I’m Korean-American and I’m so glad to see Korean men and Black women finding each other. I’ve always been attracted to Black women but none were really in my orbit and I also didn’t think they were attracted to Asian men. There’s a disconnect and I would love to see it get bridged.
Oh wow!! You should definitely approach any black women you may be interested in because most of us are pretty open to Asian men especially Korean men. I know my friends and I talk a lot about dating dating Korean men one day.
I’m finally open to dating Asian men. I’m from New York and the Asian men here don’t like black women at all. A lot run the nail salons, hair stores and Chinese restaurants and are so mean. I saw a small shift when my Asian eye doctor was super nice to me he was from around my generation so I think the young ones are a bit more open minded than the old ones who are mean. Also, when I stayed in Georgia for a bit the Asian men seemed a bit more kind.
This is my friend! I must say they both compliment each other so well, you can see how balanced they are as a couple. Janae has her vibracy and such a bubbly personality, where Won is calm and chill. Plus, both of them are two of the sweetest people I've ever met. Thank you for this interview, and for showing more people what international couples' thoughts and lifestyle can be like!
She’s so cute n bubbly. Interracial marriage is nothing new- just haven’t been publicized in past and even hidden. I’m always glad to see couples who are happily married regardless of their background. The hubby seems so cool. It takes a real man to want to get married, have a family and take responsibility. I would love to see their wedding photos. They seem happy together.
Interesting there are many secrets and story that are never told. I was always told my great grandmother was part Native American but my ancestry DNA said otherwise. It turns out that my dad’s lineage included African and Western European linage. My dad’s fair skinned cousin during 1940s 1950s in Northern Alabama USA was a barber cutting white peoples hair which was not typical or even allowed in the town he resided.
Dude I like your interview style, not cheesy, corny or exaggerated. No faked emotions, Just businesslike and straight to the point. Good questions asked in a professional manner, and your dressing style is cool.
a lot of people tend to discourage Black women (people in general) from living abroad in terms of safety, etc., but this proves that everyone's experience can be different. they're so cute! and she's so sweeeeeettt lol
I like how there are more and more interviews of international couples in general and especially in homogeneous countries. That’s always interesting and for once they are not focused on the negative aspects of it. We’re all aware that they’re facing challenges so that’s refreshing to hear another point of view. And she looks really chill about it all and happy, good for them ^^ Great interview, thanks for your work!
Agree. I too am tired of Black and Asian rivalry constantly being put on the forefront of mainstream media. I always wanted to see more positive experiences like this.
@@coleslow5519ehh, I feel that's a bit of a wild accusation. While yeah, the questions asked are rather questionable, I feel he's more doing it out of naivety and curiosity other than malicious intent.
Aww Janae! I went to high-school with her and have been following her life in Korea on Instagram. She was always so cheerful and nice- I’m so glad to see her happiness ❤
I love how he sounds a bit African American when he speaks. I'm married to a White Frenchman...One day, he told me, "you trifflin'!" I laughed so hard!!!!
Black women date out! Don't believe what they tell you when they say you aren't desirable. Also this couple is so cute, many blessings to them and their families ❤
I love this! They seem like they are both each other's best friend as much as they are a married couple. Their vibe together makes for a very good combo for a couple to have. I wish them a happy life together!🥰
At this stage in my life, all I want is for someone to treat me with love, loyalty, faithfulness, and respect. Something that I thought I had, but I was heartbreakingly wrong. My only top criterion that must be met is that he has to share my faith. You can't be happy if the person you're with does not walk the same path.
As someone who is in an international/cultural couple, I cannot stress enough how important it is and how blessed they are to have families who were accepting and open minded to their partners. My in-laws are fantastic, but I know so many interracial couples whose families are hostile and make the couples lives miserable and treat the grandkids as less than. I wish them a lot of success and happiness
Experienced my first break up and he’s Korean. I def think his side received so much commentary and influence, it just didn’t work out. But idk if that was a cultural issue as much as it was just him not having a mind of his own. It really is important to date someone who has an opened minded community around than. I’d suggest if folks date interracially, get to know their community before releasing your heart to them
she mentioned a huge point about safety. i felt so free and safe in Korea. it was such a great experience. riding the train without fear. no fear of being a victim of a random shooting. just free
That’s how most Americans lived before the early 2000s. I am a Gen-Xer and life used to be good & SAFE in America too. The R wing gun nuts have ruined this country.
I think it helped that he lived in the US for 5 years so he is knows the US culture. I think it helps with the combining the family. Also that his sister is dating an American and his family is so welcoming. Really beautiful to see this.
Glad I listened for a while. I see she is military connected. It makes me wonder if he was as well. We had a large military base in Seoul and there are lots of Americans there. We actually have a few bases in Korea. I miss Korea!!!
Cute couple. I’m black and my long-term boyfriend is also Korean. We do get a lot of stares even in America lol. Most importantly is to find happiness with your partner, no matter what anyone else thinks.
Yeah a Korean guy with visible facial hair is like a diamond in the rough! Facial hair wins for me too! I wish it was more visible in the Korean mainstream
During Korea's Joseon Dynasty, every Korean men had facial hair.....it was actually taboo or weird not to have it. Modern day Korea of today, it's the opposite.
@@user-cnksi223 I am a K-drama addict. I have learned more and more about Korean culture and history. Korean history has opened my eyes to Asian culture. iI realize that we humans are more connected than we've been led to believe. Peace
This was beautiful and I am just like her, I live my life with rose colored glasses. I am aware of things but I don't let society get to me and how I live my life. And it shows when people meet me and even my friends now are shocked at how I get along with different people from different cultures, etc. I realize when you give people a chance, they are more likely to be nice and welcoming. Wishing this couple a successful and long marriage ❤
@@Givebackthescarfthisss!!! My first real crush in kindergarten was a white boy named Matthew he had blonde bowl stye cut and light blue eyes. I thought I was in love 😂😂😂
They are adorable, he seems very affectionate and protective over her, I can tell in a lot of his gestures towards her. And he beautiful smile beams and her eyes sparkle when she looks at him. Beautiful couple❤ congratulations Newlyweds
So glad to see interracial couple relationships! I am black and my husband is Hispanic, we have been happily married for 20 years we have 2 kids and we just click! We are both American, but sometimes it is still surprising for others to recognize us as a couple. When we go into places together people are very accepting, but they always seem to take a minute to place us "together", it's usually, oh....you're with her?.. or vice versa. I always think we came in together and are talking to each other... so, yeah we're together, "this is my husband". I understand you may not know we're married, but clearly, we are friends. Anyway, I am glad that you both have found each other and you don't focus on the little things that can come about from being in a non-typical relationship, I grew in a black area and always thought I would marry a black person, but after joining the military, I dated many different races and I realized you connect with who you connect with. It could be "black-love" "white-love", "brown-love", or "mixed-love", lol.
They have friends who commented on the video and said that they do balance out one another. They have said that she’s vibrant, sweet and bubbly and he’s more chill and laid back.
@@Msd4-13 My husband and I are the exact same way. He's more outgoing than I am. We've been married 13 years! Opposites do attract--we each bring something new to the table.
I love that they are both just open-minded happy people. Not thinking too hard... Life is fun when you are open to experiences without judgement. You can see that he really steps up for her too, so I love that she is protected!!
This was a very nice interview .This are is very sweet and you can tell that they're in love and they are best friends and they're gonna be there for each other and They are not worried about what anyone else thinks, I wish you many many days overflowing with so much love for each other, And blessings to have children ❤❤❤❤
@7:39 was truly a beautiful & refreshing thing for me to hear. It speaks as a testament to his love, care, protection & devotion to his wife that when she’s with him, there isn’t a thought or care in the world. She automatically knows & feels so safe when in his presence. That is a beautiful precious blessing that I hope to feel & have in my love life as well.
There’s a lot I can say about this clip, but as an Afro-Asian myself I faced many obstacles of displacement in my early youth; especially, in my case where I couldn’t pass for being an African-American kid. My facial features and hair texture were completely east-Asian oriented. I’m NOT knocking interracial couples, but there’s a lot to be aware of nowadays. If a black or white-American marries one another that’s different because they both come from the same American language and culture, well, for the most part. But the cultural and language barriers between black America and Korea are quite steep, and it’s the same between my two racial halves. Racial displacement is a societal mishap my parents would never have thought of as they weren’t the identity-crisis generation. Nowadays, societal norms are much different, but I would definitely say that cultural or identity crisis is a societal trigger that this young couple in the video clip will have to be aware of when they decide to start a family. Identity crisis has so many byproducts that can cause deviations and troubles in any family. Many young couples will UNDERESTIMATE the foregoing principle I just stated because they’re from a generation that promotes-JUST BE WHO YOU ARE. Unfortunately, they can only wish that SOCIETY will make it that simple for them. But the bottom line is that once any man or woman pledges love and commitment in marriage, then their worst adversary will become SOCIETY, and that’s even when the couple are the same race and ethnic group.
I’ve usually found that the kids with mothers that are black are usually more grounded and don’t suffer from identity crisis as much as kids with Asian or white mothers. I don’t feel like the language barrier is an issue with them, as they both spent time in America and he’s fluent in English. I do believe that she should continue and try her best to be fluent in Korean as it shows respect for her husbands culture and it’ll be great for when they have children.
@@Msd4-13 I would be an exception to the default that you gave as far as having a more concrete identity; my mother is the black parent. Although, from my experiences, whether the mother or father was the non-black parent didn’t make much of a difference in my time and generation growing up. As I previously posted, I couldn’t pass for being an African-American kid, and as a result, in order to bond with the black youth in my time, there was one prerequisite that had to be met, and that is you had to look a certain way that resembled their facial features, if not that, then at a bare minimum you had to be absorbent to their sub-cultural climate; those were standards or qualities that I didn’t meet. As a result, an identity crisis was right up at my doorstep. I assure you that I wasn’t the only bi-racial in my time going through such regardless of who the non-black or black parent was. Overall, it depends on the bi-racial’s life circumstances because environment plays a big part in one’s life. As far as different languages, I agree with you that if both are willing to learn each other’s native languages or have knowledge thereof, then that should help to create an even balance in their union, although, it’s NOT a universal guarantee. But that’s NOT what I was implying. The language barriers between Asian and black communities are very STEEP. The two racial communities are obviously NOT going to exchange or share racial identities, and the language differences will MAKE SURE of that, so, that in itself can place an Afro-Asian in a predicament that he or she is NOT going to like as well as contribute to an identity crisis. Why? Because he or she would have no choice but to keep the two worlds separate and apart from one another; the only exception would be in-laws on both of their parental sides, and I assure you that I was no exception. If I had tried to link the two communities of both my racial halves, one would feel infringed upon the other, and it would have been-Game On!!! The whole point to my original post was that an identity crisis can possibly be the result of a hostile racial environment which happens to many bi-racials such as myself. Sure, the African-American lady in the video clip can learn her husband’s language, but would her racial community be as receptive?!!! Think about it because the mother’s racial community would still be a large part of the child’s life, and it could go either way of being receptive or hostile. This goes back to what I originally stated that when a man or woman pledges love and commitment to one another, the wiles of SOCIETY will find its way into their lives as an adversary. My original post was speaking from a COMMUNITY standpoint because that’s what makes up ENVIRONMENT and NOT from an individual basis that you were alluding to. When an interracial couple has a child, what kind of ENVIRONMENT will that bi-racial child inherit, especially with two of their racial halves that are POLAR OPPOSITES?!!! Hope this helps for a clearer understanding.
They are cute and I wish them well. Honestly, the fact that both sets of parents are onboard and there really isn't a language gap really helps a lot. Best of luck to both of them in their journey. Great interview on your part as well!
Men stay saying they want basketball teams! SIR. You have the kids, then! Lol. - Also, shoutout to them! They're both very hot and very sweet and sound like they have an ideal romance. Wishing them the absolute best!
Nah I love that. It's not their fault they're not the ones that can have them, but I mean putting life in another person is pretty awesome when you think about it. But more on topic, I'm tired of hearing about the men that don't take care of their kids, but as their are many like that, there are just as many that want to sire a small nation lol. Some be wanting these bigass families with 7 kids running around and I'm like they better pop out twins n triplets or sum 😅 we finna pop out babies like how we like to carry groceries in the house
@@Givebackthescarfmen don’t consider how painful it is to birth children and what it permanently does to women’s bodies. I guess it’s easier for them to say because they ever have to experience any of it
Im in a relationship with someone who i love deeply, but the difference between this couple and us is that my parents have deeply impacted our relationship in many ways. Seeing this makes me happy for them. I wish the challenges i still face didnt have to be. The generation of immigrants have sort of a lost time period, where the parents didnt get to learn or see the changes in the world that has lead to something like what the guys parents are, more open minded, versus koreans who immigrated to the US in the 70’s,80’s even 90’s. Id say most were more so of the mindset that isnt open minded, i mean that in the most complicated way. Its so difficult. Stubbornness is ah forget it. Bless these two. This vid is awesome❤
They are a cute couple. The interviewer’s bias came out at times when he assumed Janae didn’t know anything about Korean culture before she arrived and he put too much emphasis on her being Black and assumed it was negative.
Interviewer probes for issues… Couple meets that with ALL Love. Rose Colored glasses give you clarity. Keep seeing your world through the lens of Love.
very eye-opening for me... this and the previous video with the firefighter couple... I always thought most of the Koreans were racist towards non-white, non-kyopo foreigners. It still may stand true, but it's really nice to know that I could be wrong.
He's Korean but he has Black American mannerisms. The deep voice and accent. His rocking back and forth. The calm demeanor, confident, steady eyes. I can see why she is attracted to him. He's what she is used to. They compliment each other very well.
Interviewer awesome ..love your style of communication with the people... nonthreatening and calm....great questions...keep it coming...also you let them talk😂😂😂
A beautiful couple both physically and amicablly. I wish I had their positive outlook on life. I'm Caribbean who has been living in New York for 30 years and confess that I'm not so pragmatic. My only suggestion is that a soccer team has 11 players. The world needs to be populated by people like you. Please remain the same.
I luv black women dating interracially and marrying interracially.. The relationships are so positive and they are putting a 💍. Congrats on your marriage.
I am a Boomer who started traveling about 40 years ago! It is delightful to see women of color out and about these days. Traveling being an African-American woman, I am accustomed to having people stare at me, wanting to touch my hair, or being surprised when I speak their language. It was a surprise when I realized that I felt safer and freer to be "me" abroad. I say "go folks"! Pursue your dreams, and be your best you! American racism/white supremacy/anti-black ideology is AMERICAN. In other cultures, you will learn what their color issues are and why. Yes, there is pain and oppression within other groups however, for POC/Americans it is a relief to leave the American racism behind. Peace
Anti-blackness is global. However, it might not cause us physical harm as a result in other countries. It ia also the only time Black Americans are treated as Americans.....and in many places that comes with the privilege of being treated with respect that we don't get at home.
They are adorable as hell; even my daughter said 'WOW! They are so cute', as she passed by. Good for them, they have good chemistry, and we wish them the best. We are black Americans, but mixed culture (Ghanaian, Jamaican & Cuban) and even that is a challenge...like oil and water... because at the end of the day my family is from different countries/cultures that think their way is the best way.
I think the great thing about this couple is the good attitude they both have. In addition to having decided to get to know other cultures and come from families with great values and not closed ones.
This is a wonderful thing to see. I was brought up to not limit my options. I think times are changing and people are busting out of the box and not limiting themselves anymore. As long as you are loyal, loving, respectful, and treat me like the precious jewel that I am (Biblically), I will treat you and love you the exact same way. The problem is, being 58, those options don't seem to be very abundant in my age range. I don't see many older Korean men being interested in Black women. Plus, where I live, there aren't a lot of Korean men. I've been single for 10 years (married 22), and the circumstances by which I became single have scarred me. (HOWEVER, I'm not the type of person who writes off everyone because one person did me wrong). But, if I happened to be blessed with someone who has the qualities I'm looking for, Korean men are definitely a strong option for me. On the whole, I'm happy that we are finding each other. Who knows? Maybe my future true prince will be Korean. ♥
I think it makes a difference that he lived in the US before. I believe Asian men who have lived in the US or west in general tend to be more open to dating outside of their culture, but it seriously all comes down to their parents lol (& their relationship with their parents)
@@DrUmarJohnson1We aren’t YOUR women. We are of the same racial group but that doesn’t mean we belong to you. You have zero ownership over us and we are free to be with whoever we please.
Awwwww im so happy..ive always believed that love is love this is what the world needs you just never know who is the right person for you who you'll fall in love with and to be open its about who loves you, supports you, respects you how they treat you its so hard to find that special someome and love..be open to it open your heart.
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I’m Korean-American and I’m so glad to see Korean men and Black women finding each other. I’ve always been attracted to Black women but none were really in my orbit and I also didn’t think they were attracted to Asian men. There’s a disconnect and I would love to see it get bridged.
Oh wow!! You should definitely approach any black women you may be interested in because most of us are pretty open to Asian men especially Korean men. I know my friends and I talk a lot about dating dating Korean men one day.
You should definitely talk to the Black women that you're attracted to. You never know what might happen.
i have a korean male bestie
I find Asian guys so attractive, I am a black woman by the way. I am interested in dating outside my race in the future.
I’m finally open to dating Asian men. I’m from New York and the Asian men here don’t like black women at all. A lot run the nail salons, hair stores and Chinese restaurants and are so mean. I saw a small shift when my Asian eye doctor was super nice to me he was from around my generation so I think the young ones are a bit more open minded than the old ones who are mean. Also, when I stayed in Georgia for a bit the Asian men seemed a bit more kind.
This is my friend! I must say they both compliment each other so well, you can see how balanced they are as a couple. Janae has her vibracy and such a bubbly personality, where Won is calm and chill. Plus, both of them are two of the sweetest people I've ever met. Thank you for this interview, and for showing more people what international couples' thoughts and lifestyle can be like!
"They both compliment each other so well." I can see that.
She seems so sweet! I’m so happy for her, so happy for both of them😊
Maybe I should give Tinder another chance 🤔
great FRIEND!
Whats janae’s IG
Janae’s smile lights up a room she’s got a great energy to her
Yes, she’s super adorable🎉
She’s so cute n bubbly. Interracial marriage is nothing new- just haven’t been publicized in past and even hidden. I’m always glad to see couples who are happily married regardless of their background. The hubby seems so cool. It takes a real man to want to get married, have a family and take responsibility. I would love to see their wedding photos. They seem happy together.
Interesting there are many secrets and story that are never told. I was always told my great grandmother was part Native American but my ancestry DNA said otherwise. It turns out that my dad’s lineage included African and Western European linage. My dad’s fair skinned cousin during 1940s 1950s in Northern Alabama USA was a barber cutting white peoples hair which was not typical or even allowed in the town he resided.
Y’all want to promote race mixing so bad huh lol
Dude I like your interview style, not cheesy, corny or exaggerated. No faked emotions, Just businesslike and straight to the point. Good questions asked in a professional manner, and your dressing style is cool.
Too much hand movements.
a lot of people tend to discourage Black women (people in general) from living abroad in terms of safety, etc., but this proves that everyone's experience can be different. they're so cute! and she's so sweeeeeettt lol
I love her vibe. She’s sweet
I like how there are more and more interviews of international couples in general and especially in homogeneous countries. That’s always interesting and for once they are not focused on the negative aspects of it. We’re all aware that they’re facing challenges so that’s refreshing to hear another point of view. And she looks really chill about it all and happy, good for them ^^
Great interview, thanks for your work!
same, i love the realness and the positivy, im sick of people acting like korea is the onlu country with rascism.
Every country has a dark side no matter how good they appear on the outside.
Agree. I too am tired of Black and Asian rivalry constantly being put on the forefront of mainstream media. I always wanted to see more positive experiences like this.
@@DrUmarJohnson1Stay mad black women are winning this year and black men are loosing 😂
@@coleslow5519ehh, I feel that's a bit of a wild accusation. While yeah, the questions asked are rather questionable, I feel he's more doing it out of naivety and curiosity other than malicious intent.
Aww Janae! I went to high-school with her and have been following her life in Korea on Instagram. She was always so cheerful and nice- I’m so glad to see her happiness ❤
What is her Instagram ? ❤
Do you mind sharing her Instagram? I would love to follow she seems so sweet😊
@elmolaflair
awww Ebony!!! thanks so much girl! 🥹💓💓💓
@@heyjanaeheygreat play on your username
I love how he sounds a bit African American when he speaks. I'm married to a White Frenchman...One day, he told me, "you trifflin'!" I laughed so hard!!!!
Lol.. I'm hollerin'! Can't even be mad!😂
I'm cracking up 😂
🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Oh MYyyyyYyyyy 😬🙄
Black women date out! Don't believe what they tell you when they say you aren't desirable. Also this couple is so cute, many blessings to them and their families ❤
By 2030, black men will date out at a rate of 99%.
True. Don’t let the redpills control your self esteem.
True. Don’t let the redpills control your self esteem.
@@Givebackthescarf I love you. 😂 yes yes yes.
@@Givebackthescarfthere are dozens of black women with white men in Hollywood
Its just more in reverse
I find it so refreshing to hear about how his (and her) family was so welcoming and open minded for them! Hearing such things makes me happy for them
Where did you stay/visit?
We love, love to know it ❤
I love this! They seem like they are both each other's best friend as much as they are a married couple. Their vibe together makes for a very good combo for a couple to have. I wish them a happy life together!🥰
Amen 🙏
I can’t believe she’s 32. She looks so young
And they make such a cute couple!
This has 32 likes
She looks older to you?..She looks her age to me
32 is young
@@chrisr4407no she don’t
How is a 32 yo supposed to look??!?!?
Black women, open up! We deserve love too just like everyone else. Wishing you all love and happiness and many blessings❤🎉🎉🎉🎉😊
I am open!
Awesome sis, hope you find him or vice verse ❤
I am open and ready
@@Alicedocumentary I hope you find your partner very soon sis!
At this stage in my life, all I want is for someone to treat me with love, loyalty, faithfulness, and respect. Something that I thought I had, but I was heartbreakingly wrong. My only top criterion that must be met is that he has to share my faith. You can't be happy if the person you're with does not walk the same path.
As someone who is in an international/cultural couple, I cannot stress enough how important it is and how blessed they are to have families who were accepting and open minded to their partners. My in-laws are fantastic, but I know so many interracial couples whose families are hostile and make the couples lives miserable and treat the grandkids as less than. I wish them a lot of success and happiness
Experienced my first break up and he’s Korean. I def think his side received so much commentary and influence, it just didn’t work out. But idk if that was a cultural issue as much as it was just him not having a mind of his own. It really is important to date someone who has an opened minded community around than. I’d suggest if folks date interracially, get to know their community before releasing your heart to them
Adorable couple! Black women please please expand your options!!
I love that she says she doesn’t pay attention to anything when she’s with him …that means she trusts him to take care of her …a very good sign
EXACTLY!!!!! EXCELLENT POINT!!!!!
Yes!!
she mentioned a huge point about safety. i felt so free and safe in Korea. it was such a great experience. riding the train without fear. no fear of being a victim of a random shooting. just free
That’s how most Americans lived before the early 2000s. I am a Gen-Xer and life used to be good & SAFE in America too. The R wing gun nuts have ruined this country.
No guns is so freeing
This couple looks so relaxed together. They give positive vibes and they seem genuinely happy.
I think it helped that he lived in the US for 5 years so he is knows the US culture. I think it helps with the combining the family. Also that his sister is dating an American and his family is so welcoming. Really beautiful to see this.
yes to all of this! 🫶🏾 all of those things really helped.
Not really. Young generation korean guys are more open minded compared to the older generation.
Glad I listened for a while. I see she is military connected. It makes me wonder if he was as well. We had a large military base in Seoul and there are lots of Americans there. We actually have a few bases in Korea. I miss Korea!!!
Cute couple. I’m black and my long-term boyfriend is also Korean. We do get a lot of stares even in America lol. Most importantly is to find happiness with your partner, no matter what anyone else thinks.
Yeah a Korean guy with visible facial hair is like a diamond in the rough! Facial hair wins for me too! I wish it was more visible in the Korean mainstream
Actually, that was popular style in ancient Korea lol
So is this couple
During Korea's Joseon Dynasty, every Korean men had facial hair.....it was actually taboo or weird not to have it. Modern day Korea of today, it's the opposite.
Because facial hair is associated with old uncles in Asia in general.
@@user-cnksi223 I am a K-drama addict. I have learned more and more about Korean culture and history. Korean history has opened my eyes to Asian culture. iI realize that we humans are more connected than we've been led to believe. Peace
This was beautiful and I am just like her, I live my life with rose colored glasses. I am aware of things but I don't let society get to me and how I live my life. And it shows when people meet me and even my friends now are shocked at how I get along with different people from different cultures, etc. I realize when you give people a chance, they are more likely to be nice and welcoming. Wishing this couple a successful and long marriage ❤
Thanks for sharing your perspective. I very much relate to you! I'm very similar. 😊❤
@@Givebackthescarfthisss!!! My first real crush in kindergarten was a white boy named Matthew he had blonde bowl stye cut and light blue eyes. I thought I was in love 😂😂😂
They are adorable, he seems very affectionate and protective over her, I can tell in a lot of his gestures towards her. And he beautiful smile beams and her eyes sparkle when she looks at him. Beautiful couple❤ congratulations Newlyweds
Yeah I got that from his body language, super sweet.
She brings out the best in him. You can clearly see. And I sure he does that for her too❤
Enjoyed this interview! Cute couple, wish them well and happy their families were accepting of their relationship ❤
So glad to see interracial couple relationships! I am black and my husband is Hispanic, we have been happily married for 20 years we have 2 kids and we just click! We are both American, but sometimes it is still surprising for others to recognize us as a couple. When we go into places together people are very accepting, but they always seem to take a minute to place us "together", it's usually, oh....you're with her?.. or vice versa. I always think we came in together and are talking to each other... so, yeah we're together, "this is my husband". I understand you may not know we're married, but clearly, we are friends. Anyway, I am glad that you both have found each other and you don't focus on the little things that can come about from being in a non-typical relationship, I grew in a black area and always thought I would marry a black person, but after joining the military, I dated many different races and I realized you connect with who you connect with. It could be "black-love" "white-love", "brown-love", or "mixed-love", lol.
I'm glad to hear both sets of parents were receptive to the relationship.
Safety is key for black people.
So I’m glad she found a positive experience with the South Korean culture.
I love, love LOVE this couple. This is my favorite video so far. Black Women Date Out and love who loves, takes care of and adores you. ❤✨😍
I am glad they have good support. As someone in an interracial couple, that always helps! Wish them many blessings!
Cute couple. I can tell the guy has spent a bit of time abroad. His English is really good too.
They're so cute. I'm married to a Korean guy and have two kids. I live in the US thou. Love is love.
They care and support each other, and that’s what is important. They both seem like cool, easy going people.
Exactly!! That’s how you do it. Don’t worry about anyone else. No one else matters. Y’all are in love, families on board. ❤
They look like they balance eachother out. I wish them the best!!!
They have friends who commented on the video and said that they do balance out one another. They have said that she’s vibrant, sweet and bubbly and he’s more chill and laid back.
@@Msd4-13 My husband and I are the exact same way. He's more outgoing than I am. We've been married 13 years! Opposites do attract--we each bring something new to the table.
They both are not only cute but seem so genuine! This was beautiful! Its just color who still cares about skin tone and race lol
That’s that Georgia girl charm, love her accent.
Yal are adorable!! And she has a certain light and positivity to her that is very refreshing. Congrats you guys! 🥰
"hard to find a girl like her" meltsssss for her!
I wasn't expecting to enjoy this. Their positivity is infectious. ❤ I pray they continue to have a beautiful life together! ❤❤❤
I love that they are both just open-minded happy people. Not thinking too hard... Life is fun when you are open to experiences without judgement. You can see that he really steps up for her too, so I love that she is protected!!
This was a very nice interview .This are is very sweet and you can tell that they're in love and they are best friends and they're gonna be there for each other and They are not worried about what anyone else thinks, I wish you many many days overflowing with so much love for each other, And blessings to have children ❤❤❤❤
She seems genuine and bubbly and cute and he's hot he knew what he wanted it's nice they were on the same page I believe that's how it should be
Have her some grand babies definitely sounds like Janea’s mom! I can literally here her saying that! Lol (former colleague). So happy for you both. 💍
😂😂😂 that’s so my momma right! and thank you so much 🫶🏾
I love busy body Janae and her man (what she calls him😃). They are cute and I love that they are friends and always active!❤❤
@7:39 was truly a beautiful & refreshing thing for me to hear. It speaks as a testament to his love, care, protection & devotion to his wife that when she’s with him, there isn’t a thought or care in the world. She automatically knows & feels so safe when in his presence. That is a beautiful precious blessing that I hope to feel & have in my love life as well.
They where one of the greatest couples that you interviewed. Loved them. ❤🎉
Very attractive looking couple you two look good together. As long as you both are happy that’s all that matters
She’s doing a great job repping ATL!
They're such a beautiful couple. ❤❤
There’s a lot I can say about this clip, but as an Afro-Asian myself I faced many obstacles of displacement in my early youth; especially, in my case where I couldn’t pass for being an African-American kid. My facial features and hair texture were completely east-Asian oriented. I’m NOT knocking interracial couples, but there’s a lot to be aware of nowadays. If a black or white-American marries one another that’s different because they both come from the same American language and culture, well, for the most part. But the cultural and language barriers between black America and Korea are quite steep, and it’s the same between my two racial halves. Racial displacement is a societal mishap my parents would never have thought of as they weren’t the identity-crisis generation. Nowadays, societal norms are much different, but I would definitely say that cultural or identity crisis is a societal trigger that this young couple in the video clip will have to be aware of when they decide to start a family. Identity crisis has so many byproducts that can cause deviations and troubles in any family. Many young couples will UNDERESTIMATE the foregoing principle I just stated because they’re from a generation that promotes-JUST BE WHO YOU ARE. Unfortunately, they can only wish that SOCIETY will make it that simple for them. But the bottom line is that once any man or woman pledges love and commitment in marriage, then their worst adversary will become SOCIETY, and that’s even when the couple are the same race and ethnic group.
I’ve usually found that the kids with mothers that are black are usually more grounded and don’t suffer from identity crisis as much as kids with Asian or white mothers. I don’t feel like the language barrier is an issue with them, as they both spent time in America and he’s fluent in English. I do believe that she should continue and try her best to be fluent in Korean as it shows respect for her husbands culture and it’ll be great for when they have children.
Which parent is black? That makes a big difference..
@@Msd4-13 I would be an exception to the default that you gave as far as having a more concrete identity; my mother is the black parent. Although, from my experiences, whether the mother or father was the non-black parent didn’t make much of a difference in my time and generation growing up. As I previously posted, I couldn’t pass for being an African-American kid, and as a result, in order to bond with the black youth in my time, there was one prerequisite that had to be met, and that is you had to look a certain way that resembled their facial features, if not that, then at a bare minimum you had to be absorbent to their sub-cultural climate; those were standards or qualities that I didn’t meet. As a result, an identity crisis was right up at my doorstep. I assure you that I wasn’t the only bi-racial in my time going through such regardless of who the non-black or black parent was. Overall, it depends on the bi-racial’s life circumstances because environment plays a big part in one’s life. As far as different languages, I agree with you that if both are willing to learn each other’s native languages or have knowledge thereof, then that should help to create an even balance in their union, although, it’s NOT a universal guarantee. But that’s NOT what I was implying. The language barriers between Asian and black communities are very STEEP. The two racial communities are obviously NOT going to exchange or share racial identities, and the language differences will MAKE SURE of that, so, that in itself can place an Afro-Asian in a predicament that he or she is NOT going to like as well as contribute to an identity crisis. Why? Because he or she would have no choice but to keep the two worlds separate and apart from one another; the only exception would be in-laws on both of their parental sides, and I assure you that I was no exception. If I had tried to link the two communities of both my racial halves, one would feel infringed upon the other, and it would have been-Game On!!!
The whole point to my original post was that an identity crisis can possibly be the result of a hostile racial environment which happens to many bi-racials such as myself. Sure, the African-American lady in the video clip can learn her husband’s language, but would her racial community be as receptive?!!! Think about it because the mother’s racial community would still be a large part of the child’s life, and it could go either way of being receptive or hostile. This goes back to what I originally stated that when a man or woman pledges love and commitment to one another, the wiles of SOCIETY will find its way into their lives as an adversary. My original post was speaking from a COMMUNITY standpoint because that’s what makes up ENVIRONMENT and NOT from an individual basis that you were alluding to. When an interracial couple has a child, what kind of ENVIRONMENT will that bi-racial child inherit, especially with two of their racial halves that are POLAR OPPOSITES?!!! Hope this helps for a clearer understanding.
Where did you grow up?
@MrsTruthTeller I grew-up in NYC.
I love this couple! Rooting for their happiness and success.
Y E S ! ! !
They are cute and I wish them well. Honestly, the fact that both sets of parents are onboard and there really isn't a language gap really helps a lot. Best of luck to both of them in their journey. Great interview on your part as well!
How cute are they?!?!?!? You can feel the happiness exuding from her!
Her husband is GORGEOUS!
Loved how he said that he couldn’t find any else like her.❤
This is so nice 👍
Men stay saying they want basketball teams! SIR. You have the kids, then! Lol.
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Also, shoutout to them! They're both very hot and very sweet and sound like they have an ideal romance. Wishing them the absolute best!
Nah I love that. It's not their fault they're not the ones that can have them, but I mean putting life in another person is pretty awesome when you think about it. But more on topic, I'm tired of hearing about the men that don't take care of their kids, but as their are many like that, there are just as many that want to sire a small nation lol. Some be wanting these bigass families with 7 kids running around and I'm like they better pop out twins n triplets or sum 😅 we finna pop out babies like how we like to carry groceries in the house
@@Givebackthescarfmen don’t consider how painful it is to birth children and what it permanently does to women’s bodies. I guess it’s easier for them to say because they ever have to experience any of it
she's so cute and bubbly! i can see why he's with her! she's adorable and has got a good energy and makes you feel at ease when you talk to her!
This was such a pleasant video to watch!!! Thank you for posting it. It is wonderful to see their love and acceptance from their families.
She's been there for four years. You can become gluent in any language in under one year. You can do this girl!
Yeah she hasnt really been trying if 4 years she can't, Maybe her job doesn't need her to
Korean is a tough language to learn tho especially if you only speak one language
@@SE-gs6gdexactly! thanks ☺️
@@22s22ayou’re right! i just started studying this year. i was only planning to stay in korea for 1 year originally. but hey! better now than never.
What a nice couple, I love the girl's personality, she's so bubbly and fun.
Nice to see Korea opening up.
What a nice couple. Wishing them loads of love and happiness.
thank you 💕
Im in a relationship with someone who i love deeply, but the difference between this couple and us is that my parents have deeply impacted our relationship in many ways. Seeing this makes me happy for them. I wish the challenges i still face didnt have to be. The generation of immigrants have sort of a lost time period, where the parents didnt get to learn or see the changes in the world that has lead to something like what the guys parents are, more open minded, versus koreans who immigrated to the US in the 70’s,80’s even 90’s. Id say most were more so of the mindset that isnt open minded, i mean that in the most complicated way. Its so difficult. Stubbornness is ah forget it. Bless these two. This vid is awesome❤
Okay but can we take a step back because they are both SO CUTE!! She is so pretty and her husband is drop dead attractive like omg
They are a cute couple. The interviewer’s bias came out at times when he assumed Janae didn’t know anything about Korean culture before she arrived and he put too much emphasis on her being Black and assumed it was negative.
The communication shows how they are like,l envy them😅 what a blessing they have each other ❤
Aw nice couple. Glad they found each other.
They're such a beautiful couple. Love is love no matter what part of the world your partner comes from. I love to see it!😊❤
Interviewer probes for issues… Couple meets that with ALL Love. Rose Colored glasses give you clarity. Keep seeing your world through the lens of Love.
I traveled to many countries, and Korea is definitely one of the safest and cleanest and convenient countries.
Very professional journalist and the couple is nice. Best wishes to them!
I’m rooting for them!! ❤️
They’re a beautifully blended couple 🫶🏽 I love to see it
This is cool. I used to have issues with interracial couples and things like that but if someone is treating you well the race doesn’t matter.
very eye-opening for me... this and the previous video with the firefighter couple... I always thought most of the Koreans were racist towards non-white, non-kyopo foreigners. It still may stand true, but it's really nice to know that I could be wrong.
He's Korean but he has Black American mannerisms. The deep voice and accent. His rocking back and forth. The calm demeanor, confident, steady eyes. I can see why she is attracted to him. He's what she is used to. They compliment each other very well.
Uh no.He’s Korean!
nothing to do with black american mannerisms. Also many different men have deep voices bro.
Interviewer awesome ..love your style of communication with the people... nonthreatening and calm....great questions...keep it coming...also you let them talk😂😂😂
she is so cute. she seems to have a bubbly personality. they seem to be a great match. all the best guys!
A beautiful couple both physically and amicablly. I wish I had their positive outlook on life. I'm Caribbean who has been living in New York for 30 years and confess that I'm not so pragmatic. My only suggestion is that a soccer team has 11 players. The world needs to be populated by people like you. Please remain the same.
I luv black women dating interracially and marrying interracially.. The relationships are so positive and they are putting a 💍. Congrats on your marriage.
No, it has no color❤️
You two look so good for each other, many blessings to the both of you:) Love the interview.
I am a Boomer who started traveling about 40 years ago! It is delightful to see women of color out and about these days. Traveling being an African-American woman, I am accustomed to having people stare at me, wanting to touch my hair, or being surprised when I speak their language. It was a surprise when I realized that I felt safer and freer to be "me" abroad. I say "go folks"! Pursue your dreams, and be your best you!
American racism/white supremacy/anti-black ideology is AMERICAN. In other cultures, you will learn what their color issues are and why. Yes, there is pain and oppression within other groups however, for POC/Americans it is a relief to leave the American racism behind. Peace
Anti-blackness is global. However, it might not cause us physical harm as a result in other countries. It ia also the only time Black Americans are treated as Americans.....and in many places that comes with the privilege of being treated with respect that we don't get at home.
They are such a cute couple! I hope you have lots of babies. XOXO🥰
Love See's no colour or boundaries.
they compliment each other so well. they will make gorgeous babies! Janaes smile!
They are adorable as hell; even my daughter said 'WOW! They are so cute', as she passed by. Good for them, they have good chemistry, and we wish them the best. We are black Americans, but mixed culture (Ghanaian, Jamaican & Cuban) and even that is a challenge...like oil and water... because at the end of the day my family is from different countries/cultures that think their way is the best way.
Love this couple. Totally a great example that love knows no boundaries! I bet their kids will be cute AF!
I think the great thing about this couple is the good attitude they both have. In addition to having decided to get to know other cultures and come from families with great values and not closed ones.
This is a wonderful thing to see. I was brought up to not limit my options. I think times are changing and people are busting out of the box and not limiting themselves anymore. As long as you are loyal, loving, respectful, and treat me like the precious jewel that I am (Biblically), I will treat you and love you the exact same way. The problem is, being 58, those options don't seem to be very abundant in my age range. I don't see many older Korean men being interested in Black women. Plus, where I live, there aren't a lot of Korean men. I've been single for 10 years (married 22), and the circumstances by which I became single have scarred me. (HOWEVER, I'm not the type of person who writes off everyone because one person did me wrong). But, if I happened to be blessed with someone who has the qualities I'm looking for, Korean men are definitely a strong option for me. On the whole, I'm happy that we are finding each other. Who knows? Maybe my future true prince will be Korean. ♥
Ahh, they were so sweet, A very attractive couple, many blessings!
Aww I love this so much! Maybe there’s hope for me yet! The AMBW community is so small and hard to find a good one!
If its on RUclips
Then its nor common in real life
@@StyleswithCourtneyDo you feel better being negative now. Yeesh. 🤦🏾♀️
Me lol
@@StyleswithCourtneyIt is common where I live. You just don't understand geographics.
I think it makes a difference that he lived in the US before. I believe Asian men who have lived in the US or west in general tend to be more open to dating outside of their culture, but it seriously all comes down to their parents lol (& their relationship with their parents)
I especially love and root for AMBW couples 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Beautiful 😊😍 couple. Congratulations 🎊 and I wish them much love and happiness.
I wish them misery, pain, and a separation! Not thrilled seeing his kind with our women!!!
@@DrUmarJohnson1We aren’t YOUR women. We are of the same racial group but that doesn’t mean we belong to you. You have zero ownership over us and we are free to be with whoever we please.
Both are blessed to have each other, and their families are cool with the relationship too. Hope they have baby #1 soon 🍼
Such a cute couple! ❤
They make a really cute couple. I wish them all the best.
Awwwww im so happy..ive always believed that love is love this is what the world needs you just never know who is the right person for you who you'll fall in love with and to be open its about who loves you, supports you, respects you how they treat you its so hard to find that special someome and love..be open to it open your heart.