Stop Being Too Nice to Everyone | A Buddhist Story | Buddhist Teachings | Wiser
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- Опубликовано: 18 сен 2024
- Stop Being Too Nice to Everyone | A Buddhist Story | Buddhist Teachings | Wiser
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Learning to say NO ! Without guilt is the greatest freedom!
I learned to put my needs and disires in priority, this helps a lot when you grew up as a people pleaser.
A truthful "no" is vastly more important than an untruthful "yes".
That one may hurt the most but it is an important discipline to have.
"I would die for you, but I won't live for you." After years of growing up as a people pleaser, and putting everyone else's needs ahead of my own, I'm going to finally do what's best for me.
I used to give until I was exhausted. Then I took some time out to think about what I was doing wrong. I realised that I can give enough to make myself and others happy, say 'no' more often and spend a lot of lone time so that I can get to know myself and make friends with myself. This sermon resonates with that. Thank you for the insight
I love being nice to people, but being nice all the time comes at the cost of my own well-being... so in a way, we need to be nice to ourselves first, and put our needs first before worrying about others'