In the Philippines, when you say, "are you open minded," they are likely selling you insurance, or recruiting you to a pyramid scheme. Run, girl run. 😂😂
"Are you open minded" l will probably think he is gay and he is coming out to me☠️ And wanna eat ramen, of course l would say yes, l love eating lmao☠️
Not only in america..any line that suggesting to go to his house alone or to my house alone or being alone with the newly met guy is a red flag to me..if he directly ask me if i live alone,i would do a police report😂
especially if they have a weird pace of speech to go with speaking... so tired of the "if they are attractive, anything goes" from those incels. Good looking guy, blank expression, not 2 seconds after eye contact that's what they ask, go back to my place? wtf?
@@taelgii No cause I seen those cheating videos where they say yes to Netflix and chill and I was like “what’s so wrong with that”. My dumbass would be caught cheating and I wouldn’t even know it 💀
@@user-yg1ik1qq4l I was wondering it's more about enjoying the company with the girl and making her feel safe because as good person I won't do anything without consent and if I feel like it's the right moment, I could make a move and if she says no, it's ok. I think my approach would be better than directly asking cuz that's creepy and desperate and even if it works it only does for guys who are really good looking and have masterful rizz lol
here in the Philippines. if someone asks you "if you are open minded?" for sure they will invite you to some multi level marketing or networking ponzi scams 😂😂😂
This is why I always do research before I go to another country because ofc the “do you live alone” and “are you open minded” are clearly run away signs but “wanna eat ramen” and “want to go to a dvd room” would’ve 100% got me. Mf over here trying to bang and I’m excited for ramen and a movie 😅
If any man in any country asks if you live alone always say no and stay the fuck away from them..major red flag everywhere . Never let a stranger know you live alone , especially its a man and your a women. That's how you get assaulted or robbed.
@@madhavmathur4008 I don't do hookups maybe try asking someone who does Everyone I've ever slept with I was either dating and or at least knew before hand. I've never slept with a stranger. Hookups are kinda nasty
@@madhavmathur4008 there are other things you can ask people to find out if they are down to sleep with you . Things like are you single are way less creepy than do you live alone.. or just ask them it they are interested in hooking up ? I'd never assume a Stanger asking if I live alone is asking if I want to hookup sounds like your gonna follow me back to my home you now know no one else is in . Just be direct and say what you want
@@kitty79532 I was wondering it's more about enjoying the company with the girl and making her feel safe because as good person I won't do anything without consent and if I feel like it's the right moment, I could make a move and if she says no, it's ok. I think my approach would be better than directly asking cuz that's creepy and desperate and even if it works it only does for guys who are really good looking and have masterful rizz lol
@@madhavmathur4008 Just ask… If they’re wanting to hookup… Saying something that doesn’t even relate to sex is weird, just be blunt about it. Dumb saying something my else that’s creepy.
It is😭 I never knew it was strange until moving to the states and then almost getting arrested Bec someone thought I was trying to kidnap them or something when I asked that
Most Koreans live with their parents till marriage. If they do move away they are likely to have a roommate. You don’t want to disturb the sleeping roommate with 2 drunk people coming to the house stumbling around and horny. Living alone makes this hookup situation less awkward in the morning instead of getting scolded by the angry roommate. Definitely not from personal experience whatsoever🤷♀️
@@schmidt188 no it’s very real! I just wanted to have some fun. We were at a club and it was a good time. But when I ask that they looked at me weird and then called over the club security
open minded means a different thing in korean in general, similar to if in english you described someone as being very free or smth like that. thought id clear it up bc its a konglish word so it can be confusing :) i agree its still sorta creepy tho
Makes sense only really open minded ppl With no standards or values that restrict them would do adultery /out of marriage +**. Not cool And understandable how they’d fraze it that way But I hate how they call it open minded for such a disgusting thing, it’s makes it sound like those who protect* their chastity and cover their bodies look like they’re closed minded like uneducated or something, rather their the wiser ones and most likely the true winner in This life and the hereafter
@@unknownoblivion2417 You’re looking at things with a very Euro-centric mindset and it’s not your fault. Often these things are a direct translation of the equivalent word in korean (konglish like someone above me said) and it probably doesn’t mean what you think it means at all. There are a lot of words that exist in other languages that don’t exist in english and for this word, it’s likely the closest translation but definitely not an accurate one.
Not innocent me asking my Korean best friend in college if he wants to eat ramen at my house and him panicking and running out of class all red because he thought I knew what it meant. 🤣
I don’t care what ethnicity they are or what country you’re in, if a complete stranger meeting you for the first time asks you “Are you open minded?” or “Do you live alone?” Run. Just run. Don’t look back. No need. You got a whistle on you? Blow it. 😂😂
Meh, it's a different culture and we are looking at it through a western lens. South Korea has low crime rates compared to the USA so they don't automatically assume they're going to get murdered. And the way they understand "open mindedness" is likely accompanied with different connotations, and not politically based like Americans.
@tomie it’s odd because you’re thinking of it as an American in English, the connotation and culture are completely different in Korea due to ethnicity, language, region, etc; the ramen thing for example is the equivalent of asking to Netflix and chill, idrk what open minded means because I don’t hit on Korean girls but I can assure you it’s completely different from the American English translation in context
Same thing in Indonesia, 🚩 guys here always put “open minded” for hook ups in their bio and then encourage you to talk about nonsense that leads to talking dirty iykwim, and then ask “do you live with your family or alone?” “do you live in the house or apartment” 😂 oh and also it’s “do you want to go for a night drive or going to Mcdonalds drive thru?” bc from that they’re gonna make excuses like “let’s go to the parking lot” “i want to go to my apartment since we gonna drive pass it (i forgot to key my apartment) (i forgot something there)” is deffo a 🚩 sign of hookups other than netflix and chill since it’s too obvi.
The nonsense talk to have dirty talk scared me so much. I had some contacts of Chinese man because I wanted to improve my Chinese and they all did that…. I only spoke to women after that
Yes, don’t waste time with men especially on dating apps if you want to improve other languages you’re in progress of learning. you can find a nice guy that’ll help you out, but majority off them are questionable 😅 and also your decision of only talking to women is the best and safest decision hahah good luck!@@tranquil.sprout
@@kadenbrown6268 Yep, that’s why in Indonesia there are LOTS of SA cases… but only a little amount of them predators went to jail. so the best thing any woman in Indonesia can do is asking a friend for a help to post about the SA and the predator in twitter (many of the SA victims are too scared to talk about it by themselves) so at least the predator could get humiliated online or in real life and get blacklisted everywhere (college or job they went to, dating apps, social media) or if the case really go viral, the police will have an investigation on it. But then again, most of them will only ended up apologizing to the victims and not spending jail time…
@@keikozbrn Those men must be really needy and pathetic and desperate to get laid 😂 I’ve heard also men in there are perverts and women don’t like men in there. Some guys are just pathetic 😂 I am a guy but I ain’t that pathetic and needy lmao. Woman are very nice in Indonesia but so naive. Maybe they’re nice because I have the looks…who knows 😅 I told a woman I liked her a lot but I faked it course she was falling for me lol. I mean that’s the downside of the Indonesia woman…Too naive. They can easily get manipulated….
@MizoGkuk some Korean men ask me this, what else would I mean? They think all Americans are nymphomaniacs or something, it's obnoxious and quite frankly offensive.
@MizoGkuk I don't know if most Korean men like American girls, I don't see why they wouldn't, however that wasn't my point. every Korean man I met likes American girls yes. This doesn't mean every Korean man I met was perverted. All I meant was that an overwhelming amount of Korean men ask me if I am open minded about sex.
@@tashan4932 idk how much korean men have you met but if its a lot that ask you that i think they arent really trying to be offensive but rather they are just curious because thats how they see americans due to lies in social media and wrong influence in the country itself making its people have a different view on americans, same example for many others who thinks japanese are all perfect, happy and crazy but from real life experiences and people who live there it is actually known as hell for an avarage japanese
In korea, “Are you open minded?” Is a common thing to ask. Its not weird its a way to know whether ur open minded or not , not in that weird way 😭 the konglish (korean-english) can make people get confused tho! If ur going to Korea soon, have fun and be careful 😊
“Do you live alone?” Is such a scary red flag question to be asked. My younger dumb ass fell for this shit as I thought we were just going to hangout and watch anime (I was 19/20) and I’m just lucky the guy got upset cuz I told him repeatedly to not randomly push my head down to suck him off. I could’ve been raped and/or murdered. I’m 25 now but I remember he just wanted some friends and I made it clear I was gay and there’s no way he’s got a chance and he stuck around so I assumed he actually did just want to be friends and I went to hang out with him while visiting the city since his place was v close by. Let’s just say I had never been more scared and felt trapped in my life. You just present yourself as calm and tired and needing to head back home. Get your shit together as fast as possible and gtfo. I’ve never been so relieved and happy to be sitting in my car during evening traffic hours 😭
I was sitting in a café alone when a guy (sitting at a table next to me), started smalltalk with me. Since he was a bit older (50+) i felt obligated to talk to him a bit bc i thought he might be lonely and I didn't want to seem rude. Through the conversation I found out that he was Saudi and started to feel a bit uncomfortable since I knew that Women and Men there don't mingle (except family). All of a suden he told me that he needed a "friend" and if i wanted to be his friend. I didn't really know what was going on, but was trying to say smthg along the lines like "i dont believe it since you seem social etc.," i then excused myself and left the café bc i felt really uncomfortable. Went home and told my friends who where from egypt and they were telling me that the guy was looking for a prostitute and that the phrase: i am looking for a friend meant: want a prostitute/want to hook up. So watch out girls (and guys) 😅
That’s low that they do that. I want a relationship first. Cute dates and eating out together before anything physical. That’s why I value marriage first before anything sexual.
I feel like that's a good choice for a lot of people. But marriage is such a large commitment for the two parties to not even know if they're sexually compatible. It's very important to know
Not me trying flirty lines when someone say .do you live alone? I'll be like why do you wanna move in with me or do you wanna move in me😂😂😂😂bro I was shocked by my own flirting 😅❤
My mother’s cousin experience was that korean man ask her if she will go to hotel with him. They are married more than 10 years now🤭 (ps she didn’t go, she slaps him😆🫶🏼)
She is really sweet for letting us know these indirect way to ask moreover she really gives advice like an elder sis ❤ Edit - Ooh maah gowdd I never get so many likes but .. Thank you y'all 💕
Bruh I’m Korean and I didn’t know that. Good thing I caught that cuz I feel like it’s something I would say to a friend just cuz I really wanna eat ramen with company💀
Yeah, I would be creeped out if someone asked me if I lived alone because why would that information be relevant it was just going to be a hookup? And i I ever go to Korea and someone asked me if I want to eat ramen, I might follow up by saying ." That would be great! Know any good restaurants that have ramen and noodle dishes? That way I could count to that person's true intentions. I know what they mean
hey what is the best way to ask then? i’ve always been too scared cuz i don’t know how to phrase it and i’m worried i’ll be like called out for harassment or something. i wanna do it in a respectful way, and if she says no it’s no problem
i live in jakarta, in here we doesnt trust anyone, especially strangers who suddenly being friendly or they ask u abt ur name or ur address it could be scammer. sorry for my bad english 😄
If someone from Korea asked me these question, my answer would probably be Wanna eat ramen? Me : sure, which restaurant? Or is a convenience store better? Let's go to a convenience store instead. Are you open minded? Me : yes I am. Why? Are you gay? Aw congrats Do you live alone? Me : No, I'm lesbian. I live with my girlfriend. Haha just joking. I actually live with your mum. Wanna go to a DVD room? Me : you're an oldie? Ha boring. Bye. Will do anything to run away from these red flags if my stupid nonsense answers doesn't work out 😭
@cryingpoledancer1232 like I said, in most countries, men who ask that are usually rapists or serial killers. And if you live alone, it makes you the perfect target for just that.
CREEPY AAAH why do these feel so nasty just ask "wanna hook up" and there's a much better chance I say yes than this shit If someone asks me if I live alone I'll deffo not say yes like wtf dude I'm not gonna find out if you're the serial killer
Because they thrive on ambiguity. You say yes to ramen thinking you're gonna get a bowl of food and he served you dick. Then you're in shock and uncomfortable and he's like 'oh you said you wanted Ramen. Here's your Ramen'. Why would you hook up? Do you know what men think of women who hook up? Worse than prostitutes. Prostitutes are more respected since they sell a service but women who hook up are jusy...hookers
Lol ikr..why dont just ask,hey i kinda interested in knowing you or be friend,if you don't mind maybe we can do coffee sometimes later or something...why ask "do you live alone" lol..i would do a police report on that😂
@@lia-sn6co hey what is the best way to ask then? i’ve always been too scared cuz i don’t know how to phrase it and i’m worried i’ll be like called out for harassment or something. i wanna do it in a respectful way, and if she says no it’s no problem
I'm sorry, but "do you live alone" is the biggest 🚩 Even if I don't think you're a serial killer or I'm in a low crime country, that's still opening the door for vulnerability and danger. Stalking is a real thing that happens everywhere and it's dangerous.
Similar to Karoke rooms, internet cafes where they are private rooms in some. It's the same for DVD rooms. Basically if you go to a library and go to one of their study rooms, its private and "secluded" lol
Guys in the US: 1. AYO I LIKE YOUR BODY GIRL 2. *pressuring you into doing something you don't want to do, insisting it'll be fun* 3. I know you got a bf/fiance/husband but you wanna go out just aS fRiEnDs?
My American ass would RUN at "do you live alone" 💀
PLSS
Yup same here ❤
Same
Same
Fr
In the Philippines, when you say, "are you open minded," they are likely selling you insurance, or recruiting you to a pyramid scheme. Run, girl run. 😂😂
nothing wrong with an insurance but pyramid schemes r a no no
Accurate 😂😂😂
the line "open-minded ka ba?" 😂😂😂
@@sweetbutterfly1527 Ang pangit ng connotation satin nyan no? Pang-illegal Ang dating 🤣🤣🤣
Same, same girl. The world's not that big..😂😂😂😂😢
Slurping on my noodles trying to figure out why the hell he’s taking his shirt off 😂
I read this as "slurping on his noodle"
😭😭😭
@@yaraparakippetara1😂😂😂
“Why you taking your shirt off” also are you gonna finish your ramen cause I will
😂😂😂😂
“Are u open minded” would scare me like I’d think he’s gonna pull something weird or bring me to his sex dungeon 💀
My exact thoughts, what else could 'open minded' mean besides trying something new? I wouldn't survive SK. - An American
"Are you open minded" l will probably think he is gay and he is coming out to me☠️
And wanna eat ramen, of course l would say yes, l love eating lmao☠️
knowing american girls, you'd go with him anyway
@@web3wizard381 oh please like people from your country would be any less likely to go. You just wouldn't hear about it.
"Do you live alone" is a line that connotes "RUN AWAY" in America 😭
Not only in america..any line that suggesting to go to his house alone or to my house alone or being alone with the newly met guy is a red flag to me..if he directly ask me if i live alone,i would do a police report😂
Yep. That is the creepiest question
its good for prank
especially if they have a weird pace of speech to go with speaking... so tired of the "if they are attractive, anything goes" from those incels.
Good looking guy, blank expression, not 2 seconds after eye contact that's what they ask, go back to my place? wtf?
Fr
If a guy asked me “Wanna eat ramen?” My fat ass would say yes lmaoo
pls😭😭
nah I would too cuz I be hungry 24/7 thinking he's talkin about real food
@@taelgii bruh who knew “wanna eat ramen” is code for “Netflix and chill”. Like I would assume we’re getting ramen at the 711 not back at his place
@@novivianngo mind you my stupid ass used to think Netflix n chill literally meant that. i can't read a room pls
@@taelgii No cause I seen those cheating videos where they say yes to Netflix and chill and I was like “what’s so wrong with that”.
My dumbass would be caught cheating and I wouldn’t even know it 💀
Americans ask if you live alone too, they just word it, “do you have roommates”
True
Uhmmm so how to ask a girl for hook up??( Asking for a friend 🙃)
@@madhavmathur4008 just ask straight up
@@user-yg1ik1qq4l nahh i have better strategy
@@user-yg1ik1qq4l I was wondering it's more about enjoying the company with the girl and making her feel safe because as good person I won't do anything without consent and if I feel like it's the right moment, I could make a move and if she says no, it's ok. I think my approach would be better than directly asking cuz that's creepy and desperate and even if it works it only does for guys who are really good looking and have masterful rizz lol
here in the Philippines. if someone asks you "if you are open minded?" for sure they will invite you to some multi level marketing or networking ponzi scams 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
In my hometown when they ask open minded they mean open to 69 and being free and liberal 😂😂😂
'do u live alone' . Bro , i would assume he is murderer fosho
Lol😂😂
A double edge rizz
Mdr😂😂
Fr like no, I don't live alone I live with 2 other roommates pls don't kill me
💀💀💀
"do you live alone?"
"You're a serial killer aren't you..." *Runs away*
I def would creep out and probably do police report if a man i just knew ask me that.are you a stalker or something,creepy
KAVEEER ALMIGHTY GOD----🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
" do you?"👀✨️
@@lia-sn6coa police report? That makes you the 🚩
well i’m a *cereal* killer, idk if that makes a difference 🤷🏾♀️
If you didn’t already know, “come over and eat ramen” is the korean equivalent of netflix and chill
“do you live alone” i’m assuming he wants me dead 💀
So.... no ramen? :(
it means netflix and chill for them
Ikr, :(
@@mary.viidaa so no netflix?!
@@Sabrina-sc1db LMAOO
@@Sabrina-sc1db so no chill? :-|
my dumbass would’ve been like “Ofc! I love ramen! which flavor? OH and who’s house?” 💀💀
Sure baby we can go to your house and eat ramen 🍜😉
@@BeautifulRosalie me rn:
BI PANIC ATTACK 😳🫣😭
@@s4mii3 Then we can eat extra long ramen 🍜 for your panic attack 😏
@@BeautifulRosalie ight bet😩🍜
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This is why I always do research before I go to another country because ofc the “do you live alone” and “are you open minded” are clearly run away signs but “wanna eat ramen” and “want to go to a dvd room” would’ve 100% got me. Mf over here trying to bang and I’m excited for ramen and a movie 😅
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
If any man in any country asks if you live alone always say no and stay the fuck away from them..major red flag everywhere . Never let a stranger know you live alone , especially its a man and your a women. That's how you get assaulted or robbed.
Uhmmm so how to ask a girl for hook up??( Asking for a friend 🙃)
@@madhavmathur4008 I don't do hookups maybe try asking someone who does
Everyone I've ever slept with I was either dating and or at least knew before hand. I've never slept with a stranger. Hookups are kinda nasty
@@madhavmathur4008 there are other things you can ask people to find out if they are down to sleep with you . Things like are you single are way less creepy than do you live alone.. or just ask them it they are interested in hooking up ? I'd never assume a Stanger asking if I live alone is asking if I want to hookup sounds like your gonna follow me back to my home you now know no one else is in . Just be direct and say what you want
@@kitty79532 I was wondering it's more about enjoying the company with the girl and making her feel safe because as good person I won't do anything without consent and if I feel like it's the right moment, I could make a move and if she says no, it's ok. I think my approach would be better than directly asking cuz that's creepy and desperate and even if it works it only does for guys who are really good looking and have masterful rizz lol
@@madhavmathur4008 Just ask… If they’re wanting to hookup…
Saying something that doesn’t even relate to sex is weird, just be blunt about it. Dumb saying something my else that’s creepy.
“Do you live alone” is this normal 💀💀
It is😭 I never knew it was strange until moving to the states and then almost getting arrested Bec someone thought I was trying to kidnap them or something when I asked that
Most Koreans live with their parents till marriage. If they do move away they are likely to have a roommate. You don’t want to disturb the sleeping roommate with 2 drunk people coming to the house stumbling around and horny. Living alone makes this hookup situation less awkward in the morning instead of getting scolded by the angry roommate. Definitely not from personal experience whatsoever🤷♀️
@@Bunnybunny5656 bro is this real????? i laughed so much my eyes got watery
@@schmidt188 no it’s very real! I just wanted to have some fun. We were at a club and it was a good time. But when I ask that they looked at me weird and then called over the club security
@@Bunnybunny5656 at least now you have a funny memory to tell lmaoo
Are u open minded is a gross way to ask
open minded means a different thing in korean in general, similar to if in english you described someone as being very free or smth like that. thought id clear it up bc its a konglish word so it can be confusing :) i agree its still sorta creepy tho
Makes sense only really open minded ppl
With no standards or values that restrict them would do adultery /out of marriage +**. Not cool
And understandable how they’d fraze it that way
But I hate how they call it open minded for such a disgusting thing, it’s makes it sound like those who protect* their chastity and cover their bodies look like they’re closed minded like uneducated or something, rather their the wiser ones and most likely the true winner in This life and the hereafter
@Unknown oblivion
Or maybe they mean it about judgmental people like your self...
@@unknownoblivion2417 You’re looking at things with a very Euro-centric mindset and it’s not your fault. Often these things are a direct translation of the equivalent word in korean (konglish like someone above me said) and it probably doesn’t mean what you think it means at all.
There are a lot of words that exist in other languages that don’t exist in english and for this word, it’s likely the closest translation but definitely not an accurate one.
@Unknown oblivion Like a comment above,open minded has a different meaning in Korea
Not innocent me asking my Korean best friend in college if he wants to eat ramen at my house and him panicking and running out of class all red because he thought I knew what it meant. 🤣
"Wanna eat ramen" was actually made famous by a K drama and is a popular way to ask someone to come back to your place.
Just so u know girlies💀
Thanks,girl.
what
I thought that the new ones were "wanna see butterflies or my cat"
Is there anything men can know? about Korean women before traveling? Red flag of girls?
We are there 🫡🫡🫡
I don’t care what ethnicity they are or what country you’re in, if a complete stranger meeting you for the first time asks you “Are you open minded?” or “Do you live alone?”
Run. Just run. Don’t look back. No need. You got a whistle on you? Blow it. 😂😂
@tomie yeah ! It looks like it is going to be controversial
@tomie the funniest thing is that people that ask these questions aren't open minded themselves, it's wild 😂
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Meh, it's a different culture and we are looking at it through a western lens. South Korea has low crime rates compared to the USA so they don't automatically assume they're going to get murdered. And the way they understand "open mindedness" is likely accompanied with different connotations, and not politically based like Americans.
@tomie it’s odd because you’re thinking of it as an American in English, the connotation and culture are completely different in Korea due to ethnicity, language, region, etc; the ramen thing for example is the equivalent of asking to Netflix and chill, idrk what open minded means because I don’t hit on Korean girls but I can assure you it’s completely different from the American English translation in context
"Do you want to see my cat?"
-Jeon Jungkook 2022
“wanna eat ramen?”
“i have a boyfriend”
“mf im just hungry 😭”
"Do you live alone"
Le me-"My name is no my no. is no you need to let it go-"
I started to sing 😭
I started to sing as well 😂
I literally just heard that song 😂
TAKE A HINT TAKE A HINT NO YOU CAN'T BUY ME A DRINK LET ME TELL YOU WHAT I THINK I THINK YOU COULD USE A MINT TAKE A HINT TAKE A HINT
@@tuzzut7999 T-TAKE A HINT TAKE A HINT LALALAL
Same thing in Indonesia, 🚩 guys here always put “open minded” for hook ups in their bio and then encourage you to talk about nonsense that leads to talking dirty iykwim, and then ask “do you live with your family or alone?” “do you live in the house or apartment” 😂 oh and also it’s “do you want to go for a night drive or going to Mcdonalds drive thru?” bc from that they’re gonna make excuses like “let’s go to the parking lot” “i want to go to my apartment since we gonna drive pass it (i forgot to key my apartment) (i forgot something there)” is deffo a 🚩 sign of hookups other than netflix and chill since it’s too obvi.
The nonsense talk to have dirty talk scared me so much. I had some contacts of Chinese man because I wanted to improve my Chinese and they all did that…. I only spoke to women after that
Yes, don’t waste time with men especially on dating apps if you want to improve other languages you’re in progress of learning. you can find a nice guy that’ll help you out, but majority off them are questionable 😅 and also your decision of only talking to women is the best and safest decision hahah good luck!@@tranquil.sprout
That's extremely predatory if they try to get you to hookup after you're already in the car with them
@@kadenbrown6268 Yep, that’s why in Indonesia there are LOTS of SA cases… but only a little amount of them predators went to jail. so the best thing any woman in Indonesia can do is asking a friend for a help to post about the SA and the predator in twitter (many of the SA victims are too scared to talk about it by themselves) so at least the predator could get humiliated online or in real life and get blacklisted everywhere (college or job they went to, dating apps, social media) or if the case really go viral, the police will have an investigation on it. But then again, most of them will only ended up apologizing to the victims and not spending jail time…
@@keikozbrn Those men must be really needy and pathetic and desperate to get laid 😂 I’ve heard also men in there are perverts and women don’t like men in there. Some guys are just pathetic 😂 I am a guy but I ain’t that pathetic and needy lmao. Woman are very nice in Indonesia but so naive. Maybe they’re nice because I have the looks…who knows 😅 I told a woman I liked her a lot but I faked it course she was falling for me lol. I mean that’s the downside of the Indonesia woman…Too naive. They can easily get manipulated….
They ALWAYS ask "are you open minded?" "Are Americans open minded?" "What do Americans think about sex?" Like shut up!!!
@MizoGkuk some Korean men ask me this, what else would I mean? They think all Americans are nymphomaniacs or something, it's obnoxious and quite frankly offensive.
@MizoGkuk I don't know if most Korean men like American girls, I don't see why they wouldn't, however that wasn't my point. every Korean man I met likes American girls yes. This doesn't mean every Korean man I met was perverted. All I meant was that an overwhelming amount of Korean men ask me if I am open minded about sex.
I was asked does sex allowed in Russia:)))))
@@parrtysuz87 bruh whaat 😭 they ask the weirdest questions lmaoo
@@tashan4932 idk how much korean men have you met but if its a lot that ask you that i think they arent really trying to be offensive but rather they are just curious because thats how they see americans due to lies in social media and wrong influence in the country itself making its people have a different view on americans, same example for many others who thinks japanese are all perfect, happy and crazy but from real life experiences and people who live there it is actually known as hell for an avarage japanese
The ramen one would've got me 💀 but I would say like go to a restaurant or smth tbh I wouldn't let a man into my house 😭
“do you want to go see butterflies 🦋”
I thought that was just in the "nevertheless" kdrama because he had actual butterflies in his house 💀
@@drunkenseulgi474 it was a reference from nevertheless, yeah
@@BrutalAndUnwantedHonesty oh I thought it was a pre-existing one that they put in the show based on the original comment, my bad
Jungkook 😂
@@behindtheoceansag4017Jungkook's one is "Do you want to see my cat?" 😅
Bro wildin with the "do you live alone" 💀
300 months later but we have the same pfp!❤❤
@@1_edits.and.more_1 ✨️
In korea, “Are you open minded?” Is a common thing to ask. Its not weird its a way to know whether ur open minded or not , not in that weird way 😭 the konglish (korean-english) can make people get confused tho! If ur going to Korea soon, have fun and be careful 😊
His unhinged laugh in the end is pure gold
I’d probably have gone to their house and been upset that there’s no ramen
"Are you open minded?" sent me
While you're think about culture clash he thinking about 50 shades or gray.
“Do you live alone?” Is such a scary red flag question to be asked. My younger dumb ass fell for this shit as I thought we were just going to hangout and watch anime (I was 19/20) and I’m just lucky the guy got upset cuz I told him repeatedly to not randomly push my head down to suck him off. I could’ve been raped and/or murdered. I’m 25 now but I remember he just wanted some friends and I made it clear I was gay and there’s no way he’s got a chance and he stuck around so I assumed he actually did just want to be friends and I went to hang out with him while visiting the city since his place was v close by. Let’s just say I had never been more scared and felt trapped in my life. You just present yourself as calm and tired and needing to head back home. Get your shit together as fast as possible and gtfo. I’ve never been so relieved and happy to be sitting in my car during evening traffic hours 😭
"want to eat ramen?" Uh oh. I felt like I just got transported into the k-drama bl community
the BL drama : a man who defies the world of bl
"Wanna eat ramen?"
hell yeah im hungry 24/7 😭
i’m dead 😵
to the ramen one i'd reply "tell me you like it extra spicy" 💀
lol what’s the best way to ask for a hookup though?
@@404NotFoundIDontCarejust not ask
@@bangchantupatron6673period.
@@404NotFoundIDontCareask directly
@@404NotFoundIDontCare just ask straight up
Don’t worry. Here in America, “Do you have a husband/boyfriend?” is an acceptable thing to use as a conversation starter, apparently. 😅
If they answer "no", possible green light.
Also, if they respond "yes, both," then they like to spread themselves thin and would probably be down.
Every one talking about running away but here I am thinking that guy is really cute do I really have to leave??!!😂😂❤❤
I was sitting in a café alone when a guy (sitting at a table next to me), started smalltalk with me. Since he was a bit older (50+) i felt obligated to talk to him a bit bc i thought he might be lonely and I didn't want to seem rude. Through the conversation I found out that he was Saudi and started to feel a bit uncomfortable since I knew that Women and Men there don't mingle (except family). All of a suden he told me that he needed a "friend" and if i wanted to be his friend. I didn't really know what was going on, but was trying to say smthg along the lines like "i dont believe it since you seem social etc.," i then excused myself and left the café bc i felt really uncomfortable. Went home and told my friends who where from egypt and they were telling me that the guy was looking for a prostitute and that the phrase: i am looking for a friend meant: want a prostitute/want to hook up. So watch out girls (and guys) 😅
Dude???what?? "I'm looking for a friend" = "I'm looking for a prostitute" HOW ARE WOMEN SUPPOSED TO UNDERSTAND THAT-🤠?
"Wanna eat ramen" is a classic in red flags' korea
It is?
@@dr.perruche1278 it means Netflix and chill 😂 they only want sex
@@dr.perruche1278 Yeah don't trust this
@@dr.perruche1278 it's like netflix and chill but isn't actually chilling watching netflix
@@effingeff3981 so do “bad people” ask you this? Sorry I’m just new to this cultural difference
According to Love Alarm and Nabi(Nevertheless) the 2 new options are
1. Let's talk
2. Wanna see the butterflies?
Both by Song Kang ...I can't 💀
Song Kang 💕
🦋🦋 Butterflies on his ceiling. 🦋😮
That’s low that they do that. I want a relationship first. Cute dates and eating out together before anything physical. That’s why I value marriage first before anything sexual.
I feel like that's a good choice for a lot of people. But marriage is such a large commitment for the two parties to not even know if they're sexually compatible. It's very important to know
Yes
But men in my society they don't want this 😅
Maybe foreigners
marriage is at least 2 years of dating, you really gonna hold out that long?😅
respect though, im a guy and i always wanna take girls out on dates firsf
@@404NotFoundIDontCareI’m a virgin so it’s not hard. I never had that problem.
"do you wanna see my cat ?"
😂😭😭 jungkook's made
Jungkook 😂😂
no I don't live alone I live with my husband and 4 kids 😂
Not me trying flirty lines when someone say .do you live alone?
I'll be like why do you wanna move in with me or do you wanna move in me😂😂😂😂bro I was shocked by my own flirting 😅❤
The way he looks at you when you put the words though was hilarious lmfao, he’s such a good guy but with that look, who knows lmfao
My mother’s cousin experience was that korean man ask her if she will go to hotel with him. They are married more than 10 years now🤭 (ps she didn’t go, she slaps him😆🫶🏼)
So she married that guy?
Haha well I guess it worked..kinda 😅😅
That even worse
@@comradeleppi2000 Yes they are married having one amazing child🫶🏼 they are married more than 10 years
Yo big sis for the rescue 💖🫂
And btw audio is back ifykyk 🌚
iykyk🫡💞
What abt the audio?? I didn't get
Nthg bro it's just when this video was posted before there was no audio so its posted again so yeah 🫡🫶🏻
My Spanish dumbie would RUN at "wanna go eat spicy food together and do spicy food challenges?"
😅😂💀
'Do you live alone' is usually followed with, ' is anyone going to miss you or worried about you if you suddenly disappear'.
😂😂😂 If they said want some ramen, I will try not say yes…. I LOVE RAMEN OKAY 🍜
She is really sweet for letting us know these indirect way to ask moreover she really gives advice like an elder sis ❤
Edit - Ooh maah gowdd I never get so many likes but .. Thank you y'all 💕
Uhmmm so how to ask a girl for hook up??( Asking for a friend 🙃)
“Do you live alone.” Fam you tryna kill me?
Bruh I’m Korean and I didn’t know that. Good thing I caught that cuz I feel like it’s something I would say to a friend just cuz I really wanna eat ramen with company💀
Yeah, I would be creeped out if someone asked me if I lived alone because why would that information be relevant it was just going to be a hookup? And i I ever go to Korea and someone asked me if I want to eat ramen, I might follow up by saying ." That would be great! Know any good restaurants that have ramen and noodle dishes? That way I could count to that person's true intentions. I know what they mean
Also Thanks for taking the time to educate us about red flags and Korean culture. I
"Are you open minded"had me shivering..gives too many perv bdsm vibes 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😂
Had the open-minded one and not so happy about it😭
what’s the best way to ask for it? in a non weird way
Well if you hear that from ANY guy......RUN😂😂😂😂
hey what is the best way to ask then? i’ve always been too scared cuz i don’t know how to phrase it and i’m worried i’ll be like called out for harassment or something. i wanna do it in a respectful way, and if she says no it’s no problem
the open minded gets me laughing EVERY SINGLE TIME 😭
I love how she always got our backs, thank you unnie❤️ now I can go ask bangchan out:)
no he’s mine💀💀😭
Hey, he's taken, he thought I was already his 💀💀
I’m assuming I always see you because you’re a stay as well lol
i live in jakarta, in here we doesnt trust anyone, especially strangers who suddenly being friendly or they ask u abt ur name or ur address it could be scammer.
sorry for my bad english 😄
"Do you want to see butterflies?" 🦋🦋🦋
If someone told me "wanna eat ramen?" I would already have 7 bowls shoveled in my mouth- and be like "what did u say?"
If someone from Korea asked me these question, my answer would probably be
Wanna eat ramen?
Me : sure, which restaurant? Or is a convenience store better? Let's go to a convenience store instead.
Are you open minded?
Me : yes I am. Why? Are you gay? Aw congrats
Do you live alone?
Me : No, I'm lesbian. I live with my girlfriend. Haha just joking. I actually live with your mum.
Wanna go to a DVD room?
Me : you're an oldie? Ha boring. Bye.
Will do anything to run away from these red flags if my stupid nonsense answers doesn't work out 😭
woh he looks like a serial killer and run if asks "do you live alone".
“Do you want ramen”
My ramen loving ass: HELL YES BITCH LETS GO
You're so pretty, you're glowing🌼
Problem: I will always say yes to ramen 😂. On another note, you both look even more gorgeous in that light. What a view as well~♡
"are you open minded?" Lmaooooo
As an American " do you live alone" is crazy 💀💀💀 I'm not tryna get murdered my guy...
아 외국에선 혼자사냐 물어보는게 호러야? 😂😂
Yes. Most people saying that are probably rapists or serial killers.
@@ashleyspurling5701그렇군요... 우린 끽해봐야 한 번 자보고 싶어서 들이대는건데... 심각성이 다르구나 😮
나도이거 이해못했음ㅋㅋ 이게 왜 무서운말이 된다는건지??? 외국에선 도대체 무슨 일이 일어나고 있는건가..!! 혼자산다고 죽는 사람이 어딨음
@cryingpoledancer1232 like I said, in most countries, men who ask that are usually rapists or serial killers. And if you live alone, it makes you the perfect target for just that.
CREEPY AAAH why do these feel so nasty just ask "wanna hook up" and there's a much better chance I say yes than this shit
If someone asks me if I live alone I'll deffo not say yes like wtf dude I'm not gonna find out if you're the serial killer
Because they thrive on ambiguity. You say yes to ramen thinking you're gonna get a bowl of food and he served you dick. Then you're in shock and uncomfortable and he's like 'oh you said you wanted Ramen. Here's your Ramen'.
Why would you hook up? Do you know what men think of women who hook up? Worse than prostitutes. Prostitutes are more respected since they sell a service but women who hook up are jusy...hookers
Lol ikr..why dont just ask,hey i kinda interested in knowing you or be friend,if you don't mind maybe we can do coffee sometimes later or something...why ask "do you live alone" lol..i would do a police report on that😂
@@lia-sn6co hey what is the best way to ask then? i’ve always been too scared cuz i don’t know how to phrase it and i’m worried i’ll be like called out for harassment or something. i wanna do it in a respectful way, and if she says no it’s no problem
@@lia-sn6co asking straight up seems so direct😅
Y'all if someone ask you where you live RUN😭🤚
I'm sorry, but "do you live alone" is the biggest 🚩
Even if I don't think you're a serial killer or I'm in a low crime country, that's still opening the door for vulnerability and danger. Stalking is a real thing that happens everywhere and it's dangerous.
I still can't believe MOONBIN has gone 💔💔
So true man, it's been three days and every night i think about him and stay awake
@@alexii5308 I wasn't even a fan, just knew who he was and followed the last bit of his journey...
Same mate. It all feels like a fever dream he was so young
Dang, "wanna eat ramen" will stay iconic forever 💀
But now we know-
I don't understand can you tell me the meaning?
@@shaymaakuyis me too
Okay so, apparently in k-dramas the when they ask out the ML or FL for ramen, it ends up with them making out
@@ishanvi258 oh k thank for telling me
@@ishanvi258 and more....
“Wanna come see my cat?”😂
I'm in the UK and the "do you live alone question" is more than enough for me to start running
So when I’m in Korea next time, I should say something else.😂
What in the heck is a DVD room
Similar to Karoke rooms, internet cafes where they are private rooms in some. It's the same for DVD rooms. Basically if you go to a library and go to one of their study rooms, its private and "secluded" lol
A private room that you can book out to rent DVDs and watch movies. There’s often a bed.
“are you open minded” hahahah
Him: "Wanna eat ramen?"
Me: "Sure!..........Where yo clothes at?" 🧐
I would even search for the best place serving ramyeon..lol
You forgot the “Do you want to see my cat?”-JK
What the hell is a DVD room?😂
That Ramen one would've gotten 😂😂😂😂😂
What does dvd room ones mean ? Is that where you watch movies ?
I couldn't say no to ramen..
“Do you wanna go to a DVD room” is just audacious!! 💀 that’s like a guy asking if a woman wants to go to a motel.
You have the funniest followers i laughed my butt through all your comments 😂😂❤
haha true. i had found many guys like this in korea. and i be like just ignored him😊😂
Girly one thing i like about u is ur husband❤
😰
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Guys in the US: 1. AYO I LIKE YOUR BODY GIRL
2. *pressuring you into doing something you don't want to do, insisting it'll be fun*
3. I know you got a bf/fiance/husband but you wanna go out just aS fRiEnDs?
"Can I borrow your makeup?"
Are u open minded?
Lmao
Do u live alone?
Got me rolling
Maybe I am too young but I would have said yes to all of them, especially ramen😭
Yes. You're too young. You should never say to a stranger that you live alone.
@@Hungariangirl Ahh wait I get it. They might break into the house right? What about others tho?
“Do you live alone?”
How to get murdered 101:
If someone asks if I live alone, I'm running away 😭