoza line, she's gone negative on the y-axis
I've been in Kenny's shoes, I was happy as hell when she ran off when someone else. 6 months later when she wanted me back I left that shir on read.
She did you a favor, good for you dude
Sometimes watching them walk away is the greatest feeling! Make sure to change the locks and passwords.
My coworker is on that situation. After the sixth boomerang catch he finally got the hint to not catch her coming back.
I think it says a lot that she'd pull this poor man onto a TV show to air their dirty laundry like this... take it to a therapist! Go to some sort of rehab, jesus christ.
My mother used to have substance abuse problems and you can't fix that sort of thing unless the person doing it wants to change. It's obvious this woman's problem is her own doing... I just feel sorry for the husband. I'm sure he feels like he has to stick around... but there comes a point where you do all you can do and there's nothing left. He needs to get out of that relationship and situation.
My heart goes out to this guy...
"It's better to live on the roof of a house then in one with an evil woman..." - Proverbs
21:19 oh yes
Proverbs has a ton of great wisdom about what it means to live with a woman who doesn't love you. As someone who's been in that position, that seriously got me through it.
Proverbs 12:4
- "An excellent wife is the crown of her husband, but she who brings shame is like rottenness in his bones."
Good old proverbs
Damn a row of women judges calling this woman out? She probably thought they would side with her lol
Odd
Besides the one, I didn't notice much calling out.
She forgot that women hate other women.
I'm surprised none of them said something along the lines of "You go girl!"
So the whole "drunk at home" vs "drunk going out" isn't woman logic: that is 100% alcoholic logic regardless of gender. Alcoholics will make self-imposed rules to try to prove that they aren't alcoholics (only drinking at home, only drinking after a certain time/between certain hours, etc).
Also she said her ADHD meds calm her down while she's acting a fool so she must be fully deranged without her meds.
As someone who have chronic back pain and have dilaudid and hydromorph-contin to take everyday, I can tell you can get very high with that kind of stuff if you don't take them as prescribed. That woman is a drunk and an accident waiting to happen.
Chronic pain here. I got put on 16 codien a day at one point, that was an experience
@@cloroxusthestainlessone4324 Jesus, did taking that much make you ill at some point or were you ok?
Be careful man, that shit turned me into a heroin addict for over a decade. Youd never think itd be you then BAM
Sheeeeeit wanna share? lmao
Lmao them dillys no joke Ong
I have a broken back and have been on Opana, fentanyl patches, MS contin, oxicontin, roxycodone and other narcotics throughout the last 14 years (at different times, not on them all at once). About 4 years after I broke my back I noticed my meds started to go missing for about 6 months in a row, enough that about 2-3 weeks into my month supply from the doctor I'd run out and start going through morphine withdrawals... each month for 6-7 months. Blamed everyone else that I could until one day I set up a camera on my computer to watch my meds and caught my fiance taking them. She ended up saying watching me in pain every day was too tough so she took them herself to deal with it... got the ring back and the bitch was out on her ass that day. You never accept that shit from a woman, kick her ass out of the house Kenny! From experience I can say it's the best thing possible to do and I never felt better than the day after I did it! Lol
Watching you in pain was too tough for her, so she decided to steal your meds so you wouldn’t just be feeling the pain from your broken back, but you’d have to deal with the pain of opiate withdrawal on top of it?! That’s one twisted woman smh
@@isitoveryet9525 I spent years trying to figure that one out... lol. Every time it happened I'd be curled up in the fetal position on the floor next to our bed shaking dealing with the hell that is withdrawals on top of my back pain and she would lay there holding my hand saying "I'm so sorry baby, I wish there was anything I could do to help you".... I don't know, maybe try not being a raging cunt by stealing my meds and forcing me into withdrawals? That would be a nice start. Lol
And people wonder why I have trust issues in relationships. Lol
You spent 2 weeks of the month in withdrawal…for a minimum of 6 months??? And each time jumped back to your full dosage, only to go into withdrawal again?
I've had back problems from I was 15 (was told I was too young to have them) so spent the next 20yrs dealing with them which resulted in 3 prolapsed discs, 2 of which ruptured, with the "jelly" from 1 impinging on the nerve root so severely that it completely disappeared in 1 of the slides in an eventual MRI. The only time I wasn't in pain was riding the motorbike and then a year later I was involved in a head-on with a car, in which I shattered my knee and sustained multiple other injuries. I spent 8 yrs undergoing limb salvage procedures to keep a leg which they'd made the decision to remove while I was bleeding out at the side of the road, have endured every knock-on effect possible from PEs to Lymphoedema to sporadic bouts of e-coli from an infection site they couldn't trace and been housebound for the last 12.5 years. The bet result, of course, has been crippling pain from the first time I was medi-vacced from the oil platform where a worked as well as actually being crippled by the accident.
If *ANYBODY* had left me without my required meds for so much as 1 day, you best believe I'd have notified my chemist and Dr of the shortfall. Because they keep minute records of such things, I wouldn't have had to notify the police, because THEY would have best me to it, if it was a substantia shortfall from what they KNEW I had received from them, simply because it's a serious criminal offence.
There's only 1 way you could possibly have endured such long-term absence from those high strength meds…you didn't actually need them. If you were really in so much pain that you required them, you COULD NOT have functioned without them. I KNOW!!! Not only that the withdrawal from missing as few as 2 doses has me climbing the walls and O can hardly move, yet you expect us to believe that you did NOTHING to try to mitigate your suffering? You didn't contact your physician to get more? You couldn't have for the reasons already laid out. You're either overstating your injury, your pain levels or dosage, probably all three.
@@iratepirate648 wow, aren't we just an over assuming jackass? Lol. Not that I have to explain anything to some random angry ass on the internet, but you're wildly off on your assumptions. I broke my back "falling" off a ladder, and I put that in quotes because it was kicked out from under me by a douché bag that was angry at what I was doing but that is a whole other thing, and fell about 15'. Landed on my feet and they said the pressure went straight up my spine causing damage. I fractured 4 vertebra (L2-5), 3 herniated degenerative disc's, and sheered the SI joint where you're hip meets your spine. 7 spinal surgeries in so far everything from basically JB welding the vertebra back together with some cement shit I can't pronounce to facet rizatemies to fusing the SI joint and even going through a discogram (literally the worst hell you can imagine). So the injury is there, whether you want to believe it or not is up to you, I honestly couldn't care less.
Dosages on all my meds are apparently on the high side. My pain management doctor keeps prescribing them because I'm 6'10" 300 pounds and apparently have a metabolism faster than anything he has ever seen. But I've been dealing with the worthless workers comp system that constantly complains about my dose because they claim "safe" levels are at 50 MED (morphine equivalent dose) and below and I've been between 130-160 MED for over a decade. Once again, couldn't care less if you believe me, but if you really want proof I guess you could message me your number and I could send you pictures of my ever growing forest of pill bottles. I'm currently on oxicontin, roxycodone, gabapentin, trazadone and tizanadine.
As for why I didn't run to the doctor, you're partially right, because they would of called the cops even before I could. I didn't know who was taking them, so what could of been done? They file a police report and then I have a mark on my record saying I wasn't responsible enough with a bunch of schedule 2 narcotics. Where does that get me? Not to mention my lawyer told me if I reported it workers comp would try to use that as justification to try and cut off paying for them because... well workers comp is a corrupt piece of shit ponsy scam and at the time I didn't have other insurance and couldn't afford an extra $1300 a month to pay for the meds. So I went about trying to figure out what was happening. Ruled out my fiance because I didn't believe she could ever do that to me, and basically ended up accusing everyone else that could have until I ruled all of them out too. Got to the point I thought I was sleep walking and doing something with them, that's why I set up the camera without telling the lady, figure I'd catch myself doing something then hand them to her and ask her to hide them from me.... imagine my surprise when I saw her taking them instead...
As for dealing with the withdrawals, it was absolute hell no matter how you look at it. Insomnia, intestinal cramping to the point it feels someone is stabbing your gut, trying not to shit yourself constantly them sitting on the toilet doing nothing because you thought you had to go but there is nothing left inside you, shivering and having the feeling that even your clothes touching your skin bothers you... none of it is fun. A nurse friend told me of a way to at least cut the worst of it though, fill a 2 liter bottle half way with poppy seeds and lemon juice then the rest with water and let it sit overnight. The lemon juice breaks down the poppy seeds enough to release a tiny amount of morphine equivalent (not sure the exact type of natural opioid in them) and drink 2 of them a day. It by no means stops the withdrawal but it was enough to take the edge off somewhat. The rest, I was just a stubborn fuck and powered my way through it. There was nothing else I could do, so I dealt with it for as long as I had to. Thankfully the withdrawals start to subside in a few days, then it's just dealing with not wanting to move at all because of my back.
So that's my story, like it or not little man. Fuck, didn't think I would have to write a novel just because of one little comment on a video... lol
@@iratepirate648 This is a whole bunch of spaghetti, m8. Guy has a completely different problem from you, not this whole LIST of bad luck and bullshit. My Father has worse problems than OP _and they won't even give him medication, opiate or otherwise._ 6 different surgeries on his back to replace discs, shave some down and even put a rod in there and it's still going to deteriorate constantly via spinal stenosis until he's stuck in a wheelchair and then eventually bedridden until he dies. He has chronic pain every single day, can't even take a walk outside for longer than a minute, if he's lucky and can hardly sit down for long periods. He's constantly hunched over due to the fact he can't straighten it out due to the pain, can't even raise his arms past his chest because of it, can hardly get dressed without my Mother's help and was advised never to lift more than a gallon of milk. The only Doctor he ever had that would give him pain meds? Forced to leave because, "He would take too long with patients." A good Doctor who listened to his patients and the Practice got pissy because it meant less people in and out, meaning less money for them and that the front desk had to be there longer.
Do you want to know how pissed that makes me? My Father can barely function because of the pain. He lives every single day in agony because OTHER PEOPLE abused drugs and now they're punishing the people that actually need them, because the State government decided to crack down on all opiates in general and scared Doctors instead of actually trying to tackle the drug abuse issue. Because FUCK THEM, right? Do you really believe that little stunt stopped drug abuse or just fucked a lot of people over? I'll give you a hint, it's not the former. I'd love for you to tell me that "maybe he doesn't need them," because the last 24 years of my Father's medical history, from his different Primary Care Physicians, to different Neurological Surgeons, X-rays, Scans... etc. *all say otherwise* _and he doesn't even have A TENTH of the help you do._
Allow me to reiterate this. You want to dismiss this guy's story because of YOUR situation. _A much more drastic one at that._ I've never even heard of anyone in your situation before, even for the people I knew *for a fact* _needed the medication._ Yours sounds pretty extraordinary and I don't know how you think everyone somehow has this team ready to crack down if meds go missing, because OP's situation is unfortunately a common occurrence, usually for people who live with low income and around those with drug addictions. So, you know what? Cut it out. Not everyone has what you do and the majority of people are like OP or my Father, with no protections at all for what happens with pain meds. Hell, I don't even know where you live and it sounds like you have or had quite a bit of money if you get the luxuries. Meds go missing around here and the Doctors and Pharmacy go, "Oh well, nothing we can do."
That poor dude, I've been with someone like that the drinking the lying the stealing of meds and getting rid of her is one of the best things to ever happen to me. If you're going through this remember it can get better bros stay strong. We're all going to make it.
"I can do whatever I want."
Same goes for him. And right now, he doesn't want to do you.
Hopefully young men pay attention and learn the lessons. You don't want to end up like Johny Depp or Will Smith. Thank you for making this!
Maybe the lesson is women need to stop growing up to be Jadas, Hurds, and Misties. But we have a toxic femininity problem in this culture that encourages and glorifies this behavior.
Just avoid humans in general as a rule. At least if you hang out with hyenas you know what their intentions are. A contract only exists if both parties agree to the stipulations. If only one side honours the contract it's not a contract.
@@torch_fire9218 true but the one thing every man can do is try to avoid these kind of women. Them changing, changing the laws and society comes obviously later.
Or Kenny.
THIS is what I watch IAG for. Him absolutely losing his shit, laughing like a lunatic over woman moments.
That "Face the Truth" show is the type of show that's on and muted at doctor's offices around the country.
LMAO! I know right
@@ItsAGundam They should be playing your videos in waiting rooms.
Dude, I wish my dentist would mute the Wendy Williams show, she says nothing interesting
At the VA I go to we get that one show from Vancouver, the "I'm a part-time moth aromatherapist, my husband is an unemployed left-handed smoke-shifter, our budget is 23 million dollars" one.
"I am ADHD for real."
Honey, as someone who's had ADHD for 42 years, no amount of medication could fix what's wrong with you.
A made up disorder that does nothing but make you a lazy bum that does nothing but blame fake disorders for their problems. Like come on you are 45 years old watching a 20 year olds videos? Grow up
Her self medicating got her here
@@theancientsam Her self medicating is just one of many reasons as to how she got here.
Lead injection will fix her up _real_ good. 👍
Why are you calling people honey? Aren't you a dude?
“Never marry a woman who has a stripper name as a real name.” Wisdom
Stop at “never marry” and you’re golden
@@Mr.Skeleton. as someone about to be a divorced man, I laughed quite heartily at this comment
@@iceonthesun8880 best of luck to you my dude
I actually understand this situation. I was with a girl for about a month in college. I really liked her, but all she did was drink. The night she fell asleep on my chest in bed was the night I was done with it. This guy is 100% correct when he says you're on two different wavelengths. I just didn't feel right with her when she was drunk as hell.
Wife don't want to do it, totally acceptable by society.
Husband don't want it, OMG let's shame him on national TV.
If this is a patriarchy it sures does feel like a matriarchy.
To hell with drunk karen's.
😭😭
Not much of a patriarchy huh
Don't ever stop Papa Gundam. This shit is hilarious!
I've rejected my wifes advances just to prove a point. She thought we would only do it when she wants to, but I made it clear that it's a two way street. She can be... convinced... more easily now.
WOmen tends to think that sex is how they control us.
In some cases it is , unfortunatly.
But in other cases, they forget that Men , we discover masturbation at the tender age of 12, for most of our lives we've been wankers...
We've been satisfied of it 100% of the time.
We like the coochie, but if we have to, we can go back to wanking and not even think about it, we do not care.
One girl tried to do this shit with me, "if you don't do this then you can forget about getting some of this till you do what i asked"
"Woman, i've been wanking since i'm 12, you think that going a couple of days without your ass is gonna be something so unbearable that i'll come crawling back?, Don't flatter yourself, you ain't that good..."
bravo
stunning and brave
Did the same thing, my wife didn't like that and cornered me one day.... Best of my life and hers as well.
@@Thunor93 How kinky lol
If you ever wondered what it takes to turn someone into a cold blooded killer....----> This woman.
lmao too true
Funny, Kenny reminds me of another Kenny. You know: You got to know when hold'em, know when to fold'em! Know when to walk away, know when to run! Run Kenny run!
I was in a relationship like this, it ruined a large part of my life and my Daughters life. I suffered from Knight in Shining Armor Syndrome. The truth is you cant save or change someone from who they want to be. People with substance abuse issues will deceive, manipulate and guilt you into tolerating and supporting their behaviour for as long as they possibly can. The only person that can save them is themselves but as long as they can find people they can fool into believing they want to change they never will. If your constantly drawn to people who need fixing you'll never find happiness. I'm not saying these people are irredeemable but as long as they can find people that will tolerate, enable and support their behaviour they will never have any real reason to change.
Addictions are a complex subject but yeah, external support and pressure both have fairly limited effects. Unless the person has an epiphany (a "click") in their own mind and realizes that the irreparable harm they are causing to both themselves and people around them by far outweighs the "benefit" they gain from their addiction, external pressure will just make them dig in or chase them away.
But even that is just the start because addictions are most often just symptoms of some underlying issues. You cant just get rid of it if you are unwilling to tackle the deeper issues.
In the end, if someone firmly sets themselves on an auto-destructive course then the best thing to do is protect yourself by getting out of their way.
With the state of Western society, I'm shocked that most people aren't raging alcoholics.
@@derp8575 Attention is a hell of a drug too.
Why women deserve less.
I was married to this kind of woman, now we're divorced and she is in jail for murder.
I'm guessing that you literally dodged a bullet with her.
Edit: Fuck y'all except OP, that was funny.
Damnnnnn....
That escalated very quickly...
@@Pizza626 that went up a notch
Go on....
Man I feel so bad for Kenny, having to live with that woman. Look how bad she is when she's sober. Imagine the nightmare she is when she's tore up
Saw the first upload. Didn't watch it yet. Had time, saw it was blocked. Went ahead to watch the original video, I couldn't stomach watching that woman after 2 minutes. You have true will power to watch crazy stuff like this on the daily. Thank you Gundam.
Gundam is no mere mortal, he can suffer all sorts of cringe without breaking
After the Johnny Depp stuff I hope more men like him and Kenny get the justice if not the treatment they deserve.
The scary part is it is could happen to any of us, you think you are marrying a sweet women, 5 years later you have a Misty of your own.
Kenny literally brought her on national TV so she can make a fool of herself 🤣
Could be useful in divorce court.
And her drunk ass probably thought it was her perfect opportunity to get everyone on her side and happily agreed... 🤣
"Objection your honor!"
Judge: "Why?"
"Because it's hurting my case!"
Man they really took down the first one within 15 minutes 💀
@don't be surprised no it’s not
I ain't never laughed so hard from a reaction, more of this please 😂😂
Gundam had me dyin! 😆
She straight admitted to a felony on this show 😂😂😂
And she'll probably get away with it, like that lady in Europe that murdered a guy with a knife and the judge let her off because "(he) didn't want to ruin her live over a mistake"
@@1810jeff someone should delete that judge. If that happened to someone I'm related to and the judge let them off I would end that person, the judge and that person's lawyer.
Correction it was in Australia
@@1810jeff my personal favorite judicial incompetence is when Canada gave someone only 10 years for decapitating a random person on a bus
@@1810jeff Don't worry we Aussies know all too well how soft our judges are they're all an embarrassment and should be forced to resign in shame. It's genuinely heart breaking and insulting the way our judges hand out sentences. For example of how things usually go down brutally murder someone and then try to hide the evidence that'll be 5 years only, brazenly commit a higher up the scale felony and show a complete lack of remorse or even contempt 2 years in lockup you get the point...
"I haven't been drunk in five months" As someone who has seen alcoholism up close, this was obviously a lie. An alcoholic, functional or not, is always "not drinking" and the list of accomplishments is not surprising. Her reaction is far more telling. If she doesn't have a problem, then why is she so defensive? Her husband literally just said that the problem isn't her, but the fact that he isn't comfortable doing anything because of CONSENT. Why does something that is reasonable make her angry? Chances are it is because she knows she has a problem and will not admit it. And I'd bet money that those "achievements" are lies. Just because she hasn't had a DUI doesn't mean she isn't still driving under the influence; it can easily mean she just hasn't been caught in awhile. And the idea that she'd tell anyone is laughable.
When my friend was real deep into his alcoholism him being not drunk was being able to down around a fifth of peppermint schnapps, but he wasn’t “drunk” because he could still remember what he did that night. Alcoholics have a different definition of drunk than the normal person.
"You're not drunk if you can still feel your face."
As someone who grew up with an abusive alcoholic (psychological and emotional), she's got all the signs right there. The biggest red flag is when asked to not drink alcohol, the answer is "no" and "alcohol isn't the problem".
For those without experience, here are the typical signs:
1. Refusal to give up alcohol (this is common of addicts of anything... asking them to not do it anymore and they get aggressive about it means they're addicts, or try to defend it... anything except being okay about giving it up).
2. Denial of previous problems having ever been a problem. Framing them as "in the past" and "I don't do that anymore" rather than "I'm sorry I did that and I do X instead".
3. Deflection of blame. Doesn't matter what the subject is. It's okay that she steals pills, because he sells them anyway. Therefore, she's not as bad. It isn't her drinking problem that isn't getting her laid, it's him not "being a man" and giving her what she wants, when she wants it. On and on.
4. Trying to create "tiers" of the bad behavior. In this instance, we only have her talking about alcohol, but most alcoholics will grade their bad behavior by "tiers". The example is "Oh, I didn't get drunk last night, I went out last night" when confronted with her lie about 5 months being the last time she was drunk. Alcoholics tend to "Tier" their bad behavior. It's only "getting drunk" when she's at home. It's "having fun on the town" when it's drunk at the bar. It's only "abuse" when they get caught, and it's "I was trying to help you" when they aren't caught. Bad behavior only becomes bad behavior when specific conditions and criteria are met. So... it's "tiered".
5. Sunken face is fairly dead giveaway. Usually a sign of repeated issues with kidneys and being unable to remove enough toxins from the blood stream.
6. Argumentative behavior. Alcoholics tend to be fairly argumentative about pretty much anything. Even inconsequential stuff. Even when sober. It tends to be their coping mechanism to feel good about themselves when they have nothing to feel good about.
7. Bringing up "past accomplishments" a lot. Drunks tend to live in the time of their lives when they felt the best. They don't move forward. They don't create new accomplishments. They bring up their old ones a lot. Even if their old accomplishments weren't all that great. They live in the past.
Gundam PLEASE! I absolutely NEED part 2 of this, great way to start my day. Also just wanna say you really didn’t have to go out of your way to make this extra content for us but I really appreciate it and I’m sure all your other subs do too. I enjoy your work.
Misty: "I'm ADHD for real"
Kenny: "You just told on yourself"
Kenny is the embodiment of all the guys who have been beaten down mentally throughout the years by a crazy wife.
Kenny breaks his back working, gets pain meds, sells them so his wife can be a drunk, she steals pain meds so she can be a drunk pill popper. THIS is America Childish Gambino
According to her thats doing nothing for her.
@@Naadeneo Ofc
Women will never understand the double standard, so apparently only men are drunks? This guy looks soooooo sad
This is one hell of a trainwreck. I'm not surprised this is happening, but it's uncommon for so many of the signs of female instability to be presented in such a short time. This was a really good choice to do a video on.
@don't be surprised no
"She's got more red flags than a Chinese communist parade"
When Gundam lost it when she sold him out for dealing I felt that
Is this Kenny's future after South Park? The dude deserves better than another parody drama of life.
"don't marry a girl with a stripper name" cmon man I just started talking to an amazing and sweet girl named Destiny, don't do this to me 🤣
Now you know! Dump her
-just started talking
-amazing
You simpin
May god save your soul
Is she just stripping to get through nursing school?
Just remember if you hit it and it's fire, go see a doctor
Dude you should make a shirt that says "why is she doing this to Kenny?" That line was hilarious.
I don’t say this often with a Brooklyn accent, but “you poor bastard”
Depending on the state he lives in this recording might save his ass in divorce court. I hope he looked into that possibility.
Hopefully it’s why he was there. 😂
Imagine a gender swap in that same situation. He would have been convicted for assault.
Papa Gundam…EVERYTHING you put to its Solid Gold and warrants an instant “like” even before the intro music ends
5:10. “…cause I have to live with her.”
Your soul is too pure for this world, good sir. Kenny truly IS the hero we need.
The fact he answered that so swiftly means so much
The fact he didn't divorce her leads me to believe either he's the most patient man on the entire planet or she's got something over him. Like being able to see his kids 🤔🤷🏾♀️
from my own observation most men are in relationships just like his.
@@The_child-catcher Mine too.
Who willingly agrees to be a slave?
@@thanosianthemadtitanic Alot of people in this soy climate.
And people wonder why guys say there's no value in getting married.
I look forward to part two of this, I'm ecstatic to see how these ladies flip this around on him and make him the evil one.
That woman is the most horrifying woman ive seen in a while lmao.
Does she think she's desirable or something? Damn. lol
I'm surprised they called out her lie about being drunk. Aren't they supposed to ignore them? I mean the whole point of these shows is to make these unattractive women feel "empowered"
Vivica A. Fox has a bit more integrity than Amber Heard and Jada Smith, always liked her acting work too
@@teecakes That isnt saying much but at least thats something.
I've seen this video before. But this video with your commentary has me literally cackling. When you started laughing at her dropping a dime on her husband I was in the car crying. I'm f*cking dead
8:28 "that's some female logic right there. It's like when a chick has sex with a guy she doesn't like, she doesn't count it"
🤣(That could've been my high school senior yearbook quote)
The part where Gundam is absolutely dying laughing at 9:45, that killed me too. I couldn't breathe properly for several minutes.
Lmao same i was like damn this chic is snitching.
that lady looks like the min you get home she starts berating you until you lock yourself in a bathroom and start crying. then she comes and makes fun of you for crying, the fact the dude hasn't beaten her shows how much he just doesn't give a crap anymore. that poor dude probably had like 15 years of abuse from that hag.
Absolutely died laughing when she sold him out on the drug dealing on national television. Amazing video
It reminds me of that video of a woman telling the police that she never sold crack to another woman. She earns her money honestly by being a prostitute
Reminds me of one of the few times I instantly lost all respect for someone. When talking about dating and women being fully capable of taking the first step, an old friend said "rejection is worse for women, because they don't experience it as often as men."
The fuck?
No matter how horrible, most people would side with the woman. Truth or evidence don’t mean nothing.
I poured one out for my man Kenny and needed a drink after listening to her.
Viveca A Fox has made me laugh before. Cant say the same about Jada.
This is rapidly becoming one of my favorite channels on RUclips. Who else would cover a show like this? Pure gold, Gundam. Well played, friend. Cheers!
Check out his band New York Jaded (Broken Hearts are to Blame is stunning)
Losing the money is worth it... can you feel it Kenneth? It's Freedom. You can live as you please. I'm sure the internet would fund it. Godspeed.
Dude you and your content, literal anti-depressant XD
Keep doing you !
Do you have any fucking idea what this channel looked like 4 years ago? Gundam's not doing him, he's been censored to fuck and back.
@@glass7923 Doing what I can till the tide changes, there is no victory in getting banned. But if things go back to normal then we shall have the golden age my lads!
@@ItsAGundam hopefully
@@ItsAGundam this video was really good, almost like the old times
Fingers crossed Elon buys RUclips too and frees Billy from solitary
@@ItsAGundam Dont claim my reupload please, i wanna see if they claim it xD But ofc if you want ill take it down rn :)
This Man is stunning and brave.Godspeed Kenny.
I was watching and midway through I got, "This video is unavailable" and I said to myself, What did Billy do now?
Right. I think Mama Susan's handiwork was on full display there.