@@mrphoenix5951 so because someone has been abused in the past by a person, you think they DESERVE further abuse? Child, get the hell of the internet please.
@@allisoncastle I think the way the other guy said it is gross. But to play devils advocate, she did know the way he was going to react. She dyed her hair and set up a camera on top of it to record his reaction and post it on the Internet. I think she looks stunning, but instead of doing things to trigger your abusive partner to provoke further abuse knowingly. You should instead leave them without causing issues that could potentially hurt you.
@Nari-7022 it's insane how people here are defending the dude 🙄 🤦 Edit: he has no right to insult her over her hair. People are defending her cuz he overreacted to a color, not trying to be mean, but it's a color move on pink is nice even if it's unattractive to him. He has no say in her hair.
Imagine doing something your partner already expressed they disliked and expecting... what? Their opinion to change? She's a red flag as much as you could say he is. Can't imagine a man getting praised for doing something his partner actively dislikes. Why is this different?
That’s how my ex used to talk to me. One time his friend said something nice about me and my at that time bf of 10 years started ARGUING with him, trying to prove that I’m not that special 💀 poor girl, hope she’ll realize he’s not worth it
@misseli922 🤷🏼♀️ apparently abusers like to belittle their partners to make them feel too insecure to leave. Weird thing since usually they are the ones who make the first move
@@Zenivore and?? That means his abuse is okay?? Typical victim blaming. Go back to the fucking 1940 where you got your bullshit talking points from. Hope you’re ready to go to war!
@@Zenivorewhat if he had bought like a dozen of tshirts of a color SHE hates? unironically the hair color would go away faster than the tshirts getting old
I think she meant gross as in how the wig FELT which is valid, dirty wigs have this grossness to the touch and I think that's what she thought he meant. When she took off the wig, she learnt that it was not what he meant .... Which broke my heart for her.
@@_p-x-l_The color doesn't even look bad on her though. He don't like color, great, then he shouldn't use that color on him. She doesn't hate that color, she looks good with it, it's her hair, it's her choice. There's a difference between being honest to your partner with respect and treating them like your property. Learn the difference and maybe you'll be a better person too
@@Kuro.is_d3ad Being in a relationship has gives and takes. I’m sure there is a multitude of things he does to compromise on things she doesn’t like. She knew he hated that hair color, and yet she did it anyway. Idk why she thought the response would be any different other than she was hoping he would just accept it. I think it looks fine on her too, but I’m not dating her.
@@Kuro.is_d3ad I agree with beefy. Dudes actions don't need to be justified, she knew full well he'd dislike the color. I'm sure her employer wouldn't be to thrilled about the color choice either.
Pink looks fantastic on her! Pink looks great on almost anyone, I don't think ever seen someone look bad in pink. It's a great color, she made a great choice
That would make you cry. She deliberately dyed her hair a color that she knows he hates. So she knew that he was going to react badly. So you're saying that if you do something that you know your partner is going to hate and he reacts badly that's going to make you cry? Oh my God.
@@UndertheNeedle282 no lol because I would never actually make a change like that without wanting to consult my partner first. I don’t even dye my hair. He also is probably already aware she likes doing stuff like this because it probably isn’t the first time she has colored her hair. The difference is my partner wouldn’t try to make me feel that bad about wanting to do something like dye my hair, something that isn’t permanent. Also it’s not that serious lmao right now I probably would cry with my pregnant butt.😅🤣
@@theonewhoaskedtheonewhocar9780 So what, it’s hair dye. It won’t last forever. It’s like if your partner wanted to wear monochromatic pink everyday for months, because it made them happy. Does that give you the right to downgrade and insult them? No, he overreacted.
She knows exactly how her man is, straight forward, a little hard but honest. She knows that he hates the colour. She knew exactly what she is doing and filmed it.
@@Patrick-np7qq And for the record it make her look washed out and sickly....so...if that is what she is going for(and her hair looks like pink straw...just dry and barely there)..I guess
he said that about the wig. but he did say her real hair was worse. which, yeah, the wig is ugly and makes her look bad, but her real hair looks very nice on her. she can pull off pink.
@scotttimbrell8632 there's no correct answer, but his comments were completely unneeded. There's a WAY better way to tell your loved one that it's not your favorite color without putting her down and trying to make her feel ugly. It's her own her in the end of the day, not his.
@georginatoppings5912 that's called being inconsiderate of your partner. (Edit): Can we all just agree that these are two bad people that just shouldn't be together 💀
@@monkeywithacomputer1349wait, if a man really loves me for me, why does he care what color my hair is? It's my hair. Not his. If I like it, a real man is going to love me no matter what. My bf still loved me even tho my hair started to fall out due to medication. I'm so happy he was so loving and supportive. Smh.
@@Userhandleidk Wether this one is fake or not doesn’ change the fact that put there, someone is going through similar things. This may be staged, but abusive relationships or relationships that just dont work DO exist, and people suffer because of it. It’s a real issue
There is nothing abusive here. Even if it wasn't staged. He clearly wasn't a fan of pink hair, and she knew this beforehand. Of course it's her own choice wheter she's still going to dye it pink. It's her own hair, after all. But it's also her choice to disregard HIS opinion knowlingly and purposely, and thus accept his very negative reaction. If she hadn't known beforehand, his reaction would be cruel. But since knows, they clearly discussed it earlier and her choices have consequences. Simple as that.
this is a grown adult man with a drivers license. grown adults don’t go on tirades like this towards the person they’re supposed to be in love with over a hair color. this has nothing to do with personal taste, he was being intentionally cruel and you are being intentionally obtuse in implying that her dying her hair a color he doesn’t like in a way to do some lighthearted teasing is the same as his response.
Even when I dye my hair colors my husband isn't thrilled about, he says stuff like, "Not my thing, buy you're always cute.", "I married you, not your hair" and so on. He was also shocked at how chill I was when he shaved his head the first time. W worked in a factory in the summer! Keep cool my man!
I got my hair cut in a way my bf hates and I was worried it would change things but he said 'if you get that haircut I might start liking the style more than I did before because it will remind me of you' and that's such a sweet sentiment. He ended up actually liking it from the start.
Right now I'm in fade down. Hubs has said -oh no don't go pastel. You look way better in jewel tone. This looks ok because your stylist is good I look forward to her next experiment. Man is a keeper. he's honest when it actually is washing me out but in a wholesome way
Same. My partner treats me like an autonomous human even if my choices aren't his preferences for me. In fact... I don't even KNOW what his preferences are for me. 😂 We've been together 26 years. I've had hair to my waist and a pixie cut. I've had several colors. I've worn it curly and had it straightened. No matter what I do, he tells me I'm pretty. He refuses to tell me a favorite look for me, because he wants me to choose what makes ME happy about ME. (He knows I came from a background where this wasn't the case.) ❤
Yes! My boyfriend has helped me dye my hair and says he loves me no matter how I look. When I told him I wanted to get a pixie ( this was in 2022) he said, "Go for it!" ☺️
Honestly if people would take time to get to know people before jumping into sleeping and living together it would make relationships like this so much less likely. Imagine casually dating someone for a few months, you get a new hair color, and they react like this. Byee. No sorting out stuff, moving, breaking a lease, etc. Just you never see that person again and they roll out of your life like water rolls off a duck.
@@tickley42it's crazy that you're trying to blame the women for being lied to. Mosten like this don't start acting toxic till they're married bc they know you can't leave unless you divorce. You obviously don't have any experience with relationships
@caronamala438 ok so theoretically if your partner told u that they want u on a diet because they dislike, hates your body and shames u for it, you're not the victim? 🤨
@@love_yourself1342he’s right though, she literally said he hates the color. For what reason we don’t know. And while I don’t think she’s a sociopath she’s def looking for clout
It’s not that hard if you use semi permanent pink dye, then just wait a few weeks for it to fade!! Those roots look like grow out, rather than intentional shadow roots (the roots are all same length and there’s no ombré/blending), so my bet is they dyed it regular pink and this is what it looks like after a couple weeks worth of showers!! I’ve had to rock this look many times, thanks to my natural red hair making it damn near impossible to get roots bleached to perfectly match length, before redying! Just lucky the pink dyes I’ve used in the past, faded to a shade of dusty pink that didn’t clash too bad with ginger roots 😂
@@EmzyT0 you do know that all hair is different? do you also know levels of blonde? you have to have at least level 9-10 to get to a pastel and for you to get to that point in one sitting, you have to have pretty healthy hair to achieve a lot of bleaching.
It doesn’t matter bc he already told her he doesn’t like the way she looks with pink hair. Literally everybody has preferences and she ignored his despite him being her significant other.
@@GargoylePrincess I know right. Poor guy. I can't imagine being in a relationship where someone would go out of their way to do something they know I hate. 😔
@@mamathemeat She did aswell though. She clearly doesnt care what he thinks and wants and will do what she wants anyway. One of the worst traits in a relationship and he isnt really as caring or supportive of her.
@@ToxicMothBoi She just did something that even she admitted that he would hate,... on camera,... for social media content. I would say to put yourself in his shoes,... but after reading through dozens of comments... frankly i don't think you people have the capacity.
@@decwowregardless, he had no appreciation. He didn’t even say it looked good he just got mad at her. Personally I think she should be able to do whatever she wants with her hair without her bf getting mad. This man’s just toxic af tbh
The pink on her actual hair really compliments her blue eyes, making them seem to be a brighter shade of blue. Her smile dropping like a minecraft anvil after you removed the bottom block completely broke my heart 💔
she has roots growing already which means she's had it for a while and unless she has been wearing wigs the whole time I'm pretty sure this is ragebait
@@user-k._.t.rwith vibrant colors you don’t necessarily go right to the root with color. I have magenta hair myself and that looks freshly done to me. The look her face at the end says it all for me. Poor girl, she needs to run.
@@nicoleginchereau2501 I've always seen colors like this done to the root or made to look like it's intentional and not outgrown, it also looks a bit faded at the top but not sure if that's anything
@@keniapowa the worst part is she chose that color not because she liked it, but because she knew he hated it. And the Internet is crucifying him for not being exited about it. All am saying is there is someone in the wrong here and it's not the guy.
@@caronamala438Either way he shouldn’t have a say in it, something as minor as hair color should be the decision of the person whose hair it is, not their partner
@@Morality739 why are you all calling this thing a minor thing? It's not about the hair colour. It's about confiding in someone because you think they love you and respect you. And yet you go ahead and do the same thing not because you like it. But because you know they hate it. It's sociopathic.
@@caronamala438 if you think she chose to permanently die her hair just for his dislike your stupid af dude. She wanted pink hair that should be enough for him to stfu
Or, like stated he don't like the color and he told her straight up he hated that hair color lol. Instead of being the fake smooth talker guy he spoke his mind. You are the type of people to be in the relationship sad but saying it's fine honey.
@@ShadowKitty-bm9sothe fact that she was so happy dying her hair in a color she knows he HATES is a red flag on its own. Would be the same as a wife telling her hubby she loves his beard and he just goes and shaves it off.
I can understand personally not preferring a color, length, or style change that your partner decides to try out at first, but to intentionally make them feel stupid or ugly for wanting to experiment with their OWN body is just gross and controlling. 😣
@clarysstoryboard3317 I mean it literally said it at the beginning of the video, isn't doing something you know your partner specifically does not like just to get a reaction out of them considered toxic?
@@Bunnyman1999 my brother in Christ, you cannot actually be serious. It's her body, she can do with it as she likes. Doesn't mean that her partner _has_ to like it, but he doesn't get to put her down for it, insult her and bulldoze her confidence either. You clearly don't know how much effort, time, skill and money is involved in dying your hair like that, regardless of whether you do it yourself or get it done by a professional and especially with a pastel colour like this (speaking from experience here). It also destroys your hair long term. The last time I bleached and dyed my hair was roughly three years ago and the ends are still fried because I chose to grow them out instead of cutting them. That's not something you do just to get a reaction out of someone or for a prank or whatever. Based on how she acts (the way she deflates when he straight-up *insults* her appearance, which is temporary, mind you), it's clearly a colour she likes (on herself). Yeah, the captions says that it's a colour he hates but that still doesn't justify his reaction by any means. Yeah, you shouldn't knowingly antagonize your partner, you're right on that, but that doesn't mean your partner gets to dictate the way you look and your self-expression.
He's allowed to not like it, lol. Dumping him because he hates your new hair color is shallow. Just like it would be shallow of him to dump her because he hates her new hair color.
@@skyegroome223 yeah but he doesn't need to be mean to her, it's the way he's acting that makes him a red flag, not the fact that he dislikes the color
@@merioceannI understand that mindset but she did something he was against knowing he was against it then made him think it was a joke only to double bluff him and then put on social media, people are taking this as a reaction to the hair but I believe it’s a reaction to her complete disregard for his desires that he’s projecting on the tangible action she took, regardless she played with his emotions for likes and now people are shitting on how he reacted after being blindsided twice
@@skyegroome223 you dump him because of the way he reacted, not because he didn't like it. someone healthy that really loves you can get sad because of an unexpected change, but will never talk that shitty about you. you dump him before it's "too late" and get someone who really likes you
@@sonce__ I love how strangers are telling her to dump him so quick without knowing anything about their relationship. That's why the internet is so toxic. They probably have a wonderful life together, but yawl saying leave him without a second thought. Obviously they had this conversation and she did it anyways for views. If you're going to do this for for views, you need to be yell at. Guess what, ppl argue and fight in relationships. That's normal. If you cannot deal with an argument, stay single forever.
@@Rye-Bread04whether you all want to deny it or not physical attraction is as necessary as everything else. If the guy I was seeing was blonde and came home with pink or blue hair I'd leave I'm not attracted to that. Even the ugly mullets and heavy 70s staches their trying to bring back I'd leave.
@@CanDeeMarie I'm sorry but you would leave a relationship of (possibly) several years with someone you love... over hair colour? Something that isn't permanent and will eventually fade and go back to normal in the span of, what, half a year? Are you so shallow that one modification to appearance would kill all the love you have for someone? I'm sorry, but if appearance is THAT important to you that a change in hair colour is enough to end a relationship, you shouldn't be in a relationship because you're too immature. This is something I'd only expect to see from three different types of people: high-schoolers, Andrew Taint lovers, and incels. My hope is that you're some kid who will eventually learn that people are *so much more* than what is on the outside
“So nice and fun” she’s feeding the flame too, she literally dyed her hair a color she knew he didn’t like to get his reaction, she’s no better than him
@@Ace_D_Donut Literally shut up. Women do NOT have to dress a certain way to please a man. If he doesn't like the color he should voice it in a way that wasn't rude and blatantly disrespectful.
@@arandomuser7184the problem is she knew he didn't like it and did it to get a reaction on film, and then posted that online. She literally is just putting him on blast instead of communicating or breaking up. He is awful, do not get me wrong, but she isn't better.
@@arandomuser7184 I feel sorry for anyone you have a relationship with. Wanting to please your partner is a foundational block to a happy life and a fulfilling pair bonding. Thinking that everyone else in the world is there to please you and you don't have to conform to social norms is child-think
@@ozbelltemp🚩🚩🚩for you and him. It’s her hair and her head. It’s weird to hate the color pink. She gave him a chance to be kind and tactful and instead he was controlling, mean, and bullying. Trying to manipulate someone you supposedly care about to conform to your narrow fashion standards is weird and I hope she dumped him. He should get counseling.
@@michelleobrien6996I guess she initially took it as him saying the wig was awful. Because it’s obviously a wig and she didn’t style it and it was messy. So it did look bad 🤷♀️but her actual hair looks fine and fits her.
@boredombear4237 The real thing is she KNEW he didn't like it and yet she did it just because he didn't like it. She is narcissistic, and he is being honest. She better pay for it in full and not expect a dime for any hair treatments.
@MYSTERYBLACKROSE It doesn't matter if she knew of not. It's her hair. If she wants to dye her hair, she has every right to. He has no right to control what his partner does just because it doesn't fit his preference. He needs a reality check.
And do you don't think he won't hold it against her that she intentionally did something she knew that he would hate just for social media content? This is some of the most manipulative, victim begging bullshit I have seen in a while.
@@decwowHow do you know she did it just for internet content, and even if she did, what if she did really want pink hair and did it and just didn't post about it, how do you know he wouldn't respond exactly the same if the cameras weren't rolling? This is dumb, it's HER hair, not his but HER'S, she does not and should not need his permission or approval to die her hair, the way you're phrasing this makes it sound like she's his property or something, like he has ANY right to dictate what she does with her appearance, when he fucking doesn't, what if he grew out his facial hair and she responded the way that he did to her, he'd be so upset and hurt, as he should, people should be allowed to do whatever they want with their image in order to feel confident and they shouldn't be shamed for it by people who have no say, and anyway, even if he really does hate it he certainly doesn't have to be such a dick about it, this is a horrible way to treat ANYBODY, let alone your own partner, you're both terrible ...
@@decwowIt's a hair color. On her own body. His reaction is out of order and childish. He's a grown man that "hates" a color and would berate her for it? Are you joking that this is in any way justifiable.
*yawn* here we go with this “its her body” bullshit as if women haven’t left their male partners for things they do with their bodies and you all champion that shit.
Yes 100%! I was in an emotional abusive relationship and heard things like this all the time. It made me so insecure, depressed, and paranoid of being cheated on. It really affects you.
My heart ♥️ literally broke for her when he said “it looks even worse!!” You could tell from her facial expression & body language that she was really HURT by his REACTION!! Lady RUN RUN RUN!! btw you 👀 absolutely stunning 😍 w your PINK hair…it suits you very well & you pull it off beautifully!!!!
as a hairstylist you should know that her roots are grown out and this is obviously fake 😭 they look to be atleast a month grown out and her husband would of seen it before this
@@Noblesse_Sapphireyes it would be very sad but i highly doubt it i dye my hair and the way her roots are grown out shows that she has had it for atleast one month , but there's always a possibility that this isn't fake 😢
@@CLAIRE-_-. Yes but when you get an unatural color you do it to the root not grown out, they don't blend color to root, and it looks grown out it does not look intentional
Aw, but she looks so pretty with pastel pink hair 🥺 if you want to dye/cut YOUR hair, do it. Dont let anyone tell you what to do with YOUR body. That lady deserves so much better, she looks like a sweetheart.
She has no respect for him. She knew how he was going to feel about it & did it anyway. The way she presents herself reflects on him, & visa versa If this is legit, she needs to re-evaluate.
It literally says he "hates" and it does wash her complexion out. She can dye it any color she wants but that man is under no expectation to like it. Ragebait!
Some people need to pick their battles. It is just hair and it belongs to her. She doesn't love you any less. However, this really sounds like he has issues with what others might think. To me, it looks good. It's fun and freeing. Let her have some fun!💖
SHES SO BEAUTIFUL WITH THE PINK HAIR😭 I hope she finds someone who enjoys her vibrant personality as much as she does because this is so sad and painful to see someone being torn down for what they love😭😭👉🏼
So if you hate dick and then bring a woman home that pulls out a dick would you not be mad? It's not a joke. She chose pink because she knew it would piss him off. That in itself is a red flag. But nope. Let's judge him for having likes and dislikes. I guess everyone is perfect. Lol
@@yureicomplicake8303 That's your opinion. And even if she did it to get a reaction out of him, the way he acted was definitely a red flag, and he probably would've reacted that way off camera too.
The color is both nice and flattering, the wig was a good way to get a sense of how he would instinctively respond, and taking it off was a fantastic way of seeing how much of a jerk he would be after enough time to think things over a bit.
i hope the next step of the girly in the video is figuring a way out, there's literally no reason for being such an a*s and purposely hurting the other person, she deserves better
@@marunekochannel Imagine telling your partner in earnest that you'd hate it. And then your partner does it, for a reaction. Your wishes in the relationship are a joke to your partner, yet he's the bad guy. I wish you and your 'girlies' reap what y'all sow.
I mean that was kind of stupid because now she knows he absolutely hates it but she's stuck with the pink hair. If she would have used a pink wig before she dyed her hair to gauge his reaction that would have made a lot more sense.
@saberrider3659 exactly and I'm assuming she knows this man and the way he reacts to things he hates so she can't exactly act her and play the victim after she did this on purpose to get a reaction. I mean literally what else did she expect? Plus how are you going to dye your hair pink first and then use the wig to gauge his reaction? Like hello dummy use the wig first and then dye your hair if he likes it. Because now you're stuck with it knowing he hates it also he's right, it does make her look washed out, it's not a good color / shade for her skin tone.
Personally, I hate pink and my partner knows this. BUT... If he dyed his hair pink, I'd have questions, not insults. I think the difference here is that, instead of asking her why, or having a conversation, he chose to insult her and tell her she looked awful. If my partner did this, I would say something like "I'm not a fan of the colour, as you know, but it's your hair on your body. If it makes you happy, then I'm happy". When you love someone more than you dislike a colour, that should kinda be your response... Would I tease him? Probably, but only in the way that we tease each other day-to-day - not in a cruel or nasty way. If my partner ever looked at me with a face as crestfallen as she had, I would be heartbroken and wouldn't care less about the colour of his hair.
A genuine person at least communicates. And doesn’t go out of their way to do something they know their partner won’t like. Should he have said it looks worse? No, but bro looks so done like she’s done it before.
@@johanna_naBro it’s her head. I don’t think he should get to dictate what she does on HER head. If he doesn’t like pink, he shouldn’t dye his hair pink. Why does he have a problem with what another living breathing separate human being chooses to do on her head of hair?
@@illiji915 do you know what manners are? Just because someone is your partner doesn’t mean you have a pass to be mean and rude. If they do something you don’t like to their body, you remain polite and deal with your own feelings like an adult. If you can’t handle it, you either never actually loved them for them or you are way too immature for a relationship.
@@illiji915 I also demean and demoralize my partner as harshly as I can when they do something thats not in my personal favorite interests. Like when my partner prefers tacos for dinner over hamburgers, I just make em feel like absolute shit, thats perfectly normal, right? Because its not my personal favorite. Fuck anyone that isnt exactly like me.
The singing while stressed, jumpkicks, and becoming one with the burrito/taquito roll (flag) is something I now know I cannot love without. These laughs are essential to my well being. 😂. Thanks Dustin. 🙏🏼
No. The other person must look at it. The spouse is a reflection tion of the couple. If he wanted a pink haired lady...he would have dated/married one.
I've tried colors I wan't real pleased with afterward, so I tried something else. If I liked it, I'd be offended. It is not YOUR hair. It is not YOUR style. This body does not belong to YOU.
If it was all about what she likes, she wouldn't have put on this show for him to get a compliment. Also, she captioned that she already knew he hated this color, and then looks shocked he doesn't like it on her. Idk what she was expecting.
@@ritapearl-im3wv what if he had bought like a dozen of tshirts of a color SHE hates? unironically the hair color would go away faster than the tshirts would get old
@amyqb117 There's a video on Megan & Jack's channel where Megan called Jack and told him that she'd dyed her hair orange (she has curly hair that would have looked like Annie from that theatre play), and when she got home Jack had a fake smile plastered on his face ready to support her choice and tell her it looked great. She was joking ofcourse, but you could tell he was ready to cheer his wife on whether he liked it or not, and he was relieved that he didn't have to do the whole act of pretending it was nice,which he was definitely going to do.
@@Rambutan. and still so what? Not everyone has to PRETEND to like what they do not like from their partner especially when they have made it known and their partner INTENTIONALLY does it. All while filming it for clicks. If she has a problem with her partner not liking the hair color, why not leave rather than go ahead doing what you are SURE will get a negative reaction, then share it with the world. . Well her plan worked, here we are talking about them.
@@AstronomyGuru84 and still so what? Not everyone has to PRETEND to like what they do not like from their partner especially when they have made it known and their partner INTENTIONALLY does it. All while filming it for clicks. If she has a problem with her partner not liking the hair color, why not leave rather than go ahead doing what you are SURE will get such a reaction, then share it with the world. . Well her plan worked, here we are talking about them.
i can maybe handle idiot as long as it as a joke, it can even sound affectionate and i have used it that way too, but it depends on the dynamic and what everyone is comfortable with. now, a curse word, absolutely not lmao. and, in seriousness, 'idiot' would be equally bad as any vulgar namecalling. i support you, girl. standards are so so important!! 💓
This here kids, is what we call “Overreacting”! It’s when someone responds more emotionally or forcibly than is justified. A good way to use the word “overreacting” or “overreact” in a sentence is; “we urge people not to overreact to the situation.”
Hypothesis: He knows that she's way out of his league (I try not to judge usually but his personality is clearly awful, so what exactly is he bringing to this table?) - he cuts her down constantly so her self-esteem suffers and she's less likely to realize how much better she could do if she left him.
@@caitlinstone3113 this! Everything about her seems to be a problem in his eyes. Skin too pale, hair ugly, how dare she does what she wants? That guy needs to move on if he hates her that much. Girl deserves someone normal.
I feel sorry for him honestly. He didn't react well but she knows he hates that color and she dyed it anyway without telling him. He deserves to be angry tbh
I think she looks gorgeous, period! I love the colour! I also think she would look beautiful no matter what, including bald or with a mohawk of any colour.
And what does he mean it makes her skin look pale?? She’s white-skinned, I’m not sure if he knows this but the skin is naturally “pale” and that how she is suppose to look, and there are people with even paler skin. She chose a hair color that actually compliments her skin beautifully, she should break up with him and find someone who actually loves her
@@AlissaSss23My exact thought they try to humble women that are out of their league so they stick around but don‘t realize they just make the woman despise them and leave
Yeah, so adorable when you do something you KNOW your partner doesn't like just to see their reaction and broadcast it so you can make them look bad and you can get your victim sympathy point. Yeah, so cute.
@@bideny2?? it’s literally HER hair on HER body. it’s HER bodily auonomy, she wasn’t even cheating on him or ANYTHING close to it. she literally just DYED HER HAIR. imagine being this loud AND wrong
No he just wants to control something. Any man that feels anything for a woman he likes we'll be honest but say it in a nice way but most of the time the guy is going to like whatever the woman's hair color is if he has feelings for her. Guys like this is why the divorce rate is so high and women. They settle for people thinking that they're never going to find someone else and then they create little gremlins just like their self. Can I get divorced and the recycle repeats itself all over again through the children.
Some partners are acting like narcissistic children, too. Relationships work both ways. When you know something really bothers your partner, setting up a camera and filming their reaction to put it on the internet only serves to destroy the relationship. She intentionally set him up and then broadcast it to the world and yet he's the bad guy.
@@Velvet-Of-Erion internationally gas lighting you're partner is horrible. Women today constantly state they want men who communicate, this guy did, long before the video was recorded. That's how she knew he would hate it. She did this for a reaction more than a desire to feel pretty. Thats the issue I have with this. As for me being horrible, I don't care what some stranger on the internet thinks of me based of a one paragraph statement about the poor life choices people post on the internet to get likes.
@@theamazingchris90 right? and it's so light, it probably won't take long to fade! everyone should be able to do what they want with their hair, this guy is just an ass🙄
@@thedarkestkinghtstar I know, he's a total doosh, I'm just saying where the feelings are coming from and why someone would react like this. It usually isn't as simple as, "oh this person just likes making her feel bad " or "oh he truly doesn't like the color pink this much." Every man as well as every person typically in anger is just lashing out bc of other emotions. So just explaining one of those that no one would probably think of lol
Id say he is just embarrased to be seen with her now. Like taken her to the mothers house will be awkard cause of the stupid pink hair. Taken her anywhere really because she looks like a clown. Also it means she is away with it, into fem or lesbo stuff so its all gross red flags.
She legit looks cute and the color with the style really brought out her eyes. I'd think think twice about staying with someone that's so bluntly negative about your appearance like that.
he liked her the way she was. and she knew he hated pink hair. if you decide to something to you appearance that you know for a fact your partner hates you dont get to be upset if they hate it and tell you so. relationships are about honesty. if you cant be honest with your partner then you should end the relationship
"Haha funny now I can't look at you and cherish your beauty because you like ruining it. Intentionally. In the worst way possible with the color I can't enjoy looking at." Man, people with self sabotaging issues are dumb, and those who try to justify it because they can't use their brain to put themselves in the same scenario are extremely annoying. You will never be able to sympathize with people honestly and you will often choose the wrong sides in arguments because what you see is yourself and not the people who argue. Very self centered and selfish.
It doesnt matter if you think she looks good. You arent her partner. He actual partner, the one whos opinion actually matters, has seemingly already voiced that he disliked it. She did it anyway...for internet clout. She diregards his requests, his feelings, and does whatever she wants and then puts it on the internet. But yeahh....hes the red flag.
@monkeywithacomputer1349 if she can't express herself by just dying her hair a color that she wants all cause her Man doesn't like said color....then she needs to not be with him. He literally said the wig look better. Like???? Thst cannot be overlooked here.
I hope he finds someone who respects his feelings too. If she is willing to knowingly do something he hates, then she likely would do it other times as well for other things. It's not ablut the hair, it's the disrespect she shows towards his feelings.
@@HalcyonVoid changing your appearance in a way your partner doesn't like isn't disrespecting them. What the actual hell is wrong with you. I vaguely see where you're coming from, because intentionally doing anything to upset your partner on purpose is disrespectful, but if I genuinely want my hair pink my hair will be pink. That's not my partners choice, and it's not disrespectful that our taste doesn't align. I can do whatever I want with my hair, even if I know my partner doesn't like it, and vice versa. I don't like some of my partners outfits, sometimes they're a fashion style I'm not personally in love with. I still love my partner and don't insult them for dressing in a way I dislike. I love them and I'm happy they are comfortable with who they are and don't need my approval to be themselves, they know I love them, I just don't adore some of their outfits. And I have outfits they don't love too! You don't have to be your partners perfect build-a-bear, it's not disrespectful, even if you know they don't like it. My partner may dislike my Kingdom Hearts t-shirt that's holding onto its life by a thread and barely has a design on it anymore, but I LOVE that shirt and it's not disrespectful to them when I wear it.
@TamuTamuOnigiri it is absolutely her hair and her choice. That isn't the issue. It's the lack of respect for the guy that she thought it was funny to surprise him with something she KNEW he didn't like. If she went to him and said, "I'm going to due my hair, I know you don't like it, but it's what I want," then there is no issue. But she didn't. She did it, knowing it would upset him and made a joke out of it. She is the asshole for doing that. My girlfriend hates lavender smelling things. Should I do a "prank" on her and spray all my clothes with lavender scent? Started using lavender shampoo? All knowing she hated it. Wouldn't that make me a kinda shitty person? To disrespect her feelings and do something she hates to mess with her? Wouldn't it make me an asshole to then try and play victim when they inevitably don't like it? She can do what she wants, but to directly mess with the guy like that is scummy behavior.
@Muslim_Momma 0 seconds ago He was awful, but she’s no catch either. Purposely setting this up and recording it is pretty crappy, too. I think she should be able to do whatever she wants with her body, but I personally would not color my hair a color my husband absolutely hated. And if I did, I wouldn’t record his reaction and post it for the entire Intern to see.
@@txth6051 who CARES, it's not his head and his reaction is DISGUSTING!! That man doesn't deserve a woman that respects him, he CLEARLY doesn't respect her. It's HER hair. Don't get me wrong, knowing how much he hates pink and then dying her hair that color is a HUGE red flag as well... BUT his reaction was TRULY toxic. A real man, I repeat REAL man doesn't care about dumb sht like hair color, and he needs to get to the gym and address his appearance before he attacks a woman WAY too good for him before he attacks her appearance. PERIODT!!!
@@txth6051 she didnt. She pretended to. But if u r with someone their hair color shouldnt matter to you at all. What matters to you is that they feel happy, & confident. No matter what my husband looks like, (& hes had a lot of different styles and looks over the last 10 years) i always think he looks good. Telling your partner they look terrible in a million different ways in under a minute is hurtful, & if u care about them, hurting them in any way will never cross your mind. But you'll never have that, & u will always treat relationships like a power struggle. Your immediate jump to blame shifting is super telling. I hope you arent interested in having a long term healthy relationship, bc with that attitude it just isnt gonna happen for you.
I love it when my girl dyes her hair a new color. It's fun and she gets to make new outfits around it and I enjoy seeing her smile coordinating her newest color schemes.
@@elimcdude8499 grown adults shouldn’t be posting on the internet to get attention yet here we are. And here you are encouraging it. Clearly you have no idea what “grown adults” do.
You sound like a very sweet and wholesome person, and I think she is lucky to have you 😊 My bf is also very supportive of whatever I rock. I’m goth, so I just keep my hair black! But I always ask his opinion on the dresses and accessories I buy, he doesn’t care what I get as long as it makes me happy. Sometimes he’ll even pitch in to help me buy em!
nah, she played a stupid game and got the prize she deserved. Pink hair? is she still in high school? I can give you 100% that the man in this video loves this woman completely, she is his heart. When given the choice to Lie to his lady or to tell her the absolute truth, this man gave her the absolute truth. That's a mans testament to true love, he will be honest with you. Men will lie to any easy slut if that makes her knees spread wide. My guy here is being 100% honest and noble for his woman and her childish hair prank *because* he loves her.
I know right! Look at the state of HIM 🤮 The pink looks gorgeous. That big lump has no idea how lucky he is to even have 10 minutes of her time. He would crack a mirror 😂
Oh god you can see how shocked she was that he was genuinely being mean. Like she thought it would he a cute video of him pretending to like her new haircut-even though he obviously hates it-and it just wasn’t. She’s realizing that her boyfriend isn’t just “not afraid to go there”. He’s actively cruel.
He wasn't being mean. He was being honest. She did something KNOWING he would hate it...what other response should she have expected? Maybe try reversing the parts. Him doing something specifically because she hates it and see THAT reaction.. like freaking seriously.
@@GalganohsYes, but being honest doesn't have to be rude, you can be honest without being mean. On top of this, consider that's her body, she's allowed to do what she wants with her hair, clothes... Ect. Any partner that would insult their partners look (that's what he did) is not a good partner. If she didn't like him with a beard, and he grew a beard, she has no say, it's his body, but everyone would be up in arms if she asked him to shave it. A good way to communicate with a partner would be: "Do you like it?" "It's not something I particularly like, but do you like it?" "Yes I like it." "Then I'm glad you did it, because I want you to be happy and feel pretty!" That's a good way to communicate that. Using insults or cruel words, isn't necessary, or kind. You can honestly express a dislike without putting someone down. He seems the type to put his girlfriend down so she has low self esteem and stays with him. She deserves better in my opinion.
@@Galganohs There's a difference between being honest and being a jerk about it. Honesty is "I don't like it." Not "I like the wig I called a rats nest better. You look even worse."
@@ColdCreekB and so what if he doesnt like it, it's her hair and she'll do what she wants his reaction is what is worth dumping over, what's extreme is being this mad someone did what they wanted with their own body
Fair criticism, but if she does love him and he has made it clear what would turn him away, and they are in a loving relationship full of communication. Then it's different
@@beaub152 Being turned away by a hair color is pretty superficial, no matter how you slice it. No one I've been in a serious relationship with has ever told me what to do with my own hair.
@@Sanguiris he literally called her ugly. Even if he hates this color, how can he be so rude to her? He's so aggressive, he speaks with pure hate, is that love? And how could anyone hate a COLOUR so much that they would literally yell at their partner because of it?
@@Sanguiris What he likes/dislikes, does not dictate what she should or shouldn't do with her hair. That's stupid fucking thinking. And I don't think she expected him to like it, but she probably expected at least a modicum of human decency. Given how they are supposed to care for eachother. He's aggressive, and rude. Not to mention overdramatic. If my s/o dyed their hair a colour I wasn't fond of, I would either learn to like it, or just leave it be, as it doesn't affect me negatively in any way. Because that's just what you do when you actually care for someone.
@@Chromalisk_then don't get mad when he speaks his mind didn't hear him say change that ugly hair color he called it ugly. Which she knew. .so no surprise. She expected the white knight to come out and be like ahh it's cute on you babe. No
I literally just shaved my head and when my husband saw all he could say was that he loved it and I looked beautiful. I hope she finds someone that loves her unconditionally.
Sooooo she should be with someone who lies to her face instead of being honest? He could have worded what he said in a nicer manner, but she KNEW he was going to hate it and she did it anyway and then filmed and posted his response. She's problematic as well.
that's great 😊 people miss the point that when you actually love someone you see them being adorable and happy and you support the choices that make them happy ✨
@@user-jv5pp8pv9l It's one thing to be honest, but another to be mean. A simple "I'm happy you're happy", or joke like, "nooo, not the real pink hair!" vs. "it looks bad!" really changes the tone. Nobody wants to be with someone who brings them down over their own choices. If blunt honesty "it looks bad!" doesn't bring you down, that's fine, but most people don't enjoy it. If communication is the key to relationships, theirs wasn't fitting.
Well the moment she knew he didn't like the color and went ahead and put it on her head is something you are not willing to address? Stop traumatizing people
@@caronamala438most people would go ok not the colour I would have chosen but it's your hair and your choice. It's hair the colour will fade out or grow out. It can be changed. If the guy gets triggered over a little thing as this.
@@caronamala438 Yeah... meanwhile, people are out here being beaten, assaulted, locked in cages, forced to eat dirty diapers but OMG, pink hair is out here TRAUMATIZING people. Stop TRAUMATIZING people? For dying your hair? Are you flocking serious? Trauma is a real thing that causes people to barely be able to function as people some days. It's an absolute snot rocket to the eye to sit there and say this man was TRAUMATIZED over his wife's pink hair. Y'all are so over the top dramatic these days and if people changing their hair is traumatizing Y'all, just go ahead and rip out your eyes for your own peace of mind because holy 💩 People change their hair CONSTANTLY. From cuts, styles to colors and everything in between. If that's traumatizing, maaaaaaan. Y'all are in for a seriously bad time.
I don't like country music, 💩 makes me want to shove pencils into my ears when I hear it, but you know what it doesn't do? Traumatize me. Just because you don't like something, doesn't mean you're forever traumatized because you have to face it in the real world. I don't have to run to my therapist every time a Garth Brooks song comes on the radio.
When he said "It's the worst color I could ever see you in." I could see the disappointment hit her.
yet she knew it before she deserves it
@@mrphoenix5951 what????
@@mrphoenix5951 so because someone has been abused in the past by a person, you think they DESERVE further abuse?
Child, get the hell of the internet please.
@@allisoncastle I think the way the other guy said it is gross. But to play devils advocate, she did know the way he was going to react. She dyed her hair and set up a camera on top of it to record his reaction and post it on the Internet.
I think she looks stunning, but instead of doing things to trigger your abusive partner to provoke further abuse knowingly. You should instead leave them without causing issues that could potentially hurt you.
The title says dying my hair a color my husband hates is the reaction that surprising??
i was hoping it was a joke/skit but the way her smile fell when he said "it looks even worse" definitely shattered that hope
me too omg 😭 she looked so genuinely sad
I saw the og on tiktok and it’s just rage bait
really?? I felt like her reaction was very fake.. def made me suspicious.
@Nari-7022 it's insane how people here are defending the dude 🙄 🤦
Edit: he has no right to insult her over her hair. People are defending her cuz he overreacted to a color, not trying to be mean, but it's a color move on pink is nice even if it's unattractive to him. He has no say in her hair.
@@monicadutton NO WAYY i mean honestly im not surprised, the Nigerian wife and her White husband is apparently rage bait too 😭
The way her smile just FELL when he said “it looks even worse” broke my heart 😢
Me too! 😳😭 He’s such a jerk. She deserves so much better than that. She look beautiful with pink hair.
It hurt my heart too. Went from prank to heart broken real quick 🫤
Me too 😢
Imagine doing something your partner already expressed they disliked and expecting... what? Their opinion to change? She's a red flag as much as you could say he is. Can't imagine a man getting praised for doing something his partner actively dislikes. Why is this different?
@@Raymal100 womp womp people can do what they want with their bodies, their partner does NOT control their bodies
That’s how my ex used to talk to me. One time his friend said something nice about me and my at that time bf of 10 years started ARGUING with him, trying to prove that I’m not that special 💀 poor girl, hope she’ll realize he’s not worth it
I'm so sorry :( that sounds horrible
Wow that's awful that he argued about someone saying nice about you 😮
Huh, why was he with you for that long then. These people are crazy
@misseli922 🤷🏼♀️ apparently abusers like to belittle their partners to make them feel too insecure to leave. Weird thing since usually they are the ones who make the first move
I'm so sorry
I hope you're doing okay now at least
The fact that that he said”I liked the wig more”made her bright smile to disappear 😭😭😭
Ye it's a decently written sketch.
She knew he wouldn't like it. She was provoking it or this was a skit.
@@Zenivore and?? That means his abuse is okay?? Typical victim blaming. Go back to the fucking 1940 where you got your bullshit talking points from. Hope you’re ready to go to war!
@@ZenivoreThat doesn’t matter, if you can’t carry yourself properly without demeaning your partner, then you’re just a piece of shit. Period.
@@Zenivorewhat if he had bought like a dozen of tshirts of a color SHE hates? unironically the hair color would go away faster than the tshirts getting old
Her agreeing that "it's a little gross" broke my heart all the way in half
I think she meant gross as in how the wig FELT which is valid, dirty wigs have this grossness to the touch and I think that's what she thought he meant. When she took off the wig, she learnt that it was not what he meant .... Which broke my heart for her.
Me too 😢
Your comment broke my heart all the way in half! They both meant the wig!
I think she was talking about how the wig is a little scraggly
How do you think because he doesn't like it he doesn't love her that's how your viewing this person preferences are a thing ...omg
there is a huge difference between playful joking and just straight up bullying.
want a relationship where your partner is honest or you want to get lied to 24/7 for the rest of your life.
@@_p-x-l_The color doesn't even look bad on her though. He don't like color, great, then he shouldn't use that color on him.
She doesn't hate that color, she looks good with it, it's her hair, it's her choice.
There's a difference between being honest to your partner with respect and treating them like your property. Learn the difference and maybe you'll be a better person too
@@Kuro.is_d3ad Being in a relationship has gives and takes. I’m sure there is a multitude of things he does to compromise on things she doesn’t like. She knew he hated that hair color, and yet she did it anyway. Idk why she thought the response would be any different other than she was hoping he would just accept it.
I think it looks fine on her too, but I’m not dating her.
@@bigbeefy111 Sounds like you're just trying to justify his actions. And don't worry, she won't date you either
@@Kuro.is_d3ad I agree with beefy. Dudes actions don't need to be justified, she knew full well he'd dislike the color.
I'm sure her employer wouldn't be to thrilled about the color choice either.
Pink looks fantastic on her! Pink looks great on almost anyone, I don't think ever seen someone look bad in pink. It's a great color, she made a great choice
And actually I'm jealous with her pink hair. I want it but never find courage to do so. It's pretty color and expensive
The way my jaw dropped when he said "It looks even worse", poor girl is so cute. I would cry.
its fake
Cuz it's the color he hates , duh
That would make you cry. She deliberately dyed her hair a color that she knows he hates. So she knew that he was going to react badly. So you're saying that if you do something that you know your partner is going to hate and he reacts badly that's going to make you cry? Oh my God.
@@UndertheNeedle282 no lol because I would never actually make a change like that without wanting to consult my partner first. I don’t even dye my hair. He also is probably already aware she likes doing stuff like this because it probably isn’t the first time she has colored her hair. The difference is my partner wouldn’t try to make me feel that bad about wanting to do something like dye my hair, something that isn’t permanent. Also it’s not that serious lmao right now I probably would cry with my pregnant butt.😅🤣
@@theonewhoaskedtheonewhocar9780
So what, it’s hair dye. It won’t last forever. It’s like if your partner wanted to wear monochromatic pink everyday for months, because it made them happy. Does that give you the right to downgrade and insult them? No, he overreacted.
Omg her face when he says "are you kidding me, it looks worse". That broke my heart. How can anyone be so cruel?! She looked adorable.
She knows exactly how her man is, straight forward, a little hard but honest. She knows that he hates the colour. She knew exactly what she is doing and filmed it.
@@Patrick-np7qq And for the record it make her look washed out and sickly....so...if that is what she is going for(and her hair looks like pink straw...just dry and barely there)..I guess
@@Patrick-np7qq "a little hard but honest" is a backhanded way of saying he's an AH
@@alias-majik Its more weird to me that she knew the guy wouldnt like it and still did it. Like what could possibly go wrong?🤡
@Min-Taro it's her hair, it's not up to him what she does with it.
It actually looks so good on her. He said washed out, but it actually complements her skin
he said that about the wig. but he did say her real hair was worse.
which, yeah, the wig is ugly and makes her look bad, but her real hair looks very nice on her. she can pull off pink.
@@abiean222 exactly, it looked good. He was just being a dick.
Literally, if anything it brings out the warmth of her skin tone. Bro just heard that phrase once and wanted to use it😂
I agree with him, it looks shit. Why can't you disagree with him without making it seem like there's a correct answer?
@scotttimbrell8632 there's no correct answer, but his comments were completely unneeded. There's a WAY better way to tell your loved one that it's not your favorite color without putting her down and trying to make her feel ugly. It's her own her in the end of the day, not his.
I love that pink hair color!!! She looks beautiful
It's a great color on her!
Now him on the other hand... is a color that doesn't suit her
ABSOLUTELY
Really ? What exactly is attractive ?
@@privateperson5054bro hasn't heard of the subjectivity of beauty 💀
@deadPan-c
LoL.
I was wondering if he thought pink was called beautiful. Basic ESL mistake.
The way she immediately stopped smiling when he said “it looks even worse” poor girl, she looks cute!!
She’s feeding the flame too, she literally dyed her hair a color she knew he didn’t like to get his reaction, she’s no better than him
@georginatoppings5912 that's called being inconsiderate of your partner.
(Edit): Can we all just agree that these are two bad people that just shouldn't be together 💀
Wayyyy cuter than him
@@monkeywithacomputer1349inconsiderate that they don’t like a certain choice you made of your own appearance ?
@@monkeywithacomputer1349wait, if a man really loves me for me, why does he care what color my hair is?
It's my hair. Not his. If I like it, a real man is going to love me no matter what. My bf still loved me even tho my hair started to fall out due to medication. I'm so happy he was so loving and supportive. Smh.
The way her smile dropped when he said “it looks even worse” broke my heart she looked great
Literally blood boiling
My guy you know these are fake right?
@@Userhandleidk Wether this one is fake or not doesn’ change the fact that put there, someone is going through similar things. This may be staged, but abusive relationships or relationships that just dont work DO exist, and people suffer because of it. It’s a real issue
There is nothing abusive here. Even if it wasn't staged.
He clearly wasn't a fan of pink hair, and she knew this beforehand. Of course it's her own choice wheter she's still going to dye it pink. It's her own hair, after all. But it's also her choice to disregard HIS opinion knowlingly and purposely, and thus accept his very negative reaction.
If she hadn't known beforehand, his reaction would be cruel. But since knows, they clearly discussed it earlier and her choices have consequences. Simple as that.
this is a grown adult man with a drivers license. grown adults don’t go on tirades like this towards the person they’re supposed to be in love with over a hair color. this has nothing to do with personal taste, he was being intentionally cruel and you are being intentionally obtuse in implying that her dying her hair a color he doesn’t like in a way to do some lighthearted teasing is the same as his response.
Even when I dye my hair colors my husband isn't thrilled about, he says stuff like, "Not my thing, buy you're always cute.", "I married you, not your hair" and so on. He was also shocked at how chill I was when he shaved his head the first time. W worked in a factory in the summer! Keep cool my man!
I got my hair cut in a way my bf hates and I was worried it would change things but he said 'if you get that haircut I might start liking the style more than I did before because it will remind me of you' and that's such a sweet sentiment. He ended up actually liking it from the start.
Right now I'm in fade down. Hubs has said -oh no don't go pastel. You look way better in jewel tone. This looks ok because your stylist is good I look forward to her next experiment.
Man is a keeper. he's honest when it actually is washing me out but in a wholesome way
Same. My partner treats me like an autonomous human even if my choices aren't his preferences for me.
In fact... I don't even KNOW what his preferences are for me. 😂 We've been together 26 years.
I've had hair to my waist and a pixie cut. I've had several colors. I've worn it curly and had it straightened. No matter what I do, he tells me I'm pretty.
He refuses to tell me a favorite look for me, because he wants me to choose what makes ME happy about ME. (He knows I came from a background where this wasn't the case.) ❤
So you like being placated by men?
Yes! My boyfriend has helped me dye my hair and says he loves me no matter how I look. When I told him I wanted to get a pixie ( this was in 2022) he said, "Go for it!" ☺️
1. Pale skin is beautiful.
2. Your pink hair is awesome.
3. LEAVE THAT "MAN"
EXACTLY
Thats no man thats a BOY. SHAME.
Any skin is beautiful
YES, VERY MUCH SO. ALSO, SHE LOOKS ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS IN HER HAIR
YES
Why is the divorce rate so high? Because people like this get married.
Exactly.
Honestly if people would take time to get to know people before jumping into sleeping and living together it would make relationships like this so much less likely. Imagine casually dating someone for a few months, you get a new hair color, and they react like this. Byee. No sorting out stuff, moving, breaking a lease, etc. Just you never see that person again and they roll out of your life like water rolls off a duck.
@@tickley42it's crazy that you're trying to blame the women for being lied to. Mosten like this don't start acting toxic till they're married bc they know you can't leave unless you divorce. You obviously don't have any experience with relationships
@@tokofukawap4055 Sorry. How are they blaming the woman?
This would so be my hubby..he hates pink hair or any color that’s not my own, lol
She's beautiful. No one deserves to be treated this way.
@@caronamala438 tf are you on about? Go back on 4Chan, dude.
@caronamala438 ok so theoretically if your partner told u that they want u on a diet because they dislike, hates your body and shames u for it, you're not the victim? 🤨
@@love_yourself1342he’s right though, she literally said he hates the color. For what reason we don’t know. And while I don’t think she’s a sociopath she’s def looking for clout
She legit did something he hates, coz he hates it, and Is surprised he hates it.....
No, he doesn't deserve to be intentionally antagonized and recorded.
and he doesn't even understand how difficult it is to achieve a pastel pink like that on real hair, whoever did that dye job did a GREAT job
It’s not that hard if you use semi permanent pink dye, then just wait a few weeks for it to fade!!
Those roots look like grow out, rather than intentional shadow roots (the roots are all same length and there’s no ombré/blending), so my bet is they dyed it regular pink and this is what it looks like after a couple weeks worth of showers!!
I’ve had to rock this look many times, thanks to my natural red hair making it damn near impossible to get roots bleached to perfectly match length, before redying! Just lucky the pink dyes I’ve used in the past, faded to a shade of dusty pink that didn’t clash too bad with ginger roots 😂
@@EmzyT0lol 😂 moots? (I’m 15 btw so like not really old lmao)
@@EmzyT0 you do know that all hair is different? do you also know levels of blonde? you have to have at least level 9-10 to get to a pastel and for you to get to that point in one sitting, you have to have pretty healthy hair to achieve a lot of bleaching.
It doesn’t matter bc he already told her he doesn’t like the way she looks with pink hair. Literally everybody has preferences and she ignored his despite him being her significant other.
@@MiVidaBellisima i hope you get to meet people that accepts you for who you are and not on a hair color. That's her hair not his. she decides.
Her smile just dropped. Poor lass. Could see the moment her heart just got crushed.
Having a partner that doesn’t care if you’re happy must be one of the most heartbreaking things to experience. Damn
@@GargoylePrincess I know right. Poor guy. I can't imagine being in a relationship where someone would go out of their way to do something they know I hate. 😔
@@monkeywithacomputer1349 there’s ways to handle things and he handle it like an idiot
They are honestly both just such terrible people.
@@gman1515 how is she terrible?
@@mamathemeat She did aswell though. She clearly doesnt care what he thinks and wants and will do what she wants anyway. One of the worst traits in a relationship and he isnt really as caring or supportive of her.
I love her playful spirit! It will be appreciated with the right person. He is not the one.
100% spot on!
All i'm thinking is how she ended up with such a fragile manlet. Mf cant see pink without having a mental breakdown
Men aren't allowed to have standards anymore.
@@ToxicMothBoi
She just did something that even she admitted that he would hate,... on camera,... for social media content.
I would say to put yourself in his shoes,... but after reading through dozens of comments... frankly i don't think you people have the capacity.
@@decwowregardless, he had no appreciation. He didn’t even say it looked good he just got mad at her. Personally I think she should be able to do whatever she wants with her hair without her bf getting mad. This man’s just toxic af tbh
The pink on her actual hair really compliments her blue eyes, making them seem to be a brighter shade of blue. Her smile dropping like a minecraft anvil after you removed the bottom block completely broke my heart 💔
The dark roots help with that, she looks gorgeous
Like a minecraft anvil 😭
@@HandlesIThoughtOfWereAllTaken Was playing Minecraft at the time lol
@@speed_demon_031 oh lmao i started playing minecraft after i read your comment lol
It makes her look washed out…and crazy…
the aggressive singing is so spot on.....
If this is ragebait i am getting so so so flipping tired of ragebait.
I seriously hope so many of these are satire to some point, I really hope!
I want to hope it's rage bait, otherwise I feel really sad for people who feel like they are stuck with shitty partners
she has roots growing already which means she's had it for a while and unless she has been wearing wigs the whole time I'm pretty sure this is ragebait
@@user-k._.t.rwith vibrant colors you don’t necessarily go right to the root with color. I have magenta hair myself and that looks freshly done to me. The look her face at the end says it all for me. Poor girl, she needs to run.
@@nicoleginchereau2501 I've always seen colors like this done to the root or made to look like it's intentional and not outgrown, it also looks a bit faded at the top but not sure if that's anything
Honestly, she looked gorgeous with the pink hair, and I'm not talking about the wig.
I thought so too
I would have asked him back:" Do you ever look in the mirror? Dude is not even in a good shape.
@@LaraBuluz exactly. Like she can do so much better than him
@@Dezzi277 I bet he is also bald under that hat.
@@LaraBuluzLMFAO
The worst part is that she looks amazing. It truly compliments her blue eyes, she looks beautiful❤
@@keniapowa the worst part is she chose that color not because she liked it, but because she knew he hated it. And the Internet is crucifying him for not being exited about it.
All am saying is there is someone in the wrong here and it's not the guy.
Hey the guy had no need to bring down his girl and be an asshole. Partners should support, it’s not like he controls her body?
@@caronamala438Either way he shouldn’t have a say in it, something as minor as hair color should be the decision of the person whose hair it is, not their partner
@@Morality739 why are you all calling this thing a minor thing? It's not about the hair colour. It's about confiding in someone because you think they love you and respect you. And yet you go ahead and do the same thing not because you like it. But because you know they hate it.
It's sociopathic.
@@caronamala438 if you think she chose to permanently die her hair just for his dislike your stupid af dude. She wanted pink hair that should be enough for him to stfu
She's beautiful and deserves so much better.
“It looks even worse!” 😭😭 I think it’s so cute on her!
It’s crazy how wide the discrepancy is between his reaction and her actual look which is so cute.. this guy sucks SO bad
She looked good to me.
@@bonnie1303 nah, hes right, makes her look awful
@@bonnie1303 nope. it looks awful
all colored hair looks gross
@@DeputyFishoh thats how I can tell you’re miserable 🤣
"makes you look even more pale" REALLY irritated tf outta me! Like what?! Girl you rock your beautiful pale skin!
I guarantee he makes her gym and tan, but doesn't do it himself obviously.
Right like wtf she absolutely beautiful with her pale self and pretty pink hair I couldn't pull it off but she definitely did❤❤❤❤❤
How is he really gunna look like THAT and say that to her. Like my brother in Christ, she can leave you and get someone better, you can’t lol.
Yeah why he talking about skin tones, he ain't kissing her melatonin 🤨
My skin is so white as a ghost and i like it but my parents and brother not so much. They say my legs look like milk bottles 😂
The way her smile left her face broke my heart. I want to hug her
It's ok ita not real 😂❤
@@isla.vuewallthis does happen a lot in real life. My ex did the same exact thing to me when I colored my hair
Well he did say he hated it so what was she expecting? She can do whatever she wants, but so does he
Me too.
Same. Also, that color looks great on her!
She didnt even look bad, she actually looks pretty good
She looked so good in both her own and wig. That guy is a huge red flag for not realizing that she wanted and was happy with the color
yesss anime fan
Or, like stated he don't like the color and he told her straight up he hated that hair color lol.
Instead of being the fake smooth talker guy he spoke his mind.
You are the type of people to be in the relationship sad but saying it's fine honey.
yea this is really sad especially when she was so happy about it and was totally shot down with what he said 😢
@@ShadowKitty-bm9sothe fact that she was so happy dying her hair in a color she knows he HATES is a red flag on its own.
Would be the same as a wife telling her hubby she loves his beard and he just goes and shaves it off.
@@namelessbrat7197well it’s not their body and you shouldn’t be acting like a manbaby because you don’t like her hair
The fact that that hair color actually looks really pretty on her 💔 I hope she finds someone much better
I can understand personally not preferring a color, length, or style change that your partner decides to try out at first, but to intentionally make them feel stupid or ugly for wanting to experiment with their OWN body is just gross and controlling. 😣
He's dating up, as fuck. And is just SHITTING on her. This has to be fake. His attitude is gross.
@@MoollenI sure hope it is. If anyone is being treated that way, drop their a$$ and don’t look back
@@Moollenshe's worse
@@Tescotrolley8 how
She looks so pretty but the look in her eyes at the end is soul-crushing.
Bro what she literally know it was a color he hated and did it anyway I think she's as toxic as him maybe more
@@Bunnyman1999 nice try, troll.
@clarysstoryboard3317 I mean it literally said it at the beginning of the video, isn't doing something you know your partner specifically does not like just to get a reaction out of them considered toxic?
@@Bunnyman1999 my brother in Christ, you cannot actually be serious.
It's her body, she can do with it as she likes.
Doesn't mean that her partner _has_ to like it, but he doesn't get to put her down for it, insult her and bulldoze her confidence either.
You clearly don't know how much effort, time, skill and money is involved in dying your hair like that, regardless of whether you do it yourself or get it done by a professional and especially with a pastel colour like this (speaking from experience here). It also destroys your hair long term. The last time I bleached and dyed my hair was roughly three years ago and the ends are still fried because I chose to grow them out instead of cutting them.
That's not something you do just to get a reaction out of someone or for a prank or whatever.
Based on how she acts (the way she deflates when he straight-up *insults* her appearance, which is temporary, mind you), it's clearly a colour she likes (on herself).
Yeah, the captions says that it's a colour he hates but that still doesn't justify his reaction by any means.
Yeah, you shouldn't knowingly antagonize your partner, you're right on that, but that doesn't mean your partner gets to dictate the way you look and your self-expression.
@@Bunnyman1999It’s her damn hair, my guy. Bet you wouldn’t have this same attitude if she hated a haircut he got. Women aren’t your accessories.
Not her hair being so very pretty in pink but he’s just making her probably self conscious and sad it looks so good! The pink is beautiful!
he’s not worth it. you look absolutely adorable🥺
He's allowed to not like it, lol. Dumping him because he hates your new hair color is shallow. Just like it would be shallow of him to dump her because he hates her new hair color.
@@skyegroome223 yeah but he doesn't need to be mean to her, it's the way he's acting that makes him a red flag, not the fact that he dislikes the color
@@merioceannI understand that mindset but she did something he was against knowing he was against it then made him think it was a joke only to double bluff him and then put on social media, people are taking this as a reaction to the hair but I believe it’s a reaction to her complete disregard for his desires that he’s projecting on the tangible action she took, regardless she played with his emotions for likes and now people are shitting on how he reacted after being blindsided twice
@@skyegroome223 you dump him because of the way he reacted, not because he didn't like it. someone healthy that really loves you can get sad because of an unexpected change, but will never talk that shitty about you. you dump him before it's "too late" and get someone who really likes you
@@sonce__ I love how strangers are telling her to dump him so quick without knowing anything about their relationship. That's why the internet is so toxic. They probably have a wonderful life together, but yawl saying leave him without a second thought. Obviously they had this conversation and she did it anyways for views. If you're going to do this for for views, you need to be yell at. Guess what, ppl argue and fight in relationships. That's normal. If you cannot deal with an argument, stay single forever.
That poor girl the sadness on her face when he said that the wig was better..
Also he is dead wrong i think the pink suits her it looks so cute
I agree. The color suits her well.
That's your opinion
RIGHT??? She looks adorable! And obv if she likes it on her that should be the only valid opinion
@@Rye-Bread04whether you all want to deny it or not physical attraction is as necessary as everything else.
If the guy I was seeing was blonde and came home with pink or blue hair I'd leave I'm not attracted to that.
Even the ugly mullets and heavy 70s staches their trying to bring back I'd leave.
@@CanDeeMarie I'm sorry but you would leave a relationship of (possibly) several years with someone you love... over hair colour? Something that isn't permanent and will eventually fade and go back to normal in the span of, what, half a year? Are you so shallow that one modification to appearance would kill all the love you have for someone?
I'm sorry, but if appearance is THAT important to you that a change in hair colour is enough to end a relationship, you shouldn't be in a relationship because you're too immature. This is something I'd only expect to see from three different types of people: high-schoolers, Andrew Taint lovers, and incels. My hope is that you're some kid who will eventually learn that people are *so much more* than what is on the outside
Seeing her expression change so quickly makes my heart sink omg- She seems so nice & fun she deserves better :((
“So nice and fun” she’s feeding the flame too, she literally dyed her hair a color she knew he didn’t like to get his reaction, she’s no better than him
@@Ace_D_Donut Literally shut up. Women do NOT have to dress a certain way to please a man. If he doesn't like the color he should voice it in a way that wasn't rude and blatantly disrespectful.
@@arandomuser7184the problem is she knew he didn't like it and did it to get a reaction on film, and then posted that online. She literally is just putting him on blast instead of communicating or breaking up. He is awful, do not get me wrong, but she isn't better.
@@arandomuser7184 I feel sorry for anyone you have a relationship with. Wanting to please your partner is a foundational block to a happy life and a fulfilling pair bonding.
Thinking that everyone else in the world is there to please you and you don't have to conform to social norms is child-think
@@ozbelltemp🚩🚩🚩for you and him.
It’s her hair and her head. It’s weird to hate the color pink. She gave him a chance to be kind and tactful and instead he was controlling, mean, and bullying. Trying to manipulate someone you supposedly care about to conform to your narrow fashion standards is weird and I hope she dumped him. He should get counseling.
That “man” better no longer be HER “man” cause she deserves way better and her pink hair looked absolutely stunning!! 🤩
THE FACE SHE MAKES WHEN HE SAYS ITS EVEN WORSE… I FEEL SO BAD FOR HER SHES SO PRETTY TOO SHE DESERVES SM BETTER
True, but they had just BOTH agreed that the wig, of the exact same colour, looks gross, so why was she surprised???
@@michelleobrien6996I guess she initially took it as him saying the wig was awful. Because it’s obviously a wig and she didn’t style it and it was messy. So it did look bad 🤷♀️but her actual hair looks fine and fits her.
Calm down omg- she's s grown fucking woman who can make her own choices. If she wants to stay with him, then let her.
@boredombear4237 The real thing is she KNEW he didn't like it and yet she did it just because he didn't like it. She is narcissistic, and he is being honest. She better pay for it in full and not expect a dime for any hair treatments.
@MYSTERYBLACKROSE It doesn't matter if she knew of not. It's her hair. If she wants to dye her hair, she has every right to. He has no right to control what his partner does just because it doesn't fit his preference. He needs a reality check.
Loudly aggressively singing Hall and Oates is the LAST thing I expected from this guy
😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Those words can kill self confidence/ self esteem so fast. She will hold that against you for longer than you will think
And do you don't think he won't hold it against her that she intentionally did something she knew that he would hate just for social media content?
This is some of the most manipulative, victim begging bullshit I have seen in a while.
@@decwowHow do you know she did it just for internet content, and even if she did, what if she did really want pink hair and did it and just didn't post about it, how do you know he wouldn't respond exactly the same if the cameras weren't rolling? This is dumb, it's HER hair, not his but HER'S, she does not and should not need his permission or approval to die her hair, the way you're phrasing this makes it sound like she's his property or something, like he has ANY right to dictate what she does with her appearance, when he fucking doesn't, what if he grew out his facial hair and she responded the way that he did to her, he'd be so upset and hurt, as he should, people should be allowed to do whatever they want with their image in order to feel confident and they shouldn't be shamed for it by people who have no say, and anyway, even if he really does hate it he certainly doesn't have to be such a dick about it, this is a horrible way to treat ANYBODY, let alone your own partner, you're both terrible ...
@@decwowIt's a hair color. On her own body. His reaction is out of order and childish. He's a grown man that "hates" a color and would berate her for it? Are you joking that this is in any way justifiable.
*yawn* here we go with this “its her body” bullshit as if women haven’t left their male partners for things they do with their bodies and you all champion that shit.
Yes 100%! I was in an emotional abusive relationship and heard things like this all the time. It made me so insecure, depressed, and paranoid of being cheated on. It really affects you.
My heart ♥️ literally broke for her when he said “it looks even worse!!” You could tell from her facial expression & body language that she was really HURT by his REACTION!! Lady RUN RUN RUN!!
btw you 👀 absolutely stunning 😍 w your PINK hair…it suits you very well & you pull it off beautifully!!!!
I think she looks adorable with that hair to be honest and with that giggle of excitement it's SO clear that she loves it
But knew he would hate it and filmed him for all the world. Reverse this and say the same? Cmon
It doesn't matter what SHE likes. She represents HIM. Pink hair portrays negative traits, which reflects on him.
@@chesterdamolester6990 I can't tell it your serious or not
@@-jupiter.coyote-think about it
She loved irritating him more than the hair color.
I’m a hairstylist. That color is stunning on her, her skin is glowing. He’s crazy 😢
as a hairstylist you should know that her roots are grown out and this is obviously fake 😭 they look to be atleast a month grown out and her husband would of seen it before this
@@junior2563aj i hope it was fake, because if it's isn't then the other possibility would be heartbreaking :")
@@Noblesse_Sapphireyes it would be very sad but i highly doubt it i dye my hair and the way her roots are grown out shows that she has had it for atleast one month , but there's always a possibility that this isn't fake 😢
Not necessarily. I tell my stylist to level my roots alone. Ik its awful but i kinda like the lil grown out look 🫣
@@CLAIRE-_-. Yes but when you get an unatural color you do it to the root not grown out, they don't blend color to root, and it looks grown out it does not look intentional
Aw, but she looks so pretty with pastel pink hair 🥺 if you want to dye/cut YOUR hair, do it. Dont let anyone tell you what to do with YOUR body. That lady deserves so much better, she looks like a sweetheart.
If it washes her out like he claims, self tanner exists. What's he gonna do about his ugly?
No, that hair does not look good.
She has no respect for him. She knew how he was going to feel about it & did it anyway. The way she presents herself reflects on him, & visa versa
If this is legit, she needs to re-evaluate.
@@REPUBLIC-1776if you need to control someone's hair color to feel respected, you are the problem.
It literally says he "hates" and it does wash her complexion out. She can dye it any color she wants but that man is under no expectation to like it. Ragebait!
Some people need to pick their battles. It is just hair and it belongs to her. She doesn't love you any less. However, this really sounds like he has issues with what others might think. To me, it looks good. It's fun and freeing. Let her have some fun!💖
SHES SO BEAUTIFUL WITH THE PINK HAIR😭
I hope she finds someone who enjoys her vibrant personality as much as she does because this is so sad and painful to see someone being torn down for what they love😭😭👉🏼
Yes!! Exactly this!! That woman needs a man who will love her for living her life the way she wants to live it!
She's too pretty for that loser.
@@AuDHD_Mom exactly 💯 a color won't hurt anyone it'd most likely come out anyway 🤷♂️
So if you hate dick and then bring a woman home that pulls out a dick would you not be mad? It's not a joke. She chose pink because she knew it would piss him off. That in itself is a red flag. But nope. Let's judge him for having likes and dislikes. I guess everyone is perfect. Lol
prolly till somebody hands them the next script.
Her hair was so cute and I loved it, honestly that’s the biggest red flag I ever saw
ikr hes such a asshole
Lol Ya, huge red flag. He should hold himself to his own standards, like that spotty bear is not hiding his double chins. Bro is no prize.
Its not cute. It really doesn't look at that good. She did this specifically to illicit a reaction and record it.
@@yureicomplicake8303 it’s super cute idk what you’re on 💀
@@yureicomplicake8303 That's your opinion. And even if she did it to get a reaction out of him, the way he acted was definitely a red flag, and he probably would've reacted that way off camera too.
The color is both nice and flattering, the wig was a good way to get a sense of how he would instinctively respond, and taking it off was a fantastic way of seeing how much of a jerk he would be after enough time to think things over a bit.
i hope the next step of the girly in the video is figuring a way out, there's literally no reason for being such an a*s and purposely hurting the other person, she deserves better
@@marunekochannel
Imagine telling your partner in earnest that you'd hate it. And then your partner does it, for a reaction. Your wishes in the relationship are a joke to your partner, yet he's the bad guy.
I wish you and your 'girlies' reap what y'all sow.
I mean that was kind of stupid because now she knows he absolutely hates it but she's stuck with the pink hair. If she would have used a pink wig before she dyed her hair to gauge his reaction that would have made a lot more sense.
@saberrider3659 exactly and I'm assuming she knows this man and the way he reacts to things he hates so she can't exactly act her and play the victim after she did this on purpose to get a reaction. I mean literally what else did she expect? Plus how are you going to dye your hair pink first and then use the wig to gauge his reaction? Like hello dummy use the wig first and then dye your hair if he likes it. Because now you're stuck with it knowing he hates it also he's right, it does make her look washed out, it's not a good color / shade for her skin tone.
Personally, I hate pink and my partner knows this. BUT... If he dyed his hair pink, I'd have questions, not insults.
I think the difference here is that, instead of asking her why, or having a conversation, he chose to insult her and tell her she looked awful. If my partner did this, I would say something like "I'm not a fan of the colour, as you know, but it's your hair on your body. If it makes you happy, then I'm happy". When you love someone more than you dislike a colour, that should kinda be your response... Would I tease him? Probably, but only in the way that we tease each other day-to-day - not in a cruel or nasty way.
If my partner ever looked at me with a face as crestfallen as she had, I would be heartbroken and wouldn't care less about the colour of his hair.
the pink genuinely looks so good on her tho 😭
Bro she’s sooooooo PRETTY she can definitely do better she seems like a genuine person to
Edit: YALL are taking it to seriously it just a comment 😭
It's staged but he has autism it's obvious
A genuine person at least communicates. And doesn’t go out of their way to do something they know their partner won’t like.
Should he have said it looks worse? No, but bro looks so done like she’s done it before.
@@RyanMK666Exactly. She is desperately trying to annoy him!
@@RyanMK666 who cares what colour your partner's hair is? sounds like something a sissy control freak would be upset by
@@johanna_naBro it’s her head. I don’t think he should get to dictate what she does on HER head. If he doesn’t like pink, he shouldn’t dye his hair pink. Why does he have a problem with what another living breathing separate human being chooses to do on her head of hair?
She's gorgeous 🧜♀️The energy he puts in to make sure she feels the absolute shittiest she could feel is GROSS
The more confident she feels the more likely she is to figure out she can do better.
I mean to be fair, it literally says she died her hair his LEAST favorite color. Idk what reaction she was expecting
The energy she put into dying her hair a color she knew he wouldn’t like it just for clicks. Weird world
@@illiji915 do you know what manners are? Just because someone is your partner doesn’t mean you have a pass to be mean and rude. If they do something you don’t like to their body, you remain polite and deal with your own feelings like an adult. If you can’t handle it, you either never actually loved them for them or you are way too immature for a relationship.
@@illiji915 I also demean and demoralize my partner as harshly as I can when they do something thats not in my personal favorite interests.
Like when my partner prefers tacos for dinner over hamburgers, I just make em feel like absolute shit, thats perfectly normal, right? Because its not my personal favorite. Fuck anyone that isnt exactly like me.
That color is so pretty on her!! It brings out the pink undertones in her face and makes her cheeks look blushy and cute.
The fact its actually GORGEOUS and suits her SO WELL- man is the definition of a red flag 🚩
The singing while stressed, jumpkicks, and becoming one with the burrito/taquito roll (flag) is something I now know I cannot love without. These laughs are essential to my well being. 😂. Thanks Dustin. 🙏🏼
I honestly don't know how he does it That's a lot of energy he uses.
I love that he chooses Hall and Oates. Usually the same song, but still!❤❤❤
That colour looks stunning on her skin tone!!
Regardless if it looked bad or not, if she like it that’s all that should matter!
No. The other person must look at it. The spouse is a reflection tion of the couple. If he wanted a pink haired lady...he would have dated/married one.
I've tried colors I wan't real pleased with afterward, so I tried something else. If I liked it, I'd be offended. It is not YOUR hair. It is not YOUR style. This body does not belong to YOU.
If it was all about what she likes, she wouldn't have put on this show for him to get a compliment. Also, she captioned that she already knew he hated this color, and then looks shocked he doesn't like it on her. Idk what she was expecting.
@@ritapearl-im3wv what if he had bought like a dozen of tshirts of a color SHE hates? unironically the hair color would go away faster than the tshirts would get old
No
Being in a relationship with someone does not mean they are your property. Being single is underrated.
Also doesn't mean the other person has to be your emotional dildo by telling you every decision you make is correct.
She KNEW he hated that color but she just had to do it, for CLICKS.
@amyqb117 There's a video on Megan & Jack's channel where Megan called Jack and told him that she'd dyed her hair orange (she has curly hair that would have looked like Annie from that theatre play), and when she got home Jack had a fake smile plastered on his face ready to support her choice and tell her it looked great.
She was joking ofcourse, but you could tell he was ready to cheer his wife on whether he liked it or not, and he was relieved that he didn't have to do the whole act of pretending it was nice,which he was definitely going to do.
@@Rambutan. and still so what? Not everyone has to PRETEND to like what they do not like from their partner especially when they have made it known and their partner INTENTIONALLY does it. All while filming it for clicks. If she has a problem with her partner not liking the hair color, why not leave rather than go ahead doing what you are SURE will get a negative reaction, then share it with the world.
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Well her plan worked, here we are talking about them.
@@AstronomyGuru84 and still so what? Not everyone has to PRETEND to like what they do not like from their partner especially when they have made it known and their partner INTENTIONALLY does it. All while filming it for clicks. If she has a problem with her partner not liking the hair color, why not leave rather than go ahead doing what you are SURE will get such a reaction, then share it with the world.
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Well her plan worked, here we are talking about them.
He's serving the sassiest energy, you would have thought that was a hairstylist and not her husband.
The moment he calls me "idiot" even joking, DONE
i can maybe handle idiot as long as it as a joke, it can even sound affectionate and i have used it that way too, but it depends on the dynamic and what everyone is comfortable with. now, a curse word, absolutely not lmao. and, in seriousness, 'idiot' would be equally bad as any vulgar namecalling. i support you, girl. standards are so so important!! 💓
depends on the context 😂😂😂😂 idiot could be looving or disrespectful
This here kids, is what we call “Overreacting”! It’s when someone responds more emotionally or forcibly than is justified. A good way to use the word “overreacting” or “overreact” in a sentence is; “we urge people not to overreact to the situation.”
I wouldn't even get there, DONE would be the moment I saw her hair.
@@nasfoda_gamerbrbigproducti5375 eyeless jack... idc if you're not into dyed hair. please, take my kidney.
The audacity. "Have you seen a mirror". Sir, have you?
I was thinking the same thing.
#mirrorsformen
Hypothesis: He knows that she's way out of his league (I try not to judge usually but his personality is clearly awful, so what exactly is he bringing to this table?) - he cuts her down constantly so her self-esteem suffers and she's less likely to realize how much better she could do if she left him.
100% correct....i agree😊@@caitlinstone3113
@@caitlinstone3113 this! Everything about her seems to be a problem in his eyes. Skin too pale, hair ugly, how dare she does what she wants? That guy needs to move on if he hates her that much. Girl deserves someone normal.
The stress singing 😂
All jokes aside, I feel awful for that poor girl.
I feel sorry for him honestly. He didn't react well but she knows he hates that color and she dyed it anyway without telling him. He deserves to be angry tbh
Why? She’s choosing to stay AND she’s only recording because she knows what the reaction will be
@@hal629-um1hgit’s her fuccing hair, you can’t be serious. She doesn’t need permission to change something on her body. Weirdo 😂
@@hal629-um1hgwhy does he deserve to be angry? Please explain this to me, because I have no idea where you get that idea from.
She has at least a couple weeks of growth. He's seen her hair before this video.
I think she looks gorgeous, period! I love the colour! I also think she would look beautiful no matter what, including bald or with a mohawk of any colour.
The fact that the color actually looks so good on her....😢
And what does he mean it makes her skin look pale?? She’s white-skinned, I’m not sure if he knows this but the skin is naturally “pale” and that how she is suppose to look, and there are people with even paler skin. She chose a hair color that actually compliments her skin beautifully, she should break up with him and find someone who actually loves her
She's way out of his league. She can do better. 😍 Stunning hair colour by the way ❤
Agreed. Putting others down is clearly his defense mechanism.
No it isn't
He's NEGGING HER!!!!!
@Ami-ml7gp not defense, strategy to keep her self esteem level LOW, so she doesn't leave him!!!
@@AlissaSss23My exact thought they try to humble women that are out of their league so they stick around but don‘t realize they just make the woman despise them and leave
Hes truly gonna extinguish that adorable flame. What a wretched way to act.
What the fuck do you mean its her fault
Yeah, so adorable when you do something you KNOW your partner doesn't like just to see their reaction and broadcast it so you can make them look bad and you can get your victim sympathy point. Yeah, so cute.
there is no excuse to act like that about someone making a choice like dyeing their hair @@bideny2
@@bideny2?? it’s literally HER hair on HER body. it’s HER bodily auonomy, she wasn’t even cheating on him or ANYTHING close to it. she literally just DYED HER HAIR. imagine being this loud AND wrong
@@bideny2because she thought it would be funny and lighthearted, not because she wanted to hurt him or something.
This is so sad. She is beautiful and the colour suits her so much.
The stressed singing is me literally my brain whenever I'm stressed over anything important lol ❤😂
Some men are out here acting like a strict dad instead of a partner
Which is ironic because they want their girlfriends to act like their mommy
No he just wants to control something. Any man that feels anything for a woman he likes we'll be honest but say it in a nice way but most of the time the guy is going to like whatever the woman's hair color is if he has feelings for her. Guys like this is why the divorce rate is so high and women. They settle for people thinking that they're never going to find someone else and then they create little gremlins just like their self. Can I get divorced and the recycle repeats itself all over again through the children.
Some partners are acting like narcissistic children, too. Relationships work both ways. When you know something really bothers your partner, setting up a camera and filming their reaction to put it on the internet only serves to destroy the relationship.
She intentionally set him up and then broadcast it to the world and yet he's the bad guy.
@@Papahof960yes he is the bad guy. So are you lol. It is not reasonable to be angry at someone's choice with their body.
@@Velvet-Of-Erion internationally gas lighting you're partner is horrible. Women today constantly state they want men who communicate, this guy did, long before the video was recorded. That's how she knew he would hate it. She did this for a reaction more than a desire to feel pretty. Thats the issue I have with this.
As for me being horrible, I don't care what some stranger on the internet thinks of me based of a one paragraph statement about the poor life choices people post on the internet to get likes.
pink is probably my least favorite color too but for him to be so mean about it broke my heart, she looks absolutely adorable!
Especially with how well a color stripping treatment and toner can be used to remove the pink in a couple of weeks if she so chooses.
@@theamazingchris90 right? and it's so light, it probably won't take long to fade! everyone should be able to do what they want with their hair, this guy is just an ass🙄
If shes never done a color he might be worried jealous other guys will like it
@@drewhempwood2113 So, he insults her? I guess it'll solve his jealousy when she dumps his ass. You can say you don't fancy it without insulting her.
@@thedarkestkinghtstar I know, he's a total doosh, I'm just saying where the feelings are coming from and why someone would react like this. It usually isn't as simple as, "oh this person just likes making her feel bad " or "oh he truly doesn't like the color pink this much."
Every man as well as every person typically in anger is just lashing out bc of other emotions. So just explaining one of those that no one would probably think of lol
She's so beautiful, I think he does that to make her feel insecure because he might be insecure himself. How mean.
The way she actually looks cute?? Like personally I think it really suits her wtf😭
Id say he is just embarrased to be seen with her now. Like taken her to the mothers house will be awkard cause of the stupid pink hair. Taken her anywhere really because she looks like a clown.
Also it means she is away with it, into fem or lesbo stuff so its all gross red flags.
She looks absolutely stunning. It hurts to know that there are so many people out there doing what he is and treating others like this.
She legit looks cute and the color with the style really brought out her eyes. I'd think think twice about staying with someone that's so bluntly negative about your appearance like that.
he liked her the way she was. and she knew he hated pink hair. if you decide to something to you appearance that you know for a fact your partner hates you dont get to be upset if they hate it and tell you so. relationships are about honesty. if you cant be honest with your partner then you should end the relationship
"Haha funny now I can't look at you and cherish your beauty because you like ruining it. Intentionally. In the worst way possible with the color I can't enjoy looking at."
Man, people with self sabotaging issues are dumb, and those who try to justify it because they can't use their brain to put themselves in the same scenario are extremely annoying. You will never be able to sympathize with people honestly and you will often choose the wrong sides in arguments because what you see is yourself and not the people who argue. Very self centered and selfish.
And when the roles are reversed ... everyone would blast him for not being considered of her ... he is allowed to state his opinion.
It doesnt matter if you think she looks good. You arent her partner. He actual partner, the one whos opinion actually matters, has seemingly already voiced that he disliked it. She did it anyway...for internet clout.
She diregards his requests, his feelings, and does whatever she wants and then puts it on the internet. But yeahh....hes the red flag.
pink makes you look pale and boring
Bro but the pink hair actually suits her so nicely, she looks gorgeous with it
Dude...the way her smile fell. Pink is literally my favorite color and she looks absolutely adorable...why are people like this??
Do you actually think this is real? Her smile fell cause she's a shit actor
Probably bc she deliberately dyed her hair a color she knows he hates. Like what? Maybe he overreacted but he has every right to be upset.
@@monkeywithacomputer1349what is the right to be upset he has over her body, exactly? she didnt dye his hair pink, and shes not his property.
@@monkeywithacomputer1349frrr
@monkeywithacomputer1349 if she can't express herself by just dying her hair a color that she wants all cause her Man doesn't like said color....then she needs to not be with him. He literally said the wig look better. Like???? Thst cannot be overlooked here.
He just has aggressively bad taste, she looks beautiful
Yesss even if i didn’t like it, I'd support her. Everyone is pretty no matter their hair color ❤
He can be honest
She looks so pretty with the pink hair and bangs tho, I hope she found someone else who would rather support her than insult her 😢
I hope he finds someone who respects his feelings too. If she is willing to knowingly do something he hates, then she likely would do it other times as well for other things. It's not ablut the hair, it's the disrespect she shows towards his feelings.
@@HalcyonVoid changing your appearance in a way your partner doesn't like isn't disrespecting them. What the actual hell is wrong with you.
I vaguely see where you're coming from, because intentionally doing anything to upset your partner on purpose is disrespectful, but if I genuinely want my hair pink my hair will be pink. That's not my partners choice, and it's not disrespectful that our taste doesn't align.
I can do whatever I want with my hair, even if I know my partner doesn't like it, and vice versa.
I don't like some of my partners outfits, sometimes they're a fashion style I'm not personally in love with. I still love my partner and don't insult them for dressing in a way I dislike. I love them and I'm happy they are comfortable with who they are and don't need my approval to be themselves, they know I love them, I just don't adore some of their outfits. And I have outfits they don't love too! You don't have to be your partners perfect build-a-bear, it's not disrespectful, even if you know they don't like it.
My partner may dislike my Kingdom Hearts t-shirt that's holding onto its life by a thread and barely has a design on it anymore, but I LOVE that shirt and it's not disrespectful to them when I wear it.
@@HalcyonVoidit’s her body. She can dye her hair whatever color she wants, that’s not disrespect, that’s doing what she wants with her body.
@@HalcyonVoidit’s her hair she can dye her own hair
@TamuTamuOnigiri it is absolutely her hair and her choice. That isn't the issue. It's the lack of respect for the guy that she thought it was funny to surprise him with something she KNEW he didn't like. If she went to him and said, "I'm going to due my hair, I know you don't like it, but it's what I want," then there is no issue. But she didn't. She did it, knowing it would upset him and made a joke out of it. She is the asshole for doing that.
My girlfriend hates lavender smelling things. Should I do a "prank" on her and spray all my clothes with lavender scent? Started using lavender shampoo? All knowing she hated it. Wouldn't that make me a kinda shitty person? To disrespect her feelings and do something she hates to mess with her? Wouldn't it make me an asshole to then try and play victim when they inevitably don't like it?
She can do what she wants, but to directly mess with the guy like that is scummy behavior.
I love that you simultaneously make money from content while also getting a workout and sunlight ❤❤❤
I feel so bad, the way she looked at him when the wig looked better broke me heart
it's called 'acting'. ragebait video; them roots are old.
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He was awful, but she’s no catch either. Purposely setting this up and recording it is pretty crappy, too. I think she should be able to do whatever she wants with her body, but I personally would not color my hair a color my husband absolutely hated. And if I did, I wouldn’t record his reaction and post it for the entire Intern to see.
The way her confidence DROPPED. He does NOT deserve her.
She dyed her hair a color she knew he didn’t like, how does that make her less responsible for the outcome?
@@txth6051he didn't have to react like that though
@@txth6051 who CARES, it's not his head and his reaction is DISGUSTING!! That man doesn't deserve a woman that respects him, he CLEARLY doesn't respect her. It's HER hair. Don't get me wrong, knowing how much he hates pink and then dying her hair that color is a HUGE red flag as well... BUT his reaction was TRULY toxic. A real man, I repeat REAL man doesn't care about dumb sht like hair color, and he needs to get to the gym and address his appearance before he attacks a woman WAY too good for him before he attacks her appearance.
PERIODT!!!
@@txth6051 I don’t like country music. Doesn’t mean I’m gonna go off like an asshole to someone who does.
@@txth6051 she didnt. She pretended to. But if u r with someone their hair color shouldnt matter to you at all. What matters to you is that they feel happy, & confident. No matter what my husband looks like, (& hes had a lot of different styles and looks over the last 10 years) i always think he looks good. Telling your partner they look terrible in a million different ways in under a minute is hurtful, & if u care about them, hurting them in any way will never cross your mind. But you'll never have that, & u will always treat relationships like a power struggle. Your immediate jump to blame shifting is super telling. I hope you arent interested in having a long term healthy relationship, bc with that attitude it just isnt gonna happen for you.
I love it when my girl dyes her hair a new color. It's fun and she gets to make new outfits around it and I enjoy seeing her smile coordinating her newest color schemes.
It’s not “a new color”, it’s a color she 100% knows he doesn’t like. So what exactly was she expecting?
@@amyqb117if she likes the colour it shouldn’t matter, grown adults shouldn’t have tantrums over hair colour 🙄
@@elimcdude8499 grown adults shouldn’t be posting on the internet to get attention yet here we are. And here you are encouraging it. Clearly you have no idea what “grown adults” do.
@@amyqb117I was scrolling to see if someone else said it. I mean I do feel sorry for her but it literally says “dying my hair a color he hates” …
You sound like a very sweet and wholesome person, and I think she is lucky to have you 😊
My bf is also very supportive of whatever I rock. I’m goth, so I just keep my hair black! But I always ask his opinion on the dresses and accessories I buy, he doesn’t care what I get as long as it makes me happy. Sometimes he’ll even pitch in to help me buy em!
She's beautiful and I think her hair is really cute.
It’s adorable. Why don’t we focus on his flaws for a second?
Because this is a short…lol
Forget him. She should just walk away and find someone who appreciates her while he finishes growing up.
Hahaha. Not enough time 😅😅
Like how he’s a giant asshole…
@@timberwolfdtproductions3890it's not okay to express displeasure in your partners actions or decisions now?
I hope she finds someone who appreciates her beauty. She looked great with pink hair, and that was heartbreaking to watch.
nah, she played a stupid game and got the prize she deserved. Pink hair? is she still in high school? I can give you 100% that the man in this video loves this woman completely, she is his heart.
When given the choice to Lie to his lady or to tell her the absolute truth, this man gave her the absolute truth. That's a mans testament to true love, he will be honest with you.
Men will lie to any easy slut if that makes her knees spread wide. My guy here is being 100% honest and noble for his woman and her childish hair prank *because* he loves her.
Agreed!
Amen.
I know right! Look at the state of HIM 🤮 The pink looks gorgeous. That big lump has no idea how lucky he is to even have 10 minutes of her time. He would crack a mirror 😂
She likely already did that's what happens that cause people to dye their hair pink. If she's not already cheating she definitely has someone in mind
pink literally looks adorable on her tho 😭😭😭
It doesn't but he was mean about it. Whether he suits her or not he should be accepting of whatever hairdo she wants to have. Sad to watch. Poor girl.
@@leesteal4458 agreed, all his points while technically correct were delivered heartlessly.
@@leesteal4458lmao your opinion is falso I’m sorry 👀
@@HadrianGuardiolaso so wrong 😂
@@O_Ciel_Phant0mhiveopinions can’t be false. Pink is a horrible color on anybody.
The aggressive Hall and Oates is something I never knew I needed😂
Oh god you can see how shocked she was that he was genuinely being mean. Like she thought it would he a cute video of him pretending to like her new haircut-even though he obviously hates it-and it just wasn’t. She’s realizing that her boyfriend isn’t just “not afraid to go there”. He’s actively cruel.
Literally. My heart dropped
He wasn't being mean. He was being honest. She did something KNOWING he would hate it...what other response should she have expected?
Maybe try reversing the parts. Him doing something specifically because she hates it and see THAT reaction.. like freaking seriously.
@@GalganohsYes, but being honest doesn't have to be rude, you can be honest without being mean. On top of this, consider that's her body, she's allowed to do what she wants with her hair, clothes... Ect. Any partner that would insult their partners look (that's what he did) is not a good partner. If she didn't like him with a beard, and he grew a beard, she has no say, it's his body, but everyone would be up in arms if she asked him to shave it. A good way to communicate with a partner would be:
"Do you like it?"
"It's not something I particularly like, but do you like it?"
"Yes I like it."
"Then I'm glad you did it, because I want you to be happy and feel pretty!"
That's a good way to communicate that. Using insults or cruel words, isn't necessary, or kind. You can honestly express a dislike without putting someone down. He seems the type to put his girlfriend down so she has low self esteem and stays with him.
She deserves better in my opinion.
@@Galganohs There's a difference between being honest and being a jerk about it. Honesty is "I don't like it."
Not "I like the wig I called a rats nest better. You look even worse."
Yeah but it's hair. Not worth hurting the feelings of someone you love.@ruthgalgano111
Shes too beautiful for him and his behavior!!!
The way her smile just…faded..absolutely heart wrenching, she needs to dump his pathetic ass
She literally says "dying me hair a color he hates" so she knew he hated it and did it anyway...do what you like but why act surprised...???
@@Scheherazade-wq1ve are you serious rn or is this rage bait
@Scheherazade-wq1ve it's her hair, not his
It’s so immature to suggest such an extreme over HAIR that she KNEW he’d hate.
@@ColdCreekB and so what if he doesnt like it, it's her hair and she'll do what she wants his reaction is what is worth dumping over, what's extreme is being this mad someone did what they wanted with their own body
She looks so pretty❤
I will never get men criticizing their female partner's look, while looking so average and neglecting their whole body.
Haha for real, right??
Fair criticism, but if she does love him and he has made it clear what would turn him away, and they are in a loving relationship full of communication. Then it's different
@@beaub152a hair color turn him away?😂 better off find someone who wears a color that turns him on😂
@@beaub152 Being turned away by a hair color is pretty superficial, no matter how you slice it. No one I've been in a serious relationship with has ever told me what to do with my own hair.
@@jfm14Yeah, but I wouldn’t want to date a woman with rainbow hair, just my opinion.
Girl, he doesnt deserve you. You're beautiful and your hair looks great.
Oh boohoo, she did something she knows he hates and expected him to like it. Big surprise.
@@Sanguiris he literally called her ugly. Even if he hates this color, how can he be so rude to her? He's so aggressive, he speaks with pure hate, is that love? And how could anyone hate a COLOUR so much that they would literally yell at their partner because of it?
@@ichhoreeinfachmisikunddont1765 Imma be honest, i'm on his side, the hair looks like sh**
@@Sanguiris What he likes/dislikes, does not dictate what she should or shouldn't do with her hair. That's stupid fucking thinking.
And I don't think she expected him to like it, but she probably expected at least a modicum of human decency. Given how they are supposed to care for eachother.
He's aggressive, and rude. Not to mention overdramatic. If my s/o dyed their hair a colour I wasn't fond of, I would either learn to like it, or just leave it be, as it doesn't affect me negatively in any way. Because that's just what you do when you actually care for someone.
@@Chromalisk_then don't get mad when he speaks his mind didn't hear him say change that ugly hair color he called it ugly.
Which she knew.
.so no surprise.
She expected the white knight to come out and be like ahh it's cute on you babe.
No
her confidence was shattered that horrible man. That woman is gorgeous especially with her lovely pink hair.
that color actually looks so good on her!!! instead he should avoid looking in the mirror because he might scare himself off
Stressed singing describes almost every second of my life
I literally just shaved my head and when my husband saw all he could say was that he loved it and I looked beautiful. I hope she finds someone that loves her unconditionally.
Sooooo she should be with someone who lies to her face instead of being honest? He could have worded what he said in a nicer manner, but she KNEW he was going to hate it and she did it anyway and then filmed and posted his response. She's problematic as well.
that's great 😊 people miss the point that when you actually love someone you see them being adorable and happy and you support the choices that make them happy ✨
@@user-jv5pp8pv9lhow old are you?
I hope he finds someone who when they know he hates a color, they don't paint themselves in that color
@@user-jv5pp8pv9l It's one thing to be honest, but another to be mean. A simple "I'm happy you're happy", or joke like, "nooo, not the real pink hair!" vs. "it looks bad!" really changes the tone. Nobody wants to be with someone who brings them down over their own choices. If blunt honesty "it looks bad!" doesn't bring you down, that's fine, but most people don't enjoy it. If communication is the key to relationships, theirs wasn't fitting.
The moment she realized that her husband was not joking was just so hurtful.
Might have started a war... Sorry.
Well the moment she knew he didn't like the color and went ahead and put it on her head is something you are not willing to address? Stop traumatizing people
@@caronamala438most people would go ok not the colour I would have chosen but it's your hair and your choice.
It's hair the colour will fade out or grow out. It can be changed.
If the guy gets triggered over a little thing as this.
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
@@caronamala438 Yeah... meanwhile, people are out here being beaten, assaulted, locked in cages, forced to eat dirty diapers but OMG, pink hair is out here TRAUMATIZING people.
Stop TRAUMATIZING people? For dying your hair? Are you flocking serious? Trauma is a real thing that causes people to barely be able to function as people some days. It's an absolute snot rocket to the eye to sit there and say this man was TRAUMATIZED over his wife's pink hair. Y'all are so over the top dramatic these days and if people changing their hair is traumatizing Y'all, just go ahead and rip out your eyes for your own peace of mind because holy 💩 People change their hair CONSTANTLY. From cuts, styles to colors and everything in between. If that's traumatizing, maaaaaaan. Y'all are in for a seriously bad time.
I don't like country music, 💩 makes me want to shove pencils into my ears when I hear it, but you know what it doesn't do? Traumatize me. Just because you don't like something, doesn't mean you're forever traumatized because you have to face it in the real world. I don't have to run to my therapist every time a Garth Brooks song comes on the radio.
Pink actually looks good on her.